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ZakieChan/r/seduction03/05/12 09:16 PM
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ZakieChan/r/seduction09/07/11 06:39 PM
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Just respond with "EASYYYYY, big fella! No need to get upset."
/r/seduction20/09/13 05:54 AM
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"Prove it." Or, "yeah, I have that effect on girls."
/r/seduction30/12/12 06:00 PM
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Well said.
/r/seduction26/11/12 05:05 AM
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Or is it that risk-taking behavior and novelty increase testosterone levels? Which way does the causal chain go? And is it always the same?
/r/seduction26/11/12 05:01 AM
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Yes, but being around a woman (any woman) for 5 minutes will then raise your testosterone level 8%. You then have to take into consideration tons of other variables. How much sleep did you get, what did you eat recently, have you exercised, how stressed are you, do you have an undiscovered brain tumor? etc. There are SO many variables that have to be accounted for, and focusing on one thing (testosterone) in regards to what is going to influence your behavior is silly.
/r/seduction26/11/12 04:59 AM
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I am very curious about what you have read regarding this "sexual energy" and how the body creates more pheromones as a result (or vice versa). Could you link a study? ARealSocialIdiot is right though. There aren't any studies (at least to my knowledge) showing a causal relation between testosterone levels and ones ability to get women. I am not sure how one would even control all the variables to do such a study.
/r/seduction26/11/12 04:49 AM
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Anytime anyone ever insults me (which isn't really that often), I just say "Dumbass? Good one. Did you think of that yourself?"
/r/seduction28/10/12 04:28 PM
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I would say: Yeah you are definitely above average. At least a 5.3! A guy I knew would say this to a very pretty female friend of mine when she would ask, and it drove her insane.
/r/seduction04/08/12 05:45 PM
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Well, naysayers gonna naysay.
/r/seduction03/08/12 03:03 AM
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I can totally relate... So I tend not to drink much as I don't want it to become a crutch. However, I take note that what I do while drunk DOES work extreme well, and I just have to trust it will still work when sober. For the most part, reminding myself of that does work. Granted I am not as good sober, but I am much better than I used to be.
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:22 AM
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Nice! I solve problems, that's just what I do.
/r/seduction20/06/12 06:48 PM
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You explored her amygdala with your tongue? Get this girl to a hospital!
/r/seduction20/05/12 11:51 PM
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It depends on the person I am talking to. I usually say something about them buying me a drink or an ice cream cone or something.
/r/seduction11/05/12 09:18 PM
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Tell her her grade just dropped to an F-
/r/seduction09/05/12 05:28 AM
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BOOM! Success! If I may ask, how long did it take for her to respond to the text?
/r/seduction09/05/12 05:20 AM
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I agree. At this point, I have already interacted with the girl, and I think they realize I am quite normal.
/r/seduction06/05/12 10:09 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/seduction06/05/12 03:47 AM
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Fair enough. It has worked fairly quickly for me, but whatev.
/r/seduction06/05/12 03:47 AM
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I hope you learned your lesson for doubting me :)
/r/seduction06/05/12 02:49 AM
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I am. Isn't everyone on seddit?
/r/seduction05/05/12 05:59 PM
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Haha I actually stole that from 30 Rock :)
/r/seduction05/05/12 05:59 PM
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No idea.
/r/seduction04/05/12 11:19 PM
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Well, it could have to do with the initial interactions I have had with the girls. They realize I am just joking around, being dumb.
/r/seduction04/05/12 10:43 PM
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If they thought I was being serious, I could see it as some sort of guilt tripping. But I think that from the initial interactions I have had with these girls, they realize it's just a joke.
/r/seduction04/05/12 10:43 PM
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At least she was reasonable enough to know she needs time. I know lots of girls that have gotten out of serious relationships, only to jump into another one right away.
/r/seduction04/05/12 10:41 PM
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Like I said, it has never failed me in getting a response. In that example, I was saying nothing came from it.
/r/seduction04/05/12 10:40 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction04/05/12 07:14 PM
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Awesome! I don't understand why some people here are so opposed to it.
/r/seduction04/05/12 07:14 PM
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Nice!! Every time I have done it, I don't think I have had to wait more than 2 or 3 min for a response. Like I said before, it really blows my mind how effective it is.
