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_justagumnut_/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 01:22 PM
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You speak like a teenage incel. I feel that this probably has something to do with your wife not fucking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 08:44 PM
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Because you chose data from a sugar baby site. You think those women are prioritising attraction? Ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 07:54 PM
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Lol, no. This is so retarded. Women fall behind in their careers because they're pregnant for 9 months, then they push a human out of their body, then they breastfeed. It's biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 10:02 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 12:39 PM
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Ok you do that then? I'm not telling you to do otherwise. Just saying it worked out fine for me and my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 12:39 PM
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Fuck off if you're not going to discuss in good faith you miserable shit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 12:13 PM
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Lol ok Lewis keep explaining to me what I really want
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 12:13 PM
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Yeah, they're also missing the point though. I understand that men want to be the hot guy. I really do. But for a woman it isn't about opening our legs for the high value men when we're young, and then demanding more from schlubs as we age. It's about us ageing out of the superficial fun stage, and wanting a man who is able to fulfil us in a deeper, more satisfying way. Sexual attraction is part of that, but we also need a deeper level of compatibility and connection if we're going to give them …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 11:23 AM
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It's not about being hot enough vs not being hot enough though. It's about looking for a casual fling vs looking for a life partner. No man would get on my life partner list just by being hot enough. The hottest man in the world wouldn't get to be my husband if that's all he brought to the table. And same for my husband. He'd never marry a woman who brought a great sex life and nothing else (like his previous partners). We expect more from our spouses because we're literally giving them the rest…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 11:18 AM
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He can expect whatever he wants, he just won't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 08:55 AM
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Yes and?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 08:55 AM
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Why would I be upset that my husband was promiscuous before me? That's a dual mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 08:55 AM
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I'm disagreeing with the bb part of it. Read again
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 08:51 AM
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Only if you're on his bad side :p
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 06:15 AM
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There's no true "catch". One woman's catch is another's loser. It isn't that hard to find one that's good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 05:27 AM
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Congratulations. Nothing in this conversation applies to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:36 AM
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then he should say ok and not call her. if she presses for the friendship, just tell her no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:12 AM
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whether or not you agree with that, can you not at least understand why people might be upset by that assertion?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:09 AM
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lol my first love has spent the last 12 years in prison. i'm sure it was his careful nature and good grades that drew me to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:08 AM
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recognize her offer of friendship as a courteous effort to try to let me down easy rather than a sincere desire for friendship yes. why people can't understand this is beyond me. they both know they're never going to be friends. the whole "let's be friends" thing is and always has been just a polite way for her to say "i dont want to fuck you" and for him to say "im not interested in you beyond sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:05 AM
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why aren't women getting wet over my neuroticismmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:01 AM
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because you were only interested in chaaaaaad!!!! maybe you should have thrown yourself at the pimply neurotic engineering student who never leaves his room!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 03:57 AM
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For example there's the well-known scam of an attractive women luring men with the promise of sex, while her friends wait in the shadows to beat him up and steal his shit. Women can be thieves, stalkers, rapists, abusers, and murderers and THAT's what men should be afraid of. hahahahahhaah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 03:55 AM
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lol now my silly reply looks retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 03:41 AM
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sorry that your calculators don't turn us on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 03:37 AM
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great point!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 03:34 AM
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my ass is quite clever thank you very much
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 03:21 AM
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yeah i suspect that's what might've happened if i met my husband young. who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 03:08 AM
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men are welcome to get upset by women who say that. who is the grand arbiter on what people are and are not allowed to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 03:07 AM
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in henry cavill's case it's because what he said is implying that women regularly lie about being raped. whether or not you agree with that, can you not at least understand why people might be upset by that assertion?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 02:51 AM
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i'm dead serious. of course a woman who just wants to fuck is going to be more fun than one who wants marriage and children and a functional life. i am asking in all seriousness why you go for a marriage minded woman and then bitch and complain that she wants what marriage entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 02:47 AM
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what is "settling" if not committing your life to a bitchy hag who isn't even attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 02:45 AM
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That you seem to view the stability as a neutral factor to young girls, I think it's a negative. I think the stable med student comes across as boring, and some of that Chad emotional volatility, comes across as(subconsciously) attractive. The stable med student probably is boring to young girls, but not because he's stable. it's because nerds are boring and med students spend their time studying, rather than kicking back and actually being fun. Same deal with engineers. It's not that girls sudd…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 02:41 AM
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If that's really the case, then most RP guys would consider you and your friends to be exceptions to the rule yes i know, and they'd be wrong. When is that exactly? I'd say most women wait way too long and then by the time they feel like settling down, all the attractive men worth settling down with are either (1) too busy having sex with younger, hotter women or (2) already married. depends on the woman. for me it was about 25. some women do wait too long and the dating pool is smaller, but i w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 02:15 AM
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Young women aren't looking for a husband. They don't care if he has a job or if he's a slob or if he's a dick a lot of the time, they're having some fun and aren't imagining what a lifetime with him is going to look like. That is AF/BB. no, it's AF. vetting for a man who is attractive and has his shit together is not BB. my husband got plenty of casual sex as a young man without needing to bring anything else to the table. he had to bring more to the table with me because we met at a time where …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 02:03 AM
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The question is why can't they have fun with a stable guy in their twenties? they can. there's just less of them, and if they don't care about stability yet then what's the point of vetting for that? Why weren't you fucking the hot nice guy you married, when you were younger and even more attractive? because i didn't know him when i was younger. if i'd met him then, i absolutely would have. Why would would you put up with tantrums and emotionally volatility of Chad if you were attractive enough …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:54 AM
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Some women are bitchy harpies, yeah. Avoid them. Just like we tell women to avoid crappy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:36 AM
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There's actually plenty. Women don't need Brad Pitt to be attracted to him. Normal looking guys can be very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:35 AM
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i love party and drug alphas! i married one :P
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:22 AM
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i don't think most women who leave marriages do so because they're not attracted to their husbands. i think that far more women end marriages over money, adultery, complacency, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:21 AM
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Yeah. Great. Just what men always wanted. also, this. like, what? you're complaining that marriage minded women want marriage. if you don't want to be a husband, then don't marry and just fuck sluts forever. not all women are going to expect you to gasp have a job and do boring grownup things like pay bills. hang out with those ones. i bet they're loads of fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:19 AM
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where did i describe "beta schlub"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:09 AM
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lol you're really hooked on this dead bedroom thing aren't you. it may shock you to learn that lots of women are attracted to their husbands and have lots of sex with them. i'm sorry if you're one of the guys who got stuck with table scraps and bills and a wife who won't fuck you, but it's not the norm despite what the miserable saps at MRP will tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:06 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:00 AM
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Well there you go then. Wait and see.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 12:47 AM
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Were you looking for the same things in life at 19 as you were at 29?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 12:44 AM
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I think TRPers get confused when they see young women fucking the hot degenerate and then marrying someone who's more mature and stable. I'm sure some women compromise on attraction to get a guy to marry them, but in my experience that's just not normal. Young women aren't looking for a husband. They don't care if he has a job or if he's a slob or if he's a dick a lot of the time, they're having some fun and aren't imagining what a lifetime with him is going to look like. Once they get closer to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 12:41 AM
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why would a man want to marry a woman who's never at home? would you marry a man who never ate dinner with you and avoided you for 4 hours every night?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 10:38 PM
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read the rest of the thread, i've already addressed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 10:35 PM
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You should never be ashamed of being a woman and all that entails. People will tell you that you have to behave like a man to succeed in life. This is a lie. Women make for bad men just as men make for bad women. Amen!
/r/RedPillWives30/10/18 09:28 PM
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Works for me! 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 08:18 PM
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Lol show me this I don't believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 08:00 PM
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If the bar to get a gf is impossibly high, how do you explain all the guys out there with gfs?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 07:06 AM
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I know a guy who only likes fat women and his friends rib on him for it constantly. I've had a friend of his come to me and ask me to set him up with someone who isn't fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 06:25 AM
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unacceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 06:20 AM
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what bar? to be a provider or to get a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 05:48 AM
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Same reason men are afraid of looking weak or wrong. Reputation matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 04:14 AM
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And why would that lead to arrested development in men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 03:20 AM
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Wow you've convinced me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 02:44 AM
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Because women don't require them to be providers anymore. Way back when if you didn't have your shit together you generally wouldn't get a gf/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:49 AM
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I am still to find a solitary woman in real life. Cause she's solitary, duh. How are you going to know women who just go to work and then go home alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:46 AM
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No, never. I talk on fb chat with my closest couple of girlfriends about every day, and see them once or twice a week. I talk to my family a couple times a week and see them once or twice a month. I work from home though and relish the hours I get home alone with my cat when my husband's at work! My husband has a wider but less intimate circle of friends, he socialises with them 2-3 times a week. His social circle tends to overlap quite a bit with his professional circle though, for what it's wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:42 AM
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I think it's a personality thing rather than a women thing. I would hate to go without proper meaningful contact for too long, but then so would my husband. We're both introverts but need downtime with our friends and family to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 09:49 PM
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Ok that's nice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 02:14 AM
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stop talking about what rights i think men should have. i've said over and over again that i'm not going there. Men and women have practically the exact same role when it comes to sex and parenthood, and those being related to reproduction this is patently ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 01:37 AM
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you said "men just want equal rights in terms of reproduction" i said "that is impossible because of the different biological roles that men and women play in reproduction". i did not say that i don't think men should have equal rights. i did not say that i have an opinion on what men should have, or what women should do. you went onto a weird rant about the military and employment and slavery and empathy and god knows what else, and when i didn't want to get involved in that conversation you wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 01:31 AM
