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| 2 | Why can’t I be a single empowered man? 😑In all fairness, women who don't marry, don't have kid and overall stay alone aren't exactly encouraged either. They aren't treated as badly as men who do the same (in my experience) but they definitely also get in most case the " “so what’s wrong? Why haven’t you settled down and started a family” . | /r/MensRights | 02/08/20 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Is Gender privilege real?To add to the argument, here is a "nice" video about israel. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahZTWBB26Cw&t=88s | /r/MensRights | 16/07/20 07:13 PM |
| 10 | It is now males, rather than females, who suffer the vast majority of institutional discriminationYour argument was "It’s hard to claim institutional discrimination when we control virtually all the institutions.". But it isn't relevant since as you say now : "The ruling class don't care about sex, just money". And it remains that women control most of the spending, so for the sake of money, pandering to women is more logical than pandering to men. It's actually even less revelant when we look up what institutional discrimination even means. Yes? Well, right now women already hold the majori… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/20 11:19 AM |
| 12 | It is now males, rather than females, who suffer the vast majority of institutional discriminationThere are a few problems. But first. The OP wasn't blaming women. The OP was blaming feminism. And no matter how we slice it, I don't think saying feminism didn't have any institutional power in the last 150 years and thus didn't do anything is going to convince many people. Men control the majority of wealth and power on an institutional level Which men? Do you mean politics? Why would they try to help men? Clearly, helping women is more beneficial to them. I mean. There are more women than men… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/20 07:39 AM |
| 212 | After years of hearing "MY BODY MY CHOICE" we get this.In the past, men were "blamed for their taxes". Example aren't exactly easy to find (since unsurprisingly people aren't willing to mention the failing of 1st wave feminism), but it was in the time where women were allowed to have their own property but apparently not allowed to pay their own tax. Elizabeth Wilks, a wealthy doctor, married to an humble school teacher, didn't hesitate to remind the authorities in 1908 (yup, that dark age in which women were kept in the kitchen and enslaved by men)… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/20 02:48 PM |
| 4 | "The feminist view of gender relations (victimhood and no personal responsibility) has become such a dominant narrative that when psychologists have tried to promote women’s careers by encouraging them to be more confident, it has been met with hostility from feminists."I love how men being discriminated in STEM is described as a positive trend brought thanks by feminism. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/20 08:55 PM |
| 16 | If we should say #BlackLivesMatter instead of #AllLivesMatter because black people are getting killed at higher rates, Why isn’t it ok to point out that black men are being killed at higher rates than black women?Not sure if you're sarcastic or not, so I'm just going to drop this link here : https://www.quora.com/How-can-we-defeat-activists-for-mens-rights Specifically go to Lauren Campbell's comment. It explains (to some extent) the hurdle faced by men (not white men, men in general ; why add the racial aspect here) to do conference let alone protect surrounding the issues of men. It also shows example of protest that have been done and actions that have been achieved. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/20 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Who else hate “ladies first” and thinks it’s ironic in practice?I've seen a lot of comments concerning discrimination in school or cutting lines, so I'll change the topic a bit. This whole "ladies first" mindset has pretty much become tradition at this point...It is no longer about mere self entitlment. For example...It has always puzzled me why in the service industry it was always ladies first (in my country at least). Let's say, restaurant. Basically, women are expected to be served first, no matter how inefficient it can sometimes become. At some point, … | /r/MensRights | 05/04/20 10:07 AM |
| 11 | Silence misogynist plebs! Science is speaking to women about their boyfriends!Actually, I agree. I also believe that if you date a misandrist, you might turn into one yourself. That could explain some of the male extremist feminist I have seen. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/19 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Feminists trying to remove StallmanThose kind of articles always make me laugh so much. Then I remember the person who wrote it (probably) isn't in a mental asylum or that it (probably) isn't a joke article and I stop laughing. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/19 11:42 AM |
| 6 | Turns out the movie "Hustlers" really IS an immoral, anti-male pile of dog crap.Quote from the article : No, the real slap in the face is that we are told, both by producer Lopez, director Lorene Scafaria, and by dozens of fawning reviews and articles, that this film somehow represents a triumph of feminism, because these are “empowered” women who are “reversing the roles” and “taking control,” that they are “Robin Hood thieves”sticking it to the man. You can't totally separate "art" from "artist". Maybe you can find value and some satisfaction from watching the film and do… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/19 04:38 PM |
| 7 | A man isn't entitled to sex but she's also not entitled to his wallet.One thing I wondered while reading the AITA post... I mean, am I the only one who thinks that bringing someone to your place doesn't necessarily mean to have sex? Of course I can understand a lot of people would think it is so...But here it depends on when the date happened. If the dinner happened a bit early, I don't think it's unreasonable for the couple to go in private and I don't know watch a nice film together or just spend some alone time or something. All in all, there is really not enou… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/19 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Damn StraightDamn straigth? Is shaming men into loving and protecting women and generally obeying social expectations, otherwise they are toxic, supposed to be a good thing? It kinda reminds me of the order of the white feather during world war 1. For those who don't know, it is basically a movement in which early feminists shamed young men into enlisting for the war. You know, those same ones who were just asking before the war to have vote right and overall the same rights as men. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/19 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Bernie Sanders -- pandering to the sex that already has it better. There is NO way he does not know that women already have MORE rights than men, not less.That woman happens to have easier aaccess to healthcare due to circumstances isn't discrimination towards men (I don't think anyone said that here). Saying (referring to the original tweet) that women have less access to healthcare and implying it means gender discrimination towards women is deliberate ignorance at best. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/19 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Idk if this belongs here or not, but if anything I feel like men have to hide their emotions more.Okay, sorry I misunderstood. The way you phrased it made it sound like you were answering me. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Idk if this belongs here or not, but if anything I feel like men have to hide their emotions more.As I said, I don't believe in masculinity and femininity, so it seems like you are arguing against a claim I never made. But just because I believe a concept is wrong doesn't give me the right to just ignore it. For example, if there is a philosophical concept I don't agree with but by changing its definition it would be something I agree with doesn't mean I can change its definition in my head. Here, I don't agree with the concept of masculinity but I can't just go and change the definition of … | /r/MensRights | 23/08/19 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Idk if this belongs here or not, but if anything I feel like men have to hide their emotions more.It depends on the dictionary, but definitions of masculinity go from : the characteristics that are traditionally thought to be typical of or suitable for men to the properties characteristic of the male sex Sure, we can tell ourselves masculinity or femininity is just about a set of values that for some reason we decided to make gendered. But that's just not how the definition go. Definition wise, while saying masculinity == man is wrong, it's still very close... By the way, I dislike the words… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/19 11:20 AM |
| 50 | Women-only STEM college programs under attack for male discriminationThere is a lot to say but I'm getting sleepy so I will stick to the end of the article..... Erin Buzuvis, a Title IX expert and law professor at Western New England University, said she questioned whether the recent surge in complaints about single-gender programs was motivated by a larger desire to attack Title IX. I think it's just that, compared to 10 years ago, people have much more access to internet and information. Now, they can see what in practice Title IX do. And obviously you will hav… | /r/MensRights | 20/08/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Would anyone be willing to explain to me (M19) about Men’s Rights? I simply don’t understand it yet..On the sidebar there is a list of "some challenges faced by males". Here are some (I'm not going to explain them in detail, but just going over a few of them). While I may give links here, I obviously invite you to do your own research on the matter and never limit yourself to what you are told. The information is out there, now you just need the determination and courage to look for it. Male Genital Mutilation - Circumcision : so FGM is the worst crime ever ; circumcision is basically commonpla… | /r/MensRights | 20/08/19 04:57 PM |
