For a long time I've been locking away and repressing any desires because I always thought I wasn't good enough. This happened through high school and the first two years of College. However, lately, I realize this isn't right. It's not healthy. Especially after finding out women are interested in me.

Now, my main issue is learning to chat and making sexual remarks and knowing they'll be receptive. It's tough since it isn't something I do normally. I'm great at socializing but when things turn sexual, I just shut off and can't comment. Or Kino, or flirt for that matter. I suck when it gets to that point.

I'm scared to death for approaching but I'm certain it has to involve for a first timer like me and the fact I'm stuck in the habit of not being good enough, when that's not the case after learning Body Language. Is there anything the great people of Seddit can suggest?