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I hopped onto this account just to give perspective. Lots of people would suggest therapy. I suggest Journaling. When I journaled, I started to vent and allowed a release of pent up emotions. No one else is going to see what you write so don't hold back and be completely honest with yourself through the good and bad. In 30 minutes, I wrote 6 pages with my thumbs on a phone. I couldn't stop. After you vent, look at what you wrote and see what emotions were there. You separated it from you and now…
/r/seduction22/05/24 03:09 PM
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True. Strangely enough, they don't check me out at all. But when I talk to them or even having a casual chat, they become very intrigued. I just want to make it easier for myself to approach
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:17 AM
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Not op, but never had girls check me out in public. Is there anything I am doing wrong or energy I am putting out?
/r/seduction23/04/22 02:48 AM
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Meditation and the book power of now helped me. I am not saying this is an answer to cop out but will help keep you present and not stuck with anxiety about the past or future. I recently focused on staying present while having tremendous anxiety and now my facial expression loosened up, my voice is a lower register, I am not afraid to hold eye contact and my body feels far looser and at ease. I'm undoing bodily responses to anxiety and reactions while also changing my mind in response to things…
/r/seduction22/04/22 07:34 PM
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First things first, lose the self depreciating and self hate talk. It's okay to be upset with yourself, but you have to choices, wallow in sadness or use the emotion to fuel you better. Go to the gym, not for women but to build a routine meant to improve your health. Also, keep pushing, build a rep and test yourself until you car not. This helps make you have goals bur go further. Can't do gym? Calisthenics until you improve, park have them for free .. Find a job. Learn to lice for yourself and …
/r/seduction22/04/22 07:28 PM
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What you are struggling from, is lack of confidence and believing what your mind tells you. The first thing you think of, is why are they attracted to me? I’m not good enough. What you should be thinking, is how nice that they are into you and not try to win their attention or approval. This doesn’t mean to not care, this means that you understand what’s going on, but will continue to do what you must to live your life. Think about why guys say all you need is confidence, or why girls may like a…
/r/seduction07/04/22 08:49 PM
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Better question, why not go and find someone who’s willing to text you and be eager to have a chat or see you in person? We can try and figure out the why, but the action isn’t going to change and it shows either she is often not on her phone, which is hard to believe for either gender to say unless on work or school, which even then allows a period of texting back and forth. Or, she’s not into you like you think and is playing games. Honestly, don’t text back and find an actual excuse, like wor…
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:34 PM
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Instead of making assumptions, what are the things you say? What are the topics talked about? Tell us what you have been saying on these dates and we can go from there
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:35 PM
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I made a post, but it’s like fake pseudo stuff but the body really catches up on it. I was libidoless and had no interest in sex. Now, I realized I shut my sexuality off because I cared about not offending or letting others know I wanted sex. You can imagine that sex is safe and should have an outlet so my pornography use was off the charts. I started accepting it, letting myself admire a woman’s body for a few seconds, not several, just a few and smile, like, wow, you look great and attractive.…
/r/seduction24/03/22 10:53 PM
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My biggest issue for me is wanting sex. That I was afraid someone can reject me and that I was ugly. I got problems and again, had some bad history with the women role models in my life. This made me become asexual and hide my libido so I don’t get rejected. My brain really did a number on me to make me miss out on opportunities and the self esteem is affected by it. Instead of running or hiding, I simply accented I wanted sex. I was afraid to show intent and instead allowed me to smile and say,…
/r/seduction24/03/22 06:02 AM
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Chicken before the egg. I’m not saying I have it all figured out, but this is the stepping stone to creating a lifestyle and world where it inevitably gets earned through trial and error.
/r/seduction24/03/22 04:47 AM
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If that’s what you got out of it, I don’t know what to tell you boss. I never gotten attention from women before, and in fact, felt like I had a huge aura of neediness and insecurity underneath my attempts to be confident that was sensed unconsciously. Now I am no longer pretending, and am not alone anymore and opening my social circle.
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:48 AM
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This, but in a more subtle way. Instead of thinking about others and trying to appease them, I look inward, at what I had like or wanted to do, and tried to align with my own expectations. Strangely enough, my abysmal, non-existent sex drive started roaring back and my mind started racing. Not to say I acted on them but it surprised me how I started thinking about sex a lot more. When I stopped fretting about what others might say or think and realize what matters is what I think, everything fad…
/r/seduction18/03/22 05:28 AM
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I’ve seen guys with messed up teeth and people shorter me still pull and talk to women. If you believe you are not enough, then don’t be surprised if others treat you like this. Only recently where I feel less angry, annoyed and more forgiving and care free, and in the moment, did womens tart talking to me or seemed open to holding a conversation. I’m not saying I figured it out and still am a virgin, but I’m using this time to get my money right, my looks right, my clothes right and do whatever…
/r/seduction13/03/22 02:09 AM
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Don't be so hard onnyourself, love yourself and smile that you can make mistakes. Your goal is to be happy, confident within yourself and feel complete. I caught a woman who looked at me, I looked back and she rolled her eyes, which might hurt other people. But in my eyes, I chuckled and kept moving, because she doesn't know what she's missing out on and that's her fault This sounds a little twisted, but as men, we have to be selfish for our desires and not afraid to do what we feel deep inside …
/r/seduction11/03/22 07:27 PM
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As a guy who’s in a similar boat, minus the IOI’s, I will say you want to focus on yourself and what you are looking for. If you feel it inside to talk to them about anything that comes to mind, just do it. You lack confidence, but confidence is a flimsy state of mind. Believe anything that makes you happy or gives you confidence. The mind is at our mercy with our thoughts and can believe them if we do this long enough. I had low confidence and a bad opinion of myself. What caused me to change i…
/r/seduction11/03/22 12:14 AM
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Your goal isn’t to wait for women to approach but rather do things you want to do and see if they are down. Ever been horny at one point and you did things for yourself instead of anticipating a reaction? There’s a fine line between doing what you want and being selfish. By being selfish and doing what you want to a certain point allows rejection in your life, but also new opportunities because you make it known and allow the women to decide if they are interested or not. Don’t try to impress he…
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:12 PM
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I meant to respond but forgot to say anything. I didn’t catch the sarcasm and wasn’t trying to come off hurt. I have all these things of what I should do or believe I must do and it’s truly harming me. I judge a woman by her body type or ideal beauty, but when I looked at her, and her body and what could have been if she was into me, I was more interested in getting to know her and her body as a result. Not to the point I will forgo all morals and standards of personalities and emotional connect…
/r/seduction06/03/22 10:21 PM
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I need something more. I don't operate only on physical needs.
