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Basic QuestionZebrahead033/r/askMRP25/02/22 11:50 AM
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It's almost a win win situation for them. As a man your options are to take the abuse, be it verbal, physical or both and defend yourself at the risk of going to jail.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 07:09 PM
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I took the shoes off like 2 hrs later because I couldn't fall asleep. Eventually fell asleep. Woke up and left. Tried to get together again. She was not interested. Live and learn.
/r/seduction03/05/22 01:34 PM
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It happens. I met up with this random chick to "sleep" together. So she says she's going to bed, takes off all of her clothes and gets under the blankets. I stayed fully dressed including shoes and joined her.
/r/seduction03/05/22 09:35 AM
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I've been messing with the mini date idea. Which is basically something small and quick. So grab a drink, coffee or alcohol, ice cream. Something like this. If you're not feeling her or vice versa, you can bail at that moment. You won't have to pay for a bunch of drinks, dinner or a movie. Just a snack and move on. Of course if you are into each other you can easily escalate from there.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:08 PM
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Don't take rejection so personally. Also try getting a wingman. My cousin and I were at a sports bar watching the UFC fights. I thought one of the bartenders was hot. I asked her out. Got rejected. Told my cousin what happened. He immediately was like fuck that dumb bitch. Haha. It made me feel better. Sometimes you just need some reassurance. It just helped me to get over it rather than internalize it and keep thinking about it.
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:59 PM
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To be honest not really. The only people who notice/compliment my physique are fat women, old women and gay guys. I think improving the way you dress will have a much bigger impact.
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:40 PM
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It's a loophole around having to pay to gain access to certain features. Not ideal but it works.
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:44 PM
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It's so much more complicated than just taking steroids. If you really are going to educate yourself on the entire process, are committed to the lifestyle, have the money to support it and accept the risks then do what you gotta do.
/r/seduction30/04/22 02:36 AM
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You know what I don't like about online dating. I started messaging with this woman who liked my profile. To be honest, I wasn't really into her but at the same time it's not like I had a bunch of options. So we get along fairly well via texting and I invite her out to dinner. She says yes. Day of dinner plans comes and I double check to ensure we as still on for later that night. No reply. Woman I wasn't even interested in ghosted me. Not sure if that's a good thing or bad thing.
/r/seduction27/04/22 08:47 PM
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It is unfortunate. I dropped out a little under 2 years in. Didn't learn a damn thing. All it cost me was time and money. I felt like all I was paying for was a bullshit piece of paper. It was sad really.
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:09 PM
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Unless you are very good looking, rich or well endowed, the strategy of doing nothing to improve yourself is not a good one. First you're an absolute twig. I know because I was the exact same when I was your age. Start working out. You have a long road ahead of you. Go to college. Get at least a Bachelor's Degree. If school is absolutely not for you consider something like the military, law enforcement, fire department, Border Patrol. Decent pay and you can retire early. Women love a man in unif…
/r/seduction26/04/22 06:29 PM
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That's normal. When I was 16, a gust of wind blew by and I got a boner. I spent years thinking I was too horny. To the point where I considered myself some kind of pervert. Fast forward to age 20 when I had my first serious long term girlfriend. She wanted sex just a bad as I did. Probably even more. It only seems excessive when you're single. But once you have someone to share sex and intimacy with you'll realize you're completely normal.
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:31 PM
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Just do the 1-2. Step side to side. 1-2. 1-2.
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:58 PM
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You just need to control your emotions and how you react to things. Continuously try not to let things bother you. Don't get stressed, worried, scared, nervous, intimidated, etc. Whenever you experience a negative emotion take the time to think about why you are feeling that way. If the problem you're facing has a solution, why are you angry? If the problem you are facing doesn't have a solution, why are you angry? Think about it.
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:32 PM
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I knew a few women in school that had this issue. There was this one chick named Erica who was a super hottie. Us guys were all too chicken shit to try and make a move on her and we also just assumed that wasn't even single. One day she starts dating this guy who is way below her in the looks department. I ended up asking her why him? She said he was the only one who asked her out so she decided to give him a chance. You never know. Gotta shoot your shot
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:21 PM
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I just feel like for some people it can be a slippery slope. Do you want to go out with me? You can say no if you want. Even if you say no now maybe you will change your mind later. Hey I know you said no before but how about now? It's ok if it's still a no. Oh it's still a no. That's perfectly fine with me. I'm happy with either a yes or a no. Just to be clear if you ever want to change your mind let me know. And to be extra clear it wouldn't be a problem if you said no again.
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:11 PM
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Sorry I can't agree with this method. I would have already moved onto someone else.
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:29 PM
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Is that the goal, to know for sure that she is not into you?
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:26 PM
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I think that's dumb. It's like you're helping her reject you.
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:24 PM
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Just wear high heels bro. 👠 6 foot easy.
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:57 AM
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Ask her if she has ever kicked someone in the rusty peaches barefoot.
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:31 PM
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To be honest I don't put much effort other than "Hi how's it going?" Online dating is about looks more than anything. I figure if they reply, they find me attractive. If they don't, they don't.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:20 PM
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No sir.
/r/seduction12/04/22 10:55 PM
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No it was Yvette. She blew me after we met online.
/r/seduction12/04/22 08:58 PM
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The method my friend Alex uses is to like every woman. That way you will see all of your matches. He does this for every dating app. Then if it turns out you actually are interested in a match then you just message them or reply if they message you. It works surprisingly well for him but he is 6'4.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:48 PM
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There's was this chick that used to blow me in her backyard on her trampoline. She loved having conversations while she was giving head and I enjoyed it because it helped me last longer. Good times.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:40 PM