| 19 | Poor lad, user in r/gendercritical admits to brainwashing her son into accepting abuseParagraph 1 : my son has been brainwashed to think it's normal to be kicked, beaten, bullied, abused by girls and do nothing to fight against it. Paragraph 2 : my son will probably become another abusive awful man. Me : huh? that's your reaction? To be fair though, while I know it's definitely the intent behind the author of the message, it does seems like his son could become abusive later on. I mean, if he ever realizes the brainwashing he went through and all the shit he has put with....Well. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/19 04:27 PM |
| 11 | Ah the good ol' double standardBoth articles agree it's a bad thing. Let's go further though. The first article refers to the case of sex with a minor of 13 years old. By the way, the commonly accepted age for pedophilia is 13 years old and younger, so using the terms "child" which immediately make us think of pedophilia is fair. Let's look at the second one now. The wording is "boy under 16", which gives the impression that he is probably between 14 - 15. After all, if he was a kid, if there was genuine pedophilia involved, … | /r/MensRights | 18/08/19 08:04 AM |
| 8 | Ignorant feminist rants on men and the need to abort male babies. The idea that men are born with some kind of original sin. If the same was said about females it would be hate speech.I don't know if the incel subreddit was more tame than thefairersex (it was removed before I could take a look and make my own opinion of it), but I think any subreddit that makes nazi looks nice by comparison should be quarantined at the very least. Not necessarily removed though, since I would rather have extremist crazy people speak as much as possible in a place I can read about than in an underground place I can't access. Of course, maybe it's having those crazy subreddit that make more peo… | /r/MensRights | 17/08/19 09:19 AM |
| 2 | The Problem with American FeminismThere are a lot of good things on this article, but it's not perfect. Clearly, she still lives in the feminist narrative. To get into the core of what I'm trying to say... By the same line of thinking, does it make sense to call yourself a feminist if you believe in the equality of the sexes, but are not actively working to liberate women from oppressive power structures? (oh yeah, gender equality => fight for women only) Or... Were women widely oppressed here, once, and not long ago? Most certa… | /r/MensRights | 15/08/19 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Feminist facepalm.At the end of the day, as far as I am concerned, it's not that I'm against the idea of feminism or anything (whether modern feminism has derailed from his original intent is another topic). My problem is that feminism isn't about equality. Feminism can be seen as a branch of a broader equality movement if we want, but clearly feminism doesn't cover all equality movement and clearly the main goal of feminism isn't equality for everyone. And don't get me wrong : I'm not saying it's a bad thing! To… | /r/MensRights | 15/08/19 11:20 AM |
| 7 | Why do so many men think feminism is a cancer?I know this is absolutely stupid, but I couldn't help myself. Here is my version of the beginning of the article : Being a man on the internet is tough when you’re talking about sexism. You’ll experience white knights, SJW and women who refuse to accept that sexism even exists. When men speak out about their own gendered experiences, feminists aren’t always receptive, often going on the offensive and refusing to accept men’s stories as valid evidence. Social media is a platform where men can una… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/19 06:28 PM |
| 11 | Disgusting, when men call out that men's day isn't represented, huffpost decide to post this hot garbage.TL;DR : Men's problems aren't valid because women also have problems men's right doesn't care about gender equality Putting effort into International Men's days could take away effort from other women's days, and we all know women's days are more important than men's day by definition. Though that hasn't been explicitly said, the violence of women against men is completely ignored and treated as either nonexistent or as not a problem. On the other hand, it is important for men to mobilize to end… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/19 06:21 AM |
| 4 | Sexism at it's finest.What is pretty interesting is that the answer in the feminist sub are actually negative. The 2 that answered agreed it is nonsense, though another post who has gotten more upvote had been deleted, maybe censored by the mods. EDIT : since then, the "best" comment has disappeared from the post. Ah. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/19 04:59 PM |
| 3 | I study sex and gender: this is what happened when I used the Bumble dating appTo be honest, I have a hard time understanding the point of the article. Here's what I understood. So the basic idea is a dating app where the women do what is traditionally wanted from men. After all, if men have all the power and all he privilege, replacing the roles of men and women should give woman all the power and all the privilege (at least, equality wasn't the goal here). Problem : it seems like it wasn't the empowering experience she expected. Weird. According to all the feminism dogma… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/19 08:58 AM |
| 5 | Okay, I’ll jump down the rabbit holeAs people have said, the "women don't act like women" is hardly representative of men's rights. Yet you saw it. Why? Because people don't get banned here for disagreeing with the "ideology", unlike in subs like r / feminism or r / menslibs. Then again, there is no real "ideology" here. We all have our own opinions. I'm not sure it's what you want, but you could take a look at the answer given by Lauren Campbell here : https://www.quora.com/How-can-we-defeat-activists-for-mens-rights Also, a smal… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/19 06:06 AM |
| 1 | We talk about uncomfortable topics here, if you don't like that please fuck offWhile are you are being downvoted, let's stop one moment here, look at the two sub, and realize that's it's atually quite close to the truth. And then let's ask ourselves a question : is it a good thing or a bad thing? Well, people who have been trying to say it's a bad thing get downvoted to hell and called 'whiny easily triggered children' or 'people who want to make men shut up' or anything in between, at least in my experience. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/19 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Manspreading Leads Female Student to Design Chairs for MenOkay, wait. Even if we agreed with all the other nonsense, all I can see is one chair that try to stop "manspreading" and one chair that promotes "womanspreading". | /r/MensRights | 16/07/19 11:07 AM |
| 3 | When you Google "mens world cup"I agree with you. We could go even farther and add google's selection is, as far as I know, personalized. So if, for some reason, you did a lot on research on women's football recently, then google will now direct you more easily towards it because that's clearly what you have been interested in lately. More so it was written mens and not men's. mens -> womens. I don't know how exactly google's algorithm is written, but clearly it seems confused here, as it gives out 'men's world cup' as a sugge… | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 11:46 AM |
| 3 | When you Google "mens world cup"Actually, yes. When there is big match in men's world cup, I very easily get results for the match, Heck, I once just wrote "result"and it gave me the results of the match (very convenient for lazy me). If you think it makes google broken, so be it, but I don't think there is sexism involved in this case. There is also the part where google result are customized to the person (ie, if you have been looking for women's result recently, it will know you're interested in it...), though I don't know … | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Modern day feminist and there impact in my life.Oh yeah...School, aka feminism hell. Well, to be fair, school is everything hell (well, ok, not everything, but there is a lot of stupidity in middle school and high school). My 'funniest' moment was in middle school when we had a lesson on the middle ages, chivalry and women. You know, how women were 'systemetically' oppressed in those times, when knight only saw them as 'objects', when men 'always' had it supposedly much better than women and so on. During the lesson, one of the most popular g… | /r/MensRights | 09/07/19 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Can we have a mega thread of misandrist shit that famous feminists have said?Not quite what you are asking for but... https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/9v6tqj/a_list_about_feminism_misandry_for_anyone_who/ | /r/MensRights | 07/07/19 07:38 PM |
| 9 | Woman caught laughing at court sentence on Facebook moments after fake tears in court AGAIN gets freed by judge who says ”While I have doubts about how remorseful you are, I do not think it right to deprive four such young children of their mother." HOW many pussy passes do women get??!!He said: “”While I still have my doubts about how remorseful you are, the real reason I imposed the sentence I did was I did not think it right to deprive four such young children of their mother. “I hope this has been a wake up call for you. It is about time you set your children a better example than you have been doing thus far.” Judge, at least, you are taking no risks. This woman will be a very bad example for her children. I hope they will turn alright, but I know for sure your decision di… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/19 09:36 PM |
| 4 | Let's stab men in the throat with the pointy end of our shoe.I have heard this kind of things a lot and, for once, I would like to say something. Sure, this is a subreddit and here the mods are the only ones who can do whatever they want. On the other hand, it is the subreddit of a movement, men's rights. I think that anyone is free to give their own opinion on the movement and their own idea of how to move forward. You are free not to agree with them of course. But I think the "fuck off and just listen to the mods's decisions" is not very constructive Ra… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/19 10:19 PM |
| 1 | And they say abortion has no impact on men. Here is a man begging his girlfriend not to murder his child.Since you refuse to tell me which part of my statement you disagree with (or which part you find absolutely ridiculous), I'm just going to say it again using your own...terms. so w, x, y, z. w so x so y so z. w : you think that women can abort without the man's consent is a problem. x : you are against abortion (or at least against abortion without the man's consent). I think w => x is obvious enough. y : you're for forced motherhood (for why x => y, you can read my other comment answering to ps… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/19 04:58 PM |
