EDIT: Added TLDR version

I took a class and the room would be open before it starts. I enter, on the teacher's desk, feet up on said desk, chilling and not putting effort into whatever. People enter, I salute them, speak with them, tease them on small things but give eye contact to show I won't dismiss them, I'm in the moment. something about confidence and presence makes you likable and have people who are interested clear and those who aren't discernible. This isn't for school, I frequent a food area and I give the cashier some banter, asking how's it going, been a while and liven up their day.

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When one heads to a live concert from Jay-Z or Kanye, you can feel when they walk the stage, they own the entire stadium and the people in it. They're going to give them a show and they won't disappoint. They have presence, they're confident, they know they're the shit. They're not hesitant, they walk like they own it, all of it. When you can have such a vibe from walking, to speaking, to body language, attraction's going to skyrocket from men and women.

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Boss: Um, so, we can't go this route, I'm sorry, we'll have to do other things, once again, sorry.

No, that's not a boss. A true boss speaks with conviction and firm tone.

Boss: We're moving in a different direction. It might be hard but it's worth the journey and save our asses. Who's on board?

That's a boss you want.

I've opened up, spoken in a casual manner instead of sitting in a line doing nothing. I am not trying to seduce anybody. I'm just being myself in a honest fashion and people come to me naturally. More so since my confidence is rising and how easy it is to chat with someone. I was introverted but after understanding this concept, I apply it everywhere when possible.

I know some head to clubs and areas they don't frequent but still act it, you know you are the man, open up with guys, give them a good time and if they don't like you, leave them, show you aren't needy, you can have fun by yourself. That attitude is what Seddit's trying to emulate. An Alpha male, a man who's comfortable by himself and won't compromise on bullshit. They take up the room and give people great vibes, nothing else.

TLDR: Have confidence, feel that you are the man in everything you do and it'll show in your words and body and mindset.