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you've completely missed my point and i have no interest in explaining it to you if i'm just going to get MRA hysterics in response.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 01:16 AM
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as i said at the beginning, i was responding to this: Men want the same rights as women period. In custody, divorce and in reproductive. not this: Why should anyone be forced into Parenthood because they wanted sex? if you want to have the MRA side of the debate talk at someone else please, i'm not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 01:01 AM
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please stop MRAing at me i keep saying that it's not an argument i'm interested in having. it has nothing at all to do with my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 12:47 AM
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ah can i come over? i'll bring some spooky cookies. my mum was canadian and always went all out for halloween. we were the only house on the block that threw halloween parties and dressed the house up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 12:45 AM
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seconded. i hate the public holiday drought this time of year.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 12:42 AM
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where did i say that i think women should have or are entitled to more rights? you're tilting at windmills. if you want to go out and fight for financial abortion or abstinence or whatever, that's good for you. i'm not making any value judgement on this, except that it is stupid to overlook the fact that being pregnant vs making someone else pregnant are very different things. it is unfortunate that men don't have an easy out of a pregnancy like women do, but that easy out exists because the chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 12:32 AM
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you're just operating over a feeling that this is unfaaaaiiiirrr. which is fine, it's nice that you care about it. but feeling bad is not a solution and doesn't change reality, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 12:03 AM
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By that logic women should be barred from army and armed forces because women are biologically less strong than men and they can't even be held to the same physical standards. no, that doesn't follow at all. being less optimised for a job is not at all analogous to discussing how the reproductive system influences reproductive rights. and as a woman who has spent years in the military myself, i don't actually think that women should be allowed in physically demanding combat roles. where i live w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 10:59 PM
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Well yes, but until they have uteruses and can birth a child there will not be equal reproductive rights. There's no such thing as equal when biology is fundamentally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 08:57 PM
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My dad knows me better than I know myself, so I've always taken his advice very seriously. He's the only person I'd listen to on that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 12:50 PM
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/r/whereareallthegoodmen I've said it before, but if you spend your time hanging out in subreddits that exist for the sole purpose of bitching and sniggering like a bunch of miserable middle aged harpies, you're going have a pretty skewed idea of how normal women behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 08:00 PM
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People who need a job to keep from being vegetative are vapid to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 07:51 PM
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Not everyone needs a job to stay interesting. In fact I think it's a major flaw if you do. My mother never worked a day after becoming pregnant, and she was one of the most intelligent and interesting people I've ever known.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 06:51 PM
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There is no "purple pill" philosophy. It's just a catch-all for anything that's not red and not blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 11:56 PM
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I'm not going to explain basic stats to you. Go to school.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 11:55 PM
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Yup I know. Height can be overcome if you're hot in other ways, but in general taller = hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 11:53 PM
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Women were pretty crazy for Tom Cruise for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 07:50 PM
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Yeah there was breakcore during sex. And breakcore over dinner. And early morning breakcore when you're getting ready for work. And stacks of breakcore vinyl on every god damn surface of his house. He was a great guy and actually an amazing producer in his own right but I needed a little musical diversity y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 10:13 AM
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I had an ex who was really obsessed with niche 90s breakcore. Was probably equally awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 09:12 AM
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if you are a lesbian So, like, 0.8% of the population, at most. Super relevant, bud. Domestic violence as a whole is overwhelmingly male on female.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 08:26 AM
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I've literally never seen a cake recipe or a quilting pattern on RPWi
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 08:24 AM
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Percentage, yes. But in absolute terms lesbian violence is a drop in the ocean. Because lesbians are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 06:27 AM
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What about the idea that domestic violence is a male-on-female thing? Uh, it is a male on female thing. We both know that lesbians are outliers in this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 04:41 AM
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lol even without the link to the TV show that's weird music to get busy to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 09:04 PM
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So they're fucking their SMV match but not their RMV match. What is "looks match" anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 02:20 AM
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Yes. No one has an inherent number. You are as valuable as the person you can get to fuck/commit to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 02:19 AM
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Oh I've figured him out, which is why I manage his calendar for him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 01:54 AM
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Lol his friend invited him camping like a month from now, so he told me he's going to go and the date. He puts the camping trip in our calendar a month later than it actually is, then told me he can't do anything this coming weekend because of said camping trip. Which isn't for a month. He is a very smart man, but a total scatterbrain. Without a secretary/wife he'd be screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 11:35 PM
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Wow how did you get so clever
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 09:31 PM
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Godawful communication abilities. (e.g. Vaguely talking about planning a trip, and expecting to leave that day for it). TIL my husband is a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 09:28 PM
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insisted on meeting my mom Lol I had a boy take me out in high school and when he dropped me home late he wanted to impress my mum by walking me to the front door, like gentlemen apparently do. So instead of me just slipping in, he insisted on knocking on the door at midnight until my mum woke up and stumbled downstairs in a nightie thinking it was the cops. She was not impressed by this gentleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 09:25 PM
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He was incredibly good looking so I guess he thought that cancelled the rest of it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 09:19 PM
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Yes! He thought I might want to come over for some casual BDSM lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 09:17 PM
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I tried out online dating once and met up with what seemed like a really attractive guy planning to go for a drink. Straight up I'm getting weird vibes from him, but decide to stick it out for one drink then go home. While we're walking to the bar, we pass the dodgiest looking Indian curry place that I'm sure was just teeming with salmonella and he goes oh I'm starving, let's get curry first. I'm getting annoyed by now but say I'll sit with him while he eats his stupid curry. He's talking about …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 08:29 PM
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Ugh I work with a stunning black woman and recently found out she's well into her 40s. At 30 I basically live off sunscreen and botox and my skin will never look as good as hers!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 01:19 AM
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Yeah, I spose if you're spending your time fishing for WAATGM content you'll end up with a pretty skewed idea of women's happiness, or lack thereof. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 10:18 PM
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i'm actually curious now - do you actually think any significant portion of women who slept around in their youth come to regret it? if so, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 09:00 PM
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and the answer for most women is "I think back on it positively, it was fun". no one's saying "nothing bad happened, ever". of course it did. but OP specifically asked if we look back on it with fondness or regret, and a couple of awkward/bad experiences does not have me or most other women stewing in regret years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 08:50 PM
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The question wasn't "tell me about your bad experiences", it was "how do you look back on that time". Of course not every experience ever was a good one, but I don't think women are lying when they say it was generally a good time and they don't regret it. Why would a woman sleep around if she hated it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 08:44 PM
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"waaah women are saying something I don't like they must be lying!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 07:04 PM
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They were fun years, I'm glad I had them. I honestly never find myself thinking about sex I had with other people, but the period in general was a good time. How did they shape me? Well I have no worries that I ever missed out on anything, and I'm very aware of what makes me happy. It was fun at the time but I know I have no desire to relive it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 11:26 AM
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It's no big secret that women's looks fade. We all know there's a timer on our beauty, hearing guys talk about it isn't exactly novel. When my last relationship ended at 26 I was a little nervous, but it all worked out great and I met my now husband soon after. I don't feel any insecurity over aging now, and any insecurity I felt when I was single had nothing to do with internet talk of the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 11:11 AM
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We have to go back and forth quite a bit for his work anyway, so I think we'd actually fly less if we lived there lol I loooove NYC and a move will be great for his career so it's a no brainer really, I just feel sorry for my poor old dad!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 07:06 AM
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Superior at being men, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 07:02 AM
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I'm more talking about what feminism is saying women should be, rather than the issues it has with men. Women and men have bought into its idea that if a woman isn't good at being a man she's defective. Just look at the other replies in this thread for proof that men have bought into feminism's version of a "woman". Hurr women r dum cuz they're not strong and can't do math You're right that feminism doesn't like masculinity in men, but that wasn't the point I was making.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 06:56 AM
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No would just be for a year or 2 and with frequent trips back so not too bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 02:41 AM
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We're considering a move to NY for work and am feeling so much guilt! I know my dad and his mum would be so lost if we left :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 12:07 AM
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Right, I agree that it's a personal definition. I've always considered MRAs to be very SJW. I don't think it has anything to do with political alignment, but MRAs absolutely believe their fighting for their own "social justice". I don't see how left/right affects that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:47 PM
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If being a feminist isn't a prerequisite to being a SJW, then why would you not consider at least some MRAs to be SJWs? What makes a SJW?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:40 PM
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Can you elaborate? I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:28 PM
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I think that historically men and women looked up to their own gender, but feminism fucked with that and convinced girls (and boys) that masculinity is the only acceptable end-goal (edit: for women). Be tough, be rich, be a CEO, you go giirrrrrlll-isms are fine in themselves, but they had to simultaneously denigrate roles and characteristics that have always been women's. When mainstream feminism/culture deems femininity a defect, the only option becomes to compete with men to be men. Women try …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:27 PM
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Yeah but why? You're just restating the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:14 PM
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The only people truly into "body positivity" are fat women telling other fat women that they're hot. No one else believes it. If fat men want to start a movement about how hot they are, they're very welcome to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:13 PM
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Are there any SJWs who are not feminists? Would you consider MRAs to be SJWs?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 10:19 PM
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Why do you think women have such a strong in-group bias while men lack it? Women fare better when they have an in-group to look after and be looked after by. Men are more competitive and will always individualistically compete over women, resources, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 08:51 PM
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Why should FEMinists care about whether men like their jobs or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 08:45 PM
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Oh god I'm so sorry. How awful. I hope he makes a good recovery xx
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 09:18 AM
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Lol my friend's dad is this big burly biker dude and is obsessed with lego. We met him at her birthday party and my poor husband into an endless lego conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 09:17 AM
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Easier for a woman to get the kind of sex that she doesn't want. I know this is really difficult to understand, but for women, bad sex is worse than no sex at all. Being able to convince some guy to dump his load into you is not enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 07:33 AM
3

