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| 664 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1] | Fundamentals | _Dignity_ | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:22 PM |
| 161 | Kiss Consent and Beyond - How to not be a weirdo. | Fundamentals | _Dignity_ | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 09:20 PM |
| 58 | Putting the debate to rest, how to create and internalize change. How can we identify worthwhile principles to take on? [Part 3] | Fundamentals | _Dignity_ | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 09:31 PM |
| 43 | Putting the debate to rest: What happens when you're *actually* a jerk? [PART 2] | Fundamentals | _Dignity_ | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 07:24 PM |
| 30 | Surprising Lessons from Romance Novels | Fundamentals | _Dignity_ | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 12:26 AM |
| 29 | Honesty, Authenticity, and Intent - What is ethical? | Fundamentals | _Dignity_ | /r/seduction | 06/01/21 06:48 AM |
| 22 | Borrowing value from your future self. | Fundamentals | _Dignity_ | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 05:09 PM |
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| 1 | if you hate women, you already lostHow was your experience in CDMX? Considering doing the same for 3-6 months pretty soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/22 09:07 PM |
| 30 | Mental Fog: Lazy & Unfocused. Diagnosis and Cure.Worth nothing that if you are in chronic fog like this and struggle to break out when you NEED to do something, you may have ADHD. Worth doing some research on. One of the most treatable conditions you can possibly have, so don’t be afraid to find out or to seek out expert advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/21 04:23 PM |
| 80 | Lesson: How I misapplied TRP in my younger yearsI’m sure the intention behind this post is good, but frankly, I don’t think most people who come here read the basic material and think: “oh yeah, what I need to do now is randomly tell my GF of two years that I’m talking to other women.” You were uniquely stupid. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/21 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Thats It... I Give Up Being A Pick Up ArtistThis is an awesome pasta holy shit. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 01:46 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 91/ 5th day– The first short-term girlfriend from street cold approach | Barcelona gaming diariesNice FR, my first long-term girlfriend was a German girl I met in Barcelona. So many memories there... | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 11:30 PM |
| 3 | “Hey, do you mind watching this for me?”You may be shocked to learn that the vast majority of women in the real world don’t think this way, and aren’t living in fear in broad daylight in a busy coffee shop. | /r/seduction | 15/07/21 04:34 PM |
| 4 | Should I be dating while working on becoming a High Value Man?https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/lpts9j/borrowing_value_from_your_future_self/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice or motivation ~ time sensitiveDon’t show her that it knocked the wind out of your sails. Go have a good time and project consistently (not overtly) that you don’t give a fuck whether she wants to bang or not. You’re NOT going to say that or even insinuate it. You’re just going to project it through the way you focus on enjoying your time. If it is a shit test, you don’t win by going all logical and trying to “convince” her to fuck you. If it’s not a shit test, you avoid making things awkward by not going all chodey and “conf… | /r/seduction | 14/05/21 04:56 PM |
| 3 | I'm meeting up with a chic from Tinder in 3 hours who's literally just trying to bang. What's the etiquette here?There's no way women are this forward on Tinder, right? Showing her this attitude would be a great way to talk her out of wanting to fuck you. Definitely drop that shit before you meet her. Plenty of women are that forward on Tinder. Meet her at the boardwalk, enjoy some casual conversation, have a casual meal if you're both hungry, then take her back to your place. Literally, the only way to lose is by appearing judgemental about sex. | /r/seduction | 13/05/21 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Social norms in NorwayThis just means you stand out because you approach. It’s a good thing. You’re showing that you’re not bound completely by social conditioning. I am actually planning to travel to either Norway or Finland specifically because of what you’re talking about. | /r/seduction | 09/05/21 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Women will respect your courageConfessing your feelings is actually cowardly. You’re dumping your feelings into the lap of a woman who thinks of you as a friend and saying “here, do something with these.” Courage is owning your intentions from the beginning. Your idea of romance is literally how middle schoolers operate lol. | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Dancing makes it way easierI’ve been interested in learning how to shuffle. How did you start? | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Male perspective: why men fail seduction/casual relationshipsThis is pretty spot on. There are some rare exceptions to some of these, but they generally hold. | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Could really use some adviceGirls don’t get physical with guys who “want to prove themselves and be there for them and work hard for them.” They get physical with men who desire them, who are not ashamed of that desire, and who know how to express that desire. They get physical with men who have an edge, who aren’t afraid to tease them a little. They get physical with men who can communicate their passions. They get physical with men who are willing to disagree with them, who don’t put them on a pedestal. Women get physica… | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | My first ever cold approach at 31“Hi.” | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 07:50 PM |
