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It’s likely not your looks. Check out the YT video by margarita something along the lines of “how to be beautiful.” I would also recommend dressing femininely by wearing dresses, something to make you stand out. I wear a dress every time I leave the house and a couple accessories makes me look 100% put together 100% of the time in less than 20 minutes. People always think I’m going somewhere special. I would agree with others and work on your social skills and confidence. I’ve seen less pretty w…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/25 10:00 PM
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If they try to be intimate before I’m ready I like to say “I prefer to be more committed than we are before being more intimate.” This lets them know your standard without pressuring them. I personally never bring up the topic first because I believe if he wants to take me off the market, he will. Also, men will try and push to see how much they can get without committing, it’s up to us to let them know our standards but they will always at least try.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/25 08:33 AM
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For woman though, we need men to be in love with us more than us with them.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/25 10:08 PM
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Three days is a bit generous on their end. My life is so busy and full I book my schedule at least a week out, even my friends know to get onto my calendar a week in advance. If my friends can do it, a man can. I’ve had men wait two weeks for a date before because that was the nearest available evening.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/25 04:53 PM
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It’s not up to us women to pursue the man. If you do that he will naturally fall into his femininity. If a man makes a plan for a date and doesn’t confirm three days prior with the place, I’ll ask to confirm and if he doesn’t reply then the date isn’t happening. I’ll then book something else and if/when he eventually comes around it’s pretty simple- “I didn’t realize we were still on as you didn’t confirm with me. I spend my time very intentionally and if you don’t also do that, that’s your prer…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/25 03:11 AM
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I like to emulate Audrey Hepburns look. Super classy and sophisticated!
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/25 04:44 AM
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Check out the pretty dress company. It’s a UK company and they make the dresses there. Super classy and sophisticated or girly styles depending what you’re going for. I love the swing skirts, I have several different colors and can easily pair them with whatever shirt I want tucked in. People always think I’m dressed up for something when really I’m out the door in less than 30 minutes. I usually get all the dresses hemmed to my knee though or shorter depending on the season since they are so lo…
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/25 04:43 AM
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I’d recommend watching videos and reading on how to do it well to make it less intimidating for you. Getting good at using both your hands during the experience will make it nicer for him. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 11:11 PM
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When I was newer to sexual experiences anything that wasn’t missionary was uncomfortable to me. The unknown was scary and intimidating and I was a “no” girl for a long time until I realized most of all sexual activities a male partner will desire isn’t that scary after all, as long as it’s not inflicting pain (for me personally).
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 11:10 PM
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Porn has actually made our sex life better 😌 he’s not a daily or chronic watcher though so there’s no addiction.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/24 06:35 AM
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How do you dress and carry yourself? Do you look like a classy lady one would see and want to “wife up?” Or do you look like any other woman wearing less desirable clothing?
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/24 07:40 AM
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You can NEVER change a man.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/24 05:36 AM
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I dress fine That probably has something to do with it. I would highly suggest checking out thefemmeguide on Instagram.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/24 06:09 PM
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he’s taking advantage of your youth This. No matter how mature some of us 20-year olds are we are still susceptible to being preyed upon by older men.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/24 08:06 AM
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On our second date he drunkenly This is probably the bigger of all the red flags I see, you were right to wish him farewell. Be happy you didn’t waste more time on someone not for you and continue on your marry way.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/24 08:04 AM
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6 feet doesn’t make someone high value, it’s a nice trait but that’s it. A cherry on top. I feel bad for my younger friends that primarily care about looks 😬
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/24 07:49 AM
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I don’t think you fully understand what a hvm is, he may tick a bunch of those boxes on the outside but he doesn’t ACT high value towards you. Also, every way you describe his actions towards you is EXACTLY how I acted towards my rebound that I didn’t even want to be in a relationship with but was lonely, and wanted to feel some love when I couldn’t fulfill that for myself. When you are a women of his dreams he will roll out the red carpet for you and do ANYTHING for you. You should feel like a …
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/24 07:47 AM
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If he requires you to do something just to be together perhaps you should have a new requirement of him paying for EVERYTHING. Then take advantage of the savings and leave. It seems like he should have found someone who already loves to wear skirts and dresses, they do exist, if that’s a deal breaker for him.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 06:26 PM
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If he’s constantly hinting at it he’s either very insecure or possibly doing it himself… Not to put the spotlight on this other detail, I just assume relationships that last six years aren’t going to result in marriage. They sometimes do but most of the time don’t.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/23 04:43 PM
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My man drives 99% of the time and I’ve always had a rule for any man I’m dating to not use their phone while the car is in motion. That’s what the copilot is for 🙂
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 02:24 AM
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Exactly. My man has told me he’s madly in love with me and we both have stated that cheating is a deal breaker with us. If he’s said that he sounds like a scumbag who doesn’t care about your feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 04:39 PM
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Turn your jealousy into inspiration. Then the sky is the limit.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/21 03:18 PM
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I wouldn't, even if you enjoy cooking it will start to be expected and unappreciated over time. Cook on rare occasions as long as he washes the dishes and he will savor every bite and complement your food so much. Also, if he has money he should be taking you out to dinner ALL the time anyways. Cooking for dates is the poor dating method, I understand with the virus this is different for now.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 06:53 PM
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