| 2 | And they say abortion has no impact on men. Here is a man begging his girlfriend not to murder his child.Which part of my statement do you disagree with, to be specific? Or at you just like the feminist I speak with on feminist sub, dismissing what I say because they don't like it? All in all, what I say just show there are different men's rights...just like there are different kind of feminism. There's the men's right that says women shouldn't be able to abort because the father might want the child. There's the men's right that say we don't want forced fatherhood and we are for gender equality so… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/19 04:31 PM |
| 3 | And they say abortion has no impact on men. Here is a man begging his girlfriend not to murder his child.When a woman is forced to go through 9 months of pregnancy and give birth to a child, even if we assume she can give up on the baby and somehow forget about all that and go on living as if nothing happened, it doesn't change the fact she had been forced to be a mother for 9 months and that she had lived with all the constraints of being a pregnant woman. You can't have a woman forced to go through pregnancy and then say she wasn't forced to be a mother. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/19 06:55 AM |
| 7 | And they say abortion has no impact on men. Here is a man begging his girlfriend not to murder his child.Just to point out a very obvious thing. If you think this video is about men's right, then I'm guessing you're against abortion. Which means you are for forced motherhood. Which means that, for gender equality, you're for forced fatherhood too. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/19 09:03 PM |
| 3 | AITA for ‘forcing’ my son to be a father after he got a girl pregnant?A lot of things can be said here, though it depends on how you look at it. I'm not sure what point you're trying to make so I will only vaguely answer. I'm not trying to say that a woman abortion and a man not having any responsibility towards a child he didn't want is the same from the child's point of view (in one case he is dead, in one case he can live perfectly fine). However, if we talk about the responsibility when having sex (the sex = child thing), I don't think the comparison is unfair… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/19 01:58 PM |
| 4 | AITA for ‘forcing’ my son to be a father after he got a girl pregnant?So yes actually having sex is consenting to have a child. That's what I was answering to so I don't think bringing abortion into the equation is weird, since it's the ultimate way for women to avoid further responsibility after sex. Too many people I've talking with think that a man having sex must accept whatever comes out of it but believe women having sex can decide what to do afterwards. At least you're being coherent (ie, not holding the view of sex = child only to men but to women as well)… | /r/MensRights | 21/06/19 06:54 AM |
| 7 | AITA for ‘forcing’ my son to be a father after he got a girl pregnant?You're against abortion then? | /r/MensRights | 20/06/19 09:05 PM |
| 5 | I am so sick of double standardsTo add a few things : Or does positive discrimination only apply to the areas/jobs women are actually interested in? Funnily enough, positive discrimination reaches its worst even in areas women aren't interested in. What matters is that it's a place of "power". Engineering is a good example. Yes, women struggle to this very day. Perhaps not in The Netherlands, Sweden and such, but not all countries are well developed like that. To be fair, people struggle in not developed countries. As for me, … | /r/MensRights | 18/06/19 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Google doodle for fathers day: If there wasnt a doodle then im sure we would be the first to notice so we should commend them for this.In my google (french), it says father's day at least. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/19 06:58 PM |
| 4 | These double standards need to be heardI think he meant "I don't believe in the so-called equality that is being promoted". | /r/MensRights | 09/06/19 09:38 AM |
| 2 | But don’t YOU dare stop squishing your ballsThis argument is a common one, but it's just common sense (for me at least, and it entirely depends on how you were raised) to only take as much as you need in a public space. You see other people in the picture taking only one seat...because you are supposed to only take one. Of course, that's really a matter of point of view - it's how I was raised. It would be unfair to try to force my view of things on other. On the other hand, in my experience (and I know experience isn't a proof, but in th… | /r/MensRights | 09/06/19 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Woman tells guy she's infertile, gets pregnant, then demands child support.I repeat. You said : "If you cant handle the repercussions of sex, perhaps you shouldnt be having any?". What are the repercussions of sex? Pregnancy or the birth of a child? If it's pregnancy, then there is no problem with abortion, because the woman never agreed to having a child while having sex, so it's fair that she can abort. On the other hand, it's also fair the man has no responsibility towards the fetus (and so towards the child that will be born out of it), since he also never agreed t… | /r/MensRights | 09/06/19 08:46 AM |
| 4 | Woman tells guy she's infertile, gets pregnant, then demands child support.Just a simple question. What are you thoughts about abortion? Do you think women should be able to abort or not? I'm asking this because, you said, "If you cant handle the repercussions of sex, perhaps you shouldnt be having any?". I am just curious to know if you are coherent in your beliefs or not. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/19 06:04 PM |
| 3 | My Wife is spoiled, partially I’m mad at myselfOn the one hand, you say "My wife is spoiled, what to do". On the other hand, you basically say "I am a failure for not being able to spoil my wife even more". She will withhold affection if she’s mad. For all the stupid things feminists have been saying, they have a few things right ; one of them being that withholding affection as "blackmail" material is a good indicator of an abusive relationship. Not that I'm saying it's necessarily a bad thing (if that's what makes you happy...), but do you… | /r/MensRights | 07/06/19 10:36 PM |
| 6 | What's the difference between this sub and r/MensLib?(I haven't frequented much MensLibs ; those are only my impressions) MensLib is a pro-feminist community and follows their general guidelines. The most important one is banning everything they don't like and avoiding subject that go too much against feminism. So, well, they are male feminists talking about men's rights... But in practice, I would say that... MensRights is about the inequalities and discrimination faced by men based on gender in the modern world. Obviously, we can't speak about g… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/19 07:36 PM |
| 2 | “Black people are better than white people” - my 12 year old sister’s school teacherIf you want to claim that all of this stuff was made up by the government is feminist propaganda I'm not, just saying it has little to do with first wave feminism. I was talking about countries like the USA, UK, France, Germany, because that's where the first wave feminism I was talking about happened. Let's not use the suffering of people today in some countries to justify first wave feminism one hundred years ago in UK/USA, unless you can show me the situation are comparable. In Britain at the… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/19 11:25 AM |
| 1 | We need to understand the real definition of toxic masculinityI only really used one definition : qualities or attributes regarded as characteristic of men. It's actually a tricky definition. It looks very similar to your point 1., but a bit different depending on how you read it. My more detailed definition is : "qualities or attributes people (mistakenly) believe as characteristics of men". Of course, use another dictionnary and maybe you find a definition that suits your need. But it doesn't change my belief that there isn't a set of attributes characte… | /r/MensRights | 05/06/19 05:09 AM |
| 1 | We need to understand the real definition of toxic masculinityWhat is masculinity anyway? That's a greater question in my opinion. Here's the definition : qualities or attributes regarded as characteristic of men. I see a lot of people having very positive vision of masculinity...From my point of view though, it's just a thing pushing certain behavior on men (and the same with femininity of course). From my point of view, masculinity and femininity are the apex of gender expectation (the one that gets so deep in you that you can't notice it) and are one of… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/19 09:49 PM |
| 7 | Feminist can’t fathom that some people would object to the holding of an openly discriminatory eventthat having these spaces is important for marginalized groups I will say it again. Living in a democracy and women being the majority, I can't accept women being the marginalized group. I explained that FemmeHacks doesn’t exist to teach men that women are equal; FemmeHacks exists to empower women Translation : we aren't for gender equality, we are for giving women more power He referred to us as “girls.” ...He should have said "guys" then...? I asked him if he had heard of the hashtag “#NotAllMe… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/19 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Just look how quickly she tried to have this man beaten just for the color of his skin. Running down the street screaming pedophile. WARNING LOUD VOLUME!No idea why you're downvoted. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/19 09:17 PM |
| 8 | Feminists can't be serious about blaming all pregnancy on men?If they play stupid, I can play stupid too, just for laugh. Normal people : you don't blame the one who gave off some material ; you blame the one who assembled the materials into a bomb and who threw it into a city. Me (for fun) : you don't blame a man giving semen ; you blame the woman who willingly takes it, gets pregnant from it and then kicks a fuss about it. Argh, I feel so stupid for writing that. Lowering myself to their level, even for 2 second, makes me feel like a dumbass. I pity them… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/19 09:12 PM |