/r/seduction05/03/22 06:43 PM
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But you can see how stupid my logic is. I think my mind is rationalizing why I shouldn’t talk to girls because I don’t feel safe around them, enough to simply be me. I have a post in my history that goes into the trauma of it to help justify why I am acting this way if interested. I think my mind is scarred, so it goes, oh, she’s not ugly, what would people think? Wow, look at how much makeup she has on to look good, or this, or that, or some other observation of her appearance and making gigant…
/r/seduction05/03/22 02:03 PM
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It’s like a double edge sword. Sure, I can do it, but also don’t want to use them for therapy. I don’t want to fuck simply to fuck, I rather enjoy and get to know them too. My sex drive has been dormant and left me with post-nut clairty 24/7. Sure, I bet some women out there that aren’t on my radar would love to have me in bed, but that takes me getting comfortable simply looking at a woman’s body or gaze a while longer by being okay with it and risking rejection/or a bad look. There’s a lot und…
/r/seduction05/03/22 07:51 AM
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Mentally I know this, but it’s also why I am still single. It’s like my brain wants only perfection, and because I can’t accept nothing else, it ignores all the right people with problems and issues of their own. This is less of trying to seduce, and more attempting to be in a better headspace
/r/seduction04/03/22 11:40 PM
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It's what I'm currently doing, but not just feeling it, but putting it into words. I know this isn't seduction, but a guy who can express and be himself with or without women is going to be the one women want the most. And this is to help stop the black pill going on by making guys examine their stories and lies they believe. Going to get worst before it gets better, but I am not going to stop until I am simply me and unafraid to be me in the presence of others.
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:01 PM
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Considering Mark Manson has a post about being bold, maybe it’s time to show some interest and not be afraid to move things further? You managed to get the kiss, but did you put your arm around her? Flirt more with her? Able to openly express what’s inside and what you’re looking to do and simply do it? Think about the guys who may be having sex around you, who are more douche bags, or assholes. I’m not saying they are the perfect model, but it’s because they are not afraid to show they like a w…
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:06 PM
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Honestly, I am picky, but in the sense I look for those who’s receptive and wanting something with quality. However, you are right in the sense that not everyone people had sex or dated ends up as a soulmate.Guys and girls would be guilty of this I just don’t know how to bring out my sexual self and show I’m interested in anyone. I never learned how to do that or having it there for others to pick up and work with it. My sex drive is also like a switch, I can turn it on or off at will
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:06 PM
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I know you and him wanted things casual, but to open up to you like that even if he doesn’t like you, is not healthy. Again, it’s rather concerning and while I am one to have guys express emotions and processing said emotions, this is something else entirely and not healthy. You don’t have to see him again, in fact, you shouldn’t. Find someone else who at least likes you the way you like them. I promise you won’t need this subreddit or any other techniques when around that special person
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:14 PM
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He needs to do some learning and healing and you don’t have to be there for it. It might sting him, might piss him off, say unbelievable things, but no one should ever be crying, let alone opening up so soon since you weren’t given the right and necessary time to see these emotions from a man. Would you tell a man you just hooked up about how a parental figure abused you because you felt vulnerable the first time in your life? No, but it might take time and learning and processing to make sure i…
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:25 PM
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Probably reached the same point Pook felt where sex and dating is just something on the side, a little spice to a life you are working with. I can’t really give advice, not because my lack of dating or sexual experience, but there’s clearly a pursuit or enjoyment to meeting women and wanting to have sex with them. I don’t really have this innate desire to see women naked, or men for that matter, so there’s no magnetic pull to make me want to talk to them, flirt or have good feelings with them. I…
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:11 AM
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Going to repeat a comment I said earlier. Women hate, hate, hate rejection. They can’t take it well at all. Instead of asking someone and receiving that rejection and feeling hurt, they let themselves just friendzone the guy to no longer get themselves in a position to be hurt. They may make IOI, or do things to catch your attention, but they are not the ones who decide how the relationship go, the man ultimately will have an influence to making things sexual, or keeping it platonic for their ac…
/r/seduction07/01/22 10:03 PM
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That’s the thing, I don’t really crave, or have a need for sex, so that likely influenced my direction. I’ll look at a woman, flirt, tease the hell out of her, but I don’t have a true desire when I go out there to see women naked. I’ll get my Testosterone levels checked out, maybe that will change me, but have to live an attractive life for women to stick around and not use me solely because they needed a dick for the night.
/r/seduction07/01/22 04:02 AM
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Women hate, hate, hate rejection. They can’t take it well at all. Instead of asking someone and receiving that rejection and feeling hurt, they let themselves just friendzone them to save their ego. Similar to what a guy does for not asking a girl he’s clearly interested in. Act like a friend, be treated a friend
/r/seduction07/01/22 03:53 AM
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Don’t have success with women in the past, still don’t, but instead of running away and living in my own sheltered life, I wanted to at the very least enjoy my life and have fun. Losing weight, going to gym, exploring restaurants that are new or esteemed, playing sports, trying to learn DJing and investing my time in finding new artists and understanding why it’s good, reading books etc and spending time on my mind for meditation and thinking behavior. This lets me focus on my own happiness, goa…
/r/seduction07/01/22 03:51 AM
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Make it clear you don’t want anything serious or keeping it casual. This is code for, I’m here for sex/friends with benefits and likely not thinking about anything long term. This helps ensure the women you date and meet, are in on it and assume position if willing. If not, they remove themselves and save you the headache. Or, you can simply meet her on the date, forget about what you and her are, and let things flow normally. Usually two months in, or after several dates and hopefully several i…
/r/seduction07/01/22 03:00 AM
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That’s why I placed the caveat that a man does not want to be friends with women if they have actual attraction because it will end badly, and should have someone they are meeting with often to make sure time isn’t invested highly.
/r/seduction06/01/22 02:46 PM
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How do I get out the friend zone? https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/002/137/251/5ae.jpg Well said. If she didn’t run for the hills after knowing your sexual interest in her but wants your attention, it’s wraps. Can only be friends with women if there’s no sexual attraction at all between you and them. And often, if asking about the friend zone, you clearly do not want to be there in the first place.
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:17 AM
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I thought I was depressed, but realized I didn’t, just had low self-esteem and constantly second guessing myself. Granted, if there’s something wrong chemically in the brain, that’s different and need to be checked with your doctor. Let me tell you this though Articles from Mark Manson, meditation, Eckhart Tolle and mindfulness helps. Only because, we try to make sense of what we feel. Do you think someone who’s confident and get women think he can’t get women? Or a writer who wrote several book…
/r/seduction06/01/22 12:06 AM
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I think it’s a great read regardless of your viewpoint. But now let me ask you. Why are you cynical and jaded? What is the cause for it? Don’t say life, as there’s always a reason
/r/seduction05/01/22 11:42 PM
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Models doesn’t rely on gimmicks. What it relies on, is creating a fulfilling, healthy lifestyle to build your self-esteem and confidence from, that will then bleed into your dating life because not only do you enjoy your life, you can invite others to partake in it. This isn’t him choosing a life for you to take on to be attractive but make you learn what you love to do and build around it. It also causes the man to learn when he stops thinking if I do X, I’ll get Y in return and strip this cove…
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:06 PM
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Still a classic book. https://markmanson.net/most-important-skill-in-life The above sums up NMMNG in one article, but with the book, it allows someone to see example and relate to them. I am sure humans, not just women, but humans would be very glad to be offered something when there’s no sense of a contract or pressure to comply to something hidden or manipulative. But guys always want a trick, or technique, because they still want to operate under, if I can be one hundred percent certain, I ca…
/r/seduction01/01/22 06:51 PM
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My intention is looking for a FWB situation. But, it’s muddled, with the acknowledgement I don’t find attraction to women. Maybe women sense I want to bang them, but without that lustful emotion hidden underneath. Time to change and go for finding someone I can have fun and interact with that matches my standards and not try to jump the gun.
