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| 4 | Seddit dance guide?For general clubs, its more about energy, fun, and confidence than being able to dance. You can always tell the difference in the people out on a dance floor that are desperate and on the prowl and the people out there to just have fun. Women are going to find the latter more interesting. You can get away with a lot if you're just out there for fun. i.e. from pulling random females and twirling them to just starting full on dances off / dance circles. People want to have fun, but most lack the c… | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 02:41 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to seduction, why are the rules of the games like that?There are a few reasons for this. Women want to feel wanted and desirable. Being approached makes them feel wanted and it feeds their ego. Many women are passive aggressive by nature. Women often notice you before you notice them. However, they don't want to be rejected. Its why most will give you subtle indicators of interest, including holding eye contact. They put a great value on their social standing, they will avoid being rejected and go to great lengths to avoid confrontation. Have you ev… | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 07:53 PM |
| 1 | I am short, bald, and look very old. I am aware of all the available resources, but have problems at a very basic level. Help!Eeyore, your perception of reality sucks. People can sense it and pushes them away. You want to improve your game? Fix your outlook on life. What are you good at? What are you passionate about? What are your strengths? What do you have going for you? I challenge your mopey ass to say something positive about yourself. I'll even start this off. You have a job which makes you not lazy ass loser. I expect a response with a list on the positives. | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 06:14 PM |
| 5 | A little rant about getting flaked on after a seemingly successful first date...You're too interested in her and seems like you're more invested than she is. You need to be less invested in her and the outcome. End of story. | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 06:02 PM |
| 1 | How do I convince myself that girls want sex as much as I do?Pay more attention to what a woman does, than what she says. Time to learn about the sexual duality of women. Not all women do this but... Plenty of women are socially conditioned to appear like angels and avoid social labels like slut, whore, and the like. If you pay attention, you can often see how their words and actions don't line up. This is because what they fear being becoming a social outcast. They will go to enormous lengths to avoid being slut shamed by her social community. Even thoug… | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 06:00 PM |
| 0 | Should I pick her up or should we meet there?I opt for meeting there. Its seems like you're less desparate to know where she lives and it makes her invest in the date a bit more by committing to go meet you somewhere. It will somewhat also polarize some of the more flakish people to flaking before the date so that you don't waste your time. | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Fat guy in collegeIt could also just be the age range of the women you're talking to. Women like to men that gives them bragging rights. Do you enhance their social value? Your description of yourself sounds like the standard things that women are culturally conditioned to say. Make you sure find ways to set yourself apart. You can't be everything to everyone. | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 06:17 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got stood up, ate Chipotle, and practiced my windmills (# and first date close)Heh. Yeah, one of those gamers stole your girl. That's funny. Your obviously desperate for attention. Even, if you ever manage to get a woman, you're too needy and too broken to be able keep a good one. | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 05:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got stood up, ate Chipotle, and practiced my windmills (# and first date close)You sound mad, bro. Did a pyramid scheme salesman of the dating world steal your girl? That would explain why you're obsessing over a post for 10 minutes, stalking the original poster with rage comments, and just begging for him to respond. | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Seriously, how else was I supposed to escalate this conversation? Any tips?You ignored her question about the pick up line and kept a certain frame and didn't answer her question and pulled her into your frame, which was good. But then you turned something fun into a pickup line, confirming previous suspicions. A direct approach will work better. e.g. You're fun, lets get coffee. (short compliment with no room to object and instead of you using a line, you were testing her to see if she was fun enough to be interesting). | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 05:12 AM |
