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Title of post is super cringe. Anyone that read this is the body of the post equally cringy or nah?
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:51 PM
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I agree with this statement but I’m curious to hear more about your perspective about this
/r/askTRP05/02/19 05:57 AM
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If you want to delete your comment, delete it, don’t just leave a dot. That’ll get you even more downvotes.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 08:25 AM
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Becker and Ovens both look like scammy dudes selling a fantasy themselves. “I’ll tell you how I got rich, just pay me $3000.” That’s precisely how they made and continue to make their money, dude.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:19 PM
7

That's petty and unnecessary.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:37 AM
5

yeah no, op definitely don't do this it's autistic
/r/askTRP10/01/19 06:00 AM
1

You shouldn’t
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:06 AM
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Please OP don’t mention the word frame. Use the word composure instead if you have to. Don’t use manosphere terminology where it doesn’t belong.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:25 AM
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This user is one of several mentally ill spammers that refuses to seek mental help. Nothing you say will help him and he’ll be back again in a few weeks. I can promise this with absolute certainty. I’ve written practically essay-long responses to these kinds of users before, even held extensive conversations in DMs. Their problems aren’t physical but mental. They all like to hang out in the usual incel communities and websites, and they come around here sometimes to ask questions only to ignore …
/r/askTRP12/12/18 11:11 PM
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Don’t say this, you should never run player douchebag game (or any type of game for that matter) on your employer.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:43 PM
1

FL Studio 12.4 Producer Edition is the last edition of FL that can be cracked with a reg key. It’s fairly comparable to the most recent versions. I’ll let you do what you want with that information. I don’t condone piracy or anything.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 03:32 AM
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The latter
/r/askTRP21/10/18 05:15 PM
1

If anything, 5s are harder. They’re insecure and some of them channel that into aggression and generally unwelcoming energy. If a girl knows she’s out of your league then she has more reasons to doubt your motives, meaning more shit tests. If it gives you more confidence to start with them though, have at it.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:16 AM
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Bad idea.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 12:30 AM
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You don't need our permission to leave her. You felt compelled to make a post about it, so clearly you know this is fucked up and that she needs to go yesterday. Your concern should be checking for more cameras, changing your passwords, and telling anyone close to you about this before she gets the chance to turn it against you. If it were me, I would HARD next her, and maybe file a restraining order or a police report (if you don't mind taking it to that level). You are meant to have full expec…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 01:57 AM
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It's going to happen anyway so you might as well be on the favorable side of it.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:56 AM
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What a fucking pity this is even upvoted. Shame on me for thinking AskTRP was better than this. You need money to be able to live the life you want. You’re sad because you work/go to school all day, then you come home and waste away all evening only to do it again the next day. You wouldn’t be too tired to run for your life if such a danger presented itself. Similarly, you wouldn’t be too tired to follow a passion project or two if your obligatory workload was light enough for you to accommodate…
/r/askTRP09/10/18 03:03 PM
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Disable notifications for messages from her. Make yourself scarce so she values her time/attention with you more.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 12:08 AM
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Is she a social reject (loser)? She’s too invested in you over too little interaction. That’s a red flag. You didn’t declare your intentions soon enough, and now in her eyes you’re prospective boyfriend material. To reiterate in English: you’re in her frame. Go no contact for awhile (important) then let her know you’re not looking for anything serious. Continue escalating like normal and learn how to communicate in subtext. Your biggest mistake was implying she has a chance to lock you down.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 12:04 AM
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Look up kino in the main sub
/r/askTRP06/10/18 09:43 PM
1

Oh shit I didn’t even see that part, a year and a half with no sex, no hand stuff either, but he’s done “everything else”. Just what is everything else, OP? Don’t be an ATM, OP.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 09:29 PM
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If you believe she respects you and you haven’t been overly beta, just keep doing you. From my interpretation, TRP does not mean for you to be someone your not, only grow to improve yourself to the point where you can express who you really are. I would not recommend going the full 180 on your girlfriend, or any girl you know for that matter. In the (paraphrased) words of the sidebar, the “shit tests and shaming will rain down with biblical fury”. Save the experimentation for someone new, optima…
/r/askTRP06/10/18 09:21 PM
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It's your call. But if you keep this up, make sure you wrap it up and always pull out. If she's truly a kissless virgin she may be inclined to keep you around by getting pregnant on purpose. People who don't get a lot of attention don't like the idea of giving it up once it comes along. As long as you're with her, you're her security.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:30 AM
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No, you're absolutely right. Keep it toxic, it totally works for you. You sound like you've got it all figured out. You don't need TRP anyway. Take your shot. Have fun. And gtfo lol
