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| 1 | No job, no friends, still a virgin, what now?How do I do that? I get rejected by girls and even guys say no when I ask them to hang out. Even the fraternities won’t accept me unless I get my grades way up | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 12:57 AM |
| 1 | No job, no friends, still a virgin, what now?Yes, I am. But I don’t want that. I do want to date (not just White women) | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 12:56 AM |
| 2 | No job, no friends, still a virgin, what now?I completely understand. However, how would I deal with being socially awkward? I don’t know what to say to a woman on the first interaction and don’t know how to get closer to people I meet | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 12:56 AM |
| 1 | My lifestyle just consists of me going to class and staying home. What can I do to spice it up?I’m 22, so don’t need a fake ID, haha. But I did go out to a club this weekend and girls there stayed in their groups and weren’t receptive to me | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | What to do on Halloween if I'm single and have almost no friends?But how would I ask people (especially classmates I barely know) to accompany them to their Halloween plans? | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Never dated at all and it’s getting to me. Every girl I asked out rejected me. How do I keep my head up?>Your social skills are results of your social life and experiences that make up who you sre; therefore, you can’t work on social skills if there’s nothing social behind you. I have been trying to ask out girls and even befriend both guys and girls in my class, but we just end up as acquaintances. You have to get a handle on all your insecurities and anxieties first before working on the social aspect, meaning you have to work on you. >You said you wanted to join a dance club but they rejected y… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Never dated at all and it’s getting to me. Every girl I asked out rejected me. How do I keep my head up?What should I learn about game? And how would I meet women? Given what I wrote? | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Never dated at all and it’s getting to me. Every girl I asked out rejected me. How do I keep my head up?What is toastmasters? Stupid question. I do hit the gym, but what would I do in the meantime? What are some hobbies I could use to meet girls and guys my age? I live with my parents. I used to dorm, but not anymore. I have some guys and girls as my friends but a lot of them moved away or are busy nowadays | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 04:45 AM |
| – | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceSorry to ask again ... but I have too many crushes on girls in my class and I have zero idea how to make a move on any of them. Sorry if this is too much to describe. How do I approach and get to know some women in my classes? Girl A : And how do I approach and get to know this girl in a class of mine? She’s always surrounded by her group mates (group project and other guys Girl B: How do Make a move on a Spanish girl in my class ? Briefly talked to her 2 weeks ago. How to get to know her and … | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 06:59 PM |
| – | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceWhat should I do if every girl I meet in college is either taken or uninterested in me? How do I deal with being unattractive and bullied and outcast? I’m Indian, 5 foot 8, slightly overweight, socially awkward, have increasing anxiety , and am losing hair, and have glasses. I’ve been an outcast in middle and high school, and while I have had some friends in college, most of them graduated or are really busy nowadays. I used to be able to chat up girls and guys easily but it’s harder for me to b… | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Let's get YOU a wingman!San Jose, California | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 07:18 AM |
| – | Depressed and feeling like an incelHow do I make friends? I usually am an acquaintance or a distant/loose friend. Most of my current friends are busy with exams now and not many want to meet new people | /r/seduction | 02/05/19 03:40 AM |
| – | Depressed and feeling like an incelSorry to hear about your experience. I just felt that relationships help you learn and be better. I've had friends with some similar issues with ex girlfriends and that made them smarter in dealing with future girlfriends | /r/seduction | 02/05/19 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Depressed and feeling like an incelI don't want to be an incel. I am turned off by their views on people. It;s about finding women who would want me, not just as a boyfriend or a FWB, but even as a close friend. At most, I am a loose friend, if not an acquaintance I have tried to make friends and find a job, to no success. Even sports teams and fraternities rejected me. I play video games and watch Netflix whenever I don't hang with my (few) friends (who are currently busy) | /r/seduction | 02/05/19 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Depressed and feeling like an incelI understand that nobody owes me anything. I don't agree with the incels' views and don't hate anyone, nor do I want to. I don't fear rejection itself, but fear a woman ignoring me or being cold to me after asking her out. Usually, we are warm and friendly towards each other and if she rejects me, she becomes colder and/or ignores me | /r/seduction | 02/05/19 03:35 AM |
| – | Depressed and feeling like an incelSorry to respond so late! I do meet women, but don't go further than being an acquaintance/loose friend with them I just end up being an acquaintance/loose friend. I don't know how to get into someone's inner circle. The vast majority of people tend to be the most open during the beginning of the year (August-September). There are more clubs but they tend to be for certain ethnic groups which I feel I wouldn't belong in (Black Accountants, Asian-Pacific Islanders, etc). Your suggestions don't … | /r/seduction | 02/05/19 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Depressed and feeling like an incelI do meet women, but don't go further than being an acquaintance/loose friend with them | /r/seduction | 02/05/19 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Depressed and feeling like an incelI did join clubs. The problem is that women there are either few or taken or uninterested . I make friends but I am bad at keeping them | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 06:59 AM |
