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Can't come up with a good comeback? Solution: insult your opposition, and thus prove your intellectual incompetence even further! Brilliant! (BTW, I'm a mathematician by profession. I crunch numbers for a living, so I dare say I have a better grasp of statistics than you do.) Also, cool it off with the racism, Pajeet. I'm playing nice here, on a more lenient forum I'd have torn you a new behind seven ways from Sunday by now.
/r/seduction14/09/16 08:00 AM
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I dunno, man, but I assume they must be. And we both know that your opinion counts for zero when it comes to anything concerning getting women. You're not good at it yet, and you don't know anything about it. If you're online, a guy needs "social pictures" to demonstrate "social proof." A guy just needs "pictures" so the girls know what they're getting. In real life, from what I've been reading lately, a guy with Asperger's or any social issue is unlikely to be able to attract a woman by approac…
/r/seduction13/09/16 10:20 AM
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We have terrible media depictions that okcupid studies show makes us the least desirable race if women were asked. Yeah, you pessimistic folk love to go back to that one study, don't you? Meanwhile, real life, and not some perverted version of it in online dating, trudges on. Also, way to ignore my point. We have literally no incentive to hit on indian girls, because if we do an arranged marraige we will get someone hotter and they will GIVE US money in the form of a dowry, unlike American girls…
/r/seduction10/09/16 11:32 PM
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I don't think you understood my comment. It doesn't matter how long it's been around. Are friends necessary to attracting and fucking girls? No.
/r/seduction10/09/16 11:23 PM
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That's a nice bonus, much like having a rear-facing camera in a car helps when reversing. Is it necessary? No.
/r/seduction10/09/16 07:31 AM
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You made the claim, it is your responsibility to provide evidence, not mine to go looking for it. And no shit, men are taller than women on average. Tall women are a statistical rarity, and even the article you provided elaborates on that. Several times. And height rarely fucking matters once personality shines through. we have had absolute shit for parents That's the lamest excuse I've ever heard. Try harder. and literally NO role models. Try looking at Indian TV and films. Or even Indian actor…
/r/seduction10/09/16 07:29 AM
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Links, please? Otherwise, no dice. EDIT: Ohhh, you're Indian...what is it with you guys and inferiority complexes?
/r/seduction09/09/16 10:56 PM
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I suspect they downvoted it because the advice is wrong. Sure, friends are nice. Are they necessary to attracting and fucking girls? No, not really.
/r/seduction09/09/16 10:54 PM
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No, they don't matter for men much at all. You always have this vocal segment of "no, it totally does matter and everything else is hopeless" commenters trying to shill this mindset every now and then, though.
/r/seduction25/08/16 03:09 PM
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How can I stop ignoring the fact of my generalized all-around patheticness, when the concept of social darwinism is a real thing, as explained by another member of this sub: Well, at least you were honest enough to post the link this time. Social Darwinism is a theory. A very hotly-disputed theory, and that guy already has several people disagreeing with him. I already pointed this out to you, Aeon - why do you give a shit what a bunch of people on an Internet forum say, as opposed to going outs…
/r/seduction14/08/16 06:18 AM
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Want to know partly why I don't take initiative? I already know, I don't need you to spin some bullshit justification which we both know is just a flimsy cover for your actual psychological issues. From another post talking about confidence. I notice that in order to prevent me from tearing your delusions a new derriere, you avoided putting a link to the post. Really, Aeon? You think I won't find something on the very first fucking page of the subreddit? And of course he gets attention. Go work …
/r/seduction12/08/16 08:24 AM
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facepalm Dealing with your pervasive negativism is really, really annoying, Aeon. Then you are admitting that my suspicion is correct: the lack of status, lack of social connections, lack of achievements means I have no chance with women. Nope. Learn reading comprehension, Aeon. You have deep psychological issues which prevent you from even trying to talk to women; either push through them, or get them fixed. You can't even consistently tell us what you want - figure out what you want before ask…
/r/seduction10/08/16 08:25 AM
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I think approaching a girl is enough to declare interest? Women aren't naive. If that were enough, then guys wouldn't get put in the friendzone because they approached the girl but didn't have the balls to be upfront with their intentions. But hey, I already suspect you don't have a clue, so that answer didn't surprise me... Some of the work does have to be done by you guys too, you know that, right? Which is why you somehow skipped "asking a girl out" as something to be done by guys. I've just …
/r/seduction09/08/16 01:08 PM
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Yadda, yadda, yadda, approach girl, yadda, yadda, talk and listen to her, yadda, yadda, don't be sulky, yadda, yadda, ask her out. Actually, now that I re-read it, you completely forgot the last and the most important step, which is to make your interest known and ask her out. Other than that, what exactly have you said that seddit hasn't already mentioned?
