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_dude55/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:00 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:08 AM
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_dude55/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:20 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP21/02/18 10:12 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP29/03/18 08:01 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP20/10/17 06:34 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP08/10/17 07:03 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP28/10/17 02:06 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP19/02/18 02:00 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP10/04/18 09:45 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP03/10/17 12:35 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP14/10/17 08:44 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:23 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP04/10/17 06:17 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP09/10/17 08:52 AM
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_dude55/r/askTRP09/10/17 05:12 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP27/02/19 11:09 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP26/03/18 11:26 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:25 PM
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_dude55/r/askTRP26/10/17 05:50 AM
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Well you could be right, I don't know if she is offended or anything, bur it feels needy to ask her again to do something else.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 03:12 PM
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doesn't my invitation provide that?
/r/askTRP18/04/18 10:09 AM
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When we did hang out we talked about smoking together sometime
/r/askTRP18/04/18 08:13 AM
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thanks bro, will do, have a great one
/r/askTRP17/04/18 05:57 PM
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thanks
/r/askTRP17/04/18 04:43 PM
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Don't bother or ask her another time? you mean in a few days?
/r/askTRP17/04/18 04:34 PM
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thanks I just assumed she saw this as a friendly hangout. we are both out of town for two weeks, this was last week by the way, I am going back next week, should I contact her then or wait a bit more?
/r/askTRP10/04/18 11:03 PM
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thanks I need to give action dates a try for sure
/r/askTRP10/04/18 10:39 PM
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thanks I just assumed she saw this as a friendly hangout. we are both out of town for two weeks, this was last week by the way, I am going back next week, should I contact her then or wait a bit more?
/r/askTRP10/04/18 10:27 PM
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I edited the question to include some more details, but basically my failure to escalate enough and the fact she didn't reciprocate kino as much. Also she preferred going back to her friends place, which she called when we left the venue to see if she was at home.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 10:02 PM
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Thanks, I know it really sucks, I met her in Uni but we didn't talk much besides some banter during class breaks, and I just thought to ask her out, that's why I was wondering because she does hang out with guys. I will give it one more try and go for it this time
/r/askTRP29/03/18 08:51 PM
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Yea am not the guy to do this, am not a player but I am nit overthinking other girls so much. P. S she just texted me to move it later because she will eat with her father, we already had it set at 10pm
/r/askTRP26/03/18 06:40 PM
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I am not confident tbh, coz she I don't know if she wants to fuck or just enjoys the attention, she never initiated, but am curious why else would she accept going for drinks with me and even push back the time at 10pm insdead of 9. Well fuck it, whatever happens,.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 04:24 PM
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I'll be honest, I never had drinks with a girl at my place? do I just buy a cheap red wine and put on some music?
/r/askTRP26/03/18 04:22 PM
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How do you go about doing that last minute? :S I just found out
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:48 PM
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I know, should I cancel with her? or meet and whatever happens, take it as a learning experience
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:33 AM
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thanks, will do
/r/askTRP15/03/18 12:05 PM
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nope nothing
/r/askTRP15/03/18 12:05 PM
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thanks, will do, can you tell me where you think I fucked up? I am more curious about sending a text a week after we hang out and ahe was late to reply, what should I have done differently?