| 10 | ReachingMakes sense actually, from their point of view. The father must take responsibility when the women doesn't abort, even when the father doesn't want any child. It's not a great leap of logic to say the father must take responsibility if the mother aborts. The core idea here is : her body, her choice, their responsibility. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/19 09:02 PM |
| 2 | The Bachelorette, my wife's first glimpse at realityQuestion answered in another comment. French series on TF1. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | The Bachelorette, my wife's first glimpse at realityIt's an episode from a french series title "Petits secrets entre voisins". I wrote just above a content to detail the episode and give a link if you're interested (it's a french series though). This series is actually both good and bad from a MRA's point of view : There are a lot of examples of women doing bad things (several examples of false accusation, of women cheating, stealing and others). If a woman does somethings bad, there are often a "deeper" reason to explain it. And in any case, she… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/19 10:40 AM |
| 5 | The Bachelorette, my wife's first glimpse at realityIt's an episode from a french series title "Petits secrets entre voisins". Those episodes are basically short stories (25 min average) involving two neighbors. The episode was titled "La jolie divorcée" (ie, the pretty divorced, though it sounds awkward in english) Here's the replay : https://www.tf1.fr/tf1/petits-secrets-entre-voisins/videos/jolie-divorcee-petits-secrets-entre-voisins.html(obviously, in french) The false accusation starts at 18 min and 20 s, when the man goes to the mother to e… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/19 10:36 AM |
| 126 | The Bachelorette, my wife's first glimpse at realityI saw a "funny" series today. To make a long story short, a man get accused of assault by a woman out of spite (she loves him, he doesn't). Fortunately, he manages to prove nothing happened. When the woman finally admit to the false accusation, she starts crying and people show support for her "she must have been lost and confused" (the woman was a high schooler while the guy was a teacher). Even the man forgives her, though he is a bit bitter he nearly went to jail even though he did nothing. T… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/19 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Supporting abortion actually requires supporting paper abortions as wellI’d be for allowing paper abortion if both consented I don't really see the difference with the current system. In the name of body autonomy, the woman can abort regardless, in which case paper abortion means nothing. If the woman doesn't want to abort, chances are she wants to keep the child and do paper abortion. I guess at this point we can only hope the woman respects the father's wishes and allows his paper abortion. So at most it would lower the rate of forced fatherhood but not solve the … | /r/MensRights | 02/06/19 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Supporting abortion actually requires supporting paper abortions as wellI respectfully disagree. At least to the opinion that if a woman doesn’t want to get pregnant she won’t. Condoms exist and are more readily available than women exclusive bc like the pill or the iud. Of course the man can put on a a condom. However, in a normal situation, the woman can clearly see if the man has a condom or not. The man can't really check if the woman is properly applying contraceptive measures, which is why I say women has more power than men in this regard. If the woman goes a… | /r/MensRights | 01/06/19 10:55 PM |
| 5 | Woman upset she gets less attention after mentioning boyfriend.But the hypocrisy of men getting annoyed at being 'friendzoned' and essentially doing the same thing to a girl only the other way about is really getting on my tits. Let me get it right. She is angry guys put her into the friendzone after she mentions her BF. In other words, she is angry guys don't try to court her when she says "I'm already in a relationship and happy with it". Maybe she has a fetish in which she wants a boy to seduce her so that she cheats on her BF? Dunno, I'm just guessing. … | /r/MensRights | 01/06/19 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Supporting abortion actually requires supporting paper abortions as wellIn my opinion, #1 is more than balanced out by the fact that, if a woman really doesn't want to get pregnant, then there are very few chance she will get pregnant. Women have much more contraceptive choices than men. And even when the impossible does happen, if the follow up is taken care of properly, abortion is very easy (her body, her choice, her responsibility). Of course, even the most serious and digilent woman can have the absolute impossible happen to her ; in this case, we can imagine a… | /r/MensRights | 01/06/19 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Supporting abortion actually requires supporting paper abortions as wellI will try to say it my own way. People must agree on the possible consequences of sex. Either we say that sex leads to pregnancy, either we say that sex leads to the birth of a child. If we say sex leads to the birth of a child, then abortion can't be allowed, because both part agree that a child can be born out of sex. Abortion would be like "yeah, I knew it could happen and I consented to it but you know...". If we say sex leads to pregnancy, no problem with abortion , but then forced fatherh… | /r/MensRights | 01/06/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | “Black people are better than white people” - my 12 year old sister’s school teacherFeels like a pretty biased video. I guess that's why parents teach us not to suddenly jump in the middle of the road. Don't hail first wave feminism as some holy things from the past. They were not. Were women oppressed without basic human rights? Hell no. Did they have different rights than men? Yes, of course, not that men had it better (you know, in World War, most people would rather not have vote right than be forced to fight in the frontline...but that's only my opinion here). Here's anoth… | /r/MensRights | 01/06/19 07:16 AM |
| 2 | What’s the general consensus on trans men here?I don't care what gender people are, so I care even less what gender people choose to identify as. If people want to identifiy as men even though they were born women, well, I don't understand why they would do such a thing, but it's not my problem and they can do whatever they want. I don't hold any negative feelings towards them. I do like hearing about them though (be it trans men or trans women) since they can offer some real insight on how it is on the other side of the fence. The one thing… | /r/MensRights | 01/06/19 06:53 AM |
| 39 | The Johnny Depp case speaks for thousands and thousands of those who actually ended up in prison for having done nothing but be part of a sexist legal system controlled by feminists.Guilty especially if proven innocent* | /r/MensRights | 31/05/19 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Should I get angry about this?It's a difficult question. In the last two years I've been getting progressively aware of the huge "war/discrimination" against white men. Well, part of it is because I'm now an adult and actually moving into the world and seeing how much we are discriminated against (even if, in my case, it's mostly little things). By now, I easily get offended over sexist things. I am a rational person so I try to hold it in and not lash to others, but it just makes me angrier. However, with time, I'm coming t… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/19 10:00 PM |
| 25 | This poor baby boy went through hell only for his mom to top it all off with an unnecessary circumcisionIt's like the thought of a healthy baby boy scares the shit out of her and she feels the need to mutilate him. (I'm assuming it's a woman here...of course I can be wrong, though just as many men are guilty of this crime) | /r/MensRights | 30/05/19 09:42 PM |
| 3 | UK: 'Mum of the Year' winner, 42, is convicted of stabbing her husband to death, but cleared of murder.I remember on some feminism subreddit I read a post about father of the year. Some said that not oppressing your daughter is not enough, it's just basic stuff, you need to actually support her etc, and that the bar for "dad of the year" was really low. I say, mother of the year, not planning to murder your husband is just basic stuff ; you need to do a bit more, like not killing him during an argument in a fit of anger. According to the mother "I'm not a fuck*ng killer, just an argument that wen… | /r/MensRights | 29/05/19 09:09 PM |
| 4 | Seriously read the article linked to this postI learned several valuable lessons from that. That I am alone. That if the state ever gets involved in a dispute with a woman that I can and will lose anything and everything including my own freedom. That if a woman wants to do anything to me including physically assault me or rape me that she can and will get away with it. And lastly that society as a whole believes that this is just and fine, that I am ultimately the bad guy no matter what I do or say and that I should above all else stay sil… | /r/MensRights | 29/05/19 02:18 PM |
| 5 | True example of feminismI'm not sure what it has to do with feminism. Feminism is about women's rights. "True(Good) feminism", at best, would be women's rights on the ground of gender equality. In other words, women's rights in the context of gender equality - "Hey, this situation isn't fair to women. Let's make it fair!". And, no, I don't think believe most men first sexual encounter was a sexual assault, though it depends on what we consider "sexual assault" I guess. Depending on the definition, I was sexually assaul… | /r/MensRights | 29/05/19 01:41 PM |
| 6 | Wait... I have a question...This. You basically summed up the feminism movement in a single sentence. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/19 09:08 PM |
| 136 | The EU is consulting the public for gender equality, let your voice be heard, fill out a questionnaire, last day is May 31The problem with this questionnaire is that they don't really ask us for our opinion. It's more like an "affirmative" questionnaire in which we can only agree and, at most, set the direction. However this questionnaire assumes that : Women are oppressed by men The gender gap exists and is a major problem Women are more subject to violence than men and domestic violence (by men against women) is especially troubling The system gives benefits to men but not to women Women are more likely than men … | /r/MensRights | 28/05/19 02:54 PM |