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:25 AM
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I'm glad you wised up and decided to take the PUA route instead! We're all just hateful, corny woman-haters with tight-fitting shirts here.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:15 AM
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Sidebar and lift. If you actually read the sidebar, lifted regularly, and had your shit together, you wouldn't need to be asking about this. ​ The fact that you're specifically pointing out that you want white girls leads me to think you're one of those #JustBeWhite incels who will ignore this post and continue spamming it day after day across 5-10 different subreddits. Going by your post history, I think I'm right. ​ Cut it the fuck out. Sidebar or GTFO.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 12:46 AM
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ThankTRP is dead
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:15 AM
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You should try to understand the blue pill perspective from an analytical point of view; try to learn from it instead of detesting it. Most of the people you’ll meet in life will be blue pilled. If you want to be able to connect with them or reason with them, you must understand the way they see the world. I think just being able to do that will enrich your understanding of the world much more. GLO wrote about this at length a few months ago. The quarantine is the admins’ defensive reaction to a…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 06:37 AM
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It’s not gone just threatened. TRP goes against the admins’ beliefs, TBP does not. Hence TRP is quarantined, and the sub that makes a mockery of TRP is not. Purple Pill Debate is much more of a Blue Pill sub than TBP, to be fair. The same applies though.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 06:23 AM
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Provided they have the attention span to read it all
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 11:11 AM
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And in this case, Reddit has nothing to lose and everything to gain from us not associating with them. Our goal with Reddit boils down to “leave us alone, and we’ll leave you alone”. The way it has been for awhile. The quarantine doesn’t leave us in a good place.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 08:09 PM
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They don't care if we boycott Reddit, especially for an hour. They don't want us here in the first place. With a week, or even a month-long boycott, I expect all they'd have to say is "thanks" or "why not longer?" I boycott Reddit for an hour every time I go to the gym. I also boycott Reddit the 21-22 hours a day that I'm not on Reddit. I like that you're standing up to Reddit censorship, but I don't believe this is the way to get the message across. On the other hand, your other stickied post i…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 06:30 PM
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Congrats on getting a psychology class that isn't utter shit. My high school psych class focused on disorders, watching movies, and how white people oppress minorities. Looks like the other commenters touched on it pretty well, narcissism is one of the three pillars of the dark triad. Dark triad is exciting (adrenaline) and "beta" behaviors are comforting (oxytocin).
/r/askTRP28/07/18 05:59 PM
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Yes, but it is less active than the main sub. See /r/altTRP. Many of the core concepts of TRP are applicable to women and gay men, but the heterosexual game theory will simply be less relevant to you. At least you'll understand your female friends better.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:32 AM
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Investments take time to gain value. Your investments can gain value in a short period but IMO to make $5K you're looking at more than a summer. If I'm wrong, tell me how you've done it so I can start doing that.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 07:22 PM
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Abandon all hope, ye who enter this thread
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:40 PM
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The easy answer is to avoid those types as much as you can. Unfortunately, this won't always be possible. You have to understand that they're not looking for someone to change their mind, they're looking for someone to reaffirm their beliefs. You can either take their side, only to watch them smirk deviously and forget about you. You can also withhold all validation, or even communication entirely. This could cause them to decide in their mind that they have won, or they could keep resisting and…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:50 AM
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Boy you're living it. Fifteen Million Merits is a big one in that vein though.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:41 AM
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I'd like to think this isn't such a sensitive part of Reddit to need that.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:39 AM
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Gay title, sociopathic content. Women are human too. Okay then. There's no dirty little secret. That's fucking creepy, dude.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 05:05 PM
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And that's completely okay. The TRP perspective can be very shocking and is not for everyone. I don't believe TRP has all the answers, and I'm glad it doesn't claim to. You saw a couple of bad eggs. You're free to take what you have learned here and either apply it to your life or ignore it. I personally believe I have learned some super valuable information here. I have also read plenty of bitter misogynist tirades. In the end I have learned to filter out the BS and hold on to the information t…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 04:41 PM
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Not at all. The people here analyze social structure, draw conclusions from those experiences, and discuss how they can improve themselves. Some of the members are definitely misogynistic but I would like to think that they aren't the majority. We try to understand men and women at a deeper level than the words that come out of their mouths. You should know to discount the BS when you see it.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 03:08 PM
