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"We dont need to use a condom. Just take these"
/r/seduction17/08/19 04:15 PM
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The best approach is to understand people aren't there to satisfy what you want. Stop objectifying girls thinking they owe you something. What can you add to their lives? A girl worth her salt is going to smell out your self centered attitude like a stinky sock. Furthermore, coming from the angle of adding to someones life is going to be rewarding no matter what and it makes your energy more attractive. And also, because your expectations werent met, you ate discouraged and now wabt to give up, …
/r/seduction16/07/19 06:17 PM
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You are greatly misintrrpreting what "the game" is. While it is a nice seductive and uplifting little thing to believe, to make one feel better about oneself, that money, looks, age, etc. Dont matter, but the fact is that it is complete bullshit. It matters big time. But "game" is more inportant than all of it. For instance a hit 25 year old will not likely date a 40 year old. Why? Because she doesnt have to. She has good looking guys with better bodies and harder boners going after her. The fac…
/r/seduction16/07/19 03:41 PM
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You gotta read the girl and adapt. You dont just pull your tricks mindlessly and wonder why they dont work. Maturity is a massive factor. A 32 year old is gonna cut through your crap at record speed. A 20 year old wont know what you are talking about. Maybe 7 years older freaks them out and you are just a creep. Etc. So whatever your canned routine is, it doesnt work and you gotta add value to whatever the girl finds attractive.
/r/seduction16/07/19 03:08 PM
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AA?
/r/seduction16/07/19 06:40 AM
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Of all the girls in the world and you want to make a girl at your office feel uncomfortable. She is angry because telling her she is cute in the workolace is idiocy. Dont hit on girls who have no place to run to. If you flirt and fail it makes it awkward for all involved. If she goes to HR you are screwed. Man some guys on here... clueless.
/r/seduction15/07/19 03:53 PM
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No idea why you are getting downvoted. OP is a moron that is headed for a good old fashioned firing.
/r/seduction15/07/19 03:51 PM
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Yup, 100%. Amazing how so many guys refuse to go to dance lessons. Better for me! 🤣
/r/seduction14/07/19 05:12 AM
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It sounds like someone who is having a manic episode in hia apartment after having imagined finally getting over his fear of cold approaching. What a useless rant.
/r/seduction13/07/19 04:18 PM
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Advice is not going to help you. You are facing an emotional problem and not an intellectual one. So it isnt about just "stopping to care what people think" it will never work. Ive been dealt a horrible hand as well. And times where the only thing that would make me happy is to research ending it all. But if you really want a way out, there is a way. But not what you think. Pick something that you know you can achieve. A skill. Any skill. And get good at it. REAL good. That is it. That is the st…
/r/seduction13/07/19 07:56 AM
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How big? And in what area? Come on man, talk about it FFS!
/r/seduction13/07/19 05:25 AM
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Listen to thus guy, especially the last bit. Guys literally sit and hum and haw about picking up girls for years. If you cant do exactly what he said, forget girls and go focus on something you have the gonads to go do.
/r/seduction12/07/19 06:11 AM
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Do NOT ask her whats up! All it says is that you are not a leader. You are rattled easy. You are insecure.
/r/seduction12/07/19 06:08 AM
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Mystery is attractive. Being high in demand is attractive. Being edgey is attractive. And you are killing it all one by one by. Removing mystery by texting all the time. Removing high demand for beeing needy wondering why she isnt responding. Removing the edge by being available. She already said "im losing my attraction for you" in code langaue by saying she is usually attracted to bad boys. How much more hint you need? This is all boiler plate stuff and you are goong out of your way to ruin it…
/r/seduction12/07/19 06:07 AM
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Deep down you know how. So tell me how, in a theoretical world. What would it take for you to do this and succeed at life?
/r/seduction12/07/19 04:13 AM
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Sounds like you are full of excuses. I dont say that to be rude, but you need to wake up to that fact. If your life is dull then of course you will be hung up on the same girl and likely will for a long time. Moving away will solve nothing. You need to work on your inner self. Time to take charge.