| 14 | What vice has to say about our subKinda funny in a way. They are basically pointing to posts hoping that the fact the words are underlined and bold that people will believe in it, but when you actually click on it you realize...oh, that's not quite right. The first post linked is only anti-women to people who are anti-math and don't know elementary math (feminists are generally not very good at math in my experience so maybe that's it?). The second post is only equivocating away rape to the people who believe that if drunk sex o… | /r/MensRights | 28/05/19 07:29 AM |
| 49 | Summer engineering program that doesn't accept white malesAnother woman-only program. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | We knew there's been a shift in media portrayals of fathers from the competent fathers of the 50s to bumbling idiots. What about the sons and daughters? Let's see if we can figure it out.In my experience with media from the US, woman = if not smart and beautiful, at least sociable and kind. man = if not stupid and/or violent and/or incompetent, at least michevious and/or hot-blooded and/or irrational. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/19 08:44 PM |
| 5 | My sister is a feministI have similar problems with my family. It's generally alright, but sometimes the feminist bullsh*t comes out of nowhere. For example, 3 days ago we went to a restaurant as a family (my parents and my sister), and then the waiter did something they really didn't like : he gave me the menu card first and my sister second (mother -> father -> me -> my sister, it just suited the order in which we sat really). According to them it's unimaginable that a man should be served first and so they started … | /r/MensRights | 27/05/19 09:42 AM |
| 7 | Circumcision is child abuseNature : tens of thousands of years of natural selection created the foreskin (and anyone who had done a biology class know it isn't just a piece of skin). Humans : probably useless and dangerous, let's remove it. At least babies are young enough that their brain and body can more or less adapt to the loss of it. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/19 07:32 AM |
| 7 | History of feminism the way they don't want us to know!Feminism, in order to stay relevant, had to become about more than gender equality. That's a red flag here. Things women don’t lie about: rape. Things people don't lie about : violence. Oups, they do lie about it. Really though, feminists be damned, that can't go on forever. People are waking up, slowly but surely, and the 'bad' feminists remain a minority. A very loud minority that is very good at weaponizing the gynocentric nature of humans, but a minority nonetheless. ...The ones I still don'… | /r/MensRights | 26/05/19 10:14 PM |
| 62 | Remember, men are responsible for ALL unwanted pregnancies!Each time I see something like that, I say the same thing. If men should accept the fact that sex => child, women should accept the fact that sex => child. Of course, I know gender equality can be a hard pill to swallow for some... | /r/MensRights | 26/05/19 09:18 AM |
| 3 | Alabama Passing Law to Make False Rape Accusations a CrimeI'm no expert on what is allowed / not allowed, but if the video is already out on the internet (on facebook of all places), I don't think there are any problem in sharing the link. Heck, maybe it's better to do a new post about this. I juste hope this false accusation didn't hurt you too much. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/19 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Alabama Passing Law to Make False Rape Accusations a Crimeit's her choice, their responsibility. So in other words, it's her choice, but the man has to tag along regardless of his own will, huh. Just because you don't want a child doesn't change the fact that you came in a woman's vagina, and it doesn't change the fact that there's now a child created by your own actions. So let me get it right : if a man has sex, he should accept if a child comes out of it because he consented to having a child by having sex. Correct me if I'm getting you wrong. Then,… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/05/19 05:14 PM |
| 6 | I'm still waiting for feminists to tell me what rights men have that women do not have.The reason why I (and many other) am unable to take feminist seriously : the fact that, no matter how much we ask, no one tells us what rights men have over women. The "best" (ie : the only real one) answer I've ever gotten is "women are more likely to be raped or sexually harassed than men". First, that's not a right (last time I checked sexual harassment by men was heavily punished) and second gives us actual solutions to this problem rather than #BelieveAllWomen and #MeToo which just promotes… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/19 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Alabama Passing Law to Make False Rape Accusations a CrimeFunny how, when it comes down to speaking about false rape accusation, the subject get derailed and then we start hearing a woman speaking about how she was raped. Sad thing yeah, but that's not the subject. Why not hear instead from someone who suffered from false accusation? It's not like they are hard to find! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/05/19 07:08 AM |
| 502 | Alabama Passing Law to Make False Rape Accusations a CrimeFunny how, when it comes down to speaking about false rape accusation, the subject get derailed and then we start hearing a woman speaking about how she was raped. Sad thing yeah, but that's not the subject. Why not hear instead from someone who suffered from false accusation? It's not like they are hard to find! | /r/MensRights | 24/05/19 07:08 AM |
| 2 | Alabama Passing Law to Make False Rape Accusations a CrimeSo women should be allowed to not be held accountable for their actions ? (I'm assuming that's what you believe, forgive me if I'm wrong) Currently where abortion is allowed, it is usually : her body, her choice ; her choice, his responsibility (because holding women accountable for their own choice is pure and simple oppression) What I would live to have : Her body, her choice ; her choice, her responsibility. What happens when abortion is outlawed : her body, not her choice ; not her choice, t… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/05/19 07:04 AM |
| 5 | Exactly what they asked for.So you're saying the situation in which woman has all the choice and man none of the choice is more equal than the situation in which neither man nor woman has any choice? Hmm...Indeed, it will be hard for us to agree with. Pregnancy is short lived but parenthood is 'eternal'. The short time of pregnancy will never be equal to a whole life of forced parenthood in my opinion, especially when you consider women have far more option than men to prevent pregnancy (don't forget that forced parenthood… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/19 10:47 PM |
| 4 | Exactly what they asked for.Hey, I agree bodily autonomy is important...but so is financial autonomy or any kind of autonomy. To begin with, imo, the main point of pregnancy isn't a problem of bodily autonomy : it's a problem of parenthood. Compared to the problem of forced parenthood, the problem of bodily autonomy seems small in comparison in the context of pregnancy (a child will literally change your whole life permanently). Now, if pregnancy occurs, both side are forced to become parent. Maybe now everyone will unders… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/19 10:25 PM |
| 13 | Exactly what they asked for.Obviously, by abortion, I mean 'giving up any responsibility towards the child'. For a woman, it means biological abortion. For man, it means 'legal' abortion (or however you are supposed to say it in proper english). Let's say a pregnancy (unwanted by one of the parents) occurs. Before, only women could decide to give up on the child. Now, neither man nor woman can decide to totally give up responsibility. Am I getting something wrong here? | /r/MensRights | 22/05/19 09:53 PM |
| 9 | Exactly what they asked for. Men's issues are never discussed until they spill over and start effecting women. As sad as it is, it's the current situation. In states like Alabama, men and women are now roughly equal in terms of abortion (though let's be honest : women still have much more option to prevent pregnancy). Yes, everyone is down, but equal. And now we (or at least I) hope that it will create a ripple effect of changes which will benefit everyone. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/19 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Male genital mutilation...And women can still cum after FGM (it's just harder, like with MGM as far as I know) so I'm not sure what's your point. Also, hygiene reason has always been pretty weird to me : it's not hard to clean your penis. But first, take a look at this : https://aeon.co/essays/are-male-and-female-circumcision-morally-equivalent More generally, if you take the time to look around the internet, you will find interesting things : There are big organisation like WHO who says that MGM has some health benef… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/19 06:29 PM |
| 22 | Apparently women DESERVE shorter prison sentences than menPlease ! Are you actually suggesting we should put women in jail? https://www.washingtonpost.com/posteverything/wp/2014/11/06/we-should-stop-putting-women-in-jail-for-anything/?utm_term=.447c9669e0e9 | /r/MensRights | 22/05/19 01:58 PM |
| 5 | Another idiot who pretends that only men judge women and that women who judge other women don't existOh I feel you. While I wasn't raised by a single mother, my family had a lot of women and...omg. Best example is my grandfather and grandmother. Grandpa be like "do whatever you want. It's your life, you are adults. I'm not gonna judge you.". Grandma be like "Did you hear ? She did this, that and this! She is so irresponsible!" etc. Actually, you can't do anything in the family without the woman group making a fuss about it and talking badly about you. PS : not saying all women were like that...… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/19 11:00 AM |
| 5 | Male genital mutilationOut of curiosity, what is your view on FGM? If a parent decided to practice it on his/her baby girl, is it okay for you? Keep in mind it's not about legality. It's about morality. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/19 10:52 AM |
| 3 | Male genital mutilationReplace male by female and you have the same thing (reminder : there are jews and islam groups who are for FGM, and that's after one century of cracking down on FGM and a few branches of religion suddenly saying "huh, actually, let's change our views on FGM..."). If we could see the atrocity that is FGM, surely we can see the atrocity that is MGM (by the way, FGM and MGM are equivalent : https://aeon.co/essays/are-male-and-female-circumcision-morally-equivalent ) Fun fact : if you google why FGM… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/19 10:45 AM |
