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Question For MenYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:53 PM
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DiscussionYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:55 AM
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DiscussionYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:18 PM
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Question For Red PillYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:36 PM
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DiscussionYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:33 PM
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YoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 09:41 PM
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DiscussionYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:05 PM
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DiscussionYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 07:14 PM
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Question For WomenYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 05:42 PM
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Question For WomenYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:07 PM
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DiscussionYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:25 PM
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DiscussionYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:08 PM
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DiscussionYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 06:01 PM
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DiscussionYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:24 AM
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DiscussionYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:23 PM
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Question For WomenYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 04:14 PM
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Question For WomenYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 02:13 PM
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r/IncelExit This sub is for people who got drawn into the Incel community but want support and help with a pathway out. Think you guys need to start spamming this. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:04 AM
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(Or maybe you don't get that people are hijacking your post to evangelize their beliefs) i'm not blind i just don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:40 PM
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I could have sworn you said you had a failed marriage. no they're making fun of you. spend too much time talking to loser/lames and they're gonna think you're one of them. "i'm a pathetic loser hence why i spend so much time on reddit . you spend as much time here as me. you're probably a pathetic loser larping" i understand the logic even though its projection rn i'm kinda over trying to help them get out of their loser mentality. don't know if i should delete my account or just change the pass…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:21 PM
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I hope if you have children they are loved and cared for in a context of a stable and good relationship. It's the tradcon version of "Bless your heart". Backhanded insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:16 PM
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because betas think they don't have many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:20 PM
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probably Thialand
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:10 PM
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and the only thing that keeps me here are little Dms from dudes saying they read my posts and see the error in their thinking even though my words sting a bit guys who aren't complete babies will still get the message
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:09 PM
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The point is that men in the 50s treated their wives like unpaid mommy bang maids . I can't quite understand how you manged to completely miss point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:57 PM
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yes but in a relationship where one party is fully economically dependent the ability to abuse that power is higher. a woman who has a degree and career is less likely to put up with abuse than one with a high school diploma and no job prospects (because they two busy raising kids)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:47 PM
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Also the number of tradcons who post in porn subreddits is too fucking high you're a degenerate limp dick porn addict stop being a hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:44 PM
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why are you responding to a joke this seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:34 PM
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so having freaky sex with your boyfriend make you a slut. ok
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:28 PM
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once the girl genuinely wants to and the guy isn't an dick head who's gonna use her economic dependency to take advantage few girls want it and few men are good enough to pull it off
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:27 PM
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Every time someone says the word "Chad" an angel throws a frat party
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:24 PM
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some people really have a hard time understanding satire
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:13 PM
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instead of boomer superiority you're more of the silent type. tradition is more of silent generation thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:06 PM
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I've noticed in the threads you create you always go to some extreme caricature of whatever you're arguing against. Granted lots of the TRP guys do that too with women, but you seem to be getting off on it It's called humor and yes i don't take any of this pill stuff that seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:05 PM
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That can work . Anything but bitching and complaining about your situation . Gotta make the best of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:55 PM
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It was a surreal experience, I felt like women over there respected themselves and men a lot more than women in the west. I grow up here so i simply don't see dating around as disrespecting yourself With that said, the fact of the matter, I shouldn't have to move and change countries. I shouldn't have to uproot my life just because women want benefits without responsibilities. And the west is THE West. We have western values get over it. Nobody is begging you to be here. We'd actual love if peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:50 PM
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I'm sooooo not feeling this comment .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:40 PM
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yea i wasn't really feeling the discord and the only thing that keeps me here are little Dms from dudes saying they read my posts and see the error in their thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:35 PM
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It's a valid option. It's just the one where you give up on your tradcon dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:28 PM