MDMA, then new face. You can do both, drugs are just a lot cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 07:07 AM
3

You need MDMA
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 06:40 AM
3

You're obviously not a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 01:52 AM
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That's not at all what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 01:52 AM
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Yeah it's easy for a woman to get laid for like the 10 or so years of her life that she's young and attractive. That doesn't speak to what women actually want, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 09:57 PM
1

Bye, Felicia
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 04:53 AM
2

That's nice but it wasn't the question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 04:23 AM
2

Yep, and I make a point of not replying to people who type like retards. There's plenty of normal people on here to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 04:21 AM
3

Do you want to try that again in English? I'm not responding to garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 03:44 AM
1

who's ever said that money and books make you hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 03:02 AM
2

Look, people can do whatever they want. I couldn't care less if you fuck a robot. The OP asked if I found it gross and the answer is yes yes yes. If you want to cry about that being shaming then go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 09:23 PM
2

Yeah totally my tattoo friends are all very active on IG.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 08:49 PM
4

I know a few successful tattoo artists, and the ones that do really well with it are the ones with a distinctive style and a bit of a following. They're booked out months in advance and are often touring to different cities to do guest spots at different tattoo shops. They also all have a pretty serious fine art background, and were formally trained in other mediums before they got into tattooing. You really want to try to send her down that path rather than the girl making $15 an hour inking pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 08:33 PM
3