| 2 | PSA: Women are complicatedWomen aren't all that complicated. Women are socially condition to say things that are socially acceptable. Often times this leads to a woman saying she want things that are socially acceptable because what she really wants is not socially acceptable. She fears being an social outcast, which is why discretion and making a woman feel safe is important. A woman may actually know what she wants, shes just not going to tell you right away. Other times, they've lied to themselves enough to believe th… | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone else find themselves constantly comparing themselves to the other guys in the room? How do I stop doing this?A good quote from from @shitmydadsays, "That woman was sexy...Out of your league? Son. Let women figure out why they won't screw you, don't do it for them." You're suffering from analysis paralysis and a terrible analysis at that. Women are turned on a by range of things, not just visual appearance. Some of the other things that can attract a woman are sense of smell, touch, emotions, confidence, a sense of humor, and if you have nice shoes. Stop assuming you know what a person wants. A part of … | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 04:28 PM |
| 1 | A question to those who follow Mark Masnson Style???There a different between being vulnerable and giving too much information. First and foremost, be the best version of yourself. There is a time to be vulnerable and a time to stfu. Playing waiting games on the phone isn't honest and it is a contradiction to Models. Call if you want to call,.otherwise don't call. Go back and read the book a few more times. | /r/seduction | 31/08/14 09:39 PM |
| 5 | Feeling inferior to a girl and it's fucking up my confidence.Remove your ego out of the equation. This isn't about competing against her, its about finding a challenging woman that is worth your time. Keeping score is a good way to ruin attraction or a relationship. Your confidence should come from knowing yourself and having actions that line up with who you are. It shouldn't come from being better than others. That is a false confidence that will end up undermining your goals in life. | /r/seduction | 30/08/14 06:58 PM |
| -1 | Help on Dance Floor GameComing up behind a woman you've never met and just grinding on her is a pretty selfish and cowardly passive aggressive act. Dance because you want to have fun. If you go out their with only the desire to pick up women, you're going to give off creepy energy of a predator out for prey. I see it all the time and women with confidence tend to avoid men like that like avoiding the plague. Dancing for yourself takes confidence to do it while others watch and women are attracted to confidence. Instead… | /r/seduction | 20/08/14 05:34 PM |
| 5 | Looking for unique/risky/adventurous date ideas.Science Or Child Museum. Art show. Dave and Busters (arcade like place that has active games). Lazer tag. Bowling. Boat ride (paddle boats, canoe, fairy boat). Para-sailing National Park. Zoo. Haunted House. Grocery Shopping (have a shopping cart race). Salsa lessons. Cooking Class. Water park. Parade. When its rainy, take an old mattress and sled down a hill, very useful if you live in college dorm with a crappy mattress or can borrow the lunch tray from a dining hall. Random road trip (not for… | /r/seduction | 15/08/14 06:17 AM |
| 2 | 5 mindsets that show you don’t “get it”Maybe its the author who doesn't "get it". The article attempts to shallowly disavow one religion while promoting a broken ideology. It feels more like the author is another beta male seeking validation for his/her lifestyle and personal beliefs while poorly attempting to sell his/her seduction advice. | /r/seduction | 15/08/14 04:00 AM |
| 13 | Going solo - how do you deal with "where are your friends"?Depends on the circumstances and execution. When I go out alone, I often get approached by a few different women. A group of guys can be intimidating. A group of friends can also work against you. Though a socially intelligent women will try to isolate you by telling you to meet her at a another club or bar near by. You can create proof of social value by befriending the venue staff. The staff generally wants to have fun, be respected, and make money. Going out alone has its advantages, if you c… | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Tips for going out solo?Don't blend with the rest of crowd. Wear a conversation piece. Be stylish. You don't have be over the top, but you don't want to be a part of the status quo either. Make sure your clothes amplifies and matches personality. Having fun should be the top priority. Smile some. Make friends with the bartender. Don't hold on to your beer / drink like its a comfort blanket or keep hands in your pockets or across your chest. Don't play with your phone too much. Jump venues. If you do dance, don't do it … | /r/seduction | 11/06/14 03:17 PM |
| 1 | How common are girls giving you their numbers without asking?Even if a woman is not direct, they'll find a way to justify giving out their number to you if they feel that you're valuable. If there is any commonality, its the combination of value, rapport, and feeling secure. | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 05:35 PM |
| 3 | How do I actually "not give a shit"?The phrases "I don't give a shit" and "I don't give a fuck" are problematic. a) The phrases don't state what they are trying to really trying to convey. b) They're often chanted as a mantra by people who trying to prove to the world that they don't care as much as they really do. The heart of the matter isn't that you shouldn't care. Its ok to give a shit. The real issue is focusing on the right things to care about with the right priority. They need to live up to your standards and not the othe… | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys really get the eye contact across the room from a girl more than a few times?It will range upon the situation. Use other body language ques for indication like negative facial expressions, her body is moving away from you, and avoiding any further eye contact at all costs. | /r/seduction | 07/02/14 04:00 PM |