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You have to get out of your head. Obsessing over your performance is only going to hinder it. When I was younger I couldn't last in bed to save my life. I would always worry about it. Sometime I managed to delay for a decent while but usually I was fairly quick. The thing is none of the women gave a shit. We would go multiple rounds and they were completely into it. If you want to get better in bed you have to practice. Here's an opportunity to do so. Stop thinking and start fucking.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:28 PM
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Well la dee da.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:14 PM
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Just don't hesitate and overthink things. You don't want to be that random guy just staring at everyone. Just mingle. Talk with everyone and anyone. Even simple small talk will help build momentum.
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:29 PM
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So this is a well known strategy. Basically when a hot chick sees you with other hot chicks it lets them know that you are already hot chick approved. This will absolutely increase your odds with other hot chicks.
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:18 PM
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I hear what you're saying. But like I said this is a cookie cutter routine. There are so many variables that come into play. This is only a starting point. I can't provide details because every situation, environment and woman is different. She has plenty to go off of. Your looks, your style, height, build, voice, confidence, the way you present yourself, your choice of words. This isn't about performing magic tricks for a woman. She's into you or she's not.
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:38 AM
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Nothing in particular. I just feel so much more confident and comfortable. I'm able to show off my personality and be so much funnier and more interesting. I get the I haven't laughed like that since I was a kid comment a lot. The type where your stomach or cheeks start to hurt from laughing so much. I've always subscribed to the theory that if you can make a woman laugh you can make a woman do anything.
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:51 PM
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Not too good. It's hard to give you some kind of cookie cutter routine but I'll try. Hi how's it going? /Good/ I'm Joe. / Amber/ Shake hands. Touch barrier broken. Nice to meet you Amber. / Nice to meet you too. I'm actually on my way to have lunch with a friend but I thought you were pretty so I thought I would introduce myself. /Oh Thank you Smile. You're welcome Amber. I want to get to know you better. Thought maybe we could hangout sometime. Do you want to exchange numbers, SC, Insta, whatev…
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:38 PM
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My cold approach game is dog shit. But my first date game is on point. If only I had more first dates...
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:11 PM
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I had the same issue in my 20s. I looked very young. Now at 34 I can still get women in their early 20s. Eventually it will work in your favor.
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:59 PM
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This is horrible for 1000 approaches. Keep trying but you need to change something. Either your look or what you are saying needs work. What do you usually say?
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:57 PM
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I felt the same way. I used to have big time approach anxiety. One night I remember approaching several woman at a club. Got rejected by all of them. 🤣 Felt great to get out there though.
/r/seduction08/04/22 04:06 PM
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Oh she knows which joystick she can use.
/r/seduction08/04/22 04:03 PM
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You need to choose your path wisely. Playing videogames is awesome. Getting a bj is awesome. Getting a bj while playing videogames... you've done something right in life.
/r/seduction08/04/22 03:43 PM
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You have to strike while the iron is hot. Especially the more attractive the woman is. If you wait too long thinking you're being nice or respectful, blah blah blah, you're only increasing the likelihood that someone else will swoop in and make a move.
/r/seduction08/04/22 03:38 PM
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This is the exact approach I would take. Make it seem like it's no big deal. Which is how it should be.
/r/seduction08/04/22 12:44 PM
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Why not? It's late. Limited options. Keep it casual and grab a burger. No sense in spending money on a fancy restaurant for a woman you are still getting to know.
/r/seduction08/04/22 12:40 PM
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I would say Salsa and drinks (if you drink). You could invite her back to your place after. Or grab a bite to eat after since you've built up an appetite from all of the dancing. Dancing and a movie sounds a bit random to me. I would do a movie on the 2nd date.
/r/seduction08/04/22 12:21 PM
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One bit of advice I've heard is never delete text messages, voicemails, emails, etc. You never know what will save you from false accusations.
/r/seduction08/04/22 01:04 AM
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That is bold but if she's into you you'll know it right away. I've done the thing where I'll put my arm out so she can grab onto it while we walk.
/r/seduction06/04/22 06:25 PM
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You need to break the touch barrier. I do this right off the bat with a hug. Other than that as you're walking next to them you can joke around with them and bump into them. Once you break the touch barrier it's much easier to go for a kiss at some point.
/r/seduction06/04/22 12:26 PM
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I currently have Tinder. There are several woman who have like me but I didn't match them back. I matched with 2 but they never replied to my message. It can be very hit or miss. Still though, if you're single I think it would be a mistake not to do some kind of OLD. If nothing else for the convenience.
/r/seduction06/04/22 12:23 PM
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I've fucked in a parking lot. Not in a vehicle parked there but literally just outside in a parking lot. Her idea, not mine. Stop making excuses. You need to start slinging some serious yogurt.
/r/seduction06/04/22 12:16 PM
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I tried this a few time but I was too much in my head. I started over thinking and became self conscious. Ended up drinking to help loosen up and ended up drinking too much and then I was really too drunk to try and meet people. The only advice I can give it don't go out too early to a bar/club. One time I got all dressed up and what not. Showed up to my favorite club and it was literally empty. Better to show up late when it's already packed than to stand around awkwardly for people to arrive.
/r/seduction02/04/22 02:53 PM
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On a recent date this chick complimented me on my shirt. Basic long sleeve button up shirt. Nothing overly fancy. I believe I bought it at H&M for $12. Other than that a nice pair of blue jeans and some brown boots. Again nothing fancy but clean and in good condition. Vans are fine as long as they are clean.
/r/seduction29/03/22 04:45 PM
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Personally I love going to the gym. Sucks when my day is too busy and I can't make it. I wish people would stick with it. It really does become very enjoyable. The first week is always the hardest.
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:57 PM
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There's a saying I think Will Smith came up with. If you're scared to do something, then do it scared.
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:56 PM
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I used to go out a lot with my friend Tony. Had known him for years. To be honest, we would mostly strike out. I did a little better than he did but not by much. Anyways I shared a story with him about a woman named Tina who I had hooked up with recently. Gave him some details on her appearance. What he ended up doing was scouring social media and messaging every woman with her name that fit her description. Eventually he found her. Starts chatting with her using me as a way to get a response fr…
/r/seduction27/03/22 09:23 PM
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Would your prefer waddle?
/r/seduction27/03/22 06:40 PM
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Maybe they want to suck your dick like they're mad at it.
/r/seduction27/03/22 03:44 PM
4