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Me? Can't you read and comprehend satire?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:27 PM
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so that's why the normal people are on discord. They instituted “no incel conent” and “no woe is me posting” rules, why didn't you guys just tell them to ban the fuckers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:25 PM
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good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:16 PM
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The only guys this could possibly apply to are religious/tradcon dudes who still have delusional gay white picket fence ideas about getting married Yes and this post is for them as they exist on this sub and TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:15 PM
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Yeah then they come to this debate sub and derail the conversation with their lame ass "be sympathetic to our struggle" antics. I think request for sympathy and shaming for not being sympathetic should be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:11 PM
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I like your thinking. I can't respect men who just whine about it. Play your cards right and you can retire at 30 and live out your tradcon life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:07 PM
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was it ever any different? did the mods get worse over time? did the place become filled with babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:21 PM
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whatever dude have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:13 PM
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After a couple hours i'm too exhausted to debate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:14 PM
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Sucker idolizing mediocre pussy it is known. The most annoying thing about cultural appropriation is that they pretend they invented shit. You finna bite the style at least give us props. guys from countries 50 years behind us. All this tradcon shit so foreign to be. I grow up in the degeneracy and hedonism I love this shit. As someone said it's been almost a century. Get with the times or leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:13 PM
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lol that's why you said i'm like you but with a dick we out here on /r/nba But yeah this place is weird is as fuck. And TRP is just copying what black guys have been saying but repacking it for white shut-in nerds. They just had to add in some stupid science shit and theories and ofcourse woman hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:53 PM
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It's irrational but i'm still going to judge them for it and rightfully so What's going on deep in their subconscious that makes their anger get directed at women? Well they're fucked in the head thats what
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:10 PM
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I don't go on FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:00 PM
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You see I haven't been here long but I have the TRP top posts and sidebar If the guy above really read this stuff his response would be "I was a weak, spineless, chump and hence I can't fault women for women treating me like one" So it would make sense for them to get angry at themselves for spending a decade being a weak, spineless, chump and thinking that's what girls want. Getting angry at women is like saying "I was a weak, spineless , chump but women should have treated me like a king even …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:59 PM
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Too selfish to be boyfriends. Too ugly to be fuckbuddies. Too poor to be sugar daddies. Too picky to dumperster dive. you should make this into a post
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:24 PM
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explain yourself. pretty sure you're not my mother or the police bye
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:20 PM
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Why do you say “lower class people are redpilled”? because they are Everyone’s exposed to the same media. yes but only sheltered white kids believe that shit Everyone’s mom teaches them the same thing. Nope and most kids don't their mom about girls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:16 PM
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read my post again I already explained it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:04 PM
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It is society that forced this pedalization upon us. You mean your mother right? Read my post. Who specifically in your life lied to you? You should be angry at them not at all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:03 PM
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because lower class and lower middle class mothers exist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:01 PM
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It took a few more years of dating to realize that once the woman is comfortable to follow you in your bedroom usually shes comfortable to be seduced. I lost my virginity at 17 and I didn't need to years to figure that out. Girls want to fuck duh. You went from kissing, to touching a boob, to hand on thigh, to hand in pants to hey look we're fucking every weekend. It's not complicated and it comes natural to most. You assume women dont give mixed signals and can flirt purely to enjoy the attenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:00 PM
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But everyone’s mom is doing the same thing? Nope. Only middle class mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:32 PM
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Then after that we're going to castrate all nerds and force them to work while taxing them at 90% so we can pay for the babies women will be having from the unprotected sex with underemployed Chad and Tyrone. The concept of fatherhood will be erased. The government will be everyones daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:31 PM
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"I hate every woman because mommy lied to me" sounds silly right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:23 PM
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That's the difference between a natural "Chad" and whatever TRP can build. TRP version still has that bitterness from his shitty childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:06 PM
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She laughed in my face "youre not suposed to ask", i thought "isnt that rape"? Are you autistic? Can't you read body language and context? Hopeless. Some of you guys are just hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:54 PM
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i am triggered block me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:51 PM
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How about not dating those women? Shouldn't be too hard
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:30 PM
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Well now you've just admitted you lied lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:27 PM
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Some women cheat so you're angry at all women You married a shitty person so you're angry at all women Some women date drug dealers so you're angry at all women. None of that makes sense Its anger that you were told just be a good nice person and the rihght person will come along, yet noone ever csme along and someone finally spilt the beans to you if you arent pursuing youll nevet meet some1. That wasn't advice. It's a meaningless platitude to get you to stop bothering them. Dating woes are ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:26 PM
