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Harsh truth. Most black men want a mixed looking woman and when their wealthy will go after them. I learned that darkskinned women need to be extra careful when it comes to men. A lot of them just want darkskinned women to be their starter girl until they can get someone that looks "exotic".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:37 PM
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Yep unfortunately most black men will start off dating darkskinned black woman until they get successful and mysteriously dump her and date some lightskinned mixed women with light colored eyes and 2b hair. We need to be careful about the possibly of just being the "starter" woman and vet more than other races of women. I'm glad it's being talked about more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:14 PM
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I think there's an emphasis on the "swirl" movement because in my opinion many black women (like myself) have been raised to date, marry, and protect black men no matter what. If you "step outside the race" you get older black men giving you weird looks and asking you why you don't like black men. Personally, I don't mind it I think more black women need to expand their opinions and not just focus on black men all of the time. I'm going to be blunt when I say this and it's probably going to piss…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:49 PM
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Cheating isn't a mistake. They do it on purpose and don't regret it. There's statistics of people that are cheaters taking a poll and agreeing that they will do it again if the opportunity presents itself. I'm not friends with men, but I've seen men cheat on women and I would tell some of their girlfriends and wives. Of course most of their girlfriends or wives would make up excuses on why their partner cheated or/and just blame the other girl like their man isn't the one that said they were goi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:50 PM
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I know women are about to imply that I'm hurt and bitter but idc. I don't see the point of being in a relationship with a man anymore. You always have to be on guard and ready for them to switch up. Most abusive men keep their facade up for months and even years before they show who they really are to their girlfriend or wife. Your basically walking on eggshells and have to be ready to leave at anytime. I'm starting to believe all men cheat at some point in their relationship or marriage. I've h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:32 PM
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Maybe your asexual? I hope this isn't too personal, but did you have a romantic or sexual attraction to your second husband?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:17 AM
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Tbh I don't want to pursue her because I'm just not that type of person. I'm not a straight forward person when it comes to pursuing someone for romantic or sexual reasons lol, but I guess I'm going to have to get over it. I was thinking about sliding in her dms but I don't want to come across like a thirsty man lolll. I don't know if there's a correct way to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:29 AM
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Oh ok I understand. I probably should just start focusing on how I'm mainly attracted to instead of worrying about men. Tbh I think I've been brainwashed by society a little bit because I've always been told that directly and indirectly that I'm supposed to be with a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:25 PM
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Omg tell me about it. I get so tense when women flirt with me because I don't know if their playing around or serious. I've been wanting to talk to a girl for a while that's bi ,but I don't know how to start the conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:12 PM
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I know I don't have to justify dating men. I wrote this post because I don't know if I'm attracted to them at all lol a lot of straight women in these comments are kind of missing the point. I'm not talking about not being able to find a high value man or scared of not being able to find a "good" man or any of that. 90% of men I see I'm just not attracted to in any way. A lot of hetrosexual women just turned this post into something else and some of you guys have to realize every woman doesn't w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:01 PM
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I know that's why I said I'm not saying women shouldn't set boundaries. We should, but a lot of women seem to have this idea that if women can change a man. The other post kind of came across as pickmeish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 05:20 PM
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If all women set boundaries men would still be abusive and misogynistic. I'm not saying women shouldn't set boundaries, but it's really weird how a lot of women will imply that if all women set boundaries then men would magically see the errors of their ways and stop being abusive towards women. They don't give af. I've been around a lot of abusive men and all they do when a women sets boundaries is get more abusive and go talk to other abusive men so they can talk about how they hate women. Wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 12:08 PM
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Well I think a lot of people get hornier when they drink, but it's a red flag that you brought up how it's easier to have sex when you drink. When people enjoy having sex they usually don't bring that up. Yes drinking can make things more intense, but most people don't mind if their sober having sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:50 AM
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Yeah that sounds bad. I posted a link of signs of compulsive hetrosexuality in the comments. That sounds like a form of self harm. I'm not telling you what to do, but you should dump him sooner than later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:35 AM