/r/seduction30/12/21 11:19 PM
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Oh, I did, but I guess I thought there was more to it than that or some ways to lead it up. Probably with experience, one just feels what’s right and go from there.
/r/seduction21/12/21 06:55 PM
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Question as in going back to your place? Or am I missing something?
/r/seduction21/12/21 06:46 PM
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Expand on number 3, or what you did to make sure you strike when the iron is hot to escalate.
/r/seduction21/12/21 06:05 PM
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Honestly, it’s a double edge sword. It drives me to be a better person, to b healthy, to make myself better verse and attractive, but also cursed that I don’t find them attractive. It feels like.a huge circus act. That was before realizing I was just protecting my extremely fragile ego and didn’t really want sex because it would mean allowing myself to be vuilnerable. Now I’m trying to live my life, be at fully peace with myself and if I like a how a girl looks and she acts a healthy manner, I w…
/r/seduction20/12/21 12:21 AM
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That is true. Falling in love tends to make everyone get hooked and forget the reason why they fell in love in the first place, usually just long enough after a kid or two is born. So it’s important to not want to fuse and be everywhere together. It will only cause heartbreak and headaches. When establishing healthy boundaries, and not compromising on taking time alone to do other things, like hobbies, games, or hanging out with friends, that were being done before she was there, she’ll feel les…
/r/seduction15/12/21 02:11 AM
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I’m going to work to get in better health, save some money and learn what I want in life. I feel good now, but can always be better. And it’s good that you don’t allow her to create a cycle that she wants that simply makes her feel good when it doesn’t make her become better in the long run. It hurts because you let them in, but even so, do what’s right and best because if not, it’s going to change you and effect you for the worse and you won’t even realize how this happened. I understand what h…
/r/seduction14/12/21 09:35 PM
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The drive can be a negative because it forces me to think about other things in life. At the same time, I have a decent career that can get better and improve my health and well being and I should focus on that more than what potentially people can be when they get involved in my life.
/r/seduction14/12/21 09:14 PM
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I used to be overweight, went down to 160, but had no muscles to speak of, and got measured at 320 ng/dl at the age of 22, doctor wouldn’t prescribe me anything. I exercise now and weigh roughly 260, not with muscle, mostly fast but have gained some strength in the gym. Currently in a cut to get back down to 200, but will try to see if this helps my testosterone improve. If somehow TRT gets me into acting like a man who has a need for contact with the other sex, then I’m going to be in trouble.
/r/seduction14/12/21 08:58 PM
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Sounds like a C—T There are some truths, but for someone to go to great lengths who willw ash everything away about your looks or personality or hieght simply because you rich is a C—T in every shape of the word. Feel free to let this fuel you to prove them wrong or right.
/r/seduction14/12/21 08:53 PM
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See, I can understand why she felt like this, and might feel that she loves you but unless she solved all these issues, no need to handle all this baggage. Good on you for not taking it anymore and doing better. I don’t smoke, drink, or even mess around with weed at all. Straight edge and very much solo and focused on my own. I have a sports group with some acquaintances and having my life under control. But that doesn’t mean it can’t be improved or have things that are flaws or issues not impro…
/r/seduction14/12/21 08:46 PM
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What was the medical problem? Low T? Some imbalance? Would like to see what’s going on and if I have it.
/r/seduction14/12/21 08:38 PM
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I honestly had low T before hitting the gym, and gained some muscles in the process. Going to get tested and see if TRT or some form of therapy will improve my life and desire, because maybe I’m one cycle plan away from living a different life.
/r/seduction14/12/21 07:09 PM
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You are not wrong, because this happened with my parents and also my sibling who had horrible relationships. I’m severely aware of the surroundings and the environment that caused this so I know why and how it all happened. And still, it just seemed so trivial, all because of emotions ruling over logic or unable to communicate so effectively. It seems sos imple but everyone around me and from others I’ve met, jsut seem almost insane that they don’t know this. I probably have some defense mechani…
/r/seduction14/12/21 07:08 PM
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That’s true. But if there’s no desire to know them, especially off the streets or wherever I go, it seems defeatist doesn’t it? Now this is a self-fulfilling prophecy of not meeting people or meeting potential partners if I close everyone off. I’m aware of this. The people who are close to me though or I see often, I do make an effort to know them, see what they are about and how their life is, and remember things that others would have forgotten. Always seem to make a strong impression. But to …
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:18 PM
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Don’t get me wrong, I don’t know them. I don’t know how they act, or what they will do. Both men and women have the potential to be horrible but also possible to be a saint. For me, it comes down to my intention. Why am I interacting with them? What’s my goal? What do I get out of this? My thinking is geared towards intentions and so I keep to myself and just hang out with my friends and my coworkers who are in my circle and that’s it. I don’t expect anything and if they enjoy my company, cool. …
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:08 PM
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So when I say sea of bullshit, I mean the women I meet who have nothing to provide outside of their appearances because that doesn’t tell me their character. I’ve seen horrible eprsonalites in both men and women and I’m not afraid to call out either because the gender doesn’t matter. Physically attractive women are invisible to me. And since I lack the drive of sex, I don’t have a reason to find out their character with a chance of sex on the table. There appears to be women who seem to like me …
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:54 PM
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That is true. I’m in a similar boat but the problem is, I didn’t date women or had sex with women, so by that token, it’s like waving the white flag and saying I’m unattractive. It makes sense to come out of dating with the feeling of waiting for someone who’s worthy. To not have that experience is almost defeating, even though the reasoning is exactly the same. I am still fine with my life however and doing my interest, goals and activities so it’s not a woe is me. Once men taken ownership of t…
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:35 PM
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I wish I had excuses for not getting women. Truth be told for my case, I have little to no drive to chase or need a woman’s touch or care in my life. This sounds foolish since I never did experience this, but I have extremely low tolerance for shitty behaviour and not wanting something short term so I don’t want to sift through the sea of bullshit to find a gem right now when there’s not a hint of hunger. The few women I chatted with in person always seemed happy to chat with me, want my attenti…
/r/seduction14/12/21 04:21 PM
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Unless I have the Mandela effect, swore I read this somewhere. And the post is very confusing when in another post you say you are female?
