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| 2 | Venting about male mental healthPersonally I think the perspective of "moving out" when you have parents that are open to assisting is financially smart. You should be prouder towards yourself for making these smart (but obviously not preferred) decisions despite what your friends or SoCiEtY says, because as far as I'm concerned, society's practices are faltering in a multitude of ways, specially when it comes to finances, budgeting, and spending (*especially* in relationships). A huge portion of our generation is drowning in … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling so hopeless?This and it will take you longer than a few months to undo negative thinking and thought loops. You're in a position where you now need to retrain your mind to think a different way. One little baby step at a time. Hang in there and see a therapist if you can. They're trained to help you through all this better than RedPillers ever were. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/23 08:54 PM |
| 5 | How does the Red Pill Community Feel about Mental Illness?I swear every single time I read/watch them say anything about women's emotions, no matter how basic (like crying mildly), it's Cluster B to them. It's stupid. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/23 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Redpill vs RealityWhat helped me is internalizing that what you got is one of nabbed possible variables for relationships. That one is not any more guaranteed that also succeeding too. All you can do is make sure that you're being smart about your decisions with partners. Have the hard discussions. Be genuine with them regardless of how things end up, because that way you know you've done what you can to give a honest effort. Don't get married too young and too early and into the relationship. Have a little nest … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/23 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Redpill vs RealityWelcome to the other side. :) | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Redpill vs RealityI learned about lying and truth twisting in therapy and you'd actually be surprised that a lot of people do this because of copes from childhood. Without disorders to explain it, a lot of them weren't ever in 'safe' environments that allowed a FULL truth of the reality around them, thus lying became normalized behavior. The other thing about lying is that lying has become normalized in society. Ads, "how've you been?", hiding mental health issues, influencers who use apps to distort their appear… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Redpill vs RealityAfter doing a lot of studying of behaviors and brains, I would gather that a lot of people are greedy, selfish, and dumb because those behaviors are enabled rather than it being intentional. I'm not saying that there aren't bad intentions a lot, just that a lot of people aren't challenged to grow and learn better, and therefore they remain as they are because it's enabled, validated, 'liked' on social media, etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/23 06:47 PM |
| 2 | L subbredditL your Mom? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/23 12:07 PM |
| 2 | If an acceptable argument for RedPill is "not everything they say is wrong", does that mean they should also support Feminism for the same reason?Your version of what I'm saying is stupid. I'm not even going to dignify this with continued conversation. Ridiculous. 😂 | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/23 12:06 PM |
| 1 | If an acceptable argument for RedPill is "not everything they say is wrong", does that mean they should also support Feminism for the same reason?A huge part of the population willingly wants population control through abortions at the very least. We need to allow people the freedoms to do that safely or we will end up in some kind of unnecessary war. We can't have reasonable, willing camaraderie if we keep wasting precious government time, energy, and money on back and forths from these petty squabbles that have little to do with reality. I'm not opposed to some form of gun control, but taking them away from safe, mentally okay people wo… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/23 12:04 PM |
| – | If an acceptable argument for RedPill is "not everything they say is wrong", does that mean they should also support Feminism for the same reason?You're not wrong. With the rise of school shootings, random acts of violence that are later found to be connected to the pills and the extreme abuse online, the rise in emotional abuse thanks to these teachings, it'll all hit a tipping point. Sadly I don't think it'll be until way more people get hurt. Good song pick. Meat Loaf is an oldie but goodie. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/23 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Opinions on the "shit tests" from women in relationships?As an abuse survivor, I have to say THANK YOU. This right here is absolutely correct. Of course an abuser would call these "shit tests". Bothering with what can actually be safety 'tests' are vital for A LOT of women to do and for him to pass with flying colors. That's her boundary. Seems like to Red Pill, anything more than just not lying down and spreading her legs willingly is a shit test. 😅 https://voicemalemagazine.org/abusive-men-describe-the-benefits-of-violence/ | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/23 10:47 AM |
| 2 | If an acceptable argument for RedPill is "not everything they say is wrong", does that mean they should also support Feminism for the same reason?Heyyy, someone got the point of the post! 🤘🏼😝 | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/23 10:34 AM |
