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What was the significance of that end scene? Why the dramatic pause and music?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 04:32 AM
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This is something I had not considered but it stands to reason. Also raised religious but never married, I guess I never got to see it from the other side. Sadly, my trad understanding of Christianity made marriage look like a sour deal to me for quite some time. Now I regret being so scared of "messing up" and getting a divorce. Now I wish I had been less anxious in general, but alas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 03:36 AM
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I expected better salt from an edge lord reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 01:06 AM
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Eh, not sure I agree about women getting a free pass in Christianity. The men may have been burdened with leadership over families but women are expected (at least in trad churches) to be slaves. I was raised to believe that I am less than a man, and the women should never assume leadership roles. In addition, I was told that when I married I became my husband's servant and somewhat property and that I could never say no or assert my rights. It was all explained that because of Eve all women mus…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 09:07 PM
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Not gonna lie, my SO self-describes as Alpha and as cringe as that sounds he really does fit the bill. He never heard of the pillosphere and he does not agree with TRP when I told him about it (He was horrified when I told him about shit tests) but his natural dominance and protectiveness remind me of all the natural alphas ever described.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:56 PM
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Mirtazapine is technically a drug, sure, but how is it a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 04:51 PM
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Happiness is something I know a lot about since I have been on both sides of that coin. You know what makes people happiest? Getting what they want. I got what I wanted even if it took awhile, and there was no cock carousel or desperation. You say "more women will find themselves in their late 20's and 30's, still out there trying to lock down that ideal man," yes and so? I waited until I got the man I wanted. Why would I settle for someone I don't like? Would you rather I told you a tale of woe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:50 AM
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I'll own this one, and yes I take anti-anxiety meds. I have been on them since I was 24 and it has nothing to do with dating or sex. Many women have anxiety, even married housewives. When men try to use medication as proof that women are whores, it falls flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:42 AM
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Does the Naked Ape count? Of course it's really old so some of the ideas put forth are outdated. Like lifelong monogamy in the 50s being evidence that the pair bond is too strong for people to get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 03:21 PM
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What answer do you want to hear? That women are spiders sucking men dry? That women are thieves? Or that men trust their assets to their wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 06:35 PM
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Hidden assets are frowned on during divorce, and yes they are always revealed and they will be divvied up. Whoever did the hiding will look like a tool. As for the palimony and whatnot, that is fringe of the fringe. Not significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 06:03 PM
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Only if he wears it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:44 PM
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Oh dude, that would make me so embarrassed for him...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:18 PM
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Millionaires are not rare anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:03 PM
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I have seen Americans do exactly this: husband is lousy with money so he leaves all that hassle to the wife to figure out. She controls all their money and writes the checks and files the taxes. She earns some herself but all the bills are in her name.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:01 PM
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Oh, was I supposed to read the linked article?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:56 PM
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Don't be silly. In many cultures, such as Japan, the husband earns all the money and then hands it over to the wife for all household expenses. She spends his money, yes, who do you think buys all the toilet paper?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:48 PM
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You never had any gay friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:09 PM
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Yes. I have so much love for this hobby and no plans to ever stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:06 PM
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Well duh, being negative makes for negative outlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:13 AM
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This is very, very normal with young people. Not sure why the men here are missing this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 08:34 PM
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But I at least can avoid divorce by simply not getting legally married. That is precisely what I did too, but I would never have kids out of wedlock. Are you religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 07:33 PM
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OK OK, humor me here. You spend your Reddit time on MGTOW why? And you never want to marry but you have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 07:17 PM
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A MGTOW patriarch? Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 07:14 PM
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Judging by your profile on Reddit, this is not a big concern for you personally. Why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 06:11 PM
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Oh I just can't with this divorce thread and that MRA guy who won't shut up. Can we please go back to talking about cat ladies?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 05:39 PM
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Or don't marry anyone with debt?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 05:37 PM
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And this has all happened to you personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 03:22 PM
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Please stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 03:18 PM
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Revenge for what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:47 PM
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Here comes the eye roll....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 12:31 AM
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You apparently do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 12:00 AM
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Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 11:02 PM
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I am glad someone brought this up. If men and women were equally eager, there would be no mismatch- the imbalance is due to women being less interested and fine being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 05:02 PM
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Why oh why would anyone woman want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 04:36 PM
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Maybe in high school? Like I really wanted to go to prom and I dated a jock that was not my type just so I could have a date. But that is teenagers being dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 04:07 PM
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It's like you're a Mughul who drives a trade caravan thousands of miles north, north, north to Denmark and says "This is our most precious commodity: it is called ice." This is the best metaphor I have read in a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 04:01 PM
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Eh, my answers will be skewed by heavy religious affiliation. The conservative right-wing Christians I dated were not any better looking or more successful than the few liberals I dated, but they were less tolerant of my gay friends. I will just lay out my answer like this: Conservatives: more racism, more sexism, but generally dress better. Very hard rules about gender roles and my "place" and all of them wanted kids. They also were very opinionated about my friends and my hobbies and did not l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 04:19 AM
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But Roosh left Poland after deciding that the women were too easy and not trad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 01:23 AM
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Please go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 06:47 PM
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Ok who downvoted this and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:44 PM
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Clannish.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:43 PM
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Pffft no. He just needs to find a trad church in the Deep South.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:17 PM
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Catholics in Miami are not trad con.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:16 PM
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Oh man, Miami. I am so sorry. But even I managed to find a conservative presbyterian church there and it was not easy. Almost everyone was catholic or pentacostal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:14 PM
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OK, I will prove you wrong. I am paired up with a gorgeous tan immigrant myself, and I don't need no Beta Bux. Who is gonna support my lifestyle? Me. And yes Precious, I am a white woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 06:38 PM
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OK, then come over and observe me nibbling my boyfriend's ear. Weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 06:34 PM
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If you want to muddy the water more, you can absolutly leave someone while still loving them. YES. Why does this never get mentioned here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 06:31 PM
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So I guess this is a flipped version of AWALT to show that "all guns are presumed to be loaded" or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:55 PM
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Oddly enough, this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:51 PM
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Isn't this the book called The Rules? Oh wait, it's a copycat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:48 PM
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I remember that song....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:44 PM
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People seem to care a lot. I am one of the women who used to be a fan of Amy Schumer and now I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:42 PM
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Does anyone remember the MRP thread Fat Wife in Dubai? The dude admitted his wife was perfect and a great mom and all that except for her weight so he was not only cheating on her but planning to kidnap their kids and divorce her?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:20 PM
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Interesting question, since I know a guy or two in RL who have done this and are quite happy people. They have great friends and fun hobbies and work on cars and travel a lot and have all their own resources. They are truly living the dream. One is asexual and the other one is pretty much gay. They have no grudge against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:08 PM
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I have no idea if marriage is a shit deal because I have never married. Divorce and assets are not day to day life, like sharing a bed and fighting over the air conditioner or cleaning up the dishes after three days of ignoring them or driving to Rite Aid at 3 am for diarrhea medication because your spouse has food poisoning. I also don't know what's it's like to have a lifelong commitment where I cannot morally leave any time I want. But the upsides to marriage like someone who will take care o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:35 AM
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I have never in all my life had an LTR when I benefited financially or in any other pragmatic way. Never saw net profit in anything but love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:43 AM
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on this sub, where 80% of the women are literally just MGTOW's but with vaginas Because we live our lives as we see fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:39 AM
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When I nibble my boyfriend's ear I am not thinking about his stock options. Sexual attraction is primal and irrational, always has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:36 AM
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Still funny!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 02:30 AM
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Nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 11:50 PM
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Well come on wobble you could be lucky or smart too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 11:48 PM
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Who hates men? Is that what you thought women meant when they complain? Oh kiddo, gals just like to vent as much as you do...almost no one hates the opposite sex. But to your point about capitalism and society- I have yet to meet a gal who wants to marry a STEM Lord. All the women I know married normal, punch clock men. Even the ones who married down. Look outside, it's a beautiful day and people are pairing up just fine. Almost no women expect to be SAHM anymore so they are busting their asses …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 07:35 PM
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No offense. OK, I just get used to combat on this sub and it gets old. If you want me to Google it I will, but honestly who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:02 PM
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Ah, ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:00 PM
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It partly depends where you live. Some of us live in looks-obsessed Southern California and there is pressure to keep up with models, but if you visit the Deep South or Oregon you see a lot less effort put into appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:58 PM
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Except that the women who wanted to be single did exactly what they set out to do. Even Octomom in her latest interview owned up to being a happily celibate asexual who just wanted kids. And she did all that with frozen sperm. She met her goals despite what everyone else thought of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:52 PM
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Uh, when did I mention a wage gap? Single women live longer lives than married women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:43 PM
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Honest LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:31 PM
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I tamed an alpha. Well, ok- I did not TAME him but hell yeah I got im.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:25 PM
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Hey, you actually made sense and I am impressed with this comment. The ring of truth too- if more women dropped off the market by choice it would be bad for men, hence why men would shame women for being spinsters. I get it bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:22 PM
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Have to agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:19 PM
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Studies (not linking to any at the moment) show that single women are far happier than married women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:10 PM
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Do you know any happy people?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 04:10 PM
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Intelligence is my only real standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:51 PM
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No, you are right this time. Women do look forward to relaxing after the wedding and I saw plenty of this back in college even.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:50 PM
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But be honest, would you be a 4?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:42 PM
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Ok i am saying it. Not even just myself but good ol’ Manolo back in Barcelona proves my point. Short dudes can still slay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:35 PM
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Wrong. There are short chads and they get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:28 PM
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Did you bother reading the comments in this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:24 PM
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Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain, he isn't even debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 03:45 AM
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Happy clappy now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 03:27 AM
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Oh guy, I answered one OP who asked if she should still give her husband a BJ when he asked and she was not in the mood- I playfully suggested she just do it and hum a tune. No one there had a sense of humor and I was downvoted waaaaaayyyyy down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 03:11 AM
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You are all over the place. I asked a simple question "Do you see how for religious people marriage is still important?" and you went "BAH HUMBUG I HATE RELIGIOUS PEOPLE!!11!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 03:09 AM
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Oh, it's a balance. I get downvoted plenty of times on relationship subreddits for suggesting people NOT get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:40 AM
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So what is right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:35 AM
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How does that answer the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:34 AM
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But you can see how for religious people marriage is still important?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:08 AM
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Are you religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:03 AM
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Women are very ribald in their humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:02 AM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 01:51 AM
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See other responses here debunking these myths.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 01:41 AM
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Lol again!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:47 PM
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It’s weird to me that so many guys here don’t know this about religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:45 PM
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Desire is the root of all suffering according to Buddhism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:42 PM
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It's difficult to actually get past this thinking, but disengaging from these online communities and just interacting with the real world is all the advice i can give you. Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 04:37 PM
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You cannot change millions of years of biology Humans as a species have existed less than a million years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 04:36 PM
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OK, fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 04:34 PM
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Mazda 3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 04:18 PM
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It's true for some women, like myself and Lifter. If you have depression or anxiety the love and support of a strong man is everything, but if he takes advantage of your weakened state to treat you like trash...you want to kill him for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 04:08 PM
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I have no idea what MBTI he is since he never took the test. But in terms of personality, he is hyper masculine and stoic. Which is what I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:59 PM
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INTP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:55 PM
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First date. And no it was not just lust or infatuation, I knew the difference. It clouded my brain so heavily I could not think about much of anything else for several months, but it also made me anxious and scared. Anytime another person has that much power over you, it's a grave danger. But it also unlocked things in my brain that had never emerged before, such as wanting to have kids. That was a huge surprise. It also helped me finally feel like a part of humanity, since everyone else was in …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:53 PM
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So people Going Their Own Way because society is gynocentric cannot be "wrong". But by your logic, I could Go My Own Way even though I am a woman and still blame society for making this necessary. Or I could declare anything I wanted about "society" as justification for living in a cabin in the woods, ala Ted Kazcinski. Anyone can do this about any issue, religious or otherwise. Just slap a label on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:47 PM
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I mean, that's my entire life. It baffles me to see how alien this is to most Redditors, who clearly have rejected religion, but claim people like myself are a barely-visible minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:24 PM
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But the odds are much better if you marry a Christian girl especially middle class with married parents. Preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:17 PM
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No. But it would be really pointless so I would wonder at his sanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:06 AM
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Video taping her husband in secret?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:09 AM
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Exactly what Roosh says.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 08:24 PM
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Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 07:53 PM
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If you deny female nature you are blind, So you would rather be blind than admit I am right about it? It can be tempered and brought under significant self-control. As all of human nature. Overcome that inner primate. a strong disposition that is bound to make an impact one way or another. Yes, precisely! She can learn to be stronger than her loving and nurturing emotions that beg her to stay with an abusive man. She can overcome her submissive nature to hold her ground against attack. She can i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 06:29 PM
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And the type of person to abandon you over a medical condition is...?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 05:55 PM
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All valid points, but why do red pillers care? Why even bring it up? My hypothesis is that there are other reasons for them to oppose BC pills, and has nothing to do with empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 05:54 PM
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But what if you had to take medication for something like bipolar disorder or rheumatoid arthritis and it affected your moods? Would your partner have the right to order you to stop taking your meds?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 05:47 PM
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Your body, your choice. And i mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 05:41 PM
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Lol dude, it’s too early to troll. I just had my coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 05:31 PM
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I'm so blown away. I never really looked into Red Pill culture but, how much emotional pain must these guys be in in order to come to such degrading conclusions about women? Oh, this is so ... heartbreaking to look at... Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 05:25 PM
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Interesting. The only woman I know who is taking testosterone is FtM trans and even then was given severe warnings about cancer. Risky world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 05:19 PM
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I thought we were talking about steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 05:17 PM
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Testosterone is not prescribed to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 05:10 PM
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How long have you been here? Are all the questions going to give you the feels? Buddy, pal, chum, you need to learn logical debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 05:09 PM
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True but...what doctor is going to prescribe this?? When I had a friend taking Androgel all the warnings on the label for me as a female to get none of it on my hands because testosterone will cause an elevated cancer risk. They were super concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 05:08 PM
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OK, but if you read what I actually wrote "Why? I believe they hate it because some other reason like maybe they are trad con and hate what the pill has done to freedom." notice that I said "some other reason" and offered an example. I did not say The Greasy Pill is trad. I never said what the others reasons all had to be, I offered the example of Roosh being trad. I was not stepping out of line and assigning motivations to you or anyone but Roosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 04:59 PM
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Steroids? I would not demonize them, heck I had to take Prednisone for weeks to clear up bronchitis. Gave me a real boost of energy!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 04:54 PM
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You failed to answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 04:36 PM
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I am rolling my eyes that you used the cave metaphor here. Are you honestly suggesting that in order to disagree with Scientology I have to read all of L Ron Hubbard's books? How about wasting my time reading every book ever written by every cult on the planet? Sound useful? At what point do you draw the line?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 04:23 PM
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Let's try this experiment on for size: Me: Go read the entire Bible cover to cover. Everyone else: No. See how it's perfectly legit to say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 04:15 PM
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Uncanny valley.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 04:12 PM
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Ok but Roosh and his pals are absolutely trad con and the motivation i surmised is their bread and butter. So in the example i listed, i am spot on. You personally? No idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 04:03 PM
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See, every other month Roosh or some other red pill champ will post an article about how evil the pill is. Then i read the article and it turns out the red piller misrepresented it to make the pill evil. Then I google actual facts on the pill and behold, actual science says that my experience of no terrible side effects is the norm. Then i learn all the scientific everything and come out of it glad that i chose this pill. But wait a month and bam, another red piller trashing the pill. Why? I bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:57 PM
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Oh i know plenty what my natural state is like. Pain so bad i miss an entire day of work every month. Zits. Heavy flow. Blood everywhere. And how is this better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:46 PM
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Get your wife on testosterone? Um, you really want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:43 PM
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It’s like men have no experience with this and make shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:36 PM
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So why do red pill men often demonize the pill if it’s not so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:35 PM
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I am on the pill and have noticed no big change whatsoever. Men like to say it changes attraction but i am still wildly in love with the same man as before. The only change has been less anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:25 PM
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First off, i did not downvote you. Secondly, i do not care what a cult believes about a group of people they mischaracterize. So tah dah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:22 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:28 AM
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Ignore the words and look for the emotion/tone. Then ask why would someone feel that way? Except you could apply this to men answering stinging questions as well. You could apply this to anyone being asked "So how often do you punch your dog in the face?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:16 AM
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Can you hear my eyeballs rolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 10:48 PM
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He wants to know if we intend to branch swing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 10:36 PM
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I have seen that plenty of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 08:22 PM
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but I would rather die childless than have kids with a POS dude. Amen sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 08:21 PM
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I have seen the shift in more than one gal who never wanted kids ever, but then she falls in love with her dream man and suddenly she is picking baby names. The shift is due to attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 08:20 PM
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Truth. Some women never feel any maternal urges at all until they meet the right man, or he convinces her to want kids. It all varies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 08:19 PM
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So if I told you that female nature is to buy pretty pink things and light scented candles and to coo over puppies and decorate the house in lace would you believe me? If I told you that female nature is to throw herself into complete self-sacrifice even to the detriment of her own health in order to make her man happy would you believe that? Notice how these attributes differ from TRP. They are actual female nature that applies to most women yet they are positive so they are ignored. Even when …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 08:16 PM
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Uh, so BDSM subculture is life?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 08:11 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 07:53 PM
1