/r/seduction01/12/21 02:59 AM
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There’s a lot that’s missing here though. Like if someone said that with a smile, or a giggle, then it’s clear someone thinks of the guy in a playful manner. Some might say it was a disinterested expression or what guys around here say , “Bitchy” attitude. I read the room, expression given, and answer honestly and try to have fun. I think guys become so obsessed trying their hardest to outgame or conquer shit tests, tha tthey turn off people who are genuinely interested and having fun. Imagine y…
/r/seduction01/12/21 01:17 AM
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Example You approach a woman and say an opener. Her: Do you say that to all the girls? There’s three ways to interpret this. Insecure: She doesn’t trust you and think you’re trying to play her out for her body, thus unsure to keep the conversation. Manipulative: Says it in a flirty way to see if you’ll play along, or try to explain and say you’re not like that, thus failing her preferred method of flirting. And sometimes just an honest concern. I don’t believe in shit tests and prefer keeping th…
/r/seduction01/12/21 01:06 AM
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Shit Test can either be from manipulation or rooted in insecurity and wanting comfort. Almost like two halves of the same coin. Thus, if you answer who you truly are and your thoughts, women will know where you stand and take out the guess work and need to manipulate or feel insecure around you. Those who keep throwing it these shit tests back at you after the first response, just don’t engage, might be a headache case incoming
/r/seduction30/11/21 11:23 PM
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I believe the term, trust your gut applies here, and something a lot of guys don’t do because they over think. I personally don’t believe in shit tests, and if someone says something, just take it at face value and keep moving forward. It’s also likely rooted in insecurity and best to make sure they are comfortable. I won’t say things just so the women can be happy if say we differ on an opinion, cause that’s me no matter what and I shouldn’t compromise. I tried to get other parts of my life in …
/r/seduction30/11/21 02:13 PM
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You are right that seduction at its core is how one conducts themselves socially. From how one might handle little tests from women not because they like to deceive you, but as a manner to check if there’s anything they may get away with or see if a man will do as she says or does he has a backbone? As for social skills, it’s the one thing I’ve neglected, because I chose to keep to myself. The few times I’ve been introduced to my coworkers or people from other departments, they vibe with me, are…
/r/seduction30/11/21 06:52 AM
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Ironically, I did that once and that’s when I lost interest in sex and masturbating. I’ll do that, and see how I feel, hopefully I’m not slaying every single thing in my path.
/r/seduction29/11/21 02:53 AM
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I fap like once a week, sometimes 10 days or so. There are times it’s less and then more, but always focused on what I’m doing
/r/seduction29/11/21 01:57 AM
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See, I think I am asexual, but it’s likely from not knowing how to be sexual, and even when by myself, it’s more mechanical and routine. I have been forcing myself to be more social and really think women in a sexual manner, not by staring like a creep, but appreciate the beauty that passes me on a daily basis. I am more in the emotional camp and like spending time with people who are similar to me, but again, find it hard to seduce someone who doesn’t feel like they’re being desired or sought a…
/r/seduction28/11/21 10:39 PM
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There was a section in Models where a woman wrote what she wanted out of men during sex, and it included being vocal. Sometimes you don’t have to say words but just letting out what you’re feeling or what causes you to grunt is enough. Now, just start small, say how good it feels, or how hot she looks in a certain way. Women love being desired, and having their bodies have an effect where you lose control of thinking, is going to make them go crazy too.
/r/seduction28/11/21 05:26 PM
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So, I want to ask for your thoughts on this. I don’t chase women, because I don’t find a single woman through body or facial appearance that makes me want to spit game. I don’t have that natural attraction to them, so I never approach. I just act accordingly. Women love to be desired by someone, so me not doing that makes seduction and sex impossible unless they’re throwing themselves at me. I’m fine without women and minding my own business. The only time I want them is when I feel I’m missing …
/r/seduction28/11/21 01:10 PM
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Don’t know her work schedule, I just went to see if I could run into her, but ended up doing something at the job itself and had fun, so it was a win win.
/r/seduction27/11/21 03:05 PM
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From the person working. There were instances where they gave off vibes of liking the chat or conversation and wanting more,. Like this one girl where we had this awkward silence for ten seconds but she didn’t move and was almost waiting for something from me after having.a deep conversation
/r/seduction27/11/21 05:40 AM
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It allows me to vibe and just keep the need to interacting with people going. Then, if there’s interest or a feeling they want to see me more, then I shoot my shot. I think there were 2 instances where I may have had a chance to ask for a number and see what happens, but I didn’t.
/r/seduction27/11/21 05:26 AM
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I realized this last weekend simply by going out of my way to talk and meet people when I went to the mall for waitresses, or cashier workers. I wasn’t trying to hit on them but be social. It really is that simple and not hard to see signs that show attraction
/r/seduction26/11/21 03:50 PM
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But notice how in that article I posted, the woman in question suggested that people's life could change with a simple mentality shift. Be outgoing, friendly and say hi and you get to craft friendship or romance by showing who you are and being honest/genuine with your intentions. I don't like getting technical such as frames and congruence but essentially, this is what stands out and ensure you get results.
/r/seduction31/10/15 02:48 PM
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What the others have said. It's nice to flirt and now you're still wanted and you still got it but remember you can still flirt and bring back the flame and fire you found with your girlfriend for four years. She'll be vivid and love the renewed attention. Give her attention like never before and she might just jump your bones when you're not careful. Though, it is honorable to be a wingman and help others. That's noble.
/r/seduction23/10/15 10:21 PM
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Also, everyone seems to be trying to lower these guys spirit or say OH, they were good looking to begin with, or had abs, or oh, they don't show that they struck out and using a bias. They did show their failures, and they weren't phased by it. I loved that. It shows they're mature to show failure and have humility. I'm still far from approaching but it's healthy to see what to do when someone says no. To try, banter, be playful and have no hard feelings. The more you start to internalize this, …
/r/seduction20/10/15 08:22 PM
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I personally love the video but I think their video on handling rejection is stronger and more effective. We are suppose to strike out and fail. You are meant to learn, not be bitter. Once you are fine and accepting of this, you can go freely and not worry if you fail. I'll echo the last thing they said in the video. You only fail if you never try.
/r/seduction20/10/15 08:18 PM
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I've read it and understand my issues before. I don't see it anymore. I've changed and learn to relish in it but the shameful nature of sex still clings onto my mind. I'm working to fix it at the moment and a reread wouldn't hurt.
/r/seduction29/08/15 02:33 AM
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Ah, it's a simple body trying to protect the user and avoid unsafe measures. I understand. Thank you for your words, I'll try to lighten up and make things fun for me and whoever I'm chatting. It's not bad either, great to make social skills.
/r/seduction28/08/15 04:53 PM
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I really was going to say there is the Models' book that does a phenomenal job of what you're looking for. Seduction works but I feel I'd rather seduce someone I want and not just to improve my ego. I do feel good knowing you see there's a distinct variable from manipulation and being honest with what you want and screening bitches and woman who are also interested.
/r/seduction28/08/15 02:46 AM
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Okay, I'll try to give you some tips. If she invited you for pizza and study sesh, think of it as this. If she doesn't really mean studying, it's a reason to have you alone in her room, this is what this means. She gives herself ability to deny she asked for sex. She can easily say we ate pizza, and one thing led to another and it just happened and takes no responsibility. You like this girl right? Then that should be enough. Try to study but be aloof. Be friendly and coy. If she asks you about …
/r/seduction28/08/15 02:42 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3f2ala/all_you_kids_out_there_under_18_stop_reading_this/
/r/seduction28/08/15 12:53 AM
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Emxif is correct. Build a social circle, find some friends who'll invite you to their friends and moreso and whatnot. Doing it like this, you get to be seen as a friendly guy, who's in the circle and exposed to women. And if you're really good, you keep shit a secret. NEVER tell anybody who you hooked up with or a girl because that spreads rumors and destroy shit from the inside out. You can describe the act but never say by name Now if women find out from the girl you trying to close and only h…
/r/seduction23/08/15 08:47 AM
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The opener's just that, an opener. It puts you foot in the door. Do you see an attractive gender or a human? Just chat with her, ask what she's doing and the conversation will naturally flow. You don't have to say the perfect things. The best moments is when you're free of the moment, knowing you can make a mistake and acknowledge it.