| – | If an acceptable argument for RedPill is "not everything they say is wrong", does that mean they should also support Feminism for the same reason?Agreed. I wish people used their brains more when it came to actually solving problems and got get all hyper-emotional, hateful, and tribalistic. I can't stand this incessant need to create movements. All this energy and fighting needs to be directed towards voting the RIGHT people into our governments that can make those changes. We're yelling at each other which isn't as affective as we believe. Your link doesn't work though. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/23 10:33 AM |
| – | If an acceptable argument for RedPill is "not everything they say is wrong", does that mean they should also support Feminism for the same reason?You and the other guys who do this are misusing cherry-picked data to spread BS that then causes women to be abused and have dangerous hate pointed towards them fOr ThEiR nAtUrE. Isn't it man's nature to kill? There is no comparison. I was simply stating shitty generalizations to make a point. Read the room. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/23 10:25 AM |
| 1 | If an acceptable argument for RedPill is "not everything they say is wrong", does that mean they should also support Feminism for the same reason?Yuuup. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/23 04:05 PM |
| – | If an acceptable argument for RedPill is "not everything they say is wrong", does that mean they should also support Feminism for the same reason?So everyone is the same. All men are killers and rapists and all women are thieves and hoes. Got it. U so smrt, not sure what I'd do without you! /s 🙄 | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/23 03:29 PM |
| 7 | If an acceptable argument for RedPill is "not everything they say is wrong", does that mean they should also support Feminism for the same reason?Right, but the whole point of the post is that there are more variables to life than just those "truths" (which many have been debunked anyways). Even IF it was some truths, it's not enough to make sound and informed decisions. It's an incomplete and can be a dangerous way to think. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/23 01:43 PM |
| 1 | If an acceptable argument for RedPill is "not everything they say is wrong", does that mean they should also support Feminism for the same reason?Well when you have reductionist thinking, of course they're going to think that. To that mentality, details and grey areas don't matter, even in human behavior. Everything is yes or no, this or that, Madonna or Whore, black or white. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/23 01:40 PM |
| – | If an acceptable argument for RedPill is "not everything they say is wrong", does that mean they should also support Feminism for the same reason?I think they're paid fans. I find it hard to belief they have that many genuine fans. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/23 01:02 PM |
| – | Another big thing is incels don’t have anyone in real life guiding them.I was in Colorado when this shooting happened. They were in a sorta known local group at the time called The Trench Coat Mafia. Those guys used to be my types of "friends" sadly (I've griwn up a lot since). These groups were the Manson-loving, Anarchy-supporting types like Black Pillers are known as now. Same guys, different clique name. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/23 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Another big thing is incels don’t have anyone in real life guiding them.When I was like this a very long time ago, I was anxious, depressed, and had OCD. My parents at the time didn't teach me ANYTHING about mental health, so I didn't know any info or treatments existed. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/23 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Opinions on the "shit tests" from women in relationships?That's dumb. A lot of couples can't even afford children right now! This isn't always an eVoLuTiOn thing every time. This is massive reductionist thinking in a really bad form man. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/23 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Opinions on the "shit tests" from women in relationships?the kind of woman who can get turned off by vulnerability and thats not someone Im looking for. Im a sensitive person, I can be a rock if someone needs me to be but Id never play this rock 24/7 This is the right answer! Most women who are good, reasonable, rational, and worthy women will not be the one who turns you away every time you cry. Crying is healthy and normal for everyone. We get hurt by things sometimes. It happens! | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/23 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Opinions on the "shit tests" from women in relationships?You don't know of any because most people don't read idiotic "signs" of communication as "shit testing". Seriously these things they throw out are stupid AF sometimes. "If a man cries" she dries up like the Sahara? Lol they're dumb. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/23 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Want to interview / talk to former incelr/incelexit | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/23 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Opinions on the "shit tests" from women in relationships?Not everyone is equipped for modern dating and one night stands. You don't have to force yourself through it just to find relationships if that's what you're looking for. Not all women like this either. If she thinks it's unsexy to talk things through first, then she's not for you if that's what you need. Move on to the next one. Definitely respect yourself and your boundaries. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/23 10:10 PM |