So like birds of prey? In that case we would mate like eagles do, where the male must keep up in a courtship flight and then grasp talons with us high above the earth to swirl and swirl and only then can the female ovulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 04:17 PM
5

Such bullshit that women never do anything for their male friends No kidding, I bailed one out of jail even. And trust me, I was NOT doing it to give him IOIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 03:06 PM
3

and I came back as INTP Welcome, fellow weirdo. Our club has drinks but no one will greet you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 03:03 PM
2

Smoogs is a suburband chad prep dating a rich chick but whatever That was nothing like I was picturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 03:30 AM
1

Yet men are expected to mow the lawn What lawn? Oh you mean the tiny patch of grass made of plastic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 03:11 AM
1

This is known, and has been the case since at least the 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 03:01 AM
3

What did you draw?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 02:30 AM
5

Lol I am laughing so hard right now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 05:24 PM
4

He gets my vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 05:16 PM
1

Maybe you are right, but i spent my whole life beating the odds and defying statistics so i am glad no one tried to school me on defeatism. I lived in defiance of averages because i am not average. Maybe other people struggle but I don’t let a challenge cow me. This is not ignorance but victory speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 04:44 PM
2

Agreed, what a bullshit excuse about having to flirt in a man’s world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 04:14 PM
2

Creatures?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 03:47 PM
1

I started asking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 03:46 PM
4

You could replace "red pill" with "UFO cult" or any extremist group and post about how you left it and what's next. I had friends who left actual cults and had to recalibrate after they left and it was hard to think like a normie again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 07:10 PM
1

There are two other gals here that i think are men, but not OP. Really angry radfems that post here are dudes playing a strawgirl.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 06:08 PM
2

I was previously unaware of how non-religious people thought about relationships and dating. It really did seem like my church friends represented the majority opinion and practice, but now I see how minor that experience is compared to a vast secular world. I honestly had no idea so many people were against marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:55 PM
-1

What gender are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:58 PM
1

You do not know Verticordia any better than the rest of us, and her baring her soul on Reddit is not a reflection of who she is in RL. You seem eager to pigeon hole this woman into a RP stereotype when she is openly pleading for mercy. She owns her shit. She admits she wants control. She is also quite young and will figure this all out her own way, and fuck statistics. She is not an average or a baseline she is herself. Neurotic? Sure. Most women will never admit to their fears like she has. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:15 PM
1

all you need to do is go auto-win with the incredible gifts god gave you. Uh, we don't actually know her in RL. Maybe she is a niche taste or maybe she is really into a niche type of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:07 PM
1

Heh heh, I like this comment :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:04 PM
1

To do what? Hide in the basement and play Fortnite?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:56 PM
1

oh. thanks, I did not realize that thread made her cry and now I feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:55 PM
1

Brave brave sir robin, sir robin ran away....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:52 PM
1

Wrong about what? What am I missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:45 PM
1

You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:43 PM
1

Your stance is self-serving and immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:42 PM
1

That would explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:05 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:04 PM
1

“Experts”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:02 PM
1

Pal, don’t you know any church chicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:00 PM
2

No one i know is having a tough time dating. You either want a boyfriend and get one, or you want to be single. Not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:53 PM
1

You underestimate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:49 PM
2

Virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:48 PM
1

Ok maybe you would summarize? I am not pro abortion so you may want to use a better example.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:48 PM
1

Buddy you do you. Be as immoral as you like, live that way you noble primate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:47 PM
1

Heh heh it was late :P
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:45 PM
1

There is no "your way," there is right and wrong. Cowardice is bad and the way you KNOW THAT is if someone tells you a story in which brave brave Sir Robin ran away and fled from action to save his own skin, m you think less of him. Now alternate the victim to be YOURSELF and play it out: someone could have defended you but they fled and failed to call 911. Do you think they were wise and wonderful?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:12 AM
1

Hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:09 AM
2

My belief is not hypocrisy or in group reasoning. An act is wrong or immoral regardless of in group thinking. No subjective morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:09 AM
3

Are you being serious here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:32 AM
2

You need to undestand that women are less moral than men, on average. I don't see this playing out in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:32 AM
2

I would defend the old man. Any questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:25 AM
3

To be a good person?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:25 AM
3

All the traits men look for in women ie softness, vulnerability, agreeableness and innocence will cripple you IRL. Solid truth here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:51 AM
1

So if you saw an old man being mugged in a parking lot you would just walk away?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:50 AM
2

Damn, that sucks...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:38 AM
3

Interesting point. And I have to agree, being raised in strict Christian tradition where you are informed that being female makes you less than a man- why even try being feminine? The logical choice would be to go tomboy and then transition into a full lesbian. I did not make the logical choice here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:29 AM
1

She sounds horrible, even as a friend. Did she have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:24 AM
1

It was during quite a while a zero sum game, and should have remained that way. Please extrapolate on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:19 AM
1

I was constantly asked which college I went to by strangers well into my thirties. No one could believe my actual age until I showed them ID.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 11:25 PM
1

Ferality In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 11:20 PM
1

I had a similar boyfriend at 19 who liked to chip away at me with cold insults and then watch me cry. I did leave him but not soon enough and my anger at myself for putting up with his abuse lasted longer than the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 10:52 PM
2

Right then and there I would be pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 10:34 PM
1

using "terms of endearment" that were basically just insults. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 10:26 PM
1

devout christianity (took me 2 tries to figure this one out) I have to ask why is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 10:22 PM
2

Nobody wants to suck dicks and watch somebody else go on gaming raids with their equally obtuse friends for the rest of their lives, that is just reality. This sort of visual imagery is why I keep coming back to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 10:18 PM
0

Are you female? Have you ever been in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 09:57 PM
2

There are females who find the cute nerd type hot or the surfer beach bod, etc. I have tried arguing this with the men here, that women have types they find cute and it's not all Chad. Like talking to a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 03:43 PM
0

What my friends think? No woman actually stops dating a man she loves because of other people’s opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 03:20 PM
2

Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 02:56 PM
3

but it's pretty clear that women are the only ones who can end it. By doing what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 02:55 PM
3

or that men not wanting to sex too soon is a sign of "bad character." Uh, please clarify?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 02:54 PM
3

I have never hidden my preference for devastatingly sexy men. Of course I choose them based on looks, and a few other things. But mostly looks. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 11:03 PM
3

I think the RP focuses far too much on the negative personality types, because they are not exposed to the good ones. Plus a lot of RP men had narcissistic mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 07:43 PM
1

A deep smoky voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 06:18 PM
1

Since I am not rude I do not pry into their financial affairs, but they tell me how much their husbands make and it's just life. Maybe in your part of the world things are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 06:16 PM
2

Then why do I see so many women married to low-earning men? If women are just whirlpools that suck up money, why would she fall in love with a peasant?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 05:50 PM
6

Get out of your own head and look around. People everywhere love in actual love terms. This black cloud hanging over you is your own brain chemicals screwing up your perception, not reality. Once you are past all this depression you will look back and wonder why you ever thought this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 05:35 PM
1

I have a few answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 05:33 PM
2

So THAT is why I got beat up...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 05:31 PM
1

Farm...land? Oh! You mean where they grow opium!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 05:29 PM
3

Lazy trust fund brats, no thanks. Driven intense self-made man living in a shotgun shack? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 04:33 PM
1

So, the meth park out in the desert? Houses go for $500 a month, a steal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 04:32 PM
1

Where would you suggest?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 04:06 PM
0

A man who spends a lot of time reading articles like...this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 04:03 PM
2

some "man strike" where dudes do not approach as if some reverse Lysistrata is ever going to work. Now I am picturing this and it would look like I can walk down the street without being hassled.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 05:42 PM
5

Like most women, I blame myself for my mistakes both real and perceived. Women even take on blame for dumb things like their friends' mistakes. And of course, if the boyfriend or husband is unhappy she will blame herself for that too. It's expected. But taking the blame for a bunch of strangers? Uh, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 04:58 PM
2

OK, you are not a chick so it may be hard for you to appreciate how ugly this man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 01:37 AM
2

How would that change his face like a boot?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 01:33 AM
3

It literally would have, because many more women would have been genuinely attracted to him, No they would not. He is pug ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 01:24 AM
1

I could date a man like this as long as i could have all the fun outings with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 12:51 AM
1

You sound like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 12:46 AM
3

I once thought telling a guy friend nonchalantly about crush I had on someone else would help him get the hint. Yeah, I tried this too. I made it super obvious but he uh, did not take the hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 04:19 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 08:40 PM
2

Hmmmm....let me get back to you on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 08:39 PM
2

My quibble with your comment was that you were trying to explain how women's insecurity works. As if you could understand the female experience even though you never lived it. See- I never pretend to understand what its like inside a man's mind and you could school me on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 07:49 PM
6

And yes, being confident makes you a target. People want to take you down a peg. This! "What makes you think you are all that?" Followed by list of her imperfections.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 07:03 PM
3

You know that "identity" you show in public is not real. The one that gets complimented, the one that gets approached. What would that guy say if he saw you without the make up? Questions like this begin to creep in her head and make her doubt her own beauty and she becomes reliant upon the make up. I read this and cannot believe you are female. Women know what they look like with or without makeup, have you never been to a swimming pool? Have you never never seen women at a water park? They kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 07:02 PM
1

No, you need to understand how women are blinded by love. They become enamored of a man and he becomes the most beautiful site in all her world. It is based on character, as in heroic personality. Not status.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 06:51 PM
10

Moms can be the harshest critic of their daughters appearance Yes. Very much yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 06:28 PM
1

Precisely why the women here will tell you they do not approach. Because what you just said is how normal men would react to being asked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 06:22 PM
1

Well, at the risk of revealing too much personal info and sounding like mess, it hurt my feelings a lot when my best friends ran me down and told me I was nothing special. I internalized a lot of it until my boyfriend asked to see a photo of these women and I showed it to him. He instantly spat "It all makes sense now!" and told me they were putting me down because they themselves were unattractive. Looking back, he was right. One of them had even admitted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:48 PM
1

I ran this experiment myself years ago you see. Most men do not like being approached and asked out unless they are passive by nature. Passive men do not make great partners. Once I figured this out I stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:45 PM
1

Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:42 PM
2

I can conceded that. Just explaining the female social matrix and how nasty it can get, not that I approve.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:41 PM
1

mmmmmm, not always. I know some gals who are easily 9/10 and married to VERY ugly men. No one understands it like the woman in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:38 PM
7