/r/askTRP15/03/18 11:44 AM
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thanks for your time man, appreciate it
/r/askTRP11/03/18 01:23 AM
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thanks for taking the time for such an elaborate reply man. Sometimes I feel like am two people, and the rational one was tied up for a long time. Now he managed to loosen the bonds from one arm and is now working on getting fully untied to take back control. Best of luck to your journey as well brother.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:19 PM
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excuse for not doing what? I went out last weekend and I almost didn't finish an assignment in time. Perhaps taking so many classes was a wrong choice, but the fact that it reduces my time still stands. It's not that my social life is non-existent, but it's limited to the point it seems am taking steps backwards, and I remain in scarcity. Results take time, and if for every single step forwards I do two backwards it feels counter productive. I go out once max twice a month, I approach 3 girls, I…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:48 PM
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it's about the delivery
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:23 PM
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English is not my native language so am sorry for that. I was referring to an exponential growth of difficulty . Thank you
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 02:30 PM
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isn't that too forward? I can't give her plausible deniability since she has a boyfriend
/r/askTRP10/02/18 03:33 PM
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it's a small apartment, and she is not qualified to meet my mother
/r/askTRP10/02/18 03:10 PM
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My biggest fear is if things get fucked up I will have to see that person every single day in class. It seems to me your biggest fear is approaching and/or showing intent. You are a sexual being at all times, there is no On - Off switch, you just hide it in situations that the downside of things going wrong is bigger than the upside, (e.x work) Read your post once or twice. What do you make out of this? You say you are jealous that she is talking to another guy, that means you lack true abundanc…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 05:17 PM
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thanks this helps
/r/askTRP07/11/17 04:51 PM
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Yep you are right thanks. I was just wondering if my energy levels will be adequate so soon after a workout and if my meals and sleep will have enough time to do their thing.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 03:38 PM
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thanks am a beginner so there's stuff am not familiar with yet
/r/askTRP07/11/17 03:36 PM
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If am not mistaken Stronglifts suggests one rest day in between workouts. My schedule is full enough so somedays I can't do that so I need to go consecutive days if I want to workout 3-4 times on average.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 03:35 PM
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Is it a good idea to invite her over tonight though?
/r/askTRP28/10/17 02:50 PM
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We've run into each other today in town and she said exactly that, It's been a long time, and I just said it has been, she told me about her having too much studying to do as she was obviously heading with some books to the library. And without me bringing it up she said I will come over to see you one of these days, and I just said "yea sure, just let me know beforehand, anyway I have to get going" and we parted ways. I didn't tease or anything I was calm with a smirk on my face like it's not a…
/r/askTRP20/10/17 06:16 PM
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Yep thanks man
/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:31 PM
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Cool thanks man
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:16 PM
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If there is one think I can help you with is this. It's going to be a long one. The comments here provide you with good examples, the idea is you get to hang out with people in many aspects with your life. Hobbies, work, school, college etc. Now meeting lots of people its easy, they are everywhere, but becoming friends with them is a process, if they allready have friends, and their lives are busy they won't just call you out of the blue asking to be your friend. Don't be embarrassed to tell you…
/r/askTRP08/10/17 07:32 PM
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When should I "give" up on a girl and next her? I lived next to a hot girl for over a year and we would hang out often either alone or with friends. I have never made a move and now she left the apartment. She is leaving town for good in a month and am torn between making a move or just forgetting about her because deep down I feel the ship has sailed. She seems to respect me and we had long conversations before amd lots in common. I do not have an issue with new girls because I show my intent f…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 03:32 PM
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She didn't agree to anything but yea, I guess you right, thanks man
/r/askTRP04/10/17 06:37 PM
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Thanks, So I was just overthinking this shit then you think?
/r/askTRP04/10/17 06:26 PM
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I am kinda busy this week. should I tell her in advance this week or wait towards the next?
/r/askTRP03/10/17 12:57 PM
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Thanks, I will do that but I will do so in a few days because am really busy this week. i have to note that my post did not cover everything and it might made it sound like she likes me. But deep down am thinking that she would give me some signs if she wanted more. It's common for women to touch people they know for a long time, and knowing her for almost two years as a friend and not making a move even when we would hang out alone makes me think deep down that I fucked up.I guess there's only …
/r/askTRP02/10/17 05:01 PM
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Thanks man. Much appreciated. Last thing if you get the time, Tell me if you disagree on anything. If she texts me to meet or anything on fb I will just not reply or open the message. In a few weeks its her birthday and she usually invites me, so I'll go but I will hang out with my other friends there. I will just be polite with here like she is another girl I know and nothing more.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 04:06 PM
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She didn't ask for anything up to this point. She even cooked for us. But I assume she wouldn't be hanging out with chad other than for sex, so any other type of interaction I have means I am an orbiter right?
/r/askTRP01/10/17 03:47 PM
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thanks! How to tell apart if it's just to keep me in orbit or genuine interest(mainly for future situations)? And how should I act when it happens again with this one? So far I kept acting indifferent like she is not even touching me
/r/askTRP01/10/17 03:39 PM
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