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To answer your question I have no idea. This is going to sound pesmesstic, but oh well. I feel like all men cheat and always live a double life in a relationship. I feel like at some point they do cheat on their girlfriends and wives. I'm not even saying this because of any possible "fear mongering" on the internet. I've seen it over and over again. Friends and associates of mine getting cheated on and then when I tell them their boyfriend gets mad at me and dates the girl he was cheating on my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:09 AM
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And most of them act like toddlers. "I WaS HOrNY I cOulDnT HeLP MySeLf!" Everytime they do something horrible. If most of them were mature I'm sure I wouldn't be confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 01:59 AM
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I know exactly what your talking about. I click with women way more than men. Sometimes I'll see a girl I follow on twitter retweet a man they think is really attractive and a bunch of girls will be like, "omg he's so fine." and I'll just be like ....you guys think he's fine? Lol. It's really rare for me to be attracted to a man. I thought my attraction was always 80% (women)/ 20% (men), but now I'm not sure. Women are so beautiful to me lol. Your welcome btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 01:56 AM
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Yeah I know I can be attracted to masucline men and really feminine women and be bisexual the reason I brought that up is because I looked up a list of compulsory hetrosexuality and one of the list states that you might be a lesbian if your have dated feminine men. https://docs.google.com/document/d/e/2PACX-1vT3f5IIzt5PG-M7G9_Z-gjY4gZaiUneTdMlYrFAcdBGcJo0-N-RDQcj2JfxOaBTxKa6J_DiDQNgqVpg/pub I know lesbians can be feminine and date other feminine women, but I think liking other feminine women jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:08 PM
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Yeah I'm not dating any trash person ever again whether that be a man or woman. I blocked my ex and I'm never going to speak to him again. My life has been really rough I've had men and women try to put me in danger,, so this isn't really an," I hate men, so I'm just going to stick with women." rant. Even after the shit I've had to deal with from women I still get extremely attracted to women way more than men. That's not my issue. I just don't know if I'm honestly attracted to men, period. Most…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:53 PM
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And she has the nerve to has sadity in her username? Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:39 PM
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Honestly, I just want one or maybe two. It is tempting, but I thought it out and I think its better for me to focus on training and aim more than to worry about having a collection. Yeah I heard people making fun of 22's and I'm always confused. It's good that you have excellent aim though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:38 AM
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Everyday is another day that I generalize all men as insidious and I don't want to deal with any man. What's the point? The ones that don't do this won't check the men that do post their girlfriends, daughters, sisters, and mothers nudes if they can find them somehow. I'm sure even if some women don't send nudes these fucking freaks will take pictures of women while their sleeping. I don't like giving out mental diagnosis to people because I'm not licensed to do so, but most men seem to be psych…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 11:11 PM
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Ben sharpio?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:15 PM
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Alright girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:33 PM
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I'm tired of people saying to victims of abuse to "stop playing the victim" when they are the victim. Wtf. Being a child abuse victim and a victim of an abusive relationship most people don't care. They just say, "You can't blame them forever." Yes I can. Don't fucking try to tell me that I can't be mad at people that abused for me years for their own sick pleasures. These are the same kind of people that will hang around abusers and say, "Well he never was abusive to me." Dumb pieces of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:55 PM
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The Just World theory is a phenomenon. All it takes it a simple Google search to find that out. Don't say its not just because you don't want it to be true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:46 PM
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It's called the "Just World" theory. This is a global phenomenon where people assume good things happen to good people and only bad things happen to bad people. That's why people tend to have little to no empathy for abuse victims and say that it's their fault and they brought it on themselves. Most people think that the World is safe and that they can stop bad things from happening to them until it does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:17 AM
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This is victim blaming. If you think your never going to be taken advantage of again, I got some news for you....you are. I understand taking measures to make sure it won't happen as much as it may used to and taking personal responsibility for the things you have wrongly done, but if you think your never going to get taken advantage of ever agin in your entire life your wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:15 AM
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Because they're stupid. Edit: Yes I used the wrong version of they're in my original comment. I fixed it so the incels that lurk on here won't have a heart attack. Additional Edit: Why are men commenting on my post and saying that this is the female version of mgtow and incels? Will men ever stay out of women's business?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:50 AM