/r/seduction22/06/15 02:17 PM
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As a twenty year old men looking for women, what's a good place to find some women outside of the club thanks to my age and still keep things light? Go to college but on summer break. Would Tinder work?
/r/seduction05/06/15 01:55 AM
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Throwaway's right. Female has some of the most dirtiest and most sexual fantasies you can ever think of or unheard of. They're sexual, twice as much as men. Thanks to society, it's hard for them to open up. Guess it's our job to liberate them.
/r/seduction05/06/15 01:09 AM
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I say it's rare cause no one mans up. Had a friend who I was talking to, a cute girl walked by, Dude pulled an immediate 180 in mid conversation and talked to her. I'm pretty sure he got the number. He was smooth as fuck. I also think he learned from this reddit in its prehistoric age or early in 2012.
/r/seduction05/06/15 12:32 AM
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Number one rule in life. Everything in Moderation. If all we did was have sex, we'd have no ambition or a reason to go outside. Don't worry about Tinder, focus on your life. It's fine to get laid here and there but focus on your goal and ambition, snag a woman who you want to be with for life and have her handle all your needs. Though, good shit with the Tinder hack. You made it where most struggle to get.
/r/seduction04/06/15 01:52 AM
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Sir, this is the kind of comments I've been looking for and really show everything is in my head, there's nothing else to it. I recall when I was in class, I was so confident, legs kicked up on the desk, hands behind my head and gave this aura I dominated the entire classroom and everyone in it. I'm very receptive and aware to how everyone react to body language and connection, do my best to feel one hundred percent in the zone and not caring what others have to say. I've seen others who could b…
/r/seduction02/06/15 02:39 AM
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I know the kino ladder start with hands, then shoulders body and finally the neck and hair. I'm not saying I'm trying to steer the conversation into sex but if it pops up, I don't want to feel ashamed for having it come up you know? It'd be a giant alarm that I'm a man who can't be up front with what I want. Know what I mean? Though, the sidebar should be used as a reference and quite certain it has the best information for advanced seddit users and newbs.
/r/seduction01/06/15 04:55 PM
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Thank you, this is exactly what I needed. Before I thought I wasn't good enough or feel inferior but I'm realizing this isn't the right way to go about things and it is actually is a horrible way in attracting females or high value males. I'm very neurotic but I'm trying to stop this mindset and be in my own zone, not caring what might come out or how inappropriate it is. However, I'll be careful what exactly leaves my lips so it doesn't go overboard. Some of the things you've said were legitima…
/r/seduction01/06/15 04:51 PM
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It's when the topic comes up, I get silent like a virgin, trying to reverse such a thing or be receptive if the topic comes up. If I'm silent, it doesn't add anything positive to how I'm perceived. I can speak casually and be open but it's significantly harder to commit to escalating physically. I don't know why I can't but I'm trying to change it and show I'm not afraid to be physical. It's the one thing I'm definitely going to need help with. If I can do that, I think I can really start to gam…
/r/seduction01/06/15 04:11 PM
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I've actually been avoiding porn and Masturbation for about twenty days, I do Nofap but not obsessed with it. I just make it where I am not crazy about getting a release or using my hands, I prefer getting something more healthy like a woman. However, I don't get crazy aroused by a woman or lose myself in the moment. Once again, bringing back to thinking I'm not good enough. However, I'm going to perish the thought and be a man.
/r/seduction01/06/15 03:32 PM
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No, I never did. I love Seddit for giving me a chance to improve my body and confidence but I'm also looking to be a ladies man, not a beta male who gets gold diggers and too much of a wimp to fight back.
/r/seduction01/06/15 03:06 PM
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That's what I'm thinking. It's possible, did it a lot and every girl I've done it really responded well. Then again, they knew me because we were in class. Never cold approached ever.
/r/seduction28/05/15 10:29 PM
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Dude, I was overweight, a lot, still am but it's mostly now my gut, everything else is shaping up. If you change your diet and eating habits, you can shed the pounds. However, your mentality is what's key, if you don't have a good mentality, then how can you go out and be a confident male everyone wants? I've seen a guy who was overweight pulling in females like it's nothing and was a genius in social interactions. The ladies like him and his humor. And that's why these unattractive business men…
/r/seduction28/05/15 03:22 AM
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I like finding the theory as to why. I'll try this to women i end up chatting and see how they feel at this act. Got to make my first cold approach.
/r/seduction27/05/15 02:51 PM
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The way you made this sounds like a wife, but she was just some girl. All you need to do is be confident and know you won't give them more than five dollars no matter how rich. You're here to have a good time, drink some frappuccino or such. That's the key part. Never pay for their meals. 190's absurd but good to see it wouldn't affect you. All in all, bad date and wouldn't even drive this woman home. If a woman suggests lunch or dinner, I say no. What's the problem of going to a park or just ch…
/r/seduction27/05/15 12:49 PM
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I love this website, it feels natural like Models. Others have their own methods but this feels genuine like there's no pickup, just being yourself.
/r/seduction26/05/15 07:59 PM
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They sometimes hook around my pockets, very casual, talking I use my hands. I shrug with my hands. Pretty much, be animated in your motions.
/r/seduction26/05/15 12:55 PM
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I look deep and find what I'm looking for. While it can be very male dominated, old fashioned 50's lifestyle, I do think there's some truth to this. He's on point with his comments and playing a man that's hard to get and won't drool over appearance will get you bumped to a higher spot than everyone else.
/r/seduction26/05/15 07:11 AM
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? i'm not saying where you don't even seen them like a female, I mean where you can openly neg and talk smack, they're appearance don't faze you, you treat them like every other human being.
/r/seduction26/05/15 07:09 AM
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Top Seddit post incoming! Good work dude!
/r/seduction25/05/15 03:40 PM
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The only issue is isolating the crazy butch from reality.
/r/seduction23/05/15 06:55 PM
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True.
/r/seduction23/05/15 06:55 PM
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I'm not seeking an excuse to not game or what not. I find it strange from my perspective but I think I'm a good socialite. Everyone's hooked to what I have to say. If they're cold, I don't continue. The only game I need help in is with putting my balls on the line and lead things sexually, kino and kiss. I'm a virgin in becoming a man, fear rejection and show interest. Me hiding behind a safe persona does nothing but lower respect with women.
/r/seduction21/05/15 07:01 PM
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Jerk off comment noted. Been ten days, but I feel comfortable for some reason. Maybe I'm abnormal. Anyways, the approach anxiety is to be free and relaxed at all times. Thinking on how to initiate kino without it coming off strange or unwanted attention. I'll try thanks to the free time over the summer.