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So shut off the entire planet? Nah. I think it's pretty easy to avoid but whatever Because I like to masturbate to lying women I guess. I don't know. Maybe it's a fetish. okay
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:20 PM
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That's one girl tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:17 PM
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Do you hang out with feminists in real life? If yes , then why? If no , then how are you hearing what they say? I'd imagine you're purposefully going into online feminists spaces. Then I have to ask why. Why not cut that negativity out of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:09 PM
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How long is the anger phase supposed to last?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:04 PM
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I've read your comment. And as someone who has never given a shit about feminism or any SJW crap I don't really get. Why are you listening to feminists? Because things you talk about in your comment I don't see them in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:02 PM
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Because women created the system that hurt/destroyed them and/or refused to wake the man up in question. How? Please enlighten me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:57 PM
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Because all women seem to know that the message they are recieving ais a lie and say and do nothing to change it Women are just as blue pilled if not more than men. Some genuinely believe they are supposed to be attracted to nice guys and are frustrated when they keep falling for assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:55 PM
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it's that from their pov women betrayed the social contract of "behave like you want others behave with you". There is no social contract that says be nice to people and they'll have sex with you . Imagine how much you'd laugh if you found out a gay guy was angry because he was nice to you but you didn't have sex with him. they're nice with women because they want them to be nice with them Women are nice to them. They just don't have sex with them. It's reasonable to expected niceness when you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:52 PM
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No they are angry at women. Don't lie. Not here on PPD where we've all witnessed the anger
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:41 PM
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can we get a moratorium on posts about sympathy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:19 AM
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-.- They see that the guy isn't relationship material. let me guess. you're one of those guys that think only goody two shoes ,mama's boy, nerds can be relationship material They enjoy the sex and hope that he'll commit. That's not using sex to get commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:40 PM
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“hope you get raped and murdered” Me too. Now i'm sad. I thought I was special.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:19 PM
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. It's hopping around from dick to dick in relationships where she too knows aren't going anywhere So women can predict the future . Good to know. uses sex to try to get committment from men out of her league or that are non commital etc. There aren't using sex to get anything. They are having and enjoying sex with guys they're attracted to. They catch feels and it's not returned so she cuts it off. And all guys turn super "commital" when they think they've found the right girl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:09 PM
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In blue pill land girls get hurt by the bad boys and the nice guy gets the girl in the end. This sounds like AF/BB It's so accepted in the blue pill land that nerds tell themselves that it doesn't matter if she dates bad boys now because he'll get her in the end. The "cock carousel" is literally just dating. Serial monogamy with a couple hookups and FWBs in between. This normal for both men and women . Of course socially stunted shut-ins we're don't doing much dating so we can see why they are j…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:13 PM
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then deleted it it got removed because mods think everyone here is a thin skinned baby and wants to protect their feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 05:48 PM
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Basically the only way you’re going to win with some of these people is if you buy plane tickets over to their individual states / countries and literally fuck them, one at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:23 PM
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block me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:10 AM
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the only reason they've reached so far in life without them realizing they're losers is because their friends and families are protecting their feeling. i have no reason to sugarcoat shit and i hope they wake up when they read my comments
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:56 PM
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For every basic bro sportsball watcher there are 100 "I like travel yoga and netflix" Stacies. you underestimate how many sports-ball watchers there are and they tend to watch Netflix as well
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:40 PM
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It's funny because women would say there are more boring men than women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:32 PM
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if women just broke up with guys instead of nagging then we'd have an incel problem
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:57 PM
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it's a question for men . specifically the men who believe women should have have sex with nice guys it can't be a circle jerk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:54 PM
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nothing worth having in life comes easy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:43 PM
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i'll take a look edit: cold approaching is for weirdos with no friends. when i say guys should ask out girls i mean they should ask out acquaintances. of course for that to work you have to have a friend group that allows you to meet single girls everyonce in while
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 04:59 PM
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I have no clue if that's a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 04:48 AM
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men wouldn't be fearful of women and rejection if they didnt idolize them. how did you come to this conclusion? i thought they avoided rejection because it hurts and is a bit embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:11 AM
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A majority of men idolize women. false . you're like the losers on this sub try to pretend 80% of men are incel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:45 AM
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lets not forget that most men are literally scared of women since they put them on such a pedestal. false
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:33 AM