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You have a good point, he never disclosed whether they did the paternity test yet or what the results were. Prenatal paternity tests exist but they may be waiting for the child to be born first. Prenatal tests tend to be more expensive. Edit: test hasn't been done yet as per ops reply to the above comment
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:30 PM
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He said that because he knocked up a girl, not because he's fat or awkward. He has genuine concerns caused by very real mistakes. His life isn't ruined, but it will be very different going forward.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:17 PM
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Leave her, man.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:07 PM
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If you look for them, yeah. If you're going to compare yourself to other people let it be for motivation or mentorship; in the vast majority of cases I would advise not comparing yourself to others if you can help it. Keep a full pipeline and put yourself balls deep in new situations. Accept that you will fail some of the time. If you have a bigger purpose you'll have less of a problem getting over it. If sexual advertisements are enough to make you uncomfortable you might have dick problems. Cu…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:49 PM
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bring a dude friend or go alone. tell her you're calling it off or just ghost from here on out. i personally wouldn't ghost in this case because you made plans. i think it's kind of a dick move to get her hopes up then crush her at the last second. i would be upfront about it in this case. by all means when you don't have plans like this then ghost away. another thing, i never understood why people go to vegas as couples or families. you go there to make new experiences, and sexual or family dyn…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 08:12 PM
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Cheating on your wife isn't something to be proud of.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:22 PM
1

Start with dropping the cutesy emojis bud, they make you sound 12.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 06:13 PM
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If you can recognize that it doesn't come from an overtly racist place, yet you're still offended by it, you might be overly sensitive. Lighten up.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 10:24 PM
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Psych sociology humanities women's studies anything about culture depending on whether or not you're in a technical center of the world like LA, SLC, or NY, computer science. Double points if you're straight, male, and have a "white" vocabulary. A Hispanic ex-girlfriend of mine had people constantly calling her white in our majority-Hispanic high school because she would speak and write with an educated vocabulary. Stupidity does not appreciate logic.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 03:16 PM
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He is playing a character. The description literally says misogynistic. Don't take examples from fiction too literally.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 12:47 AM
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Four years here. This hit me like a bus when I realized why I was getting weird looks when I would mention how long it had been. She was insecure, and that's the only reason it lasted so long. She didn't think she could get in a relationship again (or so she said). She was attractive, but so insecure.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 03:05 PM
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Feels like I've read this thread before, top comments included. Perhaps the sidebar materials could be due for an update.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 04:19 AM
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Depends. If it's a one off but she means business, take a breath, look at her, and tell her that you expect better from her. If you have to defend yourself, fucking do it. If it's playful, hit her back but not too hard. Or hard, if she's into that.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 04:16 AM
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Too controversial. High school psych classes are notoriously politically correct, and so voicing an opinion on ANYTHING related to the state of masculinity today will get you singled out and shamed for your sexism. There are a lot of reasons you don't want to do this. Listen to the other responses in this thread. Avoid anything related to power dynamics, race, gender, feminism, masculinity, sex, cults, spirituality, astrology, or religion if you can help it. Start here: Psychology-related topics…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 03:06 AM
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This isn't true at all, and it makes us look bad as a whole to even suggest that is the case. Women are discouraged to read TRP because it may be shocking, so they are recommended to use /r/redpillwomen instead. This recommendation is no more than a recommendation -- if they're able to be civilized and contribute, they are welcome here. They should not expect special treatment, though. "There are no women on the internet." OP only mentioned the fact that she is a woman in order to get advice for…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 01:45 AM
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This is a masculinity-focused sub, and cuckoldry is a classic form of - in the simplest terms - sexual humiliation. I'm just curious if this is a socially conditioned thing (eg "this is taboo, therefore it's a fetish") or you have personally conditioned it through masturbation without checking yourself. I am of the mind that cuckoldry signifies a loss of power and respect in a relationship, and is innately feminine. Change my view, or have I misinterpreted what you said?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 12:44 PM
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What are you doing here? You know you're in TRP, right? Are you happy living this way?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 12:32 PM
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For real this sounds like a cover up and everyone but OP is in on it.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 06:09 AM
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If you don't actually dislike texting though, you're shit out of luck when you do this. Use texting as a tool to arrange in-person meet-ups and stop disqualifying yourself. She's only trying to keep herself fresh in his mind. Easier to demote to orbiter that way. ;) don't like it much and it's not her Whose frame are you operating in, exactly?