| 5 | Do you guys really get the eye contact across the room from a girl more than a few times?If she locks eyes with you for 2-3 seconds, shes interested. In my experience, women that do this generally have a bit more confidence or aggressiveness. Others will look at you, then look away, then look at you again in about 30 seconds. Its not a hundred percent, but its a good indication of interest. Some will instantly look down and somewhat to the side. This is usually embarrassment or shyness. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 02:24 PM |
| 3 | I am a woman and I wrote an article about seduction from a woman's point of view. I would like some feedback on it ..more info insideThe build rapport thing still stands true. Tell a short story that a guy can identify with. Why should we as men trust you? What makes you different? Why should we listen? What in it for you to help us? Etc. Or rather what is your brand and what can it offer us? | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 03:57 AM |
| 2 | I am a woman and I wrote an article about seduction from a woman's point of view. I would like some feedback on it ..more info insideIts a bit more than that, but that would be a great start. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 03:19 AM |
| 4 | I am a woman and I wrote an article about seduction from a woman's point of view. I would like some feedback on it ..more info insideIts not about understanding in this instance. Its the feeling... the frustration, the emasculation, the flaking, the drama, the bullshit. Its a complicated world and neither sex has it easy. However the way convey yourself is no different than some of the condescending females men have had the misfortune of putting with till the guy wised up or the female jumped to her next victim. My guess is that you were trying to be playful and fun and informative, but its didn't feel that way at all. This i… | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 03:03 AM |
| 8 | I am a woman and I wrote an article about seduction from a woman's point of view. I would like some feedback on it ..more info insideBe a wing man one night. Get a male friend, hidden camera, and see what its like for a guy to approach and to get rejected. Attempt to get another female to hang out with you that is a complete stranger. Get rejected 30 times. Go out and watch men struggle internally at bars. See if you can emulate that vibe and then approach someone. Go out and approach 30 different men that you feel that are out of your league. Approach a group of women huddled in group with their backs to everyone else. Any o… | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 02:50 AM |
| 3 | I am a woman and I wrote an article about seduction from a woman's point of view. I would like some feedback on it ..more info insideSeduce your audience next time. Build rapport. For someone who is of the sex that often spouts shallow socially conditioned responses instead of vulnerable honest answers to.. " what do kind of man are you into?", you have show us you can walk in our shoes before we'll acknowledge anything you say on this topic. If you know about seduction and males, you didn't show it. That's your biggest issue with this article. | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 02:04 AM |
| 1 | How is building social proof different from seeking external validation?The problem with the whole "I don't give a fuck" or "fuck what everyone thinks" is that its used as a mantra/shield by people who do give a fuck. The moment you reacted you put your balls in her hands. She pulled you into her reality instead of you pulling her into your reality. Building social value should be more about meeting new and interesting people. As a bonus it helps to demonstrates value. If you do it to solely use people as props, people will catch on and no one likes to be used witho… | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Help me stop feeling guilty about walking away from less attractive girls who I'm just chatting up for fun.Of course you don't have a clue. Your like a clumsy self righteous bible thumper who attacks people with different beliefs without even knowing your own religion much less anyone else's religion. You have no respect for yourself, much less for others. You're ignorance is recorded in these comments and will be found by others. You're a witless fool spewing nonsense at people twisting contexts, back peddling, spinning words to cover up, deflecting the fact that your just a bitter angry person. Peo… | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Seduction is a scam.You're still shifting blame. Appearance and attraction are two different things. You're not attractive because of the sum of everything you are and situational timing. You're biggest enemy is the way you view yourself. Even if you were to do experiments alone, your dataset is still based on opinions of people who visit certain websites to escape and hide from reality. Unless you're the perfect visual image of their respective twilight fantasies, you're just one of the many cast aside for somethi… | /r/seduction | 29/12/13 05:52 PM |