/r/seduction20/05/15 02:10 PM
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Hm, just chatting up a female, never take them seriously. Never orchestrate a date. Never try to craft something, only be a companion who are friends, not an emotional tampon. That's the toughest for me. I'm young and scared to death from rejection. Like leaping the grand canyon where you know it's possible but the way the chasm's glaring back at you, you get frightened. You know, approach anxiety. I can chat but that first step's the worst part. Another difficult issue. I can't use a car since …
/r/seduction20/05/15 04:47 AM
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So, you said all of this, where is the dominance you speak of or links to instruct us on following this?
/r/seduction15/05/15 07:09 PM
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Here's a trick. Go to the bathroom and stare yourself in the mirror. Try to keep eye contact but relax them. Smile a bit and make your gaze softer and softer. Your eyes naturally lowers, combine with a smile or a smirk gives this shit eating grin. http://media2.popsugar-assets.com/files/2014/07/17/780/n/1922398/8c54c15f8bc94627_164018660_10IHW6LX.xxxlarge_2x/i/Smooth-Smirk.jpg It should look close to this. It's calm, inviting and most of all, shows you're content in the moment.
/r/seduction11/05/15 10:41 PM
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Exactly. Some women are looking for men who aren't based on some profile but are men in real life. Internet only creates a masks and does nothing to show a true man. Action speaks louder than words.
/r/seduction05/05/15 08:51 PM
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That's what I'm trying to convey and found out. It's like a shortcut I found out and pretty much telling every guy in the area that I'm hot, available and waiting for you. I'm working on the latter by the way.
/r/seduction05/05/15 08:34 PM
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German girls are very formal. I have one in class but she said in her home country compared to America, we're like breaking rules. Everyone in German shake hands, and treats everyone with respect, no hugging or informal activities. There's a reason why she's doing this and it's not because they're ballbusting, it's the way they're raised.
/r/seduction04/05/15 02:04 PM
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I mean, it makes sense but I wasn't particularly ready to go on a date and was blindsided since I didn't know her like that.
/r/seduction04/05/15 02:02 PM
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It might sound like you are repressing something as if you don't want to show them sexual desire or you want to proceed while you are in fact a heterosexual. It runs deep so look inside and wonder why you don't feel competent or you're the man every female should be getting along with. It's surprising cause it happened to me.
/r/seduction04/05/15 02:22 AM
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To make an accurate description of eye contact for me, imagine you look in the mirror and you feel at ease and calm where it's soft, like you're looking but not scrutinizing. It's very calming. I stared, nothing else. If I had done anything else, it would be horrible. Or very offensive and intruding to their body. For your last one, do you mean as if you're shocked? Cause I get the impression of eye brows raising and lips squinting or forming a small circle in surprise. I don't know about apolog…
/r/seduction01/05/15 10:47 PM
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Okay, time to go hunting for pdf or else I'll be fucking up. I am not saying women HAVE to do such a thing. It's a more positive signal compared to anything else but hey, I'm not going to complain, gonna read some books.
/r/seduction01/05/15 02:08 AM
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Depends on location. Would you be trying to hook up at someone's job when they're working? Or be better set at a club when girls are looking to get hit on? Social settings make the difference.
/r/seduction01/05/15 02:02 AM
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It varies. I get in my head and don't maintain eye contact. When I do, most of them shoot right back down. Most. Very few hold it and some go sideways when I recall. Very few instances of holding eye contact and got a smile while staying on me.There was this one female who passed me and I knew she stared at me. When she came back down the corridor and I was walking, I stared back and she looked to the side, giving a flirty smile or grin as she went along her day.
/r/seduction01/05/15 01:57 AM
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So, minimalize women to such a length that they're not the goal but rather a side bonus like you said. I mean, I never approached and it'stough to get myself in the zone but hey, what can you do.
/r/seduction01/05/15 01:49 AM
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It varies. Depending if I know them, they'll stare right at me and keep it and I'd do the same. As for strangers, I give a look here and there but they don't stare often. Though, it might be different if I actively searched this time.
/r/seduction01/05/15 01:47 AM
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I think we're way pass the introduction. It's more of "Hey what's up?" And go from there.
/r/seduction30/04/15 09:48 PM
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Yeah, it's whatever. Still, it's one of those things where a female's facing you or doing deliberate actions that's strange. When I'm trying to get eye contact, it doesn't work or they don't even look at me. But when not trying, they look at me. Maybe I'm projecting my body differently to the world.
/r/seduction30/04/15 09:26 PM
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If I had a question mark, it might have been better. I could repost this but I'd get flagged or something. Maybe it's just me.
/r/seduction30/04/15 09:09 PM
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Well, I thought women can give their own view but seeing how most of this is unconscious, subconscious, it's hard to get a complete answer. I didn't even know you were a magnificent coach. I did find some some pdf's online and will take a look to see what I can obtain. Time to do some reading.
/r/seduction30/04/15 06:20 PM
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Have PDF files link in PM's? Would love to read them.
/r/seduction30/04/15 05:45 PM
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Well, she subtly was hitting on me so I know it's game on and wondering if the option's gone. Swallow my pride, watch a nike commercial and go up to her and just ask her out. Shit, sounds easy but tougher than it seems.
/r/seduction30/04/15 05:30 PM
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I was kind of hoping for more responses and some input from women and men but damn.
/r/seduction30/04/15 04:17 PM
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Exactly, if you focus on women, what are you doing with your life? We should give them an invitation to our lives. Even my mother said when a woman's in a relationship, they want to work for it, work to make a life and show how far you and her came. She's mystic but it strikes me that women don't want it all, they want to earn it. So, we can't give them everything we have, they have to earn us!
/r/seduction28/04/15 01:25 AM
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You too man, thank you.
/r/seduction28/04/15 01:24 AM
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Mark Manson's Models? Search it online, you'll find it.
/r/seduction27/04/15 11:55 AM
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Women shouldn't be the goal because wouldn't they be put on a pedestal? Just asking in curiosity.
/r/seduction27/04/15 11:55 AM
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Nah man, I live up near the top of the east coast. It's fun and trying to get a life.
/r/seduction27/04/15 11:54 AM
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I didn't think I could be like this, lost a lot of weight, get small hints at my College if my body language reading is correct. Never seek approval of females. Entertain them but make them work and chase you down. I doubted Seddit but this isn't the place to say, well, hey, it's bullshit, he got lucky. No, his mindset, attitude and personality can drive the interaction. Women are monsters in sensing people's insecurities and feelings. Next time you're bored, go make eye contact and imagine the …
/r/seduction27/04/15 03:44 AM
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Exactly this. Thanks for your input.
/r/seduction27/04/15 03:42 AM
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Advice is be yourself, but chip away the bad things like neediness. You should be the only person you're looking out for. If you like to play video games but isn't on a obsession level, do it. Have fun, explore and make yourself have a life worth talking about. Learn fashion, understand the female mind is driven by emotions and in the moment, never by rational thinking. Read Models and other pick up books to see which trait you fall into. They're not just for chicks. They're for people looking t…
/r/seduction27/04/15 03:42 AM
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How does one emit a sexual vibe? I'm trying to show interest without verbally saying it. I'm very friendly but wish to show intent in multiple ways. I think sexual eye contact might be doing more than enough to convey your intent though. I've read the bold but a little bit more wouldn't hurt.
