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FundamentalsZealousideal6669/r/seduction15/06/22 05:21 PM
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It's all about your frame. Just think about what would make you brag about the girl. You probably would see and treat it as an accomplishment, something that you achieved and you're proud of that. Girls are kinda the same, if she can impress her friends or any others being with you, you're gonna be her prize that she wants to achieve. there are 2 parts to it. Being high value so like being high status, having friends, cool lifestyle, money, having girls who had crush on you, being fun to be arou…
/r/seduction01/11/22 01:33 PM
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I like to be honest so yeah you might. Ofc she said what she said logically but girls do like sex, especially if you're good in bed so it's not really about pushing or forcing her to do something that she doesn't wanna do, the goal is that help her to allow herself to have that experience things like you're a cool social guy so if she tells her friends what guys she slept with her friends won't think that how could she sleep with that looser or won't think that she did a sl*tty thing also you're…
/r/seduction01/11/22 12:48 PM
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It is usually just backward rationalization. People dont make decisions based on logic and facts but rather how they feel so usually but rather than all the time if she was open to having sex but it didn't happen somewhy later on she gonna rationalize all the things why you didn't end up having sex but if you do have sex with her she's gonna come up with all the reasons why she has done that
/r/seduction01/11/22 12:25 PM
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It's a half success that you already know what you should do but simply you're afraid of doing it. The one and probably only way to get but rather gain confidence are to know what you're afraid of doing but do it anyway. I know easier said than done but just a motivation if it would be easy, everybody would be confident but if you look around people, they're usually anxious and insecure af so it's much your job to step up for yourself and do things that you know you should do. Another thing coul…
/r/seduction01/11/22 09:33 AM
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The most typical shit test I usually get from girls. Bro you have to know that girls want sex, they like sex I would bet better than I do. You don't have to take seriously what she said sometimes because it means a completely different thing, that's why never take dating advice from girls, they think they know what they want but it's not the biggest thing they want or logically what they think what they logically want the main thing is what they respond to. Every time I got those shittest we end…
/r/seduction01/11/22 09:23 AM
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Looksmax is pretty simple. Like mewing, if you're not familiar with it just google it you gonna find tutorials on how to do it, go to the gym, and take care of your grooming, haircut, fashion, your teeth like if you have to spend money on braces if you have to so whatever that you can make the most out of what you have. Ofc there are so many things that make you physically attractive that you can't change but focusing on it is just a waste of time if you can't do anything about that. I can't tal…
/r/seduction30/10/22 02:45 PM
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Just make her game you. Never ever say that out loud pls. Girls are wanna fuck as well, they like it probably more than you but they don't wanna appear slutty and their friends and they don't wanna be judged by you or any others so if you make sure that you're not judgemental she's being slutty around you, you're already attractive and you have attractive traits, you qualify her so you pay attention to her and tell that why shes good or special or more than other girls and there's no possible do…
/r/seduction30/10/22 09:36 AM
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I live kinda a digital nomad lifestyle so I stay in a city in a random hotel for a week and all I do basically is change my tinder location week by week, do my work from the hotel, go to gyms and discover the city so I can approach girls, introduce myself as a tourist who works from hotels collect numbers, contacts and make some friends in gyms or bars so I usually have a few girls and guys to hang out with for the rest of the week
/r/seduction30/10/22 09:31 AM
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Looksmax and game probably. Money also helps if you're successful in your area and you have your shit together but looksmax and game was probably the 2 biggest thing that changed everything
/r/seduction30/10/22 09:28 AM
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A few things that I usually use disqualify like the most classic one if you're this or that were not going to get along, tease the girl, test her, misinterpret what she said in a sexual way or it was a compliment, simply push-pull . There are so many ways
/r/seduction30/10/22 09:26 AM
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Simply stay high-value, stay grounded and have boundaries, tease her, test her just for fun, and also learn how to entertain yourself maybe collect a few things that you can do together but the simple key is just stay that high-value guy that she was attracted to for the first time but also know that every girl are replaceable so don't be afraid to walk away if you have to
/r/seduction30/10/22 09:23 AM
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For me, it was just developing your bad boy side it's just a few things that if you implement them into your daily habits it will be a new side of your personality. A few things like don't give af attitude so saying what's on your mind without censoring it, being playful, and challenging the girls, willingness to express that you're sexually interested, not taking the girls seriously, standing up for yourself if she or anyone crosses over your boundaries, and willingness to walk away if you have…
/r/seduction29/10/22 11:21 PM
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That's why it's called the apocalypse opener, pls dont ever ask the girls that do they wanna fuck. on online dating, it's fine if you got those signals but in the daytime, you have to ask out a ton of girls just to get one yes. Also if you wanna get laid with the hottest girls you have to stand out, they pretty much hear that they are pretty or beautiful day by day. from girls who walk by, from online simps, it's fucking everywhere. So you rather have to be cocky and funny and doesn't give af ab…
/r/seduction29/10/22 08:37 AM
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Just to make it clear, being nice is not a bad thing, it's probably the best way to socialize or make friends but it's pretty much useless for girls why? it's nice to be nice but if you can only be nice that's the main problem. If you cant get what you want by not being that nice but rather standing up and asking for what you wanna get or what you deserve you gonna be a push not just with girls but in other areas of life as well. So as a weird mix of a nice guy and a bad guy usually the best com…
/r/seduction29/10/22 08:30 AM
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Might not help you out idk but my answer for me was self-development back then. Ofc after a few years I've become better and better so I don't just realize that I knew that now I'm the guy that most girls don't deserve so it becomes my new nature, I didn't try to seek her approval or change myself to impress her, if she wasn't interested I knew that it's her loss way better than mine. Another strategy is you just a bit of question and reframes how you view all those things like why you wanna val…
/r/seduction29/10/22 08:22 AM
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It's usually not just the girl's fault. You can be simply not engaging or you're not getting her attention enough. That's not the hardest thing to do but if you don't get any of those ofc she will be or seem uninterested and bored at first or on the whole date. She can be uninterested anyway then where is the point to take her out but if she already agreed on a date and she committed her free time to you then it's your job to make her more interested or more attracted in some way, obviously if y…
/r/seduction29/10/22 08:05 AM
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it's usually the vibe more than your words or touches. There are 3 ways how you can escape. verbally so talking about like tattoos is more sexual than talking about how the weather was yesterday, you can talk about not only yourself and her individually but both of you together so instead of I and you use we. You can escape logistically so take her to new places or take her closer and closer where sex could happen physically ofc but not touch for the sake of touching. Usually, the best way to go…
/r/seduction27/10/22 11:49 AM
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You can build up a social circle, you can go to approach girls on the street or if you see the opportunity, as an introverted guy I started with a cold approach and social circle so those 2 might be the easiest to start, if you already got some friends you can go to bars as well, those type of girls usually not the most relationship material type of girls but if you only go for 1 night stands it's probably the perfect place for that
/r/seduction27/10/22 10:25 AM
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You described me a lil bit so a few things about what I usually do. Like the evergreen question? why do girls fall for bad guys? because simply they're more sexually excited so they're more attractive. Attraction is not a choice, you can't logically convince someone to be attracted to you, she is or she isn't but you can't hold a ppt presentation on why you're the best decision to make for her future. There are 2 parts to this. Being mature simply means that you're an adult, you know that you're…
/r/seduction27/10/22 10:20 AM
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Do you wanna connect? pls forget that asap. Ideally, you just go up to her and decide is good enough for you or not in an ideal world but if you're not there yet it's not a problem you have to be more assertive and ask for what you want, otherwise, if you simply don't ask for it you simply won't get it even if it's just a phone number or anything else, can be your inner game practice simply ask for what you want from others and if you're getting better at it it's gonna be easier with girls as we…
/r/seduction26/10/22 09:21 AM
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It can be your mission or a daily practice, not a game to have sex or have phone numbers just gaming to have fun and entertain yourself. it's just self-amusement, say whatever comes to your mind and not be worried about is that gonna sound good enough or how many people gonna be offended by that so speak first and think later, you can still calibrate by saying that I was just joking if you went too far and carry on what you just started
/r/seduction26/10/22 09:14 AM
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If you think it's really gonna come off as weird or creepy so is just a mental shift that is the most natural thing in the world and also a saying to keep in mind. I make no apologies for my desires as a man and pls live by that
/r/seduction26/10/22 09:11 AM
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Sexual dominance is one of not the biggest turn on for girls so after a while I've become more and more confident and dominant I even surprised sometimes how it makes who whole business so much easier. I've done it for the first time as well okay if I got any lmr I'd probably messed it up so I had a bit luck that it was that easy but once you reach the point when everything's become hot and heavy and escalation is getting more serious and obvious that it's gonna be sex or nothing else it's even …
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:58 PM
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When I let go of who I am I started to become who I wanted to be. One of my favourite quote anyway but it's highly relevant in seduction as well to become a more attractive person in any area
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:21 PM
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What world are you living in. I agree that social media or dating sites is like a fishing pool for girls but in public it's not at all. Some guys assume that girls are approached in public a lot but most of the times guys simply don't make any moves because they fear or they don't know what to do or what to say. Hot girls are being approached more often but in a pretty shitty way so it doesn't count that much
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:17 PM
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Exactly. I trying to think always ahead but any fucked up thing can happen anytime so you cant be prepared for anything instead just enjoy the process, the girl's company, and trust yourself that you gonna figure out what you have to do to make things go forward
/r/seduction21/09/22 11:54 AM
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I'm the same so a few things helped me to get out of my way. Being clever is cool if you know how to use your words and actions correctly but if it only puts you in your head it can be your enemy as well. Okay, when I'm not talking I'm tryna think a step or 2 steps ahead of where I'm at and what my next move should be but guess what. most guys who are getting laid are way dumber than you or you might think so it helps if you're smart til you can use it up but you don't have to be smart to get gi…
/r/seduction21/09/22 08:27 AM
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Its just social proof. Girls like guys who are liked by other girls. As simple as that from the attraction part but yeah you might fucked it up if you're already too late and if you never showed any sign of interest or maybe its not too late
/r/seduction21/09/22 08:19 AM
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For me, the easiest getaway is always teasing, tease them about what they wear and what assumptions you have about it, the way they talk or look at you and it doesn't really matter when you start to imply it, another that I usually use is just playfully shittest her it makes them wanna prove that they good enough for you so it's always useful as well. you don't have to be that clever with your words but it helps ofc if you can use them well but it's better if you have a few things that you can t…
/r/seduction21/09/22 08:16 AM
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A golden rule in pickup. If you want her to feel something you have to feel it first. Works the Best if you're already ina fun mode then she's gonna catch your vibe as well
/r/seduction20/09/22 10:57 AM
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Just tog out to nightclubs or bars. By far the easiest places to get laid
/r/seduction19/09/22 09:14 AM
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You're completely right. Friendly and intellectual conversations most of the time are designed to put you in the friend zone for your whole life. most guys simply don't know it but getting girls is all about emotions and not that much about logic. Ofc she has to have a few common things to convince herself logically that she likes you or you meant to be in some way but if you never flirt, make a conversation man to woman its impossible to get out of anything from the situation whether its sex or…
/r/seduction19/09/22 09:13 AM
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Simple. Hotape. It stands for humour, openness, touch, attention, proximity and long eye contact. If you got a few or all of these in the interaction she's flirting with you or you're flirting with her
/r/seduction19/09/22 08:13 AM
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It's that deep topic you're just not attractive or not attractive enough for the ones you care about. As simple as that. If you're generally attractive to any girls you never gonna have this kind of problem. Being attractive doesn't mean looking like the son of Brad Pitt and Zack Efron. It helps a lot ofc if you already have good genetics but looks is way more than your face only. Like how you care for yourself, your fashion, your body. These are still part of your looks as well. An attractive p…
/r/seduction18/09/22 09:30 AM
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Okay, you fucked up, it happens with everyone all the time, it's not that big deal but I'd say the more fucked up thing is that now you have to desperately brag to her to get any chance to ask her out, its a way more fucked up place to be in. I haven't been in your situation before just an idea that you might try out and works out or not. Still, it would be a better approach is just hang out with your friends or female friends, just live your life a lil bit and give her space to process her emot…
/r/seduction18/09/22 09:22 AM
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Sometimes I did accidentally like I had a date, we was talking about marketing and I probably said something smart that impressed her after a while I suggested to visit a cool place nearby but she refused it and said no we should take it slow and go on a date so sometimes if you accidentally can even end up in a boyfriend category and ofc if she see you as someone with future potential she doesn't wanna ruin it with sleeping with you too early than you might consider her slutty. Interesting thin…
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:21 AM
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It doesn't work like that. Like guys are attracted or uninterested for someone under a few seconds but girls attraction is different. The more they spend time with you the more attracted they become. So ofc looks do matter, it's always gonna be but it's just one part of the attraction. You might see guys anywhere when they have a way more attractive gf then they actually are, I'm the same a lil bit in terms of looks I'm like a 6 so a bit above average but I sleep with girls way out of my league …
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:56 AM
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I did several times. Getting laid is pretty easy but if you mess up your frame and you become too relationshippy on a date she might start to wonder that you want something more serious so I hurt a few girls feeling with that even though that was the last thing that I wanted to so for me was the biggest lesson if you keep a player frame like let's just have fun and get to know each other but don't take things too seriously they better gonna sense that what's gonna be the end of the story
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:47 AM
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Your personality can be a problem if you have no clue how to use it correctly. At the beginning of your post, you're entirely right, guys get laid much more often and much more successfully if they're fun already and taking things about less seriously. I used to be probably the same as you, have a lot of intellectual interest, don't show off that many emotions and I could have fun around my closest friends or family but that's pretty much it. Overtime I become less serious, don't give af fun guy…
/r/seduction17/09/22 02:19 PM
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You can read countless books on a topic that you gonna understand on the intellectual level but neediness comes deeper than that so consuming more and more information can be useful if you figure out how you gonna apply it but neediness is usually just a fucked up combination of the wrong way of thinking and wrong beliefs so to get out of this you only need the right actions instead of countless right information. I'd say first of all just discover your feelings, if you caught up yourself being …
/r/seduction12/09/22 01:28 PM
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your friend's secret only is that they dont pressure themselves. I mean am an introvert but I kinda get better at open people, I was working and a new guy came in, easily approached anyone, and had conversations, I have way more interesting and fun stories or topics to tell or talk about but I wanted to see him live. We were standing next to each other and a guy come closer to us. That guy simply asked what was up and asked him about his weekend and that's it. You don't have to be clever, intere…
/r/seduction11/09/22 03:53 PM
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She's clearly interested without any doubt but nope not only Chad's can get girl's attention. They care about how are you being perceived by other man and woman. If other guys and girls like you girls gonna like you as well
/r/seduction10/09/22 05:10 AM
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It's usually just your inner game. Your inner beliefs and don't take the girl seriously because you're certain about that if you want to you can easily get her and every girl would be the luckiest person in the world if they could be a part of your life. I pretty much have that mindset that took 3 years to develop so you're just usually cocky and funny because you don't give af but girls like that pretty much so it's just your mindset usually nothing canned line or any technical stuff.
/r/seduction08/09/22 08:01 PM
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Sometimes people just wanna complain about their problems and share it with others. I'm the same so I always ask people before they go into details. I just want you to know that if you tell me your problems I'll try to solve them so do you wanna get advices or you just wanna tell me what's on your mind. So don't get into that mistake that you wanna solve other people's better than they do. It's just frustrating for you and a waste of time.
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:48 AM
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You can hardly start a conversation with strangers out of nothing. You have to hook their interest first. You have to prove that you're high value enough at first then if they open up and start to ask you questions than you done your job well, they hooked so now you have a normal conversation. In order to get a hook you have to have a few things. You have to show why are you there so you have to show some intention. You can do it with a simple compliment but it's better if you're just have a fli…
/r/seduction08/09/22 08:45 AM
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If you want the interaction to go in more intimate directions like sex usually you can escalate 3 different ways. Logistically so move her around in the club or take her somewhere to drink something or do any kind of activity. You can escalate verbally instead the talking about you and her individually rather than talking about us so you and her together also if you talk about sandwiches it's less sexual than if you were talking about crazy adventures or how she lost her virginity so some topic …
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:50 PM
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I'm 20 nearly 21 but I usually date an older girl than me so it all depends. People judge guys if they date younger girls and also judge girls if they date older guys but it's totally up to you and your own decision. If you see some potential in an 18 years old girl, by all means, people can think whatever they want to but you always make your own final decisions in your own life so don't depend on what others going to think of you after that. Just make that and own it. Till it's legal and she m…
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:36 PM
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It always depends. Some girls are more shy, some are more outgoing and open by their nature. I just usually flirty and fun and usually if we talked enough they start to get into the same vibe. All you can do is assert your frame and calibrate how the girl reacts to you
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:56 AM
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Just realize that you're not that as important as you think you are. People have their own problems, thoughts, feelings so they don't care about you as much as you think they do or they don't care about you at all. So if you got rejected just know that it's not reflect on you most of the time. It might reflect on you if you did something wrong and you can correct next time but If you did everything right it's just something that she's dealing with at the moment and has nothing to do with you at …
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:07 PM
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It's called assertiveness, one of the best personality traits you could have. It means standing up for yourself, having your own boundaries, and speaking what is on your mind even if you know that some people won't like it. One saying in pickup is that I make no apologies for my desires as a man. Ofc approaching girls are not easy, if it would be every guy would do that but it's a nontoxic form of masculinity from my pov. You get after what you want whatever it takes. Ofc don't be silly or illeg…
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:44 PM
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It's usually just one excuse from many. You can accidentally look both in the same direction or she's looking at you because she's interested it doesn't really matter. If I caught a girl looking at me I just assume that without any doubt that she was interested so at least I immediately give myself an excuse to go to talk to her. Am I delusional? Pretty much but girls like delusionally cocky and confident guys so it's only for your benefit if you adopt that mindset. Girls always at least respect…
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:17 PM
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All your self development work in a perfect place to start from but just take a look at what are the core ideas of game. Conveying yourself in a best possible way. I don't wanna go in depth technicality like disqualify, qualify, push pulls or anything like this but there are a few general game skills that you can do by yourself or with other girls and if you get better at it you gonna be more engaging verbally at least. Things like confident body language, flirting, self amusing, misinterpretati…
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:41 AM
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Just realize that failure is an event not a person. You might have a bad night but it doesn't mean that you're lame. You learn, you grow, you move on and you gonna do better next time. Treat it not as something that reflects who you are, treat as a lesson and you already at a much better place
/r/seduction06/09/22 08:55 AM
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I'd say it is what is it. Game, life, people are unfair. It was never fair and it never gonna be. Someone's is always richer than you, more handsome than you, taller than you, more fun that you can ever be but it is what it is. You can still increase your chances if you understand how to play the game and make the most out of what you got
/r/seduction06/09/22 07:33 AM
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Works better with the more cocky, confident ones but overall it just sais good things about you and generally you attract every girl in the same way, attraction always works the same way. Not how you tell how cool, confident and popular you are instead act and behave like a cool, confident guy with other girls options.
