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I can confirm everything you said from personal experience... last LTR was with a HB7 that hasn't slept with anyone in 2 years before me (this girl is picky like no other ive ever seen, but emotionally stable, good family values, young, friends with no guys)... I'm 29, 6'1, 100k+ salary, 6pack abs... she tried to make me an orbiter after our relationship stopped working (new job for her that makes her unavailable during any of my free time) I can get number/snap from 95% approaches, but only 10%…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:03 PM
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I wish I saw this comment a month ago when I started looking, thanks for your advice!
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:00 PM
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I am normally against this, but in your shoes I would do what worked for my friend. Lying. Yes, he never graduated school, worked jobs for way less money than you, and somehow is living for free with an average looking girl that treats him like a king. Also get rid of the attitude that you deserve not to slave away for 18-21 an hour. I started at $11 when I was 23 and by 25 I was up to $39 at the same business because I made myself so indispensible … doing shit like working on black friday to sa…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:33 PM
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You're developing oneitis... she can feel this and is reacting according to her nature.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 07:09 PM
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I went through similar oneitis recently but I'm so used to it now it's funny how I used to react years ago, here is what helped me: Time - just accept it's going to suck a little less every day Lack of contact - gtfo the job ASAP KEY: whenever you have a though related to her, imagine her on the toilet constipated as fuck and dropping a giant food baby off. Imagine her facial expression and the sounds she's making as the shit is squeezing out of the rectum. Imagine the shit bursting from her rec…
/r/askTRP24/04/21 05:22 PM
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As someone who has an engineering degree and own a business that's an independent revenue stream and 12 years older than OP, this is the advice i support and wish I heard when I was his age... There is no underexaggerating the difficulty decrease to life that social skills bring to the table when you've got a good head on your shoulders.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 10:34 PM
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good point. i guess the context here is this was stated to only one person who I met IRL a few months prior. We matched again and she was wondering if I was looking for a relationship this time (as compared to last time) and that's how I responded... mostly jokingly (hey at least I didn't use "you" and generalized "women") but seems she was butthurt already ​ maybe you're right though, if I had nothing nice to say probably shouldn't have said it.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 12:36 PM
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How do i exercise freedom of speech to convey the same message without getting banned lol
/r/askTRP23/04/21 11:53 AM
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Or maybe he just has a whole array of more information to base his decision on than you do..
/r/askTRP23/04/21 04:27 AM
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Can you offer more insights about the male therapist thing? Perhaps you would be willing to share your experiences? I had my first session a few days ago with a therapist that specializes in relationship and for males and I'm literally trying to decide if it's worth it to have another one as the first one left me just as confused and answerless as I was before...
/r/askTRP21/04/21 08:57 PM
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Want to feel more accomplished? Help other guys pull like you can! I volunteer to be your first test subject :D I need a bro to rub some of that confidence off on me hahahaha
/r/askTRP21/04/21 07:38 PM
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He means you're finally gonna fuck bitchez on their period brooo
/r/askTRP20/04/21 10:00 PM
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i would just laugh at them because deep inside i would know what I am worth. I would know that I choose to spend my time the way I want (most of the time when possible ) and if that means being alone rather than being with stupid, arrogant people, I would be proud of being that way.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 09:44 PM
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Summarized my own summary of a talk on this. Besides the steps it also takes time! Steps: There is an issue. We are upset. Angry and sad. Don't wait out the storm. Keep breathing until you feel okay with this feeling, slow down. What are you so angry about? Need to list out the causes of the anger and sadness Where does it hurt? What hurts? Need to focus on the feelings and explicitly state this. Find out what you really, deeply need. Spell it out Remember it's not what you need from THEM. It's …
/r/askTRP10/04/21 06:29 PM
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Push and Pull slowwlyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy Push too fast she will break. Pull too fast, she will break faster. Remember, she's not yours, it's just your turn!