/r/seduction04/05/12 07:13 PM
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Maybe the girls you date need to lighten up :) Here are the exact quotes from the last few times I have used it (these girls are all in their mid 20s)... Me- Hey! If I was giving grades on your call back skills, you would definitely get an F! Her- Haha that is fair. Hopefully that isn't the final grade! Me- Well, your final grade depends on you. But I could probably think of some extra credit for ya, and raise your grade to an F+ hahaha Her- Hmmm not even a full letter grade... What did you have…
/r/seduction04/05/12 07:07 PM
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What is more likely, that all these girls I have randomly met just all happen to be emotionally and intellectually immature (which is odd, because they sure don't seem like it), or that it's just a funny text that people with a sense of humor respond well to?
/r/seduction04/05/12 06:23 PM
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Nice, well done!
/r/seduction04/05/12 05:16 PM
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I don't wait that long to call. Sometimes I call her the next day, sometimes a few days later. I don't have any real standard call wait time... I just call when I want to.
/r/seduction04/05/12 05:04 PM
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I have used it on girls age 22-35 with great success.
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:58 PM
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I have used it ok OKC a few times too. It has worked pretty well, but not as well with when I text the girls (I assume because the girls I text have actually had a conversation with me already and know I am not some weirdo).
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:57 PM
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So it just so happens that every girl I have done it to (of various ages) have super low self esteem, but also find it funny?
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:56 PM
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They usually say something like "Haha sorry! This week has been super busy! How can I get my grade back up?"
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:55 PM
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I am 29 and have used it on girls 22-35 years old. Regardless of their age, it has yet to fail me.
/r/seduction04/05/12 05:56 AM
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Nice!
/r/seduction04/05/12 05:52 AM
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My apologies! I agree, she probably is dead.
/r/seduction04/05/12 05:10 AM
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Haters gonna hate.
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:55 AM
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I'm not (so says my mom).
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:53 AM
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If that is the case, why is that the girls have texted me back 100% of the time, and I have gone on dates with the majority of girls that I did this to? I would say I DEFINITELY did myself a favor by doing it.
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:50 AM
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I don't "keep doing it." I call, if she calls back, great. If not, I send the text. So far, the text has never not got a response, and I have gone on quite a few dates with girls that I have done this to.
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:47 AM
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I have only done it when I call for the first time, leave a message, and then haven't heard back from her.
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:46 AM
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No prob! Glad it worked for ya!
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:44 AM
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I seriously encourage you to try it.
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:42 AM
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How is it pathetic? Like I said, it works QUITE well.
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:42 AM
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Yeah I usually get the texts back almost immediately.
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:41 AM
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Please do, I have probably only done it 10-12 times... and like I said, it has never failed.
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:39 AM
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I think things like this are a self fulfilling prophecy. You are more confident around the less attractive girls (since you aren't as nervous or intimidated), and as a result, you are seen as more attractive. If you acted the same way around the pretty girls, I would bet they would be all over you too!
/r/seduction02/04/12 03:04 AM
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This is basically the only "line" I ever use. I do it constantly, and it has always worked (and by worked, I mean it led to at least a nice conversation). The first time I ever did it was in a grocery store and the girl was married. But she seemed EXTREMELY flattered with it, and we ended up taking for quite awhile. It really helped my confidence too talk to girls who normally would just say "sorry, I'm married" do a flip and continue the conversation and seem all into it. Good times. Do it up.
/r/seduction02/03/12 06:44 AM
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Thanks! I use that line in tons of situations.
/r/seduction17/01/12 06:53 AM
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"Yeah, but I'm into that sort of thing."
/r/seduction17/01/12 01:42 AM
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I laughed at this, as I have often do the same thing. Though, I usually think about it in terms of my body language and mannerisms.
/r/seduction21/12/11 05:28 AM
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I have used that before, asking "want another one?" If you say it with a smile, it always gets a laugh.
/r/seduction06/12/11 07:26 AM
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Phenomenal.
/r/seduction12/10/11 12:48 AM
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You just blew my mind.
/r/seduction11/10/11 10:25 PM
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Fellow close up magician here. I will just break down what my technique was when I was in college. I am not an expert by any means with girls, but I am not too bad, and I am not bad looking either. Like yourself, I always had a deck of cards on me, mainly, because people would always want to randomly see a trick. It seems like that is the case with you as well. I would never use the card tricks to specifically try and get girls though. I just thought it seemed a little contrived (maybe I am wron…
/r/seduction09/10/11 04:42 PM
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I once went out with a very attractive girl who was 6'1", and wore high heels, so she was like 6'4" at least. I am 5'9". She didn't mind, but I felt really awkward.