/r/seduction05/09/22 07:24 AM
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It is what it is It's simply called attraction. What girls are attracted to more than anything else? One simple word. Status. So if you're care less than her and dgaf what is sais about you? Why you don't care? Why you don't have to try that hard? Probably because you probably have enough people and girls in your life so you're not desperate over a single one. It's an honest signal of value and status. That's why it's attractive in every case
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:34 AM
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Just simply be friendly and flirty but not overcomplicate it. I got a few dates from gyms it usually begins like me asking her a random gym question about how many sets you still have or anything than just introducing yourself or how you got into working out, you already have something in common so use that advantage, I tryna be a bit flirty and if she's into it I usually suggest to try out a cool street workout park in that area so you already set up yourself a date too. Just be friendly at fir…
/r/seduction04/09/22 02:41 PM
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I usually use a semi-direct/observational opener. If you're that beginner and that scared to make an approach hey you're cute and I just wanted to come over and say hi is a good opener to start with but if you get better at it and you already had a few success before you can more trust yourself and be a little more spontaneous and trust yourself the rest of the interaction that she's going to like you
/r/seduction04/09/22 02:35 PM
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Simply don't treat it as a cold approach. Ofc if you're see a random person on the street you have to get to the point at some point because otherwise you never gonna see her again but collages or other work places don't work like that where you see the same people over and over again. What you should do instead is be a friendly cool guy who's socializing with everyone but directly don't hit on everyone. You can tease or flirt but at these kind of places always be a cool social guy first and sex…
/r/seduction01/09/22 05:53 AM
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I usually answer that like not as many as your might think
/r/seduction28/08/22 06:10 PM
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If you get better at teasing one of the most useful things that I learn with the game, a good idea if you simply just get used to using what you want to use or plan to use like teasing, flirting, and misinterpretation all f*king useful in-game like doing it with other guys or girls it doesn't really matter just get used to it and not use it just because you want a reaction from the girl rather using it just to express your feeling and entertain yourself. That's how I usually go about that topic,…
/r/seduction26/08/22 06:45 PM
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Not exactly, okay I did looksmax like gym, mewing, tryna grow out a beard so what I could do what I already have but like many other guys I used to be a simple nice guy who had no success with girls so it's just a long self-development process and learning game nothing else
/r/seduction26/08/22 06:10 PM
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I'm about 6'0 or 6'1 so I can't complain about that but I've got an average or slightly above average face like a 5 or 6 out of 10, I wouldn't say it doesn't really matter ofc it matters a lot but if I had to measure getting girls is about 40% looks and 60% game if you're an average looking guy like most of us
/r/seduction26/08/22 09:50 AM
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I usually get laid most on my first dates so a few things about how I turn girls on. If she likes you and if she is already attracted to you that's when it works the best so it doesn't really help with girls that you don't have the best chemistry with anyway. It's usually the slight progression of intimacy so if you are on a date you can assume and treat her like she's already your gf. You can do that verbally and physically. verbally like talking about yourself and her individually then, later …
/r/seduction26/08/22 08:37 AM
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My personal Ig strategy back then. I moved to another country to work at the age of 20 so ofc I dont speak the language, I don't know a single soul and most people are going to be older than me or at least where I'm going to work so I just wanted some kind of social life and some people I can hang out with. Where are those people who are at my or nearly my age and can speak English possibly? in universities most of the time. So I checked every university IG that is near to me and I reached out t…
/r/seduction25/08/22 08:12 AM
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As an introvert who is fine with girls, it's only possible if you miraculously gonna be introduced to a girl that you like from some of your friends and somewhy she likes you back, you can pray for that to happen but if you choose a different approach and take the responsibility after your life and your wants you have to step out of your comfort zone and I'm scared to tell you but you have to a few things that are uncomfortable to do like talking to others or get used to leaving your house even …
/r/seduction24/08/22 09:45 AM
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You can twist it however you want. Maybe the best way or at least for me that make the interaction man to woman so if you're a bit creative about it it's a lot of fun
/r/seduction23/08/22 10:07 PM
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Sure. The base is you say something and you finish or you force your brain to finish the sentence. Good example as I said yes and.. or you're so X just like y I personally use the 2nd one maybe the most for teasing. I could suggest love and hate excercise. You just look at a random picture of someone and you say the first thing that comes to your mind like I love your smile or I hate the way you look at me. I combined it with a push pull excercise usually so like I hate the way you look at me, I…
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:58 PM
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So simple. Just self amuse. I know some improvisation comedy exercises for this like yes and.. you answer for something like its a good way to pass or not fail a shittest just say yes and continue with whatever that comes to your mind, if you start something I guarantee you that you gonna finish the sentence. it might not be perfect, might be weird or rude but it gives you some practice in trusting yourself, and whatever you say you can deal with that what comes after that. Another thing like th…
/r/seduction23/08/22 08:55 AM
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Blackpill ideology is a bit of half truths. Ofc it's matter how you look and take care of yourself but mostly how you look is based on your genetics so you can go to gym, dress better and have a nice haircut but it's not that much that you can do about that. I'm terms of attraction it obviously does matter but what guys are attracted to? Simply looks and have good genetics to raise a child. What girls are attracted to? One simple word. Status. That's what that ideology doesn't consider how attra…
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:48 AM
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On my dates usually, sex is not really just a topic, it's a vibe that's present in the conversation every time and on a subconscious level, we both know that the more time we spend together the more likely it's gonna happen. How do I usually do it? I wanna know what she thinks of sex to screen is she down for it or not so I ask her what she thinks of it. how many relationships has she had and how has she experienced those once I got the info I tryna force her to manipulate it like I bring up sto…
/r/seduction07/08/22 09:36 AM
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Being masculine is about being fine and confident about yourself and your own feelings too so just if you wanna laugh than laugh if you wanna cry than just simply cry. Emotions are a natural part of being so being able to express it and not being embarrassed about it is a pretty masculine thing
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:16 PM
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Being masculine around a girl usually means me just being dominant, assertive, and taking the lead while ofc pays attention to her and finding out where your limits are, at least how I personally do that.
/r/seduction06/08/22 07:38 PM
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It's 2 different things, conversations are just usually logical information exchanges but excitement is an emotion that has nothing to do with your or her logic. One basic principle in a game is that you have to know if you want her to feel a certain way you have to feel it first so if you want her to be in a happy mood you have to be in a happy mood first, if you want her to be aroused you have to be aroused first same thing with excitement if you're already excited about the vibe, the conversa…
/r/seduction06/08/22 09:11 AM
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Flirting is simply an attitude, how you talk and how you look at the girl is as simple as that. If you got the vibe right the words usually come naturally
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:03 PM
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You can be that guy whos in the picture but joke asides it depends, some girls are more loyal than others, some girls have simply better boyfriends so it's harder to replace him
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:00 PM
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Just realized that. There are billions of girls all over the world but let's just say you wanna younger, more fit, single girls, you still have millions so its impossible to run out of girls and options, but there's only one you, the one unique personality and life experiences you had, the one value you bring to the table so treat yourself as that prize that girls have to earn. Speak from experience if you shift that in your mind, you shift everything
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:59 PM
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Some traits that guys I know to get laid the most. Assertiveness, Assuredness, Attemptiveness, Attractiveness, and aliveness, also good at problem-solving
/r/seduction03/08/22 02:23 PM
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I'd say your shyness is your biggest problem so it's time to get over it. I had this problem before but I could solve that with one simple thing. Dont censor yourself but literally. Everybody censoring themselves because they are usually afraid of what they gonna think of me after that? I won't seem that cool. I'm gonna be too harsh. She's not gonna like it and guess what all of that is doesn't matter. It's not always the best idea to speak what is on your mind but from the start, it's perfect f…
/r/seduction02/08/22 09:00 AM
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Usually, if she's not interested in your first approach then you have to try out something else. It can be turned around I personally did several times but if nothing gonna work out then just leave and move on to the next one
/r/seduction02/08/22 08:53 AM
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It depends. I usually just acknowledge it and move on in a friendly way then I just tryna close with the idea that I'm just a friendly guy who wanna get to know you, sometimes works sometimes doesn't but I can't remember a time when I couldn't pull the girl when I could ask her out with any excuse. Luckily I hadn't had to deal with boyfriends so far
/r/seduction01/08/22 06:37 PM
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Every girl is different and every girl is the same at the same time but if you treat or game those girls differently because of how they look you already put them on a pedestal and make them a prize that you wanna win that's by far the worst position to be in
/r/seduction01/08/22 11:52 AM
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Not really just for the insecure ones, attraction always works in the same repetitive way so it doesn't matter how insecure she is she gonna be attracted to you the only difference is if she get used to dating other high value guys like athletes, musicians, celebrities, etc she gives you a lot more shit than insecure girls who's only gonna think that you're too good for her
/r/seduction01/08/22 10:36 AM
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If you're willing to push your limits you're already better than the most of guys who are desperately dreaming of a gf but never do anything to get one. Honestly, I think your main problem is that you have no direction. Ofc you have a final destination but till you don't know what's gonna get you where you're just lost and confused so yeah pushing forward or pushing even harder dont gonna solve that. It might be an inner game issue or an outer game issue I'd say its more an inner game issue with…
/r/seduction01/08/22 08:59 AM
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There are a lot of dating coaches on youtube like past RSD members like ToddV, Julien, Max, John Anthony lifestyle, James Marshall, and a ton more. All of them has different game style, personality, and view on the game so it's your job to decide who works best for you but these guys all know what they're doing so there's no really a bad choice
/r/seduction01/08/22 08:53 AM
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I have it most on my first dates but it depends on a few things. Her sexual past: how open is she to it? Her past relationships. Does she even have time for that like she has to go to work early in the morning the next day or she's with friends and she doesn't wanna leave them alone. Your frame. So if you're a high-value guy or at least she sees you as a high-value guy and sleeping with you is a win for her and it doesn't have any negative consequences she's probably gonna go with you
/r/seduction01/08/22 08:48 AM
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I've done that several times so it's possible. There's no crucial difference between picking up girls in a metro or in a shop, it's the same thing
/r/seduction01/08/22 08:44 AM
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8-10 girls aren't aliens, you just have to treat them differently. One simple thing that is still attractive for all girls. Status. You have to convey less status to a 6-7's girl but to the highest level simply you have to convey more. Some of those traits: Idgaf attitude, willingness to be polarizing and speak what's on your mind, willingness to push her away playfully and convey that she has to work for you, don't get emotionally reactive if she challenges you, and loneliness so you want her b…
/r/seduction01/08/22 08:40 AM
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If you have some progression with girls you might skip it but if you go through it like me and you have no girls and then you meet and hook up with hot girls who even had boyfriends it takes time to realize that you can do that but it's such a new experience so it's easier to be emotionally attached after a short period of time or sometimes cry after girls. Was weird when it happened but the more girls who are around you and the more times you prove yourself what you're capable of it simply beco…
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:23 PM
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Girls sleep with 2 types of guys. With players or with their boyfriends. if you wanna get into the player or fuckboy category you have to convey that like don't take me seriously I'm not boyfriend material, let's just have fun and see where it goes, be a bit hard to get, and push her away sometimes, tease her and be playful. just a few things that come to my mind and what I do almost every time so you simply gonna be a high-value guy that they wanna sleep with and they can categorize you that fu…
/r/seduction31/07/22 10:30 AM
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Still, girls and people, in general, are driven by emotions, if you know to control emotions to your advantage you can control anything
/r/seduction31/07/22 10:25 AM
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It's gonna be hard and it's gonna hurt at first probably was my biggest surprise but if you push through it, it worth everything
/r/seduction31/07/22 10:23 AM
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Like that one
/r/seduction30/07/22 09:10 AM
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I said before that I'm the biggest player that you've probably ever gonna meet. So it's a great way to pass those shittests
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:38 AM
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if you sleep with multiple girls week by week maybe it's a honest sign that you're doing something well
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:36 AM
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It's usually weird if you cold approach, I mean it's pretty beneficial for you but it's funny from strangers, and even if you're not aware of what you're doing in weird socially the girls are going to be so it's okay if you're going out alone but the more you can make it seem like just a simple conversation between 2 people the more likely that you're going to hook her interest sooner
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:33 AM
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As a guy who only got chased, I can't relate but I can at the same time. Before girls started chasing after me instead of me chasing after them I was probably you so if I could switch that you can do it too. Let's define a bit what's chasing. you wanna prove to the other person that you're good enough for them and if there's a silence you start to carry the conversation. Let's take a look at how attraction works. You cant decide whether you're attracted to someone or not, its just happens withou…
/r/seduction29/07/22 11:04 AM
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Simply dont stress about it. People usually make the easiest assumptions about you so if you don't try to please a girl rather you're being yourself it conveys that you don't have to please any girls because you probably have many so it's attractive. Same principle with others if you force to make friends with people and if they offend you, you might even don't stand up for yourself they gonna assume that it's your only option because you don't have many friends and why you don't have many frien…
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:42 PM
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Simply be social, if you're the guy whose friends with everyone girls usually have crushes on you out of nothing so you can flirt or tease but don't be that sexual if you don't wanna be that creepy guy who just hit up on girls, ofc if you invite someone 1v1 you can do whatever you want but in those social circle situations being direct can backfire youz
/r/seduction28/07/22 08:32 AM
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Just one thing that you need to understand, girls and people in general usually make decisions emotionally not logically, it's especially true for girls. You might see some real-life examples when a cute or fairly cute girl holding hands with a less attractive guy and you have no idea how he pulled her? that's exactly the answer because he could trigger those emotions the basis of which she was able to make the decision to get along with that guy. That makes a huge or biggest difference if you c…
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:01 AM
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A date is usually a direction when you go from you (talking about her/asking her) and I (you tell stories about yourself) to us so the both of you together. If you follow this the conversations gonna be impossible to be platonic. Also if you like something about her that you like besides her looks, mention it like I like your vibe, I like your sense of humor etc if you don't like something about her let her know, reward her for the traits that you want her to have so you let her know what type o…
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:54 AM
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I'd probably tease about it and dont take it seriously and be emotionally reactive, if she continues it I'd walk away. She might have some unsolved problems that I dont want to solve or deal with so don't waste my time on it. Maybe the best options
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:02 PM
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Its usually a form of teasing, I personally call girls cute/adorable/little girl all the time and they pretty much like it usually
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:45 PM
1

It helps but it's not the most necessary thing, but why not? it helps so
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:44 PM
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Patience and comfort, she's usually shy because either she lacks self-confidence already or you're just too cool for her so she's nervous around you. All you have to do is be patient and make her feel special if you're cooler than her you might point out things that you like about her and its nonphysical traits like I like your kindness, I like that you're paying attention, and so forth so you help her to feel more special so she starts to open up overtime
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:43 PM
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Personally, I'm about 5-6 or 7 at best but scientifically you can measure it for yourself. Like having low body fat % It makes your jawline and cheekbones more visible. It helps if you have a defined jawline and cheekbones and if you have a wide upper palate, usually the most attractive people all have a wide upper palate and a forward growth face, some people have it naturally but you can have the same facial features if you have narrow with mewing, not the most scientific way to be more cute/h…
/r/seduction22/07/22 10:27 AM
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Kinda same but you can change that, if you stand up for yourself if you have to nobody else's gonna do that for you
/r/seduction21/07/22 07:56 PM
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People simply think black and white you either this or that but life is always about the 50 shades of gray
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:31 PM
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It's easy. Usually, I do it with a mini cold read so you make assumptions about her so she's more likely to be interested in what you gonna say even if she doesn't know you enough to care about you. Another thing is attraction switches, basically stories that trigger attraction all the time. Some of them are leaders of man so stories when you lead someone or a group of people, protect loved ones so like you're doing martial arts, competence so you're good at something and there's a lot more but …
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:29 AM
