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ZincMan/r/seduction29/09/16 11:07 PM
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Nothing beats a story like when things work out, Those little details stick in your memory. Good story and fun read, I know that excitement
/r/seduction05/06/20 03:17 PM
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Hey! You are right in this and I appreciate your response. But also it’s ok to talk to girls on the street sometime! After posting my reply that same night I met a girl on the street, got her instagram and we agreed to grab a drink! The whole interaction went very well! So I’m still getting the awareness and feel of getting over my fear, but also getting the correct vibe from a girl of when it’s ok to approach on the street and when it’s not ...
/r/seduction29/05/19 07:46 PM
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I’m scared of approaching girls on the street. By the time I check them out enough to realize I’m actually physically attracted to them I already feel creepy/ they feel out of my league. That’s what’s holding me back! St least I’ll admit it ! I talk to strangers all the damn time and am quite social, just bad at approaching girls I actually consider “hot” also I’m 34 but look young. I guess I need to start approaching?
/r/seduction29/05/19 05:03 AM
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TL:DW?
/r/seduction22/05/19 02:35 AM
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Yeah they are up there with Eastern Europeans and Russians
/r/seduction18/05/19 10:19 PM
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Right on man
/r/seduction11/05/19 04:50 AM
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This dude nailed the perfect post to get responses Holy hell! At least he’s doing that right ! Also, I am very impressed with your ability to continue despite rejection! Seriously man, that takes guts... approaching at all takes guts
/r/seduction04/05/19 09:14 PM
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You didn’t lead it to you meeting up/hanging out together
/r/seduction30/04/19 07:35 AM
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Wow. Fucking powerful
/r/seduction23/04/19 02:10 AM
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What courses did you take ?
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:49 AM
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Awesome man, great tips. Needed to read this and I have been thinking sort of these same things, good to see it written out and so concise. Thanks - From a pretty well rounded skinny dude who definitely needs to hit the gym.
/r/seduction18/02/19 07:27 PM
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Good stuff, needed to remember this
/r/seduction19/12/18 10:56 AM
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Good post. I had some down time this week and learned a new skill. The first 30 hours were COMPLETE failures! Just awful. And this skill was way outside my comfort zone. But something finally clicked and I figured out HOW to learn or how to approach the problem correctly. Anyway, it reminded me of pick up. You have to toss your ego aside and be willing to fail a lot, until you can figure out how to get to get to that break through point of “oh yeah! This is how to do it!” Was sort of eye opening…
/r/seduction29/10/18 11:06 PM
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Good stuff, straight to the point, not cringy. I like “she feels whatever you feel”
/r/seduction26/09/18 08:02 PM
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Damn...
/r/seduction21/08/18 02:14 PM
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What happened?
/r/seduction21/08/18 01:26 PM
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I agree and am too lazy to watch to add my 2 cents
/r/seduction16/05/18 08:25 AM
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The way he puts his sunglasses on all slow ... so good
/r/seduction14/04/18 12:59 PM
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I hear you, i think it’s also part of being a dude. A lot of time girls you’re not sleeping with currently just look a lot better. There’s that quote “no matter how beautiful a girl is there some guy who’s sick of fucking her”. I think there is a lot of gray area, but also if you feel you can do better and the girl you’re with now is not “special” to you, you should probably end it
/r/seduction09/04/18 07:45 PM
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In a very similar situation, it’s maybe the 3rd girl I’ve had this happen to over the past couple of years. After a 2 months or so I’d get that same feeling a break up. I’ve been feeling that same way again but this time I’m hanging in there a bit longer. I was basically honest with her, told her I wanted to break up and also that I’d most likely feel the same with other girls. She understood but also wanted to keep seeing me so we just kind of kept seeing each other, which honestly has been nic…
/r/seduction09/04/18 07:30 PM
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The amount of comments in this thread is kind of amazing
/r/seduction24/01/18 01:26 PM
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I have aa, everyone does. But the best way to get in a good head space is go out during the day and do things you want to and need to do. Like grocery shopping or buying things you like or going to an event you like. When you are doing something that YOU want to do it makes talking to women 1000% easier. I’ve really only gotten numbers that were good on accidental conversations while doing things I wanted to do
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:05 AM
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I recently switched jobs and work around a lot more women my age. Helps a lot, and easier for me because I don’t meet a ton of new people through social engagements
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:02 AM
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Look at it this way, if there are 2 yous. One who works out and one who doesn’t.. which do you think has a better chance of meeting girls ?