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laying all your emotional baggage on someone is selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:32 AM
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When will these guys stop blaming every single fucking thing wrong with their life on their childhood? You're 28 . You got bullied at 14. It's been more than a decade. Get the fuck over it Part of being an adult is working through your traumas . You should have been seeing a therapist if your childhood was that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 10:02 PM
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this is such a bad analogy . by that logic 99% of the world should get sympathy because they are involuntarily not rich
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:48 PM
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a man would be crucified for having a preference against fat women By who and why would you even give a fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:46 PM
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cool
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:08 PM
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Not losing weight, hitting the gym , dressing better are all choices . Not asking out girls and getting over your approach anxiety are choices. Not giving ugly/fat girls a chance is a choice. If you think 29% of guys who didn't have sex were putting in a decent amount of effort and still couldn't have sex then you're delusional .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:08 PM
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So can the same argument be applied to the 18% of women who did not have sex? yes hence why nobody cares about them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:04 PM
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How about a freaking economic recession? Tinder didn't even come out till 2012 You guys can be ridiculous at times
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:45 PM
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I don't disagree with TRP existing. I disagree with the anger phase
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:44 PM
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tell me in clear words the message because i'm sure nobody told them being nice would net them crazy amounts of pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:28 PM
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Do I have to cite my sources? Yes that would be lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:16 PM
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For the last 12 months or more, the person has not had sex or been in a relationship, despite having wanted to be. You literally just made up that definition
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:12 PM
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For whatever reason. That reasons include bad strategies or lack of a strategy. Yes, we can call someone an incel if they are stupid enough not to realize that going to the gym, changing his looks and learning social interactions is a good idea. Is it also impossible for them to google what girls like after failing with them? Cause i'm sure most of the guys who found TRP searched how to get girls or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:07 PM
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I wouldn't call that kind of person a "voluntary celibate". Why not? What your logic behind this thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:04 PM
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There is no “war of the sexes”. But there IS a war between socially isolated white autistics + their eastern STEM immigrant allies, and chronically-online 6/10 college girls + their bored housewife allies. And this sub is one of the key fronts of that war — the Normandy if you will — where every CMV post represents a battle. No matter who wins, we all arguably lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:40 AM
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If I took the title for most hated in 10 days, either i'm doing too much or you were doing too little
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:55 AM
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Explaining the Pandemic to my Past Self Got a good laugh out of this one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:19 PM
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There's a reason why I referred to "nice guy" and not "author of Radicalizing the Romanceless". Because i'm not fucking talking about Scott Alexander. I'm talking about "nice guys" in general. There's no need for you to jump to Scotts rescue lol , i'm not bashing him . I'm simply pointing out what's wrong with the thought process of "nice guys"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:05 PM
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slapping her around to remind her of her place And i've had girls tell me to do this to them. Some girls have screws loose
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:59 PM
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Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:54 PM
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To ask for something in return for being good to others means they were never nice to begin with Sex isn't a reward for being good. That thinking is the problem. You have sex when a girl likes you and thinks you're cute. be the best Henry you can be. And end up in prison. I find it funny how nerds throw the baby out with the bath water The problem is that they have no good traits other than niceness. Instead of working on traits that actually matter like": being fun to be around , charismatic , …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:42 PM
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When guys are talking about how much they want a nice, sweet girl ..do you assume he's imagining some 400 pound land whale? Obviously fucking not lol. You don't want a sexual relationship with someone you don't find sexually attractive. So why are guys assuming she wants a 4 ft 9 balding autistic when she says she wants a nice guy? When girls are talking to each other about what they want in a guy ; "attractive to me" is assumed When boys are talking to each about wheat they want in a girl ; "at…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:32 PM
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There is absolutely no way to defend a system that allows for that to happen. There is no system. Women are having sex with who they want of their own free will. You can't force women to desire uncool nerds It up to the nerds to stop being uncool and nerdy. Or to become hot enough for women to overlook their lameness. Or to find the small subsection of women who like nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:27 PM
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And any person that believes that moral actions should be rewarded and immoral actions should be punished looks at that situation and finds it unacceptable. Rewarded with sex? Can someone please explain to me guys think morality should be rewarded with sex? It is a legitimate reason to be angry. Immorality is not punished, morality is not rewarded. The person that is immoral is having a better life than the person that is moral. It's a not legitimate reason to be angry. Immorality is punished by…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:15 PM
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That proves that being "nice" is a drawback That faulty logic to assume they like him because of his shit behavior. It's possible that women are overlooking his shit behavior because he brings other positive traits i.e: being fun, charismatic, attractive and really fucking great in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:09 PM