/r/seduction09/08/16 12:54 PM
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Honestly, this seems less about the girls, and more about the guy himself. You hate him, and I'd say probably with some good reason since he sounds like a huge dickhead, though you don't exactly sound like an upstanding guy yourself. You're not really gonna calm down until you humiliate him, even if you score a perfect 10/10 but he doesn't care, you won't calm down, which leaves us two options: A) Get over it, calm down, and stop letting this guy rile you up. or B) Humiliate the shit out of this…
/r/seduction09/08/16 06:22 AM
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The LD I was talking about in that post are the "true" kind. A learning problem needs to be very high caliber to be diagnosed as an LD. That isn't me, but that fact doesn't mean I'm bright and it doesn't mean I have no learning issues. I do have some minor challenges that get in the way, just not at a diagnostic level. Then you have executive dysfunction which is the greatest of all my deficits, hopefully you're aware how problematic that can be for some with autism and/or ADD. I am perfectly aw…
/r/seduction09/08/16 06:06 AM
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Is there a reason you keep responding to this guy's post? This is the first time in a very long time I've responded to one of his posts. I actually told myself I wouldn't, but call me a masochist. Are you a coach? Nope. Or maybe his alter ego that has his own reddit account. Truth be told, I wouldn't be surprised if Aeon has another reddit account. But no. Would make an interesting movie if that was the case. LOL.
/r/seduction08/08/16 11:56 PM
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Well, hello there, Aeon. Still fishing for sympathy and counseling from online strangers I see? Did you bother putting into practice any of the things I suggested the last time we communicated on here? No? How disappointing, but yet unsurprising. You keep failing every bit of hope placed in you. Here I am in my mid-30s and still hoping I can get some stupid miracle to fall into my lap, from the internet.. posting stupid ads, for example, in r/VirginityExchange and only getting a total of 3 repli…
/r/seduction08/08/16 08:18 AM
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I know there are coincidencesome in life (like every time you look up and keep making contact with a stranger for some odd reason) That's not coincidence, that's subconscious body language. You pretend you don't want something consciously, but subconsciously, your body keeps giving away clues. Hell, this girl wasn't even subtle. You fucked up. It's OK, though, happened to me once on a train too. Just make sure it doesn't happen again.
/r/seduction06/08/16 01:43 AM
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Yeah, she might hate your personality, but if she thinks you are good looking, you can still 'game' her into bed. Otherwise, no. Disagree, seen it happen otherwise. Granted, it was only once (there was a second time I witnessed something like this during a work placement, but that one got messy before it got anywhere), but it was eye-opening. Actually, I'd definitely disagree. I know people who have ruined countless chances by behaving like a moron when girls are clearly interested in them. Usua…
/r/seduction29/07/16 08:32 AM
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That's not quite true. It is, in fact, possible to get a girl from being indifferent to you/hating your guts to being madly in love with you (a friend of mine from school, who was a remarkable seducer, said something like "the more they hate you, the harder they will fall for you later", which I thought was interesting even when I was totally clueless), but it requires a shitload of effort and work that, quite frankly, isn't worth it in the long run, unless you're a masochist or have a high tole…
/r/seduction29/07/16 01:55 AM
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That's the one thing I'm hopeful I can get out of this. Know that I can do this, raise my confidence when I go for sexier and sexier women because I know I've fucking done it now. I know I can attract them. She made me feel like a 10/10 myself, I'm going to do whatever I can to carry that shit over. That's the spirit. Though, you might have to fight some bad approach anxiety at the start talking to other hot girls assuming you didn't just hook up with her by approaching, but through a social cir…
/r/seduction14/07/16 01:20 AM
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This girl was, in my honest opinion (And many other friends agreed on 10/10) as close to perfect physically as I could be attracted to. I doubt it. I used to go out during my lonely virgin days, communicate with a really, REALLY attractive girl, and spend the rest of the week idolizing her physical perfection... ...right up until the week after, when I would run into a girl just as hot, if not more. And the cycle begins once more. Attractive girls are not a unicorn. Attractive girls with pleasan…
/r/seduction13/07/16 02:43 AM
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A wise duck hunter: "A duck is an animal whose greatest weakness is that it believes it is invincible." Not every hot girl makes my chub flub. There is always a hotter girl, and there's always a guy who doesn't like this girl's look.
/r/seduction11/07/16 10:26 AM
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I'll be completely honest. Just ask Aeon199, honesty is my specialty. But instead of talking hypothetical, let's talk action. Are you OK with sending me your picture? It is up to you.