/r/seduction08/10/11 03:50 AM
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Going to a counselor is probably the first thing you should do. After that, realize that everyone feels down from time to time, and you lose motivation to do anything. However, remember THOSE FEELINGS ARE LIES!! It's just like if you were OCD, you would have these extreme feelings that you HAD to turn the light on/off 5 times. But you don't. Everything you feel about the light is a lie. Likewise, all these feelings of not wanting to go out are lies. Don't believe them. If you go out, you will ha…
/r/seduction29/09/11 04:57 AM
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I agree, the time thing seems odd, since who doesn't have a phone? Another option is asking where a certain building on campus is. Especially since you are a freshmen, it's likely you don't know your way around all that well yet. Just ask where X building is, and how you get there. Or, ask how late the dining hall is open. Or if there is a coffee shop on campus.
/r/seduction18/09/11 03:29 AM
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There was an episode of Seinfeld where Jerry dealt with a similar problem. It ended up not working... but it might for you! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hkY4fXdkzXg
/r/seduction18/09/11 03:17 AM
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Thanks! It is weird how I will think back and be like "I KNOW I can do this... so just DO it!!" But then I don't. Then when I am with friends, I do it and think "pshh, this is easy" lol.
/r/seduction10/07/11 07:25 PM
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This was good to read. It's nice knowing someone else feels the exact same way. Thanks.
/r/seduction10/07/11 07:24 PM
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Much thanks. You are right, I did think it was all in my head. I hadn't considered the social proof thing.
/r/seduction10/07/11 07:23 PM
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What is a booking club?
/r/seduction09/07/11 06:29 PM
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There is evidence that very attractive girls have surprisingly low self esteem. Simply because they think that people only care about their looks, and not about them as a person. Even anecdotally, this seems very true. One of the prettiest girls I know is EXTREMELY insecure. So insecure that it makes her un-dateable (at least for me). I know that self esteem and loneliness aren't the same thing, but I still thought it was relevant.
/r/seduction10/06/11 05:19 AM
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Every girl I have ever asked WAY prefers you to call rather than text. In my opinion, it takes a lot more confidence to call than text. Do it up and beat it up.
/r/seduction05/06/11 11:45 PM
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I don't know if it will work in this situation, but when I was is college and couldn't remember someone's name, I would mention that I had heard the school had a new design for the ID cards, ask if I could see theirs (of course this only worked if the student was younger than me). They would show me their card, I would look at it, get the name and say "nope. It's the same." Worked like a charm, until I forgot their name again lol.
/r/seduction05/06/11 07:53 PM
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If a girl is going to write her # down for you, tell her to make sure she draws a pic of herself as well, so you can remember what she looks like.
/r/seduction30/05/11 11:31 PM
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Wow, my prom was so not even close to this lol! Anyway, well done!
/r/seduction30/05/11 11:28 PM
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Actually, research has shown that people like others more if they aren't perfect. In one study, they researchers had a guy in an interview who had perfect credentials, etc knock over his water. He was liked more than the other guy who was the same, but didn't knock over his water. So, the clumsiness might actually have helped. Whatever the case, well done.
/r/seduction26/05/11 11:43 PM
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I wear glasses, and I really like them. Whenever I see girls with glasses, I will comment on them (if I like the glasses). The girl tends to say thanks, and says she likes mine too. I tell her that mine actually shoot lasers, and we end up having a convo. It works well.
/r/seduction05/05/11 08:51 PM
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Agreed. An exgf of mine told me that waiting to the end of the date is not necessary at all... if you want to kiss the person, do it! Regardless of the time.
/r/seduction05/05/11 08:49 PM
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Is this girl's name Holly? I went out with this girl a number of times, and while we had made out and messed around before, she REFUSED to kiss me at the end of a date. She said she was always too nervous. It was cute the first time, then got annoying REALLY fast. I continued to see her, and deal with that nonsense for like 2 months. Finally I met a different girl who had no problem ever kissing me, and it was a HUGE relief.
/r/seduction05/05/11 08:48 PM
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You would think. But she is one of the most rational, down to earth, chill girls I have ever met. And that is really what blew my mind about the whole situation. If she was some emotional girl who cried all the time, it wouldn't have shocked me as much.
/r/seduction30/04/11 06:57 AM
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Agreed. A girl I was dating woke me up one morning, wanting to mess around. But I was still half asleep, and didn't really realize what was going on, and basically just fell right back asleep. Well, I woke up a few min later, to her crying, cause she thought I rejected her. It really blew my mind. Haven't made that mistake again!
/r/seduction29/04/11 07:36 PM
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I am totally fine with shaking girl's hands. MOST girls have crappy, weak handshakes, and I call them on it. I say "c'mon, squeeze harder! You're an adult now." They do, and ALWAYS make a face like they are putting a lot of energy into it. I then say "that's better, but next time do it without making a weird face" and we all laugh. If the girl has a good handshake, I always compliment her on it, and that always goes over well too.
