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I see her about 2-3 nights a week and hardly ever text. Aside from logistics, I’ll text her randomly maybe once a week, usually to make her laugh or to make her horny. If she texts me, and she usually does about twice a week, I’ll respond to it, obviously, but I’ll keep it short. In either case I don’t let it evolve into a conversation over text. That’s for face to face time only. There are days where we don’t interact at all, and it’s pretty common. Although 2 days in a row doesn’t happen very …
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:38 PM
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Why not go to bed by midnight and wake up at 7:30am? That way a night of going out won’t fuck up your schedule
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 11:40 AM
0

Sorry but nothing interesting ever happens before 8pm. Do you even, you know, go out?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 11:26 AM
2

What exactly is the issue here? She had sex with her boyfriend 2 years ago?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:04 AM
43

“Heh, nothing personal.” *pulls lever on ejection seat, launching self into orbit*
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:40 PM
1

Don’t let her walk in the bathroom immediately after you’ve had explosive diarrhea, among other things
/r/askTRP21/02/19 12:00 AM
1

Yeah, well, obviously you don’t owe her shit and you haven’t made any verbal promises. Though still, in her eyes it shows lack of integrity, and you should be prepared for that plate to drop (and possibly tell everyone you’re a “cheater”). Would be better to just make your intentions clear after a few dates and avoid unnecessary drama. But again, it’s a cultural thing.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:59 PM
2

Cohabitation can kill attraction, but if you’re considering ever raising kids with this girl then it’s necessary evil IMO.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:54 PM
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Do you verbally set boundaries? Personally I’ve always been conflicted on whether or not these things should be said explicitly.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:50 PM
1

Nice. I’ll add though that more often than not, the social contract is implied. Meaning a girl will assume exclusivity at some point regardless of “the talk”. IMO “the talk” is a cultural thing, more common in the US and such. In most other places you are expected to be exclusive after some time dating unless stated otherwise. Openly fucking multiple people isn’t really a common thing, at least where I’m from.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:45 PM
2

No such thing as unconditional love. That would not make any sense from an evolutionary angle. Parents love the fact that you carry their DNA, among other things. Though they’ll probably never even think about it.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 01:20 PM
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Ignore it, just tell her when to come. If she insists on knowing your intentions tell her you’re saving yourself for marriage and she should stop with her dirty ideas (hopefully by now you’ve established a frame where this would be completely ridiculous)
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:37 AM
1

Not being desired by other women
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:40 PM
13

Wait a minute..
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:44 AM
8

Let me give you a simple flowchart: Did she reject his kino that happened right in front of you? If not, realize she’s openly disrespecting you, and dump her ass. If she did, did he stop immediately? If not, realize he’s openly disrespecting you, and break his face. Otherwise, it’s all good.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:32 PM
8

I’m not one for nexting without any proof but this is an easy one
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:26 PM
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This is the type of guy that should get endorsed here, not bitter tryhards
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:28 AM
1

Not all girls are capable of having G spot orgasms.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 09:25 PM
2

“Those look great bring it over” Proceed to fuck her then eat his chocolates. Those of you saying it’s disrespectful, it’s really not, she’s just attempting to run some minor dread on him, which means she probably likes him a lot. I find it cute.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 09:03 PM
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Holy shit lol I will actually do this
/r/askTRP15/02/19 09:01 PM
1

YTA
/r/askTRP15/02/19 08:57 PM
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Girls in their late 20s who date you for months are usually just looking for betabux to settle down with, and you don’t seem like a promising provider to her, because you aren’t spending enough money on her and taking her shit like a toilet. But that’s a good thing. Date younger girls. 27+ is strictly for sex
/r/askTRP15/02/19 06:55 PM
1

All of these options seem butthurt (yes, ignoring is a passive-aggressive, feminine thing to do IMO). It’s a form of revenge. I’m not saying that revenge is always wrong (sometimes it’s necessary), but like all things, you should do it only if it actually benefits you. Wanting your revenge is understandable as the wound is still fresh. But still... Personally, I would go with something along the lines of “it’s all good, hope you’re doing well” and won’t let it progress beyond that. Acknowledge h…
/r/askTRP15/02/19 01:30 PM
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AFAIK it’s not effective after fertilization. So depends on her ovulation and how long you’ve waited before taking the pill
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:46 PM
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6’2 is practically a hobbit, sorry
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:49 PM
2

Would you tolerate this behavior from a male friend?
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:47 PM
1

By realizing men are mostly trash too, in their own way, and you are no different. You can’t hate a human being for doing human things. Just like you don’t hate your dog for barking and rolling in shit. You love him anyway right? Women aren’t out to get you, they’re just animals doing what they’re programmed to do, just like you and me. Love them for the value they bring to you and tame them as best as you can. Also, you’re 15. Calm the fuck down
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:37 PM
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Most people here aren’t fucking anyone. You do you
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:23 PM
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Yes because I enjoy it and it makes me hard af
/r/askTRP10/02/19 10:57 PM
2

Haven’t seen this guy in years, man did he get fat and bald lmao. Still has that energy though, admire that.
/r/seduction10/02/19 10:01 PM
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Don’t make big decisions when angry
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:55 PM
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Keep going my dude, I was also quite chunky in the past. In the meantime don’t fall for these near-wall hoes.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:28 PM
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Most girls will fuck on the first date
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:54 PM
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Why are you dating a 30 year old at 28? I’m 31 and my Tinder filter is on 25. Late 20s and early 30s are the worst.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:22 PM
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Learn to avoid stupid conversations, nothing good can come out of it. Literally all it takes to avoid this type of shit is saying “I have other things to do” or “I’m too busy for this”. Which you should be. Of course you can avoid it in a more elegant way, just showing you how simple it can be.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:16 PM
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Only time I flat out rejected a girl was on a Tinder date. She was hot and friendly and clearly DTF (a tourist, of course she is), but her breath stunk and it was a huge turn off, couldn’t get myself to even kiss her. I bailed after finishing my drink and wished her a good night. She was like “really?!” and looked totally pissed off. She was 100% certain she was going home with me. Lmao, I’ll never forget that face.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 12:55 PM
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Alpha in video games? Lol First of all, both men and women are incapable of loving unconditionally. We’ve developed this concept of love during our evolutionary process, because it benefits us. Love is selfish, but we never feel selfish. When we’ve been hurt by someone it’s easy to call them selfish. It’s much more difficult to realize that about yourself. You will not love a girl who doesn’t bring you value, period. It’s the same with women. We just value different things. Don’t believe me? Ask…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 05:18 PM
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Tell her your fucking name sperg. That’s common sense
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:59 PM
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Yes because I make great money and don’t give a shit about froyo. Guys who make good money rarely obsess over who pays, unless you’re going to a fancy restaurant (why do that with a plate?) mentioning the bill is pathetic. Think you’re being “alpha” by splitting a fucking froyo? Please. Same for drinks and shit. I’ll never do anything truly expensive with a girl unless it’s LTR. And therefore I never bother talking money. It also has the added value of seeing her interest level. A girl who’s int…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:51 PM
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I know finasteride is getting lots of shit on the internet, but it’s a safe drug (read the damn medical papers) which is great at preventing further loss. I’ve been on it for nearly 4 years, no side effects. Key word is preventing, though. Don’t expect much regrowth.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 06:13 PM
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Agree with everything but 1-2 times per week MAX. That’s really impractical. I think 2-3 on AVERAGE is the sweet spot for LTR.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 08:07 PM
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You need to stop posting and go see a therapist
/r/askTRP29/01/19 07:09 PM
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You were way too butthurt from the get go. Why even bother causing drama? Or explaining yourself?
/r/askTRP28/01/19 08:46 PM
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Yeah man just build a table in the middle of the night perfectly natural doesn’t come off as weird at all
/r/askTRP28/01/19 12:35 PM
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YOU GOT CUCKED SHE’S FUCKING CHAD NEXT SIDEBAR AND LIFT For real though, use common sense. It’s a girl. Most likely she thought she was too sweaty/messy looking from the hike and didn’t want her picture taken
/r/askTRP28/01/19 12:28 PM
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Don’t forget “lift”
/r/askTRP26/01/19 11:57 PM
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There’s a huge bias in TRP, both selection bias (the guys who come here tend to have bad experience with women, that’s why they’re here) as well as confirmation bias (expecting to get a specific type of women and behaving in ways that attract this type). Add to that the fact that this place is an echo chamber and views that are more “BP” are often ridiculed and silenced by people trying to be internet-alphas. TRP has definitely improved my life, but I have to constantly remind myself that what I…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 01:37 PM
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M8 she hasn’t even done anything
/r/askTRP16/01/19 10:35 AM
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You sound incredibly immature
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:18 AM
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Not only is this a useless shitpost but you also have no idea what you’re doing
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 11:41 PM
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No one’s putting a gun to your head. If you don’t enjoy texting her, don’t do it. If you don’t enjoy meeting her, don’t do it. If you don’t enjoy being exclusive with her, don’t do it. That simple.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 07:28 PM
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Are we supposed to guess what you want to do?
/r/askTRP12/01/19 10:20 PM
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I would wish her the best and calmly explain that you won’t be waiting around for her if she goes. Not in a butthurt way, just set expectations
/r/askTRP10/01/19 12:09 PM
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You’re way too attracted and it shows you’re scared of losing her
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:11 AM
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This is guy is getting downvotes for giving you the facts. Some birth control makes some women dry up. “I know this is not true” well you’re wrong then
/r/askTRP09/01/19 08:38 PM
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Don’t you have better things to do
/r/askTRP09/01/19 08:35 PM
0