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One simple word. Boundaries. Have boundaries. I'm also not I wouldn't say all the time but most of the time, it's fine, there's nothing wrong with that but I have my own boundaries and if someone was too much I let them know that I dont tolerate that so have your own boundaries, have your own values to live by and let people know how much they can get away with. They always gonna test your boundaries guys or girls it doesn't really matter so you have to stand up for it if you have to
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:02 AM
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You can approach a girl in 2 ways. direct so you express what you're there for or indirect like you go to ask for a direction. You can choose whatever you want but at the end of the interaction you definitely wanna ask for her number otherwise why would you go to talk to her so it doesn't really matter how you open, its more important how you continue and how you let her know that you're sexually interested Otherwise you just had a friendly conversation with a stranger or even if she goes on a d…
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:51 AM
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It's such an extreme example to have any conclusion. most girls are friendly or tryna be friendly saying like you're not my type, I'm in hurry or I have a bf so her response was something inside of her that you have no control over, it's not about you at all. Most of the time even if she didn't find you the most attractive guy she ever met she won't say it out loud. Ofc continue your journey and if you do it well your success gonna come soon, if it doesn't you may doing something wrong that need…
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:25 AM
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Ofc you need to have some empathy to understand girls but getting girls is not really about getting girls, it's your personality and your skill set so it's more about you and how you develop your personality and your skills. there's a saying that I make no apologies for my desires as a man. If it's needed tattoo it for yourself but if you see someone you want to approach, fucking do that. Especially if you have approach anxiety. From what to say perspective may be in the beginning it's better if…
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:07 AM
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If you look older than you actually are it might help with a beard or longer hairstyle, I have both but not for that purpose specifically. If she's older it's usually shes advantage so I usually tease her about it that you're too old for me or we cant do this because you're already out of that age so just playfully but not in an insulting way. a lot of the time she already has a bf or husband or kids so I usually try to show my more confident, mature self and if you got your life together it mig…
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:42 AM
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You have something to say. All of us have something to say. Usually, you just don't talk about it because you feel like it's not gonna be good enough, I'm gonna seem lame if I tell it, if I make this joke some people might gonna like it so rather you just shut up. Ofc you can be boring and you might not have the most amazing and interesting lifestyle ever, you can work on that too but most of the time you just simply censor yourself, that's what I changed a few months ago. No consore, nothing at…
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:35 AM
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Honestly, I did what you consider, it was easy at first but once I got to be more confident and more attractive girls started to notice me so it was harder in the end that I can't approach her because I still have to focus on myself. It's a better approach if you focus on both at the same time, it's possible that you can improve your game and improve yourself to be a more high value. Most of the time if you don't get the results you want usually just because you got the wrong strategy. ofc is ea…
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:27 AM
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You're probably an introvert like I am, I specifically don't like Smalltalk either but if you wanna make friends and get phone numbers you have to get used to it even if it's not the most interesting thing to talk about. I got better at it over the few years so here's how: meditation and being present - I realized that Smalltalk is basically what you do and who are you doing it with so it was an issue for me that I didn't even care what I did, I just did my things, and my hobbies because I felt …
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:22 AM
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If you try hard to be a good host she's gonna be even more comfortable but if you act like she isn't even around that's what's gonna make her feel comfortable, she has to feel that you have no agenda so just focus on having a good time with someone you enjoy spending time with and then you gonna see is she flirty or is she being physically close to you so its an obvious green light to make things go forward
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:09 AM
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Honestly you're a lil bit right. That's why called seduction the game. If you know how to play the game you gonna be more successful at it, as easy as it sounds but it's usually not looks like what you think. It's for me it's about knowing the girl better than she knows herself. If she's a more conservative type of girls I show her my more mature, emotional side and how stable I am, if she's more a party girls type I show her a let things happen naturally and don't take things too seriously side…
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:12 AM
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It does affect your attractiveness but more importantly your confidence so it might be a good way to contact with someone who can help you to get rid of it. You still can be attractive while you have acnes but if you loose your confidence with it you're hopeless
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:13 AM
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Well, it's a bit easier if you already had sex before but I assume that you either don't or don't have that much so one thing that it's useful if you're being aware of. Girls like sex, I'm not joking. They like it at least as much as you do but they aren't allowed to have sex with anyone because they can get pregnant and if they do society will judge them and blame them so it holds them back. So it's your job as a guy to make the girl sure that you're not going to judge her if she likes sex and …
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:38 AM
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I usually date girls who date other guys but I'm that type of guy who dates a lot of girls. it is what it is, I don't hide that, I'm not flexing with it but I'm honest about that and I'm not tryna hide that. Ofc I dont talk about it too much what girls I've dated I'm just being superficial and I move on, if she brings up the topic I usually just make fun of her about it or misunderstand her stories and make it a bit more fun for me till she gives up and she moves on to another topic. I just simp…
/r/seduction15/07/22 02:00 PM
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Just girl's thing. So simple and casual manipulation form from girls when they tryna reframe thing if it was your fault and usually you gonna feel bad about it even if you didn't do anything wrong. Just realize that and don't fall for it, she's just being dramatic but you were nice so you have nothing to apologize for
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:54 PM
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I usually look at my dates like a movie, we just get to know each other, and often times I start to doubt that do I like her or not if she says something that I dint like that much then in the end I start to change my mind and discover what's special about her and we got home and the rest is history. it works most of the times
/r/seduction14/07/22 04:07 PM
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They are pretty much receptive to it if you know how you do it, I mean most of the time at least. You can still get rejected by doing everything perfectly, its a part of the game but most of the times if you do it well, its pretty easy to get numbers
/r/seduction14/07/22 04:03 PM
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I'm dating girls who are taller than me, I'm dating girls who are older than me. guess what. if you make a problem out of it, they gonna agree, if you don't give af about it just joking around like you're too tall for me or you're too old for me then they won't care about it at all
/r/seduction14/07/22 04:00 PM
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Yeah overall it's pretty fucked up. Might be just my personal philosophy but caring about what others think of you ruins almost everyone's life, ruins your potential, ruins your happiness and fulfillment ruins everything till you just only worry about I can't do this, or I can't say this bc others gonna like me less. So I just do the complete opposite of it. No censore but really nothing at all, whatever comes to my mind, probably that's why I'm more confident and happier than most people. Wheth…
/r/seduction13/07/22 07:57 AM
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I overcame it by getting girls. All jokes aside you look good, you're doing fine in your personal life it's all fine but it doesn't mean that much for a girl. If I were you as an introvert, I'd focus more on my social life and my game. That's pretty much all I've done for years. So pls don't be fooled by the idea that you have to have 6 pack and you have to look like Brad Pitt and make a lot of money to get the girl. Ofc if you're good-looking it helps a lot, if you have money it helps, if you'r…
/r/seduction13/07/22 07:50 AM
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James Marshall, Coach Kyle, Todd, and James Anthony who are influenced my game probably the most but there are a lot of guys who know what they're doing
/r/seduction12/07/22 02:18 PM
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Happened to me with my first approach, was so frustrating I know what to say but my brain just got frozen. So here's what was the gamechanger. You need to understand what that feeling is when you wanna talk to someone, your heart beats faster, you start to sweat and your body is prepared for the worst scenario that physically could happen to you like if she's an MMA fighter and she wanna beat the shit out of you. She probably not but that feeling, that adrenalin is the same feeling you feel when…
/r/seduction12/07/22 02:15 PM
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I'm pretty good at it so I grab some of my friends and whenever I saw someone they have to give me an opener, so I went to girls with I have a small penis, how much do I have to pay you to suck me and this kind of approaches after that they opened girls instead of me and I had to get her number but acting as a guy as I could. I had some mental breakdowns till I figured out how to turn it around but overall one of the funniest thing I ever done
/r/seduction12/07/22 02:05 PM
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It definitely does if its something like you took a picture when you're both having a good time and not just make some weird poses to look cool to others
/r/seduction11/07/22 02:02 PM
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If you treat her as a friend you gonna be her friend, if you treat her like she's already your gf guess what she might gonna be. Dont have to overcomplicate it if you're just playful and tease, flirt, and make physical moves like tickling, touching her, lifting her up etc it might be enough. if it's not enough she probably wasn't attracted enough
/r/seduction11/07/22 02:00 PM
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The easiest type of girl, at least for me. If she thinks that you're cooler than her you just have to compliment her sometimes, make her feel special, and spend time with her and be patient or try out various places if possible that create the illusion that the time goes by faster. The The golden role is build comfort
/r/seduction11/07/22 01:53 PM
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Clubs, pubs, parties are probably the best
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:35 PM
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The biggest beta Omega low value behaviour is avoid confrontation with her and not expressing your values and boundaries. I used to have that mindset too that I can't say that or I can't reply that fast because it's gonna appear low value but girls are not that complicated, they don't even know what are those words mean so most of the time if I got time I reply if I don't then I reply hours later on leave it on read for a while. You hold your value as long as you stay true to your values and bou…
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:29 PM
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It's fine if you don't. As an introvert guy it was the same case for me but after I became more and more extroverted I noticed that I sometimes touch my guy friends jokingly sometimes and girls it's not even a question so it might be a natural progression for you if you become more open and more expressive you gonna be more touchy naturally or the complete opposite. It doesn't matter till you're comfortable to be physical with girls it's the most important thing
/r/seduction10/07/22 11:17 AM
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Female psychology it's like human psychology. It describe how woman works, why they do what they do and so forth based on our evolution and how we evolved
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:09 PM
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You clearly have no idea about how female psychology works so there's nothing more to discuss
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:05 AM
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It's true but it only takes you that far, you can function like every other human being but if you wanna go further, find a passion, and happiness, and express yourself and your thoughts it's still the # 1 reason that's gonna hold you back till you can only worry about who's not gonna like it
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:31 PM
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It's gonna be always an objectively fucked up for me but it turned to my advantage so many times so I don't complain about that
/r/seduction05/07/22 03:39 PM
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I mean fucked up if you care about what others think of you and you tryna prove to others that you're worthy enough or even better tryna impress people that you don't even really like. That's pretty fucked up and still ruins most people's lives and their potential but it is what it is
/r/seduction05/07/22 02:32 PM
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I know it's an evolutionary and a pretty fucked up thing we are all born with but you can control or rewrite it consciously I can disagree that most men do. They're pretty much defined by their job, and status more than women but if you see the personality aspect from it more men are disagreeable than women so you can be only disagreeable if you don't care about what others think of you
/r/seduction05/07/22 01:50 PM
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Not really everyone but most people I agree the difference is if she likes you she wanna earn your approval, she gonna earn that she good enough for you if she doesn't she don't give af about you bc she doesn't feel like she needs to prove you anything
/r/seduction05/07/22 12:51 PM
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Girls are probably gonna like you for who you are but it's the reality. you can hate it, you can wish that it wasn't true but you can't do anything about it so just embrace that and accept that it's the easiest and most useful way. Girls are attracted to status if you convey that you have the status they gonna be attracted to you, that's pretty much it but btw you don't have to be all over the top. If you're just pushing her away and giving her hard times sometimes like being honest even if you …
/r/seduction05/07/22 09:25 AM
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It's just a biological reaction most of the time. Especially guys with approach anxiety like I used to have. You just plan to start to go to talk to a girl or you just see her out of nothing so you take the chance but if that anxiety comes in your brain is usually in survival mode. Like you're running from a lion whos chasing that feeling and that adrenalin is kinda the same feeling. Your brain tells you to run away or hide because you're in danger. I mean you just talk to another human being so…
/r/seduction05/07/22 09:19 AM
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Yepp girls like attention and validation maybe more than everything else. So obviously you can convey or tell directly that you hang out with other girls its always better for attraction if you seem that type of guy who can get girls and ideally your main main focus is not on girls ofc they have to get some sort of attention but the main focus should be always on yourself and the girls are just a part of it. in other ways, girls are chasing validation if they don't get it and attention if they d…
/r/seduction05/07/22 09:10 AM
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You just might do something wrong. Ofc hot girls usually have options so it's easier to go for guys who are closer but generally if they like your personality and you got your game right they always come back or at least most of the time
/r/seduction05/07/22 09:03 AM
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Like how you described. What women like and attracted to. One thing. Status. If you can convey that you have status you can get girls. Like I'm usually a chill, not give af about anything or anyone type of guy who's dominant, confident and assertive when I have to talk to girls and it works. If you can lead an interaction that shows that you get used to it and you're good at it. If you're not afraid to hurt but rather offend others to stand up for the truth that means that you have been rewarded…
/r/seduction04/07/22 08:27 AM
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It's simply how attraction works. Girls has 2 state of mind their logical and their emotional. Attraction is always an emotional, you can't decide when or how it comes it just comes from nothing so you can't logically explain it how it happened. So logically every girl can say I'd never date a guy who has a lot of options and experience in bed but in reality it's just pre selection. I'm not gonna explain more about attraction switches but pre section is one of them. Attraction is just a biologic…
/r/seduction04/07/22 08:20 AM
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They're joking about you basically in a positive way so you can take it a compliment but if it's bother you simply be assertive and honest. Let them know that they should stop it because it bothers you so just stand up for yourself
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:17 AM
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Did that a few times so possible. Rare it's tru to find a girl on the street who has nothing to do but can happen
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:11 AM
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Action speaks still louder than words. I don't mean that don't give af about what she say to you but be aware of that girls aren't make decisions based on logic so they often are just illogical but if you pay attention to her actions you gonna know what you have to do
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:10 AM
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Is not that big deal if you just ask about it straight away. Okay I'm only 20 so I usually talk with girls from 17 up to maybe 30 if shes that good-looking but if she's older you can tease her about it like you're too old for me or too young if you found out the opposite and just joke around it a Lil bit till its not tryhard but its an important thing to know
/r/seduction02/07/22 07:48 AM
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Usually, it's called seek or deep rapport. Seek rapport is when you talk about on a surface level deep rapport ofc is you dive deeper into one topic. You don't want to be too superficial about things because then you basically build no comfort but if you're too deep about a few specific topics she usually categorizes you as a guy who likes to cook or the guy who is a gym addict and so forth, there's nothing specifically wrong with that but ideally, you wanna have a mix of both
/r/seduction02/07/22 07:44 AM
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Do you have any study to prove that? If you don't it's still just your opinion that I accept but I can't agree with you if you can't prove it
/r/seduction01/07/22 09:59 PM
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You're a grandmaster of half-truths
/r/seduction01/07/22 09:15 PM
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Okay, it's true that it's not for everyone. Most people are just too lazy or scared to develop themselves, some introverts might have a hard time with it but even if you won't gonna be the most charismatic person ever you can't argue that it's meant for everyone that at least improve themselves
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:57 PM
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It's never something that you born with. It's always learnable. Okay this guy has luck he was probably raised in this way and other guys and girl supported his self image but you're only born with your looks. Your personality and social skills are always can be learned or developed
/r/seduction30/06/22 07:50 AM
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Had a similar problem for me but the best thing for this is stop to stop it. If you're conscious about your thought you observe that okay I thought about something that I shouldn't and let it go its gonna come up still several times but if you're doing it for a while those thoughts gonna fade away naturally
/r/seduction30/06/22 07:41 AM
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Feel sry for you but lucky enough you just have a fucked up mindset. Usually what you think of yourself people gonna think the same about you. If you think that you're boring af and not interesting guess what they gonna see and think about you? exactly the same thing but if you start to think about I'm interesting, everybody gonna be lucky to be in my life you're gonna be right. What I could suggest is a book called how to break the habit of being yourself it's gonna help with your self-image a …
/r/seduction30/06/22 07:32 AM
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It's still half true. Girls like status. Yeah pretty much. Girls care about money? a lil bit but till you have an at least average paying job and you are not homeless they don't care about it that much, they much rather care about what leads you to that money. Are you ambitious, and open-minded? are you dedicated? That's what they care about even more.