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:01 AM
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Oh man, this is very well written and lots of good points. also I feel very similarly in how I view seduction, but never really put it into words. Thanks Sharing the Instagram is a nice touch, I’m curious what kind of photos you put on yours.
/r/seduction31/12/17 01:24 PM
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Gotta take all of this with a grain of salt. Use what works for you and lose what doesn’t
/r/seduction30/12/17 06:54 AM
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NYE is the worst time to meet a girl imo, compared to Halloween which is the BEST holiday to meet a girl. Pressure is to high on nye and girls know it
/r/seduction30/12/17 05:39 AM
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You can just say meet me at X or at my place to “hang” and they’d probably get the picture without getting creeped out
/r/seduction26/12/17 06:05 AM
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I believe you... go for it or not? I mean you already stated you know it’s a problem she has a boyfriend. But don’t just wait around hoping, either make a move or let it go
/r/seduction24/12/17 05:04 PM
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I mean, like once you guys have had a few drinks or whatever and you’re getting the I like you vibes... after you leave the bar or whatever you can make a move, get more touchy and then kiss
/r/seduction24/12/17 04:56 PM
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You said you recently started going out more, and that you’ve mostly been anti social. Keep doing that. I’m not trying to sound cold. I’ve just been there. You can go for it but don’t put all your eggs in one basket. She might like you but don’t mess with that. Also barmaids get paid to be affectionate for a living, like actresses. You can’t trust that emotion. This is killing me typing this out cause I feel it should be obvious. But I’ve made the same mistakes
/r/seduction24/12/17 02:03 PM
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Tldr: don’t do it. So many girls out there. Stop now
/r/seduction24/12/17 09:45 AM
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Be romantic and talk, but on the 2nd date her drinks and move to touching casually while talking as if nothing is going on. Works for me. At some point she’s either in to you on not, and that’s how you find out
/r/seduction24/12/17 09:42 AM
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Doy Say we can meet up soon/gimme your number/let’s grab a drink/ let’s go get coffee/ let’s hang out/gimme your fb/# Also if he’s that hot, take it with a grain of salt, lots of hot girls are programmed to act like they want you on a superficial level. Just go for it
/r/seduction24/12/17 09:30 AM
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2nd this. Ask for the next step, meeting up for a drink or a date - sometimes the girl won’t know if she’s into you really - go out together and see if you have good chemistry
/r/seduction19/12/17 10:06 PM
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You gotta shop around and find a good one. There's a huge difference between a good and a bad therapist
/r/seduction29/10/17 12:18 AM
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Hey man, maybe talk to a therapist while you're at it. Really no shame in doing so and help you talk through some issues. It's good to respect yourself, not just for picking up girls
/r/seduction28/10/17 09:40 PM
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Now I want to get the bottom of this math, cause if he was good enough to do this equation, he would have known to round up :p
/r/seduction23/10/17 02:55 AM
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We've all gone through them. Rough breakups are really just a real human thing. I've definitely gone through 1 or 2 where I was sad for months, then you reach a day eventually where you no longer care. I've run into these girls after the emotion from the breakup was gone and it didn't reignite those bad feelings. Just hang in there, I know it sucks, but life will get better and you'll feel good about yourself and able to meet new girls eventually
/r/seduction21/10/17 10:08 PM
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A good workout will stop you from thinking about people as problems. Really helps. Also with time getting rejected (and also accepted) lots of times and you just start to care less
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:17 AM
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It'll be sexy for her to let her go, and be proud she's willing to admit that she's attracted to you. If she breaks up with him she won't forget you but for now move on asap
/r/seduction24/08/17 11:57 AM
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Never hurts to maybe see a therapist and talk about issues why you want to be too nice to people all the time. Like do you feel lesser than and you owe them something?(just an example) talking things out with a professional can reveal some insight about your inner workings
/r/seduction18/08/17 11:29 PM
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I enjoyed your post and I believe you, im actually surprised how many people are calling your story BS as it seems pretty tame and straight forward honestly.(still awesome don't get me wrong) I'm certainly not as "transformed" but I've had a few pick ups in my life with a beautiful girl or two and I remember many details(especially what worked) even though it was many years ago. It was great to hear your story as I have a date with a girl sort of by chance who seems out of my league, reading you…
/r/seduction30/07/17 10:09 AM
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This is fucking brilliant. So honest and well put, I've thought so many of these things before but never could convince myself- so nice to hear it all in one place and articulated so well. Thank you
/r/seduction04/03/17 07:48 AM
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Good job on having the balls to ask, most would never do that. She may have a bf or not but it's hard to know. Most importantly, you tried - don't get hung up on waiting around for her though and bring that energy to asking other girls out.