Your ego is fragile as shit m8
/r/askTRP09/01/19 06:58 PM
3

Losing weight
/r/askTRP09/01/19 04:17 PM
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That actually happened to me at the gym more than once, I feel ya
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:30 PM
1

It’s easier to live in denial than to accept rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:29 PM
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Engineers tend to be fucking autistic when it comes to social skills, dressing well, etc. I know because I’m an engineer surrounded by engineers. That wasn’t the point I was trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:26 PM
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Given the same social skills, looks, etc, he certainly does not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:14 PM
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Women love the idea of being with a man who doesn’t need them and can get any other woman he wants in a heartbeat. An unknown musician who works as a barista at 30 and lives with 3 roommates and a cat doesn’t fuck as much as Bowie, regardless of talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 10:56 AM
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If you were seeing each other once a month then maybe, but twice a year? Come on man, that’s no relationship.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 10:38 AM
2

Congrats, sounds like you’re in a good place but just overthinking a bit. Having said that. If you’re seeing her more than 3 times a week, chances are you’re not dedicating enough time to build your own life. Don’t get comfortable just because you’re in a LTR, keep lifting, studying, working, expanding your social circle, etc. Getting too comfortable is how most relationships fail.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 11:05 PM
2

I think that if you normalize this with age, education, income, region etc you’ll find that the correlation is far less significant. In other words there are many hidden biases here. Correlation != causality.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 08:24 PM
0

You should have fucked him up because he was being disrespectful to you, fuck what she thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 07:16 PM
1

Sounds like an awful idea
/r/seduction07/01/19 08:54 AM
1

Sounds like an awful idea
/r/seduction07/01/19 08:54 AM
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Yeah, in my experience this is one of those things that should be implied, but never shown explicitly. If you have high SMV and can talk to women, competition is already implied by default, without needing to resort to manipulative tricks that can easily backfire.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 09:37 PM
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6-8 is generally far more slutty than 8-10
/r/askTRP05/01/19 09:31 PM
2

If I’m reading this chart correctly, it basically says the average person has a total negative impact? And that the average woman of any age group never has a any positive impact? I have a very hard time believing this but I’m willing to see more evidence.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 09:28 PM
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Both are irrelevant memes, meant as excuses to cover insecurities. There are valid concerns for high N counts, which I’ve listed above. These are not valid concerns, just mental buffers used mostly by incels.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 07:34 PM
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Why would you lose attraction to a girl because of her past? Not saying you shouldn’t, it’s more of a leading question. The basic question you need to ask yourself when LTRing a girl is “what’s in it for me? What value does she bring to the relationship? Will she be a good partner to me?” etc. It’s a selfish question but you should be selfish about your commitment. I think sometimes a girl’s past can give you a partial answer. For example, if she had very few LTRs she might not be a good partner…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 05:10 PM
6

This is generally what’s socially acceptable for dating/LTR purposes. If you’re just smashing, keep it legal and keep it quiet.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 06:19 PM
34

Often people get tats because they need validation from others
/r/askTRP03/01/19 06:03 PM
1

What do you gain from this relationship?
/r/askTRP03/01/19 10:20 AM
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To be fair I would be very hesitant to call the cops or forcibly remove a hysterical woman from my house too. False charges and all.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 10:53 PM
1

Ask for her bank account so you can start paying her monthly salary, done.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 03:27 PM
1

Sounds like you’re blowing this out of proportion. You lack experience. Practice, practice, practice. Rejection is part of it. Keep going.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 10:15 AM
3

Cleanser is basically just face soap that removes dirt and shit. I usually use mine in the shower. Fancy word for face soap. Moisturizer is lotion you apply once your skin is clean to keep it fresh. Sometimes contains sunscreen (useful in mornings, not useful for night, which is why you’ll often find “day moisturizer” and “night moisturizer”, though going with just one is fine). Exfoliator actually removes a layer of dead skin. They come in many different forms. Some exfoliators are used like so…
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:43 PM
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Just laugh it off and set a date Jesus it’s not rocket science
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:17 PM
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Cleanser at morning and night Moisturizer at morning and night (after cleanser). Ideally with some sun protection Exfoliator at night or every other night (between cleanser and moisturizer) Change towels and bedsheets twice a week (have a towel just for your face) Drink lots of water (3L+ a day) Eat clean (avoid sugary and fatty foods) Avoid the sun Avoid drugs, cigarettes and alcohol That’s basically 99% of what you can do. If your skin is still shit after 2 months of this routine, you need to …
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:11 PM
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I think it’s less about complaining and more about taking the necessary steps to change that situation, but yes, lot of guys here are incredibly bitter. I think it’s just a step towards acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 04:04 PM
2

Very hot when you’re physically together, very cold when you’re not.
/r/seduction01/01/19 02:26 PM
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Let them drop
/r/askTRP01/01/19 12:04 AM
2

I took me nearly a decade to fully and genuinely get over my first gf, but it does eventually go away. You just need to meet better women, that’s really what it all comes down to. Improve yourself, meet better women, realize she was shit compared to what you get now, not just looks but in every other way too. It only recently came to me that I was fully over her. I was going to a concert with my new girl. A mutual friend told me the ex (which I haven’t seen since the beak up) will be there with …
/r/askTRP31/12/18 09:40 PM
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Do we have the same ex? Lol
/r/askTRP30/12/18 10:01 PM
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When it comes to the value you bring her, it’s not just about your looks, status, wealth, etc. There are other things women take into account when deciding on who they want to be with. So for example, the fact that you’ve been a great partner for years, while an outsider has 0 credit, will be taken into account by most women, most of the time. Do not underestimate the power of “BP” traits (but don’t rely on them).
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:47 PM
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Some things you should be ashamed of. I don’t mean to be so harsh on you, but you understand my point. Look at this from a woman’s perspective. She wants a man, not a boy. Same applies to video games, weed, etc. Once in a while, sure. If it’s something you’re “passionate” about... come on, bro. You need to find other passions sooner or later.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:36 PM
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Unconditional love doesn’t exist, value is everything.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 07:00 PM
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I’ve discussed this with some female friends, the general response I got was that when actually dating (i.e not just casually hooking up etc), they’ll simply assume exclusivity once you fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 04:59 PM
0