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"I've been through a lot so I have the right to treat people like shit and if you say no your an insensitive person." That doesn't make any logic sense. Some people just say anything on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:18 PM
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I'm insensitive for saying that just because someone that has been through trauma thats not an excuse for being a horrible person? Your insane. The conversation has been over stop trying to jump into a conversation that has been over for vaildation for shitty behavior. You don't get a pass for inflicting pain on other people just because you've been through trauma. Blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:04 PM
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I'm not reading all of that you just want to argue and your projecting. Goodnight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:03 AM
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I'm chill lol. Just because someone is saying something you might not agree with doesn't mean their angry. No you can't be a terrible person due to trauma. I know people that have went through worse then you that aren't horrible people. That's horrible that anyone especially a parent would put you through things like that, but that's not an excuse to be a terrible person. I've dealt with childhood trauma myself with no support system, but I can't go around taking my anger out on people because o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:46 AM
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I don't get it at all.I just think a lot of people are listening to armchair psychologist online and not actually dealing with multiple people that have been diagnosed by a licensed professional with BPD. I know people with bipolar disorder that are horrible people and for some reason bipolar people aren't given a bad reputation. Not saying anyone with bipolar disorder is necessarily a horrible person, but I do notice that a lot of them get excuses for shitty behavior. Kanye West has been going …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:20 AM
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Right. Not to shame her because I used to do the same thing, but realized that I was being delusional and accepted the reality of the situation. Hopefully she will eventually do the same...hopefully...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:09 PM
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Aka she likes the attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:35 PM
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I'm probably going to get downvoted for this, but oh well. I don't really understand why people associate people especially women with BPD as extremely manipulative or "bad". I don't get why people are fighting not to be diagnosed with BPD once they get. I think too many people are fighting not to be diagnosed with BPD or saying they were misdiagnosed because the really horrible reputation BPD has. Just because someone has BPD doesn't make them a horrible person or ready to manipulate everyone. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:28 PM
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Not even going to blame you for that one because one of the mods started making assumptions about me and wanted to argue with me for hours because I said I see a lot of LVM with a lot of LVW and she said those men were my friends..when I'm not friends with men...lol. This sub definitely needs to be more regulated because some women on here are crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:12 PM
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...not trying to be shady, but you have pickmeisha as your flair, which means your probably said something in this subreddit that pandering to men. I can't control you, but there's really no reason to be friends with an ex. The relationship is done and I suggest you move on and put yourself first instead of worrying about a man in the past that's fucking someone else as we speak. I really don't understand why so many girls make up excuses to talk to their ex and will fight tooth and nail on anyo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:07 PM
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Exes can't be friends. He was coming back to use you for emotional reasons and probably attempt to have sex with you again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:05 PM
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I think men marry so they can have free maid in the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:03 PM
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My ex was triangulating me and his other ex for months and I got tired of it. The whole thing was extremely stupid. I told his other ex this and that he was using us, that he was talking to us because he was bored, wanted extra drama in his life and that we should stop talking to him, but she just told me that she knew what she what she was doing and proceeded to get a huge attitude🙄(AKA she's just talking to him to spite me and make herself feel better). I cut him off and stopped speaking to he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 02:32 PM
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Exactly. Pickmes are so delusional that any woman that says this is "bitter and jealous" of their relationship and months later act surprised when they found out their boyfriend has been cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 03:09 PM
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I always thought it was a huge red flag when your so called "boyfriend" never posts you on social media and I was confused when I saw and still see so many comments of men getting angry and saying that they "don't want to post their personal life on social media." and most women fall for it. Like seriously? You don't think it's a red flag when a guy posts about everything else going on in his life expect you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:24 AM
