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I would love to see someone with a wealth of experience give their insight on this topic. Considering how important it is for us to produce, it's a subject that is rarely discussed not just here, but in life in general.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 01:28 PM
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So the saving order should look like something like this: Fertile women>girl children>useful grown males>infertile women=boy children=rest of males>useless ppl (too old or people who are working age but does not contribute to anything) That would be a pretty brutal position to be in to have to make that call, but I think you have the order right.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 11:59 AM
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I purposefully picked the age of 18 to keep the thread vanilla since technically speaking a female can become pregnant not long after she has her first period, and that can be as early as 11. That'd make for some pretty damn grim optics, and that's the last thing this sub needs. As far as the octuplets are concerned, I went with the most extreme, and impossible scenario on purpose to show that even then it still doesn't even come close. I could've gave the woman magic potions so they could have …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 11:51 AM
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Agreed, but if we're going off looks alone then ugly women stand a far, far greater chance of passing on their genes than ugly men. There's some remarkably ugly women out there, but they can get by with relative ease by having an average body and some makeup. For every ugly woman out there there's an equally thirsty guy, but this is not the case for men. Women are going to do everything they can to date up even if it's only a couple points.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 09:46 AM
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So both sexes are in the same boat of able-to-produce-far-more-than-we-need. How does the fact that one male can impregnate a milion women make him less valuable? I think because deep down we understand that if for whatever reason there was a drastic decline in the population of males we would still be able to endure, whereas if the opposite were to occur we would be in deep shit. Take it from the macro to the micro. Imagine a small tribe of 100 men and 100 women. If some unknown illness were to…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 07:51 AM
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I'm not sure if you're agreeing with me or not, but yes, it is men who are responsible for saving the women and children in the scenarios I put forth. A man must work to gain a certain amount of value, but in my opinion that value is not identical to the man who creates the infrastructure to allow for the work to even exist (although, this is not absolute). These men are few and far between. What is a Policeman today without phones, cars, firearms, etc.? Granted, you could say that if it wasn't …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 06:41 AM
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Powdered butt syndrome. Once a person has changed your diaper, and powdered your butt the likelihood that they'll take any advice from you is nil. Also, shattering his reality at 60 might do more harm than good. I don't know man, this is complicated. The best I can say is spend more time with your dad (fishing, gym, hunting, etc). Don't give advice unless it's asked for, and if you want to impart information frame it by telling him it's something you did in a particular situation (and why) as op…
/r/askTRP20/04/19 08:08 PM
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Just saw that today. The amount of squirming they're doing to try and get out of the situation, but not appear as if though they agree with him is pure comedy.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 11:05 PM
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This is the first red pill-esque book I read. Great intro.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 08:30 PM
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Went on a three month nofap to try it out, and I felt pretty fucking great. I still fap every now and then (like once a month), but the desire to do so is very low. I don't know how true this is because I personally haven't done any research on it, but the general idea is that your brain can't tell the difference between fapping and busting in some sugar walls so it believes you're achieving your biological imperative. If you do this with enough frequency it will change the chemistry within your…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 08:20 PM
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Short of calling the cops on him when you know he's going to drink and drive there's literally nothing you can do. Distance yourself, and whatever you do don't get in the car with the shithead unless you're behind the wheel.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 06:54 AM
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If you were to sleep with 25 different women, and had 3+ plates on rotation you wouldn't give a flying fuck about any of this. You're highly susceptible to oneitis because you've had a very small number of experiences, and have no options on hand.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 06:38 AM
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Lose it. 10 years from now you're not gonna look back on your first time and think, "Oh my gosh that was so special!"
/r/askTRP13/04/19 04:21 AM
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Triple that five count, and don't pay attention to the six month thing. She's either not attracted to you, and wants to keep you around for validation, or she's trying to convince herself she's not a slut. I would soft next, and if she doesn't get back to you in a way that conveys genuine interest then don't bother wasting your time.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 04:17 AM
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You don't need to go on some name brand diet to lose weight, just eat less calories than you need, and don't exercise until you've lost a good amount of weight so that you're not putting any unnecessary stress on your joints.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 04:44 AM
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Should I be worried about her sudden niceness all of a sudden? This would depend on who broke up with who, and why. If you left on good terms I wouldn't give a single fuck. If, however, that's not the case, and the relationship ended terribly then I would next the new girl. Some people here will disagree, but I personally would not allow myself to be in a LTR with a person who is friends with an ex that fucked me over. Could you imagine having to hang out with an ex who cheated on you because yo…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 12:51 AM
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Man, that's a tough question I really don't know what to tell you. If only there were some kind of profession out there that assisted people with dental problems.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 08:15 AM