| -1 | The case for taking this sub private, or for moderating with a heavier hand.You don’t go to an NFL game to debate somebody about the dangers of football. You’re there to watch the game. We aren’t here to debate people from a catholic dating subreddit about whether or not casual sex is going to get us sent to hell. You’re mistaking productive conversation and wasting time with people who aren’t here to have conversations. They’re just here to start arguments because they’re bored and have nothing better to do. There are actual interesting good faith discussions between c… | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Timewasters (Red Flags to Look Out For in Girls)Why the fuck are you even on this subreddit? Go back to catholic dating you puritanical sheep. | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 04:39 PM |
| 10 | My first ever cold approach at 31“Excuse me, I saw you dancing from afar and I would like to dance with you.” Bro that killed me. God bless. Are you reincarnated from the 18th century? That’s so hilariously awesome, made me choke on my coffee. Keep taking action and start soaking in some quality content like a sponge. You need both in moderation. | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 04:31 PM |
| 5 | Timewasters (Red Flags to Look Out For in Girls)Go back to dating over thirty. | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Timewasters (Red Flags to Look Out For in Girls)That is... not at all what OP described. | /r/seduction | 17/04/21 02:11 PM |
| 10 | Timewasters (Red Flags to Look Out For in Girls)This is just... wrong. You’re just projecting your own attitude onto other women. There are shitloads of women who enjoy and are happy to have casual sex. If you actually let the post sink in instead of being a reactionary harpy, you’d see that OP’s filters are actually designed to net him these women while leaving out women who are either not actually interested in anything or interested in taking more time to build something than he is willing to give. Look at this woman’s post history before … | /r/seduction | 17/04/21 02:11 PM |
| 20 | The Main Reasons of Why You're still single or NOT good with the ladies - 3 Brutally Honest Truths.It won't stop you from having sex if that's what you're pursuing, and the idea that you need to wait until you're successful to pursue women is mainstream bullshit and bad advice. I *do* have my shit together, but I'm in my early 20s and I know plenty of guys who are complete messes, to the point I wouldn't even loan them $100, and they're doing just fine with women. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 12:53 PM |
| 66 | The Main Reasons of Why You're still single or NOT good with the ladies - 3 Brutally Honest Truths.1. You don't have a stable career/job/business. This matters very little for younger guys, unless you're trying to get with some megamillionaire heiress. Your personal life can be a complete fucking mess and you can still have success with women. As you get older, obviously, expectations begin to shift and it becomes less and less acceptable to not be totally stable. Also matters more if you're pursuing LTRs vs casual stuff. The reason I wanted to just add a bit to dispute it is that "oh I'll wa… | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 12:45 PM |
| 6 | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?Stop telling them. They aren't entitled to information about your history just like you aren't entitled to theirs. You may have to fake it until you make it a bit until you have some actual experiences. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 08:48 PM |
| 58 | Lost Virginity From Seddit (part 2)The other guys are orbiters. Friend zoned goobers who have no game. | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 10:19 PM |
| 36 | Lost Virginity From Seddit (part 2)I hate dealing with orbiters like this; not because I can't do it, but because their clueless pathetic behavior reminds me of where I came from. At least I can be thankful I'm not still there. | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 10:07 PM |
| 6 | In relationships, being responsible doesn't always promote attraction. An honest account of some of my recent missteps.The dating advice sub is a useless hellhole for frustrated, bitter normies who are just desperately clinging to mainstream narratives because they are terrified to adapt to reality. | /r/seduction | 02/04/21 04:16 PM |
| 24 | In relationships, being responsible doesn't always promote attraction. An honest account of some of my recent missteps.Dude that text she sent you... very honest, self aware woman and pretty tactful too (as much as it’s possible to be tactful when you’re telling someone they need to get their shit together). This is obviously only a small snippet of the relationship, but she sounds like a keeper. | /r/seduction | 02/04/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Keep in mind the fact that girls sometimes do shit that makes absolutely no sense and there is nothing you can do about it.Don’t give advice to women you’re not already intimate with. | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 05:23 PM |