/r/seduction25/04/15 02:16 PM
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I probably would have been annoyed inwardly but would have sought conversation with the other girls. I do think if she's giving you shit, you should find a way to to nuke her, call her out on it and show you're not a fucking doormat made to hear her talk down on you. You're a man, a leader and the one THEY'RE suppose to chase down! Not one to feel sensitive over a bitch acting rude and the one who's validating everyone. If you brushed it off, gave her shit and show you're not affected and trying…
/r/seduction25/04/15 01:47 PM
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This sounds like the beginning of a female's wet dream written in a text. In which case, you're tapping deep into something all women want. Excitement, escalation, treated more than a sexual object but knowing they desire sex and not be afraid of what you want. You were a man who led her, show her some fun, passed her shit tests and proceeded to make a second date spiraling from her. With that in mind, I don't see how you're not going to have a F-close the next date unless you or she fucks up. B…
/r/seduction24/04/15 07:14 PM
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DHV? The closest thing I did to DHV is explaining her work was wrong and ways to improve. I broke down multiple methods to this trick in class that anyone can understand that she could use and improve. I acted indifferent really. I chilled, made eye contact here and there the first time and did nothing stupid. I spoke clearly, I make myself known, I chat with everyone in the room, make a fun time for everyone. The only reason I asked this was I don't recall the last time I would head somewhere a…
/r/seduction24/04/15 12:45 PM
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Try and initiate a convo. I went to a bakery with sandwiches and the people there have great charisma, asks questions about what's going on and show they are people, not robots hating the job they're involved.
/r/seduction18/04/15 05:59 PM
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Hehe, you remind me of a friend. When a woman asks you for a date, you drop what you are doing and you take her! XD Fake it, fake it till you make it, envision like I'm the best guy anyone can have. Like the top post saying confidence isn't she'll like me, it's, I'll be fine if she likes me or not. I'll try the next time I'm out.
/r/seduction17/04/15 01:40 PM
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I never used acne products no matter how much my family tried to give it to me. I drank coffee but haven't gotten a drop since December. Dead skin cells and dirt/bacteria tackles the small holes inside your hair follicles that makes up the zits. It's best to try and limit your consumption and sometimes, you might just have bad acne. However, it clears up as you get older and the hormones relax.
/r/seduction17/04/15 01:50 AM
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It's part of my major and I'm in need of mastery. If it was some liberal art, general course, I'd say I'd be open but you know this shit I'm studying takes up my entire degree and if I fail or not have a satisfactory grade, I'm forced to repeat the class? Sorry, I would love to play hopscotch but not this time. Still, I'm going to remember that next time. I never said, well, doing this and that, my plans are tied. Much better than saying, I'm doing nothing or I'm free. Though, your responses are…
/r/seduction17/04/15 01:46 AM
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I know but I must state that I didn't say, oh nothing, why you ask like a dumb fool. I had plans tomorrow, Saturday and a studying session for Sunday so even if she did, what could I do? Cancel my plans just to chase something I might not get in the end? That'd be needy but I understand, next time that shit comes up, flip it.
/r/seduction17/04/15 01:30 AM
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Thank you for the wisdom, I'm slowly improving after every day and wish to keep it like this.
/r/seduction17/04/15 01:19 AM
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Comes down to stress and personal hygiene. Try a loofa, some exfoliation, etc, keeps me clean.
/r/seduction17/04/15 12:13 AM
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Have fun, that's the best part, strike up a conversation and go for it. I'll do my best.
/r/seduction16/04/15 11:53 PM
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You're right, time to man up, be honest, authentic but man up because if I'm timid to ask someone out, then I'll be timid through my whole life. Forgot who said it but this is the perfect quote. "A woman will forgive a man for being over-aggressive but never forgive one for being nervous or timid. " Time to stop acting like a boy.
/r/seduction16/04/15 11:50 PM
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I'm twenty as well, waters good, stress i not, some food just causes your body to react with acne like fast food and sweets. Mix and match, try a relaxing day once in a while.
/r/seduction16/04/15 11:47 PM
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I just think eye contact when with a woman or having a conversation goes to great, heavy lengths. It's magical even. I'm still the same person, just taking out bad traits and inputting good ones instead.
/r/seduction16/04/15 11:36 PM
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How old are you? I used to have acne but once I've grown older, I rarely ever get pimples on my face and occasionally on my legs but never any acne infestation plant. One zit or something, never bigger. During puberty, crazy but hormones are hormones. After settling down, you'll be nice , clean cut and smooth. Also, check other things like allergies, stress level, food intake, it affects your skin.
/r/seduction16/04/15 11:33 PM
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Naturally I thought it was a question so I answered it, Look, you took my words out of context but I understand what you mean, it's different from oh my god, a girl asked me what time it is. I understand that. This was far more blatant but in the situation, I thought it was casual comments and I'm a beginner but with those kinds of signs, it might as well been blinking red neon lights. I'm a fool, haha.
/r/seduction16/04/15 11:06 PM
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I just finished an article from Manson referring to school and saying failure's great. It hurts and stings but when you get used to failure, you learn to take every chance you get, no matter how small or slim and can take calculated risks. And this fits perfectly into your response. By asking any girl out you are interested in, you get as many chances but also a high chance of failure. The beauty of this is when you don't fear rejection, you get what you want and screen the most girls, including…
/r/seduction16/04/15 09:37 PM
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Not PERFECT, but the man you wish to be while honing your inner and outer game. I would personally say I'm above average , working on slimming down to raise my appearance and keeping myself healthy. True, I love to read, great at writing, generally intuitive and can crack jokes when needed. I do think if I spend another year or so going to work, fixing myself up and getting my shit together, I can be where I want to be, be a consistent visitor on here and making FR like no tomorrow.
/r/seduction16/04/15 08:06 PM
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It's tough because something down the line changed me to be timid. Before, I was bold and talked to any girl. So, it's about perceiving you are the perfect version or guy and soon enough, it'll become reality because the subconscious changes it. I'm trying and hopefully give a field report one day. Or some years down, I'm pretty young if compared to the seddit users here. :)
/r/seduction16/04/15 07:04 PM
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Always assume attraction? Such a difficult thing to do from a bottom level guy. If there were levels for seduction and max is 100, I'm at one, just starting from scratch. Working to change myself.
/r/seduction16/04/15 06:37 PM
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She wanted an answer, just sitting there doing nothing would be awkward I should say. However, I'm twenty, trying to upgrade and be better than I used to be. Trying to rewrite the conditioning of not staring and be polite. Still got plenty of years to learn and change habits.
/r/seduction16/04/15 06:23 PM
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I didn't expect the tension to be brought up honestly. Surprised too but it works, about to post again.