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Drop the hero schtick, it never turns out the way you imagine it in your head. You just picked up an abused pit bull from the local animal shelter, and you've got no dog training experience to deal with the laundry list of behavioral problems coming down the pipe.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 09:29 PM
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Yup. Find a good calorie calculator to determine how big your surplus needs to be in order to gain one pound a week. Make sure you're getting enough protein too, the recommended amount is one gram of protein per pound.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 08:07 AM
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The higher your SMV is the higher your chances are of getting women with looks in the top 20%. This does not mean that you increase your SMV solely to gain access to them, and it does not mean that if you don't get them you aren't valuable as a person. This outlook is bound to send you down a slippery slope.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 07:55 AM
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I suppose, perhaps it's just not my style. My go to when it comes to most shit tests is to try and make myself laugh because that's what comes naturally to me. Whether she laughs or gets angry is irrelevant. I'm subscribed to Patrice O'neal's notion that at the end of the day both love and hate stem from passion, and so long as her passion is directed towards you you'll live in her head rent-free. If another man can piss your girl off he can probably fuck her.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 02:59 AM
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She threw a harmless jab at him, and he should've either ignored it or kept his response more light-hearted. Instead he got serious and gave her an ultimatum, and although she didn't offer any resistance in the moment, she won't forget it. This alone most likely won't be enough to change the course of the relationship, but nonetheless it could've been handled better. Her: you know ngl I’m sorry but I would cheat on you with x celebrity Him: Let me see a picture. That's him? Yeah, you're way too …
/r/askTRP06/04/19 01:39 AM
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He's not going to take any of the advice in this thread until after she's chewed him up and spit him out.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 10:27 PM
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I got lucky on looks, and cucked on height. Mom is 4'10, dad is 6'2, and I ended up 5'8. It doesn't hinder me much as I'm still taller than almost every woman I come across, but it is something men need to be more aware of when it comes to partner selection. If you'd like to get an honest rating for your face the sub truerateme is a pretty good place to go to
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:39 PM
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It's definitely possible to fuck up, but the more attractive you are the more leeway women will give you. Think of the face as a canvas that contains indicators of high/low testosterone and good health. Women can instinctively pick up on these signs. You ever hear a girl say shit like, "I don't know something about him just stood out to me!" Make no mistake about it, natural selection has given women the ability to sort the wolves from the pups. Unfortunately for them they want both in one. FYI …
/r/askTRP05/04/19 08:57 PM
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Unless you wanna lose your job, and ruin relationships with friends and family stop bringing up the Red Pill. People arrive at TRP when they need answers. People who are still plugged in truly believe they have shit figured out.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 08:04 PM
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This ^ To add to it do not go out of your way to tell her this. Do not call her. Do not text her. Do not approach her in person. Unless she physically gets a hold of you, and bawls her eyes out in public like some 5 year old whose mother refused to buy them a box of Mike & Ikes at the register, you keep moving forward without looking back. Closure doesn't benefit you, and women get over relationships way faster than men do. She'll have someone else's balls in her mouth in less than two months. T…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 07:39 PM
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Stay the course. If you can brush aside the petty annoyances, and come to the realization that her response is actually a good thing you can use it to your advantage. Don't take her reaction as an insult to your integrity, that's not what is happening here. She's coming to grips with the fact that your SMV is higher, and feels insecure. This is exactly what is required for a LTR to work. Don't make her feel totally secure in her position, but don't leave her out to dry either. If she can't curb …
/r/askTRP05/04/19 07:21 PM
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She ended up saying that she didn't know that what she was doing would bother me and that she wasn't aware how what she was doing had any effect on me. The truth always lies in her actions, not her words.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 06:50 PM
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Hate to break it to you chief, but your girl is a thot thot, and if she hasn't cheated on you already she will before the year is over. I dated women who did shit like this when I was younger, and almost all of them ended up with multiple baby daddies. Do not get it into your head that this sort of behavior is something you can sweep under the rug, and it will go away with time. This is a sign of her true nature. I remember one time I was out with some friends eating ice cream, and one of the gu…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:31 AM
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It's pretty fucking grim isn't it? OP was bullied for being fat, and so now he bullies fat people. I can't wrap my head around it, it's like some sort of twisted, vindictive reciprocity. This behavioral sequence is also very common in pedophiles.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 07:23 AM
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She’s losing attraction. Have you been giving her more of your time? Don’t let her get to comfortable. Dread her. Honestly bro best thing you can do is call off the hang out weekend and tell her something came up (make up an excuse). This will get her hamster spinning. This is the fucking move right here OP. The man is giving you jewels.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 12:29 AM
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^ This first and foremost. If you've never read the book 'The Four Agreements' you might want to give it a look when you get a chance. I think if you could apply some of its concepts to your life it would be very beneficial for you. If for whatever reason you can't get a copy pm me, and I'll try to get one to you.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:11 PM
