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| 31 | Why does cold approaching feels frowned upon when it was practiced by previous generations and meeting girls in bars and online dating is similar to it? | Conversation | Zlint | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 10:16 AM |
| 14 | At what point does one’s social skills need to be before cold approaching is appropriate? | Conversation | Zlint | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 02:55 AM |
| 4 | I can’t help but think cold approaching is weird | Zlint | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 01:14 AM | |
| 2 | Common advice for a single guy to meet girls is to have hobbies. I have a couple of hobbies with girls in them, so what do I do to those who I find attractive? | Zlint | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 07:34 AM | |
| 2 | I want to ask out this girl but I'm busy this week. Is it okay to ask her out now or wait until next time? | Conversation | Zlint | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 05:29 AM |
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| 1 | Why does cold approaching feels frowned upon when it was practiced by previous generations and meeting girls in bars and online dating is similar to it?Well it’s certainly not from experience that’s for sure. I hardly talk to women | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Common advice for a single guy to meet girls is to have hobbies. I have a couple of hobbies with girls in them, so what do I do to those who I find attractive?The hobbies I do is a running club and dance lessons. With the running club I usually just meet them by randomly talking to people about how they feel for the run, if they come often, or what they’re wearing (like a sports team shirt). With the dance class we rotate partners so I just ask them for their names, if it’s their first time or how they’re finding the moves. Just quick small talk with not much time since we rotate a lot and fast. I try to meet girls and guys for both hobbies so no pres… | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 09:47 AM |
| 1 | I can’t help but think cold approaching is weirdI feel the same way as well about compliments too. I’ve always learned the format of “compliment the girl, then chat with her, then ask for her number”, and to be honest it does sound very scripted and I guess the girl probably noticed that too. The reason why I do so is to let her know exactly why I’m there and to eliminate any ambiguity as to why I’m talking to her. Thinking about my looks, I guess I can help myself in some aspects of it so I’ll feel less insecure. I recently got a haircut tha… | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 08:29 PM |
| 1 | I can’t help but think cold approaching is weirdPersonally I don’t like online game, and not really into night game as well. It throws off my weekend routine and I don’t really have anyone to hang out with | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | I can’t help but think cold approaching is weirdWhat would be your recommendation when it comes to meeting women? I sometimes find it to be one of my only options really. I go to swing dancing class and while there are some cute girls there, let’s just say I’d like to have more options (what else should I do?) and add to the fact that I have little knowledge/experience in moving things forward from that environment if I ever found a girl I’m keen on hanging out with. By the way, what makes someone very good looking in your perspective? | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 10:29 PM |
| 1 | I can’t help but think cold approaching is weirdThanks man. Just gotta be able to overpower my insecurities about my looks, weight and social skills to be able to do it. Thanks again for this! | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 01:44 AM |
| 2 | I can’t help but think cold approaching is weirdYeah the only hope I’m holding on to is the look on some of the girls’ faces when I tell them I find them cute. The way their eyes light up makes it worth it sometimes. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 01:36 AM |
| 4 | Got rejected brutallyBit of a confession from me but a while back during the day, I approached a woman on the street, told her how she looks beautiful, then replied that she had a boyfriend, as I was going to walk away she told me that she was approached by guys in a similar manner before and that what we were doing doesn't work. I felt like a creep. Ever since then my approach anxiety has escalated as I always think about what she said to me that day... | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 06:42 PM |
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