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DATING ADVICEZoe_Rae/r/RedPillWomen22/06/18 10:00 PM
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DATING ADVICEZoe_Rae/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 09:30 AM
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There is no specific place When I was single you couldn’t keep me in the house. Tennis, yoga class, gyms , concerts, parks, hiking trails, and wellness retreats You can go almost anywhere and still be invisible to men. So make sure to: Practice the 2/3 rule: hair , makeup or outfit. 2 of these needs to be 🤩 Looking nice and enjoying yourself/life attracts people to you. You want guys to approach you Unpopular opinion but online dating is scraping the barrel these days. Wouldn’t do it Goodluck 💕
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/25 05:19 AM
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I wouldn’t even move towns for a boyfriend. Have you guys spoken about marriage?
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/25 08:09 PM
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If you want to be successful at dating and marriage you need to be more strict girl You mentioned your previous relationships. One 5 years and the other 3-4 years. What’sup with the long relationships that don’t get to marriage? Don’t let men waste your time or fertile years and have strong boundaries. He sounds like a f boy and I wouldn’t believe a word he says going forward
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/25 08:55 PM
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To answer your question. You will always be young to someone. If you are 40, there are 45-55 year old men who find you attractive and don’t want to date a college student More importantly, I feel you need to take time off the internet and build/live your real life. Some things are said on the internet over and over but reality is completely different The internet isn’t going to build your self esteem, especially not toxic redpill men. You need to live your life, get hobbies, friends who adore yo…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/25 06:56 AM
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I married well and girl let me tell you. You can never go back with lifestyle It’s like getting used to flying business class . The thought of economy class will have you in a panic attack 😂😂 So I don’t think you are a gold digger. You want a good life and that’s okay I wanted to be a stay at home mom and send my kids to European boarding schools. That requires money I love my husband more than anything but I won’t lie and say the money doesn’t help
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 07:52 PM
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As a black woman myself, this made me sad. Low SMV has nothing to do with your race. I understand that media and social media can have you thinking some pretty damaging things about yourself. You being a black woman doesn’t automatically mean your SMV is low. Nothing is implicitly true about that, it’s your belief system Even if you increase your SMV. If you don’t like yourself and believe you’re someone to be cherished, higher SMV won’t give you self esteem Talk to someone , do some mirror work…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/25 06:17 PM
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The only thing you can really keep up with is being yourself. What are your strengths and I don’t mean to be crude but why should said guy take a second glance at you? We all have things that make us special. Be it your personality, humour, beauty, quirks ect Whatever makes you special, double down on that and the right guy will love you. I feel women aren’t educated on just how men will love you even with flaw some might consider “huge” If he loves you, he loves you. So don’t try stunts you can…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 08:50 PM
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It’s very normal for a women’s desires to change over time. I feel women aren’t adequately prepared or educated on how you change over time What we want in your 20s isn’t want you want in your 30s. You grown up and you get tired 🥹 Anyway, I came to say everything comes at a cost and so will being family oriented after building your career for a while. Take things as they come because you don’t know what type of pregnancy or baby you will have. Hopefully your hubby can provide whether you work, t…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/24 04:10 AM
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I’m so sorry this was your childhood, you deserved better I don’t have a great relationship with my father. Matter of fact I went no contact years ago and I’ve made peace with it I’ve managed to rest in my femininity and find my balance in a masculine man who is a wonderful protector + provider. Some suggestions: Humanise your father, I’m not saying what he has done is right or even acceptable but understand that he is a human, a man before he is your father and things turned out like this for a…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/24 10:45 PM
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I would take the time to shine the light within and figure out if I could handle: The consequences of waiting longer. There’s an opportunity cost that comes with waiting for him. Be that your time, fertility, potentially meeting another soulmate, you having to stay in the labour market longer etc The consequences of giving him an ultimatum. This could lead to a break up and your back in the dating market I’m not a fan of “waiting” for anyone. It seems you need to realign as a couple and you need…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/24 06:58 AM
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I don’t think he is a provider BUT you can talk to him about these things. Just like you did with the gifts. I got an allowance as a gf because we spoke about it At some point you need to find out what’s important to your partner and do those things, unless it’s really against your moral code. Like my fiancé loves my cooking so I cook and bake a lot, it takes no skin off my back and makes him happy. He doesn’t care about V.day but will make sure I feel special with plans and flowers. All this to…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/24 08:23 PM