| 6 | Opinions on the "shit tests" from women in relationships?What do you mean "stay with her"? Like come back and fuck? Stay with her and sleep? Come really Netfix and only chill? Or...? Down side is, some women will still shit test. But because one or a few do it (say girl #1, 2, and 4), doesn't mean girl #5, 7, and 12 will. That's the down side to communicating. Some will make you think oMfG tHe ReDPiLL iS RiGhT, but some will eventually make you question it. That's normal and that's reality (just like all men aren't rapists and killers, right?) | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/23 09:24 PM |
| 8 | Opinions on the "shit tests" from women in relationships?Communication can come in many forms and this is where RedPill misses the mark (or at least the ones that teach it from its original form). Some women are known for razzing men for fun, just like they do to women (not bullying per se, but aggro fun). Some are just bullies and are being mean. Some are trying to get under your skin to test your reactivity for safety or to be an asshole. Just like men! However, some are very kind and are just being playful in hopes that you'll play back. Wink wink,… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/23 08:43 PM |
| 9 | Is There a Reason for the Obsession Over Making Money Online?They're just copy and pasted influencers. I wish people would see them as they are. They're not escaping The Matrix because eventually the well will dry up (or become over-saturated like now) and with most of them undoubtedly having spending issues, they'll crash and burn anyways. https://www.growthlodge.com/toxic-alpha-male-dating-coaches-are-ruining-dating-for-young-men/ | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Is internet lying ?There is a significant amount of grifting that happens within the pills. It's just a new way to look at modern data but in many cases it's greatly exaggerated and sensationalized for ad revenue. Stop looking for who is 100% right and wrong. That's binary, reductive thinking. There are some truths to nearly every religion and philosophy out there and most are just a different way to view the same things. Pick one, learn it, apply it. When you're done, pick another, learn it, apply it until you fi… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 12:13 PM |
| 3 | should I(female) die once I can't reproduce anymore?You're young, just start expanding your mind now by reading and researching. Our brains aren't even fully developed until 25ish, so you have time to figure it out. You're not valueless because some pathological lying clowns in a dark tiny corner of the internet say so. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/22 10:48 PM |
| 3 | I can't tell stories to save my lifeEverything is practice until you master it. If you're curious how to do something, do research on how to do it better, use multiple resources, hone in the skill one step at a time. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/22 10:45 PM |
| 23 | should I(female) die once I can't reproduce anymore?This type of thought isn't healthy and you should definitely seek out professional assistance. You're value is much more than your ability to smash privates and birth babies. What are your career or future goals in life? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/22 08:44 PM |
| 1 | People whose behavior depends on their instincts, leaving behind emotional balance and the control exercised by the limbic system and the neocortex, are acting under the opinion of a very concrete and exclusive part of our brain: the reptilian brain. How can things like this affect dating?Right, the limbic system that they exploit would be trying to trigger the emotions tied to the amygdala without the person being able to stop it: fight, fight, lust, rage, etc. Rage specifically is one that Red Pill exploits in both men and women. Here's more fun info: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/thinking-about-kids/201910/pain-and-emotion-the-role-the-amygdala | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 12:16 PM |
| 2 | People whose behavior depends on their instincts, leaving behind emotional balance and the control exercised by the limbic system and the neocortex, are acting under the opinion of a very concrete and exclusive part of our brain: the reptilian brain. How can things like this affect dating?"How can things like this affect dating?" People like this often have the biggest skeletons. Just because you present yourself to the public calmly, doesn't mean you are behind closed doors. Regardless, I'm talking about dating. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 07:08 AM |
| 1 | People whose behavior depends on their instincts, leaving behind emotional balance and the control exercised by the limbic system and the neocortex, are acting under the opinion of a very concrete and exclusive part of our brain: the reptilian brain. How can things like this affect dating?In the article. "The advertising industry" and coaches. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | But but but...therapy is too expensive...Therapy is a scientifically proven process that teaches you how your mind works. It just sometimes shows us things we didn't want to know about ourselves and some don't like that. How Therapy Actually Works and 5 Myths about Therapy Debunked: https://medium.com/kip-blog/5-myths-about-therapy-debunked-17e7fdd8b8a5 | /r/ExRedPill | 28/08/22 06:51 AM |
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