| 5 | 26M from the UK. Cold Approach journey hitting rock bottom.Sasha Daygame is awful, so that’s probably part of your problem if you’re emulating him. He’s a dancing monkey. Second, you’re going super direct. Why? Just have a fucking conversation. You don’t need to tell her she’s not in the first five seconds. You don’t need to tell her that at all, there are thousands of better compliments to give. | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 05:20 PM |
| 0 | About 40 Day Game Approaches in... FrustratedI've tried countering that with something like "maybe its time for a new one?" You're a newbie. Too early for this kind of shit. You're not even close to the point where you can consistently recognize a moment where this will hit in a comical way, and your delivery of it is probably shit. Focus on the basics. There's no way for us to tell where you're going wrong without at least an audio recording. This is bullshit and I'm starting to hate this. You're barely even started. This is basically the… | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 04:10 PM |
| 10 | Seduction books FOR women? [HELP]I have never heard of any, so I’ll be interested to follow this thread. The closest thing might be “Why Men Love Bitches.” It’s basically the female version of No More Mr. Nice Guy, which is probably one of the most influential men’s self development books ever released. There’s some fad YouTube content around from male coaches who give seminars geared towards women, but it’s mainly ultra PC, mainstream obvious garbage. (Ex. “Herp derp men r dum dums and miss signals so be straightforward”). Fro… | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationship PART 2 :This would be better suited to r/dating_advice. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 03:32 PM |
| 4 | Surprising Lessons from Romance NovelsSounds like you’re already doing pretty well in relationships, which is more what this post is about. There’s definitely a fine line with being really social and outgoing and becoming the jester. I usually call that the “dancing monkey.” Part of that is reaction seeking vs self amusement. Your interactions and the way you act socially should be based on what you enjoy and how you want to present yourself, not what will get the most smiles or laughs. Some guys can get addicted to the positive rea… | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 01:14 AM |
| 3 | How do I, as an engineer, who is mostly doing and following things related to engineering, like coding and watching SpaceX videos, improve my social skills?PLEASE do not "study" Sasha Daygame... | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 11:54 PM |
| 8 | I just got rejected today. I'm depressed.Dude... if that’s how you feel after ONE approach... ONE rejection... You don’t need this subreddit, you need serious therapy. The fact that she even stopped to talk to you means you did better than most guys do on their first approach. | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 07:11 AM |
| 11 | Cold approached, got the number but texted me she was not interested. Explanation?Threads like this confuse me. What secret answer do you think we're going to give you? She wasn't interested. She might've just felt like it would be easier to give you her number than to deal with rejecting you, or maybe you fucked up the texting badly and were needy. You had a 2-minute interaction, there's no investment there, not sure why you're so surprised. How are we supposed to know? | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 01:02 AM |
| -8 | Let's be honest, the game is rigged. But recognizing that can be incredibly helpful.Go away troll. | /r/seduction | 25/02/21 04:05 PM |
| -9 | Let's be honest, the game is rigged. But recognizing that can be incredibly helpful.You should've looked at my post history before replying. | /r/seduction | 25/02/21 03:48 PM |
| 6 | Let's be honest, the game is rigged. But recognizing that can be incredibly helpful.You don't get it because you haven't gone through the lifelong social conditioning of a woman, and apparently haven't gained enough understanding to empathize yet either. | /r/seduction | 25/02/21 03:41 PM |
| 1 | PUA delusionsWe’re not talking about live programs. I wouldn’t suggest a bootcamp with coach to anyone other than a total hardcase newbie. Never been on a bootcamp, never will go. Their video programs are the best in the biz IMO. | /r/seduction | 24/02/21 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Just Screwed up with a Chick on Bumble, I'm Pissed!!!Welcome to not having freedom from outcome. That's the irony of it all. If you had given less of a fuck you probably would've been fine. | /r/seduction | 23/02/21 05:08 AM |
| 6 | Player or Lover?This isn't going to be what you want to hear, but it's reality. he’s twice my age I’ve kind of been the one having to drive to him every time we want to see each other He NEVER takes me out, or comes to see me Come on now, you already know the answer... if I ignore him he blows up my phone lol Translation: "When I stop being a free source of attention he does what he needs to do to get my attention back." People treat you how you allow yourself to be treated. You are doing the equivalent of givi… | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 05:43 AM |
| 1 | PUA delusionsRSD literally does not say this. I have heard Tyler say at least 20+ times in different programs or speeches that you should be working on EVERYTHING else along with “game.” Your body, style, career, etc. “Oh yeah bro just hit the gym and take some improv classes.” Lol. Not everyone’s path is the same. RSD’s material, especially if you find one coach you really resonate with, can bring something to people at any level. | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 07:58 PM |