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Most kids aren't blind or autistic. Teens are acutely aware of social dynamics and dominance hierarchies. There's a reason nobody wants to hang out with the losers and misfits ...because everyone understands it hurts your social status. That sounds sharp, cynical and skeptic but don't underestimate 14 year olds. Everyone but the nerds knows that Ryan gets girls because he's popular, on the basketball team and has swag. Everyone but the nerds knows that being uncool, not caring about being popula…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:07 PM
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NO ITS HARDER THAN GIVING BIRTH
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:01 PM
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That's not my words that's from the link. You still haven't highlighted were I said " sexually successful men aren't fun or charismatic, they're bad people. " My point is that bad people can be sexually successful if they are: fun , charismatic and good looking .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:00 PM
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And here I was, tried my best never to be mean to anyone In his own words that what it means to nice. He sounds like a push over without a backbone. Which is not surprisingly very unattractive to women. Another thing to note is that being assertive and not taking shit from people can seem like asshole behavior to nerds. Maybe because it reminds them of their bullies. So when a guy finds the redpill and says people respect him more since he become an asshole. I often wonder if all he did was grow…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:54 PM
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Exactly. Harsh pill to swallow but it's for the best if these guys take the medicine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:42 PM
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You yourself highlighted that the successful men aren't "fun" and "charismatic", they're outright bad people Nowhere in my post did I say that. If you can find it , point it out. You can be a bad person and also fun and charismatic . This fact is the reason bad people get laid .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:41 PM
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I've seen ugly men that do well with women. I've met literally one attractive guy that did poorly. But he was ugly in his teens and had bigger issues. Late bloomer syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:36 PM
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The women who are fuck drug dealers and serial wife beaters are not the same women trying to find a nice guy. Some women are fucked in the head. There is no monolithic 'women"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:34 PM
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Did you not have eyes to see? I got told a lot of bullshit, Santa Claus was real , governments care about their people etc Eventually you open your eyes. Most kids figure out what matters at 14/15. You see what kind of guys girls go after and you try to emulate them. Hence why so many teens boys dress like Justin Bieber. If it took you until 25 to realize that being fun, charismatic and maximizing your looks were all more important than being nice ......then you are well well well behind the cur…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:31 PM
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There are girls who really don't care if guys are nice and hence will date bullies. I'd imagine someone women like seeing men who dominate and conquer their enemies . Another thing is that bullies are usually tall, strong and popular which means that while some girls might overlook the bullying because of his other positive traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:24 PM
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Men value niceness (agreeableness) because it’s a feminine trait that makes women easier to prey upon and take advantage of. Basically when these guys are saying "I'm a feminine guy , why don't girls like me" Another thing is that you can be "nice" without being a good person. Ask your average "nice guy" when is the last time he volunteered.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:19 PM
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when did that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:50 AM
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bye friend
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 01:09 AM
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yes the resident losers of reddit must believe that everyone else on the forum are ugly autistics to comfort themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:57 AM
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k grandma reddit grammar nazis are lame af
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:41 AM
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Sorry for the novel here and thank you for your time. is it bad that i skipped to end? didn't even read the first word now i feel obligated to read it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:28 PM
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DYEL?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:17 PM
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no lie if he said that to my face i would have sucker punched him the audacity of a complete fucking stranger to try tell me that my deadbeat dad probably had a good reason for abandoning his family . i blocked him so whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:00 PM
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i also drown kittens in the blood of baby dolphins people who post in /r/MGTOW have lost their right to ask for empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:43 PM
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really? damn i thought i was hip
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:15 PM
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how do you even misinterpret mocking for anger? just because i think they are pathetic doesn't mean i hate them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:08 PM
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I've found a guy who's a little bitch on a throwaway account that goes through other people's comment history. i also go through others people comment history on my main account. based on the reactions to my username I might as well use this account to troll overly sensitive incels
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:29 PM
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I'm offended you think it can be measured
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:02 PM
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Girls of ppd . Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:01 PM
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Found the inkwel guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:00 PM
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But he runs his own minecraft empire guild on this server and is constantly communicating with them on operating that yes minecraft. really moistens the vaginas . ofc course everything isn't about sex until you meet an incel and realize everything is about sex to them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:53 PM
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You can be a good parent and still end up with a "loser" of a kid because they were genetically predisposed towards being anti social or bad experiences interacting with other children at an early age. you should make a post about this Society is going in the opposite direction of what creates socially healthy children and no one is going to pull the brakes. i'll raise my kids to be apart of the elites who can talk face to face
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:49 PM
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Black Pill Feminism Oh no. I think i'm in danger
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:43 PM