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My takeaway from that situation is that you should never get married unless the laws change (spoiler warning: they won't). If you're hell bent on marriage do it privately, and don't involve the state. If she's truly a woman of quality who has something to offer then she shouldn't have to rely on a legally binding contract designed to strip you of your resources if the relationship goes south. One other thing I got from this, don't get into an LTR with a woman who thinks it's okay to fuck you whi…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:57 PM
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Personally, Peterson was one of several stepping stones that helped me arrive at the red pill. Once I saw what TRP had to offer I rid myself of some of the ideas Peterson promoted that I felt would hinder me, and kept the ones that I thought were beneficial. I also did this with the red pill, black pill, and pretty much every other fucking source of information I come across. Many people in TRP have well thought out reasons for disavowing Peterson, but there's just as many who appear to live in …
/r/askTRP03/04/19 11:01 PM
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Take the red pill before your next relationship. You clearly haven't read shit
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:55 AM
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Her: What do you want to do? Me: You. Her: ha well THATS not gonna happen? Me: Ok guess I'll see you another time. Her: so that’s the only reason you want to see me? Me: That depends, did you gain any weight while you were gone? This is one of the most basic shit tests ever, and there's plenty of ways to go about it. Read the side bar. You did the last thing you should ever do, get defensive and explain yourself.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 03:29 AM
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I believe so, but the chances are extremely low, and in my opinion the amount of effort you would have to put in to make it happen would be better spent on other women. Not only that, but funnily enough the very act of trying to become an alpha to convince one single woman that you aren't beta is beta behavior in itself. You have to become an alpha for you. The women are a byproduct of that process.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 11:26 PM
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I hesitate to say always, but what I can say is that the degree and rate to which she does try to ruin him will depend on her previous experiences, and how much of a bitch the guy is. The more alphas she's had, and the more beta the guy she settled for is, the heavier the consequences. If he's lucky she might just cheat on him behind his back, and that's it. If not she could drain his resources, distance him from his friends and family, groom him to become a cuck, hell, in some extreme cases she…
/r/askTRP29/03/19 10:56 PM
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The wall in this day and age is a myth that men will tell themselves to try and cope with the shit hand society has dealt them. "B-but this study says women peak in their 20s, and men in their 50s blah blah blah." Yeah, okay faggot. Go make a tinder profile with a picture of a 70 year old woman, and see if you have an ounce of trouble finding a guy who won't fuck you. Relationships won't be as easy to come by, sure, but sex? That train has left the station, and it's not coming back. The boundles…
/r/askTRP29/03/19 07:22 PM
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Absolutely. Not only will a woman despise a man who is not her first choice, they'll go so far as to actively try and ruin him. Women detest weak men, and if her partners prior to you were more alpha she will always view you as inadequate.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:15 AM
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I suppose one can call it that, sure, but I don't come out and tell her that. It seems we're hung up on the term is all. Perhaps my interpretation of what a plate can encompass has too much range, or yours is too limited. Either way I agree with your general premise.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 06:57 AM
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If she's getting fucked by another I would consider multiple sexual partners besides myself to be a big red flag (especially if she brings them up), and it would be grounds to disqualify her from being an LTR. Now, that doesn't mean you stop fucking, obviously, but that's not the point. If she has sex with me, I enjoy her company, and there are no big red flags during the vetting process than I would be willing to green light her for a LTR. That doesn't mean she wasn't a plate (to me, anyways).
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:53 AM
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A well vetted, long term plate who displays no big red flags are the ones you actually want for a LTR. Vetting for a LTR takes at least six months, and if she's not fucking you during that process then you might as well shove a dildo up your ass and stare at wall
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:05 AM
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Be grateful it ended as early as it did. Some guys waste decades before the guillotine drops.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:17 AM
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100% Keep doing you man. If you start to change what you're doing you're essentially going to remove the reasons she wants exclusivity to begin with. Never, ever initiate relationship talk. If she truly wants it she'll ask you to be her man eventually.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 03:07 AM
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If you have yet to read Jack Donovan's book 'The Way of Men' he has a fantastic chapter on this subject called 'On Being a Good Man'.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 02:38 AM
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100% And he would regularly abstain from masturbation and sex for months prior to a fight. God bless the pussy that had to withstand the brunt of that post fight frenzy
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 06:04 PM
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Except they're not advocating for femininity when they get into a position that dictates the narrative, they're trampling on it, and pretending as if though what they really want is equality across the board.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 04:33 PM
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Women only want "inclusion" when it comes to cool shit. When I start seeing these hoes march to get on an Alaskan Crab fishing boat maybe then I'll start giving a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 07:07 AM
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i struggle to think of anybody higher status than this - it tops AAA list movie star for me. At that particular time I really can't think of anyone else on that level. Once Cus D'Amato died, however, and he married Robin Givens shortly after everything came crumbling down.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 05:54 AM