/r/seduction12/02/17 11:48 PM
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If she's saying that, then it's just a matter of time anyway. If she wasn't interested she wouldn't add on "tonight" to that sentence
/r/seduction01/01/17 10:07 AM
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Hey, feel the same way man. Same age, same situation. I got hope though, I think it's also realizing at this age that "love" isn't everything. Like, I do expect to fall in love again, but at the same time I know that even if I do find a girl I truly love it might not last forever. It's just finding the other things in life that make it good that I can rely on that make it all ok. And worse comes to worse at least you have had that feeling with someone in the past. But I feel yah
/r/seduction07/12/16 02:18 PM
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That's pretty forward for a girl who is not just fucking around on tinder imo. If she was legit and saying that - just joke with it, make it fun and the pressure off of actually having to show her dick pics, keep it funny and ask to meet up for a drink the next night
/r/seduction03/08/16 08:32 PM
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Dude, it will ruin the friendship if you ask her out. Unless she's already shown you signs of interest I wouldn't do it. If you feel like she will say yes, then go ahead. I've had a lot of friends her were girls want to date me all of a sudden and it's always turned out bad - I can't trust them as being just a my friend anymore, always feeling like they want something more or I am playing them. But if you like her, go for it but realize if she says no it probably won't continue as a friendship. …
/r/seduction01/08/16 04:52 AM
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This is the post I needed to read today. It's good to focus on improving your life, I know it's been said before, but it's good to hear again! I heard before somewhere about having a daily 3, do at least 3 things a day that you can be proud of/ tell someone about. Also, heard some where do at least 1 thing social a day 1 thing physical a day 1 thing intellectual a day(like read a book) If I follow these rules I feel much more confident around women and more able to approach naturally Thanks for …
/r/seduction31/07/16 06:10 PM
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Did she flake?
/r/seduction21/06/16 12:23 PM
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And I agree with you, you have to say fuck it. And staying in a good mood about your life is definitely key! I jut have this bug in my head telling me not to approach!
/r/seduction17/05/16 12:09 PM
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This really bites me reading this cause I saw this amazing girl, just my type the other day. It caught me so off guard and I just wasn't ready to approach/didn't think of it and now I'm still beating myself up over it. It probably would have made her day too. I'm good at many things, but I've always learned those things from other people. Really wish I had some people in my life that could walk me through it first hand of approaching and not being afraid. Reading things online has been good and …
/r/seduction17/05/16 12:04 PM
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I'm in NY. This really bites me reading this cause I saw this amazing girl, just my type the other day. It caught me so off guard and I just wasn't ready to approach/didn't think of it and now I'm still beating myself up over it.
/r/seduction17/05/16 12:01 PM
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I live in a city where I feel hot girls get approached frequently so for some reason it makes me feel worse about trying to approach. Like it's disrespectful to approach people in public because it's so populated that people should be left alone by randoms in public. Not sure how to get over this
/r/seduction02/05/16 02:49 AM
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Looks sick man! Keep it up. Pencil is a pain to work with
/r/seduction21/02/16 10:20 AM
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If you go to imgur.com you can upload it and then copy paste the link to the upload
/r/seduction18/02/16 11:23 PM
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Great advice man! Would love to See the drawing! Can you post it??
/r/seduction18/02/16 08:40 PM
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Damn man, I'm an artist as well. I sort of always figured it would be creepy as hell to do a portait of someone I barely knew and then show it to them, but I guess that can actually work! Definitely a bold move. Good story.
/r/seduction18/02/16 02:20 PM
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This is great. When she agrees to meet up how do you prevent flaking for the actual date? I feel the same, I'm much better in person, it's just hard to get girls not to flake on tinder
/r/seduction28/01/16 04:32 AM
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I match with hot girls on tinder all the Time and then proceed to fuck it up, so I feel this beating myself up a lot. Thanks
/r/seduction24/12/15 12:55 PM
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Zarathustra is an intense read. Good quote .
/r/seduction29/12/11 04:05 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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