Just ask them if they want to roll down the street and grab a bite to eat.
/r/seduction27/03/22 02:22 PM
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I would try the hobbies route. Something physical. Hiking, swimming, martial arts. As far as dating goes, you can try hiring a matchmaker. Not saying they will get you married but they will get you a date. Seems like your biggest obstacle is social anxiety. The only way to improve that is to get out there and be social.
/r/seduction27/03/22 12:28 AM
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Did the news of her having a kid make you feel unwell or was it that burrito you had eaten for lunch? Also I went through a similar situation with this woman I dated. My interest in her was relatively high. We hung out regularly. I knew she had a daughter but I had never met her. One day she asks if she could bring her daughter with her for dinner. My interest plummeted. I wasn't expecting myself to react that way but something was telling me kids aren't for me.
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:14 PM
1

I've gotten this twice. Once at the gym. There was a group of women who decided to workout around me. I think it was 4 of them. They were bending over in front of me and taking selfies and what not. I guess they assumed I would be staring at them or try and talk to them and I didn't. The truth is I thought they were gross and annoying. 2 of them weren't bad looking but they were so trying too hard and they were just so loud and laughing at every little thing. They we're like a group of hyenas wi…
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:34 AM
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It's better than nothing. I had a similar experience but we would still makeout. Despite my best efforts she wasn't willing to get naked or have sex. What ended up working for me was acting like I wasn't interested anymore. I played a bit of reverse psychology and next thing you know I get invited over for sex.
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:28 PM
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Who have you boxed besides your little brother? Shave your shitty beard. If it's not happening it's not happening. Plenty of guys can look good with or without facial hair. Don't think a beard is a must. You're doing well in school. You're already ahead of so many. Keep it up and give yourself some credit for the hard work you're putting in. Don't dismiss what you have accomplished and what you are working towards. If you keep minimizing your efforts, your confidence will never grow.
/r/seduction22/03/22 07:40 PM
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Learn to fight. Any martial art that you can actually use to kick someone's ass. Just knowing that you can beat the shit out of pretty much anyone you come across will have a major impact. It's work though. But it's worth it.
/r/seduction22/03/22 05:42 PM
2

The thing it you won't know unless you try and you won't get better unless you try. Waiting for a woman to approach you is not a good strategy. Most guys aren't good looking enough to have this happen to them. You have approach them. Forget about rejection, awkwardness, cringe, creepy vibes, embarrassments, etc. All of that is bound to happen. It's just part of the process.
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:45 PM
1

You need to use all avenues including dating apps. The amount of competition is ridiculous. Do it all to give yourself the best shot.
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:38 PM
2

I would do something halfway. But if near her is the only option then so be it
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:33 PM
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30 doesn't sound crazy. If you can get there in less than a hour it's not bad. I often look for women in nearby cities. Make a weekend of it and have a mini road trip. Very hit or miss though. A lot of flakes so you have to have multiples lined up.
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:16 PM
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I'm gymmaxxing now. I'm slim but with muscle and I am strong. I see women looking at me at the gym but I'm too much of a pussy to approach.
/r/seduction19/03/22 10:01 AM
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There are other ways to get the girl though. We just have to keep trying.
/r/seduction19/03/22 02:34 AM
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He is. He's always had quite the selection of women to choose from. But looks aside, he played multiple sports and instruments, worked out, did well in school, put a lot of effort into his appearance, etc. Genetics absolutely played a huge part but I can't discredit all the work he put in.
/r/seduction19/03/22 02:25 AM
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So he was driving his car and she was riding passenger in her friend's car. They made eye contact and smiled at each other. They had a really brief exchange and the light turned green. My cousin yelled out his phone number as he was driving straight and they were turning left. A few seconds later his phone rings. She said something like is the guy I just spoke with the the red light. And there you have it. After hearing this story I remember coming to a red light and there was a female in the ve…
/r/seduction19/03/22 02:09 AM
1

At least you didn't catch pneumonia.
/r/seduction19/03/22 12:00 AM
1

No but if you don't find females there then it's time to move
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:52 PM
1

