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Thank you for sharing this, At the same time that it brings me sadness to read about Bob and how he basically got screwed over, I'm happy to hear that he has such a good friend in you. I believe that we all strive for stability, certainty and however you want to name it in life. We strive for it so much that we sacrifice time and effort just to have financial stability, we sometimes do stuff for friends that we don't like just to feel the stability in a relationship and so on. I think that havin…
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/22 09:00 PM
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In your post you answer your own question. I know its an extremely tough pill to swallow as you still see the 'positive' in her, but know that everything that bothers you and her (especially her) will not magically go away. If you think that your mental health is more important than enduring constant fear of conflict, I'll have to congratulate on realizing it now than later.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/22 05:08 PM
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The problem with your statement is that freedom means nothing without a goal. We men are goal oriented, and it actually did make us happy to provide for someone/multiple people as long we get a little bit of appreciation for it. The problem is that most men can't find a goal outside having a partner so they end up in the vicious cycle of loneliness-dating-settling based of a lack of 'good' partners and therefore continuing it This world is a hard place for both singles and couples, each facing t…
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/21 09:29 PM
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Thanks for your reply, I read it all again. You are at a stage where I hope nobody will ever get. The point where you have to make arguably the hardest decision of your life: " Will I remain a cash cow in my marriage where the other doesn't value me anymore " or "Do I leave and find happiness in the still unknown ". The problem is not that you didn't give her enough, the problem is much deeper. It lies in the way of thinking. This is a very simplified version and I'm sorry if this might offend y…
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/21 06:34 PM
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I read it completely with a high percentage of focus and I can totally understand your point of view. You stood up for yourself in a non agressive manner and didn't continue to give her the benefit of the doubt when the same style of arguments kept reoccuring. You know your value as a human being and as a husband. If someone threatens with divorce, they obviously thought about it a lot prior and don't value you enough to be by your side. This won't magically change so I completely agree with the…
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/21 12:52 PM
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Your rational brain was hijacked all that time, like most peoples brains are. We get signals that something they did wasn't right, but because of us wanting to feel like we made the right choice committing to that person, we put that feeling aside for the long term 'goal'. If we would believe everyone who is still married and has a 'good' marriage, it goes something like this: "Ofc we have had our struggles, but we have had so many good times aswell and its just a part of being married. I love m…
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/21 10:08 PM
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On paper is just that, its a theory of how it should go. In real life theory rarely applies to human beings, we are as random as can be. You are listing almost every sign of an unhealthy relationship but something is still stopping you from completely admitting that its the case. Could it be fear of having to be alone?
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/21 12:51 PM
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I am so sorry for what you have been through, nobody deserves that. I think your advice is the best one in this case, as with digital in a cloud you have some kind of 'security' that it will always be available, but after a while you won't even feel the need to look at it. With printed its kinda different, because you will just stumble across it accidentally and will probably be in tears remembering all the 'good' times.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/21 08:50 PM
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Have you ever seen the stories where for example someone in the maffia kills your family, and forgot to kill you, so you plan on slowly getting rid of him. Once you got rid of him, what do you think is the feeling? Happiness because they have been hurt? I don't think so. Revenge is based on a temporary emotion that won't really leave you satisfied. Don't get me wrong, I would totally feel the same as you because my brain hijacks the rational thinking proces. The best way to get revenge on her is…
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/21 05:06 PM
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This is going to sound harsh but you are her whole world because she has nothing other than you right now. It means that if you leave her, she has to step up in order to survive. That means that in the long term she will probably feel and look better, even though at first it will be unbearable. Another argument that I find interesting is if the roles were reversed, do you think she would really not take a divorce into consideration?
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/21 08:14 AM
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What are you talking about, did you even understand my point? Its about the short term pleasure that sex gives him with the ex wife which won't result to anything but regret in the long term as his attachment to her still exists. Last time I checked you aren't the person here who decides how people react, so thanks but no thanks about clarifying what should and should not belong here.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/21 03:21 PM
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Sex without meaning to get a child is like eating food without the meaning of survival. Yes that sounds radical, but it follows the same principle of pleasure. So many people do it and regret it afterwards, just as most of the people regret eating that greasy burger.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/21 08:02 AM
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You are in the BEGINNING stages of your divorce and she is already on dating apps? While you are trying your best to improve and make it possible to be happy with just yourself, she is already searching for another person to bring that happiness. You will feel more fulfilled in the long term if you keep going like this. Finding good friends is hard, but they are still out there.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/21 08:41 PM
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Fresh account and this is his first post with a strange ending, should I fill in the answer on how serious this post is or can anyone else guess it too?