According to the super cute letter he wrote me for our anniversary: I have a beautiful, bright way of looking at the world. Nothing is a given, I explore my own thoughts and ideas endlessly. I'm strong and loving in equal measure. I'm good under pressure. He can rely on me to not fall to bits when things go horribly wrong. He flatters me <3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 09:02 AM
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Not that often here to be fair. It seems to have fallen out of vogue thank god. There was a period though where you couldn't go anywhere on the internet without some supremely intelligent asswad reciting a list of fallacies at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 08:50 PM
2

fallacy fallacy!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 08:07 PM
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Stop shouting it's cunty sheesh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 08:02 PM
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I'd ban people from screeching "___ fallacy!". The only people who ever use that are smug kids who listened to one Hitchens lecture and think they're smarter than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 07:46 PM
1

Yup exactly. JG isn't my physical type at all but I'd go there in an instant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 03:07 AM
1

Lol just what I thought
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 03:02 PM
2

So will your answer the question or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 11:58 AM
2

Hahah I'm aussie. Whitebunny if you remember my old username.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 09:55 AM
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Girls are not boys and don't like random photos of genitals like we do. Amen!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 08:36 AM
2

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 06:58 AM
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it was cute when we started dating but ffs give it a break you moron
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 05:09 AM
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Oh o know, I wasn't taking a stab at you. I was referencing this exchange I had with /u/lewiscross yesterday where he snarks about women and how they'll never help you if you get fat, they'll just leave. Now today he's snarking about a woman who did stay and help. I'm wondering if there is actually an appropriate response to your husband getting fat, or if he just enjoys bitching for the sake of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 04:58 AM
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omg you actually sent a dick pic? why? you seem like a totally reasonable person! can you explain your thought process in doing that? edit: nevermind i can't read today. you said IF you sent her a dick pic, not that you did lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 01:10 AM
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in your opinion Lewis, what is the "correct" way for a woman to behave in a situation where her husband is not taking care of himself? where for example he's eating himself into obesity and developing serious health problems. where it is impossible to be sexually attracted to him because he's fat and gross and lazy. what is the best response to a situation like this? i'm not saying that /u/looksafefromfaraway's method was correct, just curious about your opinion on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 01:05 AM
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If I cared about the job more than the guy I wouldn't do it. If I preferred him to the job and it had long term potential I'd go for it, but I'd probably start looking for other work once we got together. I can see that getting super messy, there's other jobs out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 06:27 AM
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This is exactly what you should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 06:09 AM
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This actually happened to me lol. Right as we were getting undressed this guy told me "by the way, this is my first time". We were both about 22 I guess. It was a total turn off and things stopped right there. I felt kinda bad rejecting him at the last minute, but I didn't want to be his teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 06:05 AM
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I know. Fucking robots is disgusting though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 04:08 AM
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The body and the face are relevant to me. I have no problem with men or women who sleep around, men or women who fuck robots will always be gross to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 02:39 AM
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Chill dude it was a question you're going to give yourself an aneurysm. Edit: you should stop going back and changing your posts after I've replied to them. You've completely changed your point and this isn't the first time you've done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:55 PM
1

I'm looooving aphex twin's new ep It's some of his best stuff yet imo and takes me back to my early 20s when I was obsessed with anything that sounded like aliens playing pots and pans. Otherwise these days I'm listening to a lot of minimal techno and neo soul
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:50 PM
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Lol read it again. I asked how men at MRP would respond to a woman who blew out to 330 pounds. How is that at all repeating anything you said?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:33 PM
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That's not what I said but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:12 PM
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No they're not basically the same thing. We can go back and forth like this all day but it will be a waste of time. You won't convince me that fucking a robot with a body and a face is anything like using a vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 10:55 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 10:54 PM
1

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theory_of_forms
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 10:16 PM
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Lol I'd love to see MRP's advice for dealing with a woman who allowed herself to become morbidly obese, to the point where she's developing serious medical conditions. I'd don't think it's unreasonable to expect your spouse to treat their bodies with a little respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 10:14 PM
2

Well yeah obviously all other things being equal a woman is going to prefer a fit guy over a fat one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:24 PM
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A sex toy without a body would be fine. But it's not a sex bot. I'm sorry but sex bots will always be gross to me. Hookers over robots any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:16 PM
2

They're not muscular at all. What does that have to do with your post?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:15 PM
3

It is literally gay
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:54 PM
1

Are the cute singer guys muscular?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:53 PM
2

Make strippers are a joke. No woman goes to see a stripper to get turned on, it's a silly experience to giggle along with your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:52 PM
1

You weren't more confident after the weight loss?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:51 PM
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Yeah, I'm tired of the incels trying to convince us that the thought of a man fucking a robot is anything less than nauseating. It will never not be gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:49 PM
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Because it's unnatural and creepy and there are plenty of real women out there willing to fuck for money. And don't try comparing it to a dildo. A dildo doesn't have a weird robot face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:48 PM
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Fucking a robot will always be more disgusting than fucking a human in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:26 PM
1

Ew no that's just fat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:23 PM
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like this I think of a guy who used to be fit but stopped working out and drinks a few too many beers. Skinny arms and a chubby belly. I don't find it sexually attractive, but it is possible for a man to be sexually attractive in spite of it. Jon Hamm is borderline dad bod in that pic. If he doesn't take care of things soon he'll slip into dad bod. The other 2 are just fat. I don't think of obese when I think of dad bod, that's beyond dad bod territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:06 PM
2

Wow. Poor Robbie 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 06:58 PM
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i don't care what his vice is and whether or not it's legal, i just don't want to be with an addict. edit: assuming you're picking between a pot addict and an alcoholic i'd choose the pot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 03:37 AM
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Boys for Pele was mine!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 11:42 PM
2

find other ways to fulfill it. i also have a novelty seeking personality and know very well the feeling you're talking about. i think that young women like us fulfill that need with promiscuity when they're young - short, intense flings with hot sex and connection are a very easy and fun way to get that buzz, but it's not the only way. whenever i'm starting to feel a bit that way, i tell my husband straight up and we go and do something exciting. a weekend trip away, a difficult hike, a scuba tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 11:29 PM
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I'm not talking about now, where it is a few "bad apples" on the internet. Which is why I'm not an angry feminist. I roll my eyes and move on with my day. I'm saying that if I lived in a time where the patriarchy was the dominant culture and women as a whole were expected to be deferrent to men as a whole, I'd be mad and probably join the first/second wave feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 10:12 PM
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if i was expected to submit to men i don't respect, yeah i'd be unhappy about it. how is that being disrespectful to men as a whole? white nationalists can be angry about whatever they want to be angry about. that's not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 10:05 PM
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Spoken like a woman for whom sex is like water: Easy to get, plentiful, and everywhere so, like every young woman then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 09:19 PM
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I don't know what this has to do with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 09:58 AM
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No not really
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 08:59 AM
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What's your gender, and do you have female friends? Female, yes How do your friendships with women differ from your friendships with men? I don't have any really close male friends who aren't gay. I have friendly acquaintances and my husband's friends, but most of my male friends have drifted over the years. My friendships with women have always been far closer and more intimate than with men. Do you feel your inter-gender (or same-gender) friendships with women have changed your views on gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 04:31 AM
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I never had any problems with the patriarchy, because in my personal life it had always been a net positive. I grew up with a great involved father who led the family and looked after us all well, my older brother was always kind and protective, I married a great man who inspires deference, etc. Generally all of the men around me who wanted some kind of control over me earnt it and gave me something worthwhile in return. The internet has shown me the kind of men who think they deserve power simp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 03:36 AM
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/r/femininenotfeminist
/r/RedPillWives08/10/18 09:27 PM
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Dr Strangelove Soy Cuba When Harry met Sally Lost in translation Fitzcarraldo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 09:25 AM
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She was beautiful, I'm sorry :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 06:32 AM
2