Try Walmart
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:49 PM
14

Just approach woman throughout your regular day to day life. My cousin met his fiance while they were both stopped at a red light. You can make your move anywhere, anytime. The more approaches you make the more opportunities you give yourself.
/r/seduction18/03/22 10:17 PM
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Can't speak for all women of course but you constantly see women asking for a man who is 6' and above. Apparently only something like 15% of American men meet that requirement. This really puts you in a very rare category. Thus the advantage. But it's beyond just height. It's obviously no guarantee you will get laid but certainly increases your opportunities.
/r/seduction18/03/22 07:36 PM
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Being tall is a big advantage. You can get laid off of that alone. Still put in the effort to get in better shape.
/r/seduction18/03/22 03:37 PM
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It's not about being approached. It's about having the confidence to go out alone. Never said it was the same.
/r/seduction17/03/22 03:16 PM
0

It's really about what state of mind you're in. Some people become extremely self conscious and insecure if they go out alone. Others prefer it. I knew a women who would go out alone to meet men. Her strategy was simple. Go to a bar with only enough money to buy 1 drink. By the time she was going to finish the drink someone would have already approached her and offered to buy her another drink.
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:03 PM
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Sounds like a good night. A lot of opportunity. Well done sir.
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:56 PM
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You should of said "I'll give you something to swallow."
/r/seduction16/03/22 07:53 PM
96

Just keep in mind that is was you messaging him and not the other way around. You're more into him than he is in you. But if you just need dick, then so be it.
/r/seduction16/03/22 06:41 PM
4

Gym talk is an easy topic but it will get old fast. So it's easy to to say what are you working on today? Or what's your favorite exercise? But you don't want to go to that well too many times. Your conversation will become predictable and boring. I wouldn't be too routine about it. Some days have a small conversation and other days just greet her with something simple. Good morning. Smile. Wave. Have a good workout. And focus on your workout. Don't be the oh no here comes this guy to talk to me…
/r/seduction16/03/22 04:21 PM
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I know several women who use dating apps. Literally download the app have it for like an hour. Pick a few guys they find attractive and exchange contact info and then delete the app. Most women use the apps. Even the ones you never see on them or the ones you'd never expect to be on there.
/r/seduction16/03/22 01:38 PM
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Gym game should be the slow game. Don't rush into it. You're going to see her regularly. You planted the seed now you just need to keep watering it.
/r/seduction16/03/22 01:31 PM
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It's a local gym franchise. EP Fitness.
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:57 PM
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Hit the gym hard and women will approach you there. They usually ask me for workout tips or how to perform an exercise or ask me to spot them. It doesn't happen really often but it happens. I'm not even impressive looking. I'm skinny with some muscle but my form is on point and I'm considerably stronger than most people who workout at my gym.
/r/seduction15/03/22 09:28 PM
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When it comes to making a move on women you have to strike when the iron is hot. You're not the only guy trying to get with her. If you wait to long you will absolutely lose your opportunity. Also, don't suffer from one-itis. This woman is not the only single woman out there. There are plenty. And you should be pursuing multiple women, not just one. Lastly, not to be disrespectful but your ex is probably drowning in jizz right now and you're too scared to even make a move. SMH. Stop doing this t…
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:40 PM
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It's usually kissing, touching, suck boobs, get head if she gives it and then have sex. Possibly eat a sandwich afterwards.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:25 PM
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I only eat pussy if she's my girlfriend. Other than that you know chances are a bunch of dudes are nutting in there.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:21 PM
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The issues with small towns is there is limited options. That's awesome that you're getting out there and going for it but you don't want to run out of options. One thing I would do on dating apps is meet women from close by cities online. Eventually we'd meet in person. My cousin and I would make a weekend of it. Mini road trip to a new city. Maybe we meet up with some chicks we met online or just cold approach. Being that is was a whole different city we were far more daring. Sometimes we'd ge…
/r/seduction15/03/22 12:59 PM
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Bro I just told you what to do and you're saying you don't know how. Just do it. It can't be worse than what you are trying now.
/r/seduction15/03/22 09:37 AM
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You're not the only guy messaging her. If if she wants to message you back sometimes so many guys can hit her up that your message can get buried.
/r/seduction14/03/22 08:39 PM
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Oh you'll know. There will be no doubt. Unless you're so caught up with over thinking and over analyzing it that you completely miss it.
/r/seduction14/03/22 06:50 PM
14

Women know how to give "the look". If you don't know what that is then a woman has never looked at you that way.
/r/seduction14/03/22 06:33 PM
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To have the full context I'm going to need to see those photos.
/r/seduction14/03/22 06:25 PM
3

Says there's a group of 3 women. You approach and say do you know why penguins can't fly? Then they say idk why? Then you say idk either that's why I was asking. Then everyone laughs and you introduce yourself.
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:30 PM
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You need to talk to her. I sat next to this pretty girl in my history class. I was very much interested in her but couldn't even say good morning to her because I was a pussy. Anyways with me just being too quite and awkwardly glancing at her from time to time I definitely made her uncomfortable. Eventually she moved seats. Message received.
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:27 PM
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He got down on one knee and proposed to me. Yes he's obviously into you. Do you really need him to put a billboard up telling you that he likes you? Real simple be flirty/playful about it and ask him when he's going to take you on a date.
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:17 PM
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I know a really short guy who has always had really pretty girlfriends. But he's in a band and has really nice long hair. Dude is tiny though. Where there's a will there's a way.
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:13 PM
1

Next time you message her ask her if she wants to kick you in the rusty peaches barefoot. It's a longshot but you never know.
/r/seduction14/03/22 03:58 PM
0