^ clearly not in STEM
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 02:33 PM
3

Sounds like you lack experience and therefore confidence. I remember being phased by girls with an N count of 10. I felt disgusted. Probably because mine was in the same ballpark. Now that I’m near x5 that amount I just find it irrelevant, as long as the girl doesn’t seem like she needs sex for constant validation. That’s a red flag because it can hurt your LTR. If you want her as an LTR, you’re not cuffed. You have chosen her, because you think she’s a good companion to you. Who cares what some…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 02:26 PM
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I’ve never met a straight guy who cares this much about women’s fashion, are you sure there’s nothing more to it...?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 12:42 PM
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With a high quality, mother material women, you might be able to get away without marriage if you’re like top 5%. Don’t forget that they have loads of attractive men willing to provide for them, and that they’re under a lot of pressure from society. We should also be realistic.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 10:50 AM
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Men are programmed to want kids eventually. Most women would not have kids with you without the financial security of marriage. This deal has been going on for ages, you provide resources, they provide kids. Some of the biggest RP “thinkers” are married. It’s risky business but that’s life.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 07:14 PM
1

Really, I can’t imagine anyone raising a kid without a DNA test.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 07:04 PM
3

3 years. No side effects. Hair loss stopped. No gains. But I was NW1.5 to begin with so it’s all good. My advice is to take it but keep an eye on any side effects. If you get any, drop it immediately. Statistically, you won’t.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 06:58 PM
1

Nah m8 you asked about the phrasing. You can work on how you present it but at the end of the day you need to improve your status
/r/askTRP28/12/18 05:37 PM
3

I think asking a kissless virgin to go straight to her place is a bit much, just use common sense. If she ends up replying, maybe casually suggest something less intimidating. I always go for bars next to my/her place since it’s easy to bang but also gives plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:40 AM
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If a girl ever texted me 50+ messages in a row I would eject the fuck outta there and never look back. Do you have a death wish?
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:35 AM
1

I think you might be autistic
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:26 AM
12

Unpopular opinion: yes, a grown ass man who watches cartoons does pose a problem. Do whatever you like? Nah, reevaluate your choices. You are spending time watching children’s shows.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 11:47 PM
1

I think OP seems to understand this, but the real question is, given that women will always try to drag you into boring conversations over text, how do you end it without being offensive.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 11:44 PM
1

Regardless of what you answer, sounds like your main focus right now should be improving your situation
/r/askTRP27/12/18 11:38 PM
4

A goal without a plan is just a wish
/r/askTRP27/12/18 11:36 PM
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Other than HIV, STDs are mostly just a pain in the ass. Having a kid with some rando, that’s a real life destroyer right there.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 08:26 PM
3

She probably assumed you two are already in an exclusive relationship
/r/askTRP27/12/18 08:20 PM
2

Rather not, but herpes is not the end of the world, most people won’t even show any symptoms, and even if you do there are medications that mitigate it.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 03:29 PM
3

It’s just herpes calm the fuck down. You don’t have HIV
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:59 PM
1

This, I’m kinda jealous of OP.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:23 PM
1

There is a huge selection bias here, both the men who come here are mostly damaged in one way or another (guilty!) and the women we pull are rarely “the good kind”. So yeah, take everything with a grain of salt. But take it, there are many cold truths shared here, you just need to figure out what works for you IRL.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:18 PM
1

Don’t forget to tip your fedora m’sir
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:13 PM
1

Lmao why the fuck would you drive 120km for someone you just met? That’s actually rude to even ask and it sounds like she’s looking for a free ride.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:09 PM
1

I wrote my ex a 5 page letter after she dumped me and fucked some guy, lol. It was cringy as hell. 10 years later I still worry this letter is gonna surface somehow.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:00 PM
3

That’s some Nietzsche type shit my man
/r/askTRP26/12/18 09:56 PM
3

Really surprised how people say 30 is many. No mean to brag, but I’ve had 4 faithful LTRs (year+), was a virgin at 20, and went through long periods of dry spells (longest was 2 years I think). So by no means am I a slut. Yet I’m currently at 44 parters (actual sex, PIV). I think you’re missing that age and location are huge factors. I’m 31 and live in the big city. That just seems normal to me. If you do the math it’s really just... nothing special.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 09:37 PM
3

Honestly best you can do is Google “men body fat chart” and go with what looks closest. You don’t need to be accurate, a rough estimation is fine. In my experience those electric ones you have at gyms and stuff are absolute trash and aren’t even close (gave me 8% when I was well above 20%).
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 09:44 PM
2

Are you seriously asking why women are attracted to world famous millionaires with ultra exciting lives? A more interesting question would be why women are attracted to failed artists. But that too isn’t so hard to answer.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 04:16 PM
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I want to point out something that OP missed: if you're fat, no one gives a shit that you're "huge". ​ I've been lifting for years. When I'm at 12% body fat or so, I'm still very big, and I get nonstop attention from girls. Complimenting me, grabbing me, and overall "game" is just so much easier. Recently I've bulked mindlessly and reached around 20-25% body fat. I gained a lot of muscle and obviously strength. But needless to say my attention from women stopped completely. ​ No one gives a shit…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 01:23 PM
3

My dude, who does something like that? Send a pic of you having sex to make someone jealous? She’s fucking nuts, that’s the kind of girl who will deliberately get pregnant or tell people you raped her. Pussy isn’t worth it.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 11:18 AM
2

r/asktrp is really the only place that would downvote a sensible comment like this
/r/askTRP24/09/18 11:14 AM
1

Don’t worry about it. It’s really a numbers game. My match to meet ratio is probably 1:10 or less, which I think is still pretty good. Any above average girl on Tinder has at least 1 top 5% guy hitting on her at any given moment.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 11:07 AM
97

Girl obviously has issues to do something like that, don’t stick your dick in crazy
/r/askTRP23/09/18 11:45 AM
2

This is a great post and I think it really is the very essence behind TRP.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 11:37 AM
1

Any tips for pale guys? ​ I look great with a tan, but shit without it. I went to tanning beds a few times, but I know it will make my skin age faster, not to mention other dangers. How can I get that caveman glow without all the damage?
/r/askTRP23/09/18 11:34 AM
16

Breaking those escalation barriers is always hard, man. That’s why most people don’t do it. Even after years of doing it, it never becomes easy, you just learn to embrace the risk of awkwardness. Remind yourself that she wants you to do it (assuming you’re taking small incremental steps, and aren’t getting any red lights). 99% of the time she won’t do it for you. There’s literally no other way to have sex, but to fearlessly break those barriers.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 10:01 AM
9

If you have your arm around a girl, and a stranger feels comfortable to simply walk over and order her to give him her number, you clearly don’t even lift. Also, your body language was probably weak as shit, you weren’t escalating at all, to the point where it was clear to everyone around you that you two aren’t fucking. How otherwise can you explain 2 guys coming on to her while you’re right fucking there? I guess you handled the situation well. But a wiser man would avoid getting in that situa…
/r/askTRP23/09/18 09:44 AM
1