| 11 | Male genital mutilationGood job. Also, if the father was cut too, then it's not surprising he wanted to cut his son. It's a self-defense mechanism. The moment he recognizes circumcision is one of the worst things he can do to his child is the moment he realizes his parents did that to him. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/19 08:11 AM |
| 3 | I've just come across this "deep" picture on Facebook...The funny thing is when you ask a feminist a single male privilege, they tell you "oh, well, huh, sexual harassment? rape culture? wage gap?", all of them are either not male privilege or totally false. Of course, that's when they give you an actual answer. | /r/MensRights | 21/05/19 06:38 AM |
| 1 | A feminist meets two men’s rights activists - can we be friends?To be honest, I'm not sure which exact point we disagree on. Maybe it's about the definition of toxic masculinity/feminity ? Those notion don't really exist where I live so my idea of them have been created from online dictionnaries, articles as well as online forums. My definition is something along the likes "a subset of masculinity/feminity that is considered harmful to oneself and others" If TM referred to inborn traits then there would not have been so much point in discusssing it, and any … | /r/MensRights | 20/05/19 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Abortion problem doesn't really mean inequalityWho exactly are you speaking to ? Abortion is really pro-life vs pro-choice. Men's rights have no united view on the matter, though a lot more people seems pro-choice. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/19 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Apparently my opinion is invalid because I frequent here. Was downvoted simply for asking what’s wrong with this sub with no response. What a joke.Here's what I would answer : Let me get it right. I said something you didn't like but since it was the truth you couldn't find anything to refute it. Thus, you went through my profile to look for any reason you think would be valid to discriminate against me? What a bigot. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/19 06:13 AM |
| 8 | This is an actual petition on change.org. I have no words.It's not exactly reversible though. Most credible source will tell you that, while potentially reversible, they are meant to be permanent. You know what is cheap (in most cases), easy and reversible though? IUD and birth control implant. Alone, they are said to be 99% effective (more precisely, only one out of 100 women a year will get pregnant when using one of these methods). You can also have fun and use the two at the same time since they don't conflict. Maybe women should be forced to do th… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | An apology from a feministIf you have time, you can read this list : https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/9v6tqj/a_list_about_feminism_misandry_for_anyone_who/ Now, I definitely agree it is a very biased list against feminism. On the other hand, it gives a good other view compared to the very biased look of feminism history you usually learn in school or in media. Feminism's history is definitely not as cute, holy and brave as most people believe. And I'm not speaking about modern feminism : I'm speaking about fi… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/19 04:51 PM |
| 6 | A feminist meets two men’s rights activists - can we be friends?That was disappointing to hear as a good portion of the talk had focused on how toxic masculinity harms men Let me read it again. So she is saying that most of the talk was about being sexist towards men (regardless of whether it was benevolent or hostile sexism) and she is disappointed the men didn't like it? Wow I mean, when you use terms like toxic masculinity/toxic feminity, you are being sexist by definition, since you assuming that one gender has inborn toxic trait. There are a lot of awfu… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Do men really get paid more?Here's one thing that isn't talked much about in regards to the hotly debated STEM field, especially the E part. Generally, you will easliy find that women are underpaid in the engineer field. What they don't tell you is that female engineer are paid more than their male counterpart at graduation ( https://www.whimn.com.au/talk/news/women-are-now-earning-more-than-men-in-this-industry/news-story/d722bb16a2e0ed7d9aa4cf5b42fdc834 which links to a survey). Put another way : women earn more at gradu… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/19 09:02 AM |
| 6 | I wonder why most people think the husband is the asshole in this AITA post.We lack info on this post for really saying anything. In my opinion there are three answers possible to the post : If it's the first time she calls him like that, then he should have done something. Get more information on why she is calling you - maybe she has a good reason. Maybe something really went wrong and she needs your help at this point (yeah a lot of maybe, but if a person who usually looks after herself suddenly calls for help, I have to wonder why) If it's not the first time and he … | /r/MensRights | 19/05/19 08:28 AM |
| 1 | When a man has a child he doesn’t want, he’s told “too bad, you knew the potential consequences when you had sex”. Why can’t we use this same argument for women?Warning : block of text incoming ! The conclusion is near the end starting in bold. Technically, I would say there is a four situations resulting in pregnancy : Both the man and woman wanted a child Neither the man nor woman wanted a child The man wants a child, the woman doesn't The woman wants a child, the man doesn't PS : I'm excluding rape from the equation since it isn't fair for anyone...but I also feel like adding this article : http://trauma.blog.yorku.ca/2018/05/when-male-rape-victims-a… | /r/MensRights | 18/05/19 08:53 AM |
| 3 | The Problem With Modern Day Feminism (and how it affects men)If you're interested in some history on feminism, you can start by that list : https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/9v6tqj/a_list_about_feminism_misandry_for_anyone_who/ While this list is definitely biased against feminism, the history taught in school is 100% biased towards feminism so it's a great way to see the other side of the fence. Also keep in mind two things about feminism : A core belief of feminism is that women are systemetically oppressed, man privilege and so on. Feminism … | /r/MensRights | 17/05/19 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Court told woman made fake rape complaint to get ex 'in trouble'A long of things nowadays aren't bad by themselves but basically just beg to be exploited. When someone has great power without any (or at least not enough) responsibility, the power will be abused. It's actually the most basic requirement for tyranny. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/19 09:25 AM |
| 6 | We kind of suckTo be fair, how is forbidding female genital mutilation not both anti-semitic (more precisely, anti ethiopian jews) and anti-islamic (more precisely, anti-shafi'i which is one of the main branches of islam). A lot of religious things were forbidden throught the ages. Why not add male circumcision to the list. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/19 09:18 AM |
| 929 | After being asked if sexism against men would be included in Mastodon's latest efforts to stem bigotry, @MastodonProject writes, "Of course not. Get your head out of your ass."So sexism and racism only apply when it's against minorities, if I understand right? Oups, men are in the minority in America and Europe. Does it mean sexism against women doesn't exist there and it's only prejudice? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/19 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Debunking some divisive myths that can create tensions between the gendersI don't know of a country in this world with true universal suffrage. In France, there is no military service. There is only a 'citizen day' which is an obligation for everyone, in which you get some basic test (like do you know French correctly enough) as well as some 'lessons' on the rights and duties of a citizen, finished by a small lesson on first aid (what do you do if someone collapse on the street for example). | /r/MensRights | 16/05/19 10:19 AM |
| 3 | If feminism really is about equal rights and equal treatment, why do they never mention fragile femininity, female privileges, woman-spreading, and basically the female version of everything they use to point out the negative traits in men?It is difficult to get a (wo)man to understand something when her privilege relies on not understanding it. As a general rule, feminism does two things : make it look like every problem human faces are actually problem only women faces make it look like every problem caused by humans are actually problem only caused by men Thus, women are heavenly and men are demons, since women are everything there is good in humans and men are everything there is bad. (oh, and there is the third thing feminism… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/19 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Grammar is importantThat's a new version of feminism I didn't know of. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/19 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Why feminism will not be the movement to address men's issuesI mostly agree with you but would like to add two things : I feel like you're using the word incel...wrongly? Well, the term is used wrongly everywhere by many people. Let's just remember that the word incel is originally used to describe a lonely person (be it a man or a woman) who failed at romance for some reason. It's not about being misogynistic, though it can eventually led to that. The "definitely good ones who simply fail at relationships and eventually just give up and do their own thin… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/19 10:12 PM |
| 2 | My main reason to hate men is because they watch porn.So you're basically saying anyone who has sex is...wrong or whatever you're trying to say? Oh my. You still don't know how babies are made? To begin with you are mixing up porn or sex way too much. Either talk about porn or talk about sex. But you can't speak about both of them at the same time and putting them at the same level. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Do male misogynists - actually - exist?Misogyny is not only about disgust though. I would say that the "levels" of misogyny are contempt < hatred < disgust. Probably very few men are disgusted by women. But already far more have at least resentful feelings towards them. And I fear there are more men that we would like to believe who bear contempt towards women, even if only unconsciously. ....Of course, replace men by women and women by men in my previous statements and we have the exact same problem. It's just a fact that some peopl… | /r/MensRights | 14/05/19 11:33 AM |