I was going to recommend just regular commercial gym. Fat chicks always check me out at the gym when I'm lifting weights. If only I was into fat chicks.
/r/seduction14/03/22 03:41 PM
1

You need to chill first. Don't blow it talking about a relationship when you haven't even dated.
/r/seduction14/03/22 03:38 PM
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You'll know it when you meet a women you really connect with. Until then just continue slinging yogurt.
/r/seduction14/03/22 02:25 PM
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Just get close to him. Hug him and rub up against him. When I was 21 I'd get a boner if a gust of wind blew by. I'm sure you'll have no issues getting the job done.
/r/seduction14/03/22 02:21 PM
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If you're not sure you're into her you can grab some coffee or a drink at a bar. Ice cream works as well. If the spark isn't there you can end it right after. Which is nice because you didn't spend much time or money. If you are into her, dinner is good. If you want to spend more time together you can have drinks after dinner. Even going for a walk afterwards is nice. You get a chance to talk, help digest your food and break the touch barrier. And of course if the mood is right invite her to you…
/r/seduction14/03/22 12:36 PM
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Just a heads up Batman is really long. Wouldn't recommend a movie for a first date either. Not very fun to sit next to a stranger for a couple of hours and not be able to talk.
/r/seduction14/03/22 12:27 PM
2

I'm Hispanic. Noticed I do better with white and black women in my city which is predominantly Hispanic.
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:43 AM
1

I would spam "Hi, how's it going?" Didn't get as many replies but I knew the ones that replied were attracted to me. My thought behind this approach is that it should be easy. Either they are into me or not. No need for convincing or bullshitting.
/r/seduction12/03/22 03:56 PM
3

Just keep in mind that she's not the one you've built up in your head.
/r/seduction12/03/22 01:05 PM
2

Watch the movie Before Sunset. It's a movie about a date where they basically just have 1 long conversation. The chemistry between them is excellent and the pacing of the movie is really nice. But they aren't just sitting and talking.
/r/seduction11/03/22 05:00 PM
6

I knew a woman who would do this. So she would basically use men for money. She would establish as many connections as possible and document every conversation with each of them. Eventually she would progress the relationship to a point where she was getting money or favors from them. Before contacting any of them she would review her notes as not to confuse them with anyone else. I would just rely on memory if I was you. Assuming you just want a normal relationship.
/r/seduction11/03/22 04:53 PM
2

You need to share what the hobby is. If you do jiujitsu, well of course the touch barrier is broken. But you're supposed to do that. Do not escalate in that scenario. If you are taking dance lessons together and you like her, don't go trying to touch her ass during class. Invite her out and see how the night goes.
/r/seduction11/03/22 01:41 PM
2

Invite her out. Assuming she says yes. Escalate quickly. Be assertive. Have the plans set don't ask her where she wants to go or what she wants to do. Greet her with a good hug. Not some pat of the back bullshit. Wrap her up. Followed by a small kiss. Put your fingers under her chin and gently pull her towards you and you lean in for the kiss. Kiss her slow. Let her feel your lips pressed up against hers. Take her by the hand or let her grab onto your arm. When you open the door for her guide he…
/r/seduction10/03/22 06:04 PM
1

Do you just makeout or do you get all touchy feely as well?
/r/seduction10/03/22 12:02 PM
7

I'm more of the strong silent type. Never cared about being some smiling clown . 🤡
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:12 AM
1

This. If she wants something more, she'll bring it up.
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:10 AM
1

This changes a lot. Sounds like you are in the friend zone with minimal benefits. Make it clear to her. You're looking for either sex or a serious relationship.
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:07 AM
1

It's really unfortunate. But people will learn. Eventually things will figure themselves out. Until then, enjoy the shit show.
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:03 AM
28

Don't treat her like you would your girlfriend. Treat her like a random hookup. At the same time, don't expect her to treat you like her boyfriend. Expect to be treated like a random hookup.
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:49 PM
1

Unfortunately it seems like modern day dating is headed in this direction. But the grind should always be for yourself and not random women. Women, not just hot women but even very unattractive women, have an abundance or men to choose from thanks to dating apps and technology. This means that men who are average looking and even above can struggle to get a below average looking woman due to the amount of competition. Fortunately not all women at this shallow or superficial. Which makes the fact…
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:40 PM
2

Well she made it through the entire date which seemed kind of long and was place to place to place. She took your advice about the sketchy part of town. That means your opinion holds valve to her. She was willing to be photographed with you. You're not some mistake she swept under the rug and tried to hide. And you got a kiss. So you didn't makeout so hard that she wound up pregnant. So what. You did well. She enjoyed herself. She wants to see you again. Don't overthink it. Great job. Let us kno…
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:42 PM
1

Some people hit the genetic jackpot and some get hit with the ugly stick. Being a 7 isn't all about physical appearance. Personality, the way you carry yourself, style, vehicle, profession, education, finances, social circle, intelligence, work ethic, home, etc can all contribute to your overall attractiveness. Think about what a difference it would make to be in the top 20% rather than the bottom 80%. What kind of hobbies do you have?
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:34 PM
1

A solid 5? Out or 10.... Not good. You need to keep working towards at least a 7. You don't want women to think "oh I took a shit this morning that looked just like him." But in all seriousness you sound like you're absolutely on the right track. Maybe it's your demeanor or tone of voice. I know I tend to come off as very serious or even angry at times. Any way you can ask for one of those females feedback on your interactions?
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:18 PM
2

