ZenState11 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Why is my girlfriend always reluctant in admitting I am good at something? I would agree with this. My current LTR gave me a comfort test around lifting recently. She wanted to know why it was important to me and who I was trying to impress. I told her that there are more reasons to lift than simply looking good but she's more than welcome to the view.	/r/askTRP	20/04/15 05:58 PM
1	She's being "honest and up front all round." Her hamster was already turning for him while you both were hooking up. Don't take offense but you provided a distraction from that at most. Timing was off.. sometimes there's nothing that can be done but to move on.	/r/askTRP	14/04/15 12:25 PM
9	Toxic Shame and Blue Pill behaviours This almost sounds like I could have written this post. I can relate all too well and Toxic Shame hit me pretty hard when reading NMMNG. From my narcissistic, absent parents during childhood to how I pedastalized women and poorly handled relationships for so long. I kept throwing unrealistic expectations (needy) of unconditional love on women only to have it thrown back into my face time after time. The definition of insanity. I'm an attractive man so I've always dated high SMV women who don't p…	/r/TheRedPill	11/03/15 04:27 PM
0	My girlfriend is perfect, except the fact that she used to be a huge slut. You could have approached that in a better way but I suppose you got your point across...	/r/askTRP	05/03/15 12:15 AM
2	Dealing with an insecure girl I feel like most TRP negative techniques are ment to get women off of their pedestal but this girl isn't on there to begin with. You sort of answered your question but allow me to reframe it a bit. I've found that the TRP mindset is generally only useful on women who have an inflated self-esteem due to constant male advances. You have to do things to get the hamster spinning with these types of women... helps you cut through the noise. My advice? She sounds damaged from rejection. Might wanna so…	/r/askTRP	04/03/15 11:14 PM
3	Maybe some of you guys can help me to sort this out There is nothing wrong about Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW). Focus on yourself and what you want but I would say to focus on things that bring value and happiness to your life. Join groups/clubs, learn new hobbies, read... If what you value doesn't include women, then so be it. Who knows, if you sort your shit you may just discover you want what you previously did not. People can change but only if they, themselves, want it.	/r/askTRP	03/03/15 09:55 PM
5	Excess sexual energy. Approach women. Get laid.	/r/askTRP	02/03/15 01:39 PM
1	I'm too damn cute. This. I am 36 but look roughly 28. The other piece of advice I can give is to own the fact that you look innocent. I can't even count how many times I've approached or fucked a woman to have them come at me proclaiming "I didn't expect THAT from you.." Gets their hamster turning...	/r/askTRP	02/03/15 01:27 PM
1	How do I win this girl over? You will always have competition. Always. A woman's nature is to date the best man they can get ensures that you will have competition. The good news is that men are competitive by nature. Funny coincidence? TRP is not a quick fix to be used towards a single female conquest. Go to the parent sub and read the Red Pill Antibiotic Nuke on the sidebar. Manipulation is the realm of the pick-up artist and women. TRP is philosophy about improving yourself and developing male physical and mental charact…	/r/askTRP	02/03/15 01:24 AM
0	What is your favorite movie that is filled with Red Pill principles? Roger Dodger	/r/askTRP	25/02/15 11:30 PM
6	Lurker on Red Pill with one main concern, please explain. The anger should be temporary. There are men here (myself included) that have lived their lives to societies/others standards instead of their own and are understanding that for the first time. Rejection from women is the symptom of the disease. TRP is truly about learning to be a man. Some take it too far, in my opinion, and become the antithesis of feminism. Personally, I seek deeper relationships with both men and women. Since I've applied TRP principles to my life I have become a more intere…	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/15 03:13 AM
4	Over a month into my journey. Lessons for those just starting out. (Warning: Long Read) Thanks for sharing. I started my journey 10 months ago but I had not yet discovered TRP. I thought I landed a unicorn and it turned out AWALT. Emotionally drained, I cut out all the negative influences in my life, read a lot of books on self-confidence and fell into the PUA community. It worked, for awhile... I spun 6 plates over the summer and had a blast. Then I met a woman and developed a case of oneitis like the good old days. Luckily, I discovered TRP and have been swallowing the pill for t…	/r/TheRedPill	10/02/15 02:23 AM
1	Advice on how to proceed Most women will only admit to sleeping with the LTR men in their lives. I've seen this time and time again from trickle truth in past relationships to watching my girl "friends" in action. Get used to dating women with higher partner counts - especially if you want to continue to date/plate the most attractive women that you can get. From my experience, most women in my age range have ridden the CC for at least a little while. Focusing on partner count isn't really that beneficial and is only on…	/r/askTRP	09/02/15 05:00 PM
2	I've been doing TRP for 6 months and have seen zero success. Starting to think it's all one big troll. I'm like you a bit. I'm 36, good paying job.. been playing the game for the past 6 years. About 12 months ago I decided to look for an LTR, which I'm currently establishing with a woman I met a couple months ago. I spent about 10 months of playing the game and weeding out the bullshit women. I bet you are getting in your own way with your pre-established expectations (LTR ASAP). Maybe they can sense your eagerness. If so it would kill any value you had with them right away. I would suggest you r…	/r/askTRP	29/01/15 04:03 PM
3	How to survive working with women This is it. Good reply. I empathized but never spoke ill of "Janet", to use the example. I just said stuff like "Sounds like you are having a bad day! Hope it improves for you." Jane and Janet's relationship is nothing I ever needed to involve myself with and I found that women respected me for not getting involved.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/15 04:53 PM
26	How to survive working with women This is truth. I was working as an analyst in a call center dominated by women. I was warned going in to watch what I said. I had no issues. I established a strong, no bullshit presence. I listened to their frustrations but never took sides.. I ended up with a raise in 3 months because their collective opinion of me was very high and those words made it to management. Their chattiness can be a positive as long as you control the relationship.	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/15 10:43 PM
1	How did you get destroyed emotionally before learning about TRP? Met a girl last year. Beautiful, sassy, fine ass. Quickly learned she was emotionally damaged from her recent divorce. That's ok, white knight to the rescue! She had serious self-esteem issues and needed constant reassurances on her beauty and emotional stresses. I fell for it. Within a month I basically lived with her and helped her care for her kids. The thing is, I'm 35 and I never wanted kids until that moment in my life. I felt complete and I settled into the relationship. I was manipulated…	/r/askTRP	13/01/15 05:04 AM
3	Anxiety issues + Vulnerability? Great advice and what you said rings truth to me. I also suffered from Generalized Anxiety and can relate. It seems so easy now... but spending time on myself was the key to overcoming my anxiety. I spent so much of my time "out of the moment" with other people.. instead, trapped in my own head full of anxious, negative thoughts. These thoughts are a waste of time. Once I started spending my mental time on improving myself, instead of worrying about situations that were out of my control anyway,…	/r/seduction	15/11/14 03:17 PM