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/21 05:50 PM
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Do you think that your severe depression might have been caused or worsened because of the state your marriage was in? If anything comes remotely close to a yes, you should think about yourself and not what your ex is doing. She will soon be a part of your past and hopefully the potential games and everything with it will stop. We can only speculate on why she is acting like that, and I don't think that speculations lead to a satisfying answer. The best answer in this case is therefore to take c…
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/21 05:28 PM
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You have been married with this person for nearly 10 years, and you know her a lot better than any of us do. Something inside you gave you the feeling that she is capable of sticking it to just 10 years in order to get more out of a divorce. The closest thing to good advice is follow your own gut and divorce before the 10 year mark.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/21 10:17 AM
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Do you even read what you typed before posting? Its not about how hard he hit her, it was about the duration and the amount. You not giving a fuck doesn't justify anything and that is an extremely poor excuse to behave like that.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/08/21 09:34 AM
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At some point enough is enough. She hit him with a stick, I completely agree to put equal hurt back, but that was multiple times the amount that she had hit him. This is not an example of how should be responded.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/08/21 09:22 AM
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I got you a TLDR: He has tolerated unacceptable behaviour from his partner for so long that she actually feels like she can get away with anything. I feel sorry for him, but its just a hard lesson why people should have boundaries.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/21 02:28 PM
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I have been lurking on Divorce_Men for quite some time just to get more insight even though I've never been married, by reading about others their experience in this matter, is what I've realized that normal relationships (which I did have) and marriages are only separated by how much you have invested into staying with that person. Both parties should always put everything on the table, the good, extremely good, bad and extremely bad. How she just left this out is beyond me. She might aswell be…
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/21 08:20 PM
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That is always an interesting counter argument, because it seems like the amount of value people give to 'emotional' support differs. I would argue that most healthy men without some complicated matter like BPD or Bipolar don't need much support emotionally, as they will be able to handle it due to their environment already making them have to toughen up. Is it the most beneficial thing? Ofcourse not. Being fulfilled in the 'feelings' department is a great thing, but how much are you willing to …
/r/MGTOW231/07/21 07:10 PM
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People are just getting smarter. If you do a simple cost & benefit analysis and throw in the amount of uncertainty there is in dating and getting into relationships, you realize that all this effort could be invested in a better and secure way. Social media and movies have hyped the whole relationship thing like no tomorrow, like its the greatest thing ever. From my experience it isn't. Relationships are work, but don't provide the stable income you would receive with a regular job. Do I believe…
/r/MGTOW231/07/21 06:49 PM
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I was lonely and have no friends and social life and the female validation soothe my emptiness. This is exactly why most men even simp for a girl, its because they don't have much satisfying to begin with outside of that female validation. Just a beautifully honest quote. Best thing to do for you right now is to start with one thing at a time. You say that you are going to try meditating? Do it, see if it works for you, commit yourself to it. With committing I don't mean do it hours and hours an…
/r/MGTOW218/07/21 08:37 AM
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I will teach my son that he needs to have a purpose and if he thinks a person is part of that purpose, he will never ever get close to what he wants. A purpose needs to be defined, within reach and inside of your control. People in general are not in your control and they shouldn't be.
/r/MGTOW203/07/21 06:27 PM
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I strongly advice to seek comfort in being alone and learn to love solitude. You seem like me, there is something that makes you not understand how people who tell you that you are important to them, still can let you ge easily. It can haunt me and distract me from reaching anything in my life. The most productive I've ever been was when I had 0 distractions.
/r/MGTOW227/06/21 05:36 PM
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Go your own way, don't listen to anyone about what to do. If you feel like the relationship is beneficial to you, I WOULD stay in it. When it becomes a drag for the both of you, its better to end it.