I heard about a woman who would cook with a bit of her husband's ashes every anniversary. I like your tomato idea though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 05:00 AM
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Hang on I'll just ask my husband if he thinks that's romantic. Nope, he doesn't want to be eaten, dead or alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:58 AM
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Ugh you're all gross. Unsalted!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:11 AM
2

It me!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 01:32 AM
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You're a fucking mess
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 12:14 AM
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Bunny is still here 🐰 Just wanted a fresh start
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 08:52 PM
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We were both in the military at the time. He fancied himself as being much better than me, so was humiliated and lost his marbles when I dumped him. Went to my CO and told all sorts of ridiculous stories about me. Said I'd crashed his car and owed him thousands of dollars. Said I had a serious gambling problem. Said I had been pregnant with a PTs kid. Said that I had coeliac disease so shouldn't be deployed. So many weird lies lol. Luckily no one took them seriously. I thought it was all settlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 11:04 AM
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You're doing it again. You might have been able to use your mental gymnastics to justify fucking your baby momma and humiliating your girlfriend, but I suggest you come back into the real world sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 09:41 AM
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The guy's an ass but the whole "not even ducks would eat bread from you" insult is so bizarre it's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 06:24 AM
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You're so fucking weird
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 06:21 AM
1

I still don't know what cope even means
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:58 AM
2

You mean you misread it. You don't need to overintellectualise your way into being right all the time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:53 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:33 AM
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They can go be strong and resolute somewhere else pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:33 AM
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+/u/User_Simulator justagumnut
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:29 AM
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You missed the first / before the u +/u/User_Simulator Gravel_Roads
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:57 AM
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Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:56 AM
1

Ugh why does it do this help me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:55 AM
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+/u/User_Simulator justagumnut
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:55 AM
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Cope
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:54 AM
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What does this have to do with the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:37 AM
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What? Read it again, he's saying the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 11:08 PM
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Oh probably cause you're a guy. I don't gush about my husband to other men lol, that'd be weird. It's girl talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 10:26 PM
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Ya me too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 10:07 PM
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I see quality women bragging about their partners all the time in real life. Having a great husband who you're happy with is a huge status marker among some women. The only women I see bitching about their partners are lower class trashy types.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 10:05 PM
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There we go, that wasn't so hard, was it!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 09:01 AM
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Yeah I tried to look after a few of the ones I really cared about, but a junkie is a junkie until they decide not to be. My help was only enabling them and made it hurt even more when they fucked up. I never had any personal issues with dating. I dated a lot, with a lot of different types, and that helped me figure out what works for me and what doesn't. My husband is similar to me in that he's a weirdo in disguise so we get each other like that. I think most dating issues that young people are …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 07:46 AM
1

Ok, I'll ask again. Is there a practical difference between MSTOWs and incels, or is it just how they are perceived/like to perceive themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 07:36 AM
1

What was your clique?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 07:22 AM
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The guys who didn't check out and remained are not doing very well. Totally. There's definitely two groups that came out of that scene. I'm still friends with a lot of the grown up functional ones, the others are all burnt out or dead. Any serious issues you think you have with modern dating? What do you mean? Issues I've personally had or things I take issue with?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 07:18 AM
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Oh it was! I highly recommend a psychedelic bush rave creature phase to everyone. It's never too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 07:16 AM
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In high school I'd skip school to smoke weed with the punks at the beach, and carried on with that crowd through university. When I finished uni I bought a one way ticket to Europe and train hopped/squatted with punks for a couple of years. When I got home I discovered acid and had a dreadlocked bush rave creature phase for a few years. When I grew out of that I opened a music venue and slowly normified to the point where I pass as a regular person now. I was lucky in that I was always a very fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 07:08 AM
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You'll definitely be accused of rape. Best to hide in your room forever and stay well clear of the big, bad world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:35 AM
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Number three is the real reason imo. So many people with zero social skills trying to school us on social dynamics. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:14 AM
2

That's a non-answer and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:36 PM
2

You differentiate between MGTOW and MSTOW, and I'm asking what specifically is the difference between MSTOWs and incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:53 PM
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Because I'm trying to figure out what the hell he's talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 07:31 PM
1

I didn't ask about MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 07:31 PM
1

So is there any practical difference between MSTOWs and incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:57 PM
2

Oh my god your yard is a dream can I build a little cottage and live there pls?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 12:12 PM
1

I still don't get the difference between MSTOWs and incels. Is it just the guy's attitude toward being celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 12:05 PM
1

Ugh yes I developed shin splints when I was in the air force and if I run more than once or twice a week now they come back with a vengeance. Planning to get into swimming this summer but hate what pools do to my skin :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 12:02 PM
8

Have you heard of fun before?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:44 AM
1

You're an artist, baby
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:44 AM
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Lol did you make that diagram? I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:25 AM
5

Yes! "My wife doesn't fuck me like she did when we were 22!" "Do you still seduce her and flirt with her like you did at 22?" ...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 06:07 AM
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Hahaha yeah it was cute. They put on a big candlelit vegan Christmas feast and all. The train hoppers end up in Montreal too for the summer. They call them "squeegees" up there cause they all earn their money cleaning windscreens at the traffic lights.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 10:13 PM
1

Aw I love the Detroit crust punks. I spent Christmas with them once and they're super sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:55 PM
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I love her. I'm actually reading sex, art and American culture right now and I think she's actually turned me into a Madonna fan lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:51 PM
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Still not funny. Sorry dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 08:49 PM
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Are you trying to be funny too?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 10:23 AM
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Asking a question is trolling now? Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 10:21 AM
2

Chuck one in for his wife too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:30 AM
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exhibit A, wherein as a show of manly alphaness, he hogties his son with his wife's bondage rope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:16 AM
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Bluepillprofessor. Look at his post history, it's hilariously fucked up. He also made some alt offering MRP marriage counseling and his alts would talk to each other and just wtf all round.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:11 AM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:34 AM
2

Don't be so fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:30 AM
1

Have you ever considered that men and women are not the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:15 AM
2

Is BPP taken seriously over there? I can't figure out if he's considered a joke or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:05 AM
1

What's a beaner?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:03 AM
1

GMT +10
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:30 PM
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I've only seen sublime and she's a knockout so 1 point for her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:00 PM
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waves 🐰
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 08:48 PM
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Bleep bloop. Must not feel. Feeling = female.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:33 PM
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You're not as clever as you think you are and whenever you post I cringe in second hand embarassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:58 PM
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🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:56 PM
2

Sipping through a straw causes lip wrinkles
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:54 AM
1

