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| 1 | State, dopamine, and becoming more alphaToo much of good things is always bad. But no I'm not saying that, music is good for getting in state. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 02:37 PM |
| 3 | State, dopamine, and becoming more alphaPorn is a dopamine killer. Way worse than overeating, excessive internet browsing, music. Not as bad as drugs, but still very bad for your dopamine. Visit yourbrainonporn.com to learn about that. | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else suffer from "monkey mind," racing thoughts, losing track of conversations? How do I deal with this effectively?Read into some Buddhist philosophy. Especially Zen Buddhism is very much about dealing with a monkey mind. And learn meditation. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Wouldn't know what to do with a girl...don't know what to do with myself.this x100 | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Couldn't stop looking at this girl all night, at the end I got the courage and asked for her number which I got! Just wanted to say thanksHe could have said nothing of course, but if he was going to say something it's better to say "you know that I'm going to ask you out right?" than "asking if I could ask her out sometime." but you definitely have a point. | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 01:39 PM |
| 0 | Couldn't stop looking at this girl all night, at the end I got the courage and asked for her number which I got! Just wanted to say thanksWhy? | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Couldn't stop looking at this girl all night, at the end I got the courage and asked for her number which I got! Just wanted to say thanks"asking if I could ask her out sometime." Instead of this say "you know that I'm going to ask you out right?" But congratulations anyway. | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 10:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with jealousy?This is gold. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 02:42 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with jealousy?(played a game where you look for the weirdest book in the store) thanks, that seems like fun. Pretty sure that I'll use that. | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 06:53 PM |
| 8 | This archive is well worth your time"an AFC will do anything for pussy." | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 05:27 PM |
| 13 | I'm not outgoing, and never want to be. Do I have any chance?"It's just not comfortable to me", comfort zone bro, get out of it. I thought I wasn't outgoing either until I actually went out of my room and into the real world to do stuff. I don't know answer your question because I find that "the life of the party" is very vague, what does that even mean? Many people assume it means being the loudest guy in the room. but you can do that and still be socially retarded. There's no single person that you can point to who is "the life of the party" It's an emp… | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Naturals and artists; I have a questionYou won´t need the drug. OP had ADD, you´re fine. So what OP is doing with medication is what you can do WITHOUT medication. I have actually heard that some ADD meds can have the opposite effect on Non ADD people. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 03:52 PM |
| 2 | A great way to keep yourself from getting distracted when you're in that yearning for some learning zoneI only use Reddit for self improvement. | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Live without regrets.It's a good comparison, but "haunt" ins't the right word. | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 07:21 PM |
| -10 | Why is the book "Magic Bullets" so expensive?thanks for the link bro. | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 10:43 AM |
| 3 | Rejected in day game rejected at a bar rejected at a rave. Beginning to think I'm just not attractive.obvious sarcasm. | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 10:33 AM |
| -3 | Out of curiosity, why does most of reddit have a negative stigma towards seddit?You speak the truth. It's a harsh truth that'll get you downvoted, but it's the truth nonetheless, Edit: well not everone, but a large part of Reddit is. | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming serious insecurities and limiting beliefs. [Inner game]Someone at my job who is 5'2 or something has a hot gf, while I'm just sitting here, masturbating. Well actually I'm on Nofap, but you get the idea. I understand how you feel and I partially feel the same way about my own height (5'5-5'6) but to a lesser degree. I have learned to accept it. I don't think your height is ruining your game, I think it's your confidence. | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Thank you seddit!There's also something about texting in the FAQ's here: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ecmm8/how_i_go_from_number_to_first_date/ | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 08:37 PM |
| 1 | In light of the post about being 15 years old and advice... I'm 15 years old and go to an all-male school. Should I be reading these? I feel like they apply to me.You still see girls of your age and talk to them don't you? I hope you do, otherwise it's not healthy. But yeah learning game will help you with everything because it's just a small part of self improvement. You'll see that a lot of this is about having a great fulfilling life in general and not sitting in your basement laughing at Reddit posts, like too many modern boys do. It's about not worrying about shit to much and living in the moment. You might want to not get into a lot of the outer gam… | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 11:47 AM |