/r/MGTOW227/06/21 09:55 AM
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Nothing in life that I care about feels unstable anymore as I invest my time in being able to live a long and healthy life. ROI is through the roof when you are prepared for almost anything. When I still had a girlfriend, it felt like my mood was heavily influenced by hers. She made the greats sometimes greater, but in return she also gave me the deepest lows where I felt imprisoned, not good enough, autistic (according to her words which she uses on everyone who doesn't follow her way of living…
/r/MGTOW221/06/21 01:58 PM
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This gym selfie is everywhere, the same type of girl, just with another name. My ex had also mastered the art of almost hugging the mirror, pushing her hip out while keeping the stomach in and posing as if she likes what she sees. Wel if you liked it so much, why do you need validation from others by portraying your body in such a way?
/r/MGTOW213/06/21 06:09 PM
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I usually let these kind of topics go for the mods to judge, but really? What you are doing is probably satire, otherwise I really feel like you need to sort some things out. The law is against us, 'typical' female behaviour doesn't have the best interest for us, but comparing them to animals and how atleast these animals are useful to us? This is like saying how a toilet is useful because it disposes you of your internal shit, even women can't do that. It is just plain stupid, please keep this …
/r/MGTOW211/06/21 09:01 PM
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This is gold, because I always wondered how her ACTUAL thinking process would look like during a break-up or even 'worse', divorce. These are the things they think while they sit next to you.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/21 06:55 AM
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There should also be an option without the sex doll, something like: " Enjoying what life has to offer besides the genitals of the other gender ".
/r/MGTOW206/06/21 06:38 AM
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Yes you are right, and that is why I mentioned in my second sentence that there is nothing wrong with asking.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/21 01:40 PM
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The whole point of going your own way is to do things your way. Marriage is also for adults according to most people, so you are in the wrong place if you are trying to put labels on what an adult should consist of.
/r/MGTOW203/06/21 01:30 PM
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I agree with the fact that MGTOW is not anti woman, but what does sleeping in a single bed have to do with being a 14 year old? Your 14 year old you was also a human being who needed to pee, eat, sleep and move. You are using it in a degrading fashion without making any sense.
/r/MGTOW203/06/21 01:06 PM
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Look kind stranger, it only took a glance on your profile to see why you are asking this. You want something specific that can help you with your situation, and there is nothing wrong with that. You really want to make it work with your now bf, but you are getting anxious from his regular contact with his ex wife. And you should! They should only have possible children in common and nothing more, regular contact is just strange. You should tell him that this is not to your liking, and if he resp…
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/21 10:38 AM
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It depends on where you live. Here in the center of Amsterdam, I see more couples than singles. Who knows the actual ratings, and frankly why would we even care. Going your own way means that bystanders pass you by, you don't quit walking just to look what they are up to, because you have purpose and need/want to be somewhere.
/r/MGTOW231/05/21 01:37 PM
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Have you ever had the scenario of her asking: " What shall we have for dinner today? ". You say something like chicken, and she will say that you had it yesterday aswell. Why aren't you allowed to eat chicken everyday for the rest of your life if you want? Because someone has to discuss an hour with you about what to eat, even though creating said meal would usually take just halve that time.
/r/MGTOW230/05/21 08:27 PM
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This reminds me of the insanity some women have. My experience is on a whole other (lesser) level and can ONLY be compared by the fact that my ex threatened in a 'funny' matter to never let me leave her no matter what. The funny part was when she decided to leave me, it went pretty smooth, because I had to respect her decision.
/r/MGTOW225/05/21 05:25 PM
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I totally get that once you see your child being born its almost impossible to regret such a majestic moment and to think about the possibility to it NOT being alive would be downright mental. I just hope that your children grow up to not make the same mistakes and lead a nice life, with you trying your best and now having more mental space to give the best version of dad time. What I realized in my best friends parents 20+ years marriage ending was that the dad became a person on his own. I kne…
/r/MGTOW216/05/21 08:31 PM
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Thank you for sharing your story. What baffles me time and time again is that getting MORE children is being considered or not even being stopped by one of the two parents in some way. Not only are you making your own life incredibly hard, the child will inevitably feel the consequences aswell. I don't blame you for trying your best, we all make mistakes.