/r/askTRP10/04/21 05:23 PM
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cold truth
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:07 PM
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If being alpha means getting what I want when I want. Then if I want some company and get it then I'm alpha.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:52 AM
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Her only words should be yes, Master.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:48 AM
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stamp collection - without asking her to see ftw. then soft next
/r/askTRP05/09/20 06:38 PM
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they are making sure they don't step in the dog shit in front of them
/r/askTRP05/09/20 05:41 PM
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You want her now, but as soon as you fuck her you will remember instantly why you lost that desire earlier!
/r/askTRP05/09/20 05:36 PM
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Bro, You definitely seem like the type of guy that only knows girls that hang around tinder. What should you spend your mental energy on? Money? You’ve got a yacht. Lifting? I read you won mr. Olympia so that’s out. Intelligence? There’s no question how much you have after I read your post, and I agree you’re definitely progressing. Listening to some dude telling you to stop wasting your energy on shit you want to do? I agree, It’s always good to try new things; for example you could try to not …
/r/askTRP05/09/20 04:36 PM
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yes my game is the only thing i lack, hence i turn to this forum for tips & advice, won't waste my time anymore though, thanks for the wasted comment
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:36 PM
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bro, every girl i know has been on tinder at some point in her life. what should i spend my mental energy on? money? got enough of that. lifting? still handled. intelligence? always in progress. listening to some dude telling me to stop wasting my energy on shit i want to do? yeah let me try that.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:33 PM
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thank you for trying to actually answer the question!
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:32 PM
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yes i really do want to spend my time on fucking hot girls... why is that even a question? She keeps sending me snap videos of her eating out at places since yesterday lol idk what to do i really wanna fuck her but i guess i'll follow everyones advice and just ghost her
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:31 PM
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thx but if shes a thot then there is something that I can say to get it in no? that's really my question here... i soft next'ed with the "ok" but her delayed response indicates to me that her followup is a shit test how to pass it?
/r/askTRP01/09/20 07:48 PM
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Orbited for 4 more messages before she ghosted lmfao
/r/askTRP26/08/20 01:18 PM
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Self-Observation and Self-Remembering did it for me after possible psychosis due to drug abuse. For definitions refer to: The-Fourth-Way-by-Ouspensky.pdf
/r/askTRP25/08/20 10:02 PM
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Realize that the voice in your head is a part of you and don't fight it. Accept that it's a part of you internally but has no control of you externally. Observe it take control of you sometimes and laugh that you let it. Then observe it take control of you in other times and laugh even harder. Then observe the differences between the voices. Then realize that there are good voices in your head that make your life exciting. Then realize that all of these voices are who you are. Then just look at …
/r/askTRP25/08/20 10:01 PM
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Told a tinder match after getting her number "I want to get to know you"
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:57 PM
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probably wanna redact the number before posting it on the interwebz
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:42 PM
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What works for me to get over oneitis (but maybe not so much for sadness) is remember that i'm just an animal and so is she. For the sadness, I remember that I'm riding a roller coaster and that there's no ups without the downs. Every time i get sad I just remember that changes in my emotional state are part of the natural order of life and that helps me "de-identify" with any negative emotions "I" am experiencing.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:40 PM
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OP, I had a messy breakup with a 4 year LTR, demoted to plate for a few months then she hopped on Tinder then SA. Her excuse for SA was "since i don't enjoy fucking anyone else when you're not available I may as well make some money for it". I respected her for it. I wish I had the balls to hard next her after she said that but she's just toooooo good in bed. Do i have any feelings for her? Hellll noooo. However, knowing your ex is on SA... you should stop caring about it. Move on. Also, if she …
/r/askTRP21/08/20 09:57 PM
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Because they already know that if they get it in they basically "threw the first punch" in the friendship. That's why they won't brag about it to him... element of surprise. Now that OP knows about it, he should destroy them. Art of War.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 09:47 PM
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username checks out
/r/askTRP21/08/20 09:44 PM
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The point is that if you know the better way, you should be the leader. If you are not sure that your way is better, then it will show. However, a leader does not argue over things that don't matter to him.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:11 PM
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I feel the same way, friends I used to respect don't seem as respectable when they are content with coming home from their 9 to 5 to some mediocre pussy because it's easier then hunting for fresh meat regularly. I think it has more to do with realizing that the majority of people are just waiting to die and life would be much more fun if everyone was on the same level.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 03:42 PM
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well put... disinterest with women can be caused by success or failure with them.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 03:32 PM
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If the purpose of sex is to reproduce, how do you explain homosexualism? It may be your purpose... but you do you bro.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 10:40 PM
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If she was eastern european she would've left your ass as soon as she could after becoming a resident. Either way. You didn't marry her because you knew better. You had doubts. Give yourself some credit.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 10:38 PM
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The RP'er in me: Don't get oneitis. The idealist in me: Persist
/r/askTRP12/08/20 10:25 PM
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Her text got in your head bigtime. That's why she sent it after you cut her off last night... You got to her first so go back to the abundance mindset bro!
