| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | Those who have success at night clubs, whats the proper mindset?>try to move them from there to a dark corner to chat Son | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach has changed my lifeIf the result is the same in the end, please explain why I should give a fuck lol | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach has changed my lifeYeah that’s fair man, different strokes | /r/seduction | 17/06/26 01:39 PM |
| -3 | Cold approach has changed my lifeYeah it’s very unlikely I’m an 8+, not sure But actual game is still needed on the apps if you want more than a penpal. luckily half the work is already done since she swiped on you though lol some of these dudes are seriously spending hours approaching random women who have probably made their minds up about them within 2 seconds of looking 😆 seems like a tremendous waste | /r/seduction | 17/06/26 06:20 AM |
| -9 | Cold approach has changed my lifeMeh. Dating apps are still superior overall | /r/seduction | 17/06/26 05:33 AM |
| 59 | How long does it take a woman to decide that she wants to have sex with you?Damn bruh, stop typing with your mouth full | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 07:44 PM |
| 7 | It's easy as fuckThis is probably the most detailed shit I’ve ever seen on here lol 💪🏽 big bro with the minute-by-minute plays | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 01:16 PM |
| 3 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?This girl is currently asleep in my bed while I’m on the couch 😑 never again with this chick. I’ll post a full update if the mods let me, we did make out at least | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 02:57 PM |
| 3 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?I’ll update if I remember 🫡 she hasn’t came yet | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 11:32 PM |
| -7 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?Lmao sure buddy. | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 11:31 PM |
| 1 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?Funny enough I’ve gone the neck massage route since she said it was hurting…not very sexy. Might as well try your thing, what do I have to lose lol | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 11:29 PM |
| -15 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?Female friends can be good to have, but I already told her we’re not going steady 😤quit trying to meet my family and have me interact with your mom girl | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 11:28 PM |
| 1 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?This is a great idea! Thanks | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 10:38 PM |
| 2 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?No idea why she’s always trying to be over here every weekend and meet my family then lmao. Quit wasting my time | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 10:38 PM |
| 5 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?Man, you would think so…this girl is not making it easy though and I do not want to be too forceful | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 10:13 PM |
| 2 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?Bruh ik it doesn’t sound like it but my uncle is the smoothest cocksmith I know 🤣 he’s tripping on this one tho, might be pranking me | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 10:12 PM |
| 0 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?Then just do the arm thing. If she moves closer to you, just look at her, and when she looks at you just try to kiss her and go from there. You don’t really need to say anything. Yeah this is what usually happens for me, but she’s not moving closer while we’re on the couch with my arms “around” her. She’s sitting too far so all I can do it stroke her hair (which I’ve done, and she doesn’t react). I’m probably gonna have to open my mouth. Maybe something playfully like “Whatchu doing all the way … | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 10:11 PM |
| 4 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?But have you kissed yet? I’d probably start with slow escalation to kissing before you begin talking about sex. It’s a bit premature to talk about this if you have not kissed yet. Haha yeah I was just gonna say that even being in the bed at all would be a massive improvement from where I’m at rn. We have not made out, and she doesn’t even seem to want to cuddle on the couch. Though I truthfully have not used my words for fear of forcing it, I’ve been waiting for signals from her when she might a… | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 10:05 PM |
| 11 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?Making out is further than we have gone so far. She’s not making it easy to happen naturally, which is frustrating because she’s always trying to come over my crib lmao | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 09:46 PM |
| 5 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?First you need to set her expectations that you don’t want a relationship. Check. We both agreed we don’t want anything serious right now. At first I thought I was friendzoned, but her trying to meet my family has me rethinking (and looking back, I’ve already met her parents and all her close friends after 2 months of hanging out) As for turning her on, asking her what kind of sex she likes is a good place to start. Again, take the mature path. Roger. Now how would you do this in the least awkwa… | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 09:43 PM |
| 1 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?While we’re on the couch? Seems odd. Explain further | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 09:40 PM |
| 44 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?This is all good info and in line with what I have done so far - playful fun energy. She drinks but has denied all my offers for a drink so far. So I need to do more to make her comfortable (yet she’s comfortable enough to show up in pajamas…) Frustratingly, we have talked about dildos, sex, masturbation, etc before. I just didn’t know how to capitalize effectively. I need to be more ready next time. Thanks for the advice fam | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 09:38 PM |