Men like to "break balls" with each other for fun but women are trying to undermine the other gal's confidence so that she will stay in her place. I am not saying this is a wonderful trait, oh no. I had a couple friendships like this and it hurt a great deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:37 PM
13

when i was at the height of my attractivenes to men i spent hours crying in the mirror over my intrasexual beauty marker flaws. Truth. And I did the same thing. My female friends loved pointing out my figure flaws so I fixated on those comments instead of reveling in whatever male attention. Edit spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:34 PM
12

Also, men really don’t appreciate how openly a woman’s appearance is discussed in everyday conversation. Good or bad. My own grandmother was a mean girl talking about "fat stumpy legs" on her daughter in law.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:32 PM
1

I often see people thinking a woman is dating someone out of her league but she believes him to be the best. Love is blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:29 PM
6

Eh, it's done in a way with plausible deniability so that the called out "You were mean to me!" the other girl can claim she was just kidding around. Until it goes too far and the mean girl admits that she was jealous and that is why she made those cutting remarks. Then the two of them cry over it and make up. Until the next time, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:24 PM
1

It would be interesting to see the results if all women started behaving this way, being masculine, approaching and picking up on men. After a couple weeks of novelty, men would complain that they want something more traditional and reserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:21 PM
2

I can picture him yelling this comment at his 13 year old son.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:18 PM
1

No, this predates that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:14 PM
3

He is terminally in a bad mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:13 PM
5

So they must do what you say in person and their online persona is uber-female friendly. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:00 PM
2

Intersexual & intersexual competition is fierce for both men and women; women especially may feel the need to put others looks down to make themselves appear more desirable. Agreed, but you misspelled intrasexual. Edit, weird, it happened to me too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 04:59 PM
1

Are you female? Let me explain how mean girls can be when not performing for YouTube. The viciousness of the female social matrix is there to keep low-ranking girls down and stay down, while bolstering their own high rank with others like themselves. But even with friends there is a competitive barb born of jealousy. She gets asked out all the time because she is prettier? Best to run her down in a playful manner. Remind her that she ain't hot shit. If your friend is already ugly you will do the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 04:55 PM
2

"The point is, perhaps it's that when women espouse these entitled opinions that men owe them a "first move", no other women call them out on it? Why is that?" Because no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 04:51 PM
7

Women are trained to not be "vain" from an early age. Fashion magazines regularly remind them that they are never pretty enough, and it is ground in by their female friends all the time who playfully run down each other's appearance to keep it "real" and most insidiously, to keep her beneath herself. It is a massive ego-killing competition that never ends, and no one ever agreed to join. But here we are. Nonstop judgments by everyone we meet, thankfully most of it is silent. Of course women have…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 04:48 PM
1

Two stepping, ah what memories. Most of them awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 04:45 PM
1

I been depressed recently so this has lifted my mood How so? Those are not uppers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 04:42 PM
1

Yeah, and her family would give her a lot of crap for marrying that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 02:33 AM
1

But her standards are not just for good personality and cute face but income. In her list of must-haves she is insisting on a certain wage and there are practical reasons for her to want this. If she is a 6/10 as she claims she might be able to get that guy, or maybe not. This is the exact opposite of how I look for a mate, but she in allowed to have preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 02:32 AM
1

Best comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 02:23 AM
1

Near Barrington?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 10:06 PM
1

There are many possible answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 02:47 PM
3

Exactly. She needs advice from people who do NOT want to smash the female imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 02:35 AM
1

Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 01:45 AM
5

The is a second wave when everyone gets divorced so the well is never dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 09:03 PM
1

Traveling? Doesn't everybody do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 05:41 PM
3

It depends what sort of relationship you have or want. Plenty of married couples in the older generations just flat out lied or hid things, but nowadays everyone wants bare faced honesty. Since I have no respect for liars I could never be with one, but that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 05:24 PM
3

What are these tells? In the past TRP listed things like tattoos and smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 05:22 PM
1

??? New phone, who dis?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 05:04 PM
8

openly signal your sexual assets TIL that having a butt is sexual signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 04:56 PM
1

when in fact they differ in all aspects of humanity. All aspects? Like I need to point out how silly this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 04:52 PM
3

If he is cut like a 19 year old Marine, yes. Or maybe a heroin addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 04:18 AM
15

Don't dress like a 12 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 03:06 PM
1

Wrong religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 12:55 AM
1

Aha, so here it is then- No strategy will help you on slot machines. Or roulette. It's like Bingo cards- nothing to do but see if you won. Mating for humans is not like that at all, there is a LOT you can do to improve your odds and some people are just genetically dealt a better hand. More like Poker. So if someone keeps on winning the big stakes games, maybe they have a reason to brag about their winnings because the house certainly did not win. (I actually know a guy who did this) Life is mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 12:50 AM
1

That is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 11:45 PM
1

Who cares? Just live your life as you see fit. So what if other people age badly or not? What practical difference does that make to you? Know in your heart of heart that you did what is best for YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 10:56 PM
2

But see, you are the one trying to convince the lurkers of a thing. What changes do you hope to see in people? Marrying young?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 10:51 PM
1

What kind of video game?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 07:55 PM
2

Eh, YMMV. Some gals have no problem in later years...and as the OP stated, it is about perceived age more than actual age. So if she looks young and fit she will do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 05:32 PM
1

20 years of observation. Are you twenty years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 04:08 PM
1

You should not make assumptions about another person's private life, that is my point. Your comments to Le Factory Babe were that she would become abusive to her man, after giving him the ol' dead bedroom of course. It was unfair and bad logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 03:30 PM
1

Uh...you are spending all your time on the Dead Bedrooms subreddit so you think all relationships follow the same trajectory. This more than anything else is confirmation that you need to spend less time on Reddit and more time being happy. Or else you will follow the baseline trajectory of all sad lonely people and end up shooting up your place of work. See the flaw in your logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 03:22 PM
1

But why would you assign this to HER specific relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 03:10 PM
2

I think what you are seeing is the Wall being presented as "women over 33 are washed up hags who will never get love" instead of this science graph. When BP reacts to the Wall they are reacting to the revenge fantasy of women being forced into degrading circumstances due to age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 02:55 PM
1

So she becomes abusive? Le Factory Babe?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 02:41 PM
2

And it is sincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 04:59 AM
4

don't get tired of him and become abusive I am wondering why you would type this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 03:00 AM
2

I can think of a few things l
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 02:44 AM
4

Victims gonna be victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 12:17 AM
5

No, she made perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 12:14 AM
3

It also offends me as an artist because the joke is not played correctly in the second panel. Her expression should be tired, and her voice should be low and whispered. The joke does not work because her expression and voice are exaggerated. Annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 07:45 PM
2

That happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 06:20 PM
2

But you do realize that in this unlikely scenario YOU are being insulted too. Re-assert dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 06:19 PM
3

I am picturing Joe Pesci in Casino.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 06:18 PM
1

Uh, do you and your wife actually like each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 06:16 PM
2

Stop it, we all saw your RL photo and you are an 8 at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 04:20 PM
4

I actually just Google searched Duke haircuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 04:12 PM
3

I am just glad that GiveMeAFutaPrincess is gone from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 04:12 PM
0

Blue Pill would say she has bad taste in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 04:09 PM
1

Take your hatred of men somewhere else or at least make the effort to try to discuss on an adult level. Hatred of what now? I suggested you find someone to make you happy and that is hate to you? Or are you replying to the wrong person?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 04:08 PM
1

88 is alt right for Heil Hitler. I thought you guys were being ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 04:03 PM
1

Dude, we are talking about people who do the sexual harassment. They are not the good people we date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 04:01 PM
3

And in doing so proved that most of them were hotties.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 05:25 AM
1

They all seem to think they're missing out. Literally everyone on earth is missing out on something. I am missing out on living in the Southern Hemisphere. You are missing out on having a period every month. No one can have it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 05:23 AM
1

My goal is to have children and be a good father and I have to do certain things to get there whether I like it or not. Like find someone you genuinely enjoy? Spend quality time together and make each other exquisitely happy? Sounds rough man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 05:17 AM
1

it's a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 05:10 AM
1

great discussion, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:54 AM
2

It's weird that anyone would want to expire the entire concept of marriage, because in one generation it would Boing! right back into place. People want marriage, that 's why it exists. If humans wanted to be a giant swingers club we would have made the happen and stuck with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:31 AM
1

No, you have to imagine 2s and 3s harassing you and making tongue gestures when you walk by.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:25 AM
3

Made up? Are you a female human or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:20 AM
3

Yes, but it all depends on how you were raised and the cut of your jib. Some gals like being dominated, some like ruling the roost. In most relationships someone has more power but it's not like Red Pill dread game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 02:51 AM
1

If you look like Billy Zane you would never get on the internet due to extreme popularity in RL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 02:40 AM
1

Speaking as a woman who landed a Chad, what makes you think Chad is bad? When you dudes online talk about Chad you want him to be a felon with neck tattoos and a wife better shirt who wipes the engine grease off onto her nice new drapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 02:37 AM
4

Exactly, manipulation is a negative tactic. No one never proudly declares "My boyfriend manipulated me into sleeping with him!" with a broad smile and expect her gal pals to congratulate her on landing such a weasel. Likewise no dude would ever brag with a wolfish grin about how his wife conned him into marriage by pretending to be in love. Its obviously bad when in happens to YOU so how can it be mortally OK to do it to someone else? Golden Rule
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 02:32 AM
1

All excellent points.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 02:27 AM
3

At least his user name checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 01:56 AM
21

No. Sorry but that is not why....women learn the hard way that chasing boys makes the boys run away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:24 PM
1

Sounds like he is religious and therefore I would not mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 05:53 PM
1

Apparently i look kinda like Amanda Knox.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 03:56 PM
1

They see you are female, they assign flaws to you. Just pretend they are children.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 03:33 AM
3

You would certainly think so. The way they talk about women, the best gal would clearly be a 9 who thinks she is a washed up hag.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 03:30 AM
1

Well....that was me in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 03:28 AM
1

I knew an angry incel in RL and this is absolutely true. I did try to give him advice, which was a mistake. Nothing was ever his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 04:17 PM
3

Well a journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 04:02 PM
3

Men want nice girls. But not nice girls who are 4s or 3s, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 04:01 PM
3

Online dating is your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 03:22 PM
1

Ask the supermarket.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 04:01 AM
1

heh heh heh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 04:01 AM
1

Disagree, just ate fish tacos for dinner. Fish tacos. What would that metaphor be?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 03:51 AM
7

Never in my life had a ONS and never would. The very name implies a one night performance and that just sounds germy and embarrassing. So clearly a small percentage of women are having these, and I asked my friends who did. Their answers: it was just sex. Nothing more. The next day the guy tried to claim she was his girlfriend and she had to let him down. Point being, the type of gals who have ONS are not trying for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 03:50 AM
13

Not sure why anyone would ask this, but I can respond with- No Girl Thinks About This. Women have their own problems, ones that include shyness and rejection so I am not sure why you think we are all "Tee hee, my day is filled with presents and cake!" Honestly dude, you are sounding more depressed every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 03:43 AM
6

makign the first move for a woman just gets you a passive fucked up undesirable man Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 03:37 AM
1

Playing the more passive role and letting them come to me had infinitely better results. Amen sister. I learned this one early on- if you have a pursue him, it won't last.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 03:35 AM
4

TGP tried to tell me the other day that this is some kind of female social signalling thing, but he couldn't be more wrong. It's like a deep innate nesting feeling where having a clean, attractive home to live in just feels good. YES. Many times yes. And to add on, there is a hard-wired compulsion to tidy up in most women- like popping bubble wrap it feels satisfying and warm. You get emotional fulfillment from having a Before and After image in your head. Like on Hoarders.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 03:32 AM
3

Yes a messy house makes me feel gross. I want to compulsively wipe and straighten and de-clutter when I am in that environment no matter if I am appreciated for it or not. It's like that episode of King of the Hill where Kahn's mom (who is a retired maid) takes such joy in cleaning Bill's house because it will take weeks to do it. I. Must. Clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 03:27 AM
3

I am religious and not mad at this. People are complicated machines, and what works for one couple will not work for You but hey, it’s still wise to make your boyfriend wait a few dates before sex. How else will she avoid players?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 09:58 PM
2

The purple shampoo is to prevent my dyed blonde hair from turning brassy yellow over time. I assume it works since i look like a natural blonde now. Or maybe they sold me magic beans, I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 06:04 PM
2

(hugs)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:35 PM
7

Muscular is not a bad thing. Still muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:34 PM
4

I am picturing this in my head. She looks muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:21 PM
1

Balayage I had to look this up. Wonder if that would work on me...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:19 PM
1

So what is a good BMI in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:16 PM
3

ohhh....make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:15 PM
7

I never use a dumb scale of 1 to 10. I rate people on how my brain interprets their faces, just like you and everyone else. What I find attractive is dark and exotic and that is my preference but someone else might like the White Witch of Narnia.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:13 PM
3

Dry brushing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:09 PM
6

Not to mention I have to commit four hours of my life to a salon chair. How long does your friend take?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:08 PM
2

And if you get it done cheaply it looks like you colored your hair with Crayola crayons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:07 PM
8

See, I learned that lesson later than I should. My hair was super long and thick and looking back, it was Pentacostal hair. I started getting layers and oh yes, much sexier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:06 PM
25

I pay way more than any human should pay at the hair salon. Not only for the blonde hair but for the "product" like purple shampoo and purple conditioner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 04:56 PM
1

You are misusing the word unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 04:35 PM
3

Because you are "just a tribute". I cannot picture you as Jennifer Lawrence or any other main character.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:44 PM
2

One of the background characters in peasant rags maybe. Possibly dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:38 PM
3

I picture you as a tribute from Hunger Games.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:27 PM
6

"I've found in my life that the worst trait a girl can have is to be introverted." I thought you said the worst trait was having a BMI over 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 04:35 PM
7