Honestly the date sounded very boring. You both came across as dull and serious. Sounds like a match made in heaven. I think you're being a bit too serious though. You had some great opportunities to be flirty and playful. You need to make it known you are interested in being more than just friends or a simp who takes her out on 3 dates in one night. You could have asked her to go dancing with you. Easy way to break the touch barrier. Feel each other's energy and just get comfortable in being cl…
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:14 PM
1

Well going to college and hitting the gym are a good place to start. You're working on yourself which is a must. How's your hygiene and overall appearance as far as how you dress, style your hair, attractiveness?
/r/seduction09/03/22 11:46 AM
336

Probably about once a month unless I'm getting laid regularly, then weekly.
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:03 AM
4

You need to learn from each approach. Think about the things you are doing or saying. It obviously isn't working. You need to change your approach. Settling for drunks and uglies will never satisfy you. Tell me about your dating app experience.
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:02 AM
1

Probably nothing. Romance novels are likely filled with unrealistic expectations.
/r/seduction07/03/22 09:40 PM
1

Keep it casual. No sense in rushing or forcing the situation. Keep conversation lite. Don't linger. You know you'll see her again.
/r/seduction07/03/22 09:38 PM
2

Plan B. It will help me relax and not be so needy when pursuing plan A.
/r/seduction02/03/22 09:16 PM
3

I'm considering doing something similar just to get laid regularly. I feel like it will put the momentum on my side.
/r/seduction02/03/22 09:14 PM
1

Don't say this. I need to sling some serious yogurt. WYA?
/r/seduction02/03/22 09:00 PM
2

You went a day without texting her. No need to panic if she goes a day without texting you. The only recommendation I'd give in this type of situation if don't double text. Either she replies or she doesn't. Glad she texted you back.
/r/seduction02/03/22 08:58 PM
2

This absolutely sounds likes she's into you. Date #3 you should try for a kiss. You'll know much after this. Good luck.
/r/seduction02/03/22 05:58 PM
1

This is generally obvious information. What's being preached here is nothing new or groundbreaking. Still, I'm happy to see more and more individuals and communities preach this narrative. It's far better than the doom and gloom you find online these days.
/r/seduction02/03/22 05:01 PM
1

Well wear a condom for sure. Here's something I had no clue about until years later. Lambskin condoms do not protect against STDs. The pores on those condoms are small enough to stop sperm from getting through but not small enough to stop bacterias and virus that cause STDs. Make sure you're wearing latex condoms. Also if something looks or smells off. Don't do it.
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:00 PM
26

Something that has worked for me recently was saying I'm either looking for sex or a serious relationship. Nothing in between. But that advice about making a joke about it sounds legit. Definitely going to try that.
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:10 PM
100

I tried a similar line on a date once. My date was like I like your confidence. But she was really saying that's good that you feel attractive even though you're not. Thanks Norma.
/r/seduction01/03/22 02:00 PM
1

If that's a celebrity I really don't watch TV. I have no clue who that is.
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:18 PM
1

If it works it works.
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:34 AM
1

When I was 27 I was with a 19 year old. 34 now. Most recently was a 29 year old.
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:33 AM
2

Puppy girl? That's a first.
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:29 AM
1

It's possible. The fact that you're still talking shows that she enjoys spending time with you.
/r/seduction01/03/22 02:53 AM
2

I struggle as well. The amount of rejections and ghosting from OLD is ridiculous. Working on my day game now. I do have 1 tip though. Even if they aren't really what you want, it's good to try and build your fwb options. Before covid I had a handful of women I would keep on rotation. I wouldn't consider being in a relationship with any of them, but hooking up was just fine. They wouldn't always say yes, but because I had multiple to choose from, chances are one of them would be available. The bi…
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:54 AM
2

Only had a woman cry during sex twice. The first was an absolute whore of a woman. She slept with a tons of men and started at a very young age. The reason she cried after sex was because she had an orgasm and had never had one before despite the numerous partners she had. It was a very powerful and genuine reaction. It was actually kind of sad. I felt bad for her. The 2nd was this weird situation where my girlfriend and I broke up but agreed to be fuck buddies. I went over for some random sex a…
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:38 AM
17

Just to add be careful with graphic tees. You don't want to wear some glittery dragon. Also don't smoke crack.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:08 AM
1

The reason I don't feel excited is often times the women I'm dating are not at the level that I'm working towards. So sometimes I feel like I'm wasting my time and money. When I'm dating a more attractive woman (which is very rare) I definitely feel the additional pressure of not screwing things up. I'm putting in the work and becoming a better version of myself. I know the excitement will come in time.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:00 AM
1

Mine would be my humor. I've been told I come across as very serious - especially through text. Some people even believe I'm insulting them. It just doesn't come out the right way via text. But in person I have people laughing all the time. A common thing women tell me on dates is how they haven't laughed like that since they were kids. You know the kind where you laugh so much your stomach or cheeks start to hurt. The issues is I lose most women through text before we even get a chance to meet …
/r/seduction28/02/22 05:44 PM
54

Absolutely. There is no such thing as the perfect time, perfect place, perfect scenario, perfect moment. You need to create it not wait for it.
/r/seduction28/02/22 05:30 PM
1

If you are friends with any of the women who rejected you or maybe dated a couple a few times before things fizzled out, you can ask for their perspective. What went wrong? What can you improve on? Why did they lose interest? If they are honest with you, it might be a real eye opener.
/r/seduction28/02/22 05:23 PM
1