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This is fun! At home lymphatic drainage massage Red light therapy mask Sauna 1 hr a week Walk 10k steps while I watch a podcast/kdrama, listening to K-pop Fasting 20 hours a day Seeing my therapist. It can be painful emotionally but I actually love myself now lol
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/24 12:04 AM
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You avoid blaming your partner for your father’s faults but seeing a therapist. It’s not his responsibility to heal you or help you emotionally regulate I had a father wound and have been in therapy for years. It’s helped me and our tremendously
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/24 05:49 AM
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Lucky you!! I’m not on anything, it was my first and last. Ready to have a baby anytime 😅🥹
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 11:14 AM
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OMG! Don’t get me started on the copper freaking IUD. It completely killed my sex drive and relationship with the my ex, all in one go I’m not sure what the science is , so read up on how it can affect your hormones + sex drive. It’s definitely contributing to the issues in your relationship Try another contraceptive soon as you can. It can make you a mess🥹😭😭😖
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 08:19 PM
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Hey girl! 💕 You sound to be in hyper-independence mode and that can sometimes stem from trauma. Also working at a demanding office job + looking after your parents can require a lot of your masculine energy Im all bout actionable steps, so here is what I would do: Start seeing a therapist. So many people are held back by their trauma, healing makes you shine and happy. People are drawn to that Get help with your parents. Outsource, outsource, outsource! Have the time you spend with your parents …
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 07:33 PM
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Girl!! I was dragged to hell and back at the womenover30 subreddit. I asked for advice involving maintaining friendship with my single friends while I’m moving into married life. Will just talk to my therapist next time😂🥲💀 it was OUCH!
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 10:48 AM
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Yes, old money is definitely all about pedigree and that makes it much much harder to attain if middle class/poor. I focused on new money, easier to navigate Manifestation has its place but you are right, it’s not the entire picture. Most women will be left with undesirable options, so femininity and having a plan helps tremendously Also there just aren’t enough well off men to go around. If you fail at least know you have tried your best. Seems like you are discouraging her for the sake of “rea…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/24 09:47 PM
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Hey!! Absolutely, I’m happy to have a private chat. Will give you ALL of my girl game😂🤗🤗
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/24 09:38 PM
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This is very possible for you! If you are American as I think ,then girl you have options most do not. As an African I didn’t have access to the NFL players, East coast Connecticut money & more. With that being said you need to figure out What level of SAHW are you thinking? Are you happy to be middle class with 1 car or are you looking for the upper class life with the private pilates class + night nurses , private schools for the kids ect . This will inform your dating strategy and how rich yo…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/24 04:11 PM
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I am South African and agree!! 80% of South African women only date Nigerian men, while in South Africa lol . They are traditional providers, so go back home my sister🤣😂
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 12:03 PM
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Unfortunately most modern men don’t have a cooking clue what masculinity and being provider even means. Strong male examples are few and far between , then modern men are left with nothing but femininity to model. With that being said, I managed to find myself a lovely provider who is the greatest man I know, so I don’t hate men by any means. I’m just realistic about what’s mostly out there You will have to keep your standards UP and date in traditional/well to do circles. Access is what I see m…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 12:01 PM
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Hell no!! 😂 it’s giving boy math. Those 2 things cannot coexist for me
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 11:52 AM
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The lifestyle he can afford you does sound exciting. It's high level, not eye level 💎 Get to know him a little more. , ask more questions, watch him and get to know the people around him. IF he gets impatient with you then you have your 1st red flag. Even if he has money, he still has to earn you It's annoying that some of the people here are making you feel bad for liking his money. It costs money to live/die and a woman being hypergamous is VERY advantageous for your kids + you. I ONLY date hi…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 11:31 PM
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Woah! Set your boundaries now or he will try control more of your life as time goes by. Also you don’t really know this man so how has he earned your submission? He sounds super fishy!! He is probably messing around with other girls and downs twang you to do the same, hence the control. He knows he is out of control, so he wants to control you. Good luck!!