I can agree with that, but generalizing is usually not a good mindset
/r/askTRP22/09/18 07:37 PM
1

Most people aren’t shit on average
/r/askTRP22/09/18 04:56 PM
5

I mostly agree with 1 but 2 is not true, you need to stop talking to dumb thots. Some women are genuinely smart and interesting (AWALT still applies).
/r/askTRP22/09/18 01:25 PM
4

I don’t think you’ll find a consensus here regarding anything. One might say SM is a great tool to show your value and fish for potential plates. But personally I just use it for messaging.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 01:22 PM
9

I pull women pretty easily in normal situations, especially on Tinder, but in bars and especially clubs I find it becomes x100 more difficult if not impossible. Mostly because I hate dancing and I hate the music. I tried going by myself once and it was a nightmare, never again. Got that “look of disgust” you were talking about (only time in my life it has happened to me). I guess to each his own, but from my experience clubs are absolute shit. Don’t let it get you down, find places where you are…
/r/seduction22/09/18 11:40 AM
4

I think you know what you’ll find and you’d rather avoid it, but if I’m right, sooner or later the truth will smack you in the face. Many of us have been there. I recommend checking her phone so you don’t waste anymore precious time on a (possible) cheater. Some perspective: I shortly dated a girl recently who appeared very sweet and innocent. Even a nerd I would say. No red flags. One day I get a casual look at her lockscreen. To keep this short, she fucked 8 guys the month we met, and was stil…
/r/seduction21/09/18 07:37 PM
3

Women are naturals when it comes to dread. Unpopular opinion: check her phone
/r/seduction21/09/18 07:21 PM
1

It doesn’t really matter as long as you present an option. “That’s cool with me. Let’s minigolf, I can do Sunday or Monday “. See? Much less controlling.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 07:15 PM
2

There’s a difference between making out once and going straight over to someone’s house, when you have a bf and he specifically voiced his concerns. Will she do it? Maybe, women are known to do shitty things. But she won’t feel good about doing it, so by saying this overtly you’re taking an unnecessary risk. Instead, make her feel good about seeing you. I don’t think you can go wrong with “minigolf or pool”. Go to your place afterwards for some Netflix or whatever bullshit excuse. Remember, she …
/r/askTRP21/09/18 07:07 PM
3

A little too pushy for a HS girl with a bf, you haven’t even fucked yet. Think of some other fun activity besides minigolf, maybe playing pool? The key is for her to have plausible deniability. Asking her over straight to your place defeats the purpose, she will not be able to rationalize this.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 07:01 PM
1

Looks kinda needy IMO
/r/askTRP21/09/18 06:58 PM
5

This wasn’t really the classic “I have a bf” rejection though, it looks like she passed the ball over to him so he’ll be responsible and she’ll have plausible deniability, AKA “it just happened”.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 06:56 PM
2

It’s always better to give the other person some options to choose from, you want to control the frame but you don’t want them feeling like they’re told what to do.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 06:53 PM
3

Look up “dread game”, it was specially made for your situation
/r/seduction21/09/18 06:51 PM
5

“That’s cool with me, place X or Y?”
/r/askTRP21/09/18 06:50 PM
1

So you’re relying on someone’s stupidity for being with you? Got it
/r/askTRP21/09/18 04:11 PM
5

She was able to do it with Tinder too. Hell she didn’t even need Tinder. If you’re worried about this instead of seeing it as a new opportunity for you, you got other issues.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 04:03 PM
12

Man, I swear, 27-31 went by in a blink of an eye.
/r/seduction21/09/18 04:02 PM
4

Shit man I’ve had talks about everything from our body’s cells to space and shit, still smashed. Doesn’t matter as long as you’re having fun. Use some common sense and calibration, but still, doesn’t really matter. Most communication is non verbal anyway.
/r/seduction21/09/18 03:58 PM
15

Smokers breath doesn’t smell like tobacco, it smells like rotten lungs and tar
/r/askTRP21/09/18 01:44 PM
2

Watch what they do not what they say
/r/askTRP21/09/18 11:36 AM
1

Wasn’t a c section
/r/askTRP21/09/18 11:07 AM
4

One of the best pussies I’ve ever had was from a single mom, no joke. I can only imagine what it was like before the birth
/r/askTRP21/09/18 11:00 AM
2

Some tips for when you have girls over: Keep it clean at all times, you never know when opportunity comes (no shit stains in the toilet please) Always have some various kinds of alcohol and maybe weed ready Always have protection Decorate your place with things that display your value or make good conversation starters Have shit to do like music to listen to, things to watch, maybe even fun video games for 2 people That’s it really. Once a girl is in your pad sex is guaranteed unless you fuck th…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 10:27 AM
1

10/10 good shit
/r/askTRP21/09/18 08:21 AM
1

If you got that big dick energy ask them both out for a night of friendly drinking, see where it goes. Otherwise bail
/r/askTRP21/09/18 08:17 AM
1

Best advice I can give you, is get an internship or a part time early on, as soon as possible. Work experience >> grades (assuming you can still get decent grades while working). And you’re almost guaranteed to have at least one option immediately after you graduate (assuming you don’t fuck up your internship), which gives you a lot of leverage. It’s relatively easy to get an internship at a top 5 company, and they make it super easy to continue there afterwards. But getting in as a full time en…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 08:15 AM
3

Do you want your dick to fall off?
/r/askTRP20/09/18 09:03 PM
4

LDRish ex flew to see me
/r/askTRP20/09/18 09:01 PM
1

Good approach. Getting oneitus for someone you’re spending an awful lot of time with is natural. I wouldn’t be too concerned about it, as long as you keep that mindset. Shit can fall apart any second. Most important thing I learned in LTRs, never take your foot off the gas pedal. Always improve. Invest in your looks, career, social circle, etc. It’s very easy to get too comfortable without even realizing. When your value drops or even stalls, you’re gonna have problems. Also, keep your options o…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:44 PM
26

If it makes you uncomfortable then you shouldn’t LTR her, no question about it. But you should also ask yourself why it makes you uncomfortable. Personally I feel like a girl who’s willing to take 2 dicks simultaneously probably has some deeper issues that will affect you in your LTR. For example, she might be desperate for validation.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 05:36 PM
1

Snack on deez nutz
/r/askTRP20/09/18 05:09 PM
1

Sounds like you got yourself an LTR mate
/r/askTRP20/09/18 05:06 PM
3

Only consider this if you feel ready to have kids within the next couple of years. Because she will get pregnant whether you agree to it or not.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 05:01 PM
1

Was somewhat sleep deprived, got kinda emotional over some shit, decided it would be a great idea to text a plate that it’s over and tomorrow’s date is cancelled. Changed my mind the next morning when I came to my senses, but couldn’t reframe properly and set another date at that point. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:44 PM
2

Don’t text anything when you’re angry/tired/etc
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:27 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:18 PM
2

This was not a shit test, she was clearly not interested from her first reply. Hard to say why she wasn’t, but I don’t think your texting had anything to do with it (although you should have taken that very thick hint she gave your by saying she’s busy forever). When you see her a casual “hey” will do. Move on. Rejection is better than regret.
/r/seduction19/09/18 01:09 PM
1

I’m in my early 30s. My anecdote is that the vast majority guys around me look like utter shit by their 30s, whereas they didn’t have to try very hard to look good while in their teens to mid 20s. Fat, bald, and overall just looking incredibly tired and beat. So for the average guy, no, definitely no peak at 35, maybe 23. On the other hand I feel like my SMV is higher than it ever was, thanks to investing in my fitness, my career, and my game. It sucks that some girls consider me “too old”, it h…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 12:22 PM
2