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'tis the law of the land. The chicken wing king Rick Ross said it best, "Girls wanna have fun and a nigga with some change, and I doubt that'll ever change." I wouldn't be surprised if half the women Mike dicked down were in relationships.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 05:43 AM
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Why is the redpill so against female friends? Because the majority of guys are thirsty losers, and their 'friendships' with women are contingent on the slim chance that she'll have sex with them. If no sexual tension ever develops the friendship will inevitably end. Put it this way. Let's say you have a female friend, and one day for whatever reason she tells you she no longer wants to be friends with you. No texts, no phone calls, and no dates. All she wants to do is come over every other Satur…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:14 PM
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Key word here is heavy. If you go in the gym and push your limits work will seem like child's play in comparison. This goes for martial arts as well.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 04:22 PM
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You're completely honest with your partner. A word of caution here, being completely honest, and being completely open are two different things. Failure to recognize this can often lead to guys spilling their guts over shit that they should really be keeping to themselves.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:25 PM
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Send him a dick pic with some concert tickets in the background.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:11 PM
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She wasn't giving you much to work with, but you handled it fairly well. Like someone else mentioned leave it at that, and set up a date or risk looking too passive.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 02:53 PM
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In general, how much room do you REALLY have to fuck up with a girl before she pegs you as a beta and moves on? This depends on a variety of factors. How important the topic surrounding the shit test is to her. The degree to which you fail. How often you fail. How many you fail. There's probably more things you could list, but those are the only ones that come to mind right now. What's important to note is that a relationship can last a long time even if a guy fails the mundane shit tests. This …
/r/askTRP07/11/18 01:42 AM
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You're no longer a slut, and can sustain an image of purity. The majority of people will believe you, and you will get tons of support and attention. You get to have revenge on the guy if he didn't give you the commitment you were seeking. It doesn't add to the n-count so they can fool future prospects into thinking they aren't getting broken goods. Being a victim absolves you from having to interact with men who question the validity of your claims, thus increasing the pool of betas willing to …
/r/askTRP06/11/18 11:03 PM
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Find an escort outside of your area that looks hot. TRP generally doesn't encourage this act because it's one of the most beta things you could ever do, and while I agree, you need to get this whole virginity thing over with. The lack of sexual intimacy in your life has caused you to put the experience on a pedestal, and that's probably one of the main reasons you can't get any. Desperation is one of the biggest attraction repellents you could ever possess. If pussies could turn into facehuggers…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 10:36 PM
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But it's not all fun. Learn to embrace it. Women subconsciously want us to pass shit tests. It is something that exists to reassure them that you have what it takes, and is mostly independent of her own self worth. By not addressing them you are communicating to her that you lack the qualities necessary to make her feel secure, and just like a child whose parents didn't discipline them they will become resentful. This woman has been throwing you the same shit test (and who knows how many others)…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 08:10 PM
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Exactly, this is a shit test. Either pass it or set a boundary, and be stern about it. No matter which option you choose she's gonna throw one hell of a tantrum (mostly due to the fact that you let this shit go on for so long). Do not back down. Do not explain yourself.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:53 AM
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A lot of the comments on here are telling you to not be insecure, and while they're right, it doesn't mean this behavior isn't a red flag. A girl who flaunts hypergamy in your face like that (assuming this isn't in jest and you're being a pussy) is more likely to act upon it when you're not looking. An infatuation with social media is a no go when it comes to LTRs.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 07:18 PM
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Pretty much. All this 'strong independent woman' horseshit that is being shoved down their throats is only making them miserable in the end. They become the breadwinners, and thus have difficulty finding partners higher up so they either end up alone or marrying a lower value male who they inevitably end up resenting. It's kind of surprising how so many of them fail to realize this before it's too late. Being a king isn't in the queen's job description.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 06:47 PM
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Before the creation of civilizations the act of rejection was essentially a death sentence, and we've spent far more time being hunter-gatherers than we have in our current configuration.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 06:07 PM
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I hate giving people advice on this because every 'sign' that a girl gives you could mean something entirely different (or nothing at all). What matters most is your ability to interpret body language. A girl that looks at you up and down, and smiles while tucking her hair behind her ear may not be as interested in you as much as the girl who gives you nothing more than a closed smile. Now, is it more likely that the former's interest is higher than the latter? I would think so, but you won't kn…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:58 PM
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I've had them suggest the idea, but I never followed through. After a certain amount of time spent together there's just too much fuckery involved. I'd much rather find a fun new plate who knows nothing about me than to try spinning an ex.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:36 PM
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No. Failing a shit test is an inevitability, but they're never ending so you're best bet is to stop giving a fuck, and pass the ones that follow. If the same one keeps coming up, and you keep failing it then chances are your frame needs work.