| 2 | If you met a girl with an amazing personality but average looks, would you still go for her?Here's the thing, this is just an extremely rare occurrence. I can't think of a time I met a woman who was "meh looking" who had the funloving personality, bubbliness, swagger, style, and confidence that would be some of the things I'm looking for (and your premise was EVERYTHING else I'm looking for). It doesn't surprise me either. Women who aren't attractive get HUGELY negative social feedback from other women if they express confidence or go after men who are "out of their league." Looks are … | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 03:48 AM |
| 2 | what is something attractive that women do during conservation (in person)?Banter / Light-hearted teasing. | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Putting the debate to rest: What happens when you're *actually* a jerk? [PART 2]The entire point of this and the follow on post is that you don’t have to be an asshole. | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 06:05 AM |
| 2 | 74th report– Circle game in a student party/ The Game diaries in MaastrichtIf you really struggle socially and are still figuring out how to ready cues and how to not make people uncomfortable, using a system can be a good way to learn. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | 74th report– Circle game in a student party/ The Game diaries in MaastrichtI mix inner game and outer game, but I focus very little on what to say and focus on my sub-communication. I don’t really think about it in the moment anymore, it eventually becomes natural. Things I do or say might be “DLVs” or “DHVs” etc., but I’m not thinking in the moment “oh yeah gotta do step 1BA58483.” I’m just telling a funny story, or an emotional story, and communicating who I am authentically. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 06:46 PM |
| 5 | 74th report– Circle game in a student party/ The Game diaries in MaastrichtMan... it’s not 2006 anymore. You’re hamstringing yourself by relying on such insanely systematic/planned game. You’re never actually going to develop into a magnanimous person if you’re busy trying to project that image rather than create a core identity shift. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1]You clearly didn’t read the post. Nowhere here did I suggest being an asshole. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 09:07 PM |
| 2 | For the successful men on this sub, what seduction tips do you have for a late 20's woman?🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 02:00 AM |
| 7 | Putting the debate to rest: What happens when you're *actually* a jerk? [PART 2]It isn't that much different for us. I'll take a woman who banters and gives me a little shit over a woman who looks at me with anime eyes and just agrees with everything I say ANY DAY. Successful and career-driven? On her purpose? Yes, please. I want to be a power team. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 12:33 AM |
| 1 | For the successful men on this sub, what seduction tips do you have for a late 20's woman?Have some edge, be willing to banter, don't just look at a guy you're interested in with puppy dog eyes and nod along with everything he says. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 12:32 AM |
| 10 | Book and YouTube recommendations?Youtube: Tusk - solid daygame content There are some other up and comers right now but a lot of it is watered down RSD stuff and you'd be better off just going to the source. RSD channel archives that you can find to M*ga or t*rrent - they're the OGs, and some of the Youtube content from Tyler/Max/Julien was absolute gold. Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy, absolutely required reading for anyone who felt my post yesterday spoke to them. Models, required reading for anyone, trims a lot of the fat from … | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1]Dude, it’s right there. “Being nice will make her want to have sex with me” | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1]You clearly didn’t read the post. | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 03:09 AM |
| 10 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1]Dude we’re talking about how to act with people you barely know, not someone you’ve built a connection with. I think I made that pretty clear in the post in multiple places. The “nice guys” I’m talking to are building mental fantasies for months about women who might not even know their names. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 10:27 PM |
| 14 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1]Women marry men who don't excite them all the time. ALL. THE. TIME. Particularly as they get towards 30 years old security/stability/finances become more important selection criteria to them than excitement. What happens when they begin to take the security/stability for granted and realize that they settled on excitement? They go somewhere else to get the excitement. (or they just brood in unhappiness, dead bedroom, etc.) Lover/provider are not mutually exclusive, but you should always begin as… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 10:23 PM |
| -4 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1]"It's women's fault that being a chode doesn't work." No. It's not. If women did the same shit to you, you'd be absolutely revolted. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 10:17 PM |