Join a gym already, you’re wasting your time with these plank challenges
/r/seduction18/09/18 12:09 PM
2

I think you waited long enough
/r/askTRP18/09/18 12:06 PM
2

Have a quick video chat to verify she’s real (keep your clothes on)
/r/askTRP17/09/18 10:39 PM
1

I usually do 2-4 messages of banter and shit, get the number, 2-4 texts build some very basic rapport, then schedule a date in the near future. From the very first message to scheduling the date it’s usually 0-2 days. Don’t overdo it with texting. You want to show her you know what you want and don’t beat around the bush, and also maintain some mystery. Roughly 6 messages back and forth is all you need.
/r/seduction17/09/18 03:20 PM
2

Noice.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 11:28 PM
3

First of all, AWALT is just a rule of thumb. Second, it doesn't mean "all women are sluts". It just means that women will be women, just like kids are kids and dogs are dogs, we still love them when we get them to behave.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 11:23 PM
7

Sorry but you’re a fucking moron. You had a girl you wanted in your bed telling you she wants to fuck and someone you messed it up. Can you really blame her for ghosting you? She wanted the D and you acted like a chump. Anyway, live and learn. We all make dumb mistakes. She might reach out to you eventually. Don’t stress. Just move to other girls.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 07:12 PM
2

I think you’re using this as an excuse because you’re afraid to escalate.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 07:08 PM
23

This. Hidden cams, mics, record phone calls, keep messages, everything. If it’s just his word against hers, she can and she probably will get him thrown in jail. He needs evidence that she’s crazy and abusive. Enough of that and he will get full custody and compensation. And she will definitely lose her job.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:27 PM
1

Abandonment issues obviously. Make it clear to her that she’s got those issues which is making her paranoid, and she needs to take care of that shit because you won’t tolerate it. Maybe don’t overtly say it, but this is the message she needs to get.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:21 PM
1

Work on making your life more interesting. Get a few new hobbies. You’ll be surprised at how quickly you can get moderately good at something you find enjoyable. It will also increase your social circle and help you meet more people, particularly women. Be more outgoing. Other than that, give it time. The more women you meet the less likely it is that you’ll find someone you think is a special snowflake. Personally, I still get mild oneitus once in a while, usually when I vibe well with a girl o…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:13 PM
2

Well, is she your girlfriend or just a girl you’ve been seeing?
/r/askTRP15/09/18 10:19 PM
5

While everyone here is making good points, I disagree. Some girls are so ego invested in the idea that “they’re not that kind of girl”, that when you prove to them that they are, in fact, that kind of girl (AWALT), they’ll rationalize it by you pushing things too far (they’re the victim, it just happened), and then they might not be so thrilled about seeing you again. Because if it happens again (and deep down they know it will), they will have to accept what they are, and they’d rather not. I w…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 05:32 PM
2

A girl who fucked a whole football team has serious issues that will inevitably affect your LTR. I would even say that a girl who’s done MMF is probably not safe for LTR either.
/r/seduction12/09/18 07:12 PM
2

I’ll look into this, thanks!
/r/seduction12/09/18 05:58 PM
2

Oh shit, is the whole thing done remotely?
/r/seduction12/09/18 05:31 PM
3

I’ve met average girls who did that in 1 week. Guy is delusional. I used to care a lot about this, but I find that the more women I sleep with, the less I care about who they slept with before. As long as it’s not something ridiculously high, like fucking a new guy every month for years... to me that just shows deeper issues which make her disqualified for LTR because that shit can actually affect me (STDs, destructive habits, requires constant validation, probably can’t keep an LTR, etc). But o…
/r/seduction12/09/18 05:28 PM
11

Most girls are insecure about their bodies. And some people have more fun with the lights off. It’s probably not about your ugly ass, chill.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:19 PM
3

How long did it take to get tested for allergies? I have a small red rash on one of my arms, it looks harmless but I’ve had it for like 2 years, only time it went away was when I traveled to Asia (disappeared completely within days, came back about a month after the trip). So I’m pretty sure it’s an allergy to something. Maybe food or some fabric, no idea. I want to get it tested, but I can’t be bothered because I heard they stick shit to your body and you have to walk around with it for days...
/r/seduction12/09/18 05:18 PM
25

Showing any form of disrespect ==> GTFO
/r/askTRP12/09/18 03:04 PM
1

Whenever I close my eyes for 10 minuets I just end up falling asleep.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 01:20 PM
7

You should always be escalating unless you get some pushback, then you take a step back and try again after a while. There’s no reason to stop escalating unless you’re getting a red light. If you’re getting a green light, she WANTS you to escalate further. You should definitely amp it up. Two dates with no kiss is not good. Ideally you would have escalated more in the first date too.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 01:16 PM
2

Read as “goals with women” rather than “goal in life”
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 12:49 PM
1

Your first mistake was taking them out on some expensive date. Dinner on the first date? Please man. Just go for a quick drink somewhere next to your place. Or meet them in the park/beach/etc and get a blanket and bottle with you. Then paying becomes a non-issue. I usually get the bill without them even noticing, and I fuck on the first date 90% of the time. Do you really think it puts you in the BB category? Discussing these things doesn’t make you seem valuable IMO, it makes you look cheap and…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 12:02 PM
3

Have you ever been with an actual woman
/r/askTRP12/09/18 11:36 AM
1

Are you trying to practice your C&F on me? ​ Either way, there is nothing about my post antithetical to abundance mentality, and at this point it's pretty clear that you're talking out of your ass, trying to appear smart for internet cred. This is not a very productive discussion.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 11:09 PM
0

But hey, good job mods with deleting a very popular post. Better delete everything you don't agree with, after all you don't want easily controlled narrow thinkers.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 10:56 PM
1

Is there an actual point you’re trying to make, besides “summary=bad”?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 10:46 PM
0

A post isn’t going to magically turn anyone into a narrow thinker
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 10:34 PM
2

I don’t disagree with anything you guys said, but I do want to point out that this sub, by definition, is for “discussion of sexual strategy” (quote from sub description). Hence my focus on sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 08:49 PM
-2

How about you read my question again and then you’ll understand
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 08:09 PM
3

There is no bitterness in what I wrote. In fact, I specifically wrote this because I felt like the main principles of RP have been covered with so much toxic bitterness, women hate, manipulative bullshit, etc. I wanted to distill RP to its foundations as I see it. Plain, realistic, rational, do what you will with it.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 08:08 PM
2

While I don’t have children yetI don’t doubt for a second that you love them deeply. But, what if you had kids that weren’t biologically yours, were never fun to be around, and were guaranteed to leave you when you’re old?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 06:46 PM
10

I think it’s alright for men to have different goals, and therefore different strategies. In your case I agree that loyalty is useless and even kindness to some degree. I don’t agree that spinning plates for the rest of our lives is the one true goal all of us should have. There are things to gain from LTRs too, it’s always a tradeoff and everyone can make their own choice (and change it at any point).
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 06:39 PM
8

I hate to sound like a woman, but if you’re a cheating jerk, 9 times out of 10 you will not be able to keep a woman interested for long. At some point the hamster just can’t rationalize it anymore. Of course if you’re a ripped millionaire musician you’ll have a much longer runway than most people.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 06:30 PM
9

There is absolutely nothing wrong with plating 18 year olds at 21. Is this a joke? I’ve had a 19 year old plate at 30, approaching 31. Granted I wouldn’t flaunt it openly to everyone, but none of my close friends saw this as creepy, if anything they were a little jealous. Sure they made jokes but that’s just friendly banter.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 11:59 AM
7