Once you find someone that you are interested you can flirt more. Just be more playful with them. You don't need to rush into sex but rather practice slowly raising the sexual tension between you two.
/r/seduction28/02/22 05:19 PM
4

I agree. There was this woman Maria who I knew liked me. We started dating and whenever I would text her she would reply right away. When I asked her out is was always a yes. When I wanted to hook up it was always a yes. Fast forward some time later and I really started treating her poorly and just acted like a low valve person in general. Naturally she lost interest. I started to notice how it took her longer and longer to reply and was no longer up for random hooks ups. Couldn't even get the o…
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:58 PM
1

One thing that worked for me is stop being so picky. I would date women that I really wasn't interested in. I rationalized this by thinking of what I had to gain. I could be surprised and actually end up really liking this person. Even if it's only as friends. It was practice for future dates socially and sexually. Sex. I could have a one night stand or FWB. It gets rid of any neediness or desperation. You've satisfied the urge. You scratched the itch.
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:53 PM
1

Her place. It's rather obvious.
/r/seduction28/02/22 11:15 AM
2

I'd say go for it. At least exchange numbers. If it ends up not working, at least you can still awkwardly wave at each other.
/r/seduction28/02/22 10:31 AM
5

Day game is very important. Especially as you get older and the bar/club scene is over for you. The only recommend I'd give is at least say hi when you are making eye contact and crossing paths. If she smiles and greets you back then this could be the sign or the confidence booster to try and talk to her.
/r/seduction28/02/22 10:27 AM
3

Without money probably not.
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:51 PM
1

Just stick with. Try having casual conversations without the intent of anything. Continue to put in the work. By trying you're already doing more than most guys.
/r/seduction27/02/22 12:10 PM
5

It did affect you. It obviously bothered you. Don't bury your feelings and act like you're cool with being treated poorly by others. Friends come and go. Her action don't sound too friendly. Not cool for her to do that. Not cool for your other friend to do that. They just shit in your cereal and you're still going to eat it? If you want to move seats so be it. That's your call. You don't need strangers to give you validation. This is your life and no one knows your situation with work and friend…
/r/seduction27/02/22 01:02 AM
16

You need to let go and move on. Why are you concerned about her noticing a change in your behavior? She rejected you and got with your friend. Sounds like you have a bit of oneitus. You don't need to be a dick but you don't need to be a pussy either.
/r/seduction27/02/22 12:49 AM
2

Just channel that energy into something productive.
/r/seduction27/02/22 12:44 AM
2

Sometimes it's all about energy. If they out out good vibes than women find that attractive and want to be around them. Just work on building your confidence and don't approach women with the intent of dating or hooking up. Remember women have a lot more practice with these types of social interactions. Some of them can pick up on your intentions right away and it probably kills the vibe.
/r/seduction27/02/22 12:21 AM
3

Just keep in mind that there will always be someone else. You've already proved this to yourself. They may not have all of the same qualities as your previous girlfriend but they will have others that you enjoy just as much or even better. And so will the next one
/r/seduction27/02/22 12:13 AM
3

Get out of your mind. 3,2,1... Go talk to her. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
/r/seduction27/02/22 12:10 AM
1

To be honest not many. 2 reasons. The biggest contributor was just being a pussy and the second was relying too much on O.L.D.
/r/seduction27/02/22 12:02 AM
1

There are so many variables. The only bits of advice I would give is if you're texting ask her out on a high note. Meaning when the conversation is good and flowing. There's mutual interest in what you're texting about or you have her lol a lot. The other tip would be to call rather thant text. This will set you apart from all the other guys potentially messaging her because you're the only with the balls to call. Plus it puts her on the spot assuming she answers your call. She can't just read a…
/r/seduction27/02/22 12:01 AM
1

You mentioned you had success. All you need is 1. 1 fwb. 1 girlfriend. 1 wife. Don't think you need to bang 1000 women to be successful. Also 1 out of 16 isn't horrible. Not every woman is going to say yes. Are you learning from any of your approaches or just doing the exact same thing every time?
/r/seduction26/02/22 11:34 PM
1

I would say by the bar but you're already doing that.
/r/seduction26/02/22 11:30 PM
1

Do something you can accomplish together rather than just do together.
/r/seduction26/02/22 05:21 PM
5

The idea behind any approach is to not fear rejection. The worst she can say is no. Go out and approach. Use OLD. Approach women throughout your regular day to day life. All the while you will learn from each approach. Wether it be what to do or not to do. What to say or not to say. Each experience will be a building block further strengthening your social skills and comfort around woman. Compile this with whatever else you are working on to help improve yourself and success will be the outcome.…
/r/seduction26/02/22 05:19 PM
0

R.I.P.
/r/seduction26/02/22 05:12 PM
1

Working out is a good idea regardless of the reasons or motivation behind it. Do it because it's good for you. It feels nice to be strong.
/r/seduction26/02/22 05:11 PM
2

You need to gain confidence. Whatever makes you feel uncomfortable, embarrassed, insecure or awkward - embrace it. Put yourself in those situations until you improve them or accept them. Sounds like you have so much more opportunity than a lot of guys but you're finding reasons to screw it up for yourself. Stop being a pussy. If you screw up, so be it. Live and learn. Don't let all of these opportunities and experiences pass you by. It's never as bad as you think it will be.
/r/seduction26/02/22 03:46 PM
2