I knew a guy like this, and it was a huge chip on his shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 02:50 AM
1

Ignatius Reilly gives me hope for all the eccentrics of the modern world, and that he is the hero of the story and New Orleans made a bronze statue of him is proof that misfits make the world better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 07:05 PM
2

She is not average.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 06:28 PM
1

damn...that is a whole 'nuther level of mental disconnect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 04:47 PM
1

Sad sad sad he killed himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 04:46 PM
1

This makes perfect sense l
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:58 AM
3

I am mad just reading this!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 11:36 PM
4

This is terrible! What happened to set all this into motion?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:47 PM
3

These guys live in an alternate universe. I think it is called Gor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 03:40 AM
2

what.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 03:09 AM
1

Weirdly enough, my boyfriend does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 02:31 AM
3

I remember telling a girl who's literally never worked a day in her life about the harassment that made me quit a restaurant job, and she was shocked Yes, it really is people being this ignorant. Before I came to the Manosphere I did not know anyone who held such bizarre opinions about women, and the time I have been on PPD it has gotten worse. I do wonder if these are men who stay indoors all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 02:28 AM
1

Baby boomers, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 02:12 AM
1

Oh wise one who saw the first Star Wars movie in the theatres back in the seventies and knows what he is talking about so thoroughly, enlighten us mortals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 09:06 PM
2

People can learn me infinitely, That is all you need know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:43 PM
1

And i believe i know more about early Star Wars fans and who they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 05:01 PM
1

I can guarantee that I was a Star Wars fan before you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 04:29 PM
1

I will change your view, but only in a nitpicking way. I know a lot of nerd girls and trust me, they do NOT go to salons. They put very little effort into appearance and they wear their hair as God lets it grow. Clothing is jeans and t-shirts. They do not wax. Yet...all of them are married or coupled up. The only ones who are single identify as asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 03:53 PM
2

Edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 03:52 PM
2

Um, wrong about Star Wars fans. So very wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 03:49 PM
2

Oh hi there Sparky!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 02:13 AM
3

I think that women are more favored/protected is because subconsciously women are seen as the weaker sex and so there’s some sort of instinctive need to defend them. What I’m trying to say is it’s sadly biologically more than anything else and the only way to break this pattern would be to condition people starting from a young age. No offense, but you sound pretty young and inexperienced if you think women are coddled in the working world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:29 AM
4

It's like the incels are running the asylum... (Autocorrect keeps changing the word to "incense" btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:16 AM
1

The way it works is: not many old men and lots of old ladies. Men die off sooner. The few men who are still randy then have their pick of the old gals (hope for the lonely here) and pair off quickly with whatever dame is interested. Most old ladies have zero desire for sex so the few that do? Get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:01 AM
1

I worked at a nursing home and yes, there was sex between the residents. A lot more than you would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:51 AM
1

That’s a fact I can verify
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 08:25 PM
1

I am scared of talk shows, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 08:08 PM
1

Troll. Bad faith. Leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 05:06 PM
7

Ok so you are a troll. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 05:05 PM
1

Dude, nice fiction blogging. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 05:03 PM
11

Excuse me? I am at church once a week and know plenty like myself, but thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 05:01 PM
6

I will change your view. A virgin marrying a virgin will be equally inexperienced, and on a level playing field. The gal is probably religious and conservative and will not branch swing. Together they form a team and raise kids and this is what our grandparents did and their expectations were very different. No one can compare sexual thrills with no other frame of reference and no one can divorce. If a man is a 5 and a virgin he can definitely snag a 5 virgin as well. You meet at church where th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:43 PM
1

It's the only way to cull women's privilege in life OK cull my privilege. Take away what you perceive to be unfair, what is it? Name my privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:38 PM
1

Pal. Buddy. Chum. No one can force me to watch some inane talk show where women sit around a fake desk with fake coffee mugs and yammer about nothing. The real question here is Why Are YOU Watching This.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:35 PM
5

I am a stunning conversationalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:00 PM
1

Did you seriously expect me to watch The Talk? Just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:40 PM
4

It means I bring my best and do not get lazy. If my partner takes me for granted or mistreats me even under those circumstances, I am out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:39 PM
5

No. If I like someone I bring my A Game and if they drop the ball that's on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:27 PM
1

Lucky for you that women have such low testosterone that it's only words they use. And again, since you dudes are missing the point, it's Just The Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:20 PM
1

True facts. If we were all logical and Spock we would never bother with the dating game at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:42 AM
3

As someone who has always been the initiator of breakups, I always made sure I was Done. I had to reach a level or disgust or eye-rolling annoyance that finally outweighed all the good in the relationship, and there is a switch in many women's brains that flips when her man has disappointed her too many times. That switch ends any warm loving feelings and once off, it cannot be flipped back on...so you are Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:40 AM
5

Or been in the sun like every waking minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:04 AM
9

The men here are looking for forever girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 10:35 PM
1

So there are two explanations as to why, can you guess what they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 10:32 PM
1

Lord on this sub it’s hard to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 10:26 PM
1

In my day the red pills were all uppers. These people are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 10:25 PM
1

You are seriously comparing The Red Pill - a specific subcommunity dedicated to sexism - to TwoXChromosomes - a general community for women? To be fair, I only hang out in a few subreddits and the Woman subreddits are not terribly interesting to me. I know all about women and I have been one my entire life. I hang out on subreddits where men pipe up so that I can learn about men. Clearly I have no brothers to enlighten me. So no, to answer your question: I am not comparing the two since I never …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 06:42 PM
1

You are twenty years old. The world is just opening up to you and you will have countless adventures and heartaches and you will laugh until you cry and you will meet lots of men. Lots. In fact a thirty year old man who has been there, done that, has nothing in common with you and you would get SO bored with him. Hang out with people your own age and have fun with life. This is not the time to worry about one guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 05:22 PM
5

What? Have you been on all these man-hating sites but never seen the woman-hate over across the tracks? When I first discovered the Red Pill my jaw literally dropped at how hateful it was towards women. Over and over the contempt was repeated by countless men under safe anonymous handles. It was truly astonishing just how these men really felt about my gender, and if I had actually believed that was how ALL men felt? I would hide from society forever. Seriously. But that's just whiners being whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 05:17 PM
1

Of course she has had 1-night stands, Let's extend this logic. Of course she has one might stands! Two days a month even, because biology. Why deny this? So your female relatives and your teachers and your girlfriend and the woman at the bank and all those nuns are just waiting until they ovulate that month to hit the sex club.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 05:11 PM
1

But what you're describing here isn't actual trust. It's something else. You wouldn't trust these random beautiful people with your child or with your deepest secrets or with your valuables. I am impressed with how astute this observation is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 05:08 PM
1

Of course no one will admit to it if they did not do it. That is like claiming that most women have run over cats and dogs while driving- but they will never admit to it!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 05:06 PM
7

Maybe ...people vent on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 04:57 PM
1

Some examples from my friends: Alcoholism Gambling the bank dry Spending all the paycheck on strip clubs Verbal abuse Forced sex Landed in jail again Crashed the car Mental illness you get the idea. sometimes she has had enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 04:55 PM
1

Next think you know you have a crazy stalker Thank you for saying this. Logical unemotional men, so different from us chicks with our crazy feeeeelings, right? Yet I had a stalker who would Not Go Away...where is the logic there? If stoicism helps men stuff those stalker-feelings down I am all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 04:17 PM
8

Your evidence that women hate men is a bunch of subreddits? You do realize that there is a Dog Hating subreddit too? So all humans must hate dogs?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 04:13 PM
1

Yeah, I am trying to picture this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 04:01 PM
4

So edgy!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 03:53 PM
3

That's why I break up with women when everything is going fine, Uh....ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 03:49 PM
11

Exactly, some women have just plain Had Enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 03:11 PM
7

If I liked someone enough I can't imagine not going for it because of "timing." Agreed. No one ever skips out on life because they have to work on themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 04:57 AM
4

You honestly think only Chad has unplanned babies??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 12:49 AM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 12:49 AM
2

Erk, that was painful to read...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 12:44 AM
2

Wait, who was this???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 09:11 PM
3

A friend of mine went through a really nasty divorce to a bad man, and after that her best friend went through a similar divorce to a guy who did her wrong, and together they decided that they hated men. Men were all pigs to her after the divorce. It is emotional self-defense and it passed in a couple years, now she loves men again and is remarried to a better guy. It is perfectly normal to form "hatred" after being hurt, but don't make a life of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 04:33 PM
3

What do you mean by justified? Prisoners of War will hate anyone who looks like their captors for years after the war ends. Maybe forever. Some soldiers coming home from The Pacific Theatre in WW2 would spit on Japanese people they saw innocently walking around. Even though I am against racism, I can see why a POW would do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 04:24 PM
2

In all my life, they guys that got called "creep" earned it. Maybe things are different in You-ville.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 05:29 AM
3

You do realize that if a gorgeous Thor lookalike is at the kid park drooling after children he still looks just as creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 03:18 AM
1

You know that people are not rational, right? We pick partners based on emotion and some men are turned on by tough women who take no crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 02:49 AM
6

That just sounds like narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 08:41 PM
1

I know that feeling. My parents are 70 and they are way past the point where people can change.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 08:10 PM
5

No kidding, look how they tear into any gal who replies honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 07:48 PM
2

Yup. I remember seeing this dynamic play out in shocking ways. Not something I discuss often because the people are now dead, but I knew some marriages like you describe and it was horrifying how beaten down the husband became. I could not forget that. One guy had to sleep in his car to get away from his screaming wife- just picture that. I know we get accused of being "Team Woman" here on PPD but I am actually aligned against jerks of any stripe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 07:32 PM
2

It was the ice age that killed everything. There is a curious theory in science that we never left the ice ages. Having snow in the winter and polar ice caps year round was not a thing when dinosaurs roamed, yet we now accept it as normal since we ourselves are products of the ice ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:59 PM
2

Definitely not the majority. But look around in your own life and you will see these couples: brash, loud wives with meek submissive husbands. It's not my thing at all but people like what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:56 PM
2

This was considered so horrible for a woman, that her family changed her birthday. Just...wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:27 PM
1

How much time? I have to be at work soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 05:01 PM
3

No, the part about defending your man and pretending to other people that he is awesome. Very common. As for rewriting history, that knows no gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 05:01 PM
1

Eh, I am not seeing it. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 04:49 PM
2

OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 04:38 PM
11

Men are not going to like this, but there is a type for the strong ball-breaking women out there. I personally know a couple guys who prefer domineering women and I assume they learned this from mom, but it's not something they can change about themselves. They WANT a bossy bitch. One of them was very upfront about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 04:25 PM
6

This is pretty common in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 04:15 PM
4

Except its not Chad most of the time, is it? Just some average guy like you, nothing special at all. Her friends have no idea what she sees in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 04:11 PM
1

Oh this phentermine i know well. It made me thirsty and sleepless and anxious and of course my heart was going like a rabbit. Never recommend jt. But i can totally understand girls wanting to kill their appetite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 04:08 PM
1

Ok that makes more sense, but i still see this as a human issue rather than a gender problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 04:05 PM
1

Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 04:01 PM
8

I don't know what's in the water in Brazil that women there have no remorse or responsibility, according to your comment. All the women I know had to clean up major messes when they got divorced and you wanna talk responsibility? They paid and paid for their mistakes. Went into debt, you name it. This trope about only men being left high and dry has got to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:32 AM
3

Fact is, you are being very rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:27 AM
4

No, I have never said it to anyone. I say "Buddy" and "Pal" a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 02:43 AM
8

Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 02:35 AM
1

That guy self owns on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 02:32 AM
1

heh heh heh upvote!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 10:37 PM
2

I can believe that. People need to be honest with themselves and what they can snare. But play along for a minute here: what if there was an island where men were all 400 pounds and the women had to choose among that lot? Are they choosing average men? For that place, yes, but by any other metric no. All they would need to do is leave for the mainland to see better looking men, right? But what if ALL men even on the mainland grew to 400 pounds? Are we supposed to recalibrate? Can we just admit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 07:07 PM
1

Online dating, yes. Not IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 06:44 PM
1

But be honest and picture the people at the very bottom. Yeah. Some might be improved with a makeover or a fitness routine or teeth, but some are just nice lovable Quasimodo who ends up alone, no surprise. Most incels look average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 06:33 PM
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Then we vote with our feet and go elsewhere, why is this hard? If I see nothing but ugly men on a dating site, I either pick a different dating site or I meet men somewhere else. Not all shops are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 06:29 PM
1

all willy nilly. You missed an opportunity to make this your reddit name.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:59 PM
1

Mmmmmmaybe....or maybe she has already snagged a new boyfriend and they are serious. See, it's not just about forgiveness is it? He has a very limited time window to snatch her up before another dude does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:56 PM
1

But are you happy like this? Again, not trying to make a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:39 PM
1

Hearing about this is just sad. Roosh gives advice but uh, how is he in a position to do that? Sad men leading sadder men, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:38 PM
1

OK, assuming Good Faith and everything being said here is true...this is a man in pain. He was carrying a torch for this woman for years and now he permanently blew his chances with her. She was his Dream Girl and now he has to live with the fact HE scared her off forever. That SUCKS. He will try to overcompensate for that heartache with other women but it won't work. Eventually he will piss off any gal he dates because its obvious. No one wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:36 PM
3

He is a married dude with a girl account name.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:33 PM
1

Hurupu, why is that? Not trying to be snarky, but why don't you have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:31 PM
1

If she had asked r/Relationship_Advice instead, would they say different?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:25 PM
2

And as women are the buyers, they can choose to shop somewhere else with better products.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:48 PM
5

My sister and I went through the site together and nearly all the men on Match looked like booking photos from the county jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:47 PM
4

YES. His voice along can change the rating. Men never understand this when we say it, but her perception of him is entirely based on his character. If he is the neighborhood pervert and everyone keeps their kids away from him, it will not matter if he looks like George Clooney- she will think "Ugh, that creep!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:46 PM
1