| 3 | a little bit of double standardsIn my opinion, it is how it should be done to be fair for everyone : If pregnancy is found, the woman can decide to keep it or not keep it. At the same time, the man can decide to be the father or not Relatively fast (maybe before 4th month of pregnancy) the man and woman must be before some official in order to give their choice. It's important it's at the same time. Of course, if the woman wants to abort, the man can't decide to be the father of the child. If the woman wanted to keep the child… | /r/MensRights | 14/05/19 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Feminist screams “You Rapist!” at Jet Blue employee when she misses her flightI don't know if she is a feminist, but I think she might have taken the feminist stance of 'basically everything you don't like is rape' a bit too litterally. Feminism has always been a very hard movement to understand even for logical, resonable person. For people who are already mentally unstable, the confusing views must break their minds. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/19 11:07 AM |
| 3 | When searching for this sub, I can across another called r/AgainstMensRights . They say some horrible stuff about men and this sub in particular. It really pisses me off that feminism, a movement for equality across all genders, doesn’t allow men to have rights.Reddit is welcome to everyone, for better and for worse. I browsed through this reddit and it's kinda funny. I mean, they say they are directly against this MensRights sub, but most of their quotes aren't from this sub. And when they are, they are very careful to remove any kind of context, instead of simply linking to the page for the full version. Well, this sub is pretty much dead though. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/19 08:59 AM |
| 10 | "you need to affect men's rights before they take yours"The one question that feminist constantly fail to answer. Facing this question, a variety of things can happens : if you're on a feminist place/sub/whatever, you can be banned or excluded you may be simply and purely ignored you may get an angry answer calling you woman hater you may get a seemingly reasonable answer explaining you in length how bad women supposedly have it, but in the end failing to single out a single right men have over women you may get an actual answer with an actual right … | /r/MensRights | 12/05/19 02:47 PM |
| 6 | How is being against male genital mutilation anti religion?In all seriousness, good luck explaining how your anti-female genital mutilation compaign is not both anti-semitic (more precisely, anti ethiopian jews) and anti-islamic (more precisely, anti-shafi'i which is one of the main branches of islam). Oh, and let's not even speak about other things like polygamy, stoning people to death and others! What an awful society we live in today, to forbide us to do whatever we want in the name of religion! PS : I'm 100% against genital mutilation. Also, if I m… | /r/MensRights | 11/05/19 01:33 PM |
| 4 | Danish women prefer wolf-whistles to feminism: Study shows Scandinavian nation is one of the least feminist in the world. OP: Right next door to a feminist vipers nest, Sweden.In 2014, a study conducted by the Fundamental Rights Agency, found that 47 per cent of Danish women had suffered violence since the age of 15. Hmm...Well. What is "violence" supposed to mean? Honestly though, most men suffered some form of violence since the age of 15. I don't have stats for it, but looking around me is enough to see it. My point here is "it's not a woman's problem but a human's problem". Feminism's biggest flaw is constantly making humans's problems into women's problem. Denmar… | /r/MensRights | 10/05/19 10:24 PM |
| 46 | How many false accusations ruined how many innocent men's lives, when women didn't go and confess they lied? Probably 500 times more than when they confessed they liedLess than 5% of supposed rapist get convicted, so does that mean that over 95 % of rape accusation are false? Probably not. The reverse : because only 2 - 3 % of rape accusation are proved false, it doesn't mean over 98 % of them are true. All it shows is that over 90% of rape are unresolved and that it remains a grey area. The fact that regret rape (among others) have become a thing doesn't help at all in that matter. Nowadays, girl are educated to see sexual harassment and rape everywhere. In … | /r/MensRights | 08/05/19 03:56 PM |
| 9 | A MOTHER’S PLEA: CIRCUMCISION GONE WRONG Stacie Willis contends she was never told a vital piece of information after the bloody procedure--that part of her 18-day-old baby boy's privates had been cut off. My first thought was : "well, isn't that the goal of circumcision?", then I read the article and understood what was meant here. All in all, I feel bad for the child. But I can't feel anything (albeit slight disgust maybe) for any parent that would have their child go through circumcision (of course, unless there is some medical re… | /r/MensRights | 08/05/19 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Feminists attempt to femsplain why men lying about birth control are rapists while women who lie about birth control are just exercising bodily autonomy and have done nothing wrongYes, it's actually crazy how much is censored in the feminism sub. And in the rare case when something very reasonable isn't banned/removed, it is simply ignored. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/19 09:40 PM |
| 21 | High School Girls Admitted to Making False Sexual Assault Accusations Against a Male Student Because They 'Just Don't Like Him'In regards to your last sentence, didn't you know about this article ... https://www.washingtonpost.com/posteverything/wp/2014/11/06/we-should-stop-putting-women-in-jail-for-anything/?utm_term=.b104b585788a | /r/MensRights | 05/05/19 02:47 PM |
| 13 | Feminists want to mutitlate men's brains, according to this tweet.That's the main reason why it's hard to take even the feminists who cares about mens' rights. If you ask them an example of man privilege/woman descrimination in the US, the only thing they'll tell you that isn't easily debunked in a few google searches is 'Sexual harassment'. And the reason we can't debunk it is because there is no real stats for it, so we can only #BelieveHer . | /r/MensRights | 30/04/19 05:42 AM |
| 29 | “But by other men” used to dismiss and belittle male victims, like what does the gender of their perpetrators have to do with whether or not they matterThe argument for draft is the usual weird argument 'X law/system may look misandrist at first glance but it's because men look down on women so it's misogynistic'. Hell no. For the draft, women basically fought for the right not to be drafted (as far as I know). And they only accepted vote right when they knew they wouldn't be drafted for it (once again, as far as I know). For the rape issue : without stats it's hard to argue against. But 51% is the majority too, I guess. And the jail argument i… | /r/MensRights | 30/04/19 05:36 AM |
| 7 | Help this guy Get His Physics Laboratory BackI don't even feel like doing a sarcastic remark. Also, it seems I can't sign (locked based in IP localisation?) unfortunately. When it is said that education is dominated by feminism, it really is no joke. EDIT : somehow it works now, signed. | /r/MensRights | 29/04/19 03:48 PM |
| 33 | The misandry is strong with the girls who posted this to their IG storiesIt's so dumb I lack words. I am not angry, shocked or whatever. Just surprised at the lack of argument to such a bold hypothesis. ...Oh, wait. 'USED TO teach human evolution'. At least there is still some logic in this world. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/19 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Only men can commit rape? Messed up on so many levels...I think the line 'Women cannot commit rape' is even better. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/19 03:44 PM |
| 7 | My wife wants our son circumcised.I don't know how useful it can be, but... https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-47292307(horror story on circumcision) https://www.doctorsopposingcircumcision.org/for-parents/reasons-to-keep-your-son-whole/(self-explanatory) http://www.cirp.org/library/death/ (some talk about circumcision death) And now some less serious ones, but still... https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/azozpm/a_doctors_opinion_on_infant_circumcision/ https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/bafb79/please_no_hate… | /r/MensRights | 27/04/19 07:53 AM |
| 19 | Taking a look back: see how feminists reacted when "The Myth of Male Power" was published"It would be hard to find a single example in history where a group with more than 50% of the vote got away with calling itself oppressed," This. And when you add all the male brainwashed feminists, you probably get closer to 70% if not more. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/19 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Banned in less than a minute at /r/feminismMy thoughts on feminists communities depends on my mood. Most of the time, I try to look at it as some kind of big joke and laugh a lot. But sometimes I almost feel like crying. And sometimes I see almost reasonable posts / article / whatever, and I think that probably they aren't all crazy. ...Of course I'm exaggerating. Somewhat. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/19 08:03 PM |
| 294 | Handsome Her have responded to being shut down. Literally promoting that they are man-haters, and that's fine by todays standards apparently.I mean, she is right about one thing : sexism is really toxic. Also, I don't think using the men who went to the cafe is a good indicator to see if men loved the place or not. To begin with, any decent man wouldn't enter in a place which clearly said 'For women' (the sign outside the cafe say 'by women for women'), just like you don't enter into a female restroom. /s | /r/MensRights | 25/04/19 10:42 AM |
| 14 | Rape is rape... except when it's not? My comment had ~30 upvotes until the Feminist Censor Brigade attacked the thread.There is a word for that : marital rape. It is considered a form of domestical violence and sexual abuse. Consent can sometimes be unclear. But when you clearly say it 'no, I don't want to have sex while I sleep', I think there is little doubt on the matter. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/19 09:29 PM |