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guys here aren't average i think they should stop pretending they are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:41 PM
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I think i turned out ok lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:34 PM
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You're expecting boys to display a level of sharp observation mixed with cynicism and skepticism of everything they are being told by the women that raise them. i did it. not all kids are gullible Boys will not be able to easily decipher that exactly the opposite of what all these adults are saying is true. Yes they will and do ; once they leave the house. And now we're back to my post title.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:31 PM
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he dead bro. died last summer part of the reason why my past comments are in the past tense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:16 PM
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We might say look don't matter but, what we mean is looks aren't everything if you want an average relationship with an average chick. We apologize if boys took that to mean they could be fat fucks with the fashion sense of a toddler and have models fight for the possibility to touch their lotion marinated dicks. Be yourself means be the best version of yourself. Or in other words , don't try to be someone you're not. If you pretend to be someone else for your entire life, you're going to slip u…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:15 PM
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They don't need to be socializing all the time. But there is a bare minimum. But yeah the parents working two jobs are gonna have a harder time than the UMC couple with a stay at home mom
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:06 PM
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My mom has never talked to me about him and their relationship. And i never felt they need to ask him, I just assume he felt a spark and choose fleeting limerence over his marriage. Maybe vows should specify through boredom and lack of new relationship energy as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:04 PM
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Thinking incels are pathetic doesn't mean I hate them. And depending on the day red flairs are indistinguishable from black flairs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:59 PM
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If you left the house you'd see first hand what girls go after. The only way to believe bullshit messages is if you never leave the house to see real life contradicts it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:43 PM
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Unsurprisingly their social sense and conversation skills were kind of stunted. It's gonna get even worse when VR becomes common. Just look at half-life alyx ...talking to girls is boring compared to a good video game
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:37 PM
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He's a dick head who left my mom for a younger woman after his business took off. He got divorced two years later so lol hope it was worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:32 PM
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discord is overwhelming . i already wake up to several whatsapp chats with 300+ messages; couldn't manage reading another 500+ from discord
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:45 AM
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It's a circle jerk because the opinion is entirely one-sided. Not much room for discussion, except to call the women who speak up liars, which is not much of a discussion and against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:03 AM
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mods deleted my post for circle jerking when it's literally counter to every single circle jerk i've seen them allow on this sub the past month Q4W What's the worst thing a man has done to you in a relationship? ...where the circle jerk?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:00 PM
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yes my username is inspired by the losers i witnessed when lurking if you didn't know that being fit, dressing well and not being a pussy helps with getting laid ...then you're a loser if you want to remove child support because you can't laid without women needing your money ...you're a loser the way i see it ...anyone my username triggers is or was a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:57 PM
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people reported my post? lol why how is it a circle jerk when people are talking about their experience with horrible exes? i still think discussion can come of my post ...is there anyway i could modify it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:54 PM
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really? why remove a post counter to the usual circle jerk you mods allow to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:43 PM
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don't think my curiosity has reached obsession yet
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:41 PM
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ok guy who needed reddit to tell him that he should work out and dress fashionably to get a girl. "blackpill makes me wanna give up on dating " . you guys are pathetic at this point i wonder how much of a loser you have to be to think that people make reddit posts in any attempt impress women or get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:36 PM
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every time i make a post people try to gaslight me with this "nobody says that" garbage you guys blind? especially people like you who comment in what seems like every single fucking post next time i'll save the 50 comments and 10 posts as proof for people like you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:28 PM
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So I think pairing masculine appearances with traditionally boring jobs can make these jobs seem cooler. i'm about 50% sure this some lame attempt to "blackpill the normies" But lets pretend this actually happened . How is it that you never considered that maybe he's just more charismatic than you? Being able to make your boring job sound interesting is a skill in itself. It's a sign of high social ability/acumen. If you guys were twins (same looks) , they would probably be more interested in hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 06:16 PM
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i don't know what you're talking about. there's a post about /r/TheBluePill on the front page right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 12:14 AM
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it's laughable that you think trashy women would go for any of these weak, socially anxious, nerds
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:19 PM
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omg this place really is a zoo for normal people to see incels and femcels interact with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:23 PM
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Just look at truerateme have you tried looking at real life? do the guys you know in real life have high standards? because internet randos don't really matter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:18 AM
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you didn't even answer any of the questions. i think we both know an average girl can find an average guy attractive. an ugly girl can find an average guy attractive and occasional hot girls end up fancying some average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:14 AM