Sure, and his new girlfriend will get to hear all about the One Who Got Away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:42 PM
2

Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:41 PM
1

That’s their problem. I am being realistic when i say online dating does not reflect what i see at church or work or the mall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:35 PM
2

Weirdly i had no problem getting the most attractive man on Match. We are still together. And yes, he was in the top ten percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:33 PM
4

Yes, absolutely. Online dating is not representational.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:28 PM
2

Wrong. Have yourself go on Match as a woman and you will see the men there. It looks like a prison lineup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:27 PM
1

Nope, that's not it. When I did online dating the vast sweeping majority of men available were Unattractive. I am not being picky, just real. My friends warned me it would be this way and emphasized that online dating is like picking through the sales bin. It has nothing to do with women at all. Men on dating sites are mostly homely. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 03:16 AM
4

And if I hang out in an abattoir I see dead animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 10:55 PM
3

As a fellow INTP I am disappointed in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 10:54 PM
1

Well buddy I have never heard 70 percent. How many marriages benefit the individuals? No idea, never married. But yet...what is this magic? I am still in a Long Term Relationship! And we are quite happy :) I am telling you there is hope. I am telling you that one day you will look back on this phase of your life and be very thankful you did not give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 07:40 PM
2

Um, why though? I could google one right now, but why? It would be easy and say the same thing I am saying right here. Most people are happy. Most people are in relationships. It's not Ecstacy and it's not ten superbowls but it's better than solitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 07:32 PM
3

You want a study? A Confirmed Source that proves most people are not standing on a chair in the basement with a rope tied to the rafters? It's like asking for Proof that the sun shines. The only people who are drowning in self-defeating intrusive thoughts like nihilism are people who do not socialize enough. Once you open up and ask real people what their lives are like, you will learn amazing things that they survived and how they overcame.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 07:24 PM
1

Is anyone else reminded of the SNL sketch about the young white girl going off to join ISIS?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 07:00 PM
2

My family was supremely outraged and cut me off for a few years. This sort of love story always inspires me. Standing up to your own family and getting the love you want is heroic and proves that you know your own mind. Upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 06:48 PM
1

mine just happened to move to my city ARGH that is the worst! Mine is still within driving distance. My dad was getting so angry over the stalking he wanted to take it to the police, which would not have done much. Stalking laws in my state are pretty clear: there must be a physical threat, verbal threat, or them showing up at your home or work. In your case you have that and you can get him on record.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 06:28 PM
3

I have seen this happen. Senior citizen weddings, no joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 06:07 PM
2

Some study found that people tend to end up with a partner who is equally good looking. Across the board in all demographics. The exceptions like Julia Roberts or Christie Brinkley marrying down, well, humans are funky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 06:05 PM
1

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 06:01 PM
1

CRAP! I know the feelings, minus the breaking in. Mine posted long involved sexual fantasies and drawings of me online. Pornographic drawings of him doing me. I have never even met this guy and he was writing huge journal entries about our relationship as it played out in his head. And then he found my address online and began sending the WEIRDEST gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:54 PM
1

bridesmaids is not like other chick flicks, it's really gross and funny. Think The Hangover.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:52 PM
2

This pretty much confirms that Red Pill screwed this guy out of getting the one he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:47 PM
1

"You treated my heart like a chewtoy?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:44 PM
2

No. I just disagree on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:29 PM
5

GIIRRRLLLLL...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:27 PM
1

What is your stalker doing? Mine sent scary packages and notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:26 PM
1

Someone downvoted this comment? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:25 PM
7

Yeah, if anything I got pickier as I got older. Higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 04:58 PM
1

My man is not tall and he is devastatingly attractive. Think Tom Cruise in the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 04:55 PM
3

I got to know entirely different view points from the men and women in that chat room. I also lost my anger over my divorce over time. And I for one am glad you did! More people need to forgive the past and come over from the dark side.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 04:55 PM
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You are seeing nihilism because you hang out on the internet with lonely sad people. Get offline for a few months if you can...people are actually happy and doing fine overall. Men and women love each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 04:32 PM
0

This is pretty much how I envision most RP men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 04:19 AM
1

Are you a chick?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 07:56 PM
1

What happen d? It got deleted too fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 07:48 PM
1

Has tribalism grown so strong here that when someone in your tribe outs themself as a POS you need to defend them regardless? Name names.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 06:11 PM
1

heh heh heh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:53 PM
2

This topic is such a relief after all those hate posts. We can argue science and reason instead of flinging mud at the other team, and so maybe there is hope for debate after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:27 PM
1

Ah, someone remembers that website!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:56 AM
2

Because I can no longer argue with red pillers on You Tube.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:51 AM
1

Average.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 06:43 PM
0

You guys were young, that's pretty common for teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 05:16 PM
3

Good example, wow...he is really not good looking at all but you instantly forget that because of his cocky eye-rolling sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 08:01 PM
1

LOL this sub never disappoints the word imagery in my head
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 07:59 PM
3

Patton Oswalt is no hottie but he uses charisma to land whomever he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 05:11 PM
1

Squiddy is back under an alt, but his is obvious. Who else is an alt?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 03:57 PM
1

Years from now you will look back on this phase and thank yourself for not giving up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 01:09 AM
1

That is literally the opposite of what I told you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:33 AM
2

insert shocked Pikachu face here. Yes, valid point :D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:31 AM
2

thank you for saying that!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 10:56 PM
1

So it's just "teasing" and everyone laughs?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 10:46 PM
2

Have you not noticed the influx of new names?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 08:33 PM
2

You made it sound like the world is your Glory Hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 07:02 PM
1

When I started coming to this subreddit in 2017 or so it was a slightly different crowd and I was under a different name but things were very even and fair, with heated discussions and hilarious quips and the sort of thing that keeps me addicted to Reddit in general. I came to "know" the people and their quirks and was slightly sad when I could not help them out, even PMing guys who were down and out to offer my sympathy and well, I tried. It was then that the mass exodus of blues happened and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 06:59 PM
4

All holes are equal, just the meat around them is different. And most women are just series of holes. So....you would be fine with gay male sex as long as you are on top?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 06:39 PM
2

OK, that merits an upvote for honesty :D
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 06:34 PM
3

So are you interested in having a discussion or just an echo chamber? When I provide evidence against a claim that is outlier nonsense??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 06:24 PM
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LOL I sometimes want to post over-the-top sarcastic answers like that just to see how quickly the reds take it literally and would vote me up. AWALT! edit grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 06:12 PM
3

How so? People here claiming that it never happens, I provide an example of it happened. Suddenly that is thrown out?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 06:01 PM
3

He was never going to change his view.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 06:00 PM
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::shrugs:: He went on and on about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 05:49 PM
1

You sent me your photo, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 04:09 PM
1

Dude you're fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 03:42 PM
4

I actually know a guy who divorced his wife because she was jobless, it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 03:37 PM
2

I actually agree here, and I am totally in favor of male horniness to keep the human species alive. If all men stopped caring about sex, you can forget about babies since no one would want the hassle. Nature designed things for a reason and I firmly believe that the vast majority of pregnancies worldwide are unplanned.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 05:38 PM
4

Dude, just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 05:35 PM
3

Yeah, does he think his future children will love that dear old dad is marrying a twenty something and burning off their inheritance on liposuction?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 05:47 AM
1

Your pastor, tradcons, and the like probably have similar thoughts -- "so long as the flock are breeding and marrying, who cares whether men get laid." They then fist bump god and pat themselves on the back for preserving society. I have to admit, this was great word imagery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 07:54 PM
1

Men raping other men is because of gynocracy?? Are you hearing yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 07:20 PM
1

Do you believe all these things you just said are part of a vast conspiracy against men? That all those rape and assault victims were being targeted because of female privilege??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 07:19 PM
2

What privilege exactly? Someone opening a door? Someone paying her a compliment? That is supposed to invalidate all the rest of her life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 07:12 PM
1

And...?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 07:07 PM
2

Ah well, start by asking people at work about their early lives. Ask people with no dating agenda. You will learn things that raise the hair on your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 07:05 PM
1

Misleading who? In telling their own stories they are sharing what pain they experienced and that alone should negate any weird view of their having privilege. If you think they are putting a spin on it, that's a separate issue and you should find more honest folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 06:48 PM
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Not trying to de mean or dismiss your pain, but it sounds like you have been drinking your own bathwater for too long. Talk to more people and really listen- they will tell you what their lives are actually like, their pain, their struggles with overcoming trauma, and don't just talk to incels. Ask old people, ask women, ask other races, ask folks what they have been through and what they have seen in their many years on this planet. Once you hear how much shit they have suffered you will drop t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 06:30 PM
1

NyQuil.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 06:11 PM
2

No confusion here. Even Ayn Rand said that female sexuality is hero worship. A lot of women agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 06:06 PM
2

Whoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 06:05 PM
8

You just described my grandmother. She really did parrot the line about submissive Christian wives, and in her mind she really was. But no one was fooled.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:47 PM
1

No confusion here, even Ayn Rand said that female sexuality is hero worship. For a lot of women this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:28 PM
1

Nice! Which mountains?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:25 PM
1

INTP and sometimes I dream of a better world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:42 AM
1

I am chillin like a villain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 07:36 PM
1

You are making assumptions. He is not Hindu, he is Syrian Orthodox. And he is not dark chocolate or a Mama's boy or anything else. Are you Indian?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 04:43 PM
1

Kerala.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:49 PM
2

It took me awhile to figure out what you wrote was not doing a lap IN a Victoria's Secret store.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 04:53 AM
1

Pure white.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:47 AM
1

My SO is Indian btw. I could never get on board with the belief that Indian men are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:42 AM
1

Mixed with what? Middle eastern?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:37 AM
1

As I regained my self esteem I raised my standards. Years of low self-image does a lot of a gal's dating choices, and so yeah. Once I got better I realized I could get whoever I wanted and I got him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:36 AM
2

You might think that, but no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:33 AM
1

Indians can be gorgeous, ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:21 AM
1

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 09:03 PM
5

Dang, I feel bad for everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 05:55 PM
2

I read that confused part as her being blamed by everyone (or just her man) for her low level of interest. She is told that she is a frigid wife and yet she knows deep inside that she is not, thus the confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 05:29 PM
7

This is a good story, tell us more about Grandma. edit spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 05:26 PM
1

I want to look like Robert Smith.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 12:10 AM
1

Can we talk about the canthal tilt?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 12:06 AM
3

You can start anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 12:03 AM
1

Hell NO!!! Deflowering an older virgin is surefire way to get a stalker (speaking from experience). There has got to be a story here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 02:47 AM
2

The rapist and the victim are both male in male rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 02:26 AM
1

I must be rare af.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:27 PM
1

Because he constantly talked about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:26 PM
3

Since you cannot change the past, decide who you want to be in the present. Do you WANT to be mean and vindictive on a personal quest to smite all the pretty gals? Do you want to be the laughing guy with lots of friends who sleeps well at night? Do you want to get better inside? Figure out who you WANT to be and pursue that path. Side note, I understand having rage and not being able to let go of someone hurting you. It made me so hateful inside and I decided not to be that person. I had to forg…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:04 PM
1

I swear PPD is genuinely unhealthy for dudes. I think the lonely and unwanted have nothing else to calibrate, so they believe whatever the internet tells them. If Reddit says they peak at 35 it must be true. Before the internet got huge people just lived life and figured things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 06:41 PM
1

You are doing the right thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 04:42 PM
1

Ah Dash be not so salty, be the one to laugh in the face of adversity. I know of which I speak because I fell hard for a man who was the most gorgeous, the most alpha creature and I had to have him and it took me over a year of dating to even notice that he is shorter than me. I honestly did not see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 03:36 AM
2

If you cannot imagine short or plain men finding love then you have not lived on this planet long enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 02:50 AM
2

Have you never had a girlfriend or just dated casually?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:01 PM
13

The Hunchback of Notre Dame was set in the Middle Ages but written in the 19th century. The Little Mermaid was Hans talking about being gay and in love with a man. J. M. Barrie was asexual and never consummated his marriage. Your point is what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 10:48 PM
3

No, imagine your most painful unrequited crush on someone you have ever felt. The obsession with every detail, their hair, their smell, their smile- the deep longing of wanting to be with that person even if you had to sacrifice everything to have them. That you would give up your family and your money and your health just to run away with that person. That is what women feel too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 10:45 PM
2

Exactly. Reddit makes it seem like everyone is one step removed from Crazy Hermit In The Woods but people are doing fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 10:42 PM
3

LOL man I needed that laugh!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 10:37 PM
7

That women are not capable of loving except for opportunistic gain is something a broken man might claim out of his own frustrated rage. It is a coping mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:39 PM
4

No one should be taking dating advice from Richard Cooper. Listen to him talk about cars all day, or how to start up your own business. He is bitter about his failures with women and projects that onto the entire gender. So what? Everyone gets their heart broken, everyone has cried in deep visceral pain at a love that died. You live long enough and no one is spared the flip side of the coin, the side os love that is grief. Humans love emotionally and humans mourn when that love is ripped away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:46 PM
5

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:40 PM
6

I mean a lot of people who engage in same-sex sexual stuff are depressed about it and this is higher in places where there is a higher stigma to it Excellent point. Before current society accepted people as gay, young gay men were at a high rate of suicide. It was the stigma and not the sex itself that drove them to self harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:18 PM
3

A few years, but I left him and then everyone came out with their real opinions. "I thought you were afraid of being alone" or "What did you see in him?" followed by approval of my new boyfriend. There is more to this story, but low self esteem is not rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 02:39 AM
1

I was that girl. My friends did not understand what I was doing with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 02:23 AM
2

I know a few exceptions who became The Most Interesting Man in the World in their forties. It does happen. But i also know just as many women who never hit a wall and look like Jane Fonda does.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 04:14 PM
1

I see that now....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 04:01 PM
2

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:53 PM
1

It's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:42 PM
1

That seems less like hypergamy and more about her being clueless or cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:34 PM
1