/r/seduction30/06/22 07:21 AM
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I'm kinda the same. Being charismatic usually means that you're simply confident even cocky, have a not give af attitude and you're smiling and hold strong eye contact but nothing special. Its attractive for the most of girls so definitely worth it to have it
/r/seduction30/06/22 07:14 AM
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you're probably doing something over and over again, you got better at it but you still do the same shit over and over again, you don't challenge yourself so you got bored of it over time. So you have to challenge yourself a bit which can lead to things happening in your favor
/r/seduction29/06/22 06:29 AM
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I'd say there's a deeper meaning behind it like you don't wanna mess up anything so consciously overanalyzing everything to be perfect and that perfectionism might lead to that anxiousness. Might not just guessing but usually if you shift your focus on perspective to experiment mode like you basically don't care about any result you just wanna enjoy yourself and the girl's company, that mindset can lead to sex and it makes you be less anxious for sure if you think over it before what am I actual…
/r/seduction29/06/22 06:25 AM
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I agree maybe, especially for more shy/introvert guys who learned pickup before they could learn how to be more social but it's just like baseline communication between 2 people. I also learned pickup before I started to be more social but I'm glad that I didn't fall into that category
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:16 PM
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I dont usually use an exact format like telling this line and that line but some fundamentals that are work reliably. Mini cold read - so making statements about her Body language - like open body language, smile, strong eye contact Qualify/disqualify the girl - simply if shes is impressed you let her know that you're impressed, if she doesn't let her know that you start to doubt that you like her or not Teasing - optional one but if you see something on the girl or she said or did something wei…
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:15 PM
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as a good-looking guy, dont get me wrong I'm about a 6 or 7 slightly below average but got a lot of stares in public. So it helps a lot oftentimes when I don't have to do anything special just go and start to talk to a random girl, and she's already hooked and giggling and start to engage in a conversation, it happens pretty often if you're good-looking and you got the balls to approach girls also if you're confident and smooth about it but sometimes it's not enough like if I go to 9 or 10 types…
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:53 PM
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Simply be more calm, relaxed, spend time with her and make her feel comfortable around you till she starts to open up
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:51 PM
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How to generate attraction? How do generate attraction? I always use attraction switches for that like implied social proof, social proof, competence etc it works all the time so building attraction is pretty easy but how to have a more attractive personality it's a different thing. There was a study where they found from thousands of women what are the most attractive characteristic is. there are 5. Attractiveness, Assertiveness, Assuredness, Attemtpiveness, Aliveness, and let's see each of the…
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:38 PM
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That's a bit of misunderstanding about pickup. I used it and I'm currently using it pretty successfully but you or guys, in general, shouldn't see dating that it's all about pickup. Okay in opening you have to do pickup to get her attention and get her to participate in a conversation but after that, it's a simple get-to-know-you stuff, and pickup help to move things forward and tells you how to convey yourself in the best possible way so pickup it's just a slice of a cake but it's not the whole…
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:18 PM
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Honestly it works either way. If you fix it you gonna be way more confident about yourself so it worth that money but if you learn how to not give a fuck about it and accept it, people gonna accept that more easily too
/r/seduction27/06/22 12:56 PM
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Being more confident, showing more intent, being more social there's so many things that you can work on so just pick one and better day by day
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:25 PM
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Not exactly. I and others consider me good-looking I'm maybe 6-7 so I'm not a typical chad type but I constantly got stares from the public and it's really not a lie. sometimes when I go to talk to a girl being good-looking or being just above average looking is enough and she starts to engage in a conversation but there are times when you're looking all alone is not enough so you have to have a good game as a backup plan if your appearance wants attractive enough at first then you can lift your…
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:38 PM
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The same process as becoming friends with less attractive girls or simply guys. You start to talk about something, you have something in common like a hobby or just a random topic and you like eachother's personality too so you can suggest a hangout later on then that simple you made friends
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:10 AM
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I don't care about your proof if you even have any
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:32 PM
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You made my day dude 🤣🤣 tysm
/r/seduction24/06/22 10:27 AM
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Simply thank you I appreciate that. Comes from a guy whos biggest compliment was you look serious that ever gotten from a girl bit it's not that a big deal even though most guys rarely got any compliment but if you don't treat like a life changing experience for you it says good things about you
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:50 AM
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Not comparing myself to others and remembering that the only person that I have to beat is who I was yesterday then making small goals for yourself and achieving them. You gonna have it overtime but I can't take seriously why confidence is important. Confidence is almost everything with girls with any other relationship with any action that you take so it's something that you shouldn't live without
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:45 AM
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It's rather called personality. I'm not the best looking guy but even best looking guy can be replaced to s other good-looking guys so it's not really all about that. It's called unique value proposition. So you're good-looking it helps a lot but in terms of looks there are also a lot of guys who are as good-looking as you if not even more but that one thing that she can't replace. Your personality, your stories, your vibe, the history that you bot had together and ofc If you have a something un…
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:28 AM
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I started to watch Joe Dispenza lately and it's kinda a similar thing what he teaches. As you said and as I assume you probably know where your neediness comes from if you don't you definitely should but I assume that you just probably need more attention and intimacy that girls can gives you and it makes you obsessed with it. The good news you probably aren't needy because of girl rather something missing inside of you that you can get from girls. So if you're find that missing piece and you fi…
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:20 AM
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I also got dates from both types of girls and for be its actually doesn't matter. Would be my just personal game style I'm usually pretty playerish and let the girl invest and qualify herself and ofc the casual get to know each other stuff but maybe one thing was the difference. If you're familiar with Jason Capital he used to be a dating coach and he got a book called 77 ways to make her wanna fuck you. No, it's not scientifically proven moves and lines that if you do or tell she going to fuck …
/r/seduction23/06/22 06:21 PM
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Bro you still gonna be an incel while you hate yourself and hate everything and everyone around you. You know what the single biggest things are that makes the difference between successful guys and average guys? Simply habits and mindset. You you're thinking the same thought as a guy who doesn't get girls and you're doing the things that you normally do sure everything's gonna be the same. So you have to act differently, behave differently and think differently then magical things can happen
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:37 AM
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Yeah as an average looking guy you really can hardly afford not to go the the gym, not to take care of yourself and not to have a good lifestyle at least if you aren't successful or not yet but you rather talk about the top 20% of girls. There are still a lot of average guy with average face, body, lifestyle, carrier bit they still can find someone in their league at least. Okay they don't really can date hotter girls but they're fine with that. Ofc if you wanna date the top 20% you have to be i…
/r/seduction20/06/22 09:27 PM
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It's not that really simple but you're right to a point
/r/seduction20/06/22 09:16 PM
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Go to nightclubs then you can skip dates. It's important to let the girls know what you're intentions are but not like honestly I just wanna fuck you. Saying something along those lines I'm not really looking forward to anything serious or I'm not a boyfriend material I had to warn you it's much better. Also if you're more like a vibe, let's enjoy the moment and do funny and crazy things works better then if you give off let's get to know eachother's biggest secrets type of guy.
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:55 AM
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It can be like everything that you enjoy, at least it's a good form of addiction but life is not just all about getting or talking to girl so it's better if you doesn't matter how hard it is do something that's really important to you
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:49 AM
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Just look around yourself what type of guys doing well with girls. It's usually the same things over and over again. Be flirty so speak slowly and hold strong eye contact that's pretty much it not that complicated. You don't have to overuse it too, if you just feel like doing it. Be playful so basically dare to be yourself and dear to entertain yourself. So treat girls if they're already would be your friend or your gf. Like tease she she's doing something wrong or just looks weird but not make …
/r/seduction20/06/22 03:21 AM
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Movies always give you a fake perspective on what works and what's not unless you are good-looking or famous or both. Rather look around yourself, look at the guys who you know can get girls. What do they look like? how do they dress? what their habits are? who are their friends? How do they treat girls? How do they talk to girls and how do they behave with girls? its a much more realistic perspective
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:34 AM
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Done multiple times with pretty good results and not only only flirting so if she's fine you can give it a try. The worst thing that she reject your intention then you can act like nothing has happened so you really don't have anything to lose
/r/seduction19/06/22 08:53 AM
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If you just rely on one way to meet girl obviously you gonna limit your own results too. I personally use my social circle at night game and day game as a social proof a lot. It's usually worked out pretty well so if you can use that at daygame or nightgame it's way much better than only rely on your social circle itself. You can also post stories or use dating sites to upload that you're a cool social guy and you have a cool lifestyle so it can be useful online as well so it basically can help …
/r/seduction19/06/22 06:25 AM
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I'm 6'0 not that much taller than you but it's like average height for guys, there's nothing wrong with that, most girls are still shorter than you, I know a guy whos only 5'7 but he gets laid more than anyone I know so its matter way much more to you than its actually matter for a girl. It mater but if you're at least the same height it's fine. For me was the best way is simply to be friends with everyone, If you go to college or any small social circle you don't have to be that direct bc you m…
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:05 PM
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Let's just forget about that high-value woman thing. Ofc in your eyes some girl might have more or less value but she's never gonna have more or much more value than you have or what you can offer. Ideally. So one trait of a high-value guy as you said is being abundant. So you don't be afraid that you can lose her bc you know that you can replace her if you have to. Every girl is replaceable. You can work on your assertiveness its a pretty high-value trait so I support it but I'd say the main th…
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:58 PM
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My situation was a bit different, learning game for years so I knew all the details have to be perfect at cold approach before I've actually any but it was hard to start bc deep down I was afraid that it's still not gonna be enough but I tried for the first time and it wasn't perfect but it was pretty good. especially if you're an introvert as I am opening up and getting yourself to talk to someone new is almost always the hardest part but if you just push through it and you get her attention th…
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:50 PM
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Learn game, Take care of yourself like clothing, gym etc its gonna boost your confidence too, build up your social life. once you got your look right and you start to get better at the game too you definitely gonna see the changes too
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:27 PM
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It might be your advantage to show off your lifestyle/social proof with IG but if you wanna more rely on cold approach closing a number still can work out depending on your past performance. both have different benefits so what suits for you more
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:20 PM
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I got those girls before but it's always a bit thought especially if you're not that firm about yourself. I just usually hold my frame that I choose you not you choose me but if she resists is I usually turn that around with joking or tease the girl about that how serious she is about that but teasing is better or if it still doesn't work then negging usually my last chance then she starts to qualify herself more so its time to escalate. I personally don't like to use neg that much but it depend…
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:18 PM
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I got stares a lot so you might be good-looking, you might be ugly or you just got something stuck between your teeth, nobody knows so deal with that. If I'm just simply on my way and I see a cute girl and not really looking for signs just go to talk to her and get her number, it takes less time but if you got more time to look around you can more easily scan those signs, if I catch a girl staring at me like I'm drinking my coffee, I just usually notice her like holding eye contact till she look…
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:13 PM
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Usually those types of a party girl who takes life less seriously. If you wanna not just only but mainly to have fun they go for those guys. They're usually good-looking, fun to be around, they have other girls and friends around so they have massive social proof and they got a happy, good party vibe so ofc they're not that serious and planned goal driven person but they got the vibe, they can trigger emotions so it still works for them. Some girls find them losers and they rather wanna a goal-o…
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:09 PM
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Not exactly. Not just girls but people simply look over you if you don't have your own boundaries and you can't stand up for yourself. Respect can be given or earned its another topic, I usually give it to others till they respect my boundaries, if they go too far, let them know. If you're firm about who you are and you can stand up for yourself girls and people gonna respect you. I have no doubt about that and it doesn't matter how attracted she is to you it's a different thing
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:00 PM
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Simply treat them as human beings and realize that it doesn't really matter how hot the girl is or how awesome a personality she has, she's not a prize. if you treat her as an object that you wanna achieve to prove your ex was wrong to break up with you, to prove to your haters that you can get girls, you're already fucked. you're the most valuable person in your life. you're the only person that you can rely on in any circumstances so yes, care about her personality, and wanna get to know her b…
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:24 PM
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It was just me, my free time and youtube videos on how to understand girls better, how attraction works, how to do a perfect cold approach, closing everything and testing it out, it also helps to find your own game style. Most guys who I know they're good with girls usually game more non verbally and they're very touchy sometimes even pushy and I'm kinda the opposite, I always want the girl to beg for me do I just dgaf and let her chase so I'm more like a player type and always have a good/funny…
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:20 PM
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I don't understand either. Most guys would ofc they just can't get girls for it
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:32 AM
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Looks obviously
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:29 AM
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If it's your weak point, you should focus on more text games/day game instead. Night game used to be my weakest point too due to I can't dance, I don't drink that much and I never had anyone to go with and I wouldn't enjoy it so what the point. After I got more social life, I got other people to go with and I learned how to dance at least a base level I thought to give it a try. I don't go consistently, I could afford it but it might be expensive sometimes but I've always got several pulls at ni…
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:39 PM
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You can comment on specific scenes. I usually make a sexual comments about anything that we saw I look in her eyes to flirt a bit before then just speak slower and slower and just kiss her. Then from making out you can go down to the neck and so forth the rest of it is more easier you just have to start and take the lead
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:09 PM
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Being dominant and confident to take the lead and make moves
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:16 AM
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You can do both, bang with hot girls while you're improving yourself. I kinda did the same the only difference was that I waited from 18 to 20 to approach one girl but then after my first successful approach I almost immediately got advanced results so it's always worth it to improve your game and looks but girls are the fastest way to get better at the game, probably that's why took me ages to be that good at it, you might got it sooner
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:31 PM
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It's fine for start and overcome approach anxiety but it's way way too direct. If she already likes your looks or body language it might work out sometimes but she's not gonna know your personality or anything else about you at all. You might get a few numbers but it's better if you start a conversation for the 2nd step if you got better at it
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:42 AM
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As long as you're at least a 5 or 6 at least and you got the game you really don't have to worry about your looks but I can suggest you there are gigs on fiver where you send them your face and they rate you from 1 to 10 how attractive you are and you don't rely on yourself
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:36 AM
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Girls are way too into me, sometimes idk how to reject them politely that I'm not looking for anything serious
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:34 AM
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It definitely works but what is pickup anyway. Conveying Ideal man qualities. So kind of fake it till you make it. After those traits are become a part of you you don't really have to think about what you're doing anymore
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:20 AM
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Simple. Do you know what happened to me yesterday? You instantly made her curious then you can find out a story that actually happened to you and worth mentioning or just figure out something it doesn't really matter but it gives you a basic then you can continue with a related topics that might interest her
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:05 PM
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As long as you don't have to negotiate anything till then don't negotiate anything. If she asks what are we then you can explain what your intentions are, it might hurt her feelings but you're only responsible for your own happiness, you aren't responsible for someone else's emotions, there's nothing that you could do about that so if it hurts it's still not gonna take forever. Life always nice on so it's not that a big deal then it seems at first
/r/seduction10/06/22 10:59 PM
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In those special cases, you rather have to be social first and sexual second. Just start a conversation and be friends with them, you probably gonna see her multiple times so you don't have to hurry then you can invite them to hang out so you can get to know her better and decide what your intentions are
/r/seduction10/06/22 05:28 PM
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You just friendzone yourself like a lot of other guys. You take them somewhere, you talk about a random topic, you laugh, you get to know each other a lil bit and when its over surprise surprise they see you as a friend, because you treat them as a friend, how else should they see you if not the way you treat them. What's the solution? Being direct. Let them know that you're interested in a sexual way, flirt, hold long eye contact, make physical moves like kissing holding hands, and make convers…
/r/seduction10/06/22 05:19 PM
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Depends, It might be worth it but not every guy who can get a girl also knows how to teach well it's a whole different skillset. I do help other guys to be better socially and girl but I had to learn it for myself beforehand on how to be more charismatic, confident, more interesting, and so forth so I'm kinda an honest example also analyzing your actions helps a lot what went wrong, what you can improve and even figure things out on your own. Took years I know but nothing is a waste of time that…
/r/seduction10/06/22 05:07 PM
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It also depends on your personality like im an introvert but I'm fine with socializing but if a took a break for a few days or weeks it takes time to get back to my previous level. Took me years to develop my charming or just simply confident social skills so some lessons I learnt over the years. Body language - smiling, open body language and strong eye contact - what makes you non verbally charming? Strong eye contact and smiling. useful with flirting too if you get used to it. Self-amusement …
/r/seduction10/06/22 04:35 PM
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I don't have that much time to reply but if you hit me up I'm willing to talk about that. I know that it's such a wide topic
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:04 PM
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Kind of an inner game problem but as I see you could have more confidence so I could say doing cold approach is cool but if you don't do it yet tryna go to the gym. I also used to be embarrassed my body and the way I look but I can guarantee that once you start to see the difference you eventually wanna show that for everyone.