| 1 | I am 15 years old. Should I be reading these?I heard about this first when I was somewhere around 16 years old. When you are exposed to this when you're growing up it will come way more natural to you because you've only been an AFC for a few years. Definitely work on your inner game, also get into self development in general and you'll be going places. | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 07:52 PM |
| 2 | 3 Reasons You're in the Friend Zone (for beginners)(for beginners) | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 05:54 PM |
| 1 | I finally did it! Thank you so much!no that part was just about Redditors (and a lot of people) in general, not specifically about you. | /r/seduction | 12/11/12 04:02 PM |
| 1 | I finally did it! Thank you so much!yup drumdance, but you have forgotten one crucial thing: A lot of people on Reddit are awkward nerds who will insult at any opportunity. I won´t disagree on what gay4pussy said, but i would have said it in a way that is more like a constructive criticism. I mean, you can critize, but you don´t have to be a giant ass about it. It just angers me how these ignorant bigots add things to the story or put words in peoples mouths or somehow assume that you are like x and you think like y, while they do… | /r/seduction | 11/11/12 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Need help filtering out the smart women.I don't believe that it is an IQ question, just different interests. There are a lot of 115+ IQ people out there that still have shallow personalities, I do have the feeling, however, that the percentage of people with shallow personalities does decrease as IQ goes up, but you know what they say about correlation. IQ will only really be a problem when she an IQ that it is a lot lower than that of you, she won't understand your jokes or just won't be on the same level when discussing something. | /r/seduction | 06/11/12 03:41 PM |
| 1 | What helped me get over my approach anxiety in high school, hope it helps (not for the weak of heart)Haha am I weird for laughing at that story? was fucking gross though. I really like the way he writes and his jokes. It's definitely a misleading title though so I downvoted. This will not help you with AA. | /r/seduction | 31/10/12 07:55 PM |
| 9 | How can a male acquire a trait known as "piercing eyes"?The real question is, how do I change my eye colour? | /r/seduction | 31/10/12 06:42 PM |
| 3 | How do you know when it is love and when it is oneitis?I've heard someone say that true love is mutual oneitis. | /r/seduction | 30/10/12 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Texting Game: Losing girls because of bad textsproblem with texting? Don't text, problem solved. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Called a dumbass at a party, didn't know how to respondWhat kind of host is that!? insulting your guests, that some serious Beta behavior. Ignoring him was fine, he didn't deserve a response. people like you don't speak to low lives like him. The people there probably thought that calling you a dumbass was inappropriate anyway. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Guys, why are you holding yourself back? Just do what you want, you'll be surprised!I upvoted it for you. No problem. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 01:13 PM |
| 5 | Just a small thank you to r/seductionಠ▃ಠ | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 10:43 AM |
| 0 | What are some witty responses to "Who is this?"The doctor! someone informed me of your memory problems. Well, then, lets refresh your memory a bit. And then you tell her about how you met or something. | /r/seduction | 26/10/12 09:23 PM |
| 3 | How to gain confidence about appearance?Oh man, those people have no idea. I have to look at myself in the mirror every damn time I pass the thing... | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Eating me alive...need advice. No (aka very little) problem picking up girls. Now I actually LIKE one....confusion hits me like a brick.I think a TLDR is needed. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Any other vertically challenged seducers out there?Go for women that are the same height or shorter than you. IF you are a genuinely awesome confident person no girl will care about your height. Not even tall girls. Okay maybe 1 in 50, but you won't care unless you have oneitis. I think the reason why small guys( in general) have more trouble getting girls has more ( read= everything) to do with the fact that a lot of them have already got more shit from other guys because they cant physically intimidate them, that matters when you're very young… | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 05:04 PM |
| 1 | LIVE IN THE HEART AND THE HEAD, NOT JUST IN THE HEADI just realized that all guys are Siamese twins... | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 07:48 PM |
| 1 | People (and sadly, many ladies) bore me. How do I end his?INTP masterrace. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Dear fellow introverts: Introversion is not a handicap. Stop viewing it that way.I meant that you can't argue against facts. excuse me, I'm not English. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Dear fellow introverts: Introversion is not a handicap. Stop viewing it that way.You were already an extrovert, just a shy extrovert who used introversion as an excuse. Real introverts have different brain chemistry that also changes the way they act and think, this has been proven. Can't argue with the facts. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 08:55 AM |