/r/askMRP05/11/18 05:22 PM
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This has been my overall experience as well, especially with hispanic women. I attended school in the Caribbean for several years; if a hispanic girl likes you, she'll make damn sure you know about it (although it's more subtle in the states).
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:54 AM
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This is a great answer. In response to OP, don't confuse effort with results. If you work 16 hours a day doing something that I can do in 8, and I use the remaining 8 to rest does that make me lazy? Effort and results are closely related, but they aren't one in the same. You have to analyze your situation, and identify the areas where you could improve your efficiency to ensure you're getting the most out of your time. Personally, I can tell when I'm being lazy if I'm spending my time doing thin…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 12:12 AM
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Let's be honest here, you didn't vet this woman properly before committing yourself to her. She is not marriage material, and no amount of frame, and lifting is gonna change that. I don't know if you're in denial, or you're actually this foolish, but if you think she's just flirting then you need to wake the hell up. If she's willing to behave in such a disrespectful manner in front of you then just imagine what she does behind your back. She's probably been fucking other dudes for the entirety …
/r/askMRP04/11/18 10:15 PM
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She's a post-wall dunce who's out of time, and is trying to develop a pool of betas to cushion her downfall. Given your age, though, this isn't the case for you. You're not at the age where you have all of the resources that a beta bux does. She's with you to get her alpha fix. With that in mind, don't take anything she says seriously; as long as her actions remain the same so should your treatment. My response to hearing "you don't know how to treat a lady!" would be laughter. Would it work? I'…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 09:47 PM
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I honestly don’t think i could ever do better than her. This is why you blew it. Move on, and rid yourself of this beta ass mindset.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 03:30 PM
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It's white knighting if you did it in hopes of getting laid. When in doubt ask yourself if you would've done the same thing for a guy in a similar situation. If the answer is yes, then this is simply a matter of helping someone who's being bullied. Whether or not it's a stupid thing to do is an entirely different topic.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 02:41 PM
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Precisely. So long as he has other people to blame for his shortcomings he doesn't have to stare into the giant hole he's dug up for himself. Fuck him, he's gonna get some tomorrow... Don't be mean, but don't be nice either. Conduct yourself in the same way you would with a child. How would you feel if you saw an adult being hostile towards a kid because they said something mean? That's how your co-workers are going to view you if you lash out at this guy.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 02:22 PM
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I forget who it was that said this, but TRP isn't about the truth, it's about what works. You simply cannot pour the experiences from every member here into a beaker, and attain an exact measurement on what works and what doesn't. There's an indefinite amount of variables, and an indefinite amount of ways to approach a situation. Your best bet is to find the most common patterns that yield the results you want, and implement them into your life. This is why fitness, frame, and money are staples;…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 03:41 AM
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I did some of the most nauseating beta shit you could imagine when I was younger. From writing poetry to staring out the window crying, hoping to see my ex's car pull up in the driveway like I was in some fucking music video. I was beyond pathetic, but at the end of the day it's not who I am right now so it doesn't bother me. If anything I should be grateful I made those mistakes.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 02:48 AM
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Anyway she suggested that we meet at Barnes & Noble. This is different than the usual which has always been to me to my place. I could be over analyzing this, but this could be a sign of her trying to get her hand on the reins. Whenever someone decides where a meeting is going to take place their frame is naturally bolstered. This applies to damn near everything in life from going to interviews, negotiations, auditions, planning birthday parties, etc. It's up to you to pay attention, and use you…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 01:48 AM
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This person has no self respect, and as you now know will do absolutely anything to protect their reputation. If you expose her she will make up all sorts of terrible things about you. Forget her, and focus your energy on getting fit, making money, and spinning plates.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:18 PM
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After sitting down for long periods of time sometimes I'll stand up flat against a wall for a second or two to check my posture. It's fairly easy to do, you just gotta make sure your ass, upper back, and head are touching the wall. I'll even do this before a deadlift if I feel my posture is off that day. The first time I did this I was shocked at just how much my head was hanging forward.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 08:23 PM
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I dated a chick once who had been molested by a family member as well as one of her ex's. At the time I was too fucking stupid to consider them red flags, and viewed myself as some sort of hero who was coming in to save the day smfh We were together for quite some time, and while she did eventually overcome her fear, and became physical with me (freakiest chick to date) it just wasn't worth everything else that came along with it. Severe trust issues, overly emotional, constant break-ups, impuls…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 07:24 PM
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If your LTR isn't broken goods, but is then violated by someone how does this alter the manner in which you approach the situation? I'm not in a LTR, but I have a hard time seeing myself abandoning someone because they became broken goods against their will. My gut tells me it would be entirely dependent on their response, and if it ends up being self destructive that any intervention on the man's part would be like putting a band-aid on a severed limb.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 06:40 PM
1