Lol do you think guys have any idea when their gf's period is due?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 04:37 AM
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This is a complicated one, and I don't know the specifics at CERN, but can speak to my own experience as someone with a PhD in physics. I personally haven't seen gender quotas play out in my industry. I know that some government departments have them, but in the private sector they simply can't afford to not have the best of the best there. And physics isn't really a field where you can just sort of float on through. Something I do see, though, is some older men who are struggling to adapt to a …
/r/RedPillWives02/10/18 01:05 AM
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+/u/User_Simulater justagumnut
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:48 PM
3

Needs more hysterics!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:45 PM
1

Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:26 AM
2

Ok let me re-word. I don't care if it is sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:10 AM
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I don't care if you call it sexism, men and women are different and I'll treat them as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:02 AM
1

Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:43 AM
2

You can't treat me different for being a man just because you think men have certain tendencies. I absolutely can
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:26 AM
1

Yeah, everything I've said has gone way over your head. Nice talking but I'm done.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:05 AM
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Not every man, no. But sex differences, which I absolutely believe in, are the reason that men and women are treated differently. If you can't understand this then there's no point talking further.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 08:36 AM
1

No, you conform to the culture you're in. This is why you can be charged abroad for something that isn't a crime in your own country.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 08:34 AM
3

Hahaha. "Now take this money, but PROMISE me you'll spend it on hookers and not video games"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:46 AM
3

I think we should make a PPD gofundme once a year to get one lucky incel laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 05:29 AM
2

Good luck with that!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 05:18 AM
1