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"chicken tendies" is having me on the floor cracking up rn lollllll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:42 AM
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I think gaslighting is men's favorite hobby. I have a feeling some woman for some reason is going try to justify this, but it is never a woman's fault for ending up in an abusive relationship with a man nor is it her fault for staying in an abusive relationship. I'm so tired of seeing women trying to blame other women for staying in an abusive (specifically physically abusive) relationship and say all they have to do is leave. Most women that leave a physically abusive relationship end up gettin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:36 AM
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I don't have to respect you talking shit about your "friend". I'm not changing my mind about what I said so get over it. Your using each other as emotional tampons AND if he's so disgusting your just as disgusting as he is for hanging out with him. How are you going to write an entire story talking shit about your precious "friend" then get mad at someone when they call on out on it? Your so full of shit. Girl go to bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:50 AM
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Me and my ex had very traumatic experiences as well and I don't speak to him. If your using each other as emotional tampons then say that, but don't try to pretend like it's something else. Doesn't sound like your healing when your talking shit about your "friend" on reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:14 AM
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There really needs more structure and order in this subreddit because a lot of these girls are undercover pickmes. I thought my eyes were playing tricks on me when I read this and saw the amount of upvotes because she's getting praised for still talking to her ex that she finds disgusting...make it make sense. This is why I'm not "friends" with any of my exes and won't date anyone that is either.The whole being "friends" with your ex thing is disingenuous and it's just a way for people to start …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:36 PM
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I'm probably going to get downvoted like hell, but I don't understand why your still talking to your ex and saying he's your "friend". He's your "friend" but your talking shit about him on a public forum. If you guys don't have kids together your just wasting your time and energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:05 PM
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Their still harassing women and playing the victim like always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:53 PM
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Loll your so cringy and pathetic. You think you are somebody because you have an FDS strategy coach flair when your a nobody. Doing the absolute most to make yourself feel better from your trash ass life. Have a nice day and enjoy this block. I'll give you something else to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 07:09 PM
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You assumed so much about my life and made up lies to make yourself feel better. Get some professional help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 07:07 PM
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You need to get a life. You wrote an essay on something I already deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 07:06 PM
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Why are yall assuming I have male friends when I never said that. I deleted the post because I admit I probably worded it wrong, but I still keep getting these weird ass comments. Stop. Your weird as hell. Doing the most and projecting for no reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 07:02 PM
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Omfg I have no lvm friends. What the hell are you talking about? I deleted the post because I just worded it the way wrong and now people are writing essays and assuming shit that isnt even true. I dont have any male friends because we all know that shit isn't authentic. Stop pulling stuff out of your ass and relax.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 06:58 PM
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Lol I just deleted my post because I did word it wrong and people are taking it the wrong way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 06:50 PM
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I honestly just think I worded my question wrong because I don't really understand the downvotes. I didn't say that a women's value is based on her looks and people are assuming that's what I said when I never even said that. You know messy hair is, so let's not play dumb though. I'm not saying you have to do it everyday, but if it looks insane then that's a problem. I'm just going to delete this post because people are acting dense and I dont have the patience for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 06:44 PM
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Because that's how a lot of the previous generations of women were and they raised us to be this way. I was raised a long with a lot of girls that your suppose to give up emotional, and physical labor for free for a boy because "boys will be boys." and the famous line that isn't even true," Boys mature slower than girls do." Honestly, I never listened because it didn't make any sense and I finally felt like I wasn't crazy when I saw women speaking out about it online these past 3 years. My frien…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 10:40 AM
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I'm not saying it's easy under societal pressures at all. I was raised when men and boys were put first. My family (like a lot of other families in the World) has the mindset that if you don't do cook and clean everyday like a slave your going to end up alone and depressed while being hard on the girls in the family. I quickly learned that yes people do want social vaildation, but you should not have to sacrifice your self worth in the process if you have to do that then it's not worth it becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 08:21 PM