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that guys sounds so feminine he might as well do a sex change .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:45 AM
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well now i think black pill guys are just retarded the difference between being just friends and being partners is mutual sexual attraction that's so fucking obvious it doesn't need to be stated. none of these blackpill idiots are lining up to marry sweet, nice fat/ugly women seems like looks fucking matter to them aswell but wha wha "hot women are shallow for not dating me " why the fuck don't they stop being shallow and give ugly/fat girls a chance sexual attraction is the prerequisite to sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:43 AM
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what's your point? if you're an unattractive dude you date unattractive women , simple. ofc "decent looking woman" almost always ends up being above average then guys complain because above average girls don't want average guys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:28 AM
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The women in that thread admit this. I don't care what reddit "women" said do you not have girl friends who date/hookup with average looking guys? do you not have average looking guy friends who date/hookup with girls? average looking girls and guys get into sexual relationships with mutual physical attraction all the time . have you never had a girl who sexually attracted to you? Average men have sex through what essentially amounts to coercion and luck. there no coercion. they just talk to gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:20 AM
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it's not debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:09 AM
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"Attractive (enough) to me" is presumed but what that means differs between men and women because men have wider arousal windows. has it every occurred to you that it might be better if men "arousal window" was small? the default with you guys is that "women are devil because they don't want to fuck everyone they see" why don't men just have some standards for once?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:21 AM
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When guys are talking about how much they want a nice, sweet girl ..do you assume he's imagining some 400 pound land whale? Obviously fucking not lol. You don't want a sexual relationship with someone you don't find sexually attractive. So why are guys assuming she wants a 4 ft 9 balding autistic when she says she wants a nice guy? Everybody wants a partner they personally find attractive. It's so obvious it doesn't need to be said. I would like to here your thoughts on this part of my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:07 AM
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the majority of women can rate you as average. while a minority of women rate you as cute/handsome so you can be average to most girls and some girls still think you're cute. that's literally why average dudes aren't sexless losers that's literally why women say they have a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:53 AM
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every year a new bunch of 14 year olds are gonna get "black pilled" , become insecure wrecks and not talk to girls they like for a couple years then regret not asking out their crush when they finally get over it also does it feel kinda feminine to anyone else? this obsession with jaw lines, eye shape etc? usually girls are the ones who are like "omg nobodies gonna ever love me because small unimportant physical feature"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:37 PM
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i swear these guys have mental issues
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:22 PM
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you think people are angrily tapping their keyboard? it's good fun you should try it one day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:14 AM
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ok so this where the normal people are hiding
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:49 PM
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you mean don't be fat, dress fashionably , flirt with girls and have a backbone? i think it's already mainstream laughing at "niceguys" has been a thing for a minute because they try to use girl game to get girls and rage when it doesn't work trad con shit won't go mainstream cause it's lame .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:44 PM
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is it normal for these guys to dm you with their "i've tried everything and still can't get laid. give me advice" bullshit? i've gotten 2 so far and i really don't care for it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:39 PM
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so this is how FBI catches incels
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:35 PM
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fight club with no personal attacks rule is a bit soft somebody made a pretty funny comment throwing shade at me then mods removed it and commented "be civil" no sense of humor these guys
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:33 PM
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nope. it's fun tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:31 PM
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that's the spirit. keep up the good work. i'm proud of you son
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 10:55 PM
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omg he said something mean and hurt my feelings i'm going to report him people are such big babies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 10:53 PM
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i think a no personal attacks rule on an anonymous forum is a bit much
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 10:40 PM
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yes sir Mr Gen X Slacker sir
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 10:08 PM
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These men tend to be entitled and think women have it easy when they would never survive as a woman i think they'd survive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:57 PM
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the topic is interesting but the people are whiny. they aren't debating anything but how much they deserve sex for existing. "No girls want to touch my pp wha wha" isn't a valid debate point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:55 PM
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genuine curiosity isn't concern trolling. i don't go on feminist subs because those peeps are crazy man haters. so i'm curious as to why women are on this thinly veiled incel sub Especially ones whose accounts are less than 24 hours old. if it makes you feel better i lurked a bit before making a separate account for this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:51 PM
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woke up on the wrong side of the bed i see
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:48 PM
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i don't know if i even like this place yet the topic is interesting but a large number of the people responding to posts obviously have no relationship or sexual experience
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:46 PM
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Okay, I'll admit - I had ONE case of a female friend trying to "arrange" me with her other female friends. that not what i'm talking about. i mean invite you out to parties and events
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 01:15 AM
