So I met this girl right, really fun girl we have great conversations and chemistry. But…

- The first date was on Wednesday we went midget golfing and went for drinks after. Lots of fun good conversation we made out and split ways.

- The second date was spontaneous, she asked if I wanted to go to the beach in the evening. So that Monday we hung out on the beach and had this crazy idea to go to the casino where she used to work. I basically met al her ex co-workers. I kind of “forgot” the time so I had a reason to stay at her place lol. I tried to have sex with her but it was 4 in the morning so she broke it off because she had to wake up early etc. She also said she was shy but did want to have sex or something??

She didn’t allow me to sleep-over next to her in her bed for some reason. She gave me the couch. Which was totally fine and no issue for me since I was planning on catching the early tram which left at 5 am anyway instead of crashing on her couch. So the day after I decided to stop texting her for a bit to see what her level of interest is, and she blew up my phone.

- The third date (not really a date) on Tuesday (the day after) she said she had to pick up her bike in my neighborhood, basically inviting herself to my home, so I told her she can stop by and check out my house. We grabbed something to eat. Made out a bit, I tried to sleep with her again, again resistance. She gets all giggly and shit. She was on my lap making out but as soon as I wanted to take her clothes of she stopped me.

- So I told her I noticed her being a bit uncomfortable when it comes to going further than making out. And asked her what the reason was behind it. She said it’s because we barely know each other and she wanted to get to know me better first. Again no big deal for me. But in my mind my interest was dropping by the second.

So this Wednesday we have a date set up to go bowling (we had this set up since last week). How do I approach this? I want to keep it short because I feel like I’m giving her way too much of my time already. And I'm wondering if this resistance is caused by a lack of real attraction or something else.

She chases me, takes initiative to hang out, texts me first, double texts me if I don't respond and tells me she thinks I'm hot but as soon as I make a move she closes off.