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[–]Zebrahead033 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
One thing that worked for me is stop being so picky. I would date women that I really wasn't interested in. I rationalized this by thinking of what I had to gain.
I could be surprised and actually end up really liking this person. Even if it's only as friends.
It was practice for future dates socially and sexually.
Sex. I could have a one night stand or FWB.
It gets rid of any neediness or desperation. You've satisfied the urge. You scratched the itch.
[–]SIV221 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Honestly, I am picky, but in the sense I look for those who’s receptive and wanting something with quality. However, you are right in the sense that not everyone people had sex or dated ends up as a soulmate.Guys and girls would be guilty of this
I just don’t know how to bring out my sexual self and show I’m interested in anyone. I never learned how to do that or having it there for others to pick up and work with it. My sex drive is also like a switch, I can turn it on or off at will
[–]Zebrahead033 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Once you find someone that you are interested you can flirt more. Just be more playful with them. You don't need to rush into sex but rather practice slowly raising the sexual tension between you two.
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