Exactly! So glad someone gets this. I am tired of hearing Incels complain about women dating assholes because they themselves would never abuse anyone, when my own memory has examples of nerd boys turning into abusers and nerd girls turning psychotic. Why would they keep parroting this trope about Chad being the only one?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:32 PM
4

I have witnessed both. The weird belief on this sub that abusers must be big burly men is...odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:48 PM
3

Yeah, notice how they repeatedly conflate "Chad" with "asshole" and never think that nerdy shy men can be violent abusers. No, a geek must be a sheep apparently. In my own lifetime I have seen the most unlikely candidates reveal their awful abusive colors and you would be surprised. Sometimes it's not Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:45 PM
2

With Scorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:21 PM
1

I hate no fault divorce because of what happened to my sister when her husband cheated and abandoned their marriage. Cute how you slipped in that fallacy about men getting "fucked over harder" in divorce but you know what? Doesn't matter. Real people get hurt in divorces and the division of assets is the least of the pain. You really think some damn house or a big screen TV is more important than the death of a 22 year marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:57 PM
5

If I am missing and presumed dead for over a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:52 PM
1

Humboldt as in Marijuana Mountain? The one on the documentary about trimmers?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:51 PM
3

Except when they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:41 AM
1

Oh, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 04:45 PM
1

No, I am a tree sloth LARPing as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 04:43 PM
3

Profession is decided in high school?? What country is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 04:25 PM
3

That is something i have seen firsthand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 04:16 PM
3

Omigosh i cannot think of a single privilege! /s But come on, you must not have a very high opinion of the gals or their debate skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 04:02 PM
1

What is the story?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 05:56 PM
1

Sounds ambitious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 05:20 PM
1

So I want the best punk rocker, or the best snowboarder, or the best interpretive artist? You can still see how this is a vast swath of people and not all women competing for the same "chad" snowboarding up on Mt. Olympus. The number of women competing for each niche "chad" is not a majority and therefore we all have types we can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 05:19 PM
2

The problem is most women also want these very same men Don't people have types anymore? Why do all the gals have to like the same type?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:19 PM
1

We clearly run in very different circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 11:25 PM
1

I am all about looks and my SO gets compliments on his handsome face but he is shorter than me. This bothers me not one bit and I am 5 foot 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:12 PM
1

You again??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:53 AM
1

Some wibbly wobbly logic to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:24 AM
1

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:13 AM
8

Dude, learn to laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 12:13 AM
4

Yeah actually I was told this very thing about men, way before anyone had heard of Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 11:49 PM
9

Likely involved video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 11:34 PM
2

People are supremely good at getting what they actually want, I have said this many times here. When properly motivated they always find a way to get (name it) so in the context of your query it remains a matter of how badly she wants to keep her man. Is she in love? Then she is super motivated to improve herself and modify her behavior to his liking. If she is not emotionally invested in him, why should she care?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:06 AM
0

Sorry, my butler just informed me that my private jet is ready for takeoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 01:17 AM
1

Are you speaking about yourself or are you guessing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:23 PM
1

In my neighborhood? None.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:57 PM
1

Smattering of weird artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:55 PM
1

You're not actually laughing out loud, go to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 06:15 AM
1

I did own my own business but not an entire boutique with a building attached. Amazon orders are not the same as "Hey the roof is leaking and the floors are starting to cave in, did we remember what the insurance deductible is?"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:50 AM
3

I see you have never owned a retail business.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:26 AM
1

I hate this hobby advice. Welp I'm outta ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:20 AM
1

So you have run a retail business like a boutique? Can you explain the paperwork?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:19 AM
1

Buddy, you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:08 AM
2

Unrequited love used to invoke pity for the person experiencing it, now its outright hate. It depends how it is handled. Whenever I had an unrequited crush on someone, I did not stalk them or rage at their rejection. Women who pine for men who don't want them are seen as unhinged or desperate or "boy crazy" or any other thing. It is not flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:44 AM
3

how do you make new friends as an adult? You have a tough road, but it can be done. Start with your favorite hobbies and think about meeting those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:40 AM
1

Well there have to be other choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:38 AM
1

Those are your only choices? Don't you know any geeky gamer girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:21 AM
5

The way he was infantilizing this mythical woman, it's honestly hard to tell what he meant by "uneducated"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:19 AM
2

but women also have a much more idealistic view of the world because they are treated much more kindly than men growing up. Please tell me why you believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 03:51 AM
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Have her open a boutique shop or something. How would she even know how? "Babe, print the Z report and batch the electronic payments." "Uh, is that on this computer?" You would have to run the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 03:46 AM
3

Thank God I live in a part of the world that remains largely untouched by this nonsense. Dare I ask where?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 12:58 AM
-3

Dude, don't you know any happy people?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 12:56 AM
5

It's like a whole 'nother planet these guys are on, where men and women don't actually like each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 12:55 AM
2

I would also like an explanation of this "frustration" and what it entails. Is it inner turmoil or is he stalking her?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 06:07 AM
-2

Believe me you if women retained their physical attractiveness well into their 40's they'd continue spreading their legs exclusively for Chad & Tyrone well into their 40's. And you know this because....?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 06:04 AM
1

"She"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 05:40 AM
2

I am gonna chime in to the chorus of Make Him Wait For Sex. This is very important to weed out the players.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 05:36 AM
2

She isn't trying to date YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 05:35 AM
1

I just watched it and yes, that was solid entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:24 AM
1

Human beings are extremely adept at getting what they want, be in heroin or alcohol or sure, marriage. If what you prioritize is Marriage and not Love or Hotness your best "strategy" is to stop caring about emotions or looks. If what you actually desire is not an arranged marriage or a mail order bride but LOVE that is a different question entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:19 AM
3

Meanwhile women go around fucking the hottest guys they can bag TBF all people go around fucking the hottest people they can bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:03 AM
2

Women get guys younger than that. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:51 AM
2

He is a married dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:45 AM
2

Just look at places like Saudi Arabia where men already do whatever they want. You do NOT want to live in a place like Saudi Arabia. Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:16 PM
1

Brazil.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:00 PM
1

Amen brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 08:42 PM
2

My generation is weird. We don't know how to people. Send help. This is your most insightful comment to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 08:41 PM
3

Wow! Where can I sign up for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 08:31 PM
10

I learned that you have to vet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:08 AM
1

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 02:30 AM
1

Yeah I am wondering if the question was gender-flipped what the response would be. Everything MUST be a woman's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 02:24 AM
2

The other replies in here....just dismaying. So many men want to hate on victims of abuse just for being female, it's like they are glad those gals got punched in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 02:23 AM
1

Why should I feel sympathy for women when they’re destroying Western Civilization? Um, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 02:15 AM
4

Hell even the weird girl who pretended to be a warewolf in my high school had orbiters. I want to hear more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 02:06 AM
1

Get his car detailed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 02:03 AM
3

I know you think that's how you see it, but that's not the reality. Please argue in good faith. She already told you and you said she's lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 01:57 AM
2

Stop giving women male traits, they don't love, they don't feel empathy, they can not care for others. So male traits are love, empathy, and caring for others?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 01:52 AM
9

Is that what you think happens to most people who are not red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 04:58 PM
1

The general story on PPD is that women marry for status But in RL we all marry for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 06:48 PM
3

Seriously? This attraction question is a sign of the Collapse?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 06:26 PM
2

But what if he had listened to men telling him his height was a dealbreaker for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 06:24 PM
1

Five foot two and he got the hottest women in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 06:16 PM
15

If you are a rockstar like Prince you can cold approach while wearing a bath towel and rollers in your hair. No one disputes this. If you look like Screech people will wonder why you are talking to them in the first place. Yes there is a difference but it won't be "I am calling the cops if you don't leave now" or anything dramatic. People are too polite and will just say "I have to get to my shrink appointment" rather than hurt your feelings. Imagine if a hot runway model approached you versus U…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 05:15 PM
1

So where did the Puritan Alphas go during this rule?
/r/MensRights25/01/19 04:36 AM
2

Ok so now I am a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 04:13 AM
1

you said girls are mind readers Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 04:06 AM
1

Yes, and TRP overestimates to what degree women are mind-readers. She somehow is 20 years old and knows all about human psychology? She can read into the friend's intentions? How does she know if he is pining after her, isn't that rather conceited of her to even think such a thing? This is how young women think, not "Oooh what else can I get out of him?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:48 AM
1

Friendly??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:37 AM
2

Now I am sorry to hear he died.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:37 AM
1

God forbid I ever cried- that did NOT go well. O-o
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:24 AM
1

If you underestimate women and think they are retarded, you will project that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:23 AM
2

Is that your dad being described? He sounds almost exactly like my dad. And I was raised much the same as you. No mercy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:19 AM
2

Um, what you just said is that you disbelieve anything that a woman says here on PPD. So how would reading our comments lead to any conclusions whatsoever?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:16 AM
2

But Goat, we are in the presence of Greatness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:10 AM
3

If you are not going to believe our answers, why even read them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:53 AM
3

Ok I actually looked and could not find what you mean, who is saying what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:46 AM
1

He sounds like a lot of married men I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 01:32 AM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:29 PM
1

"More often than not, love is little more than wanting someone for what they can provide." If you are referring to the emotional reaction in the brain which involves dopamine and oxytocin i.e. "love" then no. Attraction on this level is due to uncontrollable factors such as disposition and childhood conditioning and is not so pragmatic at ALL. People regularly fall in love with a pattern of traits that is beyond their conscious reckoning and it might be the gal reminds him of his mom as he does …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:26 PM
3

Alone with my thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:29 PM
2

Upvote for movie reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:29 PM
1

Not sure if you ever had a good friend spiral into depression over a man she foolishly hitched herself onto. It is heartbreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:02 PM
1

Eh, i am speaking as an outside observer of my friends and some of the losers they picked. Love is blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 04:59 PM
1

Oh buddy, if only you knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 04:58 PM
5

Catch a buzz.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 02:47 AM
1

OK, so I won't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 02:46 AM
1

But that is the whole point. AF/BB is fake- women date losers and weirdos and omegas and felons and it's all done when they are young and dumb and don't know better. Then they wise up and get better men after dumping the jerk. It flies in the face of red pill because it's people's actual lives and not some trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 02:07 AM
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What makes you think the "asshole" boyfriends were Chads or alphas? Almost every gal I know dated a couple jerks when still young and naive, and you would be hard-pressed to describe these men as studs. They were geeks and nerds and yes, still assholes. I really wonder about some of the strange assumptions here. Edit spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 01:24 AM
1

Where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 04:58 PM
1

And a very social one!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 04:15 PM
1

I can tell you what happens to all people who live long enough to enjoy old age, and it makes no practical difference how they got there. Plenty were married and then well, they are alone again and live just as alone as the lifelong bachelors. Or maybe their children visit once a year. Or not. Everyone has their own path and you need to pick yours and be happy with your choice, irrespective of the outcome. That is the only way to live well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 04:32 AM
1

Plenty of fish in the sea, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 04:24 AM
1

You do realize that you are posting this on a social media site?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 06:11 PM
1

as we finish off the sexual revolution, and return to normalcy. Out of curiosity, what is normal in this context? Old fashioned monogamy or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 06:10 PM
1

What exactly would you vote to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 05:54 AM
3

Happy warrior. Be like that and you will win in every area of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 05:43 AM
2

mindless thots on PPD We have thots on here??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 05:40 AM
1

Smoke shop I just drove past...selling kratom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 12:16 AM
1

But is that always bad? Imagine a poor plain Becky who always struggled and then got online and is suddenly flooded with positive attention for the first time in her entire life. After years of thinking herself worthless she finally can hold her head up and smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:34 PM
1

Ah, that makes sense. Plus you live in England, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 03:47 PM
1

But anyone can grow opium poppies in their front yard. It's not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 05:09 AM
1

Did the snowboarder stop to try to help you at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 05:08 AM
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But I would rather live a notch or two down the economic ladder, or three , and have my freedom to do marriage and family the right way as I see it. Amen brother!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 05:04 AM
1

Men are used to always having to put up with crap that they don't like, whereas women are used to getting everything that they want. I am dying to know why anyone would believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 05:19 AM
1

I don’t recall putting a height requirement. Nor do I care about my boyfriend being shorter than me because i am tall for a chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 07:22 PM
1

I am No Pill but what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 06:56 PM
0

The nature of this sub attracts people who like to argue on reddit. So we are not seeing too many sweet submissive, nope. In RL most people are blue pilled and not jerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 06:19 PM
4

This needs to be stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 05:16 PM
2

There is a lot more to hunger problems than leptin, if you see my other comment about estrogen and menopause. But I was thanking Dash for offering some science into a subreddit that is usually just conjecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:09 AM
3

Thank you, we need more actual science here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:49 AM
1

Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:28 PM
5

THIS. I have never known a gal to settle on a guy she did not like or find attractive, she just fell in love with someone she never expected to like that much. Like her heart overruled her brain, and she picked a guy who is the wrong religion or wrong SES.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:17 PM
2

I don't like sermon ads. Even the ones preaching about issues which I support (environmental or whatever) seem pedantic and finger-wagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 04:50 PM
3

My perception from reading some of their threads is that they are trying to make captains out of children. They all seem to be married to picky eating men who get laid off and depressed doesn't sound like much fun to me. I picked up that same vibe. They are trying really really hard to submit to Captain Ding Dong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 03:53 AM
3

In America people get married late.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 03:49 AM
3

Casual flings? A fat virgin with no social skills is gonna have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 03:45 AM
1

So mean girls being bullies? Or mean girls doing what else?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 02:55 AM
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The best way to get over an ex or a crush is to fall for someone else. If he falls for you, I promise the ex will be the farthest thing from his mind. But if he continues to pine and moan for her, dump him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 02:54 AM
1

To be fair, I have known guys who were that abrasive and people wanted to punch their faces in but no one did. EDIT spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 02:52 AM
1

This is way overblown on reddit. Lots of short men do well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 02:48 AM
1