I second that. Make her want you.
/r/seduction26/02/22 03:40 PM
1

You really need to check all the boxes. Good photos are obviously number one. Don't skip on the bio though. Some women will skim through it. If they find something funny or interesting on there it will only work in your favor. Don't rely solely on Tinder. Maybe it's a huge success for you but maybe it's not.
/r/seduction26/02/22 11:47 AM
2

Don't overthink it. Don't wait too long. Just go for it. Be friendly and confident. Pay close attention to body language and facial expressions. If it's not going well don't linger and try and save it. Move on. Good luck. Let us know how it went.
/r/seduction26/02/22 12:47 AM
3

My top 2 most complimented colognes are not expensive. It's the green bitty from Locoste and something rather cheap in Cool Water.
/r/seduction26/02/22 12:44 AM
1

I agree. I just need to learn to navigate the waters better. Increase my options. Improve my options. Missing out on one won't matter if I'm getting it somewhere else.
/r/askMRP25/02/22 10:40 PM
2

What's wrong with asking advice? I'm not seeking validation from anyone. Only trying to learn from others who have been in similar situations.
/r/askMRP25/02/22 10:36 PM
-2

No need for insults. Never saw the point of being an internet tough guy. Seeking advice on how to handle situations such as this. If your advice is to not care then noted. As far as your homosexuality goes, good luck with that.
/r/askMRP25/02/22 10:35 PM
6

You can be out in public on a date. All you need to do is break the touch barrier. Holding hands, hugging, kissing. Nothing major but it's a step in right direction. If she's not even willing to let you do that then the interest is more likely one sided. Regardless of what she says, actions speak louder than words.
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:22 PM
2

It was impressive. High level social skills. Not a bad skill to aquire.
/r/seduction25/02/22 06:01 PM
5

You need to escalate into something sexual. She's already put it out in the open. No sense in being the friend while some other guy(s) gets all the benefits. Let's take things slow so I can use you for attention, money and favors while I bang other guys. No way. Either she's into you or she's not.
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:59 PM
1

Confidence is a lot. When you are confident your are comfortable and happy. Giving off that good energy does wonders.
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:44 PM
4

I've only done the group on group approach. Like if I was with a group of guy friends and we approached a group of girls. Other than that I remember being out with a group of friends - guys and girls and this one random guy approached us. He had good energy. He was friendly and confident. Wasn't intrusive at all. He just walked up introduced himself and started talking with everyone. He actually because friends with most of the people in the group and dated the hot chick of the group that all of…
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:39 PM
0

Everyone has different struggles. You are where you are. You know where playing WOW gets you socially. If you are ok with it than continue. But if you want something different you have to try something different. You owe it to yourself to try. No one can do the work for you.
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:29 PM
3

It's important to accept that there will always be someone better looking. Don't let this defeat you. Instead put in the work to look your best. Also there are many other attractive traits about a person other than looks. If how you look now is the best you can do, so be it. Focus on improving other areas about yourself like the way you dress, social skill, income, status, etc. Level up in as many areas as possible. Lastly keep in mind that online dating is one avenue for meeting women. If you d…
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:11 PM
0

Sex is part of being a man and masculinity but it doesn't define it. If you want more sex and better quality partners put in the work to achieve that. Once you do and find it was or wasn't worth it, at least you will no longer wonder what if.
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:03 PM
1

If this is the only way, then so be it.
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:54 PM
1

I'd hope not but to be fair it was from online so you really never know until you know. Certainly wouldn't be asking the question if she was a fatty. The answer would be clear.
/r/askMRP25/02/22 04:14 PM
-1

Some stuff pops up on my feed so I'll comment from time to time. But yeah incel forms are quite toxic unfortunately. Definitely don't have oneitus. I'm simply inquiring about this particular scenario. Texted her once after the fact and never again. I guess to be more specific, would it be wise to take a chance and bail on something you already had planned in order to potentially have another plate to spin? Did really well with spinning plates pre covid but lost a few fwb over time. Did the datin…
/r/askMRP25/02/22 04:12 PM
-3

It would be irrelevant. What one finds attractive another wouldn't. What one would cancel plans for another wouldn't. I not going to post a picture of someone else without their permission just so you can take it to the spank bank.
/r/askMRP25/02/22 12:40 PM
0

You're welcome
/r/askMRP25/02/22 12:34 PM
-5

I do believe it's important to strike when the iron is hot but I also feel like everytime a woman tells me to jump my response shouldn't be how high.
/r/askMRP25/02/22 12:31 PM
1

33 and struggle to hook up regularly. I'm not Mr. Perfect but have stayed in shape since my teen years. Most women who are interested in me are gross. I'm not expecting a supermodel but at least put some damn effort it. At the gym is where most older women approach me. Kind of insulting to believe that they think I'm at the gym at 4 am to get with their nasty asses.
/r/seduction22/12/21 06:10 PM
1

Best advice I can give is don't overthink it. Just go for it. There is this absolutely beautiful cougar at my work. Really something special. I can only imagine how incredible she looked in her younger years. Anyways she's quite successful and very attractive but I decided what the hell. So we are walking towards each other and as we cross paths I say something like "Hi, how's it going." She completely ignores me and walks past me. Dagger through the heart. R.I.P. No regrets though.
/r/seduction22/12/21 05:59 PM
1

It could be past experiences make you feel like it's a waste of time or money.
/r/seduction22/12/21 05:55 PM
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