I think that’s actually a fair point
/r/askTRP05/09/18 07:25 PM
1

I actually nexted a few girls this way who I later found out were very into me and were confused as to why I never asked them out again. Most girls are fucking autistic and don't know how basic conversation works. Some of them also believe that a girl should never ask a guy for a date. So yeah, I would give it another chance after a week, but don't get your hopes up, most likely she's not that interested.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 06:16 PM
1

Oh I’m sure she will branch swing at some point
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:03 PM
3

Don’t be Swedish
/r/seduction04/09/18 03:01 PM
2

Personally I get rock hard from eating pussy, and it makes sex much better. But you do you.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 10:55 AM
1

Lenny?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 10:54 AM
9

For relationships often girls will pick someone they just feel comfortable with. That doesn’t make you beta or alpha. You probably just make them feel comfortable around you while the other guys don’t. It’s a valuable thing that might not get you many ONS (as a fit body would, for example), but it’s still valuable, especially for LTRs. Having said that, you should not neglet other aspects of your SMV, being just “comfortable “ is a sure way to get cucked.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 10:53 AM
2

There are always anomalies. The most beautiful chick I know IRL has a very beta looking dude as her boyfriend for 5 years now, as far as I can tell she won’t even consider flirting with other guys who are significantly higher in SMV. This always boggled me. Maybe he’s hiding a huge dick or something, but he sure doesn’t act like it. Or maybe she has serious abandonment issues. Who knows.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:52 AM
31

I like “guess the wedding is off”. A lot actually.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 10:21 PM
1

Looking back at how far I’ve come. Physically, financially, sexually, etc. I am happy about my journey to the top.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 07:41 PM
2

There’s a sub chapter in The Rational Male on that topic. Basically, Rollo says such a thing doesn’t exist. Personally I disagree, but he does make good points. So you might want to Google that.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 07:38 PM
1

Consider the option that her friend didn’t actually “slip up”, but rather this was a calculated move to get you jealous and commit
/r/askTRP03/09/18 04:39 PM
1

I have a close friend who is pretty much being forced into marriage by his bossy gf. She is much lower than him in the socioeconomic scale, kinda dumb, and approaching the wall at high velocity (way beyond her peak, actually). He doesn’t want to get married but after all this pressure he thinks it’s “the right thing to do”. He can do much better as a single guy (very tall, makes a ton of money, can fake confidence very well), but I think he’s just terrified of being alone. Any tips?
/r/askTRP03/09/18 01:59 PM
2

I would text her the day before with a specific time and place.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 01:51 PM
2

I honestly don’t understand how this is relevant
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 12:28 PM
2

When you’re attractive enough it’s very hard to fuck up. Also, my experience with Scandinavian girls is that she probably had 20 dicks per year in her since the age of 15. So you probably didn’t miss a great catch here.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 11:36 AM
22

If it makes you feel better, almost every guy goes through that.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 08:39 PM
3

Move on and build yourself a life, 10-15 years from now you won’t even remember much of high school anyway. Your life hasn’t even begun and you’re already feeling regret. Do you understand how ridiculous that is? Get over it, most people have a shitty high school experience and most people don’t give a shit about it after they graduate. Even at 20 years old most people are still children.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 06:57 PM
1

Thanks! You seem familiar with what I was getting at, are there any relevant studies or something? Doesn’t have to be about gender dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 10:40 AM
2

It’s useful if we learn how to use it
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 10:39 AM
6

Saying “good looking” kinda begs the question of “why is this good looking? What makes X attractive?”. I was trying to distill attraction to the bare minimal elements. You can throw in other things like strong jaw, full hair, etc. If you ask what makes those attractive, there really is no way to break it down further. It just is. Why is ice cream good? Because it has sugar. What makes sugar good? It just is.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 10:36 AM
2

Other than oats and vegetables (occasionally fruit), I hardly eat any carbs as it is. I thought of trying keto, but it seems way too strict for my lifestyle and I don’t think it’s worth it. It’s the “all or nothing” aspect of keto that is just way too much for me.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 10:26 AM
36

Edit: I put this as part of the original post. ANALOGY Let me explain this with a non-sexual analogy. When I buy my food for the week, I purposely get only the healthy stuff: vegetables, chicken, eggs, oats, etc. I do this consciously, because I know that this is good for me. I've read about it. I've seen the effect on my body. I know, rationally, that this is what I need in my kitchen. But, I'll admit, every now and then I'll indulge myself in a bucket of ice cream. Why? Fuck if I know! Perhaps…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 11:18 PM
2

Up until a few decades ago this was the norm
/r/askTRP01/09/18 06:08 PM
1

Thanks. Can you please explain what you mean by “looking for wrong type of women”? I’m not necessarily looking for a virgin nun, but I also don’t respect promiscuity in women
/r/askTRP01/09/18 03:26 PM
1

I don’t mean to be a dick, but it kinda sounds like you got AMOGed from high orbit, and to defend your ego you’re trying to pass this as a fun experience, rather than a hard learning experience.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 07:39 PM
1

Wouldn’t you agree that a short and playful text, say after about a week, can potentially increase chances of sex?
/r/askTRP28/08/18 09:52 PM
1

First the gay guys hit on you, then the older women hit on you, then the fat women hit on you, then just about anyone hits on you, then you win. Congrats, you’re heading the right way.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 09:49 PM
1

Ignoring = butthurt
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:06 PM
1

“The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it.”
/r/askTRP28/08/18 11:42 AM
1

I’ve done something similar, when I found out a girl I have been seeing exclusively for a couple of weeks was also sleeping with another guy and was fucking LOADS of guys when we weren’t exclusive. After kicking her out I found him on Facebook, he seemed like a nice guy so I let him know she sleeps around and he should use protection. He thanked me and the next day she blocked me on everything, so I assume he told her. Do I regret it? No. But I will admit it was a pointless, emotional response. …
/r/askTRP28/08/18 11:34 AM
1

You are obviously not fine with her fucking other guys, so how did you end up in this situation?
/r/askTRP27/08/18 06:17 PM
1

Dude I feel like you’ve been obsessing over it for a while here, 3 guys in 4 months for an HB9 is hardly anything, get real.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 11:19 AM
1

I’m the same age. To be fair she is very well kept, could pass for 25. But I agree, at that age they will try to force commitment.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 02:40 PM
1

I don’t have fights with women for the same reasons I don’t have fights with children
/r/askTRP26/08/18 12:29 PM
1

So just anal from now on? My man, you won the lottery
/r/askTRP25/08/18 06:36 PM
1

I mean I do live in a white country, but this sort of Northern European look is rare here.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 05:27 PM
1

I had a blonde, blue eyed European HB9 LTR in a country where most people are dark and frankly ugly. I will never forget the eye fucking looks I received from local girls when we were out together. Looks that I would never receive otherwise. It definitely improved my perceived SMV tenfold. Funny thing was, the girl noticed these looks I got constantly (unaware that it only happens with her), which made her much more into me because clearly I had such insane options. She didn’t realize that the p…
/r/askTRP25/08/18 10:51 AM
1

I feel like if I don’t meet a plate for 2-3 weeks, no texting, it will definitely break. Not that I have an issue with it breaking. But I don’t feel like meeting just for the sake of leaving that door open.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 07:11 PM
1