| 2 | In America, men and women are nearly equal through a masculine lens. But through a feminine lens, men have become severely unequal.I kinda worded it wrongly. I didn't want to say that 'local' problems aren't important. To put it in a much more straightforward way : just because misogynists exists doesn't mean women are oppressed. It would be oppression if, let's say, sexual harassment was socially acceptable. Thus my point of 'yeah, women still suffer, but not exactly from oppression'. I think the difference matters because 'local' problems are simply because there are awful people you will never agree with...nothing new. T… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/19 06:54 PM |
| 3 | In America, men and women are nearly equal through a masculine lens. But through a feminine lens, men have become severely unequal.Should I say 'welcome to the club' ? I will just add a few things (I don't have much time unfortunately, might edit later to add more). First...yeah, maybe woman still suffers somewhat. More sexual harassment are reported and 'small' things like that. I say 'small' because ultimately those are 'local' problems. Just like I'm not going to use the fact that the victims of violence are mostly men to justify oppression of men, sexual harassment isn't a very good point to prove oppression of women. E… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/19 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Male rape in the Harry Potter books and the bias against the male rape victimI think what we said was a bit different, though I don't know why exactly I was upvoted while you were downvoted. The difference was that I said Harry Potter had lots of other problems to begin with, so focusing on this one is petty ; you said something like Harry Potter is a fictionnal story, so focusing on men discrimination in it is petty. We reach the same conclusion but the reason given is different. Unless I misunderstand your post and you really phrased it wrongly. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/19 05:28 AM |
| 18 | Male rape in the Harry Potter books and the bias against the male rape victimHarry potter is a can of worms and you shouldn't even try to read too much into it. Even if you only focus on 'equality issues'...well, wizard are big racists overall (slytherin only are worse than most) and they regularly practice slavery. Here, it's actually not really important that the woman was the rapist and the man was the victim. No, what matters is that the woman was the wizard and the man was a muggle. From a wizard's perspective, a muggle is an inferior specy and doesn't deserve compa… | /r/MensRights | 23/04/19 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Ten Rape Prevention TipsThis thing is funny really. No idea which madperson (the non-sexist version of madman) wrote this, but it's funny. I'm just hoping he/she wrote it as a joke. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/19 05:03 PM |
| 8 | Women are not opressed, we areYou aren't wrong. However, I think the idea is 'unlike what feminism preach...'. For example, they say women are the ones suffering the most violence. Women are also supposedly the ones having it worse, which is why they are more likely to commit suicide and need a lot of help in that regards. Let's not forget about court, in which women are constantly oppressed and white man privilege. Let's not even speak about domestic violence in which women are regularly beaten. Oh, and let's fight for gend… | /r/MensRights | 22/04/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | My Tumblr blog post about feminist hypocrisy concerning rape culture.I agree with you on that point. To elaborate, while the feminist's stance that says 'all rape accusation (if the perpetrator is a man) are necessarily right' is bad, the opposing one which says 'all rape accusation (if the victim is a woman) are necessarily wrong' is hardly better. Of course, no one will say it like that, instead saying things like 'women can't be trusted' or 'women are all liars' or 'women always use rape as an excuse'. That's one of the reasons MRA aren't taken seriously by th… | /r/MensRights | 20/04/19 08:12 AM |
| 4 | Banned from r/feminism for facts. A whole new level of toxic. Message to mods in the commentsI didn't realize at first, but the mod actually said something this outrageous in public?! Wow. Things are much worse than I thought. At this point, r/feminism is basically some kind of religious sect. Out of curiosity, do you know of an actual place where it's possible to talk with feminists? The ones who actually care about women and men alike, can actually hold an argument, and are worth discussing with? | /r/MensRights | 18/04/19 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Any thoughts? I left my opinion there in case you want to know my thoughts.I guess that when taken in this context, it really makes a lot of sense. What your coworker do is awful, but I wouldn't call him a feminist (self-proclaimed maybe, but that's about it). Then again, I think the very concept of 'male feminist' is pretty weird. I'm not saying they don't exist, just that a lot of them say that either because they mistakenly believe feminism = equality or that they think calling themselves feminist will make the woman next to them happy. If anything, it feels like yo… | /r/MensRights | 17/04/19 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Women’s parking spaces are a thing, and they’re much better than regular parking spaces.Yes, but from what I've understood, it is only allowed in private parking areas? Though I guess when I read it fully, I also see " The garage regulation of Brandenburg stipulates that at least 30% of spaces must be for women". I guess I have a hard time imagining it since I've yet to ever see such a parking spot in germany even though I go there frequently enough. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/19 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Women’s parking spaces are a thing, and they’re much better than regular parking spaces.This is but another proof of male privilege! /s More seriously, it's kinda interesting that it's only really a thing in countries like chiana and south korea. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/19 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Any thoughts? I left my opinion there in case you want to know my thoughts.I found this in one of the comments to the post and, while I agree it's taken out of context, it's still funny : "I love male feminists. Y’all are important, and we need you desperately. But what we need most is for you guys to just fucking listen to us." | /r/MensRights | 17/04/19 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Do we have statistical evidence debunking the feminist assertion that "men are more privileged than women"? Just curious.Thanks for sharing this good and pretty complete study. Here is what I have in my recent history : https://link.springer.com/epdf/10.1007/s11199-018-0949-x https://ideas.repec.org/p/hhs/nhheco/2019_006.html https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-asymmetric-brain/201904/why-men-die-younger-women https://assets.documentcloud.org/documents/3914586/Googles-Ideological-Echo-Chamber.pdf(the poor guy suffered for saying that though) I think it would be good if there was a place where those things … | /r/MensRights | 15/04/19 11:47 AM |
| 41 | Men who collect child support should be fired.Sometimes I can't help but pity those people. It must be hard to walk through life with such a low ability to reason and such a narrow-minded view of the world. Those poor people must be triggered to death by everything they see or hear and say ridiculous things all day long, making a fool of themselves. Worse, they are a danger to society because they can make others believe it's okay to be like that. I say, help them and just send them to a mental asylum or something. They don't need social ne… | /r/MensRights | 11/04/19 07:11 AM |
| 6 | Feminists want special privileges, not equalityThis article raises a few interesting point. The first is that the belief there is no hierarchy between sexes (ie, gender equality) is a misconception. I must have misunderstood this passage (probably meant 'gender aren't yet equal' instead of the 'gender shouldn't be treated as equal' that I read). The second is that, when women are believed to be victims and protected, it doesn't benefit them. No further explanation is given. The third is that it's wrong to consider the existence of 'reverse s… | /r/MensRights | 08/04/19 10:17 AM |
| 3 | How to shut down a wage-gap claim.At this point, it is simply a problem of the rational vs the unrational. It's a bit like when my father and I debate on economic and social issues...He gives me his 'feelings', his 'impression', and I give him numbers, which he generally doesn't like and instead tells me 'Listen son, I know for a fact that...' with a loud voice to make a point. Unfortunately, I've yet to find a way to convince the unrational, since by definition they refuse to hear any logical and well-founded argument and inste… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/19 09:32 PM |
| 2 | No where does the article state why tech companies have a gender pay gap (hint: males at tech companies aren't working in HR). Also, article is tagged as "sexism".I can totally understand that, and the fact that females in tech are in general nice enough (ie, don't play the woman's card too much) makes this 'necessary sexism' much more bearable from my perspective, especially when I think that it definitely musn't be easy to be so few (three women in a group of 28 is quite rough). It's just funny (or sad, or whatever) reading articles speaking about women in tech when they clearly don't understand the real issue : the fact that there aren't enough women i… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/19 07:39 PM |
| 2 | No where does the article state why tech companies have a gender pay gap (hint: males at tech companies aren't working in HR). Also, article is tagged as "sexism".It's always funny for me when they speak about women being oppressed in tech companies... I don't know about others countries, but at least in France women are almost 'worshipped' in tech field, because they are so rare (around 15%). Being a women is a serious advantage in the job market to the point where, if the name didn't already give the gender away, it would have been added somewhere in bold in the CV. To loosely quote a female graduate from my school, 'Recruiter rarely fail to mention tha… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/19 06:20 PM |
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