| – | Depressed and feeling like an incelYeah, that seems possible. I just don't know how to escape that rut. I feel that getting laid / getting a gf will help. | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 06:54 AM |
| – | Depressed and feeling like an incelI do? | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 06:53 AM |
| – | Depressed and feeling like an incelIt's not just about being a virgin but finding a woman I can be with, which isn't an easy task for me. Offline isn't easy for me and Online is worse. Is weight training necessary if you're slightly chubby? I do know chubby guys who get laid. | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Depressed and feeling like an incelAdding on to jimboge32's explanation, incels also have very sexist/racist views and view women as "subhuman", and that massively turns me off | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Depressed and feeling like an incelI do talk to people and get along well. The problem is that they tend to be acquaintances, or the friendships don't last. Ironically, I made plenty of friends in freshman year (3 years ago) but they moved away or are busy to hang out. | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 06:33 AM |
| – | Depressed and feeling like an incelYeah, I don't want to adopt those sexist/views. | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 06:31 AM |
| – | Depressed and feeling like an incelYou’re right. I don’t want to be an incel at all. I don’t hate women or anyone, and I don’t want to | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 09:24 PM |
| – | Depressed and feeling like an incelI understand where you are coming from. It just that I was too slow to attract a woman last semester and she got with someone else, so my inability to take action didn’t help me | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How do I overcome a “player” reputation?You're doomed. Find another girl | /r/seduction | 20/04/19 12:06 AM |
| 1 | How do I approach and get a girlfriend fast?Continued (didn't have enough space, so had to cut some of your comment, sorry)- 4 I won't live on campus next year, so it won't be too easy then. I do want to end the year with positive memories It's as easy as you want it to be, whether or not you live on campus or not. And this overall attitude is guaranteed to make you miserable unless you start dismantling and challenging it! Look, the most important advice overall here is this. You have a negative voice in your head right now. And if you… | /r/seduction | 09/04/19 07:45 AM |
| – | How do I approach and get a girlfriend fast?1: You have left a shit ton of information out Sorry about that. I didn;t know what else to put. Thanks for letting me know. So with that in mind, some questions: To answer your questions, What year are you in school? Technically, I am a 4th year who was supposed to graduate but that's not possible. It'll take me another year or 2. Why won't you live on campus next year? Financial reasons. Where will you live next year? Do you have privacy there? I will live at home. And I don't have priva… | /r/seduction | 09/04/19 07:45 AM |
| – | Building a social/dating life in a monthHow do I be more assertive, without being creepy and approach / attract quickly? | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 04:11 PM |
| 0 | Building a social/dating life in a monthIt's not my last semester in college. | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach and get a girlfriend fast?I won't live on campus next year, so it won't be too easy then. I do want to end the year with positive memories | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 04:08 PM |
| – | How do you guys manage frustration and desperation, especially after failure?I ask the questions about school when in class. In a bar, I make a comment about the venue/drinks/hobbies since I don't know what else to talk about. I know that meeting the one/getting laid in a month isn't realistic. | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 09:48 PM |
| – | How do you guys manage frustration and desperation, especially after failure?I don't have any game, so you are right. I just don't know what to talk about to get to know her better and for me to come off as friendly and confident (missing the confident) without scaring her away How do I give out the sexual vibe? And I understand failing is part of success, but what if I fail everytime? I almost never seem to succeed. Even some FAs on Reddit have lost their virginity while I still haven't and I am almost 22. And yeah, some potential issues will be: Work/school, driv… | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys manage frustration and desperation, especially after failure?What should I talk about then? To get to know her well? | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 09:32 PM |
| – | How do you guys manage frustration and desperation, especially after failure?How can I change my mindset? I know that as a guy, women almost never approach me, so I have to approach on my own if I want anything to happen | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 09:31 PM |
| – | 21 year old virgin, no idea how to change it.It's mainly due to women not being interested in me, even as a friend in some occasions. | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 04:58 AM |
| – | 21 year old virgin, no idea how to change it.I meet girls easily, but it's harder to get them interested in me. | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 04:57 AM |
| – | 21 year old virgin, no idea how to change it.Huh? | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 04:56 AM |
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