Of course you can. What's considered socially acceptable in one context or culture is not acceptable in another. It sounds perfectly normal for people to call each other baby where you live. Where i live, it would be really weird. "Harrassment" doesn't exist in a vacuum. It only exists as a concept because people feel harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 05:01 AM
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I mean that not all humans are exactly the same, and that people will interpret the same action differently depending on who it came from. Sexual predators are almost always men, so when an older man calls a young woman baby there is a connotation of sexual predation and people are uncomfortable with it. If a strange old man calls me baby, I can be pretty certain he's thinking about me in a sexual way and will not like that. Old ladies using pet names is almost always in a nurturing context, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 04:51 AM
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Because male's sexuality is predatory and women's is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 04:02 AM
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Have you never heard of culture? We're not all robots as much as you guys would like that to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 03:36 AM
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It's not harrassment if no one feels harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 03:35 AM
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An older man calling a girl "baby" has sexual connotations. An older lady calling you "love" does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 03:32 AM
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Does it bother you? If yes, ask her to stop. If no, stop worrying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 10:36 AM
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Lol. Also nobody asked about Spiderman or his half baked thoughts on a movie he's never seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 08:00 AM
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That's completely different to baby
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 06:01 AM
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Old ladies don't call strangers "baby". This is such a stupid hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 03:49 AM
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How is this different to "MGTOWs who aren't losers"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 03:46 AM
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A maid doesn't cost that much. We have a girl come by once a week for all the menial jobs, and a dishwasher takes care of the rest. Costs like $50 a week and means I never have to clean the bathroom ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 10:22 PM
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Haha yep as an INTP that sounds like hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 10:19 PM
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/r/redpillwhores
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 10:04 PM
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Yep I get what you're saying. I'm not talking about every kid, obviously. But until recently there has always been a big subset of youth culture that is dedicated to pushing boundaries and redefining normal. This had usually been done outside the confines of neuroticism and rules. Look at punk, woodstock, rock n roll, the beat generation, the early freetek/rave days. It was all born in an atmosphere of freedom and radicalism that doesn't exist anymore. I know this is all abstract to you because …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 09:31 PM
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This is a terrible idea. Most nerds stay nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 09:02 PM
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Yeah, I think there's a huge difference between a truly subversive youth culture and drug escapism though. We had the same crowd when I was young, only the drug of choice was heroin. Those weren't the kids I'm talking about though, who were creating and pushing a whole movement. The kids I'm talking about were acutely political and radical. You go to a "radical", "Avant Garde" event nowadays and it's all wrapped up in tumblresque restrictions. Don't say this, don't wear that, be careful, pronoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 08:52 PM
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I actually have the best pumpkin soup recipe. This one is just so perfect. https://www.seriouseats.com/recipes/2016/11/classic-butternut-squash-soup-recipe.html
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 11:42 AM
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Aw congrats! Cute baby and your wife is real pretty <3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 11:37 AM
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Wtf on what planet would touching someone else's dick not be cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 11:32 AM
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It's practically the holocaust!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 07:38 AM
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Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 07:07 AM
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while the men of RPW basically advise to make yourself a plate. I still cannot fathom why anyone would think it's wise to listen to these men. What kind of man thinks the best use of his time is chattering away at women in a girl's club? It's the stupid leading the blind and is so gross to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 05:26 AM
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Comparing TRPs reddit quarantine to apartheid lol. So dramatic!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 04:45 AM
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Decency according to who? They're a business, not your best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 12:00 AM
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According to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 11:56 PM
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You don't get it. They're acting like it's for the greater good because that's what their desired customers want to hear. It's business. Why would they bother themselves with being honest and transparent so that people they don't want around feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 11:55 PM
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Why should they do anything that doesn't directly benefit their business? Business has never been about appealing to people who aren't even in your desired market.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 11:45 PM
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Why should they? It does absolutely nothing good for their brand by explaining their business decisions. They don't owe us anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 11:42 PM
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There's nothing to justify. Reddit the business doesn't want to be associated with them, so they're hiding them. It's never been about hate speech or wrong think, you are all so dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 11:17 PM
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Aren't you super religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 09:18 PM
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Society's "normal" has become more socially progressive, but people's desire to push outside of what's deemed normal has withered and died. Even in the last 15 years where I've been out of home I've watched kids and youth culture become so careful and rule bound. They love it and it's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 08:57 PM
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Women are more likely to be fluid with their sexuality. I think "true" bisexual women are rare, but lots of sexually open women will experiment with and enjoy other women for fun. Partly because it's hot to men and they like the attention, but also just for fun's sake. Almost all of the "bi" women I grew up around are married to men now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 08:51 PM
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When being gay and having casual sex and being a weird club kid is destigmatized and demystified, the fervor around such things subside. You don’t need to go to a gay bath house to interact sexually with another gay man today, you can just openly date a man and have regular sex with your partner like a straight person can. It's partly this, but with certain things becoming mainstream youth culture has stopped looking at subversion as something important. Like, being subversive for its own sake. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 08:46 PM
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They have a brand they want to push, and TRP doesn't fit with that. It's no political conspiracy, it's just business.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 02:58 AM
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trp.red
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 02:55 AM
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I'm red. How am I being dramatic? I'm literally saying nothing is going to happen lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 01:41 AM
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It's not about "worst", it's about who reddit, the brand, wish to be associated with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 01:30 AM
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Voat already exists, just go there?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 01:29 AM
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Ok come back to me in 6 months and show me how reddit has crashed and burned because they quarantined TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 01:27 AM
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You're overestimating how much of reddit TRP takes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 12:41 AM
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Yeah I'm planning on it thanks 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 10:46 PM
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I doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 10:45 PM
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Reddit is a left leaning company, they're not bound to be "fair" to subreddits they don't want to be associated with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 09:35 PM
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Reddit is a private business, they can disallow whatever they like. It has nothing to do with 1984 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 09:31 PM
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Huh? My last 3 jobs have come through LinkedIn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 06:57 AM
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Is almost like if you're unattractive you need to bring something else to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 05:55 AM
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A quiz thing that's meant to analyse your looks and give silhouettes, fabrics, patterns, etc that are meant to suit you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 02:46 AM
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i'm with you on the family thing. my dad, both grandfathers and brothers are all over 6'4 so i feel like it's ingrained in me that height = masculine. also being 5'10 myself i definitely want someone taller than myself. it has happened, but it's very rare that i find a man shorter than me attractive/masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 10:35 PM
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I'm 5'10, he's 6'2. I'm generally not attracted to shorter guys, so his height was a plus. I don't think my height have much of a difference. His ex was really short so I guess he likes both. We're the same age, he was born a few months before me. I usually preferred guys a bit older than me, but he was very established and mature for his age so it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 08:40 PM
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Describe your appearance. 7ish now. 8-9 when I was young. I was alternative though so was in a niche SMP. I'm tall and slim with light colouring, I've been compared to "Cate Blanchett but with a less manly face". How old are you and how many partners have you had (LTRs, FWBs, ONSs counting everything including handjobs and oral)? 31 years old, and I've lost count. More than 50. Describe the first partner you had, and your current SO. Compare the two and emphasize the differenes. First partner wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 01:06 AM
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you inferred that. That's on YOU. Don't put words in my mouth. lol You are the most intellectually inconsistent poster on here and if you deny how ridiculous you're being in this exchange you're just playing dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 10:39 PM
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Watch what happens when a woman gets fat and stops fucking her husband. Men don't love women for some cosmic selfless reason either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 01:15 AM
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"listen up, faggots..." 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 01:10 AM
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Every minute you spend writing these essays is making things worse for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 10:46 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 09:14 AM
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I was responding to OP's However, I think there is another category of men other than thrill-seekers that will do it. The people that are so frustrated that it can't possibly make things worse. They think their life is so bad there is no way it could get worse even if they get side-effects from experimenting with drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 09:06 AM
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I was responding to OP's However, I think there is another category of men other than thrill-seekers that will do it. The people that are so frustrated that it can't possibly make things worse. They think their life is so bad there is no way it could get worse even if they get side-effects from experimenting with drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 09:05 AM
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Positive: hugely invested in my happiness and safety. Does and sacrifices so much for me, but never brings it up or uses it as a bargaining chip. strong personal principles that he always sticks to, even when he really doesn't want to motivated and curious and independent personality. Always doing something exciting and fun. super hot whenever we have seafood he always leaves a little bit uneaten and sneaks it into the cat's dish Flaws: takes things personally and sulks in anger when he feels he…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 03:42 AM
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Rock climbers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 02:27 AM
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I'm not sure what you're getting at now. You just said that desperate guys with nothing to lose would use this stuff, and then gave a list of reasons why they wouldn't. The effects of testosterone and steroids on the body and personality are not anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 01:08 AM
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I agree most men won't want to try a DIY approach. However, I think there is another category of men other than thrill-seekers that will do it. The people that are so frustrated that it can't possibly make things worse. They think their life is so bad there is no way it could get worse even if they get side-effects from experimenting with drugs. Test and steroids are readily available and cheap if you're willing to DIY it. Why aren't these desperate guys doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 12:27 AM
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This kinda thing is pretty normal in my husband's circles, both for work and for fun. Most obvious SMV-wise is testosterone. They're all pretty serious climbers so most of his friends have used extra T at some point to help with that. You can always tell when a guy is running a cycle because all of a sudden his climbs improve, he bulks up and is louder/funnier/more aggressive. He had a real nerdy wimpy friend go on it to help his climbs, and then as a side effect dumped his bitchy girlfriend and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 12:04 AM
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Why do you even come into these threads if you're just going to cry about women being liars? It's so predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 08:59 PM
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All neckbeards are unattractive, but not all unattractive men are neckbeards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 08:25 PM
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Calling her on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 08:18 PM