/r/seduction09/06/22 04:31 PM
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Some negatives. Never approach from the back maybe if you're walking in front of you but be in front of her is the best option. Confident body language, confident vocal tonality, smile, and strong eye contact. You have to give her a reason to care so I usually just make assumptions about her. she doesn't necessarily interested in what you wanna say at first but she certainly cares about herself enough to stay there and let you talk. Qualify the girl so figure out or ask whats shes into and find …
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:30 PM
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They can be your social proof. If other people like other good-looking guys like you you are already attracted to girls if you wanna talk to them so they might be beneficial. You just don't have to compare yourself to others based on only their looks. ofc it matters it's always gonna matter but like if you're smarter than the other guys who are better looking than you then you feel better about yourself so it's all about how you interpret it. they might be better looking than you but you can be …
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:22 PM
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You dont really have to worry about that. Why most guys are never gonna learn pickup? because it's simply hard. it is. it's not the easiest thing to learn techniques, go to talk to strangers to try them out, and learn from the consequences. People are just simply too lazy for that and it's still many ways easier to complain about it for others and you usually gonna hear that brilliant advice over and over again. Just be yourself, just be more patient someone is out there for you. Ofc it can be a…
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:15 PM
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For me the game was not about getting every single girl on the planet attracted to me, it doesn't really work like that but it gives you an understanding of how girl and attraction work so you gonna be less confused and it makes clear how to be your best self. Ofc, not every girl wanna fuck me but if you learn how to present yourself in the best possible way so if they're into it then cool if they aren't interested then just move on to the next one. Its not really about the techniques even thoug…
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:06 PM
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It's true. Guys are attracted to looks and good genetics for the child and girls are attracted to personality and social status. Guys are always going to prefer younger girls, they can be pregnant more easily than older girls. The girl usually at their peak in their early 20's so as aging they go down on the list, it doesn't mean that their life is over after 25 but it's just simply a biological and evolutional thing, this how we evolved. You cant change that so just accept that, it is what it i…
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:00 PM
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Dont ever ask for it. One of the biggest thing that guys misunderstand with girls. How guys communicate with each other about this? we should do this. Why? Because (for reasons) Yeah it makes sense, give it a try but girls don't work that way, they work emotionally not logically like guys. The easiest way to have friends with benefits is just to have a date or ideally have multiple dates, hooking up, and then if you have to tell her that's you're not looking for anything serious, girls usually h…
/r/seduction08/06/22 11:23 AM
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I'd have some hobbies. I started skating till to my injury but I loved it. So tryna find what you could be passionate about, what could make you think all day about that one thing. your passion, your mission, your destiny however you wanna call it. Helps you to enjoy your life even more and there's a saying that goes if you're fine all by yourself you're winning at life. I still stand by that. You can also focus on your social skills like being more assertive, fun to be around, interesting, conf…
/r/seduction08/06/22 11:12 AM
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You really can't call something reality bc it's completely different for every people. there's no generalization. You probably had some negative experiences before but there aren't many things that are more attractive than a guy whos comfortable being himself and not caring what others think of him. Prove that if I'm wrong but I stand by that
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:35 PM
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I used to suck at it at first but I got better at it. here's how: if you want her to feel a certain way. you have to feel it first. Like you're going to talk to her and look at her like you're already wanna fuck her. that's my casual vibe but I take some steps back so you're just calm, relaxed, confident, nonreactive, and cocky probably. if you got the feeling right the right words usually come with it but another exercise that you can do. You probably know other girls who arent attractive but y…
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:42 PM
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You just need to define what success is for you. Ofc getting phone numbers, sex, free validation, and compliments are fine we all agree but as long as you do everything right you still can get no results, you don't have control over everything. That's why my main philosophy is I just wanna have fun, okay I wanna be as good as I can while having fun but the main purpose is not a number, not making out with her in 5 minutes, it's just to enjoy the process
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:33 PM
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Assertive mindset help with that a lot. In pickup, there's a saying that goes "I make no apologies for my desires as a man" Is everybody gonna judge me? idc I'm still gonna do that. If every girl says fuck off. idc I'm still gonna continue. You have no control over how people perceive you, whether are they gonna judge you or not, what they gonna think of you so it's the last thing that anybody should care about. You still can find girls in multiple places like bars, street, shops, and dating sit…
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:56 AM
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My main rules for dates. Be fun and flirty, make moves, and qualify the girl so make her feel special and be nonjudgemental so I dont want her to feel slutty around me if we go to my place or her place to do something more "risky" I usually get laid most on my first dates so give it a try
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:37 AM
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I can't think of anything or technique that could describe that. It's only one thing. calibration. screening the girl's responses on what you can get away with and how to push your limits far enough but not too far. depends on the girl's personality, how the night going, the vibe, and the conversational topic. so so many things so it's impossible to generalize that. if you're not that smooth with making moves just have a shortlist of what you can do like lifting her up, comparing hands, holding …
/r/seduction06/06/22 10:12 AM
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If it's fine for you then it's fine. There's no such thing as normal or not normal. It doesn't work that way. I've spent about 3 years just to be better socially and learning how to get girl but meanwhile, I was learning I was just focusing on my learning process then I applied what I learn later on. You can't waste your time while you're making yourself better so I'd just focus on taking the right actions and if you make mistakes, fine, fix it and move on till it becomes the natural part of you
/r/seduction06/06/22 10:07 AM
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Everything is better than taking it personally. Most of my rejection wasn't about me or me doing or saying something wrong. ofc it can happen we make mistakes sometimes but till you can learn something from it till it's fine to look back on it and learn that I'm not gonna say this or I'm not gonna be that whatever next time but if I can't do anything about that just let it go like nothing has happened and move on to the next girls
/r/seduction06/06/22 10:02 AM
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My personal philosophy on this. For the first time, it's fine if you pay, it's not a big deal but I let her know that I willing to spend money with you but on you so be aware of that, ofc you can do in a light-hearted way you don't have to be super serious but if your premise looks like just choose something and I'm gonna buy that shes gonna continue to ask you to pay everywhere and every time so its way better to set your boundaries from the start
/r/seduction06/06/22 09:57 AM
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It depends if you wanna keep the distance then do that but if you wanna try again then do that but you have to choose. if she was interested before the best thing to do is invite her out 1v1 with whatever excuse that you can find out. if she could be attracted for the 1st time she can for the 2n time too probably
/r/seduction06/06/22 09:53 AM
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So many things that are going on and what I'd say that helped me a lot. Self amusing. Sounds strange at first but simply let go of that fear that you have to be something, forget about you should do that or say this or act like.. it doesn't work that way. It's time to recognize that you're the value. you're the value that people and girls have to work for. So treat yourself as the most valuable person in your life, and make yourself your first priority. In pickup people usually say you have to p…
/r/seduction06/06/22 09:48 AM
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A big realization for most guys but most of them never make it this far so I'm happy for you. ideally she chase you and not you chasing her ofc its not that case most of the times but to make that shift its probably the best thing that a guy can ever do to himself
/r/seduction06/06/22 09:35 AM
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I disagree. It's okay if you want her and you made her feel special bc of something that you truly like about her personality, girls want that but girls don't want guys who are all over her, their life is all about her so you need to want her but you're fucked if you need her
/r/seduction06/06/22 09:32 AM
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If you're life have troubles without her sry to say that but you're life wasn't completed even without her. Girls wanna be a part of your life not your whole life. There's a saying that goes like if you're fine on your own you're winning at life. I still stand by that. You gonna be fine with her and without her too. As long as you can get girls no girl gonna fundamentally change your life
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:22 AM
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You don't have to unlearn game, just forget about that for a bit and just self amuse so be yourself. Express your own feelings, opinion, values and if you go infield you still have so much to use if something isn't working. Getting girls is basically just 2 people have a conversation and the top of that you know game so you always have a direction where to lead the conversation and the interaction so it's pretty useful if you don't overuse it rather than using at at the right place and the right…
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:15 AM
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I wouldn't say that I'm an official dating coach but I really do help guys with girls so I can relate to that and still it depends. What personality do you have, what natural strengths do you have, and what is your main goal with girls? all coaches teach differently, have different personalities, and have different outcomes with girls so they usually teach their own way that might be suitable for one type of guys but not all type of guys. What I learn from the most is probably where Toddv - kind…
/r/seduction05/06/22 07:44 AM
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One of the biggest truths for life and happiness is never ever compared yourself to others. I agree with those comments getting girls is really pretty easy, say that I guy who had 0 success before and now I'm kinda at an intermediate level so a few things how can you be that guy who could say that yeah it's pretty easy. *Learning how a woman works - they're not thinking the way men do, they don't feel like men do so if you're understand them better, what they want, how they choose you're already…
/r/seduction05/06/22 07:32 AM
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Dont get me wrong I agree that being outcome independent is great and useful but when it comes to girls and like you see a cute girl just walking by, she catches your attention but if you're truly don't care about the outcome and are you gonna get her number or not you wouldn't even approach her in the first place so outcomes are important, till it gives you a direction and ofc the main thing is the road that leads to that outcome it's just important to have anything that you wanna accomplish
/r/seduction04/06/22 12:25 PM
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You basically you 2 options. The older girl usually wanna a younger fuckbuddy or a younger version of a successful guy. So you have to be attractive in general but if you have it you can be her fuckbuddy who makes her take things less seriously just to have fun or you can be already serious, mature, successful maybe wealthy at a younger age and it can be successful especially for older girl you just have to decide which one is being closer to you
/r/seduction04/06/22 12:16 PM
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Some girls called me fuckboy before but if you think that way it's a huge compliment. why? fuckboys usually get the most of girls so they already find you attractive and they know that you can get girls. Back to the question. Be fun and be direct. Obviously never put girls on a pedestal, rather tease in a lighthearted way and just have fun being around them, they usually gonna enjoy you're a company and want to be near to you. Be direct so don't be a pussy to show intent, if you find someone att…
/r/seduction04/06/22 12:11 PM
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Yeah I meet this kind of guy before and correct me if I'm wrong or I just underestimate that kind of thing bc I never had that or I could deal with that but I always say whatever that happened to the past, you cant allow yourself to affect you if it doesn't serve you so whatever good happened to you that you could build confidence from, have it but if it doesn't serve you like someone made fun of you in your childhood just let it go. Easier said than done I know but it's useful. Btw I'm not surp…
/r/seduction04/06/22 11:46 AM
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As long as you have all the rights to write to girls till they have also their choices do they wanna respond or not. Might be for several reasons but who really cares about her reasons till you only ended up ghosting or on reading, you really can't do anything about her reasons and it really doesn't matter. The only thing that I usually do is fill up the social capital. This means that oftentimes I send her memes, and pictures of my life just to see that something is going on or just a funny sto…
/r/seduction04/06/22 11:38 AM
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It definitely worth it but you're such an extreme example. Rejection sucks ofc and you oftentimes never see the girl again if it's a cold approach but funny enough getting girls and being good at it is a skill. My personal philosophy about the topic but it's really a skill that she can't have but you have to do so bc it's skills, your own skills it's not really about the girls it's really more about you and how can you be better at it. Most guys can't even do approaches so be proud of that thing…
/r/seduction04/06/22 11:31 AM
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True if you cant express or trigger emotions you really cant go further than a frienzone. It's more simple than it seems at first. One little thing. Have fun. I wouldn't say that the biggest key to girls or feeling but if you want her to feel in a certain way. You have to be in that mood first. Like if I approach someone, okay I flirt, tease, mini cold read and so forth but all of these mean nothing without the vibe. If I have fun, I usually got a number too but if I don't who tf cares till I ha…
/r/seduction04/06/22 11:03 AM
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I'd say its 2 different parts, your social skills, and your personality. I'd say it's 2 different parts, your social skills, and your personality. Usually, if I think of what are some traits of guys who are always in the center of the attention, have girl options, and people like to hang out with them I might think of several things like not giving a fuck about other opinions, confidence, having fun personality and so forth so you just simply have to be that guy. 2 things that I'd keep in mind. …
/r/seduction04/06/22 10:25 AM
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She has choices, you also have your choices ideally but no girl will fundamentally change your life. Every girl is replaceable. Had similar situations before but as long as you have your other options you don't really have to worry about anything, she made her choice, respect that, and move on. that's basically all you can do
/r/seduction04/06/22 09:26 AM
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Simply just be honest about your intentions, I had several girls who had crushes on me after we had sex but I didn't want anything more serious so she might hate you for it, you might lose her for it but in my experience girls are more capable of accepting being friend zoned than guys so it's not impossible
/r/seduction04/06/22 09:22 AM
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You just have to keep in mind one simple but brutally important thing. You're enough. With her and without her. Ofc you can't control who she's talking to the only thing that you have control over is how you react to it. if you're confident about yourself, you know that you're already better looking, have a better game than most of the guys most of the time you gonna be fine. Just trust yourself
/r/seduction03/06/22 10:14 AM
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Words mean nothing without the vibe. She has to like you and feel comfortable around you enough and then you have to build sexual tension with flirting, holding extended eye contact, making out etc and you can bring up topics that are more sexual or sometimes I use speed seduction. Basically you can't tell a story without imagining it so the story you tell to the girl she has to visualize it to understand so you can bring up that kind of story that makes her even more aroused and you can deal wi…
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:15 PM
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Simple. You have to be emotionally relevant to her so you have to give her a reason why should she care so you have to provide value. You have 2 ways People are react to whats value for them or whats threat. So you might be cocky, arrogant, assume that she already likes you from the start, she probably gonna give you some shittest/resistance but if you can hold your frame shes gonna be interested. The other way is making assumtions about her. She doesnt know you from the start to care about you …
/r/seduction02/06/22 12:11 PM
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Uusally if its just a busstop and youre not gonna be on the same bus you have to be usually direct and straightforward if shes interested fine if she doesnt its fine also. It changes if youre both on the same bus bc you have to sit next to her like if the bus is crowded its even more easier and then just engage a conversation. You have much more time then if shes just waiting for her bus. One of the main thing that I usually love to approach girls on bus is that you can be phisical, youre sittin…
/r/seduction02/06/22 10:53 AM
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Being polite is usually not a bad thing but it depends. Like if youre doing daygame and you see like a more conservative girl with closed body language just sitting by herself being polite probably the best way to approach that paticular type of girl but as you mentioned you go out at night so I assume that youre probably doing nightgame then being polite doesnt help you that much. Nighgame is usually about dealing with friends and bc its a much shorter interaction then a daygame cold approach y…
/r/seduction02/06/22 10:30 AM
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Come from a book called 48 laws of pover. Say less than necesarry, just be superficial about everything and let her wonder and something that I like more called push pull i'd say its even more effective. Basic idea is that you say smth positive and negative at the same time like I love your dress but it doesnt fit for you or I thought I like you till you said that. Also makes you more "mysterious" and let her guessing does he like me ? When thats happen things usually happens to your favour
/r/seduction02/06/22 10:24 AM
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I'd say just hi and tryna be your best self. Being yourself is one of the most misleading dating advice ever if you cant get any girl by just being yourself but being your best self could possibly work if you show some form of intent like playfully touching her, flirting, teasing etc that might work out. If it doesnt my personal thing but might be useful for you. If you can be still friends even if you wanted more but goodlooking girls usually has other goodlooking gitlfriends too so if you hag …
/r/seduction02/06/22 10:13 AM
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They're probably not interested in you in that way
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:27 AM
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Where you can meet girl? Online or offline there are these 2 options. dating sites, bars, restaurants, your workplace/school, shops they're everywhere. Where you can meet a girl? In some cities, there are more good-looking girls than in other cities so can be an option to travel a bit further for that purpose and see how it goes
/r/seduction31/05/22 08:57 AM
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I'd say how to be more inetesting? You have 2 choices How you talk and what you're talk about. How you talk so you change your tonality, you speak slower or faster, you speak higher and lower and if you change that regularly you're already more interesting. What to talk about? The best choice is that something that you're interested in it naturally makes you excited so you gonna be more engaging or just a simply interesting topic that not every people really expert at like idk martial arts, phot…
/r/seduction31/05/22 08:52 AM
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You just simply have to shift your focus to something else. My game progress was kinda similar but I just wanted to be more attractive and reach that good enough level. Once you got your personality and looks right and also you got the game or just a basic understanding that helps you to get laid it's gonna come almost naturally. Or just try out a nightclub it's by far the fastest way to get laid also it forces you to deal with her friends. I'm not that expert in game but in clubs, I usually pul…
/r/seduction31/05/22 08:43 AM
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I'd say that helped me a lot to be from beginner to an almost advanced is getting better at hooking, closing, and developing my attractiveness like some attraction switches like social proof and etc. dm me if you need to and I try my best to be more detailed I don't have that much time to answer but generally opening and closing is the hardest part of the game. if you're fine with those there's nothing much that could go wrong in between
/r/seduction30/05/22 07:43 PM
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Definitely can change how people perceives you but people care about your personality not how you look. Of you're fun to be around they less likely to give af about what you're wearing if they already like you for the way you are
/r/seduction29/05/22 07:49 AM
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You probably just used them incorrectly. What the neg is? Basically a negative compliment like I love how you tryna bring the 80's back so it really can't be an insult if you use it correctly. Basic premise of teasing is that tease her on that she can change so if you're teasing on her what face she made in that moment it's not a big deal but like if you tease her about her smoking habits or nationality that's something that she could change under a few minutes so just be aware of that
/r/seduction29/05/22 07:34 AM
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You simply don't actually have a real confidence. If you know that's her loss not your till you still have to work on it. Just imagine that till everything's going well you're at the top of the world you got one only one rejection and it's all gone. Self confidence doesn't come from girls it comes from inside so until you got rejected and you still give af about that you still need to work on it
/r/seduction29/05/22 07:29 AM
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These types of girls usually are usually social, more egoistic, confident so you definitely gonna have to have a strong frame and usually works for me. Social proof. Okay I know some attraction switches for girl I'm not gonna write them all down but social proof one of the biggest attraction switch especially for those type of girls. What social proof is? Having other cool guys/ hot girls liking you. Like if you're the alpha of your own social circle. You have power and status and that's what th…
/r/seduction29/05/22 07:25 AM
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It's pretty easy. How do you add value to a conversation? You express yourself. Your worldview, your opinion, the values you live by, your experiences etc. So you're the value, you're the value that's good enough and there's no need to impress anyone or try to change their opinion about you because you're fine the way you are. The sooner you realize that the easier it's going to be after a while. Had the same problem before but when I just simply get used to expressing myself even if I was somet…
/r/seduction28/05/22 02:07 PM
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There are 2 ways in pickup that i usually use or combine both and works not always but most of the time. First called FAME It stand for focus, arrogance,maintain, escolate. How it works in real life? How does it work in real life? you seem to be entertaining at first and I wanted to find that out. So you challenge her in your first sentence. It's arrogance so you're just being cocky and you're already assuming that she likes you, if she accepts that then cool you can move forward but most of the…
/r/seduction25/05/22 04:09 PM
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You can be direct or indirect but guessing you go to the gym multiple times a week and she also so you don't have to be in a hurry that you never gonna see her again so I usually just go there with a more friendly and indirect approach like asking what shes train for, maybe compliment on her physique, ask her whats her name where she lives etc just some get to know you stuff that's usually boring for me so you need to spice it up a lil bit. I usually do this with body language. Holding long eye …
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:39 AM
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Let her talk. Why is that important? people value what they have to work for. as simple as that. So if she at some moment have to carry the conversation and break the silence so putting efforts into it she's gonna value that even more but it depends on what type of girls you're talking to. Like I've dated more intellectual girls who wanted to express themselves so I really just let them talk and I just paid attention. In other cases, I also dated less educational just go with the flow type of gi…
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:32 PM
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It depends but sometimes it actually makes you less nervous and less overthinking so you take those actions more effortlessly but it's still better to get better at it while you're sober and then you might be even more successful if you figured things out
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:27 PM
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For me let her guess and validate her. Girls wanna feel them special but if you're too obvious that they can have you you become boring pretty easily but like if you use teasing and push pulls and she keeps wondering what are we? is he gonna like me or not and you validate her and you give her a reason why you like her shes gonna feel that she earned you that important for sex but if you just simply wanna have a gf also like compliment her but in a right way but first its better to be colder and…
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:25 PM
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That's the main problem of its effect you. Usually how I go about it is like if you're profile looks like every others guy's you gonna probably have as much match as usually guys have so 0 or not that much. If you wanna stand out BC it's possible it all starts on your profile. I'm not an expert not even the best at it but I'm knowledge about that so it might be useful