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this place is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 12:17 AM
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how old are you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 12:13 AM
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Millions of couples who could get together don’t, because the female side of the situation is unrealistic and holding out for some alpha guy who will never see her as more than a cum rag. i don't see that in my life and who uses "alpha" unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 12:12 AM
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you're not expected to do shit. nobody is begging you to chase girls just don't date its that simple. theres no shame in being single
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 12:03 AM
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how do i find a version of this place without the sexless losers? the discussions would be way more interesting without dudes turning every thread into a bitch fest about the fact that they cant get a girl to touch their pp you're the boring faux intellectual type, hate parties and drugs, hate having female friends, unfit and dress like a toddler while also refusing to get over your shyness and talk to girls. you see all that about yourself and have the audacity to get mad at women for not likin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 12:00 AM
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Considering how many men here say being friends with women is pointless and that female friends are worthless Hope they have fun competing with "chad" from tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 11:34 PM
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then they should fix that instead of raging at women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 11:33 PM
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if he's not already particularly attractive/bringing something that already doesn't exist to the table? because you're fun and good company
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 11:31 PM
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Such as? I did swimming in high school. Dancing is a good one. Volley ball if you're in a beach area. Theres a bunch really Can you describe yourself physically? I bet you're above average yourself. I'm 5'9 with a swimmers body. very judgemental that's in your head. I wish I did. don't wish you did. just go make one. it's not easy but its rewarding. but knowing how people on this sub are you'll prolly just make some excuse as to why you can't
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 11:31 PM
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Yes Mr. Pedant i should have specified social hobbies that girls partake in .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 11:24 PM
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-Reform marriage. When a divorce happens each person gets what they earned and what they came into the marriage with. No communal/marital property. If you didn't earn the money on the marketplace then it isn't yours. And what happens to wives whos career got hit because they were taking care of their kids. In this little situation you've made every woman who has kids gets fucked over if divorce happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:11 PM
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and obsessing over tinder and bitching about women is sooooo productive whatever method these guys are using obviously isn't working
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:30 PM
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As you get older the social networks you relied upon dissolve and it increasingly becomes difficult to find new ones that are as remotely fruitful. i think you have to make an effort to have a decent social network after uni. but don't be surprised when you don't get the benefits of a wide social networks when you didn't put in effort to have a wide social circle wide social circle equals less dependence on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:28 PM
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yeah but why are they surprised they can't get laid if they never make the effort to meet girls. then they make up sooo many bullshit reasons as to why women are literally the devil
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:17 PM
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if they even have any (few followers, no group pics, etc). Nobody, man or woman, wants to associate with a man like that this is such internet theory bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:15 PM
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i guess hobbies and friends don't exist after uni
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:14 PM
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That's how normal people used to date. used to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 07:32 PM
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the weirdest thing about this place is seeing people use "chad" unironically it's a meme bro . you weren't supposed to base your life beliefs around it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 01:57 PM
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Because most actually average men who achieve to be in a relationship in highschool and college are mostly sexless and not having crazy rabbit sex with their girlfriend. college? what are you 12? everyone but the christians are fucking like rabbits in their relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 01:48 PM
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dorm life is pretty sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:29 AM
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how the fuck did it jump from 10% to 30% in decade ? i still think less guys not being able to get a gf and more that guys realize that alot of girls aren't worth the trouble i've had to choose between my ex and my xbox and thats why she's my ex and not my gf lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:25 AM
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i doubt girls leave uni and develop super high standards for looks out of nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:09 AM
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i have no clue what statistics you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:08 AM
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i doubt that. but even if x% didn't get laid who says all of them were trying to get laid. some guys simply don't feel like getting a relationship and in this day and age there is no social pressure to be a player and always have a gf. nobodies gonna think you're gay and even if your are gay there nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:05 AM
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but it ain’t normal. i think the first step to improving their situation is admitting that they aren't normal. they need to accept that they aren't average and figure why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:59 AM
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So you feel obligated to tell these guys how much they suck. they would suck less if they didn't hate women on top of being lames. There's dozens of your clones wondering about here. well shit guess i should see myself out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:14 AM
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this feels like an inside joke and i feels left out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 11:58 PM
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How do these guys even come to conclusion that girls only like model level dudes? Do they not have average looking friends who hookup with and have relationships with each other? And i would assume they are having "the sex" in said relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 11:36 PM
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