That's where the fucking word comes from. Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 05:43 AM
1

That was a Bojack Horseman episode.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 05:32 AM
1

It was boilerplate and predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 04:29 AM
0

Which leads to believe most women don't marry for love, but for money. Based on one wedding???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:32 PM
1

I went to a college where there were 4 girls for every guy, but it was Christian and so there was no hookup culture. The result was that I found a boyfriend somewhere off campus rather than pick among the not-exciting men at my school. College is not a remote island.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:10 AM
10

No, that is just your family. I cannot fathom my dad doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:05 AM
6

I find these threads genuinely misleading, but then another gal here explained what is really being said: the men are mad that women are having sex with other people. Oh! So now I get it- all this talk of responsibility and accountability had nothing to do with paying your utility bills on time and was just about not putting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:55 PM
4

Entitled in what way exactly? In getting a job or in getting a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:28 PM
1

So...should I ever purchase a house, it best have a yard or there is no point. All I ever missed in apartment life was a yard to grow my things. In dirt that does not end in a pot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:22 AM
5

Um, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:49 AM
1

Puh lease. If Billy had been hawt we gals would all pass him around and not murder him. Unless he started to piss us off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:47 AM
1

Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:39 AM
1

I have only pity and compassion for the man. He really thought he was on the fast track to Happy and instead he bough a ticket to Lonely. My personal belief is that the Roosh who appears in youtube videos back in 2007 (as a goofy geek with no alpha posturing) is the real deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:33 AM
1

Awww, don't pick on Roosh. Life has been sad for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:28 AM
1

This is the real world, not band camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 01:01 AM
1

Is there anyway to prove this? I looked on Google and nothing turned up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 07:14 PM
1

Huh. I wonder if this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 06:30 PM
3

What an ugly drawing. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 05:44 PM
2

There's no WGTOW because women typically have a much stronger desire to couple bond I know plenty of gals who choose to remain single.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 04:54 AM
1

So how many healthy relationships do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:50 PM
1

heh heh heh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:00 AM
16

"Hey, remember when Clinton was president and-" "No."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 01:58 AM
2

I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:44 AM
3

Not sure about “better” but women artists have an intuitive grasp of color theory and tend to use color in a more pleasing way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:10 AM
5

Good on you for noticing this cross post, i suspected the brigade of woman-blamers was here to answer a bugle call.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 12:04 AM
2

It’s got nothing to do with luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:41 PM
4

It definitely is. Are you saying both sexes love similarly? Yes I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:00 PM
1

Women don't love you, the person, they love the things you provide. At any point you stop or are incapable of providing those things, she will stop loving you. Dude. Step away from the internet. Don't you know any happy couples? Old marrieds that stay together over decades thru thick and thin? You don't think hubby lost his job a few times or she had to take care of him ever? People love as a pair bond and that bond has already been studied and documented and weirdly, it's not gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:37 PM
9

It's strange that they even make a distinction between male and female love is this regard, since anyone can look at gay couples to see how men love and how women love when they are not bending over backwards to please the opposite sex. But they throw all that out as irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:30 PM
3

Oh wait I forgot. You have more fake plastic trees than me Please clarify?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:50 PM
1

I know a guy who did this with a wife from China. Not everyone has other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 12:01 AM
5

TBF we have no idea if this guy was ever an "alpha" and this OP could be very young.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:00 PM
4

Yes. I had to pursue legal action.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:48 PM
1

No, I think it's a medical unicorn and we should focus on him for that reason: most people with this disease die VERY young and it's beyond tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:47 PM
1

Not with that attitude, you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:46 PM
1

Good on ya!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:12 AM
1

He heh heh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:50 AM
1

Most of these changes are the result of religion waning in public importance. Who gets married unless they believe in God.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:48 AM
3

Sounds like you guys are doin’ ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:46 AM
1

It’s like their view of the world is only people they know and imagine are miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:45 AM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:38 AM
1

Old school patriarch in the full sense, like laying down your life to protect your family?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:33 AM
1

Good words to chew. I myself will be giving those paragraphs the weight they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:30 AM
1

So have sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 11:57 PM
1

Eh, it varies. If a child is constantly fawned over for being attractive, then yes they grow up being conceited. But if they start out frumpy and turn swan at puberty, anything can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:31 PM
1

So if those are truly your only options, why bother? Just avoid dames.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:21 PM
2

Because it is not a gendered issue yet it is presented as such. Like women are inherently dumber than men for choosing crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:17 PM
3

No, we are saying that crazy knows no gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:09 PM
2

He is living quite a long life for someone with cystic fibrosis, I would focus on that miracle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 03:52 PM
3

Hard to say, we do not interact with enough frequency to form a heuristic. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 03:47 PM
2

For once I agree with you: Humans are remarkably good at getting whatever it is that truly want. Ask any heroin addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 03:20 AM
21

So Lord Chad of Utah gets twenty women, that means nineteen other men go celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 01:17 AM
2

You can lead a perfectly moral and blameless life and still have people cast aspersions at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 02:40 AM
20

It baffles me that some users here cannot grok this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 02:08 AM
8

This is one of those truths that is hard for some men to accept. That a woman would rather be completely alone than be shackled with a jerk...and that she is actually happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 02:07 AM
1

How much of this story about the abusive ex can be verified? Is it all his version or do you have proof?
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 01:08 AM
8

This. is what I have observed too. Either they are just done with men completely following a divorce, or they don't want to settle and find singleness to be just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 12:00 AM
1

OK, this is three different Reddit names responding to me now on the thread. To whom did I throw any ad hominem and just where is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 04:03 AM
2

Pal i have no reason to believe you are arguing from a position of intellectual honesty. All you are doing is throwing invectives my way and presuming motives i do not hold. Give a benefit of the doubt- i gave no cause for “ bull” accusations. Nor have you disproven my assertion that women are treated just as badly in divorce or anything involving California law. Focus. What did i say that was untrue?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:38 AM
2

So why are my anecdotes going to say the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 10:59 PM
1

How am i an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 09:16 PM
3

Mmmm, no. The stalker has a different profile and the red flags are easy to dismiss until oh geez, here he is again and it's three in the morning and what the hell? Binoculars?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:52 PM
2

Your anecdotes and my anecdotes could get together and have drinks at a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:49 PM
1

:) That is the truest statement I have read on PPD. Thanks man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:27 AM
1

Of the women I know who divorced their husbands, let's see: adultery, abuse, adultery, adultery, felony convictions, gay, adultery, and child molestation. Of the men I know who divorced their wives: adultery, mental illness, hmmm...come to think of it those are the only two I know initiated by the husband. You are correct that women are more likely to file, but they are usually at the end of their tethers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:25 AM
3

So perhaps amend your qualifications to exclude any gal with female family members who are recreationally divorced. Because all the ones I know divorced their husbands for VERY good reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:17 AM
2

for the recreationally divorced females, What is recreational divorce in your book?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:14 AM
2

Her immediate family doesn't have any female divorcees, who are treated nicely. Why is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:42 AM
6

No, it's just weird to tell someone on the internet that their wife only dated ugly losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:37 AM
1

Uh, ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:35 AM
7

men lose more in a divorce than women. OK, which men? Do you know someone personally who got cleaned out? Was this in a no-fault state? Did the court say "Gosh, that ladee person deserves the whole enchilada, shame we can only give her half"? You are scared of vampires and fairies and not real things. I know real people who had real divorces and believe me, that state cut everything in half mathematically and did not favor the women. Custody determines child support payments, and mothers usually…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:29 AM
1

Cynical about the fraying fabric of society or cynical about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:22 AM
1

Eh, they might not be celebrity status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:21 AM
5

Dude, do you even live in this state? Do you know anyone who has gone through a divorce in California? Gay couples? Settle down sparky. There is no vast conspiracy in the courts, most men do not WANT primary custody of their own kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:17 AM
1

Ah, that makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:15 AM
4

A couple of very humorous posts, the rest were crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:05 AM
1

So? In California divorce law does not recognize gender. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:05 AM
8

There are far fewer mass murders in women's prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:00 AM
4

Assuming everything/almost everything TRP philosophy suggests about female nature (that women are manipulative, calculating and utilitarian when it comes to relationships by nature) and about how society treats women more favourably compared to men to be true, That is a lot of assumptions. Like I would assume based on this list that OP is pretty young and inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:49 AM
6

The state divides marital property 50-50 regardless of gender. Women have a lot to forgive too, and are not always at fault in a divorce. I live in a no-fault state and wow, does that ever get abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:42 AM
2

Funny story- I had no idea what the Shades of Gray books were all about so I bought the one by Jasper Fforde about a science fiction future where everyone is colorblind and society is stratified by which colors you can see. Good book.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 01:41 AM
1

Well if it makes you feel any better hardly anyone reads books at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 01:36 AM
1

Eh, people are bored?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 01:28 AM
1

So?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 01:26 AM
3

That was worth clicking, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:49 PM
1

So very thankful for the cannabis oil I got as a Christmas gift, but the taste is raunchy- like a pile of rotting leaves. The mellow calm feeling is not as dramatic as one glass of wine but I can still drive and work. So hemp is my new game.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:37 PM
1

Believe it or not, women look down on those who marry for money or treat men like walking wallets. It is not socially accepted in the Western world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:44 PM
3

First time I am in complete agreement with you man. Absolute truth right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:42 PM
3

Many of these men (including me) are sons of Cluster B mothers. I am so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:41 PM
2

Ouch, that poor man! I would be brainstorming ways to get her GONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:39 PM
3

Women in their 20s who are slutty and women in their 30s who aren't married yet are the craziest segments of the population, hands down. Eh, I have known far more men on disability for mental illness than young women. Also, how many women are actually slutty? Statistics show less sex and fewer sexual partners than ever for millennials.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:33 PM
2

And people tend to select partners based on their childhood experiences, so...red pill confirmed, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:29 PM
3

That is my understanding as well. We even had a post here asking about TRP relationships with their moms and they all answered how negative it was. Seems obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:25 PM
1

I am female and i have white knighted both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:03 PM
3

I have never heard of an East Asian man catcalling anyone. There is a certain demographic that will, and they live where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:27 AM
1

Are you going to make black eyed peas or noodles for New Year's Eve?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:06 AM
2

I am sorry to hear that she got away with a crime. No one is above justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 03:53 AM
1

That is pretty dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 03:11 AM
1

And so it goes That is a Vonnegut reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 03:08 AM
2

What sin did she do that she was found out?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 02:58 AM
0

You know this because....?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:30 PM
1

I spot a Good Place reference in there!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 05:08 PM
3

I think you are reading comments by different people. But even if the same users are making both claims, think of the context: who is taking joy from this? Happy successful folks? No, it is a universal bad juju to mock people down on their luck especially if you yourself are flying high. Anyone taking joy in the defeat of anonymous harmless others is themself a miserable sod.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 05:07 PM
1

Rock stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 05:02 PM
1

I did this. I strung someone along for years and never married him. It was wrong, do NOT become me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 05:01 PM
2

Just...astonishing. Like this poor girl has a family and friends who are genuinely concerned that she is being used, but he wants to humiliate her more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 05:23 AM
6

But that is the point: I am not divorced BECAUSE I specifically avoided it. Regarding marriage as a sacred institution means taking it VERY seriously and duh, I took it so seriously that I never got married since divorce would be this huge sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 03:16 AM
4

Since i have never divorced i could not tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 01:28 AM
0

You understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 01:26 AM
1

If you are not religious, you will not understand the significance of the sacred union between one woman and one man that God Himself ordained for our benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 01:16 AM
1

Interesting. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 04:08 AM
2

Or take what people say in good faith. I just assume that everyone here is telling the truth and why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 04:04 AM
1

Weird, I was debating with you about whether or not all woman are bisexual and you suddenly deleted all your comments and your account name.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:58 AM
1

Off topic, didn't you delete your account recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:50 AM
1

So which users here are lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:35 AM
2

Wane not wain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 07:35 PM
2

And RP ideology would fail spectacularly among my friend group. Yeah, I cannot imagine "holding frame" with my friends or pretending not to care about their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 06:58 PM
1

I need to hear more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 05:21 AM
3

Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 03:05 AM
1

I gotta work today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:44 PM
3

Huh, not around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:20 PM
1

Eh, personal tastes differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:14 PM
1

Hey, I remember you! How are things?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:12 PM
1

I just typed "white guy" into Google and got similar SMP levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:08 PM
1

Religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:07 PM
1

What is this pervasive belief that Indian men are not hot??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 05:59 PM
2

I cannot find the brigade either. EDIT for cat on keyboard typo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 05:57 PM
1

In polite society the way to correct rude behavior is called Shunning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 05:54 PM
2

Who is shaming men for grooming? My boyfriend spends two hours getting ready every morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 05:51 PM
1

That would explain a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:27 PM
2

I had to look both of those up. Dented Can has been removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:38 AM
1

It made me realize I was talking to cute guys and girls and one dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:59 AM
2

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:57 AM
6

My life is currently easy mode, but if you had asked me that a few years ago? Oh man oh man. Money changes everything but health problems put your entire life on Impossible Mode. If you ever think you have it bad, try applying for a job on crutches.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:43 AM
2

So if I am introspective and also ask a lot of different people about how hard their lives are does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:40 AM
1

Wait, I thought you were married?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 04:00 AM
1

This is a very helpful comment, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 03:53 AM
2

Marriage= Having sex is no longer a sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 05:32 PM
7

You do realize that plenty of people get married after age 35 right? And not because they are desperate?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 05:20 PM
1

Martial arts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 04:26 PM
2

One thing that was different was that no one was openly gay I had a few gay friends who were very firmly in the closet until the late 90s and all celebrities denied being gay even if it was obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 05:44 AM
1

I love you for this answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 04:10 AM
1

Hell yes it would!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 03:00 AM
0

Wow...I have not been to that website in ten years, began to think I dreamed it up. It touches me that someone even remembers HBI and its snarky answers to letters. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 10:11 PM
1