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:32 PM
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It's not that simple. Maybe your description was fucked up or your pictures or your first message. Easier to give up and say ohh it's not meant for me but usually it takes only a bit of effort and changes gonna be significant
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:30 PM
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Pretty much almost everyone uses it, dont get me wrong if you're already on a dating site and you got your profile right you already gonna be fine but if you wanna slide into some girl insta DMS I usually think of a social profile, I mean IG most importantly like if you're setting up your dating profile. On my profile usually, I show off my life, If I read a new book, take pictures of it, if I see a new city, take a selfie, If I'm skating, record it. Never used social media this way so it takes …
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:24 PM
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Flirting is not really a big thing even though it's a powerful thing but it's more nonverbal than verbal so its matters more how you say what you wanna say than the actual words that you're using. Dont get me wrong words are important too but flirting and that sexual vibe is way more body language than speaking. It's about dominance, confidence, and playfulness that come from inside. So if you got the vibe right the right words usually gonna come naturally
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:22 PM
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It depends, I always prefer 1v1 conversations and if you meet online it's way much harder to stand out, she can ghost you anytime and most of the time you're just another random guy who wanna hit on her. In person, it's much different. Like if you tease a girl or you jokingly physically or verbally push her away those type of girls usually hasn't used to being pushed away so that thing that you could do without being afraid of messing up says really cool things about you. I also like deep convos…
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:17 PM
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It's just an attraction switch. Called social proof. She's attractive and she likes you for a reason so if she has a reason to like you then you're probably a good option or you also used to be a good option. I also used this a lot if I hang out with other girls and other girls see me, it always helps so valid point
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:13 PM
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There's no such thing as normal and not normal. It always drives me crazy. Okay you are afraid that other person gonna judge you, surprise they gonna judge you whatever you say or do so lets forget about that bullshit let's say is it average or not. It might be average, some guys prefer older girls bc they are more mature and more experienced there's a difference between older women. Its matters that she's 30 years old or she's 60 years old
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:10 PM
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there is several parts of the game. Online game, Night game, and day game so dating sites, going to nightclubs, and cold approach. You can decide which one would you wanna start with like I'm kinda an introvert so I started with a cold approach and an online game first then I tried night game later so what would be the best for you and also discover what you wanna make out of game? A lot of sex with a lot of different girls and a lot of sex with one special girl? do you wanna a gf or a family? w…
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:16 PM
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Your statement is right, the higher value you are the more girl are attracted to you but there are a lot more than 50 people living on earth so fewer high value/less good looking guys still has fewer and less good-looking but still has some options. Not that much but usually they're happy with it or at least don't complain about that but you can still take actions to stand out from the crowd, be higher value, and have more girls, every guy could do that but its the harder way
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:05 PM
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It more reflects on what type of girls you're into
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:00 PM
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I could suggest just study game and trust yourself. Gave me so much confidence that okay I'm doing something that I never done before but at least I know what I'm doing and what's the next step. It's always useful also if you have that you can never run out of things to say BC you always know what direction you wanna push the things into
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:00 PM
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It was kinda short for me bc one approach basically killed all my approach anxiety. A lil background I already had a game just never used that before so my biggest fear rather was that am I gonna be finally enough? so saw a cute girl on the bus who I usually see day by day, sit next to her and just approached her, she got a boyfriend that was a bit fucked up but she was giggling, she started to ask questions so everything was perfect besides her boyfriend thing then okay I had much more confiden…
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:13 PM
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Its kinda an inner game problem so usually have an outer game solution. Some ways to overcome it: It's kind of an inner game problem so usually has an outer game solution. r game too. you can do those things harder and harder when you got better at them and it leads to more and more girls then you have multiply options and then you are not needy anymore for example. It's also useful if you go a bit deeper with it, what do you're thinking about if you gonna start to approach someone? how do you f…
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:08 PM
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Depends on how she's interacting with you, if you start to first does she flirt back? does she giggle? does she trying to touch you or just getting closer to you? all these are pretty good signs, but overall, it doesn't matter if she's a "flirty" person. all that mater is how she interacts with you
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:01 PM
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Yeah, cold approach for me worked out for me the best but its fine to game in nightclubs too, also the easiest to get laid if you know how to handle groups, I'm not the best at it but I'm fine with 1v1 or 2v1 in a cold approach situation, also help if you're confident and you know what you're doing like attraction switches, body language, hooking etc but its more technical stuff
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:58 PM
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Can be true for like milfs and older woman but generally nice guys are nice because they don't have enough confidence and social status to express themselves so that's the only way that they use to people like them and ofc girl can sense that from miles but it's true that they can get gf even though they probably aren't gonna get laid that much. A better way to look at is like don't be a nice guy, be a good guy
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:54 AM
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Just be better at flirting could make a huge difference also teasing like make fun of her in a light-hearted way and make phisical moves like moving her closer to you and hold her hand, kiss her whatever. If you adapt these you gonna be fine
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:50 AM
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She has just print probably low confidence and self esteem so just compliment her and pay attention to her also spend time with her. Probably the best things that you can do
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:47 AM
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If you have no life I mean no social life that you can invite girls into its obvious if you they don't think you the way you'd want to. I know I came from a similar place but I could become from a nice guy who barely could even touch a girl for a guy who's fine with girls and have multiply options. Not flexing with it even though I could be proud of that I'm just an example that it's clear that it's a problem but instead of run away from it rather tryna solve it and turn it into your advantage. …
/r/seduction09/05/22 09:50 PM
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False. Okay had negative experiences but girls into personality not race. You can be black, white, Chinese. It doesn't matter. Stop chasing girls is a good idea, it's better if they chase you but you can't do anything about your race. Ofc some girls won't date black guys, some girls only date black guys. It is what it is. It depends on her but you still can be the best version of yourself if you got your game, appearance and social life right. So it's time to develop yourself
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:38 PM
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You simply just overthinking it. Okay I was kinda the same. Girls had crush on me, I already had game so I knew what to say and what to do so girls usually assumed that based on how confident I am that I'm pretty experienced but I was still a virgin. So I had a girl who cheated her bf with me she was my first experience. Ofc I was prepared for that as well as I could so I wasn't that terrible but ofc it was obvious that I'm not that experienced as girls assumed that. I just did what I thought wa…
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:31 PM
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would be nice if girls and people work like this but unfortunately they're not. So life is about uncertainty, people are uncertain also. It is what is it, you can change that, I cant either even if I wanted to so deal with it. I have to tell you another sad truth. Another sad truth, I get it you don't wanna play rules and you don't wanna fake yourself but it's that main difference between how girls and guys work in terms of attraction. Guys are attracted to the appearance to have the best geneti…
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:50 AM
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Simply think over what hobbies you have or what you love doing and maybe what type of girls you're into. If you're kind of a spiritual person and you enjoy physical activities you might consider taking a yoga class where you certainly can meet other girls. Usually, the best places to meet girls that things that you enjoy doing or you can be specific on what girls you're into like gym girls, smart girls, business type of girls, adventurous girls so if you're like into those adventurous type of gi…
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:31 AM
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Good point that you dont have to ask for the sex, I mean girls usually hate that type of guy who only wanna hang out with them just bc of sex but lucky for you you can escalate sex and it really can happen. Like you're on a date, you build up the intimacy, you hold long eye contact, you make out, and so forth then you suggest a place where sex might happen then the escalation process again, you start to take off your clothes and then sex just happened so it's not that hard
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:25 AM
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It works like this so you like it or don't it is what it is. If not every time but most of the times
/r/seduction07/05/22 10:49 PM
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Like adventures. Partying, drinking, being drunk, try out something new, what exciting thing happened to you, tattoos maybe and I can suggest speed seduction too, Google it and gonna makes sense what I mean
/r/seduction07/05/22 01:01 AM
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Maybe you haven't escalate verbally enough. If phisicality was there but you were talking about random things still could be surprise if you make moves out of nothing so like how I usually do is simply long eye contact, talking about more emotional and lean closer and closer. It's possible to turn that into sex too so just simply long eye contact and talk about something that makes her feel in a certain way
/r/seduction07/05/22 12:28 AM
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You have to be energetic enough to her her attention but after she got interested and attracted I usually just let her fill the silence an take part in a conversation but in the open you have to have her attention after that I'm usually cocky and simply confidence and not give af but it's possible to be friendly too but it's rather like an indirect type of approach that you have to turn into men to woman later. So might assume that you have no aganda and you end up with a friendzone and no numbe…
/r/seduction07/05/22 12:23 AM
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Usually happens if you already had sex before, there's nothing that much between two of you and then you can ask it directly. I mean I'm usually not that direct rather like, I'm bored at home, I'm alone but I know a cool film that we could watch together. Not that direct but every single people know what is that mean
/r/seduction07/05/22 12:18 AM
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Over text idk is that possible or not but seems more waste of time. If you can build sexual tension face to face you can have sex with her or kiss her or have a relationship with her. In texting she might be a bit aroused but after a while she forgot about it that tension gonna fades away so it doesn't make any sense. Sexual tension is basically you're both close to each others and hold a long eye contact that's pretty much it, another thing what you say but the vibe is more important than the v…
/r/seduction07/05/22 12:14 AM
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As people say simply get a social life first then it could help with girls too. Instead of cold approach you only can rely on dating apps or social media but still if you don't have anything to show off about your life it's not gonna help you out either.
/r/seduction07/05/22 12:10 AM
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Flirting is most of the time is body language and the way you speak not really the words itself so it's just a specific kind of vibe. You stare at her eyes maybe looking down to her leaps sometimes and maybe feel a bit aroused. Once you got that intimate, sexual Vibe right the right words gonna come naturally or less effortlessly
/r/seduction07/05/22 12:04 AM
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Obviously not but people want that they can't have. As simple as that
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:59 PM
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A Lil bit bit of you're already fine with the other areas of your life it's almost takes nothing to at least build a social circle compared to the things you mentioned. It's really not an excuse not to have anyone to hangout with
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:57 PM
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Usually they have no idea about game. If they do seduction still plays on a subconscious level so just simply most of the times they're unaware of it.
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:55 PM
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Just jokingly push her away and saying like you so silly or something like that. Okay I usually do that with my girl friend not girlfriend but they usually like it till you have fun
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:53 PM
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Obviously bad if there wasn't any sexual chemistry or any kind of emotion between two of you. I usually tease before and Keep long eye contact while touching her and getting closer and closer to her but if you kiss her from nothing while idk she was talking about her favourite random thing obviously she's gonna be surprised and what the hell did that come from. You have to build it up
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:50 PM
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Usually who teases is the higher value so instead you should make fun of her in a light-hearted way
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:46 PM
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Agree, in person always gonna be a way better option
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:35 PM
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I'd simply do a cold approach instead. I'm kinda the same, I'm pretty good at cold approach but I still suck at texting but its not the only way to find girls so if you have troubles with it I'd take a break, do something that you might be better at or you can be better at more faster then texting and later on get back to it and analyze what you did wrong
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:23 AM
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Yeah it's an inner game issue but with socialization in general. Well usually makes their self-perspective what others think of them so they tryna fit that image of what others what them to be but you can change that and I can say that whatever you think of yourself, you giving off that vibe and people gonna think the same as you. It depends on how much people's opinion is worth to you but it's a good way to go if you tryna change your inner image. I always refer to myself as a good-looking, con…
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:21 AM
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You definitely got worse but completely possible to get back on track. Once you were good at at, you know what you've done right or wrong so its just a matter of time to get used to it and get better at it or even better then you used to be
/r/seduction05/05/22 10:07 AM
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Your biggest problem is definitely your confidence. So it's an inner game problem. How do you usually solve inner game problems? with outer game so you need to take some actions to develop that. One option could be to develop simply yourself outside of the game, learn new skills like sports/ learning Spanish, working out smth like that. Always useful if you already have a lifestyle without girls too. The more you get better at new things the more confidence you gonna have, my main biggest confid…
/r/seduction05/05/22 10:01 AM
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You shouldn't be, as long as you care less about what she thinks of you you're fine
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:55 PM
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From an introvert guy perspective who used to be a nice guy but now fine with girls. Learn how to be attractive and be confident with being social. Probably was the 2 biggest things I got good at over the past years. Okay I prefer 1v1 conversation instead of approaching a group of people but I can do both. And how? bc I wanted to reach that level whatever it takes. So you definitely have to take steps and moves if you wanna get better but it's not gonna be worth that much if you don't have a str…
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:45 AM
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Inner game problems usually can be solved by outer game solutions and the opposite is backward. So you got low self-esteem and self-confidence so you can take action to change that. and how? Like start martial arts/going to the gym, having girls in your life and be abundant, maybe make more money can even make you more confident the things is whatever you wanna reach or whatever you wanna do, simply do and make it come true, its by far the best way to start to develop yourself
/r/seduction29/04/22 04:29 PM
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I agree more guys should experience that
/r/seduction29/04/22 04:26 PM
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Long story short how to get her interested and want to take part in a coversation. FRED stands for focus, relevance, emotions, decision so focus is obvious does she listen to you, relevance so you're relevant to her, I susually make observations about her or guessing about her, she might dont know me enough to be interested what im saying but she certainly cares about herself enough to stay there. Emotions so how much does she care and decision so its basically closing like getting her number. F…
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:53 AM
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As a kinda intermediate whos fine with a cold approach, I mean girl giggling, attracted, gives solid, not flaky numbers so some things that I usually do. Being cocky - okay I'm average looking like a 7-8 but if I'm walking on the street and girls see me in my mind every girl wanna fuck me. Confident body language- seems to be obvious but makes a huge difference. Smiling, constantly looking at her eyes makes a huge difference. Statements instead of questions - okay often times I do ask questions …
/r/seduction28/04/22 09:54 PM
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Obviously it's just weird and not that socially calibrated
/r/seduction26/04/22 11:18 PM
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If you dont drink it's fine but going to the bar makes no sense at all. Everybody drinks around you and you clearly don't so if you're going to talk to a girl they gonna clearly see that you're there for an agenda. There are still a lot of other places to meet girls like public places if you meet someone new in your friend group, online dating, and so forth. These might be even better at pubs in some context so give it a try
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:01 AM
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You're right. What manipulation is basically? You influence someone's subconscious mind to do things/make decisions in your favor. It's not a bad thing and not a good thing either. It's just a thing. It always exists and it's gonna exist forever. Its also everywhere, sales is manipulation, making someone fall in love with you is a manipulation, marketing is manipulation so it's just a thing that has been used everywhere and every time so if you're smart enough you can use it or you can deny it l…
/r/seduction26/04/22 08:40 AM
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I dont have to compete, I know that I'm better without any doubt but it's funny how emotionally reactive you are
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:41 PM
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I'm running out of reasons but you never gonna running out of excuses so wish you luck with whatever you wanna do
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:08 AM
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I'm familiar with pickup too, it's not that detailed it might be textgame so okay most people just be yourself and be natural we all know why is that worth nothing and something at the same time but besides that some were right that you just simply outplayed yourself. My first pickup experiences also were overcomplicating everything and tryna have a perfect response all the time but good game doesn't look like game. What is that mean? Game is like a simple conversation but you at least have a ga…
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:47 AM
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Okay so you just don't know that much about girls I got it. So you're right at first, Henry gonna probably best everyone at a party but it's a whole different playground anyway but if you're at a swim party and you look better than an obese or let's just say a fat dude but you're too scared to take your shirt of while the fat dudes have fun without t-shirts, obviously they gonna be more interesting just because they have fun and confidence. It's not black and white it's depends on the contex. 2.…
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:49 AM
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You kidding? I get laid week by week. What you think how could I that even imagine that as an introvert guy from my bedroom learning how to get girls. You never gonna know who do you gonna meet in person, walking by on a street, sitting on a bus whatever but might be a helpful thing to you. I used to think what girl am I really into like smart, sporty whatever and where they can be find? Like gym and idk maybe library. So I started to go to these places and I actually meet really interesting gir…
/r/seduction24/04/22 11:17 PM
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Sry but let's face the reality, you sit alone by yourself and get no girls or you go out and you give yourself a chance to have a chance to meet some. It's just only about a looser and winner mentality. Sit alone and not being around others is the most comfortable thing for me to do but success doesn't have any key or secret, it has it's price. Of you're an introvert it doesn't mean that you're not enjoy others company, I mean if you do you probably have to find new friends but it can be fun to …
/r/seduction24/04/22 10:46 PM
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All guys have it so. It's an evolutional thing. Like attraction it's also easy. Okay woman like social guys it's tru but it's not that black and white you don't have to be the biggest party animal to get girl, if you're just fine with being around people, you know how to make friends and guys and girl like to hangout with you you're already fine. It's kinda the basics level
/r/seduction24/04/22 10:17 PM
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I already know game so I had the knowledge what to say and what do to but it doesn't worth that much when I had casual approach anxiety. So my brain was completely frozen and I can't think about even my name not what gamey thing I'm gonna say. So my biggest and maybe only obstacle was luckily approach anxiety. There are some ways how to overcome it but how I did was reframing it. You feel the same basically if you fear or you're excited you my brain thought that I fear but I religiously tried to…
/r/seduction24/04/22 10:03 PM
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Different forms of meeting girls. Daygame, night game, and text game. So friends like a social circle or cold approach, dating sites, and clubs/bars. All have different pros and cons. I'm an introvert too but since everything that really matters in the interaction happens face to face I was always focusing on the day game and night game, personally don't like partying that much so rather just day games or social circles so I could suggest the same, get used to leave your house and meet new peopl…
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:44 PM
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Some of the most important things. Confidence, dominance, being playful. Confidence so you know what you're doing, you're dominant so you dare to make moves and move the interaction forward and you're being playful so it's lighthearted and fun and like it's just happened. I could dive more into technicals like sexualizing conversations, flirting, shittest, and a million other stuff but fundamentally if you got these things right you gonna have success sooner or later. Almost forgot to mention th…
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:37 PM
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I like more the phrase "all girls are replaceable" but it's just too black and white and the world and life never work like that. Depends on the girl, her personality, your history together and on you ofc so its not that obvious at all, its just depends
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:29 PM
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The first date without any experience is usually not the best way to start but you got a date somehow you be happy about that, a lot of guys never make it this far. So I suggest that don't expect anything big from yourself. You did those things before so yes you gonna be suck at it first like we all suck at anything we try for the first time. You gonna be nervous, probably she gonna be too so be too dumb to fail, don't care about any result, you gonna mess things up, you gonna say and do wrong t…
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:26 PM
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Okay, my first gym motivations also were getting girls but looking back at it was kinda lame. Girls still care about way more your personality than your looks. Ofc if you're going to the gym, it helps, if you're already good-looking it helps but it's not the whole thing, just a piece from a whole cake. Girls care about your confidence, your social status and your personality so don't forget about working on those too if you wanna be decent with girls. I didn't get that attention after I made som…
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:20 PM
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That's not something that you have to do, it's just a preference. I mean working on yourself and working to be better at anything is a fantastic thing already but you might be already ready for a relationship without doing or changing anything. Getting better at something is always a good thing but it's not something that you have to do if you just wanna get a gf, if you wanna get laid then maybe it's a smarter choice but lucky things can still happen so..