/r/askTRP12/12/17 05:47 AM
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I can't bring myself to feel sorry for him -- your friend is a dipshit, and not one of us. This is a self-improvement community with a no-bullshit, rigorous approach and a focus on masculinity. Your friend has become aware of the related subs and the principles they teach. As a result your friend has taken to calling himself Captain Incel. This isn't a typical reaction. From this we can take one of two things. 1) He lacks the mental fortitude to adopt a Red Pill lifestyle, so he has buckled unde…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:18 PM
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I believe this quote has more to do with comparing yourself to people further along than you in masculinity, weightlifting, dating, people skills, and anything else to do with the ideal "Chad" archetype. When you get out of a relationship your first instinct once you get out of the dumps might be to make yourself more "alpha." This isn't to say that setting goals or even choosing a mentor is a bad thing, it's the thinking "I'm not good enough" "I'm not alpha enough" or "I'll never be Chad" that …
/r/askTRP01/12/17 03:08 AM
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This sounds like it has the chance for some real fun banter without offending anyone. Cheers!
/r/askTRP24/11/17 12:09 AM
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No, they don't. And OP doesn't talk about these things either -- you'll notice that the first mention of any of these hardships was a fluke where the OP broke down during a documentary. I strongly suspect they keep it buried because that is what is best for them as far as women are concerned. There is nothing wrong with therapy, but don't place the burden on your prospective dates. Not only are thots beyond unqualified to give you life advice, but there is no quicker way to destroy your frame. T…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 05:23 PM
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Being an asshole has a different meaning between men and women. For women, an asshole is a playful term of endearment that means you're presenting excitement and challenge. To men, an asshole is someone being an inconsiderate dick. If they're calling you an asshole in a flustered way it probably means tingles, but if you're a 'conceded asshole' you're probably just being aggressive (not fun to be around!). Lighten up. You're only there to have a good time.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:40 PM
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/r/MGTOW lol edit: HE POSTED IT THERE TOO
/r/askTRP29/10/17 05:07 PM
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That's why you're still here, dude. And you're keeping yourself here because you're surrounding yourself with the type of men guys that act like children. Instead, look for meaningful bonds with men that share similar values to you. Distance yourself from the lazy gamer schlubs whose banter is a thinly-veiled insult/power grab. Change yourself, change your friends, and your life will change as a result.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 04:33 PM
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Pretty much this.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 05:26 AM
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Stop smoking weed.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:21 PM
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For fucking real. People have given him advice and validation for all the many years he has been posting about this, and he ignores it each and every time in favor of those that agree with his perspective. This needs to end. If it won't come from within, a psychologist is the only answer. OP, if you're still reading this, please take this guy's advice. This post does not belong in this sub.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 07:00 AM
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Your last sentence is your question ergo your title, and your whole comment is your text body. How am I supposed to distinguish myself when a woman asks/tries to find out what I do outside school?