| 1 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?Not necessarily…like we’ll be on the couch watching a movie and I’ll have my arm outstretched along the back of the couch. My hand will just “happen” to be right by her hair (gives you an idea of how far apart she’s sitting from me), and so last time I lightly stroked her hair and the base of her neck. Just to test the waters. No response. I almost wonder if it made her uncomfortable. She’s coming over again so it couldn’t have been that terrible. But still…why you sitting so far girl damn lmao | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 09:35 PM |
| 0 | Squandering Seduction OpportunitiesYeah she at least sees I’m pretty social with everyone, I always try to include her in conversations since she’s a new hire. But goddamn is she hot, and not just office hot lol. I doubt she’s even the least bit interested, but I also partly feel like I’m not trying hard enough | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 05:12 PM |
| -4 | Squandering Seduction OpportunitiesNo I won’t go that far man (hell, it’s not really up to me anyway lol). But it almost feels like…I should at least be laying the groundwork? Like, these things do happen in real life. You drift apart from your long distance relationship because someone you interact with every day has captured your interest. Now, it’s completely up to her whether or not I intrigue her that much. But I’m not even trying, and I feel like I should be. What kind of a man would I be if I didn’t lol | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Squandering Seduction OpportunitiesYeahhh, I know man. I know. But part of me feels like I’m bitching out. The opportunity is just so perfect. Like there are people in my department who would slap me if they knew I sat by this particular girl all day and haven’t pulled lol. She literally seems so bored out of her mind all day. We chit chat for a good 30 minutes, but I’m obviously not gonna be entertaining her for 8 hours. Yet it almost seems like I should | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 03:08 PM |
| 1 | If a girl wants a relationship but you want to have her as a fwb, how and most importantly when do you tell her ?Stop throwing around psych buzzwords you don’t understand. It dilutes their meaning | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 03:04 PM |
| -5 | If a girl wants a relationship but you want to have her as a fwb, how and most importantly when do you tell her ?Why should he put anyone’s feelings above his own? Especially when they aren’t even family or in a relationship with him? This sub lame af | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 01:16 PM |
| 15 | What are some things you guys say when approaching in real life.?I’ve never approached a woman irl in my life, but my uncle is the most accomplished cocksmith i know. He tells me some variation of the following line is a favorite of his that has never failed: “I mean look at the two of us, our children would be a master race. For breeding purposes alone we should give it a shot, not for fun…but like a duty to our species” This sounds weird over text, but the way he says it kills my sides everytime. And it probably does the same for a woman, with the dual purp… | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Does texting her is making me look like a loser?Lol wtf is this sub anymore? The fact that this question is being asked with sincerity means there’s something fundamentally wrong with your inner game. Read the fucking sidebar | /r/askTRP | 24/03/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | What are this girl’s motivations? [20M]Yeah I lift and look pretty fit in the right clothes, but admittedly I’m overweight and should be dieting/doing cardio more than lifting. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 01:13 AM |
| 2 | What are this girl’s motivations? [20M]It just troubles me that even to this single mother with practically no dating life I’m still a backup that couldn’t even get in her pants. Seems like I’ll never be the main prize that women are crawling over each other for. How tf do I get to THAT level | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 12:55 AM |
| 2 | What is the best course of action when an LTR disrespects you in public by showing affection for another man?This sub’s tough love is hilarious 😂 | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 01:07 AM |
| 1 | [20M] Overall, between TRP and TBP, which ideology is best for attracting women? And why?What? I’m just genuinely curious what people think. I’m not that great with women and there seems to be conflicting ideas on what is best for attracting women, so I wanted to know different ppl’s opinions, wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Weed at 20?Damn hopefully I’m on your level at 24, my diet is shit and barely gives me enough energy to work out 3 times a week. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 09:44 PM |
| 2 | [20M] How did you find your purpose?Yeah that’s exactly my dilemma right now. I’m a junior studying engineering and have no passion for it. Some of it is interesting, but overall pursuing this degree is a financial decision more than anything. Part of me knows I’d be even more of a loser if I were to dropout or even just take a break from school, at least right now I have a degree I’m working towards. and I can’t switch majors and lower my earning potential because of the student loans...I just can’t afford/have no time to dedicat… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 08:56 AM |
| 3 | [20M] How did you find your purpose?Thanks for your reply man, I’ll read that sidebar. One more question for you: I read a lot but tend towards audiobooks rather than actually reading. Is this hurting my ability to retain what’s being taught in your opinion? | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Weed at 20?Is the damage to my brain irreversible? | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 04:51 AM |
| 3 | Weed at 20?You right | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 03:20 AM |
| 3 | [20M] Starting to see what you guys meanLol, bro I had no clue what I was doing, it was awkward af. If you have some tips for what I could do next time I’d really appreciate that tho | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 04:41 PM |
| 30 | [20M] Starting to see what you guys meanHaha yeah I probably ruined the mood come to think of it. I was very nervous and it probably came off in a lot of ways. Especially me trying to get Netflix working on my dumb tv for 10 minutes. Keep in mind this is before I pulled her on top of me, but by then she was probably thinking of ways to get out of my room. Part of me wishes I would’ve gotten more experience in high school like all my friends, but I guess you gotta learn it at some point. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 03:58 PM |