| 4 | Seduction is a scam.Using the internet to provide evidence on such matters is highly flawed. Yes. Appearance does matter. However, what is attractive to people varies from person and person and so does the scale upon which looks weighs in comparison to other things. You're 20 years old and you already give up? You know what isn't attractive to women? a whiny man who hides behind a computer. You're creepy because of your mental state and demeanor. The way you view yourself is through other people's validation. "Othe… | /r/seduction | 29/12/13 10:24 AM |
| 2 | Forget Game: Become a Badass, Don't Fake ItIt doesn't hurt to give back. If you are self actualized and have an abundance mentality, then why not stop in and give someone that struggled the same way as yourself? | /r/seduction | 29/12/13 05:51 AM |
| 5 | Do Girls Know?Women put up with boring needy people all the time. If a guy is being himself and it engages her or invokes her emotions or sense of adventure... they won't care how he learned it. its only a big deal if you make it a big deal and then it becomes an issue | /r/seduction | 24/11/13 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Since the fPUA is pretty much inactive, and I want your guys' perspective...You can meet people anywhere. Dance lessons (try salsa or swing), grocery store, coffee shop, art gallery, club, bar, through other friends. Try a group fitness class. Though the statement " I want to have fun, but I'm stumped as to how". makes me wonder if you need some time to rediscover yourself and see what you're passionate about. | /r/seduction | 19/11/13 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Any advice tips on how to get out of destructive relationship?me etc. And that I can't leave her because I am the one who promiced to take care of her. And of course she has cheated on me couple of times. She doesn't have any place to go, so I can't kick her out. And I don't have enough money to rent two apartments for both of us. +1 Actions speak louder than words. If you were that important, she wouldn't have cheated. Next time, save the life long promises for an alter. You're not doing her or yourself any favors by continuing to feed her co-dependency. … | /r/seduction | 19/11/13 03:39 PM |
| 1 | So I'm basically a giant pussy when it comes to striking up convo with females I don't know. Last night at a bar my friend pretty much threw me in face first and I pretty much bombed it. Still have residual anxiety from last night thinking about it. Could use some advice.Its good that he threw you into the fire, but it put you at a disadvantage with the words he used. Not that you should ever use that as an excuse, mind you. You should always make and effort to rise to the challenge. There is no shame in thinking a woman is gorgeous. The biggest thing to learn is to own the situation. You could have even turn the tables on your friend a bit. "He's half right, I do think your gorgeous, but he's just mad because ... [insert witty reason here ", Hi my name is ... T… | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Entitlement and ConfidenceConfidence is not given. Confidence requires time and work. The OP ignores the fact that even though the woman feels entitled to a guy's company, she still doesn't have the confidence to approach the guy. | /r/seduction | 27/10/13 11:17 PM |
| 3 | [FR-mini] Halloween club event, first open k-close but dry night due to some chokes. Problems not following up...Keep going out. [Escalation] Smacking the girl's ass was too soon. Women on the dance floor will often let guys creep because women can be passive aggressive and then wait for their girlfriends to bail them out. Read up on physical escalation. [Halloween] The costume thing on halloween is a double edged sword if you wear a mask or makeup. You don't want to create a situation of generating buyer's remorse in a female. [dance floor] The dance floor probably deserves a whole post on its own, but I'… | /r/seduction | 27/10/13 07:59 PM |
| 2 | I am ashamed of seduction (or rather, myself as a seducer)instead of thinking of it as seduction, think of it as marketing yourself with your own personal brand. The word "seduction" often has cognitive bias due to how our culture and media portrays it. The thing about marketing is that it applies more than just meeting up women, but permeates throughout the rest of social and professional life. It can be used for networking, making friends, doing presentations, etc. It also makes you aware of your social surroundings which women will appreciate. Peopl… | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 02:39 PM |
| 2 | First night trying this out...total depression.you're social muscles have most likely atrophied all your life and any real growth always comes with some form of pain. I would stick with it for a while. Talk to anyone, bartender, guys, females, it shouldn't matter. Or start simpler and just out and have fun with zero goals other than to have fun and not drink. If this line of thought still continues after a while, you might want to seek help outside of Reddit and the internet, cause you could be suffering from other things out of the scope of… | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 02:02 PM |