/r/MGTOW216/05/21 08:19 PM
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What I don't get with all of these Rich Cooper, excuse me for my language, braindead followers is that you are focusing on getting the thing you want which you actually don't like that much, called women. High value this and low value that, buzz words used by people who are closer to being incels than anyone else. Most people on here who follow MGTOW do so because they want to build stability on their own, without needing that one thing which all you bonobo followers promote. Instead of being de…
/r/MGTOW216/05/21 01:47 PM
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It would be very stupid for someone to think that there are zero, nada, zéro happy, fulfilling relationships. Its just that most of us thought that we were in one until it wasn't and in the aftermath you get all these 'truth' bombs hurled to you. All those very small gestures, the way she made eye contact, the miniscule things she said but explained a whole lot, they are so small that most men, including me, only realize how stupid we were until the counterpart, in this case women, sometimes rev…
/r/MGTOW214/05/21 01:17 PM
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You stood up for yourself in an environment where most people would succumb to the 'group' mentality, bravo! You should have also added that if you want somewhere to dump a big portion of your money in and hope for return, the casino would be a better place with better odds.
/r/MGTOW214/05/21 05:28 AM
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I am reading this while laying down in a park and enjoying the nice weather, and I look around me and see couples aswell, but I don't know their backstory and honestly don't care enough. Some of them will end in a never ending love story (doubt it though) and some of them won't. The great thing about enjoying the moment on your own is that you can never FEEL regret about that moment or that someone betrayed you, because you will always be there for yourself.
/r/MGTOW213/05/21 02:06 PM
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When I help my father out (he sells poultry on the market) I get bombarded for hours with peaches walking through. I first forcefully ignored them because it took control of my thoughts, but now I just let it flow. Gotta jerk off? Just do it. Gotta call someone for a quick hook up? Just do it. What I won't do any longer is spend pleasing someone for an enormous amount of time to just feel dissapointment at the end.
/r/MGTOW230/04/21 07:27 AM
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I contacted my general practitioner about having nightmares and asked him to advice a therapist. My insurance covers a big portion of those costs and the therapy is basically free (she is only available once every 2/3 weeks), otherwise I would have already quit. On the surface it seems like we have a good relationship because I listen to what she says without passing on any judgment, but after 4/5 sessions it is pretty clear to me that she pushes her personal opinion onto the matter and it is pr…
/r/MGTOW229/04/21 12:53 PM
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I am enjoying listening to my female therapist because of her advice being so counter productive. I told her that I came to her because my friends just called my ex crazy instead of giving me good feedback about how/why she reacted, she said that she would never call anyone crazy. In a follow up session I mentioned that my ex told me that I could call her mother 'Mom' and send her messages. The same therapist who told me that she would never resort to terms as 'crazy' said: "Well that is just we…
/r/MGTOW229/04/21 11:57 AM
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My ex asked me during our breakup meeting when the last time we had sex was. I said around 4 weeks and asked why, she told me that she hasn't been able to eat for the past few weeks and is going to take a pregnancy test. She used to tell me that under no circumstances she would abort IF she was pregnant. I was so shocked that this was possible, as if I was trying to wake up from a nightmare. My one and only serious relationship was enough to scar me for life, half a year later and I'm glad to ha…
/r/MGTOW225/04/21 09:34 PM
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I understand the stigma, but it is all just pure social conditioning. If for example having blue hair was considered cool, a lot of people would have wanted it. You didn't miss out on much, a bunch of people sticked their Johnson inside a hole for a couple of minutes/hours at a time and breathed the same air as you while doing it. They are living in the same world as you, experiencing the same cycle of life and death around them and the only difference is that they can get pleasure out of hormon…
/r/MGTOW201/04/21 05:06 PM
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The cancer part made me think about someone I met on /r/ExNoContact. We were both hurting from our break ups and were speaking to eachother about how they will be sorry and coming back to us. This guy had pancreatic cancer and his ex broke it off and blocked him. He has his own tech company and is doing good for himself, despite all that he was still daily messaging me and asking what the chance is of the ex coming back. We were both chasing something that isn't worth it, but I realized eventual…
/r/MGTOW226/03/21 10:34 AM
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I can understand his pov. My ex was my first aswell, she already had 3 years worth of experience with other men before me. My first time wasn't awkward at all, because she took control of the situation like I was her puppet and I just had to follow the motion and enjoy. She also said after the second time: " I never thought I would sleep with more than just one person ", she didn't realize what she is capable of and that is just scary.
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 11:22 AM
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A lot of people care because it is ingrained into us by people and hormones to have sex. More than thousand years worth of evolution is not going to change in a couple of decades. And there are plenty of MTGOW still getting laid, they just don't want any strings attached in the form of cohabitation or marriage.