| -9 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1]It's sad, because I wish advice like this wasn't necessary and we could just be real and normal with the opposite sex, but too many women have listened to the wrong advice and are ruthless when it comes to dating. Stop wishing that women would love your inner chode voice and just stop being a chode. If you have a fulfilling life, there's no reason to sit around being bitter that women aren't interested in men who give them the modern equivalent of Shakesperean love speeches. I literally don't ha… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 10:10 PM |
| 8 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1]There is so much evidence in the world that this isn't true. But sure, tell yourself whatever you need to tell yourself to rationalize not taking any action. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 07:28 PM |
| 2 | How NOT to get a woman's number, brought to you by r/dating_adviceOk, so let's go through why doing this is counterproductive with all but the most socially awkward girls, who you're probably not interested in anyway. If you and a girl are hitting it off Ok, so the premise is that we are having a good interaction. Why would you possibly assume she thinks of you as creepy when you're "hitting it off?" It is not difficult to differentiate between genuine interest and feigned polite interest. If she is uncomfortable, you wouldn't be asking for her number anyway. … | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 08:49 PM |
| 4 | What causes you to lose interest in a girl?Social awkwardness can often come across as unintelligence. You're essentially preventing yourself from even showing anyone who comes to talk to you who you really are. When someone is engaging with you and you lock up and give short answers and don't contribute to the conversation, it's inherently unattractive. Take action and actually work on it. Make a conscious point of forcing yourself to contribute to conversations substantively. Go out and socialize purposefully. You'll improve and be abl… | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 01:37 AM |
| 2 | 21 Jan Thursday Daygame Infield ReportReally solid man. I read both of your last two. This is good progress. I like that you're focusing on 1-2 things each time you go out instead of overwhelming yourself trying to think about 10 different principles. | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 11:41 PM |
| 2 | How can a Woman be more attractive?Actually be willing to engage in banter, teasing, joking, etc. Don't look at a guy you're attracted to with googly eyes and just nod along with everything he says just because you're attracted to him. | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 01:39 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with evolving Last Minute Resistance?You're already way into needy territory. A freezeout isn't going to do anything. You need to totally reset. I'd probably just stop giving her much physical attention at all, let her chase it. She'll re-rationalize herself as the initiator, should help her come out of her shell and feel more ownership of what's going on. | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 01:51 PM |
| 2 | John Anthony Lifestyle boot camp and courseJMULV brags about his results more than any other person in the industry, and half of his content is basically just drama channel bullshit trashing other coaches and companies. The infield that I’ve seen is really no more impressive than any other coach. Hopefully you can find some people here with firsthand experience, but I simply wouldn’t associate with someone who’s so focused on tearing everyone else in the community down. It’s just irritating. Why can’t his skills and products simply speak… | /r/seduction | 18/01/21 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Almost kissed a 9/10 when clubbing last night (FR)I could tell she was very interested and I teased her quite a bit as she drank from my glass of water that I had put down and told her that she owed me one. She was trying to go through my pockets to check my ID to see how old I was as she couldn't guess my age and she touched my stomach at one point before lifting up my shirt to check my body out. So, definitely interested. Yeah, you don't need to take teasing threads to some ridiculous extreme. Like, dude, she's feeling you up you can just cra… | /r/seduction | 18/01/21 04:23 AM |
| 0 | Almost kissed a 9/10 when clubbing last night (FR)You just wrote a gigantic fucking essay to a newbie roasting nightlife only to end it by admitting nightlife is a great place for newbies to build confidence and crush social anxiety. Nice. | /r/seduction | 18/01/21 04:18 AM |
| 4 | I think I've found a really effective cold approach strategy: "you look really familiar..."I’d just reject the idea that you need a one size fits all line in the first place. Sometimes I’m direct. Sometimes I’m indirect. Sometimes I’m observational. Sometimes I mix and match. What do you want? Some clickbait “USE THIS ONE LINE TO GET LAID” shit? | /r/seduction | 17/01/21 06:50 AM |
| 10 | I think I've found a really effective cold approach strategy: "you look really familiar..."If you catch eyes and there’s a vibe already this approach is even more ridiculous. If she’s giving you IOIs across the room and you come up and say “herp derp u look familiar” she’s going to regret giving you those IOIs. | /r/seduction | 17/01/21 05:00 AM |