| 95 | Dear fellow introverts: Introversion is not a handicap. Stop viewing it that way.Introverts Unite! Individually! | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 08:46 AM |
| 5 | PSY [of Gangnam Style] gives advice on hooking up with women.I don't understand why you're being downvoted... | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Paying for dinner. Yea or Nay?I once saw someone here recommend a Trampoline park. I don't know how good that is myself, but I know that she wouldn't soon forget a date like that. Also allows for a lot of kino. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Be honest peeps: fat guys should we even bother?I don't know what you mean by "skinny" , do you mean like underweight skinny? No, that's no good, than it's even better to be fat. Best thing is to be skinny (as in low body fat %) and muscular. The majority of the guys are skinny and their not on the huge end of the spectrum, stop telling yourself that. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Are you afraid of making a fool out of yourself? Don't be.Good post man, and absolutely right. I tend to forget this sometimes, thank you for reminding me. | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Escalation tipsNofappers everywhere. | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 02:53 PM |
| 0 | Sorry if this sounds a creepy, but does anyone have tips on picking up international students at my uni?You made it creepy by mentioning it, what are you going to do with those poor girls!? seriously though, don't apologize for wanting to pick up at your uni, it's nothing creepy it's just your normal sexuality. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 07:57 PM |
| 1 | I have been waiting way too long to post here. Seddit, I need help with girls.I have to study to, so I'll keep this short. Physical attractiveness is not something girls like as much as we like the physical attractiveness of girls. To us it's really important, but it's not that important for girls. Length does make some girls less interested. for a lot of girls that are smaller than you it won't really matter though, so go for smaller girls (would you even want a girlfriend that towers above you?) Blaming it on your appearance is easy, but it's not the cause of your probl… | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 06:22 PM |
| 1 | My permanent smile is hurting my game. Advice?"It's on doctor's prescription" | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 05:21 PM |
| 10 | How to gain social capital in collegeDutch masterrace. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Can reading make you a more interesting person and hold interesting/intellectual conversations? If yes, what book/s would you recommend for a beginner reader?I'm currently reading Brave New World. It's pretty bizarre. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 02:28 PM |
| 6 | How to gain social capital in collegeAlcohol is legal for 16+ where I live lol. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 02:24 PM |
| 44 | A perspective on women."It's worth remembering that all women are people" "did I mention these were conscious handbags?" wait... | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 08:10 AM |
| -1 | I am attracted to too few girls... Help!And not a single fap was given that day. Quitting porn is the main thing though. Nofap just speeds up the process. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 06:19 PM |
| 2 | I am attracted to too few girls... Help!/r/pornfree /r/NoFap Are probably worth a try. Nothing to lose. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 06:10 PM |
| 1 | I realized my one-itus is a bigger problem than I ever thought"confident and less introverted" They're not related. Confidence/ Shyness and Extroversion/Introversion are different things. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on being a more 'quiet' individual? Need some perspective I suppose.yeah, that's hiding behind a label. You are right. We were discussing over nothing. If you truly are introverted though, then there's nothing you can do about it. | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on being a more 'quiet' individual? Need some perspective I suppose.Just looks up some scientific research on introversion. Depression is already caused by a dopamine imbalance so it can be changed back because it wasn't supposed to be imbalanced anyway. Saying you can change introversion is like telling a gay person that he can become straight, him saying that he can't change is just a limiting belief, you can be who you want. Right? | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on being a more 'quiet' individual? Need some perspective I suppose.Nope, you can't. Unless they discover a way to change brain chemistry. You can become the coolest most social guy in the group, but you'll stay introverted, always. | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 04:59 PM |
| 1 | What do you say to a chick when she comments saying "You're too cocky"?"too" is subjective. | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on being a more 'quiet' individual? Need some perspective I suppose.The problem is that you can't change introversion. | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 09:44 AM |