/r/seduction14/03/11 06:21 PM
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Great post! There are tons of scientific studies that ask similar questions, polling thousands of women, cross culturally, etc. Some great books that survey the literature on such topics are "Falling in Love" by Ayala Malakh-Pines and "Survival of the Prettiest" by Nancy Etcoff.
/r/seduction27/01/11 08:38 PM
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Sing "I wouldn't touch you with a 39 and a half foot pole." Then troll/grinch dance out of the class.
/r/seduction27/01/11 04:58 PM
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I disagree to an extent. Heart break was the absolute most pain I have ever experienced. But I am so much better and wiser now because of it. All of my thoughts on what I want in a relationship, what I deserve, what need, etc are from the months of introspection after getting my heart broken.
/r/seduction08/01/11 10:16 AM
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If you are in college, do this (I used to do it all the time when I was an RA, and would forget my resident's names). I would say "Hey, can I see your ID card? I heard they started changing the design of them." She hands you her card, you look at it and say "hmm, guess not" and hand it back. Problem solved.
/r/seduction22/09/10 06:47 PM
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I always just "ask girls out" by telling them I want to take them out to dinner. It has never resulted in any confusion. But then make sure you have an idea of what you will be doing, where you will be going etc. DON'T be like "well, where do YOU want to go?" Girls hate that.
/r/seduction21/08/10 12:38 PM
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I am hungry, and this post just reminded me that I still half a pizza left. Thanks!
/r/seduction15/08/10 04:28 AM
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Agreed. If a girl wants to go out with you, or see you again, she will make it work.
/r/seduction12/08/10 06:26 PM
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My other "rejections" don't really count as being shot down. I don't really count a girl who is clearly not interested in me (which has happened way more than 2 times) as being shot down. "I met this girl, we went out, I called her to go out again, she didn't call me back" isn't very interesting, and I don't think qualifies as being a crash and burn.
/r/seduction12/08/10 06:15 PM
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There have only been two times where I have really been shot down... The first was a few years ago. I was on the bus, and ended up talking to some girl I was sitting next to. She seemed really cool, and we hit it off fairly well. After about 10 min, my stop was coming up, so I stand up to get off. I was just going to leave, but knew that if I didn't ask for her number, I would beat myself up over it for the rest of the day. So I turned back to her and asked if she would like to get together some…
/r/seduction12/08/10 02:44 PM
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According to this, some people investigated it, and it was mostly all legit. Whatever the case, the basic principles I mentioned earlier have helped me a lot. Though, I don't adhere to any of the other rules very strictly, and i do alright.
/r/seduction11/08/10 02:16 PM
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I would say yes, it does work... but it's not magic. Like others have said, you have to work at it. What I learned the most from it was just being aware of what my body language was saying, the importance of humor and confidence, etc. A year ago or so, there was a VH1 show, The PUA, and mystery taught a bunch of AFCs how to get girls. Most of them did quite well and learned a lot.
/r/seduction11/08/10 01:37 PM
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Or girls just don't want to sleep with someone they met 3 seconds prior...
/r/seduction06/08/10 06:02 PM
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There was a scientific study done regarding this sort of stuff by Russell Clark and Elaine Hatfield (though it has been replicated by others). College students were approached by members of the opposite sex (of varying attractiveness levels) and asked one of three questions: Hi, I have noticed you around campus and was wondering... 1. Would you go out with me? 2. Would you come back to my place? 3. Would you sleep with me tonight? Of the men asked, 50% agreed to the date, 69% agreed to the apart…
/r/seduction06/08/10 03:46 PM
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I was wondering the same thing, so I googled it.
/r/seduction06/08/10 12:37 AM
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I don't know who thought up the idea that banging a bunch of chicks helps you get over heartbreak... but that person is an idiot. It absolutely does not. Heartbreak sucks, and like the other commenters have stated, it looks like you are just trying to validate yourself, which is completely understandable. You feel bad, and you think that getting attention from other girls will make you feel better. Take a break for a month or two. Don't worry about girls. Just keep busy and do things you enjoy t…
/r/seduction24/07/10 01:14 AM
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I agree. Dinner and movie is a horrible date idea. Try some creativity.
/r/seduction23/07/10 08:12 PM
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The "don't think of an elephant" thing is actually from the linguist, George Lakoff. It also is the standard example in ironic processing theory.
/r/seduction21/07/10 02:27 PM
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