/r/seduction06/07/16 11:32 AM
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Because no-one is so hideously ugly as to be unfuckable unless they are heavily deformed like Joseph Merrick, in which case you'd have bigger things to worry about than just complaining about not getting laid on an Internet forum, like being unable to function normally. Send me your picture via PM, if you wish, and we'll see how ugly you really are. I will not share it with anyone, nor tell anyone else details about it. The only thing I will tell is whether you really are hideously ugly, or whet…
/r/seduction06/07/16 11:05 AM
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sigh I did promise myself I wouldn't respond to you, but you commenting on my thread sorta was an exception, but just so you know, this is my last response, so don't bother replying after this one, use your mind and figure out what I meant. It's not hard, intelligence is like a muscle, it is built, not born. I'll just continue downvoting any bad posts of yours I see. Hey man, I wanted to give you a better response since you took your time to reply, but let me illustrate to you one of the serious…
/r/seduction03/07/16 03:19 AM
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shakes head Never change, Aeon199, you magnificently sad, mono-tropic, negative wreck of a man, you. (That was sarcasm, by the way. Please do change, if not for your sake, then for ours. There's only so much of your whining I can take.) Obviously you have a very social angle with this. Yep, you're mono-tropic, all right. I start off SPECIFICALLY stating that this is advice for guys who can't directly open girls, and need to rely upon situational openers (in your case, you should heed this advice…
/r/seduction29/06/16 08:40 AM
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You'd be surprised, but it helps. Job interviews are really more like personality interviews - the more bold, initiative-taking and inquisitive you seem, the better your chances. Granted, hold off on saying that the CEO is a shithead, even if you think he is.
/r/seduction28/06/16 11:53 PM
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Yeah, rereading the post, I could have been specific that you don't blurt out EVERYTHING that crosses your mind, just most of it. (Although you never know, "Wow, nice tits!" could work.) Most people possess the bare minimum of observational skills. It doesn't take a genius to notice that the sounds coming from her headphones sound suspiciously similar to that Jon Bon Jovi song your little sister has blaring in her room at 6 AM. This advice, like I noted at the top, is really more for those who a…
/r/seduction28/06/16 11:51 PM
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It's called being proactive and courageous. Warm day, lots of quality girls around, I had nothing to lose, little experience, lots of desire. So I went for it. And I got a pretty hot girlfriend out of it (the artist girl mentioned in the post). So, your point?
/r/seduction10/06/16 02:22 AM
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There are studies you can google that confirm people mate assortively. Attractive women will only sleep/date attractive or gorgeous men. They make an exception if the guy is rich. It usually goes like this. If you want casual sex its smart to go for women below your league. That is why attractive men many times when in need of a quick lay will go for women below their league as its easy for them. The last similar study I came across was from 2005. Since then I've come across about 20 quite convi…
/r/seduction29/05/16 10:26 AM
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Agreed with u/TheXXL. I know I promised not to do anything beyond downvote negative comments from you, but I figured you could use some encouragement when you're making progress. Baby steps, amigo, but good job nonetheless. Keep going, and in 5 years time you'll be sharing a jolly good laugh with us at some of the negative stuff you wrote before.
/r/seduction25/05/16 09:23 AM
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Happened to me just yesterday, I got pissed and said "I not an arab" and then almost instantly the mood changed and I got to dance and make out with her till her fat friend cockblocked me. Something doesn't add up. You say you're European, yet apparently these girls can mistake you for an Arab or even an African? And they clam up after hearing English? I've heard of tourists sometimes being too eager and inconsiderate of personal boundaries, but outright sexual assault like that is sure to get t…
/r/seduction22/05/16 11:11 AM
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That actually sounds like a pretty smart way to go, especially for guys who still have approach anxiety around girls.
/r/seduction22/05/16 10:53 AM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction21/05/16 09:25 AM
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Take the damn job, dude. Seriously, it sounds awesome, you get to hang around and be social in a club WITHOUT having to pay for shit, and I assume the salary is pretty good. And if it's the #1 club...well shit, mate, that's a hell of an opportunity. The sheer volume of hot girls will probably be through the roof, and as a bar manager, you'll automatically get cool points. Still, I always wondered, do you have to know how to mix a martini to get work as a barman, or do they teach you all that fli…
/r/seduction18/05/16 06:34 AM
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Henry Kissinger. Hypothesis disproved. Got anything else? Also, you meant "curvy", right?