| 17 | I think I've found a really effective cold approach strategy: "you look really familiar..."I think this is obfuscating your intentions to the point that it's inauthentic. I think the proof is in the pudding: An easy way out - if you aren’t vibing or theyre getting annoyed or say they have a boyfriend or something - you can just say “shit I guess it will stay an unsolved mystery... anyway please stop stalking me... haha no enjoy your day” If you're making an approach where part of the purpose is that it makes it easy to eject, you're already losing. It’s a bit cheesy and most girls wil… | /r/seduction | 17/01/21 04:21 AM |
| 13 | How do you apply pick up advice without getting too stuck inside your own head?You don’t think about it in the moment. You debrief it to yourself afterwards. If you do think about it, just focus on one or two things per night. “Tonight I’m focusing on eye contact and vocal tonality” After a couple approaches you should be nailing those things without being stuck in your head. | /r/seduction | 15/01/21 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Don't let your ego dismiss the warningsIf you are looking for a relationship but you’re presenting yourself as a guy who is just into hooking up, this is going to happen to you. You need to be congruent to what you actually want. Also, just forget about this girl, completely. Delete her number. Also, you’re Swedish. Isn’t this sort of thing pretty common with dating culture there? | /r/seduction | 13/01/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | 13 Jan daygame infield reportWhat country are you in where the second girl assumed she was being filmed because that had happened to her multiple times in a week? | /r/seduction | 13/01/21 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Direct after knowing them?Some women will respond well to that sort of overt thing, but only if you have that kind of relationship already. If you’re already FWBs then a late night booty call probably isn’t weird. If you just met her at work, texting her late at night for sex is a great way to get a one way ticket to HR. Don’t just make a friend and then hit them up for a booty call randomly. Why the fuck would that work? | /r/seduction | 12/01/21 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Mixed Signals, help please!!Don’t “confess your feelings.” That’s retarded Hollywood bullshit. Go have a fun day with her doing something. Pick a nice moment when she’s laughing and smiling. “Hey, I’m having a lot of fun. The next time we go out, let’s make it a date.” That is 1000x more likely to work than sitting her down and dumping feelings on her like a romcom character. If you actually want to date her, you’re going to have to risk rejection and awkwardness. If you’re not willing to risk that, date others and enjoy t… | /r/seduction | 12/01/21 11:33 AM |
| 31 | Stop negatively comparing yourself to her exMost men who think they are ugly aren’t really ugly. They just believe that because they’ve been rejected and assume it’s over looks. The larger problem, really, is that men who think they’re ugly act like they think they’re ugly, and that is insanely unattractive. Most of them just choose to give up and wallow instead of trying to build confidence or fake it until they make it. I’m not going to support your rationalizations for giving up and not taking action. | /r/seduction | 11/01/21 06:27 PM |
| 132 | Stop negatively comparing yourself to her exLook, I get that you're hustling and building your brand, but this is r/dating_advice or r/relationship_advice material. The title of the post is just an obvious truism. However, digging into the body there are some claims that are simply not universally true. Your girlfriend hasn’t downgraded from her ex-boyfriend to you; her selection criteria has evolved. That isn't always a good thing. If she thinks her selection criteria have evolved from lover to provider, and you're her pick for the latte… | /r/seduction | 11/01/21 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Honesty, Authenticity, and Intent - What is ethical?Real Social Dynamics | /r/seduction | 11/01/21 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Should I move on or keep trying?If what you want is to be in a relationship again, you need to express that intent. You’re not doing it because, like everyone is, you’re scared to be rejected. I don’t see much here about how amazing he is other than that he’s a good sexual partner. It seems like you’re just hooked on that and trying to rationalize that he’s a good partner in other ways too. The relationship wasn’t ruined by 2020. The relationship was ruined because he did something inconsiderate and you went nuclear over it. Y… | /r/seduction | 11/01/21 04:45 AM |
| 6 | Kiss Consent and Beyond - How to not be a weirdo.You have to normalize it to yourself. Truly deeply internalize that women love and want sex. Having sexual intentions is normal. Basically, deprogram yourself from the Hollywood romance narrative. I’m not gonna write you an essay on it, RSD and other coaches have 10s of hours of content on this. It’s the fundamental principle behind everything. | /r/seduction | 11/01/21 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Kiss Consent and Beyond - How to not be a weirdo.Both. Dated ending in a ONS rely on the way you present yourself, which is something my last post covers. If you go on the date and just talk about all your socially conditioned credentials (job, money, provider ability, etc.), you’re obviously not going to get laid. For the same reason, you shouldn’t be pitching yourself that way from the start. If you want casual sex, you should be congruent to selling yourself as an experience from the open to the close. | /r/seduction | 11/01/21 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Kiss Consent and Beyond - How to not be a weirdo.I don’t have enough experience with traditional first dates to speak as an authority. I have a lot of experience with ONS and a couple of LTRs. I don’t “date” much. Todd Valentine (RSD Todd) has a lot of solid content geared around dating. Anything I could write up would just be parroting him and other coaches. | /r/seduction | 11/01/21 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Girl wants to re meet but am different?Stop spamming this dude. Go to therapy. | /r/seduction | 11/01/21 01:05 AM |