| 15 | "What are you up to tonight?" "Depends haha" wtf?Its not a shit test. If it infuriates you, then I encourage you to step back and evaluate your own mindset and brush up on common female traits like not wanting to make decisions, because that is your job as a guy. If you had planned ahead, you could circumvent putting yourself in that whole situation to begin with: you: "My friends and I are going to [insert place and marketing here] on friday, come out with us." her: ok! versus: you: "hi" her: "hi =)" you: "What are you up to tonight?" // soun… | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Mid-30's, often tired from work, looking for advice generating the energy to go out more often.The nights that you go out see if you can schedule stuff that is less mentally draining for the day. I say use your hyperactiveness in clubs with loud music that requires a lot of energy and music and very little conversation. Go out, but don't have any ironclad expectations, find a way to make it fun for you and that will help bring energy. Also focus you're mindset before go out. You're going to have fun, nobody can mess with you're mood, you're fun, its going to be an awesome night. Your fram… | /r/seduction | 24/05/13 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Considering giving this whole thing up, despite tireless effort. Please help me reconsider, because I want success.You're obviously a very genuinely caring person who sticks up for their friends. I admire that. However, your friends don't love you or care for you in the truest sense. Love isn't overprotective, needy, or fearful. Love trusts, it promotes growth, and it gives the right amount of protection. Growth means failure and pain at times. Its no different than the gym.. you go in, you work hard, get sore, feel pain as you push your limits, and you grow steadily over time. There is no instant gratificat… | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 01:36 AM |
| 9 | Considering giving this whole thing up, despite tireless effort. Please help me reconsider, because I want success.A real friend would never tell you that you're not physically attractive enough to for a woman to be attracted in you and be serious about it. He's not a friend, he's a douche. Your mistake was to let him affect you. You let him make you feel like shit. Now you need to fix that because women can pick up on those insecurities. If you can't accept yourself, respect yourself, and believe in yourself... why should anyone else? Don't give up. Don't apologize for going after what you want in life to a… | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 05:37 PM |
| 6 | What is the female equivalent to the alpha male? As a woman in the dating world, I would like to know what I can do, besides looking attractive, that will up my game.Confidence, which implies that you're not needy or clingy and you're capable of having your own opinions without the need for them to be validated. Sense of humor. The style of humor varies. witty banter, verbal swordplay, crass and crude. If men do all the work in this department.... it won't last. Intelligence. There are various forms of it and different guys like different versions of it. Some crave academia level deep conversations, others enjoy social intelligence, others enjoy witty banter… | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 03:12 PM |
| 1 | My success-->failure / oneitis with HB8 that made me realise it's time to change. Maybe a few lessons for other betas?that was more on line with the right thing to say, but you need to say it in a way that challenges her and makes her qualify herself to you. women are happy when they chase and even though they say they hate it when you're not around it, they like it cause they know you have a life and you have value and self respect to take care of yourself. If she goes ballistic because you make time for herself.. dump her, shes too needy and you don't want to get attached to that, you deserve better. | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 02:36 PM |
| 1 | My success-->failure / oneitis with HB8 that made me realise it's time to change. Maybe a few lessons for other betas?Women are amazing but emotional and confusing creatures. The contact initiation was a test. Consciously she wanted the time and the attention and didn't care who it came from. Subconsciously she was noticing that you were giving her what she wanted on your time which makes you a doormat in her eyes. Its counter intuitive and frustrating to guys because we're direct about what we want. As you have already noticed their actions, words, and desires don't always match up. Simple example. If she say … | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 02:33 PM |
| 2 | I'm 20, 5'5" and look like I'm 14Your premise is backwards. Insecurity is reason that women are looking at you with the mental question of "what is he doing here?" Its not because your short or look like your 14. If you had any courage or confidence you wouldn't care what they thought of you and you would use your perceived disadvantages to your advantage. You're taking this stuff way too seriously. Make women guess your age and make it fun. Some women can't resist cute and adorable. Does height really matter when you're horizo… | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 11:30 PM |