/r/MGTOW222/03/21 08:55 PM
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My ex was working hard to not go into debt and took no student loan, cared a lot about her friends and family. I thought she belonged to being honorable. Did I mention that I was her third bedpartner in the year we met. She messaged and called me a lot, gave what I thought I liked, 'female validation'. Did I mention that she thrashtalked her exes, saying one was actually gay and the other begged her to stay but she couldn't take 'it' anymore. Me as the simp I was, saw that she had a good educati…
/r/MGTOW202/03/21 06:06 PM
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Why not ask him in a subtle way, maybe he could use some support? There is no need to throw the red pill his way, he might not be in a place of sanity. If he is up for it, ask him what happened and see for yourself if its a common story like the millions of other divorces.
/r/MGTOW228/02/21 09:18 AM
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You can't imagine how many people thought the same. This girl gave me everything, attention, love, money and she could cook aswell. I didn't feel any different than before she did that, but here comes the funny part: I returned her the favor. I spend a lot of effort after she did, and you know what happened? She said: " is this it? " and left. Nobody accepts who you are, they accept their view of you. So if that changes, they don't see the 'you' anymore and there is nothing to accept.
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 10:43 PM
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I have had similar issues, but ask yourself: " Why do I have to convince someone else about how I want to live my own life? ". She has her life and you have yours, remember that. Nobody should ever pressure you in a way that makes you uncomfortable, parents aren't some holy exception.
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 10:17 AM
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I know what you are reading might sound 'extreme' as the guy is from MGTOW and some of them can sound like that, but I think that we as humans always want what we don't have, and when we get it, it feels like it isn't all that great. I think marriage and a relationship is really like that a lot of times. But as he said, you are free in your choice.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/21 09:42 PM
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Thanks for your thorough explanation, especially your last paragraph. I also deal with the same struggles as OP and I feel like empathy is the problem, we actually CARE too much about the others opinion, and need to stop it before we are able to care.
/r/MGTOW218/02/21 03:59 PM
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I'm curious as to what your story behind a simp/white knight to now is, what made you transition?
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 07:45 PM
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Honestly, who cares? This is not a competition or rivalry to call the other crazy. It is beyond me why people that have already had their puberty phase, are doing this kind of thing. Going your own way also means that you don't care about what others think of you going that route.
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 07:59 PM
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I hope that the wise MGTOW don't think that every single female is bad, they are just different and not in the way we hope they would be. Its just not a paradise, they aren't the prize in life who can make all your hard work and effort turn into rewards. Some frustrated red pill people will push that agenda, but a true GYOW has accepted the difference in needs and just moves on with his life.
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 10:44 AM
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I was dating a girl who I met through Hinge, and after 2 meetings I invited her to watch a movie in a hotel, she agreed. The cinemas were closed and 2 tickets for the cinema is like almost the price of a room for a day here. I didn't necessarily want to get laid, went in with minimal expectations. We were enjoying the movie and talking a bit, but what I noticed is that she could only talk about Disney and movies, it was like that was her whole life. If I wanted to know more deeper things about h…
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 10:03 AM
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Is it not amazing what we would do for the other gender? How can we complain about them mistreating us if we men are the ones that make it possible. Get stronger, don't forget that beneath the skin and organs its just a skeleton and base your choices on what she brings to the table, even if it means that you have to ler her cry. This is all a mindgame, and if you don't get stronger in that area, you WILL get dominated. In my field of work, I have seen women who are getting interrogated, take con…
/r/MGTOW213/02/21 08:42 AM
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The fiance of my ex her sister is getting married with the girl, buying a house together, and she is also pregnant. They know eachother for 3 years and she checks her phone and mails daily, my ex even told me that he was deleting messages/mails so she couldn't find out. Now imagine this, the baby is coming, and he decided to use the last name of the girl. You know what my ex told me about what her mom said? ''He is such a pussy for doing something like that''. She told me this during our break u…
/r/MGTOW212/02/21 10:49 PM
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That you have to listen to a womans nagging/complaining/crying a lot just so you can have a relationship. I did it and I think a lot of men did it too. When it was happening, I kept saying to myself: '' this is an investment, investment, investment ''. Just imagine how many times I repeated that until I finally realized, this is the worst investment I could have ever made. I might aswell put all that time into earning money and gamble that money in a casino, it would have far better odds of maki…
/r/MGTOW212/02/21 10:24 PM
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Good, you taught her well, but this is just a clear example of how social media is harmful and can only damage things. Not that it matters THAT much, as her need of validation by others would have come out one way or the other.