| 30 | [20M] Starting to see what you guys meanYes you are exactly right. I keep chasing intimacy and sex thinking that’s gonna fill some hole in me but it won’t. And coincidentally it only chases women away. I need a fucking purpose in life that gives me joy. I keep chasing validation in other people, and I’ve been doing it most of my life. I don’t know where I learned that shit but I really want to unlearn it. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 02:55 PM |
| 5 | [20M] Starting to see what you guys meanYea I had no clue what I was doing lol. Is there a guide for this stuff in the sidebar? | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 02:27 PM |
| 12 | [20M] Starting to see what you guys meanWow, awesome comment dude. I mean, we made out and SHE’S the one who wanted to see my apartment. I wonder what I did to lose attraction that fast so I can avoid it in the future. If you have a girl in your room ready to fuck, what are your tips to not blow it? | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 02:25 PM |
| 17 | [20M] Starting to see what you guys meanNo I found that out yesterday, I did have oneitis before then for like weeks though. I think that’s the point, I guess I’m just tired of thinking the way I do about women. Like, deep down no matter what I portray I’m a needy beta in every aspect of my life. Feels like I can never undo this | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 02:05 PM |
| 44 | [20M] Starting to see what you guys meanNah she wouldn’t let me finger her. I think the fact that I tried to finger her is what irked her. I guess I just misread the situation (even though she was on top of me...) or took it too fast. Point is, I really want to get over this blue pill mindset. I shouldn’t even be this fixated on one girl. I know deep down you guys are right but it seems like such a hard pill to swallow, life seems so...miserable thinking the way you guys do if I’m honest. I’ve always wanted a loving, honest relationsh… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 02:01 PM |
| 1 | [20M] Very little experience dating, what could I have done differently on this date to not chase her away? (LONG)Thank you man | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | [20M] Very little experience dating, what could I have done differently on this date to not chase her away? (LONG)Oh fuck I’m such an idiot I didn’t even realize how uncomfortable I probably made her. I was just so focused on what I thought I was supposed to do so she wouldn’t get bored. I’m a virgin man I didn’t know. That was the first time I kissed a girl in years...I just didn’t know. I really liked her man. Fuck dude, did I seriously just rape her? That’s gotta be like a sign of something seriously wrong with me right? I apologized and everything and she said it’s ok we’re cool. I just didn’t realize h… | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | [20M] Very little experience dating, what could I have done differently on this date to not chase her away? (LONG)You sure about that? She kept telling me no so she obviously didn’t want it. What should I have done instead? | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 03:59 PM |
| 2 | I was way too aggressive, and ruined it with a great girl [20M]Yeah that makes sense. I should’ve learned this shit in high school like a normal person, I’m so fuckin mad at myself man | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Chances of a second date?Awesome advice, saving this. Thx bro | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Chances of a second date?Ok. But at a certain point won’t it be obvious to her that you have no clue what I’m doing? Do you know where I can learn some stuff to make me more confident in bed as a virgin or does it just come from experience | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Chances of a second date?Yeah good advice, thx dude. So what I’m sensing is that I should at no point tell her I’m a Virgin right? Lol | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | [20M] Is suicide something I should seriously consider?The anti-depressants were working I guess lol. But since then I haven’t developed any of those hobbies that made me optimistic about the future, I haven’t hit my weight loss goals, and really I’m in the exact same place I was then with no accomplishment whatsoever. I guess that’s why I’m taking the failed 1st date I had last night so rough, because it’s just another failure piled on the last smh | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | [20M] Is suicide something I should seriously consider?Number 3 hits so close to home, I have nothing in my life that gives me joy except food. I figured maybe a woman’s affection would be nice, I know it wouldn’t be a solution but it would be nice to at least experience. Thanks for your reply tho | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 08:02 PM |
| 1 | [20M] Is suicide something I should seriously consider?True that man | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 07:11 PM |
| 1 | [20M] Is suicide something I should seriously consider?I can’t be kind to myself man, I’m being hard on myself because this shouldn’t be a fucking problem. All of my friends have beautiful girls absolutely in love with them and I can’t even get a second date. Connection with the opposite sex is a near universal part of our DNA, so it is a legit reason to kill myself over if I’m too inept and incompetent to obtain it | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | [20M] Is suicide something I should seriously consider?What methods are you considering? Edit: or pm them to me Incase this is against some dumb rule Edit2: dumb question, just read your name lol nvm | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 06:52 PM |