/r/seduction16/04/15 04:58 PM
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Thank you for this comment. I went to a lot of work, changed my eating habits, wardrobe choices, tried to be stylish, friendly, read Models by Mark Manson because I relate the most thanks to the honesty and be authentic. It's almost romantic but never bullshit like it's a Hollywood movie. I had a bad concept about Seddit but it's based from my past. Now, it's about knowing how women act and react to. I've met some women and shortly after speaking to them after one conversation, they seemed repel…
/r/seduction16/04/15 02:38 AM
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Bill Clinton's the master. I saw him go ahead and speak, wow, this man has it all, he is the person one would look for a role model. I do think I can do the same if I know the person at least once, and then boom, it's too easy. Thanks for your input, I'm a beginner and glad to see Seddit is accepting and inviting;
/r/seduction16/04/15 02:16 AM
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Yep, no material to read off, used my head nothing else and improvised so it feels authentic like this is fact and not, well, I just ripped everything from wikipedia. The only time I read off of something was when I was quoting something word by word. Other than that, it's back to eye contact and openly chatting to everyone. Everyone looked like they couldn't glance away, captivated except for a few who were on their phone in the back. It didn't matter to be honest.
/r/seduction15/04/15 09:41 PM
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Ah, I get it. Well, I like challenges and difficult tasks so I'm not going to back down. I like looking into the eyes because it becomes personal and fun. But when I isolate someone and chat them up, eye contact becomes godlike because I'm introverted and it's my ballgame.
/r/seduction15/04/15 09:38 PM
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As fun as that would be, I wasn't ready to head out and work for it. I'm busy to finish up my classes and she seems ready to go teach a class. Not definitely but the way she handled herself and her knowledge suggest she's not a fool or some girl you meet at a bar. Not one bit.
/r/seduction15/04/15 09:25 PM
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To infinity and beyond brother.
/r/seduction15/04/15 09:23 PM
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I did a presentation at my class. I spoke and while at first nervous from getting up, once I spoke, I shifted my eye contact from one side to the next. One side I spent ten seconds or so glancing through the individual's eyes, acknowledging their existence before going to the other side and repeating the process. With a loud, clear voice ad having a presence without reciting off a paper, this is all I got from those who listened to me babbled. "Best presentation of the class and we're not throug…
/r/seduction15/04/15 09:23 PM
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You know what this reminds me of, that block called a quote? You're not lyin'! There was this chick in one of my higher level courses that I never really paid attention to, until one day when she had to give a presentation. Each student was required to pick one of the scholarly articles and lead the class for the day and discuss the topic. I never realized she was that attractive until she tried to look nice for her presentation day. I started to study her so intensely and fantasizing about her …
/r/seduction15/04/15 09:18 PM
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The problems I had with eye contact stems from being afraid of how I'll be perceived. Am I intruding? Too needy? Offensive? Am I standing right? Now, I'm gonna try to make an affirmation or suggest why should I care? I'm never going to see them again. Once again, not trying to get hooks up but definitely gain confidence, self worth, live an alpha male lifestyle.
/r/seduction15/04/15 09:04 PM
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Ew, that's horrible. Really, I just look at my face in the mirror, give a smile without teeth, soften my eyes like I'm sleeping but with my eyes open, it relaxes the muscles and makes them ease into such a smug or a smirk like expression.
/r/seduction15/04/15 09:01 PM
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You make it sound so negative. She looked like she was asking a question and awaiting an answer, on top of the fact I was there to study, tried to do a little experiment. I should've kept it but in context, it would have been bad, focused on other things. You are right though, don't break away and even if I did, looked to the side.
/r/seduction15/04/15 04:45 PM
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I remember this! I loved it, great to reread and relevant right now.
/r/seduction15/04/15 04:29 PM
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Then I'm well on my way, I'm great at chatting and listening to information when I'm alone or with someone, really make them feel like I'm there in the present moment. However,in a large group, it's difficult.
/r/seduction15/04/15 04:28 PM
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I have my earbuds in when listening to music but I might switch up this habit.
/r/seduction15/04/15 04:23 PM
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I stopped with porn, Erotica on the other hand's tougher, haha. But yeah, I couldn't hold eye contact as a kid or in school and trying to break my barriers. Eye contact's natural when I'm alone with someone, it's a fun thing to do and this one girl I chatted with never looked away, we just stared back and forth into each other's eyes. But it didn't go past that. I do think if it was the first time we met and weren't in multiple classes, something might have happened. Maybe.
/r/seduction15/04/15 04:22 PM
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Americans can't hold eye contact for shit thanks to technology but man, when you do, it's like reactivating what men and women used to do centuries ago.
/r/seduction15/04/15 03:56 PM
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I thought we were meant to give eye contact? I mean, you could pretend you do and do so at the eyebrow, it does fit the same meaning. You mean if I get tensed too easily?
/r/seduction15/04/15 03:41 PM
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The video was cool, almost cute even from how it's portrayed. The guy at the end was the best.
/r/seduction15/04/15 03:40 PM
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I never truly paid much attention to women before but lately I realized I shouldn't be so damn restricted and now I see beauty every day I wake up and just going around. I'm comfortable enough to do direct eye contact to waiters, customers or the likes but strangers walking down the street? I'll keep my eyes on my goal. But damn, I have two issues with this. One, surprised you saw love at first sight and not trying to smash her. Two, how could a cashier with this beauty you speak of be working t…
/r/seduction15/04/15 03:39 PM
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I must state the fact I was at a tutoring center. My intention was not to go and get laid, or what not. It was to pass a very difficult class. I rather do the above when I'm free from the semester, have the summer to myself and live life. However, we just stared and my stare wasn't an empty, I'm just looking over your face. No, I stared at her pupil, had a smile on my face. If I can paint an accurate description, it was like an admiration of her beauty without the creepy/neediness coming through…
/r/seduction15/04/15 03:21 PM
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Go on dictionary.com or head over to a visual thesuaurus, look for words that mean the same but is fancier. I can say I have an idea for this novel. But reword it to I've constructed the blueprint for my novel. The first sentence is basic but gets the point across. The second suggest you have everything ready, concrete and perfect. Read novels or look up words you can pull when bored. It helps and when used in the right context can elevate your status.
/r/seduction15/04/15 02:34 PM
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It's strange because I think it's true. I liked a girl, tried Kino and what not, had fun but I was too late in the semester and she was transferring. I don't think we would have been more than friends. In the same class though, another girl who was equally attractive was very receptive, I had fun, but still had this IDGAF attitude because I wasn't seeing her as someone I truly wanted to be with. So, treated her tongue in cheek but friendly. But it must have sent sparks because she texted, talked…
/r/seduction15/04/15 02:27 PM
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In my opinion, Asians are more accustomed to their own race rather than westerns. Most Koreans and Asians in general usually come here in the late teens so they're beliefs are grounded from back home and mostly academic based. Now if they were born and raised in America, that's a different story but it's rare to see that. You would have to be really smooth to get her number. But don't be discouraged. Just do as you wish, don't think about it that much and quoting the guy below me, next her if sh…
/r/seduction15/04/15 02:19 PM
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Chill and never do too much. What bl1Y said, perfect. You can be a clown but still get work done. I recall having some friendly banter with my professor, the class had a laugh, so did my professor and when I did my assignments, got B's and A's so people know I'm not a slacker. I had a friendly personality while achieving work others were having issues passing. The key part, be yourself, talk before and after class, not during unless you have a small break or in a group. I've made good friends ju…
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