| 1 | My success-->failure / oneitis with HB8 that made me realise it's time to change. Maybe a few lessons for other betas?" 'what are your intentions?' thing. I wasn't sure what to say, so I said something like 'well, I really like you..' " ... and this is where you put the nail in the coffin. Either flip the script with some witty banter or be brutally honest. Most likely she could read your uncertainty and you said your liked her too soon which comes off as needy. Translation: your interest level / emotional investment seemed higher than hers because of both your answer and your uncertainty when thinking about th… | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Girls avoid meSome guys are scared at being laughed or rejected, some embrace it, and there are varying levels in between. <generalizations hint="people are different, but these are overall trends"> It has more to do with frustration of the whole attraction thing, guys in general don't like to feel like a failure, the lack of appreciation for all the effort we put into this, and not being able to fix or solve the problem right away. Guys love to fix things externally that we can get our hands on. We're proble… | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Girls avoid meNeither sex has it easy, but I highly doubt most women have the full capacity to truly be empathetic with a guys emotions and perspective on this matter. Emotional transference of creepiness, yes.... empathy... not so much. Empathy actually requires you to be able to feel what its like to walk in our shoes. Unless you have left out the detail that you're bi and have to deal with passive aggressive behavior, deal with constant rejection, initiate conversation every time you go out for the next ye… | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 05:04 PM |
| 26 | Girls avoid me" I feel sorry for my parents, they think I could have plenty of girls and just like being single, they dont know I'm a complete failure yet." Your self esteem, self worth, and frame of mind is the issue. You're in a circular cycle that you need to break. 1) Stop complimenting people and feeling sorry for yourself and your parents. Until you have great self worth, your compliments are going to come off as either worship or saying something because you want something in return. No one wants to be… | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 03:11 PM |
| 1 | What are some cool things that you wear that catch the ladies eye?bright solid color ties (pink, orange, white, almost neon idigo blue). kenneth cole solid white watch with orange accents. glow sticks. random wrist pieces from buckle. red hipster wayfarer glasses which you can wear in a club/bar since the lenses are not tinted. People generally want to borrow the glasses for pictures. wrist band from AE that doubled as a bottle opener. comes in handy for house parties and barbeques. stylish van canvas shoes in good condition. women tend to obsess with shoes an… | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Us girls are sometimes told that men don't approach us because of our beauty, rather than our lack of it. Is there any truth to this?The beauty thing does happen, especially if a woman has any sort of confidence that most men might find intimidating when they should find it fun and challenging. You could also be putting yourself in situations that makes you harder to approach without realizing it. Sit by yourself at a bar for 15 - 20 minutes, but keep your friends close enough by should you need a way out. Sit in a way that isn't totally closed off from someone approaching you from the side. Wear something that is flattering … | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 08:23 PM |
| 1 | I've often read here(and confirmed with firsthand experience) that women can smell a lack of genuineness from a mile off. This being the case, how the hell do you "fake it till you make it"?Or maybe its just a lousy battle cry so that men can overcome have something to chant as they march to get crushed by a rejection a few times till they get used to it. The phrase, "Fake it, till you make it" if used correctly only refers to confidence in one self or certain subject matter, not one's whole personality. The phrase is used in Business quite often for this very purpose. Its a positive feedback loop. Some therapists use this concept and continually make a patient who is depressed go … | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Just starting out and finished "The Game" and some other materials. I have one serious question.You're fixating on height and what other people do. If you want to imitate someone, imitate Spud Webb. He was 5'7'' but he didn't let the limiting belief that being short would stop him from scoring, much less dunking on the taller competition. A woman that is so obsessed with height that she'll take height or a tall man over someone who would be an overall better fit for her is not the type of woman that you want in your life anyways. Go read up on the abundance mindset. Drop the obsession with… | /r/seduction | 22/03/13 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Which dance style is best to learn to be able to dance in your everyday clubs?Depends on the type of clubs you go to and your motivation for dancing. Most people can't dance, even when they dry hump or a female shakes her ass, its not in sync with the music. I've even seen "dancers" in gentlemen clubs who have perfect bodies that just can't move to the music no matter how in shape they are. No matter style of dance that you use, having confidence, a small amount of rhythm, and a fun attitude will get you far. I would suggest either salsa or swing and of the two, I would s… | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 05:13 PM |
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