/r/askTRP12/08/20 08:21 PM
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"that bs" is what you've been taught by nature, not books. did your stomach have to "sell" you on the fact that you need food? why do you need books to "sell" you that your women want your d?
/r/askTRP04/08/20 10:17 PM
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Agree and Ampllify (read sidebar)
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:11 PM
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So true, the 18-20 year old crowd is all nuts/ADD attention whores in my eyes. Yes especially the ones that you see in church every sunday morning in their conservative clothes.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 06:01 PM
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She is either shit testing you and wants you to dominate her or she is shit testing you/grooming for an LTR and wants to have "the talk" - unless you feel disrespected by or do not enjoy spending time with her due to her lack of interest in sex on some days i would not hard next
/r/askTRP25/07/20 05:40 PM
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I think the fact I never see these actions in person made me believe it's "weird" to do so. Thanks bro!
/r/askTRP25/07/20 05:35 PM
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Once you're texting and she replies instantly a few times (meaning she's bored) just call her as if you just want to flirt too but quickly set up a meet and if she dodges then soft next.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 04:41 PM
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Think and grow rich. Malcolm Gladwell has some pretty interesting stories too. If you're looking for some metaphysical stuff, the 4th way by P.D. Ouspensky transformed my being for the better.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 04:35 PM
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Buy a motorcycle! Edit: scratch that... just take the FREE MSF basic rider training class, you will get to learn and ride one for free and get your license at the same time.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 04:27 PM
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I have the same results in about 90% of my conversations online. Then again, try to set up logistics for dates within the first 3-7 messages. I had one girl actually love the fact that I set a date so quick and did not flake. I realized at some point, that messaging back and forth with someone who was never planning on meeting up with someone they met online is a huge waste of time and I needed to play the numbers game. If they say shit like we need to talk for a while before meeting, then they …
/r/askTRP25/07/20 04:22 PM
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So your LTR lives with another guy... am I the only one that finds something wrong with this if he's not gay?
/r/askTRP25/07/20 04:08 PM
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her action of considering the move is the "covert message" that "hey - I like you but I'm ready for a change of scenery"
/r/askTRP25/07/20 04:02 PM
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if you can literally save and invest 60% of it, do it. you'll notice your expenses slowly creeping upwards even while you're saving your "emergency 6-18 month stash of cash". Once you have your emergency fund ask this question again if you can still save 60% of it...