/r/MGTOW210/02/21 10:43 PM
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I don't hate women by any means and I don't like buying presents and seeing it as money thrown away, I actually loved seeing my ex happy with what I bought for her. The fact is that when you point out everything you did for someone, they will tell you: '' I/they don't OWE you anything ''. I would like to respond with: '' Then why did I owe them presents for certain days, love and affection, because if they don't owe me and can just leave whenever they feel, why do they get mad if you come up emp…
/r/MGTOW210/02/21 04:55 PM
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Ask her, is she ready to pay for all the mental and financial damage that person will do to you? Is she ready to pay for every dinner, every present you have to get them at Valentines/birthday/christmas and regular flowers/gifts? All while having the chance of them leaving you? Tell your mom that is it worth seeing her son suffer just so she can tell everyone that her son has a girlfriend?
/r/MGTOW210/02/21 04:31 PM
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That kids, is why we act on rational decisions, and not what our donger is communicating to the brain. Sex is the strongest type of hypnosis on the world, and once you can beat the temptation, you are on a strong path of mastering your urges.
/r/MGTOW210/02/21 08:50 AM
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Vibrators don't tell you how pretty and amazing you are. That is the difference, the need for validation is a lot higher in women overall. I don't like to generalize, but this is just my observation.
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 11:01 PM
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Female friends are fine, circle friends are fine, square friends are fine. Its about having BOUNDARIES. Usually if you like someone that talks about a lot of crap and you just wanted to hear a nice feminine voice, it does the job for you. Or talk about emotions (yes you have them). Just remember that when they cross a line, just like regular friends, you don't spend anymore time on them.
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 05:58 PM
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You are a great speaker and not stating anything that seems like rocket science, just bringing it real. Women are not the problem, its how society/parenting has made them. Hell, we could have been born as one of them and be part of the whole problem.
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 09:03 AM
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I enjoyed reading your story, and what I don't get is that there are people who think about concluding or not concluding, an entire flesh and soul worth so much more than their vertical reach, based on ONE factor. My ex helped her friend find someone and apparently she liked the guy but he was too short. Right then and there I should have known what type of women I was dealing with, as looking at their friends tells how they really are. Imagine if I was a few inches shorter, apparently she would…
/r/MGTOW206/02/21 05:52 PM
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You would like to hear yes and I understand, but it all depends on genetics and your food intake. The only way to know for sure is to track your calories, eat in a small surplus and see for yourself while training the muscle.
/r/MGTOW203/02/21 10:22 PM
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3 months after the break up, I was walking through the city at night time with the beautiful city lights surrounding me and a nice audio book to listen. I was observing my surroundings and during my few hours of walking, I analyzed the couples. If they were holding hands, I noticed that when they weren't in a busy street and thought almost nobody was around, they would let go and become more casual. I decided to put my audiobook on pause because I was curious what they were talking about. I noti…
/r/MGTOW203/02/21 09:29 PM
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Questions mean that your brain has to work in order to figure out an answer. Someone that doesn't genuinely like you, will get annoyed after a while because it feels like you are giving them a hard time. 'Genuine' is the key word.
/r/MGTOW203/02/21 08:48 AM
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If you think that a relationship will fix the feeling of loneliness, you are dead wrong. Imagine having a spouse, okay great, now what? Will you spam her because you can't deal with that feeling? Nice, now you cling onto her and seem needy, won't last long and if it does, its probably not healthy. Yes, I sometimes have the passing feeling of being lonely, but its just that. A feeling. The truth is that you are the only one in your mind since the start and all the way till the finish line of your…
/r/MGTOW203/02/21 08:41 AM
7

Women speak to me when they are hurt, when they need someone to listen to their crying. They call me sweet for doing it. I don't want anything in return, just a bit of respect when I need a shoulder to lean on. They do sometimes listen, but later on when I hear how they talk about me to their friends, as if I am a ''pussy because I as a man am able to cry'', it just baffles me how they seemed so genuine and comforting, just to turn into a whole other being behind my back.
/r/MGTOW202/02/21 09:15 PM
2

Atleast a clown has the potential to be funny. Most conversations, I remember having with my ex through text were just me telling jokes and her being like: '' Hahahahaha ''. Then she would get mad if I didn't message her for a few hours after.
/r/MGTOW202/02/21 10:59 AM
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