in one of his latest failures, I warned the moron that the woman he's been helping for so long threw him under the bus with the company owner more than once and was making him a scapegoat for her failures. He even got reprimanded by the owner. And you know what he did? He ignored me, and keeps helping her... wtf is wrong with men like this??? Stop helping him you dunce. Every time you interact with this person you're putting yourself at risk. Weak people in the workplace more often than not are …
/r/askTRP03/11/18 05:53 PM
3

For real. This is a great post, but boy did it make my skin crawl.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 06:30 PM
3

Yes, but don't do it to 'beat' her to it like it's some sort of race. The point is that she could take several months before she officially cuts you off, and your time would be better spent doing other things.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 06:14 PM
1

I love how you weren't actually prepared for her to take the request seriously, and now have to scramble to look fancy. lol Worst comes to worst make a dash to the mall, and rent a suit. Good luck
/r/askTRP30/10/18 02:20 AM
3

Her new man gave her the boot, or she hasn't been able to find someone else to help carry her baggage. She needs you to be her emotional stepping stone.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 12:39 AM
1

If you break down why people get angry to its most rudimentary element it's always because they feel they've lost control of something. This is why a strong frame, and being outcome independent are requisites for developing personal power.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:43 PM
1

As far as I'm concerned she's already cheated on you plenty of times, and you're better off doing a host of other shit with your life. That said you have oneitis, and clearly aren't going anywhere. I highly recommend you start surrounding yourself with other women. Go do some yoga or take salsa lessons, etc. Best case scenario your girl feels threatened, and falls in line. Worst case scenario, you have options after she inevitably sets you on fire.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 07:29 AM
1

Try both of them out, and go with the one you enjoy more first. I personally enjoy bjj more, but you gotta be mindful of bigger guys. In boxing you won't ever spar with them, but it's not at all uncommon to roll with someone who weighs 50+ pounds than you. Keep that shit to a minimum, and only do it with the higher belts. Rolling with a big ass white belt is just begging for an injury to happen.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 07:13 AM
1

To answer the question asked in the title; I wouldn't feel anything because I'd never get in a relationship with a girl who has guy friends (AKA guys who will try to fuck her the first chance they get). While this chick is openly going out on dates with other men you're sitting here trying to make up excuses for her. Wake up sweet summer child, your instincts aren't going off the rails for no reason.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 06:57 AM
1

You should read 'The Way of Men' by Jack Donovan; he delves into this subject in great detail. What /u/GayLubeOil is saying on the surface is bound to sound crazy to some, but it speaks to the reality that there are inherent differences between being a good man, and being good at being a man.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 12:12 AM
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This is hilarious. I wouldn't read into it too much, it sounds like she's just really enjoying herself. Now if the grin turns into rampant cackling I would slap her over the head with a bible and make a run for the door
/r/askTRP12/10/18 11:38 PM
1

Don’t move in with a girl unless you’re planning on having a symbolic ceremony with her within a year? Why would that mean it’s a good idea to move in with her? Because at that point you should already know whether or not you want to be committed. You don't ever live together unless you wanna be with the broad until one of you is in a casket. Why a ceremony? Because the primary method of consolidating a relationship in most cultures today is through marriage, and a symbolic marriage is infinitel…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:38 PM
1

To us.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:44 PM
1

There's nothing wrong with a symbolic ceremony as long as you don't get the license. If she doesn't approve then you dodged a bullet.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:01 PM
1

This reads like something an angry 12 year old would've said in the early days of Xbox Live. Only thing you're missing is the fucking his mom part
/r/askTRP12/10/18 05:07 AM
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Letting her move in with you was a mistake.Three months? Fucking really dude? You have completely freed her from competition anxiety. Never live with a woman you don't plan to marry in less than a year.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:57 AM
2

You're not making your intentions clear early enough. When you try to make things sexual after she's already put you in the friend zone it's like her favorite stuffed animal all of a sudden has a dick
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:55 PM
1

The way I see it you can do everything right, and she still might jump on some other dude's dick. Applying TRP principles doesn't make monkey branching an impossibility, but it does significantly reduce the chances of it happening.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:48 AM
5

She's 100% gettin' fucked
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:24 AM
5

Sidebar.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:09 AM
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Eeeh, I suppose in some fashion I do miss some of the blind freedoms that my ignorance granted me. There's a sense of temporary bliss that you can derive from giving yourself completely to another person. That being said the only things all that mushy bullshit gets you in the end is misery and indentured servitude to a solipsistic pink sock. I would much rather take ownership of my life, cultivate a strong sense of belonging and purpose, and have relations with women on my own terms. To me that'…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:16 AM
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Unless you're trained I really wouldn't recommend it. Women who train are generally very masculine, and are surrounded by barbarians on a regular basis. The chances that she'll view you as alpha is grim, and if she does she will try to break you more than any other kind of girl. One of the first gyms I used to take classes at only had about 3 girls, but all of them would be chomping at the bit when a new guy signed up. It's often encouraged to have experienced girls crush a white belt's ego.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 11:35 PM
2