| 1 | [20M] Is suicide something I should seriously consider?How is it not an answer when things will never get better? I’m gonna be dealing with this mental illness shit for years probably and there’s no way I’m going another year without sex or a relationship, I refuse | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Should I be texting this girl so early before the date?Thanks man, I really appreciate this. I’ll keep pushing | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Should I be texting this girl so early before the date?Well I just feel dumb now. Why not just say no instead of leading me on just to flake later? This dating shit is so dumb, at this rate I’m never gonna date anyone while I’m young and have time | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Should I be texting this girl so early before the date?Ah goddamnit, that really sucks. | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Should I be texting this girl so early before the date?Yeah I thought so. Do you have any advice on what to talk about with someone you don’t really know through text, or is that kinda up to me | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 02:38 PM |
| 2 | You don’t believe in yourselfNah man I don’t think you’re racist, in my experience as a black guy most of the black women ive known and dated have had larger asses than other races. It’s obviously a generalization but there’s some truth to it. If you’re not attracted to that and most black women around you tend to have it, then that’s just how it is tbh | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | You don’t believe in yourselfTo each his own I suppose, but Black women have a variety of skin complexions, whether they’re mixed or not. I don’t have figures, but most in the U.S prob aren’t even dark. And yea I’ll concede the point about the asses | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 06:54 PM |
| 1 | You don’t believe in yourselfWhat do you not like about all black women? | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 06:20 PM |
| 1 | You don’t believe in yourselfThought you were the other guy, my bad | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Game isn’t needed if she’s attracted to you.This is hilarious | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 01:30 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to sudden flirting? 19MOk, cool. What could I have done better in that particular situation ? | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else bored of companies like Gillette jumping on the let’s all hate men bandwagon?Oh for sure, but how effective it would’ve been compared to how he demolished Hillary or Jeb is up for debate. I think Bernie would’ve weathered it because he’s just as anti-establishment as Trump with the addition of knowing his shit. But I see how people think Trump is unstoppable; he kind of is if I’m totally honest. Agree to disagree. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else bored of companies like Gillette jumping on the let’s all hate men bandwagon?I agree, it was a weak decision to back the DNC after what they did to him, and I personally disagreed with it. But can you not understand why he did it? I’m assuming you’re conservative, so look at this through the lens of your own party and whichever candidate you supported. The results of the 2016 election would affect legislation for decades to come. The presidency was up for grabs as well as Congress AND a Supreme Court seat. That election was way more important than Bernie alone and he rec… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else bored of companies like Gillette jumping on the let’s all hate men bandwagon?How is he weak? He fought against shit like segregated housing when it was probably way more politically advantageous to look the other way. Same thing for voting against NAFTA, the Patriot Act, and the Iraq War. I’m not saying he’s a perfect man, but we don’t have many politicians who are more principled than him tbh. He almost certainly would’ve beaten Trump, who was and still is drenched in scandal. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 10:44 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else bored of companies like Gillette jumping on the let’s all hate men bandwagon?Meh, not really accurate. This shit is annoying but that’s about it. It doesn’t affect my life at all really. Trump won because he was anti-establishment which actually affects people. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 03:37 PM |
| 4 | Manly subredditsLol is that why you’re on here daily? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 06:39 AM |
| 1 | If a girl asks me out, do I let her set the time and place or do I take charge?See this happened like a couple weeks ago, she just texted me out the blue and asked if I wanted to hang out that weekend. I said sure and asked what she wanted to do. I assumed she had a plan since she asked me out, but she didn’t and said she’ll think about it and hmu, but she never did. I don’t really give a shit tbh, I’m just wondering if putting the ball in her court wasn’t the best move and that’s why she never responded so I can avoid that mistake next time. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 07:50 PM |
| 2 | If a girl asks me out, do I let her set the time and place or do I take charge?On what? | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 03:51 PM |
| 1 | I want to sleep with my new roommateAppreciate the advice. Btw, what exactly did I say that was douchey? I really didn’t mean to come off that way, and wanna make sure I prevent saying dumb crap in the future | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Been ignoring a girl even though I want to progress with her. Are my chances blown?Any recommendations for being flirty? I’m not great at that sort of thing, it usually just comes off awkward | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Been red-pilling my cousinJust mocking him :p | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 05:14 AM |
| 3 | Been red-pilling my cousinBro I have plenty of options, just none as hot as my cousin. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Should I tell her how I feel or move on?Ah I see. Really great input, I appreciate it | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Should I tell her how I feel or move on?Thanks for your advice. Can you explain why you think she's interested? Cuz I don't see it tbh | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Is she still worth pursuing?Thanks man, really helpful. | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Is she still worth pursuing?Question though, did she blow me off last night or should I not take it too seriously? | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 01:52 PM |
| 5 | Is she still worth pursuing?Thanks for your advice 😘 | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 01:51 PM |
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