Eh, maybe...there are ways that nature says Do Not Touch. In many cases a loner who keeps to himself and collects crap and lives with Anime posters all over the walls but no actual friends is providing clear danger signs to women. Yes I am describing someone I know. Yes he self-describes as a sociopath. Yes he was stalking me. But he tried to claim he was rescuing me...see the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 10:07 PM
13

Ironically actual sociopaths tend to be pretty charming and charismatic, No that is just a subset of sociopaths. I have known the non-charming type too...they are just easier to flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:48 PM
4

I am picturing a Saxon raider.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:09 AM
1

Probably part of the reason 60% of them die out every generation. 40% are immortal???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 06:03 PM
1

I was hoping for the answer being "sarcasm"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 02:49 AM
1

Just get them all booze.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 02:47 AM
2

Wait, I want to hear details! Were they vastly different IRL than the way they post on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 02:45 AM
8

Bloops tend to not be bitter because everything worked out fine for them and women tend to not be bitter because everything generally works out fine for them and nothing's ever their fault Or...people who have survived abuse and mistreatment don't always develop grudges against half the human race?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 02:43 AM
2

bp's are tragically sheltered Disney kids who've never known relationship hardship. Say what.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 02:40 AM
6

This. Teenagers (including myself at that age) do not have the wetware to make logical choices and it's not their fault. Just do school and avoid jail until you are a few years older and it will be like looking back on a dream. EDIT for wording
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 05:35 PM
2

Some of us are still religious. I realize this is the minority on Reddit but many people do hold to marriage as a God-ordained institution.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 04:31 PM
2

But what if you live in a No Fault state so there is no other type of divorce? Even if hubby cheated up a storm, no one cares when they divide the assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 04:30 PM
1

Your logic is airtight! All women are like the ones in your head!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 02:46 AM
1

All men are bisexual or gay, how can they be homophobes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 02:44 AM
15

she is just not attracted to him any more, then her body is going to be screaming at her not to give in. When he touches her to try to mess around and get her warmed up, it will feel creepy, and when she lets him have sex with her, it will feel like rape. This person gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:13 PM
4

Medical reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 07:35 PM
3

Because I would be dead from childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 04:41 AM
1

What do you see in my comments that could valorize anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 06:34 PM
1

Is this supposed to be a Gotcha? Everyone knows about Sanger already. Do you not take your medicine because the person who gave you the pills is a jerk?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 06:16 PM
1

But you see the fallacy right? A man could invent a pill or a car and if it is illegal to use it is if no use to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 05:50 PM
1

You’re a sorcerer! My car is also not the reason I have a license to drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 05:45 PM
3

What a depressing start to the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 04:34 PM
1

Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 03:25 PM
3

Either that or male models.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 05:57 PM
1

O-0. Oh that is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 04:18 PM
1

No idea. Did he break the rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 04:11 PM
1

I miss Priene.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 04:01 PM
1

I have witnessed women who abuse their husbands and in both cases the poor guy had such low self esteem that he became a whipped puppy. One guy would sleep in his car just to get away from her screaming at him all night. Sad. He finally left and she overdosed on drugs. Still tragic because she had a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 03:57 PM
1

See below.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 03:34 PM
1

You got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 03:34 PM
1

There is more to it that would shock people, weird things like the shape of human penises being evidence for a sexual promiscuity that would make even modern people blush.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 04:36 AM
2

Ah man, anyone can get dragged down by this I deleted my account and this is my new one...and no one even cares who I was before. And no one doxxed me. Please take some time off and not online...that is what I did so It might work in your case. I went out of the country and experienced how wonderful the world really is outside my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 04:25 AM
1

Wise man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 02:22 AM
1

Where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 11:55 PM
1

I agree that no one wants to feel shame, but suppose everyone started shaming you personally for choices you made long ago- say you had belonged to the Communist Party or you had dated a woman who was later convicted of murder. Would you want to pay for your bad judgment for the rest of your life even though you were not morally bad for what you did?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 11:53 PM
1

Good video, thanks for linking it!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 11:45 PM
2

So just change the laws to be more fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 04:11 PM
5

I'll take it!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 09:14 PM
6

Nope you just made me realize he is Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 09:13 PM
1

There was a famous murder case where one of those men killed his Russian mail-order bride. He was probably like you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 09:11 PM
7

TIL my boyfriend is in the top 2%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 09:09 PM
1

I am curious about the mail-order brides in the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 08:58 PM
2

Damn Sam, that's bad behavior. Are you in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 08:53 PM
4

Most women are not misandrists. Paranoia about violent crime is a result of news media fear-mongering. Healthy people love the opposite sex and want to be with them, or hook up with their own gender. This is an age of miracles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 08:51 PM
3

What would true equality look like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 08:49 PM
3

Yikes, she sounds like a sociopath. Or a criminal. I am trying to think of any woman I know like this, and I can only come up with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 08:46 PM
1

Do you know any actual woman who did this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 08:29 PM
1

Mmmm mmmm that alcoholic I dated was so yummy!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 08:20 PM
4

Feminism means I can get on the pill for whatever reason I like, and no one can stop me. Aside from that I have not benefited much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 08:18 PM
3

I knew a gal who left her marriage for this very reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 08:11 PM
1

Don’t let them get inside your head. But what if I am a small brain parasite ??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 04:59 PM
2

If it were me as that woman I would start coughing and sneezing and complaining that I had diarrhea from our lovely time in Haiti. Then I would pretend I am hard of hearing and make him repeat everything LOUDLY followed by my "What? What?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 04:57 PM
1

How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 03:43 AM
1

Sorry if I offended you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 05:17 PM
1

Money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 04:48 PM
1

Yeah i get that but why are you not rooted anywhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 04:18 PM
1

Deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 05:33 AM
1

Don't you live in Orange County?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 05:01 AM
2

After Man- a documentary of post apocalyptic Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 04:59 AM
1

What is your passion in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 02:52 AM
4

You know what demographic eats up the most health insurance money of all? The elderly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 04:32 AM
0

Pal, we all grew up with the same sit coms and movie tropes and dumb jokes about dames and broads and skirts. Women were either floozies or vixens, take your pick. Unless you were the ugly neighbor. Also crying over every little thing... I gotta say, women were NOT cast in a flattering light.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 04:28 AM
1

I spent all my BetaBux on the Dark Web already. Gotta invest in the onion field, right? But seriously- no one outside the web believes in this theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 02:42 AM
1

This woman gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 01:25 AM
5

In this context? It means they find someone they like enough to go the distance, not give up their goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 01:05 AM
24

The 80/20 scenario is not RL. Most people find partners and settle down. Most people are not Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 11:54 PM
2

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 04:26 PM
19

This study has already been done on transgender people. The results were that MtF found out how women's opinions are dismissed in professional settings, and the FtM found out that people glared at them and avoided them on public transportation but in professional settings they were treated like god-kings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 03:51 PM
1

Uh, why was this downvoted?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 06:34 PM
1

Hey! Welcome back man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 06:10 PM
1

By sacrificing themselves in ways both small and profound.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 05:06 PM
1

It was? How can you tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 12:31 AM
3

When you spend your whole life moving from place to place, as I have from early childhood onward, what are roots? What is a hometown? What is stable? These words are hard to implement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 12:26 AM
3

This "ghost" needs to learn the Eastern philosophy of less is more. She piled on all the accomplishments and it still felt hollow...which is what we Americans have been saying for years. So much success and so little happiness- it's a cultural problem we fight as people move all over the map and no one grows roots. I am one who knows. The heart of her issue in loneliness and that is the current zeitgeist...poor gal needs friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 11:29 PM
1

Alright, who downvoted this shocking truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 11:22 PM
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Not off the top, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 07:20 PM
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I thank you sincerely for this link.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 04:36 PM
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Also, flying cars would be a nightmare for everyone. This. Imagine a car crash every night, but instead on the highway it will be in your roof.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 04:30 PM
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Agreed, Roosh is playing an elaborate troll job on the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 04:17 PM
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He got a three week ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 04:15 PM
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People watching videos will not always care about the performances. No kidding. My mind wanders when I watch maudlin productions but that has nothing to do with RL. This is bad science.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:16 AM
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It was like that speech Ted Bundy made in the 2002 film.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:08 AM
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That was an incredible read.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 01:01 AM
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Oh we get it. Not everyone here is Pro Choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 05:44 AM
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No I know someone who had this happen. Weirder things have been known in Medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 05:42 AM
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Outside of the manosphere, real women go to work and pay bills and never abuse anyone or manipulate their loved ones. It never even crosses their minds to attack or use their men because why would anyone do that? Most women are just like you. But how boring, right? The hot mess appeals to you and Nice Nancy can go sit somewhere else. You are choosing crazy mean girls because...that's your thing. Maybe you learned this at home, no idea. All things being equal, a relationship is much happier than …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 05:35 AM
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No I met my SO on Match years ago when I was inundated with attention
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 07:52 PM
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Women get lonely for the same reason all adults do-where do you make friends once college is over? Men are just as friendless but they don't mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 04:48 PM
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All the single men in the middle aged bracket are divorced. They were snatched up young, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 04:29 PM
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I am older and I was drowning in Match messages that I most certainly did not initiate. But my SO is in his 50s so this is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 04:13 PM
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It's about being in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 04:08 PM
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If she's been through a western university, she's had her share of drunken hookups she forgot. If she did a Europe trip, she totally got her brains fucked out in the gym washroom at the dorm I guess you never meet religious women, or nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 04:11 AM
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Maybe believe what we say about our experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 03:51 AM
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Are. you. kidding. All the time women here tell you that they are fine with dating down or dating men slightly shorter and you call us outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 03:48 AM
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Nope that isn’t it. Women and men experience the exact same neurotransmitters in our brains and there is nothing mystical. If you not feel these chemicals and they do not cause you to act against your selfish nature they you do not have them. Everyone who can fall in love and go through the roller coaster ride knows how insane it makes us and that is limerance. The pair bonding is love. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 12:54 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 12:48 AM
4

BUD-DY enjoy your life and stop sweating the what-ifs. Have a full existence on this planet. Go crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 06:09 AM
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Try being a human with a uterus and then get back to me on how inconvenient organs can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 06:05 AM
2

So get thee a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 06:01 AM
3

That seems a bit high. Do you live in American Samoa?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 05:52 PM
2

Or maybe it's because boys like video games and parents buy them at Best Buy instead of Amazon?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 05:47 PM
5

Online dating works, what more needs to be said?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 05:11 PM
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Why even bother? At this point just move on and let her find someone healthy who is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 05:10 PM
1

What a sad way to view human life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 06:49 PM
2

YMMV. Some people experience limerence for over two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 05:36 PM
1

Or monks. Think about all the second born sons who were pretty much forced to join the monastery and there created such wonderful things or kept the literature from going extinct. Monks served a valuable function in the old days, and were not disposable. The entire idea that non-breeding humans are surplus is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 05:34 PM
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It is an Incel belief that x number of men are disposable. Like, being single and not fathering a child means they are useless...which makes no sense because seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 11:32 PM
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It. is easy nowadays since you put the turkey in a plastic bag to cook it, nothing goes wrong. I have done this several times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 07:32 PM
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Angry women like who?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 07:44 PM
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Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 07:43 PM
3

So if you read what she wrote in her other posts, the hubby is a violent drunk. Is this mostly her fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 07:27 PM
4

But do you personally agree with Rollo?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 07:18 PM
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How is the female victim to bear responsibility when a crazy man shoots her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 05:02 PM
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Trust me, old people fall for each other and form relationships WELL past the supposed Wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 12:23 AM
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Wait wait wait...SoCal?? I thought you were Bay Area. If you are SoCal then you must be aware of the heavily religious Orange County that sits on top and runs the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 12:17 AM
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Many women are choosing abstinence because they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 02:06 AM
2

What if her standards are Steve Buscemi?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 01:55 AM
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This is a weird gauge of hotness. But I suppose there are men who enjoy casual encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 01:54 AM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 10:30 PM
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I just learned that my BF is a Chad. Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 10:25 PM
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If you were raised religious you did indeed hear this. Men are the head over women, wives must submit and obey, women are the glory of men but men are the glory of God. The message is clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 04:15 PM
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Turned 40, realized that the hot girls I used to go to high school with and used to dream about are old and ugly now. Turned 40, realized that most people did not age well. Oh well. The worst parts of aging have nothing to do with looks, my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 05:57 PM
1

You are going to LOVE the Alaskan cruise. Mine taught me how wonderful the world truly is when we leave the familiar behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 05:36 PM
1

Seconding this idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 04:20 AM
5

Wait, so all I have to do is throw a tantrum and I will get what I want? This is gold!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 04:14 AM
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Yeah they will just call you an Outlier and dismiss your lived experience. Ask me how I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 02:44 AM
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I am dating someone shorter than me, and it took me a year to even notice this discrepancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 04:21 PM
1

So much truth in these paragraphs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 09:15 PM
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The vast majority were low achievers, frequently unemployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 05:24 PM
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If you have never experienced passionate feelings for someone- not simple lust but amour fou- you have no idea what you are missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 05:23 PM
1

Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 04:46 PM
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Women approaching the wall are thirsty for settling down. Eh, some are and some are going through their first divorce. Most of the people I know who got married in their 20s are now divorced, and none of those people are eager to try another marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 02:23 AM
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Yet I know a few women who married low-value men despite being average or pretty themselves. Sometimes it's not SMV but the mental programming from early childhood that determines who you find hot. I was simply floored by my friend's choice of spouse, I mean WOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 03:25 PM
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Oh pfffft, if an Absolute Hottie with no job but amazing personality threw herself at you, your requirement list would vanish like the silliness that it is. Same with women's pickiness. Everyone has a phony baloney "list" that gets pitched when a 9 or 10 smiles at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 03:21 PM
1

What? Life could be sweet in the Balkans.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 03:26 AM
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Or maybe you need to fake your death and disappear to another country and start over with new women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:39 AM
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