| 1 | How to do it. Right lolAaaaaand the detective has gotten to the bottom of things once again lol. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 10:36 PM |
| 1 | RoommateWhat you're really asking: "Is there a way to make my oneitis reality rather than taking the proper steps to cure it?" Answer: No. Don't shit where you eat. She isn't special. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 09:23 PM |
| 4 | How to do it. Right lolYou position yourself so that you can still breath through your nose while you're making contact with your mouth. If you can't, you just have a facial structure that doesn't work well for it or your partner is (very) overweight. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 08:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I talk to my gf during sexYou need to be more specific. Does she want reassurance about her body and that you're feeling good? Does she want dirty talk? Is she submissive and wants BDSM kind of talk? It's a dumb question because you haven't actually explored it enough. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Kiss Consent and Beyond - How to not be a fucking weirdo.Yeah, the impetus for writing this post was seeing a post from a guy who ended up turning a girl off so much by asking 48392827 consent questions that she left and doesn’t talk to him anymore. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Kiss Consent and Beyond - How to not be a fucking weirdo.To each their own, the in your face vibe resonated with me when I was figuring it all out. It’s a counterbalance to the shit I’ve seen even in this sub, for example: “if you try to kiss someone within 5 minutes that’s assault.” Anyone who has ever been to a nightclub knows that anyone who believes that is out of their mind, but some impressionable newbie with no experience might internalize that kind of bullshit. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 04:33 AM |
| 2 | How. Do. I. Meet. Women.Cold approach when restrictions are eased. I tried dating apps before and fell into the "oh if you're not a greek god forget it" mindset. Then I actually fucking listened to the people saying IT'S ABOUT ***GOOD PICTURES*** and I realized how I was fucking up. Try out photofeeler (google it) to start learning what good pictures are and what they aren't, and how you're coming across to women on a profile. Unless you are genuinely ugly, which is a truly small minority of people, you can potentially… | /r/seduction | 09/01/21 11:03 PM |
| 5 | Independent womenOur opinion of them for what? As friends? As business connections? As hookup partners? As romantic partners? What context are you asking about? | /r/seduction | 09/01/21 10:57 PM |
| 5 | Guy (24 y/o) always mentions that he is talking to multiple girlsWhy are you even interested in talking to this guy at this point? How are you rationalizing it to yourself? Please tell me, I am genuinely curious. | /r/seduction | 07/01/21 08:17 AM |
| -1 | Honesty, Authenticity, and Intent - What is ethical?You’re fully aware your pile of random assumptions and conjecture is not even close to “constructive criticism.” | /r/seduction | 06/01/21 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Honesty, Authenticity, and Intent - What is ethical?I’ll check back in a week when you turn this into some watered down garbage for r/dating. Anyway, your whole comment is just full of bullshit assumptions, I don’t feel really compelled to reply substantively. | /r/seduction | 06/01/21 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Thought I wanted FWB but subconsciously just wanted a hook up.Love to see women putting other women down. You're totally right! The sole reason you're single is sole because you're black. It has nooooooooothing to do with your bitter personality... /s Women with high self-esteem aren't on Reddit trolling around subreddits they know will make them angry. They're too busy enjoying their lives. | /r/seduction | 05/01/21 06:43 PM |
| 5 | Thought I wanted FWB but subconsciously just wanted a hook up.Make sure you’re NOT sub-communicating boyfriend vibes. You’re the lover, not the provider. You are an experience, not an investment. Make sure your interactions are truly man to woman. That’s all it takes for you to be honest. Women aren’t stupid, they don’t need you to spell it out for them. They know exactly what they’re doing when they sleep with that guy they met who didn’t even tell her his last name or where he works. Honesty in this case does not have to overt. You don’t have to say “OH … | /r/seduction | 05/01/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | How to get guys to hit on me as a 20f virginYou’re not making sense here. You’re really shy but you want guys to hit on you more in public? Find a guy from an app that you’re attracted to and seems nice/kind. Meet him in a super public place where you’ll be 100% safe and there’s no pressure. See how the date goes, and then take it from there. It’s really not complicated. Pro tip: look for a guy who has had a long-term girlfriend before. These types of guys will probably be better at sex and better about listening to you than some guy who … | /r/seduction | 05/01/21 02:01 AM |