/r/seduction12/07/19 12:21 AM
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Spicing on other girls is not how you get over a girl BTW. In fact sometimes it makes it worse. And depending on the girl, 6 months is not a long time to get over her. You cant speed up the time it takes but you can sure drag it out and make it longer! First off, block delete her. I dont want to hear excuses as to why you cant. Do it. She is gone from your life like vapor, even if she is around in social settings. Nope. Breath and ignore. Second, what in your life do you love doing? Do more of i…
/r/seduction11/07/19 11:51 PM
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No, you are!
/r/seduction11/07/19 10:55 PM
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During courtship (first month or two) Texting should be minimun. Definitely you should keep in touch at least once or twice a day, but keep it VERY short. "Sorry, got busy last night, how was your day? :)" When she responds, doesnt matter what she says, say: "Hey, really busy today and not much time to talk. How about dinner tonight to catch up?" If she cant that night, pick another night. If she cant the second time you offer a night then say "Oh busy girl! No probs, do you want to get in touch…
/r/seduction11/07/19 07:28 PM
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Haha chill, was just joking. Gotta wonder what is going on in someone's life where a comment on the inet from a stranger gets him all fired up 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction11/07/19 06:36 PM
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Some? Most. Most guys are horrendous.
/r/seduction11/07/19 03:39 PM
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Yes and inititally you are just the next bumbling idiot and so you gott ashake off that persona
/r/seduction11/07/19 03:38 PM
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PUAs get hate cause they mostly think of people of getting something from them as opposed to offering value. Many pick up on that and dont kioe being disturbed for it.
/r/seduction11/07/19 03:38 PM
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The suggestions in here suck and you guys are lame. Drawing classes. Dance lessons. Co-ed sports teams. Photography meetups. Book clubs. Rock climbing. Toastmasters. Gallas and other social dressup events. Meet and mingles. Speed dating. Running club. Barr class. Imorov lessons. The list is endless.
/r/seduction11/07/19 04:56 AM
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She sounds like a tainwreck, but since you asked: "What tipped you off?" Doesnt end the conversation. It takes the power back, now she has to come up with some sort of comeback to explain herself. She is obviously trsting you, so never defend yourself. Redirect. No matter what she says, you can play off if it. If she doesnt keep it flirtatious, Id ditch her - she is already borserline ditch material.
/r/seduction11/07/19 04:54 AM
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You dont need to tell people how they should learn. Picking up women is mostly an emotional problem, not an intellectual one. So guidance can really help with that and some need more than others. Of course experience helps and people need to add that too. That is obvious.
/r/seduction09/07/19 08:54 PM
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Honestly this is a shitpost, all you are responding to is the frequency you see people ask for advice. But it isnt the same people asking, so you dont know their progress after taking off their training wheels. Second, not all men have time to hone their skills at picking up women. Some of them are living lives but still want a GF. They want a few canned tricks to move into meeting the girl. The fact is that you arnt investing time into what you should be so you instead waste time bitching about…
/r/seduction09/07/19 08:28 PM
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Ya, this TLDW is more like a teaser or click bait titles to get you to watch.
/r/seduction09/07/19 03:00 PM
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It will happen in the future, 110%. And when it does, you move on. Too many men on here objectify women to their own detriment. You want her, OK. But she may never want you, there is no way sure ro change that. You may think you are an 8 but to her, you may be a 6. Gotta accept it
/r/seduction06/07/19 02:21 PM
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Cause you have oneitis. That is your problem. So dont.
/r/seduction06/07/19 01:39 AM
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If that is what you are looking for then that is great. I wasnt talking at al about FWB or ONS though.
/r/seduction22/05/19 04:24 AM
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Im glad it resonated with you :)
/r/seduction21/05/19 10:23 PM
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It sounds like you are in need of a bit of mental reframing. Which leads me to my next bit of advice. Mental reframing is probably the most useful thing you can learn to do in your entire life. If I could recommend on thing someone deeicate time to, it is that.
/r/seduction21/05/19 10:23 PM
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