Start small, and build it up so that it becomes a habit. For example, earlier this year I got tired of having a sink full of dishes at the end of the week so I took small, incremental steps to prevent it from happening. It took a while, but eventually I got to the point where everything I use I wash immediately (especially right after cooking), and I've done it so many times that I don't even think about it anymore. When you repeat the same action enough times it will become just another thing t…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 11:08 PM
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I wouldn't hide it, but don't be surprised if it turns them off. In the future I'd prohibit girls from giving you hickeys. Nobody out of high school thinks that shit is cute unless they're mentally retarded.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:37 PM
1

Same here. OP has to put together a playlist full of rage, and go throw some plates. Nothing like a heavy set of deadlifts to exorcise the demons.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:23 PM
1

If rubbing her clit in that position doesn't do the trick you can try putting pressure above her pubic bone with your hand instead. Prone bone already puts you at a good angle to hit the g-spot, and adding pressure from the outside can make it more intense. You can do the same thing when you finger her
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:09 PM
1

I think he'd be much better off with some dread game, and a fresh pair of broken arms.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:21 AM
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This is going to make me sound like a psychopath, but I can't think of another way to put it. Nothing puts you at ease quite like walking into a room full of people you know you could destroy in minutes. It frees you to interact without fear, and not only do physical threats become borderline comical, but you lose the urge to prove yourself so you're more willing to deescalate a situation.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:17 AM
1

she let me know that she came because she was genuinely curious about me and we couldnhang out further but essentially that she didn't feel any romantic feelings yet, and it would take some time if they were to develop. This is not a matter of logic on her part, she's just not genuinely attracted to you. There is no "yet" in the world of attraction. She's either turned on by you or she isn't. Can you play the long game and maybe fuck her several months later? Sure, but by then you'll be complete…
/r/askTRP09/10/18 04:17 AM
1

This is such an interesting point. A disapproving mother-in-law might be one of the only cases in which a woman will outright betray the feminine imperative. They can instinctively see the hole that's being dug for her son because they're guilty of the same behavior, but their emotional attachment is too strong to allow it. Am I trippin' balls or is this just a case of the mom not wanting to lose her son as a resource?
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:56 PM
1

He's definitely got some screws loose, but none of them knew any of the fighters on the card besides Mcgregor. btw if Pettis didn't break his hand that shit was on its way to be FOTY. Robbie and Rory level
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:31 PM
1

they can't empathize with the male perspective too At all. Last night I was watching UFC 229 where one of the fighters cried after winning his fight, and the women in the room questioned why he'd do such a thing, and even went so far as to call his reaction stupid. This coming from the same people who cry over soap operas or a rough day at work. Women simply don't understand the gravity of sacrifice on the same level as guys because for them it's a choice. If a woman wants to be 'successful' all…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:19 PM
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/r/askTRP06/10/18 05:07 PM
1

not to Humble brag but my smv is high Men with high SMV don't sift through garbage. Sidebar
/r/askTRP06/10/18 06:46 AM
1

The book "The Charisma Myth" covers this topic very well.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 08:59 PM
1

If I'm in a place where interacting with women I have no interest in is inevitable I keep the conversation brief, and cordial (otherwise I simply mind my own business). FYI providing us with your own personal scenario (if you have one) is going to yield better answers.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:49 AM
1

I wasn't aware. Whatever the case don't use that as an excuse. Undeniably high SMV always reigns supreme. Do you think a guy like Jason Momoa would have trouble getting laid in Switzerland because the women there are known to be uptight?
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:33 PM
1

The women you deem uptight are women who have sports cars, and are being propositioned by betas who think they could keep up with her in a Toyota Camry. Either that or they're just cunts (or both, it's probably both).
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:03 PM
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They're all different on the surface, but the underlying components that drive them are virtually identical in their function. This is a bit of a janky correlation, but if it helps any try and think of them almost like a car. She can personalize the exterior and interior to hell and back, but at the end of the day what's under the hood is an engine than intakes air, compresses air and fuel, combusts, and then exhausts. If cars aren't your thing then just apply the same idea to something more fam…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:48 PM
1

Pull yourself together for fuck's sake you're crying over a hooker. Go stick it up your LTR's ass and relax Richard Gere
/r/askTRP04/10/18 09:00 AM
1

It's like talking to your co-workers about how much you get paid. Not only is it none of their business, but no matter what the number is someone is going to walk away unhappy. Put it this way, would you give your co-worker your pay stub? I sure fucking hope not. Analogies aside, if your number is low her competition anxiety will plummet. She has no reason to try if hardly any other women wanna sleep with you. If your number is high she will use it against you any chance she gets, and she will r…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:51 AM
1