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/19 07:20 PM
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Yikes! This might not be the long term relationship for you. I won’t be influencing you decision to stay with him or not but he seems to have a totally different love language to yours. You have obviously done all these awesome things for him because that is what you appreciate in return “people give love the way they want to receive it”. Have a talk with him and let him know how you feel- how you want to receive love. How serious he takes your request will tell you all you need to know
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 04:54 PM
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Love this post!! Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/19 07:05 PM
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K
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/19 09:15 AM
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So we can both contribute to the nice things. From what I have seen, not many men can take their partner bankrolling majority pay for the house, cars and vacations. This is more about the power dynamics money can create in a relationship, you fail to see beyond just the money itself.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/19 11:09 AM
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It’s less about a social image and more about being with someone I can enjoy being with. I also happen to like nice things, I’m willing to work hard for them What will impressing people ever do for me?
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 03:13 PM
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When did I mention a split, I want this man. I’m just trying to figure things out on my side ......
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 03:01 PM
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He definitely holds the masculine traits I want, as long as I stay in my feminine. I could over power him if I don’t and we don’t want that. Great job on your awesome relationship dynamics. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 02:58 PM
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That is wonderful! I will try and work towards that type of dynamic with him as much as possible. As far as a higher earners expecting more feminine roles. You are on the money, they already make a ton and don’t really care for your 15 hour days while they starve at home hahaha. Thank you for the advice. I’m seeing that more and more, my mindset needs a change if I am to stay with him long term
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 02:55 PM
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That is exactly what I don’t want to do. He is masculine and leads us well. I guess it’s all about my mindset as someone pointed out here. The last thing I want to do is be with a feminine man when I get home. I would have been in my masculine energy all day @ work. It’s my time to relax into my feminine at home
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 02:50 PM
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He is a catch and I love being his. We have been very supportive towards each other PS: The sex is amaze 😍🥰
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 01:56 PM
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Hmmmmm am I trying to find something bad about him? I’m going to think that one over, you might be on to something. Yeah it’s still very early days but I’m a pre planner. Sometimes to my demise clearly😂. You just never know what will happen but I try to move in a positive direction mostly Thank you for the advice
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 01:31 PM
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He doesn’t care. He looks more to his feelings & thoughts towards me, where I am considering things outside of that too. Solid advice though. We would be a team in this, so who cares. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 11:40 AM
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The spark is 100% there, we are very compatible. This was me thinking “Can I really see a man who earns less than me as masculine” but there is more to masculinity than money. I can be very logical and practical in my thinking but I have feelings for him. There is no doubt
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 11:38 AM
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My submission is influenced by money, yes.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 10:51 AM
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He is not paying for my expenses and I have no debt. Look after myself and pay the bills I do .Your response is reassuring. Yaaay! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/18 10:25 PM
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Your beliefs are the filter of your experiences in life.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/18 07:38 PM
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Why do I need to be fearful about this? I’m going to get old no matter what, I’m going to die no matter what. Being fearful is an unnecessary emotion
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 10:52 AM
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This all sounds fear based to me. Non of this is coming from a place of positivity or power. Anyway guess some people are just in a different situation. I as a 25 yo female like men 10+ years older than me so I have no worries what a 30 yo man thinks. It can be toxic to constantly swing from one thing to another. It creates a habit where you can’t persist and stick to one thing -that I get. The other fear based beliefs this video encourages I don’t agree with.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 08:05 AM
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Thank you for this post! I will be sure to check these shows out. I just started dating a Chinese guy, still early days but he and his family are very red pill,they will not let him get away with dating someone for 5 years and no ring . I am loving it 🙌💃🏽.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 08:23 AM
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