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:14 PM
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Might be 2 things. She's just uncomfortable and she has to have more time to be more comfortable around you or she just thinks that you're out of her league and she doesn't wanna mess anything up. If you were just too cool for her you only have to build more comfort so compliment her, be nice to her, and that kind of thing, not that complicated.
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:10 PM
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Okay your personality mostly based on how you were raised but as I made myself a high value guy. Any guy can do that. Not that hard to become that if you're not already that type
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:05 PM
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Ofc it's a problem if you fake something just to get laid. I'm against it too. I'm not talking about faking it, I talk about actually truly be that guy without faking anything. That's the best way
/r/seduction22/04/22 07:49 PM
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I'm kinda the same. dont want anything serious just sleep around but one thing that I always tryna do, does not always succeed but I least I try. Leave the girl better than you find her. So he might be a fuckboy category, just do and say anything for sex but I'd like to be more honest and don't let the girl chase false hopes. It's about only being a high-value guy and being hard to get not that complicated like you're social, have people around and other girls around you, confident even cocky, a…
/r/seduction22/04/22 04:27 PM
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Nope, approach anxiety is an evolutional thing, after you had sex and you had some success you eventually gonna overcome it but yeah its frustrating. Was really frustrating for me, I was in front of the girl and my mind was completely frozen at least if you know how to say and what to say it's helping you out. My strategy was to understand what it is. You fear subconsciously so consciously you cant do anything about that but you can reframe it to yourself. Before I go to talk I convinced myself …
/r/seduction22/04/22 04:18 PM
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She actually put you in a nice guy/friend zone category. Maybe she went maybe it might be solved somehow but you see where is the core problem. Nice guy and needy behavior. That's the main problem that needs to be cured if she doesn't change her mind who cares, still, a lot of girls waiting for you so I could suggest becoming a bit more bad guy/fuckboy category. We all know that's what girls want, I'm not gonna explain why it'd take so much time but I was the same as you not that long ago then I…
/r/seduction20/04/22 04:13 PM
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It's called showing intent. I'm also fine with conversations even though the opening isn't the easiest thing for me but I'm fine but it's 2 different things. Having a conversation with a girl and oftentimes making her laugh makes you feel good but it actually means nothing. One thing that gonna means something is flirting and teasing and showing off your personality. Flirting and teasing and being playful with the girl gonna actually make her feel in a certain way that might stand you out from a…
/r/seduction20/04/22 04:05 PM
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Dont give a fuck or be nonreactive. You also have to shift your focus. it's not about me how not to be emotionally invested it's about how I make her emotionally invested in me. If she does that she probably likes you so just flip the script and make something that makes her invested in you then if she does you're already at a much better place with more options bc if you do tat one time you can 2 times 3 times and so forth so its really the basics of getting girls. Just a sidenote you probably …
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:41 PM
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You need to reprogram your mind. The bad news is it takes time, weeks, months, or years it depends. The good news is that's possible. and how? Basically, make a habit out of it. Probably not just on girls but people in general where you can practice that. Look up Toddv assertiveness on youtube, it gives you exact exercises that you can do to be better at it. I personally just tried to express myself without censoring it and if I felt like something happened to me and I was supposed to stand out …
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:32 PM
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It's the case till it hurts you more if you don't go there than if you do. What do guys assume if they go to talk to a girl? I'm not her type. She must have a bf, she must be busy, I dont wanna bother her. So you immediately assume rejection without giving her any chance to reject you, you already rejected yourself. One thing that helped me, okay my case was a bit special bc I basically know step by step how to be perfect at the cold approach. in my mind but it's easier said than done and I go t…
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:23 PM
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Till your friends aren't happy about your success they are not really your real friends or in a toxic way
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:13 PM
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Well, you need to know what are the attraction switches. You might think that being handsome, having money being tall and muscular and it's true it helps but these are not the main thing, attraction is not about what we find important in the 21st century, attraction came from ancient times. So attraction is not a choice, you cant control who do you attracted to, it's just a biological response from girls too for certain personality traits. Not all but some of them. Self-confidence, pre-selection…
/r/seduction16/04/22 08:50 AM
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All that mater is your focus, if your focus is on getting numbers..getting numbers. ofc if you get it it's a success then if you don't it's your fault so simply just shift your focus to the process and not the outcome. If you approach a girl whatever happens it's a success, especially if you're new to cold approach. so measuring success with the process itself and not the outcome will probably solve your problem. You can't control anything or anyone, she might have a bad day, has a bf, broke up …
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:34 PM
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You kill your confidence if it's based your successful approaches. One simple thing. You're enough in any situation and any time. You're always enough from a fairly cute girl to the hottest supermodels. It's just a mentality if you have your approaches definitely gonna skyrocket
/r/seduction14/04/22 04:57 PM
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I wouldn't burry that but clearly its much better in person with your body language and you can escalate physically too that's much better than texting. Maybe wait for the date and after that you gonna be smarter about that is she worth it or not
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:29 PM
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I simple exercise that might help. look at the first thing you see, could be a table, chair, house, wall whatever then you start to talk about it like I like the taste of this piece of cake because my mother used to make that every time for my birthdays and so I was so happy about that probably the last time I was the happiest was etc.. and keep that for 1-2 min without pausing. In conversation same thing, pay attention to who you're talking to and if you cant come up with anything to say just u…
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:26 PM
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One thing that helped me probably the most knowing what is attractive to girls, since I implement those traits to my personality girls have crushes on me without me having to ever talk with them so it's kinda weird just your body language how effective can be sometimes but till you don't have proof you yourself you can say that I'm enough but your brain gonna know that you're just lying but if you got more success and the more you were enough the easier it gets to believe that
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:21 PM
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Really depends on a guy and his personality. If he was taught that showing emotions is a weakness he's less likely that shows his vulnerable side or show off and express himself easily but it's just communication like every other relationship. Asking him what he wants and needs to show emotions and feel trust more easily. Maybe he hasn't figured it out on his own either but on one hand yeah you have to be vulnerable and show off who you really are but if he's closed and not willing to put some e…
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:23 PM
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I mean it could be right but it depends on the deliver. If you're blame yourself that fuck I'm so weak then yeah, she start to loose attraction and works against you but if you're unapologetic about that like this is the way I am besides you like it or not, Im fine with that. Shes more likely to accept that and so you still got your attractive qualities. Ofc nobodys perfect but just acknowledge that and move on. Its not big deal
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:39 PM
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You have to separate 2 things. Dating and being in a relationship. Ofc we are all humans and we all have fears, worries, good days and bad days, we mess up things and we have feelings in a good and in bad ways. So it's not a bad or good thing. it's just a thing that you have to accept. Dating is different bc you have a shorter time to present yourself so you have to be the best version of yourself at least that time till you get into a relationship. Dating might takes days or weeks but a relatio…
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:47 PM
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You're right but it's a simple problem. You just don't believe that you're good enough but in the pickup, it's probably the most basic and fundamental phase. You're enough. Like you start to talk to a girl and it's called you offer value. How do you offer value? With yourself and words and thoughts and beliefs. You're the value. One exercise that helped me to overcome it was simply expressing myself, ofc if you wanna be noticeable you have to be polarizing, also it's attractive so why not. and h…
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:31 PM
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Never seen that detailed resume before but your biggest problem is obviously your inner game and your beliefs. A psychologist might be needed to overcome some inner issues idk but I'd say I improved my inner game with outer game actions. So if you get success with girls and cold approaches maybe or girls complimenting you that helps probably the most on you but also being smart about that. For me, it gave me so much confidence even though I wasn't the most experienced with girls at least I knew …
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:25 PM
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Yeah sounds like getting in the zone as an excuse but that's the thing, the more you focus on getting in the zone the less likely you gonna get it. If I were you I'd probably make a self analization what get you into the zone, so if you do those things you probably gonna get that better or faster and have a simple b plan. What if you simply don't find the zone and I think you probably don't even need it to make something memorable
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:19 PM
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Called social proof. Yeah, it exists and some girls literally find you more attractive/interesting if other girls have fun with you so might be effective to use it but you can't use it anywhere and anytime so it's really situational but some things that you can always rely on. Your personality, your confidence. Leading the interaction and having those game elements like push-pull, tease, and whatever that you usually use that triggers emotions from the girl, and if they already started to be eng…
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:35 PM
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Was probably your nonverbal, not looking at her eye, seemed to be nervous maybe you got your voice higher, these can be issues too. A concept called leveling so she basically can see what level are you at based on your approach. Okay excuse me are you busy is a terrible opener, also take me time to get rid of that I'm bothering someone mentality but just walk there and simply say hey. You looked cute and I wanted to say hi or whatever. The main thing is not your opener, the most important thing …
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:31 PM
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One thing that helped me. Meditation. Got me more calm, relaxed, and nonreactive which is always the ost important thing to pass shittest and let go mentality. Idc if I get laid or not, get a number or not, just wanna enjoy myself, the moment, and the girls' company, ofc when I see it's time to escalate I don't hesitate either but it's not my main focus. Just be outcome independent, enjoy the moment and amazing things gonna happen
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:27 PM
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In-person everything gets easier and manages her emotions but yeah it sucks when it's still the text phase and her logic is the most active so maybe I'd say engage a topic that she likes and she is willing to talk about it or you both like it ideally and maybe bring up a topic that can engage positive emotions more like nice childhood memories, what movies have her cried on and so forth that can be also engaging till you can finally met up
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:23 PM
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Nice journey mate, I'd say think over your tactic a Lil bit bc you probably have a lot more success if you'd make some changes but besides that its always inspiring to see someone succeed
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:19 PM
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I kinda could overcome it but still working on it, hope that you gonna have some success with it too
/r/seduction11/04/22 03:48 PM
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Also had that problem before. For context, I'm very serious and logical most of the time but I wanted to be better at having fun so I find several ways to do that. for myself but can be useful for you too. 1 was the law of attraction. If you don't know what that is just a brief summary. If you have positive thoughts so attract positive things and people to your life hen if you have negative thoughts most of the time and the same story I wanted to manifest certain things in my life so I had to be…
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:12 AM
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You dont have too many other choices than being comfortable with people. How to do that? Simply spend more time around other people. Look for an activity that you like, if you find girls there then awesome, you got the same interest so you already have something to talk about
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:00 AM
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Focus on yourself simply and do the right things, approach girls already makes you stand out so you're already way ahead of guys who are taller than you but can't go and talk to girls
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:58 AM
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Teasing and negging are 2 different things
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:21 AM
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Teasing usually for me also leads to banters that spice up a conversation then it's easy to escalate to sex but both work. Teasing rather a who is the higher value here type of thing bc girls are looking for a guy whos at least better than them so if you're making fun of her in a lighthearted way it also triggers attraction and can lead to sex, same thing with flirting. Still better to use multiply things or you have multiple things by your side than you don't have any of these things.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:20 AM
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Well it's kind narcissistic and also made me cocky af but who cares I share it with you. A simple philosophy simply doesn't take failures personally, a good quote that I heard recently. A failure is an event, not a person. Keep that in mind. Treat success like fuck yeah I'm the man, I've got 20 inches in my pants, and whatever positive thing that you can say about yourself. If rejection comes, comes for everyone so, not a surprise. so must have a bf, she had a bad day, someone made her angry bef…
/r/seduction09/04/22 09:44 PM
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You don't have to, all that matter is dare to make moves and if she's get along with it we all know what's gonna happen but you have to push it forward, girls never gonna do that for you unfortunately
/r/seduction09/04/22 10:42 AM
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Usually having a good vibe, dont ever try to close in the negative and then we just sitting, being more and more physical, being a bit hard to get and take a step back then start to make out and then going down to the neck, tryna pull her hair if she likes it and then lay down on the couch and then you can figure out the rest. I'm not the most creative with closing but works most of the times
/r/seduction09/04/22 10:29 AM
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you just simply overthinking it and you clearly not have that much confidence but if girls usually look at you its a good sign to approach
/r/seduction08/04/22 09:24 AM
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They definitely can be interested if you got the most important things right. Just massage me and I'm gonna be full detailed as soon as I can but It's too long to describe in a comment
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:21 PM
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Well I could explain why these numbers are fleaky but it'd be too long. If you want to just hit me up and then I tryna explain it if I got more time but long story short. You don't convey your personality. That's the biggest problem and probably you don't assumed the burden. You weren't that detailed so I just can assume but it's pretty common. Assume the burden means that you decided that you start a conversation so it's not their job to carry it so you have to do it till she starts to engage, …
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:06 PM
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It's quiet easy. You just have to make moves and lead things forward. Based on her reaction usually easy to calibrate when were you too much but till it's fun and it's a natural part of the date or you just friendzone yourself in other way so you have to make moves but based on how acceptive she is
/r/seduction06/04/22 08:31 PM
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Can saves you a lot of time if you spend it wisely but there's a lot, some of might be cheaper of more expensive but it can actually save you time or if you don't mind spending your free time on it, I also learned all by myself and got success so possible to figure out just takes more time but at least it's free
/r/seduction06/04/22 05:23 PM
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Okay I get it, people can sense that but the thing is the progression. Just do smth thats unconfortable to you till you can do it, if it becomes easier than add more thing to it. Ofc doing something or being something that you arent used to be gonna be unusual at first for others too but overtime it becomes your identity and people perspection changes about you too. It certainly works till you stick to it and becomes a part of you
/r/seduction06/04/22 12:06 PM
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You shouldn't be. Pre-selection means another girl like you, even better if other hot girls like you bc they probably have a reason for that. You can use that up if you want to like have female friends you hang out with or both guys and girls, if the girls laugh at your jokes or they just seem to be interested in you congarst you got pre-selected. Okay girls care about in some way so you got their attention but your personalty is still more important
/r/seduction06/04/22 07:53 AM
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It needs to be said but I'd add one more thing to it. You use it or you lose it. your brain works that way. If you constantly have negative thoughts they gonna coming back to you all the time, the simplest way to get rid of them is surprisingly enough try to get rid of them. You just observe that okay I had a fucked up thought and then you let that thought go and you don't pay attention to it anymore. The more you give attention to it the more powerful it's gonna be. If you practice it maybe not…
/r/seduction06/04/22 07:50 AM
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There are so many things. Martial arts are fine for several reasons. Indicates many attraction switches in girls at the same time but there are still many. Going to the gym for sure boosts a lot and overall if you wanna achieve something and then you made it generally it is probably the best. If you do it actively or like body positivity you can tell yourself that I'm confident till you actually start to believe it, it works but such a waste of time. Also worked for me. Fake it till you make it.…
/r/seduction06/04/22 07:45 AM
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Everybody got rejected sometimes, guys and girls too. It's a natural part of dating. I wouldn't say that there's such as thing as guys who got lucky regularly. Anybody can get lucky sometimes but it's not that thing you can rely on. You know what you do so you don't necessarily need the luck to have success or you don't know what you're doing then you got only luck but nothing else
/r/seduction06/04/22 07:38 AM
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One and only way to overcome approach anxiety if you face it. There's no such thing as saying this or thinking that and everything gonna be perfect. it doesn't work like that. When you first started to learn how to walk you didn't want to compete in a marathon. You first started with crawling and just standing up and then you could take some steps with help and then you could do it on your own. Progress is the same everywhere. you haven't done that so its impossible to be perfect at it for the f…
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:52 PM
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You dont necessarily need it. Ofc everybody hangs on it all the time so it always helps if you have an interesting lifestyle that you can put out but everything that really matters happen in person. Good to have it but if you don't want to you don't necessarily need it
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:41 PM
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I'd say build a habit around it. Get used to leaving your house. Like whatever hobby you have, go to the gym, go to the gym, you like to skate, look for a skatepark...whatever. You gonna eventually meet people who like the same thing so you already have something in common and something that you all can talk about. Then you can invite them somewhere or just casually hang out with them doing something together and then congarst you made friends. It's not that hard you just have to force yourself …
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:37 PM