/r/seduction16/05/16 09:37 AM
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Step 1: Pick a relatively quiet, uncluttered spot. Step 2: Pick a spot on the wall or a small object to focus on. Step 3: Don't think about anything, and do not focus on anything except that spot. Try to drown out all noise. Step 4: Keep like that for 4-5 minutes. Step 5: Repeat until success. And then beyond. Good luck. I have trouble concentrating beyond 2-3 minutes, or sometimes even 1 minute, but it still helps.
/r/seduction16/05/16 09:25 AM
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I know what you mean, but please do not confuse venting with trolling. Venting won't help you, it is counter-productive and wastes time. Try to get rid of it, or better yet, do what I mentioned, and take the advice given to you, and GET OFF REDDIT, IT'S ONLY WASTING YOUR TIME. It's easy for some guys to fall into resentment when they know they can't be a mainstream animal.. and most of the advice given is mainstream advice, with mainstream assumptions. What "mainstream"? You are human are you no…
/r/seduction14/05/16 07:18 AM
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all of which are out of reach for most men with developmental issues. This is the crux of the issue, isn't it? You and I both know that's pure horseshit - especially since you appear to have a self-admitted gift for drawing and are getting exercise. Your problem is not some self-perceived "impossibility"...it is laziness. You don't want to go out of your comfort zone, and like it or not, that's how you get women. Those "losers" you mentioned getting laid...they had to grow a pair and be bold eno…
/r/seduction14/05/16 04:25 AM
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The frustration is based on the standards they have, and feeling I'm just left out, no matter what. It does make a person bitter over time. What standards? You think every woman won't settle for anything less than a 6 ft. tall Olympic athlete with a PhD in Nanotechnology and a vast social circle? I mean, it'd be nice, but it'd also be nice for me to date a drop-dead gorgeous vixen who is also a super-rich heiress and is amazing at sex, and that doesn't stop me from finding women that fall short …
/r/seduction13/05/16 04:04 AM
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Nothing to do with the sub, I think you just touched a nerve with Amplifyre.
/r/seduction10/05/16 12:49 AM
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I kinda think losing it does improve your chances. In general, it seems like most women don't look well upon men who are still virgins, especially if they are beyond their teenage years. Conversely, most men are not really that fond of girls who have been the entire nation's bicycle, even if she is hot. I don't think it has anything to do with confidence, more like...desperation, maybe? Once you've slept with a girl, you've got it out of your system, and there's no longer that nagging voice, and…
/r/seduction10/05/16 12:00 AM
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The first thing I must say is those of you who seem to think I'm not the incredible loser I say I am, you are wrong. I mean, objectively, I'm a guy in his 30s who is still being supported, almost like a kid, no accomplishments, still a virgin, never been on a date, mildly autistic, not very bright. My prospects for anything are low, at least. And? 30 year old people can still achieve things, get girls, live a more comfortable life. You're clearly not stupid, despite how much you want to believe …
/r/seduction09/05/16 03:19 AM
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They give themselves enemas before they go out so that they can have anal sex with random guys if they want to. It's like, "I'm gonna have a few drinks and find a guy to fuck." You're just exaggerating for the lulz...right?
/r/seduction05/05/16 09:32 AM
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It's possibly the case. The interaction started well, but after I gave her more life details, she offered specific advice. I basically said if I took her advice, it would still not improve my chances with women.. later on, I went and basically complained about women having "impossible standards," well, and that's where it really got rough and it went completely downhill. So, not "possibly the case", but "almost definitely the case". Like I said before, people like positivism. If you're a close f…
/r/seduction03/05/16 09:27 AM
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After I shared more details about my life, though, it all changed and essentially she said "no one would want me, I have nothing to offer," and it got kinda nasty. I had told this girl before that I felt I was good looking because women (in real life and online) have given me compliments; this girl replied by saying "girls fake compliments all the time." So I was quite pessimistic after this conversation and could only think worse about women, and my odds in general. It's hard to understand what…
/r/seduction02/05/16 05:57 AM
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Hot girls won't bite, and girls are flattered when you approach them, most of the time, as explained in the sidebar. If she reacts in a bitchy manner, guess what? It doesn't make you look bad, it makes her look bad. Everyone else is going to look on and think "Holy crap, that girl has an attitude problem, poor guy was just trying to ask her out." It took me a while to internalize this, but if she's dressed in a way that is clearly designed to elicit boners, she's asking to be approached. General…
/r/seduction02/05/16 03:14 AM
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I was actually just about to go to sleep, but here's some stuff that worked for me before I go: 1) Asking questions is basically my solution to solving mental blocks. It's what I do when I get to a point where I can't continue with the current conversation thread because I can't think of anything, so I just switch the topic by asking either general stuff (do you play sports, what do you study, where do you work, what movies/games/TV shows do you like, etc) or something specific to the person (fo…
/r/seduction01/05/16 12:41 PM
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You know, I'm really starting to wonder - is there some kind of neurological mechanism whereas people with low self-esteem get some kind of dopamine hit from thinking that they're a loser piece of shit and getting constant affirmation of it? Because that's the only reason I can think of as to why all of these generally well-off dudes are whinging about how they can't be fucked talking to people because genetics or something, and keep flocking to r/foreveralone for circle-jerk pity fests. Repeat …
/r/seduction29/04/16 12:36 PM
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Oh, they do. I actually had this with an attractive female friend back in my oblivious idiot days. She did pretty much everything short of kissing me and blurting out that she wanted to jump my bones. Pity I was too stupid to ask her out and take her virginity. From a purely experimental perspective, the effect would have been multiplied tenfold after that.