You're putting way too much faith in dread. The general feeling of insecurity that a woman needs to have in order for a LTR to work should be something that exists because you have a high sexual market value, and can replace her with ease. Without that dread game is a paper tiger. As far as not checking in is concerned, yes, it's really that bad. You're not a little boy anymore, go take your shit without asking for a hall pass, and stop trying to paint it as something else. You're not curious of…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:02 AM
1

All I did was text "Hey babe. Long day at work. Fantastic gym session and now I'm home finally relaxing." Call it for what it is. What you're doing is 'checking in' so she knows you're not out fucking some other woman, and hoping she reciprocates because you're afraid she's out getting power fucked.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:52 AM
1

You should not be in a LTR. You're not ready.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:31 AM
1

It's a study published in the American Law and Economics Review called, "These Boots Are Made for Walking: Why Most Divorce Filers are Women." There's also a more recent study done by the American Sociological Association titled, "Who wants the Breakup? Gender and Breakup in Heterosexual Couples." In a nutshell, in numerous states with no-fault divorce roughly 70% of the divorce filings were initiated by women. Among college-educated couples, the percentage of divorces initiated by the wives ros…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:58 AM
1

^ 69% of women initiate divorces, and 90% of those divorces are initiaed by women who went to college. Go figure.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 12:02 AM
1

Do you remember the store name?
/r/askTRP02/10/18 11:43 PM
1

The biggest mistake a guy can make (blue pill or red) in this situation is to try and salvage the relationship. If she is falling head over heels for someone else you lost the war a long time ago. That said blue pills will almost always never do this, especially if they've invested several years into the relationship. Their oneitis will cause them to have visualizations of her being fucked by the other guy, and it will eat them from the inside out. The things you listed are par for the course, a…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 10:56 PM
1

Put it in her butt.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:27 PM
1

Turn him into a plate? If you can get passed the stubble that dude probably sucks dick better than any woman you've ever been with lmao
/r/askTRP02/10/18 04:48 PM
1

It's not redundant at all. When taken to the highest level the wrestler will always wipe the floor with a Hapkido practitioner. It's not even a comparison. There's a reason there aren't any successful Hapkido users in MMA. I'd say if you enjoy fencing significantly more than wrestling then do that, but if one of the deciding factors for not wrestling is that Hapkido has already taught you what you need to know about takedowns then you're delusional as fuck.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 06:41 AM
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You have to start making some important choices in your life regarding friends, hobbies, career, education, etc. Choosing a path, and committing to it is a terrifying thing because there's no certainty that it will get you where you want to be in life, and to make matters worse once you choose to do something you're permanently closing the door to other avenues that may or may not have been better. However, what's even worse than that is not doing anything at all, and being exactly where you are…
/r/askTRP22/09/18 03:43 AM
1

Did you approach your career in the same fashion?
/r/askTRP21/09/18 01:06 AM
1

Passing a shit test doesn't mean she won't throw a fit. Let her throw her tantrum, she'll come back around eventually (don't take what you said back when she does). If anything, I'd say perhaps you were too direct in your approach. I think a backhanded compliment would've gotten the point across more smoothly Her: Do you think I've gotten fat? You: Thick is in right now.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 06:06 AM
1

You know when your manager tries to be cool and build a good friendship with you and be like “so and so does this because he’s a loser” (he’s talking about you). I'm not sure I fully understand what in the hot hell you're on about, but I think I get the gist of it. So for example, say you enjoy doing jigsaw puzzles or somethin', and your co-workers find out so they start busting your balls for it, what do you do? First, read the sidebar, and second, don't get upset. I don't care what method you …
/r/askTRP20/09/18 12:48 AM
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I grew up in a shit hole city with tons of gangs, and I can attest to seeing similar behaviors in school. A lot of the girls I went to school with didn't care if a dude was a deadbeat with no potential so long as he exhibited a couple of alpha male traits. Hell, he could be a drug addict, gang member, out of shape, barely read a fucking sentence, etc. None of it mattered. So long as you were popular, respected, and you didn't give a fuck chances are you were gonna get some, and the bigger the ga…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 08:28 AM
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You reek of desperation, and she can smell it a mile away. Stop dwelling on her, and move on. If she gets back to you then great, if she doesn't also great.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 09:58 PM
4

Matthew 7:6
/r/askTRP18/08/18 06:54 AM
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I get it though your panties are rightfully in twist that women have it better in life so you want them hurt the way men can be What in the... how the fuck did you derive all of that from the previous comment? You would literally have to tack on like 3 nonexistent sentences to get to that point.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/18 07:15 PM
1

What seems like nothing in one place of the world is an entirely different thing in others. If you steal a water bottle from a local convenience store in the states you might be banned from the store, and charged with a misdemeanor. If you steal water from a sub-Saharan African village where children have to walk over 10 miles for half a gallon someone might literally fucking kill you. I've no clue how vital this business is to the well being of these people so for me to judge them for their rea…
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/18 06:49 PM
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