The way you present yourself (call it game, confidence, charisma, whatever) is absolutely valuable on its own. It’s not just about communicating (or pretending) that you have value. It is a form of value. It’s another tool in your arsenal which you use to accomplish more than the average male. Just like physical strength, social circle, intelligence, money, etc. etc. If you’re able to use it to protect, provide, and so on - it’s valuable in the sexual market.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:41 PM
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Out of curiosity, how did you get to 10K?
/r/askTRP23/08/18 01:09 PM
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Why are you in this relationship if there hasn’t been any sex in a whole month? I mean it’s not like you’ve been married for 50 years. You’ve been dating for 4 (I would argue 3) months. The exit door is wide open. Is it really worth it?
/r/askTRP23/08/18 10:00 AM
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Can you think of any girl who wouldn’t suck creme cheese out of Brad Pitt’s butthole? I honestly can’t say that I do. But I don’t see how this makes a coherent counter argument to my point: girl was as into it as circumstances allowed, has chased me the next day and was eager to meet, but was continuously met with uncalibrated IDGAF responses which evidently made her pussy dry. Could Brad Pitt get away with it? I’m sure he could. So?
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:35 PM
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It’s no less than baffling to me how you’re willing to double down with your opinion of an interaction you know so little of. You have taken good TRP rules of thumb, and have turned them into some religious belief you refuse to reconsider. You’ve exchanged one matrix for another. I went out with a girl last night who is allergic to diary. After our fuck session we ordered pizza, and because of her allergy I compromised for a vegan pizza. I can already see the response: “DO YOU THINK SHE WOULDN’T…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 07:48 PM
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My man, you are again making baseless assumptions here. Believe me I am not thirsty and was not acting this way. I have abundance and my date game is on point. Some girls will simply not have sex on their periods, regardless of how polished your game is. That’s just a fact of life. I fucked up the days afterwards by being way too cold and coming down way too hard with the negs, providing zero reward for her IOIs and the result is really not surprising. I’m willing to admit when I fuck up, no poi…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:11 PM
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It’s a good theory, and I would have accepted it if I didn’t have more context, but I strongly disagree. I was pushing very hard for sex that night, anything more would have been kinda rapey. The fact that she initiated contact the next day and suggested to meet only confirms to me that it’s not about the window of opportunity closing. It’s more of a buyer’s remorse due to feeling played. It also fits with the type of girl I assume she is (though granted I don’t know her well).
/r/askTRP22/08/18 04:34 PM
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Usually I would never bother, because at that point the attraction is already gone and asking why only makes you look weak and needy. About a week ago I decided to go against that and actually asked. I wasn’t trying to negotiate my way back or anything like that, I’ve accepted that it’s gone, but I was also genuinely very curious to know what went wrong, so that I can be wiser next time. It was about me and not about her. The girl felt like a very honest person, so I assumed it might not be a to…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 09:28 AM
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Are you serious? Having ~2 months between guys is very far from CC. Especially if it’s 3 people. Especially for an attractive girl. It’s nothing.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:36 AM
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The worst thing you can give to a woman is silence
/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:32 AM
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4 guys is a year is not a lot of an attractive girl. I wouldn’t even call this CC. Assuming it’s the real number and it’s only been that year, it’s no big deal whatsoever IMO.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:22 AM
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She has good genes (attractive, smart, fit...) She has motherly qualities (caring, understanding, nurturing...) She has no destructive habits (drugs, alcohol, lots of casual sex...) She has solid LTR history She is fun & interesting She is financially independent She is a hard worker (career, fitness, hobbies...) She is not post-wall She likes good sex (frequent, dominant...) She has high interest (submissive, cooks, gifts...) She doesn’t require constant validation (social media, men, trends...…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:17 AM
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You can just wash the cum off in the sink
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:24 PM
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I cannot stress this enough: don’t let them anywhere near your semen.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:05 PM
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I ended a LTR for something similar. It was a work party, not a festival, and she was clearly drunk and purposely ignoring my text, including the entire morning after. The way I see it, either she cheated or she didn’t, it doesn’t really matter and you have no way of verifying. What’s important is that in her behavior she knowingly put you in a place where you have to wonder about such a thing, and in my eyes that’s disrespectful as fuck and definitely not LTR material. People rarely change and …
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:08 PM
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In my experience this holds not only for plates, but also in cases where you couldn’t close (she had a bf, logistics were shit, flake, etc). Hold your frame in a respectful manner (respectful both to her and to yourself) and there’s a good chance she will come back weeks or even months later. This is what happens nearly 10% of the time for me. I suspect that even more girls feel the urge to come back but their ego won’t let them (because women aren’t supposed to approach, of course), so I’m cons…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 08:51 AM
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There’s no paradox. They either like you or they don’t. If they don’t, then trying to game your way into their pussy is an uphill battle anyway, and since there are so many girls on Tinder, why bother with that? These girls will see you as a needy creep for super liking them. Great! Be thankful that you don’t have to waste more time to realize they’re not that into you. If they do like you, then I seriously doubt many of them will be turned off by the mere fact that you hit super like, unapologe…
/r/askTRP18/08/18 01:03 PM
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I’ve fucked many super likes before. The key is, use it on someone who doesn’t look like an attention whore, that would be a complete waste, and don’t mention the fact you super liked her at any point after the match. Just approach it like a regular match. Sure some girls might see it as “needy”, but if she finds you attractive it doesn’t really matter, and it makes it VERY likely that she sees your profile unlike a refund like. I’ve had higher success rate on super likes than regular likes prob…
/r/askTRP18/08/18 10:56 AM
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It’s just a rule of thumb. Meaning more often than not you will encounter AWALT so for your own sake just assume it’s the case. It will save you time and energy.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 09:46 PM
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I live in a city where everyone’s on Tinder and everyone knows everyone, it’s gonna backfire for sure
/r/askTRP10/08/18 09:55 PM
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Good job but damn how do you even get hard after something like this
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 07:40 PM
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I was seeing a girl for a couple of weeks. First let me describe her so you get the image: She was 19 (nearly 12 years younger), very pretty, but not in-your-face Instagram thot pretty, but like a natural girl next door pretty. Pale, big eyes, great skin. Awesome body which she hid pretty well (no cleavage or anything like that). Big innocent smile. This girl was impressive. At 19, she already had a degree from an Ivy League university. Founded a startup (raised money) with employees. Worked on …
/r/askTRP10/08/18 06:23 PM
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No email is enough
/r/askTRP10/08/18 05:09 PM
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This is so fucking true, yet easier said than done. In the heat of the moment we don’t always think rationally... In my late 20s I impregnated a divorced+1 woman a decade older than me. For a solid month she refused to have an abortion until she finally did. During that month my life was an absolute nightmare and I’m not ashamed to admit I cried myself to sleep several times. I thought my life was over. Wish I could tell you I learned my lesson, but a few years later I had another pregnancy scar…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:00 PM
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Go through her phone and report your findings
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:49 AM
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No but my hairline isn’t even NW2 so I’m fine with keeping it as is
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:59 PM
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I’ve had luck with minox and fin, 4 years no side effects and hairloss stopped. No regrets.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:43 PM
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Update: re-opened 3 days later as most of you suggested. Got a half assed response. Tried to start a conversation but she’s not engaging. Deleted the number. If I had to guess, I’d say she’s probably sucking on new dick.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 08:04 AM
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She’s 2 years into medical specialist internship or whatever it’s called
/r/askTRP05/08/18 04:30 PM
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Back in the days (wasn’t aware of RP) I had a girl I couldn’t kiss for 3 dates in a row. Tried to escalate but always got blocked. After the 3rd date I got all pissed and was typing her a “later bitch” text, before I could hit send on that cringy shit, she texts me saying how sorry she is but she’s just too nervous. Didn’t send the text. Next date I kissed her right when I saw her, fucked that same night. She later confessed she thought I was very experienced and she had little experience with k…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 04:26 PM