| 1 | How to get guys to hit on me as a 20f virginYou are on Tinder and Bumble and you can't find someone to have casual sex with? | /r/seduction | 05/01/21 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Girl from 2018 wants to meet again but am different now?Dude I’m not going to play this stupid game of confirming your insecurities. YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO CARES OR WILL EVEN NOTICR. | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Girl from 2018 wants to meet again but am different now?You look the fucking same. Calm down, get out of your head, meet the girl. The stakes are so fucking low, just relax a little. | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | When do you apply persistence vs just moving on?I’m joking around with the way the other guy worded his response. Chill. Also, Sasha Daygame is awful. He’s a dancing monkey, and his videos are more entertainment than pickup. Tusk, Natural Lifestyles, and some of the guys they work with come to mind as far better daygamers. | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | When do you apply persistence vs just moving on?I think the disconnect between you and the guy you were talking to is that he’s focused on the negative externalities of movements like me too and you’re focused on the core messaging. The core messaging is fine, it’s truism, it isn’t really debatable and I don’t think 99% of people have a problem with it. The negative externalities, mainly the fact that a completely non credible allegation can ruin someone’s life in an instant, are also undeniable. I obviously know what you meant. I’m just fuck… | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 08:36 PM |
| 0 | When do you apply persistence vs just moving on?We need to learn from rapists’ mistakes? I’m just gonna stick to not raping/assaulting anyone because I have no desire to do anything of the sort. Did someone have to convince you sexual assault was bad? Did you need to be told a story or read a hashtag to figure that out? | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 08:26 PM |
| 5 | When do you apply persistence vs just moving on?There have been times when I’ve turned down sex because I felt too tired and then 20 minutes later after a girl playfully teased me a little I was more than ready to go. Did she coerce me? Did she disrespect me? Was I assaulted? You people are genuine social retards, and I honestly feel bad for you. It’s nuanced, like anything. I have had situations where women go from “we are totally not having sex tonight” / “I’m not going to sleep with you” / etc to ripping my clothes off in less than an hour… | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Owens hot seat at home mastermind.It’s not unique compared to plenty of other programs like The Natural from Max. It’s also dated by comparison, like some of the footage is a decade old or more at this point. If you really resonate with him then go for it though, the teaching is still solid. It was on sale for the last time the last time it was on sale. They’ll say that every time they put it back up for the next decade. That’s just classic RSD marketing. | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Never approach women from behindTusk’s entire YouTube channel is basically approaching from behind. By that I mean he comes from behind and gets in front of them. Obviously, just tapping someone on the shoulder from behind is just going to freak them out, even a guy would get startled. | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 11:49 AM |
| 6 | How to use Rejection to gain Attraction!I can’t win? You didn’t respond to a single thing I said. I’m not trying to win, I’m trying to understand why you think you need a woman to immediately say yes to everything you want exactly when you want it. | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 11:46 AM |
| 2 | How to use Rejection to gain Attraction!Dude, have you ever been to a nightclub? People do a whole lot more than kissing after 5 minutes. | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 11:43 AM |
| 2 | How to use Rejection to gain Attraction!Did you actually read the post? | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 11:42 AM |
| 11 | How to use Rejection to gain Attraction!You have a lot of hang ups buddy. Do you think women are idiots? Do you think that sex is a hidden agenda? Do you think this woman didn’t know OP wanted to sleep with her less than 10 minutes after meeting her? Do you think if you try to kiss a woman and she doesn’t go for it in that moment, that she’s rejecting you completely? What fucking universe are you living in? Are you saying that if a woman does do exactly what you want exactly when you want her to that you take it as a complete rejectio… | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Having (F) a guy over for Netflix and ChillI was not remotely attracted to the guy I hooked up with then. Are you at least attracted to this one? I honestly don't understand how anyone, men or women, can hook up with someone they don't even think is physically appealing. I wouldn't even get hard. I mean, having someone you haven't met over to your house to bone is almost always awkward initially, it just is. If you want to break the ice in a lower pressure environment, meet him for a casual drink somewhere beforehand, and then bring it h… | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 08:04 PM |
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