how do I bring value to conversation

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-08-23T08:55:18+00:00

So simple. Just self amuse. I know some improvisation comedy exercises for this like yes and.. you answer for something like its a good way to pass or not fail a shittest just say yes and continue with whatever that comes to your mind, if you start something I guarantee you that you gonna finish the sentence. it might not be perfect, might be weird or rude but it gives you some practice in trusting yourself, and whatever you say you can deal with that what comes after that. Another thing like this you're so x just like y like you're so cute like my little sister. You can still practice it at home. For me adding value is about not hiding and not hiding the truth. Everything that's you and your opinion, value, and experience is unique and unreplaceable so treat it as your own unique value that only you can provide and you decide to who you give access to it

texaspete3 · 2022-08-23T09:17:06+00:00

Fuck with people. It will keep them on their toes , and when they realize you are fucking with them it will be AHA moment where you can laugh.

Don't take things too serious, be mischievous but non threatening.

And most importantly slow down your talking.

Don't have a conversation at all, they are your audience and you are bored and they are their for your entertainment.. that is my mindset a lot of times and it works very well.

If someone pulls out their cellphone , make them put it away. If someone commits a social faux pas don't be afraid to call them out on it.

intensely_human · 2022-08-23T07:37:37+00:00

If you’re looking for things “to say”, you’re using the conversation for your own ends and by definition aren’t bringing value to it.

You being value to a conversation by listening until you have something to contribute.

Mr_ambitiouz · 2022-08-23T12:30:42+00:00

I think that You're the type of person that don't click with everyone, so find the people that you click with and let the conversation flow.

If you are trying then it's not natural for you.

I'm personally I don't find it easy to converse with most people however I love it, cause most conversations are empty and void.

Lopsided_Jackfruit37 · 2022-08-24T13:31:43+00:00

Read about current events. Have a hobby besides gaming - whether it's interesting food or drinks, hiking, biking, woodworking, anything. Look for clues on what she might be into. I.E. If she's drinking a coffee... ask what kind of coffee it is and then be able to make a witty comment about coffee. If she's wearing a graphic tee with a location on it, be able to make a comment on that location... even if it's just to ask if she's been there and what it's like. Etc.

Leo7S · 2022-08-23T23:08:25+00:00

Compliment them! Initiate something that leads into interacting with them in the present moment!

Title	how do I bring value to conversation
Author	jha_2_engineer
Upvotes	12
Comments	12
Date	August 23, 2022 6:52 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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