| 1 | The Book that Helped Me the Most Wasn't Even About Pickup.I don't really have the time to write a big review but I recommend that book to everyone. It's a little spiritual though, but it makes a lot of sense and Isn't talking about supernatural things. | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 09:16 PM |
| 2 | How to handle the "You are at home all the time/You aren't even going out,are you ? " types of testsDidn't read it, but I would say. "No, I also hang out with my fellow hermits, they're cool once you get to know them" or something like that. | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 08:30 PM |
| 4 | If you could make a mental checklist while talking to a girl, what would it consist of?Well, good luck. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 07:40 PM |
| 56 | Strategy with Shy GirlsIntroverted personalities don't have a lot to do with it. Shyness is something quite different. Introverts can be socially awesome, shy people can't. A lot of introverts are also shy, but they're different things. Just wanted to point that out. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 06:04 PM |
| 1 | How old is everyone here?And you call being a weak male natural development? Well, if that is so then I'd rather be artificial. If he has an interest in self development right now, now that he's 14 years of age, let me tell you then that that kid is going places. Edit: I'm 18. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 03:19 PM |
| 2 | I'm lonely and tired of fapping. I haven't been on a date in 2 years.You are right. | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 04:39 PM |
| 50 | I'm lonely and tired of fapping. I haven't been on a date in 2 years.If you masturbate you're actually having sex with a guy. | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 09:36 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about these books?I have How to Win Friends and Influence People, but haven't read it yet. I'm going to in the upcoming weeks though. After I read Brave new world and 1984. | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Is this a personality disorder? AA? or what?Yeah same here. 17 yrs old, interests mainly in philosophy, psychology, politics, religion, music. Not exactly common in my age group, but you just got to learn how to live with it. I can't think of any good advice right now, bit I don't think it's AA or a disorder. You need to learn people skills and learn to love people (I know this is difficult sometimes when all you hear around you is talk about sports or gossip while you have deep interests) I for some reason, am pretty good at tolerating a… | /r/seduction | 26/08/12 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop being jealous and get women?Actually I'm about 5'6 (I'm 17 and might still grow though) and had a girl who was (estimated) 1.85 fall in love with me. Height doesn't really matter, if you have the other good quality's you'll be so much better than any tall boring "nice" (read creepy) guy. Go for smaller woman, honestly, you don't want to stand on your toes to kiss your girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Why do I suddenly become a shy person when talking to hot women?morgan freeman. | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 09:39 PM |
| 9 | WTF is this ? Makes me angry ...Are you saying that there are guys out there with "This is crazy, but here's my number, so call me maybe?" cards? | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 05:42 PM |
| 2 | I'm 23 and have never had a girlfriend, had sex, or even held a girls hand. How do I snap out of my loser mentality and ruminating about the past?And why not? | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 07:52 PM |
| 3 | I'm 23 and have never had a girlfriend, had sex, or even held a girls hand. How do I snap out of my loser mentality and ruminating about the past?How to Win Friends & Influence PeopleThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective People* Now I haven't read those, but I heard they're good. | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 07:51 PM |
| 3 | I'm infinitely more comfortable around girls than guysMost guys around my age (17) are idiots (in my city) , the girls are a lot nicer. I go to a new school after summer vacation. I hope that the guys there are more normal. I have never really been able to to find a group of guys where I feel at home. They all invite me, but I don't even like em that much =/ | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Conversational Threading: Never run out of things to say, EVERBut that has nothing to do with introversion... | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.I recommend /nofap | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.I think I'm going to do that with 2 people I've met at my job and I'll also invite some girls obviously. I heard that the movie was GOOD. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help.Nothing wrong with introversion... | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 09:07 PM |
| 1 | I'm fine with approaching girls in most settings.. but I can't do it at a bar/club. And now that I'm out of school, I'm really struggling to meet new femalesThe funny thing is, people won't really remember what you opened them with if you have a conversation going, unless they really stop and think about it. | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 05:01 PM |
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