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Haha believe me I tried, multiple times. She wouldn’t even let me put my hands down her panties. Said she just got it that day so I assumed it was pretty heavy flow. Also white bed sheets so...
/r/askTRP05/08/18 04:15 PM
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To be honest I was kind of surprised/disappointed by what she said, and probably let it influence my response when I shouldn’t have
/r/askTRP05/08/18 03:56 PM
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Which reply do you think was half-assed? And I agree I tend to err on the too-little-comfort side, but that’s what RP and my experience with girls taught me (much better than to err on the too-much-comfort side)
/r/askTRP05/08/18 02:31 PM
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I was thinking about giving it a week or two to see if she reaches out. If not, I’ll try to set up another date myself (which will most likely fail)
/r/askTRP05/08/18 02:24 PM
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Also how many women have you met who are experienced with DP? Haha
/r/askTRP02/08/18 10:29 PM
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Very very true, but having good family ties is more of an indication of having good traits, it’s not necessarily a good trait on its own (as in, you don’t necessarily NEED her to have good relationship with her family, but if she doesn’t, chances are she will be missing some of the qualities I listed). I was going for more of a list of qualities than red/green flags. It’s the “what I want” list, not the “how I verify” list.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 10:24 PM
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I don’t think it’s actually about N count, but the frequency of casual sex that matters. Why? Because it’s a symptom of destructive behavior, as well as constant need for validation. It might also correlate with lack of LTR history, which means she can’t commit. All 3 things are listed because they will ruin an LTR. Also let’s not fool ourselves, any attractive female over 25 will have at least 10. At least.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 10:19 PM
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Thing is, I often feel like shit for wasting my time and energy on these girls, but if only I was able to rationally see what they are and what they’re not, I would have walked away much sooner. I guess that because I want an LTR right now I get a little ahead of myself and not always think things clearly.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 08:31 PM
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Thanks. But I found myself many times being inspired to stay (coming from a place of abundance) even though some important things were simply not there. I think that if I sit and write down exactly what it is I want, I will be able to be more honest with myself in the future on whether or not a bitch is worthy. Sometimes they feel like they are, but they’re really not. At least for me.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 08:18 PM
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Doesn’t require constant validation (social media, men...)
/r/askTRP02/08/18 08:12 PM
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I was really surprised by how many women will fuck me on the 1st date. And if not the 1st, then the 2nd date will be just her coming straight to my place to fuck. Literally over 90% of women are in one of those categories, the rest are probably just not attracted enough. I used to be so awkward about asking them if they want to come up to have “coffee”, thinking that surely they will say no or even be horrified by the suggestion. But since learning how they are I just end dates abruptly when I f…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 06:07 PM
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It’s a very nice thing to believe in, isn’t it?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 08:35 PM
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I’m first to admit that through most of this story I was acting very BP (and I have admitted that multiple times). This isn’t black and white. We all stray from our paths sometimes to explore different directions, sometimes ones we know we should probably stay away from. Kudos to you if you think you can walk a straight line for the rest of your life. But vast majority of people will not. I share my experience with walking down this path and back so hopefully others will not.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 07:20 AM
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Reminds me of how, during my vetting process, I asked her about any experiences with drugs. She told me that other than some minor experimenting, she had a short opiates addiction phase in high-school (!), and that her first boyfriend (not the cheater) was a drughead who got her into it. The alarm bells were ringing pretty fucking loudly but I refused to hear them, didn’t want to burst the bubble I had built myself. Looking back there are many red flags I didn’t want to notice. Drugs, shitty ex …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 11:00 PM
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Definitely agree. I feel like shit now, but it’s not because of her. I dodged a lethal bullet thanks to her stupidity, and for that I genuinely thank her. I feel like shit because I was too dumb to see it coming, despite of everything I had already known.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 10:44 PM
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Yep. It really is amazing how well hidden this shit can be sometimes. To think I honestly had her estimated at 1-3 in the beginning... Couldn’t have been more wrong about this person.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 09:21 PM
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I would not be surprised if she did in fact fuck a whole 🏈 team.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 08:51 PM
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You probably won’t get an honest answer. I guess I just gave a very nonjudgmental vibe. I just poked fun at her for using me as a rebound, she was like “actually...”
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:50 PM
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I just asked. If she said 0 I would’ve believed it.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 08:53 PM
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How did you get her to come clean?
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:59 AM
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Either they don’t match with me, or I’m not attracted to them. Sometimes I think I have one of those but she turns out to be a slut. There’s also the fact that I’m 31, good single women are rare.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:45 PM
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Just playful and short exchanges, nothing sexual. I don’t try to impress them with clever jokes either, and I try not to ask too many questions over text. I try to set up a date in a bar next to my place as soon as possible (unless I feel like there’s an opportunity to cut straight to the chase). I live in a big touristy city and lookswise I’m probably top ~15%, so that’s probably most of it.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:30 PM
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I had a similar experience with a Norwegian who told me about that one time she had a foursome with 3 guys, back when she was 16. She was so.... normal about it.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:24 PM
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I told her that I think it’s a huge turn off and that I’m not going to be part of it. I tried not to be judgmental, just told her it’s my own preference. But I also let her know that it’s far, far beneath her. She’s a sweet kid and deserves more than a train of strangers’ dicks, really. I knew she was doing this for validation after being dumped by a cheating ex, so I told her what she needed to hear. That she’s a great woman and she shouldn’t undervalue herself because of some idiot. When we sa…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:22 PM
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I know. I was repulsed.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:14 PM
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Man, it’s really just a matter of personal preference. Some guys like blondes, some guys like big tits, I like low N-counts. I can’t help it, it’s what I like. If a potential partner blows me off for having had casual sex on Tinder, that’s only fair. Most girls don’t care though. As for Tinder itself, there are many, many girls where I live who use it for relationships. There are many ways to use it. But if you’re single, you’re on it. There might be some selection bias here but it’s not that bi…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:13 PM
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Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mind fucking these sluts, but I can’t help but feel absolutely grossed out by them to the point where I normally lose all respect and non-sexual attraction the moment I see them for what they are. Often sexual attraction is lost too, at least after a couple of bangs. So what options do I have here really? Either I ignore my disgust or I stay alone? This is hard to accept (which is probably why I keep fooling myself). Too bad I don’t like men, really.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 07:03 PM
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7 in one month, including myself, at 19. Had 1 LTR prior to that and was a virgin before that. Felt like such a sweet kid, really is a waste.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 05:32 PM
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You’re right but this is really best case scenario. As for age, it seems to me like the younger they are the more slutty they are. The girl I mentioned in another comment was only 19. I’ve had several young girls like that who would just have lots and lots of casual sex for fun. These girls grew up on Tinder. I think that for women around my age hooking up wasn’t very socially acceptable when we were that age. Of course single 30 year old women aren’t that much of a catch for other reasons.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 04:26 PM
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I see what you guys are saying, but literally every single female is on Tinder, at least where I live. Some none single ones too
/r/askTRP24/07/18 04:05 PM
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Yep. This dick filled month immediately followed her previous LTR breakup (first boyfriend, cheated on her is what she said).
/r/askTRP24/07/18 03:59 PM
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Another issue I have in implementing TRP is that I sort of fool myself time and time again. I’m looking for an LTR, but when you’re holding a hammer everything looks like a nail. So often I’d meet someone who checks the right boxes, gives me the impression of being a non-slut, and I just create this perfect image of a pure LTR girl in my head. Only to have reality shatter this image later on. And it always hits you like a kick in the balls. How do I not give these girls credit they don’t yet des…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 03:52 PM
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