/r/askTRP18/10/17 06:03 AM
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That there deserves its own thread. I think it's fine to talk about the sports you like or even your job. People usually don't really give a fuck unless it engages them in some way. If they can't relate you can usually just say one or two things about it and flip it back over to them. Meaningful conversations may require more effort, and I think you'd get better advice if you made this a thread of its own.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 01:26 AM
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Whispering may or may not work against you here. If you're speaking so low as to make sure she is the only one who hears, she may not hear you. And if you have to repeat yourself, the statement has lost all of its effect. Be light in demeanor -- this means do not overthink your actions. Say it as a passing, lighthearted comment. You may need to build up confidence with lower SMV girls, and/or work on yourself a little more. You sound very unsure of yourself. That facade doesn't last long.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:53 PM
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I love this, but I hate the way you talk about yourself. I wish you the best, man. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 11:50 PM
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This is what's known as an opinion. Once you marry, you're legally bound to that person by law. If you decide you don't like it so much, you can always divorce. Save for an angry ex-mother-in-law, you'll most likely come out unscathed. It starts to get iffy once you introduce family court. If you've decided to have children with a woman you are bound to her by the child's very genes. If it just so happens that the mother of your child is not stable (factoring in AWALT and her individual quirks) …
/r/askTRP07/10/17 05:04 PM
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I'm not even religious but you got me praying you're just using :3 ironically. Nobody takes you seriously with that shit. Your goal should not be to appear cute, especially at 5'5. Make the best of what you've got and don't compromise yourself to insecurities. Playing them off as a joke has the same effect.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 03:19 PM
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The popular interpretation of "Be yourself" works only as long as "yourself" is good enough. Self-improvement isn't and shouldn't be about being someone you're not, self-improvement (and this sub for that matter) is about building the power and discipline needed to live life at full force.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 03:21 PM
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That's the thing. Some therapists will tell you you're a perfect flower despite your obvious problems/delusions, while others will actually pick you up and push you on the right track. If you don't click, don't stick around -- try a different therapist.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 07:16 PM
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I never considered that gender flip -- I even have Spotify on now. Really great insight. Songs without lyrics don't tend to evoke the same feelings, or tell that kind of story. Everything in moderation.
/r/askTRP22/07/17 10:38 PM
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This is called the anger phase. It lasts longer if you aren't constantly taking action, I know this personally. TRP is not a lifestyle, it is a tool, arguably one left to one's own interpretation. You aren't supposed to act anything. You must internalize this shit and do things differently; If what you have been doing hasn't been working, things aren't going to turn around soon. Use TRP as a means of unlocking the strength that is already within you, not to falsely emulate the bad boy from the b…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 08:35 PM
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You sound immature as fuck if you say "real men" in any context. Shower when you can. Alpha and beta are simply labels for a set of distinct traits and habits. You don't have to be a dick about this.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 02:48 AM
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If you're a teenager there's a chance you still have baby fat in your face. Keep losing fat and it'll go away on its own. You can chew gum frequently and/or do some facial stretches but those typically do not burn fat, they build facial muscle and tighten the skin. I think there's a WikiHow article around somewhere. For now, I would recommend facial stretching and practicing proper tongue/swallowing posture. The front and back of your tongue should rest comfortably on the roof of your mouth. It'…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 02:08 PM
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Comfort test. Hold frame and/or agree and amplify.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 10:30 PM
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Yeah, no offense to OP, but in most parts of the internet, using fuckery spellings like "numbah" in place of "number" will only make people feel less inclined to take you seriously. Reading through this post I half expected it to end in "rawr xD" or some shit. Especially applied in texting, spelling words like this just completely obliterates any frame you might be cultivating for yourself. The fact that the girls asked if OP was gay leads me to wonder if this softness manifests itself in other …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 04:17 AM
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Straight white high schooler here. As I slowly recreate my image I've noticed I'm drawing in some of the wrong attention. I don't mean "bad people", I mean gay dudes and what I can only describe as low-tier butterfaces and land whales. This isn't even my area of focus, don't get me wrong, I have decent standards. But every once in awhile, these gay guys will use their female friends to initiate conversation within the group. Once I am lead to believe these people are actually there under the pre…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 04:12 PM
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I think I'm in a similar boat, feels like a disc bulging from my lower back. You should see a different doctor or speak up with confidence to your physio that you want this. For now, avoid deadlifts.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 04:11 PM
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Agree and amplify. Try it from a humorous perspective, kinda condescending but kinda sarcastic at the same time. To be completely honest with you though, I think you've got this yourself already. Just read up on shit tests and comfort tests. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 04:08 PM
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