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It just is what it is. I have friends who I'm hanging out with, I have friends I go to the gym with, and I have friends who I skate with. I'm a different person in every context. So you're not boring at all. If I'm alone or one by one with another guy we just talk topic logically, okay if I'm with a girl I flirt and how fun more and more easily but you're not that simple that you're or boring or interesting all the time. Its not how it works
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:13 PM
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I'd say 2 thing. Dont tease her that much bc she might think that you just wanna make fun of her. I'd say 2 things. compliment her more. If you wanna sleep with a girl you need to have some value and you have comfort too. Shy, Low self-esteem girls usually need to have more comfort. Ofc you have to have some value too but how can you build comfort? pretty easy. Get to know her, spend time with her and compliment her maybe the best thing even if you're a bit needy with it, Its still fine
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:47 PM
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For me is being assertive. Just basically is a strong character who can stand up for himself and has an opinion even if it's not that probably everyone would like to hear. Have own boundaries he lives by and he sticks to them and ofc maybe most importantly doesn't care about what people think of him so he doesn't need to fit in society's rules, he has his own rules he lives by so thatswhy he can stand out from the most of casual guys. One of the most attractive for girls too so it's not a bad th…
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:43 PM
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In some cases yeah its Tue, girls obviously care about your looks, and its still better if you have some muscles at least but not a dad bod, ideally you're lean, not skinny with some muscles probably but girls still care about your personality and confidence way more so I agree working out is great, you definitely should do that but its just a piece of the whole cake
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:38 PM
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I probably know better than you why it's true or why not but I only accept that if you give me some reasons why would you be right. I'm curious for it
/r/seduction04/04/22 04:58 AM
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It's a right thing to do to take actions but maybe even more important to take the right action if you don't wanna waste your time. I'd say better understand the topic and then you can decide what's the best action to take
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:39 PM
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School, workplace, shop, cafe, restaurant. Girls are everywhere. Okay it depends on the context how better to approach one but there are no such thing as best or worse, both have advantages and disadvantages too
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:20 PM
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You probably triggered her emotions but it's important to understand girls are emotional, guys are logical, once when her feeling faes away she's not the same person anymore. You did right that she was aroused but 2 things, its not about how aroused she is, it how you can capitalize it and how she accepts you as a leader if you suggest smth like come here does she come here or let's drink smth does she go along with you. Another thing never ever say that let's go back to my place. That was the b…
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:18 PM
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The best advice probably on wanting a girlfriend is not to want one. There are several things that could make her fall in love with you. One thing is called narrative so imagine a date is like a romantic movie. You meet, you went on a date, the vibe was there, you may be even having sex for the first time, and then it's a happy end. Another thing is to give a fuck about the girl. Dont go too far with it but like you remember certain things or you made her a bit surprised that she mentioned befor…
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:08 PM
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you just probably didn't pay that much attention to her so she wanted to win your validation and attention back. It's a common thing but rather in real life not in texting even though it might happen and its actually happened
/r/seduction02/04/22 03:47 PM
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One simple sentence. Dont give a fuck. It's just playful back and forth. Stop taking it seriously, but really, at all. The one who usually got more serious about that loses every time so just be confident and nonreactive about that. The most important thing
/r/seduction02/04/22 03:20 PM
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It's just how you think about it. Ofc you can be a victim of your own story. Ohh they left me, they use me, they haven't cared about me or you can be a hero of your story and the story might end up like, We had a great time together but I messed something up but I learned from that so now I'm better and I could improve so I'm ready for the next challenge bc you know that you aren't gonna make the same mistakes again. for me sounds like you just get too attached pretty easily. I could suggest jus…
/r/seduction02/04/22 03:17 PM
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It's matter more for some girls and less for others. Ofc it's better if you're taller or at least average height but it's not the end of the world if you're a bit less shorter. Girls still care more about your personality so your height can't be an excuse
/r/seduction29/03/22 09:04 PM
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Most people do this not just girls
/r/seduction29/03/22 08:23 AM
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Be yourself is by far the most overused dating advice ever. Yes it's right and wrong at the same time. All you talk about is the natural style. Yes it's exist, yes it's more fun and less overcomplicated than using that this disqualification and that push pull but there nare reason why is it exists. Be yourself and self amusing are both great and fun but if you wanna pull the hottest girls too who already probably have way more higher value options than you, just to be yourself is probably not en…
/r/seduction24/03/22 09:13 PM
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It's pretty simple. She had to know that it's a man to woman interaction. So you flirt, tease maybe compliment her so you don't treat her as a friend as you don't talk all day long about this and that random topic and the end of the they you surprised why she didn't fall in love with you. So you have to create emotions cause that's how she's gonna fall for you. Btw just a sidenote. Friendzone can be actually a good thing. Cause if she has other hot friend, you might be introduced them too so you…
/r/seduction24/03/22 05:39 PM
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It's called hallow effect. It's a psichological thing. You think people who are good-looking also has other positive traits but usually not at all. It suck when it comes to girls, makes approach anxiety even worse usually but you can get over it after you talk with hot or just simply cute girl. After a while they're usually not too special at all
/r/seduction21/03/22 07:03 PM
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It's like the most relationship but most guys don't even have boundaries so it's right
/r/seduction20/03/22 08:26 PM
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I heard that narcissistic philosophy somewhere but I kinda like it so I tried it, since then I'm cockier than ever. It's questionable is it a good thing or not but it's actually a good thing for getting girls. Here's the thing. After any success that I achieved, I had to think like fuck yeah am amazing, I'm the man. I'm the best guy by far that girl has ever met. After any rejection the complete opposite. Okay she's busy. Okay she had a breakup. Okay she's lesbian. Whatever. So you're telling yo…
/r/seduction20/03/22 05:21 PM
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Maybe suggest a hangout with the girls too. If you get on well it's easy to make it man to woman
/r/seduction20/03/22 02:37 PM
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Feedback from pickup perspective. You did something well and something that you could do better. Yeah you did an approach. It's the good part. You dare to do it. But here are some problems. Play to not lose instead of play to win. You didn't close cause then it's a possible risk that you mess something up. So it's easier to have a pointless conversation but at least there's a conversation. Then if you look back at it. I did everything write cause I didn't mess anything up but if you asked for a …
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:54 AM
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There's so much things going on. Okay some people say looks don't matter. If definitely does. So what could you improve? In terms of looks. You can go to the gym. Gain some weight and put on some muscles. In your inner game I'd say 3 things that's the most necessary. Confidence, flirting and being more social. I don't have that much time to write but if you need just hit me up and I'm gonna try to explain it even better
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:22 AM
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It's about being a high value guy. Girls easily fal for a high value guy if if you're still low value like the most of guys. It might happen I know it's just not that likely. Woman's work simply in that way. If you're cool she's gonna feel that you raise her social value if there's something between both of you but if you don't know how to like approach girl, how to talk to them without putting them on a pedestal, they're not that likely that they gonna do it. Lucky things might happen but still…
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:36 PM
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Not at all. You gonna know if she's interested or not anyway how she's interacting with you. Might be your fault obviously or might be just her fault that she doesn't approciate the value that you offer
/r/seduction19/03/22 06:43 PM
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I'm attractive but I'm single. It doesn't really work that way. I'm attractive I know, girls also know it but I chose to stay single. Most guys just usually just don't realise that they're actually attractive and they afraid of being judged like you're so cocky so they rather hide that. Or they're attractive, they got some positive feedback but they just simply don't know how to communicate with girl so they're trying but they always stuck in a friend zone
/r/seduction17/03/22 06:26 PM
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It's just like learning how to ride a bike. For the first time you always fall of and then you get better and better overtime till you can do it effortlessly. Same thing with girls. If you haven't approached them or just a few times and you don't know how to it certainly will be cringe but if you doing more and more with the right things you gonna gett better at it too
/r/seduction16/03/22 08:32 AM
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Most girls still shorter than you. Btw it's quiet average height so there's nothing wrong with that
/r/seduction16/03/22 08:28 AM
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Not directly telling them but convey them. Like I'm not looking for anything serious. I'm not a boyfriend material. Let's just have fun and so forth. I probably use these the most. The main things is you don't start to plan with her how perfect your children would be rather do this and that and have fun and nothing serious stuff
/r/seduction16/03/22 08:25 AM
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Sry I thought you were a guy
/r/seduction15/03/22 08:47 AM
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Probably have something going on in your life. Also have multiple girl options that helps too
/r/seduction15/03/22 08:44 AM
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You got the point
/r/seduction14/03/22 01:05 PM
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Bro it's an example might be not the best, you say whatever you want
/r/seduction14/03/22 01:03 PM
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One simple thing that helped me. Reframing. I'm 20 but I've dated girls who were older than me. It might be their advantage but rather I made fun of the fact like some years later I'm in my prime and I can visit you in a cemetery, or just disqualify that fact like yeah I like you but I'm afraid of that you're a bit too old for me. It's kinda a push pull too. It's not really the girls advantage, all that matter is how you frame it
/r/seduction14/03/22 12:38 PM
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Well it depends. If you're only attracted to her sexually it's easy to push emotions away but if you have so much in common and you feel like she has better personality than the girls you dated before it's harder but I'd say it worth the risk, okay being in a relationship is s commitment that needs to be on your terms ideally or the girl will do that for you but maybe you aren't gonna be the happiest with it. I mean yeah you're the higher value if you're care less how the other person thinks of …
/r/seduction13/03/22 01:00 AM
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It depends. Depends on how much she's interested in you, depends on what obstacles she puts in front of you, depends on how flirty you are to build her interest up. Depends on how free you are to take her on a date and Vica Versa. Depends on what activities does she like and what do you like to do. Depends on how fast do you escalate from conversation to a date and other many things
/r/seduction15/02/22 09:15 AM
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Yeah they work but not all of it
/r/seduction12/02/22 09:00 AM
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You described the opposite my journey, I was better with women before I had success in other area of my life too. Well you seem you're good-looking, girls chasing you and you're at the buyer position which one will you get along with the best so I assume that you're inner game probably fine. In your context girls usually know that you're high value so maybe there's isn't or not that much attraction problems. You aren't that detailed so I just assume that you might have problems with making conve…
/r/seduction09/02/22 11:02 AM
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I told her, I mean she was kinda confused cause I was good at escalating so how would I do better at it than if I had any past experience before. The difference was I was just confident making moves even if they were wrong, then one step back, get the vibe good again and try again without any hesitation. So if you're confident with your moves the girl will probably get along with it better then if you hesitate doing anything. Trust yourself that what you're gonna do will work out and tryna be as…
/r/seduction08/02/22 10:32 PM
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My way out was the law of attraction back then. ofc I'm a super logical person also, I rationalize my emotions, my thoughts.. everything but if you wanna manifest everything you have to rely on your emotions over your logic and what's makes sense to you so I had to force those till it becomes more natural for me. Another part was girls cause if you wanna create emotions you have to show some at the same time so it's also train you to use your brain differently. I also noticed that there are 2 pa…
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:50 PM
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Well confidence is the best when it comes from inside. Personally all my confidence came from my personal development. Yeah I look better than I used to and girl have me some positive signs that helps too ofc but especially if it comes to girls okay I'm not the best at approaching but at least I know know what I'm doing so it gaves me that confidence that what I know will probably work, if it doesn't then I just ignore it like okay she has a boyfriend, okay she must be lesbian, okay she's on her…
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:47 PM
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Well let's define that, failure is an event, not a person, there's nothing wrong with you but clearly you're doing something wrong if you're not satisfied with your results. Well you're on a perfect direction for the girls by being social but it's fine for making friends with guys or girls but you have to do a bit more with girls if you wanna grab their attention too in a better way especially in opening and closing, these are the hardest part. So in opening for example some golden rules. You ca…
/r/seduction04/02/22 06:38 PM
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Well basically 2 of the best way to create any sexual tension between you and a girl are teasing and flirting. I just usually do it subconsciously so it's hard to describe for me how to use it properly but it's a good explanation video you might find helpful. https://youtu.be/o_k55geMKkU
/r/seduction03/02/22 11:54 PM
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Well 3 main thing that you can upgrade and what will be noticeable for girls/guys for everyone. Your appearance, your personality and your habits. Your appearance kinda obvious, go to the gym, dress well, take care of your hygiene like teeth, getting a haircut that fits you and so forth. You can upgrade your personality too like being more confident, being more social, being charismatic and obviously flirty sometimes if it comes to girls also it's better in the long run to have female friends to…
/r/seduction03/02/22 10:33 AM
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In public, you can find online. They're basically everywhere. Some of them are good-looking too
/r/seduction02/02/22 09:33 AM
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I mean it can be useful for example if the girl too nervous giving her a compliment can help her to feel a bit conformable but most of the times when she's already comfortable around you it's more like giving your power away cause you can end up being too obvious and that can reduce her interest and excitement will she get you or not. In other words it's just simply useless cause you see a good-looking girl basically at anywhere and you might find her on IG or on Facebook. What you think you man…
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:55 AM
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Just be yourself
/r/seduction29/01/22 04:17 PM
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Hey. From my perspective how I went from not having confidence at all to be almost as confident as the highest value guys this is how I did it without any book. It's not really from your inner thoughts, it's more about your daily habits that influences your inner thoughts too. My rules that I always followed: Not caring what others thinks of me - an absolute high value traits, ofc deep down everybody's care a lil bit what others think of us but the more you can control it, the more powerful or h…
/r/seduction24/01/22 04:46 PM
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I wouldn't say so, it's completely fine
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:51 AM
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Yes and no at the same time. Yes cause it sais you have other options so you're successful with girls and it must be a reason why you're successful with girls. Girls tend to care about not what you're saying but what is said about you so having others girls like you it's always a good sign for her to get attracted. Also like using push pull, willingness to push her away, willingness to argue with her if you don't agree on Smth. Also it sais you confident enough to not agree with her all the time…
/r/seduction22/01/22 06:38 PM
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One thing that helped me. Ofc it helps when you have other options so you won't be needy in front of them but it's like overall socialization was helpful for me. Every time I saw a hot girl walking by or just standing near to me. Will I approach her. Ofc I will but what is she like? I mean obviously she's good-looking but what else? Is she kind enough for me? Is she smart enough for me? Is she hardworking enough for me? So you basically set up the right frame so they have to impress you and also…
/r/seduction22/01/22 06:29 PM
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I'd also mention Todd Be highly informative about specific and also cover a lots of inner game stuff. Personally learn the most from him and James Marshall probably, but just a tipp, if you subscribe for 2-3 dating channels on YouTube your explore page will be full of them. Then you can check out even more to find who's the best for you
/r/seduction20/01/22 10:08 PM
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It's different for everyone. It's completely fine
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:39 PM
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Well it's a but marketing, if you show off how cool your life is the better off you'll be, pictures with friends or family but rather friends, hobbies that you love doing. Then maybe like some other chicks pictures, you might like back some of yours, then it's legit that you got a green light but I personally don't like message strangers from nothing, I mean it might work if they check on you, but the more followers she has, the more likely you'll be another random dude in her DM requests
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:33 PM
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Well it might depend on your style, I mean I'm kinda a player so I'd prefer to keep to girl confused will she get me or not but if you're like more a nice guy who shows more direct intent ok it's giving your power away but it's still fine if you wanna like a relationship. Whatever your style is it's the best when it comes out naturally, it's kinda a subconsciouss thing for me so it's a bit hard to describe but if you look up to Toddv dating flirting/teasing he made some usefull stuff for this to…
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:13 AM
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It's kinda common problem mate. One thing that's useful for you to know. Men thinks rationally, women thinks emotionally so if you wanna her to be your gf/fuckduddy whatever you have to trigger emotions, but how you do that? Pretty simple. Your verbal and non verbal communication. Your actions her emotions. Like holding long deep eye content, deeper your voice and speak slowly, being as close to her as possible and ofc flirting and teasing back and forth maybe you can use some banters or push pu…
/r/seduction18/01/22 09:40 AM
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I think you should flirt more, while you're flirting and teasing back and forth make sure you're as close to her as possible then look Deep to her eyes, speak slowly maybe pull out her hair, usually it's the best test for me if she's ready for a kiss or not, if she doesn't resist, it's fine then something like, I like to use that line like you make me wanna kiss you, why you do this to me? Then it's super flirty and works for me every single time. It worth a try
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:02 PM
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You just don't know what you're doing and you just wondering. I mean there's a lot you had to improve on like approach anxiety, flirting, self confidence and so forth. It's not about luck you just have no idea and no direction where's the interaction going but it's not a hopeless situation. I'd say give yourself a bit time, work on yourself like communication skills, getting friends maybe go to the gym if you haven't already then it must be some progress for sure
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:00 PM
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