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Differentiating," Your a prize." from," I'm thankful for you." is not hard at all. You can appreciate your partner by saying," Thank you. I really appreciate you doing (whatever it is) for me." and leave it at that. You don't have to kiss your husband or boyfriends feet for him doing what he's suppose to do. Too many of us have been programmed by society and raised by pickmeishas and it's showing because for so many women not to understand the difference between worshipping a man and showing app…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:52 PM
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I understand what your saying, but even if the man is a genuinely good man that doesn't mean he's a prize and he shouldn't be praised for treating women with respect. Not saying you said that, but I notice a lot of women go crazy when they find a man that actually respects women and worship the ground he walks on because the bar is so damn low. When I see a woman talking about how a man is a prize even if he is morally good just screams low self esteem and desperation to me. The woman is always …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 05:58 PM
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She doesn't have a point at all. No man is a prize even the "good" men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 05:44 PM
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Now your being dishonest and trying to twist up my words. Where did I say that having a rough upbringing is an excuse to lash out? Never said that. I said that having a codependent or toxic mother is more than likely going to produce a codependent child. That is not the child's fault AT ALL even if the child does turn into an adult. Now I know you were privileged just throwing around therapy because not everyone has access to therapy. You should know that, but yes if you have access to therapy t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 11:46 PM
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Right. People with good childhoods always want to act like everyone had a good childhood and ignore those who didn't and play dumb. I don't even know why I'm getting downvoted for my previous comment. Nothing I said especially about how parents raise their children is wrong. The way your raised definitely affects your childhood and the people who downvoted my comment are more than likely extremely spoiled brats that have this," pull yourself up by your bootstraps." mentality and constantly got h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 11:38 PM
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I never even said that I'm blaming parents for what they do. Second of all if a parent did raise their kid to be codependent and reliant on someone that is 100% the parent's fault. Too many people constantly make excuses for shitty parents and want to give them a pass when their kids turn into adults. Your talking from a position of having a good mother figure. If you do not know what it's like to grow up with a toxic mother, so don't pretend like you even have a clue. It's so easy to say, " Get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 08:29 PM
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What grown man has the time to type all of that out? A poor man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:42 PM
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It's easy to point the finger at the woman especially if you had strong female role models in your life because you'll never understand what it's like to be raised by a codepedent, weak, and/or manipulative woman. I'm 21 and I didn't have strong female role models at all. I don't know why people from my generation like to pretend like generation x and baby boomers were all full of women with self esteem. Some did have self esteem and some didn't just like in this generation. If a woman is acting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:26 PM
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The rapist commenting I dont think so shows how men really feel about women. They think we're subhuman and not deserving of respect or common decency. I don't know what pissed me off more reading that thread, his nonchalant responses or the people actually giving him sympathy like he didn't permanently damage two women's lives forever. I hope he's dead now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:42 PM
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I see why you have Pickmeisha as your flare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:52 AM
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I notice people try to say its not just black men ALL men bs when black men are being rightfully criticized. No one disrespects their own race of women like black men do. I've never seen any other race of men go out of their way to disrespect their women like black men do. I've never seen a white, hispanic, and middle eastern man go on for hours and hours about how much they hate their women only black men do that stupid shit. A bunch of black men have channels on youtube actively bashing black …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 09:39 PM
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Thanks for posting this because I don't feel like this gets talked about for some reason. I was hit, bullied, threatened by mainly black boys when I was in school and teachers didn't do anything when they saw it. My friend also had it rough also because black boys harassed and bullied her to the point where she wanted to die. Black girls aren't protected in this World.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 11:02 PM
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I don't think men are able to have platonic relationships with women period whether the women is attractive or not. I think a lot of men just go after any woman they see as an potential target.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:49 PM
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