/r/seduction28/04/16 04:12 AM
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Specially if you find the right type of friends. So, say, guys who get a lot of tail or know their way around women, as opposed to other awkward dudes? Because maybe I'm not thinking this through in the right way, but I would figure that having player friends would just end up with me fading into the background while they succeed with attractive girls, since I'm not at that level of social skill yet.
/r/seduction26/04/16 05:19 AM
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Not sure what to make of your comments, in total. You seem skeptical about sapiosexuals but then cite Game 101 as mentioning this fact also. I just think that "sapiosexual" is attaching a name to something that is part of the overall package. For example, intelligence is part of what attracts girls, plus other stuff that they find attractive, like an athletic figure. To me, it seems like attaching a name to a love of boobs on a woman...even though that generally is a part of what men like on wom…
/r/seduction26/04/16 05:09 AM
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sapiosexual Wait, people take that seriously? Isn't it basically a 2edgy4me Tumblr meme where teenage girls try to attach pretentious-sounding names to ordinary shit? Intelligence turns on girls...isn't that like Game 101, from what I've read? The whole point of bringing up the rape culture issue is that "more muscles" and a bigger frame might not be considered more comforting or attractive to some women. Which only adds to the inclination some girls may have against guys being more built. The p…
/r/seduction26/04/16 04:38 AM
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Go ahead and embrace your optimism blindly, then. I've tried that sometimes. Hasn't panned out for me. That's because you're not optimistic, you're a Debby downer, or however that phrase goes. You radiate pessimistic self-hatred and a desire to project that on anyone you perceive as also being a "loser" to make yourself feel better. And I'm saying this in the nicest way possible. I've known people like you, and they are completely oblivious to how good they've got it and focus only on the bad. Y…
/r/seduction25/04/16 01:37 PM
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I honestly don't know whether I fall into this or not. What I mean is, my self-confidence doesn't seem to be tied to girls (although I do feel inadequate somewhat or even sad when I see some couples, especially an average dude with a really attractive girl, but eh), but my sex drive won't let me have a moment of peace from wanting to do it. So unless I'm actively out there, or talking to a girl that I'd really like to, for lack of a better word, fuck with a chance of going somewhere, then my bra…
/r/seduction25/04/16 03:35 AM
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Thanks for this. I didn't know that bit about music - seems obvious now that I think about it, but nevertheless an eye-opener. I guess my biggest problem is just being social with people, but this inspired me to try again. Sure, I might crash and burn a few times, but hey, school has already humiliated me enough. You can only go up from 0, right?
/r/seduction25/04/16 01:22 AM
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Ah, it's you, the resident perpetual pessimist. I've seen your posts around here, and to be honest, most of them make me cringe. Fuck their advice, whether it's true or not.. you already know socializing is not your strong suit. That's been determined genetically. Word of advice: don't try to talk genetics with somebody who actually knows shit about genetics. Everyone is born with the same capacity for socialization. The way their decisions rewire their brains to be more or less sociable is thei…
/r/seduction24/04/16 05:59 AM
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Could you elaborate a bit more on the other issues? ...ah, wait, you mean that I don't have a job yet, right? Yeah, still searching.
/r/seduction24/04/16 04:29 AM
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Yeah, I suspected as much. Thanks for the honesty, though. I try to make friends, but as I said, I have some unfortunate social retardation, and I don't really know how to "escalate", for lack of a better word, to get to a point where I can meet someone again after the first time, since that's how you generally make friends. I'm kinda hoping that when I finally manage to score a job, I might be able to remedy that...but on the other hand, a job is, well, a job, and employees aren't there to soci…
/r/seduction24/04/16 04:10 AM
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