Zempshir Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	What miss ratio would you guys say is normal to expect even if you’re attractive and charismatic?	Conversation	Zempshir	/r/seduction	01/03/26 08:12 AM
1	What’s the best method you guys have found for “incremental exposure”?	Inner Game	Zempshir	/r/seduction	12/03/26 10:59 PM

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2	Did Moving to a Big City Improve Your Dating and Social Life? It’s definitely going to increase the number of women you’re around and in contact with but all the other guys here acting like this is necessary are wrong. We live in an era where being in a high density area is less important than it has ever been; become a high value man through introspection, release work, and general self improvement, then play the quality over quantity game, and have a good dating profile with high quality pics and you’ll do fine. Btw don’t outsource any of this shit. “NOW…	/r/seduction	20/04/26 04:44 AM
6	How am I supposed to hook up on first dates if none of us have our own place? This is too much lol. At most you should just try to make it sound as romantic and “our own little place” as possible; if you’ve actually reeled her in then she shouldn’t have a problem with going to a hotel. HOTEL specifically, motels feel like crackhead hangouts and more often than not they actually are.	/r/seduction	20/04/26 04:34 AM
1	I went out to a mall to cold approach women and ended up chickening out Go to Carter Weber’s youtube channel and watch literally any one of his videos from start to finish (like 30 minutes usually) and your entire outlook on women and dating will change drastically and you’ll be more optimistic than you’ve ever been about it. Trust bro, that guy has cracked the code.	/r/seduction	20/04/26 04:29 AM
1	Time to hit the gym It works in that avenue for some men much better than others, but I’d still say that we all need to learn genuine confidence through embracing the negative emotions that cause us to have insecurities and allow them to dissipate. We need to learn to be confident just because we’re human beings, rather than “proving it” to ourselves through behaviors.	/r/seduction	20/04/26 04:23 AM
1	Time to hit the gym Look into the technique of "Letting Go" by David R Hawkins man, you're just beating yourself up when you could achieve so much joy in your life through introspection.	/r/seduction	20/04/26 04:08 AM
1	Time to hit the gym As far as the general health benefits of gym, yes, but you're never going to get jacked doing that stuff. Outsourcing confidence to the gym is a losing strategy, and its not going to get you laid, and I generally think you should do whatever tf you want to do, but I will say that I think almost everyone who says "you don't need to lift weights" is just subconsciously coping because they're not doing it. By the way, it's "martial" arts, and I'd recommend that every guy try their hardest to hit …	/r/seduction	20/04/26 04:07 AM
1	Time to hit the gym I agree that every single man and their grandma absolutely should hit the gym and put in the work, I have been for 4+ years. However, after I got jacked, I realized that I still get zero bitches, and that it's a bad thing to base your self-worth and confidence in female attraction on. Everyone saying that it's about game is also wrong btw, replicating behaviors of men who've been more successful than you, trying to say the right things, act the right way, etc. is also a losing battle, and there'…	/r/seduction	20/04/26 04:01 AM
1	Time to hit the gym Every man absolutely should hit the gym; I've been going for 4+ years now and basically have a natty Spider Man build. However, basing your confidence (when it comes to female attraction) on gym is a losing strategy; it's being in the "having" and "doing" paradigm of confidence. "I'm confident that I can attract women because I have good-looking muscles and I've put in the work/discipline to show myself that I'm valuable." That shit never worked for me. What's actually "missing" is your sense of…	/r/seduction	20/04/26 03:52 AM
2	What miss ratio would you guys say is normal to expect even if you’re attractive and charismatic? I’m an attractive guy too, any time I’ve had women (and plenty of men) rate me, they all say I’m very attractive and I should have no problem. Had friends who said stuff like “if you can’t pull then I’m certainly fucked”. So looks obviously matter and they raise your ceiling of opportunity, but I’m a testament to the fact that you can look good and still not have the rest of the equation.	/r/seduction	01/03/26 08:11 PM