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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | feel like a failure | ZookeepergameKey5526 | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/24 02:39 AM | |
| 6 | Custody | ZookeepergameKey5526 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/24 10:13 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How much did it really cost you?She had shit going for her when we met. She lived at home, dropped out of college (that her parents were paying for), working a minimal wage job with no possibility of upward mobility, she lived off her parents money. But she was super nice, sweet, and attractive when we first met. The nice and sweetness gradually faded into her making me feel like i was a failure since i couldn't provide her with the same lifestyle her parents had.. she also liked to compare me to her other friend's husbands th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/24 02:39 PM |
| 1 | How much did it really cost you?Do you blame her? Let her have fun! Pick up a second job to support her freetime activities. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/24 07:34 PM |
| 1 | How much did it really cost you?Virginia. And I definitelly used the equity to live on as well, I would have not been able to afford a place to live if I didn't use my portion of the equity. I finally see the light at the end of the tunnel, and plan on buying another house within the next year or so to start building equity again. I'm going to miss that low apr i had though. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/24 06:51 PM |
| 2 | How much did it really cost you?once alimony ends, child support goes up to $1000/month. and yes, compared to others, i did reasonably well.. which is sad... the result of marriage/divorce, is it is really just insurance for the lesser financially responsible person. women will try to defend it , by saying stuff like, "well, she put her career on hold to raise a family", "she was taking care of the house while you were progressing your job" etc... but i paid for daycare, paid for her to pursue certifications, offered to pay fo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/24 02:14 PM |
| 3 | How much did it really cost you?it varies state by state, but nearly 3 years post divorce, here are my numbers... 2021: at time of divorce, due to work, i was not able to have hardly any physical custody of my kids due to being gone most of the time. she was a SAHM that refused to work. - my income: 84k/year - her income: 0k/year - alimony was $2100/month - child support was $1416/month 2022: - my income was $104k/year. - her income was ~50k/year. - child support remained at $1416/month. - alimony remained same at $2100/month.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/24 12:28 PM |
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