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_SpeedWolf_/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 08:22 PM
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Best advice.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/26 10:45 PM
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This ^ The good news is that she seems to be on a position (albeit with assistance) to “buy you out” which offers you some freedom, but you want to make sure that payment is structured and that you’re getting your full entitlement.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/26 09:05 PM
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Can be sort of a blessing.. I’m considering shift swapping a few days over the Christmas period so that I’m not sitting idle at home. I also dread spending Christmas alone.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/25 10:45 PM
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1) Kids are notorious for trying to keep an even keel. I’m near certain he doesn’t like you both “equally”.. he is likely just saying that as a means to avoid conflict on both sides. Deep down, you’re his dad and his love for you far outweighs his affection for said other guy. 2) Don’t let the jealousy eat at you. Let her make her own decisions and you continue to control what you can control. Being a loving and supportive father. Keep your chin up, guy.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/25 10:54 PM
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You need to seek some professional help, my guy. Today. Not a judgement, a straight answer.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/25 10:32 PM
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Are you me? …Am I you?
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/25 01:47 PM
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Just pull up your stakes, break camp and enjoy your newly inherited money. Don’t tell her anything. In fact, if you don’t have kids, never speak to that little tart again. Take a nice trip. Focus on a hobby. Hell… take a trip that revolves around your hobby. The untethered freedom you’ve just gained shouldn’t be squandered. Do it for the rest of us.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 04:32 AM
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Test the waters. Don’t put a bunch of pressure on the situation.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/25 03:01 AM
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That sounds like manipulation, sent solely to disrupt your time with your boy. Even if it was true, kids sway back and forth with what they want for a multitude of reasons. I wouldn’t dwell on it or think too far into it. Just make the most of your time with him today and be the best dad you can while he’s present. Hang in there and enjoy it!
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 12:19 AM
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Offer to take your daughter to Disney solo so she can stay behind and be the unhinged selfish train-wreck that she is. Then, enjoy that time with your daughter without all the stress and drama. Look like the hero. Hold the moral high ground. Let her feel the guilt and shame later on when reality sets in on her own. Let her be the one that scuttles the ship while you stay a champion dad. Keep your chin up my guy!
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/24 10:08 PM
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That’s rough. I feel this one. You can only control what you can control. The fact that you were present and there for him is all that really matters. Just work on being a top tier dad and all else is inconsequential. She’ll either straighten up and realize her faults, or she won’t. That just means you have more opportunities to be that foundation for him.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/24 06:34 PM
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That’s undoubtedly part of it. Every case is unique, but in my particular situation, my ex came from a privileged life where everything was handed to her and she didn’t do well with adversity. She was on the social media hype train and built a business with women’s empowerment as a pillar. I was all for it too (I’m a dad to a wonderful daughter) until I saw how it manifested into a very toxic “me, me, me” attitude. And that attitude is largely what led to the undoing of our marriage. None of us …
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 05:46 PM
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This is the epidemic we are facing, gentlemen. The “me” generation. Women (and men) and being told that they are special, and that their happiness matters more than the collective. Women will torpedo a marriage, their kids lives and certainly the lives of their husbands if it means they can find “happiness”. Families take effort. Marriages take effort. And part of that effort is some type of sacrifice. Most men that I know happily sacrifice many things for the betterment of their families. In my…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 04:46 PM
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When I caught her cheating.. that seemed like a good time.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/24 03:09 AM
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My man is out there living his life wild and free.. Let him enjoy. Pockets full of rubbers and a passport like he’s on shore leave.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/24 04:10 PM
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You set an example for your kids. Don’t be petty just to spite her if it’s something that means something to them. You don’t have to spend a lot of money, but if you get along in a decent manner, let the kids celebrate her in their own way. It’s important for them.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/24 05:41 PM
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Sounds like you’ve dodged a bullet my guy. That one is full crazy. It’s unfortunate that there are kids involved in the matter, but it’s without question you’re better off without her.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/24 03:41 PM
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No advice here as I’m in nearly the exact same situation.. but just letting you know you’re not alone. Lots of dudes out there hanging on to make it right for the kids. Keep your chin up.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 03:08 PM
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Yeah.. I think these are my next steps. I feel like mediation would be alright, but I’m not totally sure I trust her to keep it totally civil or peaceful. Thanks!.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/24 12:48 AM
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Definitely some items in here that I hadn’t considered, like the credit report. Thanks!
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 09:24 PM
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This is the exact reason I came to this subreddit. Thanks my guy!
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 08:27 PM
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