/r/askTRP24/07/20 09:32 PM
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move from tinder to snap/other media ASAP. yes, your conversations will die MUCH faster. which is what you want - you just don't know it yet. if they refuse an invite through phone/snap, then soft next and watch.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 09:00 PM
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It's not a question, but a declarative statement to communicate soft next + that the only reason you will hang with her is if fucking is involved
/r/askTRP24/07/20 04:59 PM
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I actually asked (half jokingly at some point - "i wanna see your picture"), she responded with "my real or my fake" but ended up with "i can't find it in my purse" and i dropped it
/r/askTRP23/07/20 08:02 PM
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Have your family follow up post after they find out you're being held hostage :D Jk, no risk no reward.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 07:11 PM
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"hey xxxx, i'm not looking for a relationship but if you want to hang out we can"
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:30 PM
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Vyvance (20-35mg - 5am) and Adderall (10mg late afternoon)
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:32 PM
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I used to think the same until a perfect 9 (ex- LA model) told me to my face that I suck at sex and proceeded to blow me instead. At that point it just clicked and I was just smiling... I was fucking her because I didn't give a shit about her being happy. I was doing it for myself. True story.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:18 PM
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Same... not so much worried about STD's until I remember that you can't really see if someone's clean... The worst thing for me is when I come and the girl goes in the bathroom with the used condoms. My mind is just listening for them to go through the trash and try to rub it in or some shit... I have no idea where this comes from and understand it's ridiculous but it's there.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:35 PM
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Happened to me once, last time I was in a "fight". Got completely roundhouse punched from behind into my right ear - fully unexpected. When i turned around the guy was running away and turned out he hurt his wrist (lmfao). For a second i thought I should chase him down and beat the shit out of him, but it was fully emotionless and seemed not worth it, so I didn't. Didn't understand it at the time, but I'm happy I showed restraint.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 05:38 PM
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make her laugh send a video of yourself talking (snapchat i.e.) instead of typing an answer once in a while (better in the evening/night) every woman will love this and i get way more dates when i ask out girls through a video message than text
/r/askTRP18/07/20 06:35 PM
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soft next
/r/askTRP18/07/20 06:22 PM
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Too much attention for a woman -> lower value of that attention and seek out more HVM attention
/r/askTRP18/07/20 05:15 PM
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AWALT - no matter how hard i try i still have difficulties stopping myself from "idealizing" those rare "one in a million" women before I have a chance to make observations reminding me of their biological drives and weak minds
/r/askTRP18/07/20 05:12 PM
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yes!
/r/askTRP18/07/20 04:54 PM
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Chances are if the girl and you are alone and you're over 15, this will help you. I had the same issue, due to logistics I felt awkward escalating when already on the couch so I have a workaround to escalate before we sit down: Before you get to the couch, position yourself between the girl and the couch. When you're ready to sit down and walking towards the couch, turn around and face her, stop and lock eye contact for a second or two, use your arms to pull her waist or lower back closer to you…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 03:55 PM
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Love this. I felt the same way about driving and got a crotchrocket. Nothing kills depression faster than blowing by simpletons at 150+ mph.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 08:37 PM
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is the other dude also on RP? I feel like I saw a post about the flipside of this story the other day lmfao
/r/askTRP17/07/20 08:20 PM
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3rd date girl comes to my place and refused to give head/ LMR after getting the finger ("i don't know you well enough") i instantly cut off attention and went back to watching TV (thank you RP), she showed herself out - no further communication 1 week later she sends me a mssg "i feel like like i fucked up with you" i respond simply "i'm not looking for anything serious" 2 weeks later i get a text from her out of the blue that she's back in her place from her parents and that I should come over …
/r/askTRP17/07/20 07:36 PM
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As someone who used stims (vy/addy) 5+ years, here is what happened in my life: Went from kicked out of college to a 4.0 GPA in engineering Went from a minimum wage job to making 70k a year within 2 years and then starting my own business As someone who was always an endomorph I still lost ~20 lbs without significant muscle loss and look much more toned now. Almost all of the weight loss came from changes in diet due to being more busy/lower appetite. The key for me was adjusting my own dosage t…
/r/askTRP17/07/20 05:25 PM
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it took a mental effort just to finish omg
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:40 PM
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да.... блять. нада от туда уэхать
/r/askTRP15/07/20 09:18 PM
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Uber Let us know what happened
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:33 PM
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I definitely had similar feelings at some points in my life. The only advice I would give you is to set your OWN standards for YOURSELF. If you want to have sex every day or once a month, make it happen regardless of how your friends talk about hooking up five times a day or something and don't judge them for being more or less sexually promiscuous. It took me too long to realize that there is a huge spectrum of sexual activity frequency with everyone I meet, especially college age adults. Defin…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 04:50 PM
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