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How much do you think about past partners during sex? Never How much do you compare current sex-partners to past sex-partners? Never To what extent does sex lose its magic/pleasure/enjoyment as you have more of it, or increase your N-count, or both? The opposite. The more sex I have the more I enjoy it. The sex I'm having now at 30 with plenty of partners behind me is far better than when I was inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 10:09 AM
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Oh I know it happens. It just happens on a much smaller scale than the internet would have you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 08:29 AM
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Yeah makes sense. Our system works great here, probably wouldn't translate to the US very well. Edit: we're also raised in a system where healthcare is deemed a basic right and a responsibility of the government to provide. The idea of anyone having to make decisions on medical treatment due to finances just feels super wrong to us. Same with going into debt or bankruptcy over medical bills. It just doesn't make any sense to us which is why you'll get people like us freaking out over your system…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 11:28 PM
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Yeah, maybe. America is far bigger and more diverse than Australia. But in terms of actual tax dollars spent per person, we really don't pay much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 10:19 PM
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Australia's system is very similar. I take out private cover because once you earn over a certain amount you get a tax break if you do. I mainly use it for free glasses, physio and sports massages. I use the public system for everything else and it's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 09:13 PM
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Australia has a very similar system and we spend less (like half) tax dollars per capita than the US. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_total_health_expenditure_per_capita
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 09:11 PM
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I live in Australia, have also lived in the US/Canada for a while. Stayed in big cities for both. I found the SMP to be more or less the same here and there. Young people going out, dating, hooking up and eventually marrying. However, there is a huuuuge difference between the SMP I see in real life and the SMP I see talked about on here. It's completely unfamiliar and a product of the internet. Most of the things I see discussed on here (incels, divorce rape, paternity fraud, false rape accusati…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 08:59 PM
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Lol are you high?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 08:18 AM
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Sports cars and cruises?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 07:08 AM
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We enjoy sex with certain men under certain circumstances. Being used as a wet hole for a guy who wants nothing else to do with you is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:59 PM
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No I agree with that. It wasn't my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:03 PM
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Being fucked by a man who wants nothing else to do with you is nothing. Often worse than nothing. This is a female thing that you guys just don't understand no matter how many times it's said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 08:22 PM
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It's a combination of an irrational draw that he has that piques that in me, and also watching his behaviour and realising he's super competent and has my best interests at heart. I think "inspires" and "earns" are different, but you're right that both originate on his end.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 08:16 PM
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A bit of both. I wouldn't be happy with a man that didn't naturally inspire deference in me. On the same hand though, you're not going to feel that will to be deferent all the time, and I think it's then in your relationship's best interest to actively provide it. My husband "deserves" the deference that he gets, and that's part of what makes it work. I make an effort even on my or his off days to preserve that dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:37 AM
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The Food Lab by Kenji Lopez-Alt is my all time fave. If you don't know him, check out his Food Lab recipes on the Serious Eats website. He breaks a recipe right down, spends weeks fiddling with every so gle variable, then writes the ultimate recipe and explains with science why it works so well. Everything I've ever cooked from his book/website has been a hit. I also love a cookbook put out by a local cafe. They make all their own everything from scratch (bread, cheese, pickles, preserves, etc) …
/r/RedPillWives19/09/18 03:35 AM
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Right. I thought he was talking about actual violence, not gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 08:56 PM
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Aw that's a shame, sorry to hear things aren't going well :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 09:15 AM
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Yeah but you're like 20 and in an LTR aren't you? When I was a teenager people would be hung up/curious about each other's counts. As soon as we all grew up a bit no one gave a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 04:39 AM
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I think this says more about the men than the women, tbh, and it's hilarious. I don't know when all these neurotic dudes popped up but I'm so glad I'm off the market lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 04:33 AM
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I've never heard women apply number ratings to men lol. "Omg he's so hot" or "wow he's so good at x" or whatever, but my girlfriends have never said "he's an 8".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 03:56 AM
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Where are you guys finding all these scary, dangerous, violent women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 03:54 AM
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If I was ever going to be super into him I'd know about it after like 2 or 3 dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 03:48 AM
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I'd sometimes go on casual dates with multiple guys concurrently, but as soon as I started to catch feelings or sleep with one of them the others would get dropped.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 03:44 AM
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That's convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 03:38 AM
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Ok show me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 03:12 AM
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Show me where they're saying they're scared of sex dolls. You're making this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 03:00 AM
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Show me a woman who's scared. I've never seen this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 02:49 AM
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Lol you're killing me 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 10:32 PM
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Lol i live in Australia too, but I stayed a few nights in Winnipeg once and it is the only place in Canada that I felt remotely unsafe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 10:30 PM
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Winnipeg?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 09:39 PM
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The most obnoxious laughter. Just constant bellowing in some unknown language, like donkeys fucked a blue whale. Lol I know exactly what noise you're talking about. Seriously though that sucks. Keep calling those noise complaints in. Like, every night they're noisy after 10. Twice in a night if you need to. Record it on your phone. The cops will eventually start fining them and they'll shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 08:54 AM
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I never said anything about you, why are you taking it personally? I said that it is unattractive to women when guys carry on in a feminine brained way. You'll notice my flair is red, I'm not sure what you're disagreeing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 11:11 PM
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That women don't want to date neurotic, feminine boys? Wow what a novel idea. You got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 09:15 PM
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What social barriers?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 03:15 AM
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But you won't do that either. What is it that you want? Women to approach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 03:04 AM
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What hierarchy? Where does the hierarchy come from and how is it defined? Stop downvoting me please it's petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 03:02 AM
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So go network ffs. A requirement for being attractive is being able to find and talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 02:58 AM
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Ok, what defines what an apex man is then, if it's not defined by what women want? Don't just list the qualities again, why are these qualities considered high value?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 02:50 AM
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Women define what is an apex man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 02:47 AM
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Yes, so what I said then. Women decide what's attractive and men seek to be that. Not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 02:36 AM
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What kind of social barriers. Give examples please.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 10:47 PM
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In the real world, yeah. On PPD the guys are absurdly neurotic. It comes across as weird and super feminine imo. I don't see guys like that in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 09:53 PM
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Status as defined by what women want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 09:48 PM
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Oh no don't say that you'll get an essay on why he definitely isn't a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 09:47 PM
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There's a big difference between using this place as a time killer/entertainment, and writing obsessive manifestos with citations and appendices. Either way, I've got what I want from life. OP is complaining that good men like him can't get women. I'm telling him that indulging in this weirdness isn't helping his cause. He can do whatever he wants, I'm just pointing out that from the outside there is a very obvious reason he's not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 09:44 PM
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You're not getting laid because you're the type of guy who writes million word manifestos on the internet about how you can't get laid. You're wasting your time with all this ridiculous pontificating and just making things worse for yourself. The more you obsess over this stuff the more difficult it will be to come back to the real world where normal people are all dating and fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 09:25 PM
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I love my kindle because a lot of my reading is on the train to work or while traveling. I read like 90% of my books in there and if I really love it I'll order a paper copy to keep at home. I love having a library and being able to lend books to friends. Favourite book of all time was The Brothers Karamazov. Fave feelgood that I keep going back to is To the Lighthouse. I recently finished Widow Basquiat and Patti Smith's Just Kids and loved them both.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 08:48 PM
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People should date who they want. People keep saying here that you can tell about a person's character and approach to sex based on their count, and I agree, but my husband and I are on the other side of the fence. We're both sociable, sexual people with plenty of partners in our histories. I don't know who's had more, and I don't care. If he was the type of man who wanted a blushing virgin to marry then we wouldn't have been compatible. We're not sexually inhibited people. Sex is fun. I'd be we…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 08:38 PM
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Of course they can. And women can judge men as being weird and neurotic when they care so much about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 08:22 PM
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Good thing you're not fucking your bank then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 08:17 PM
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Still weird
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 04:59 PM
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It just screams neuroticism to even care. If a guy's all worked up about n count he's unattractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 04:59 PM
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As a woman, I promise you this is not how it works and you are entirely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 07:20 AM
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A woman knows when she's having bad sex. She doesn't need a hundred dicks in her past to realise a guy's no good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 07:08 AM
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You're really stretching here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:15 AM
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He claimed. It's far from obvious that there was an ulterior motive here. It happens all the time, no one wants to admit it's because their paper is subpar. It's always because the paper is subpar. Whinging to a crappy newspaper about it just makes you look like a poor sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:09 AM
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Uh, a co-author complaining to the federalist that his paper was rejected is not evidence of anything. If something isn't published it's because no one cares enough to fund it and/or no one cares enough to publish it. His publication was pulled, it sucks, it happens all the time though. I have personally had a publication pulled after initial acceptance and it had absolutely nothing to do with people being afraid of my results lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 01:55 AM
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It's like you keep ignoring what's written and just go on about whatever you feel like talking about. Can you not read the question? Why do they never talk about all of the other things that apparently lead to higher rates of divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 09:16 PM
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That's not how academia works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 08:34 PM
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Her point was why do they never talk about all of the other things that apparently lead to higher rates of divorce? Like young women, cohabitation, small weddings etc. Why harp on about the n count and ignore the rest? Because "eew sluts".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 08:30 PM
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😘
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 08:23 PM
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I think she's right
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 08:20 PM
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I have no idea why you wrote all that it has nothing to do what what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 08:19 PM
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Have you had an IUD inserted of removed before? It's not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 03:57 PM
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Lol yep that was poor wording. It was an all girl's school, but the girls were fucking the guys from the local boys' schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 03:53 PM
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The Catholics I went to school with were far more concerned with appearance than true faith. I have no doubt that if a girl fell pregnant out of wedlock they'd quietly abort it rather than face up to the community and admit she'd had premarital sex and a teen pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 03:52 PM
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We absolutely do. A married woman has waaay more status among other women than a single one does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 07:06 AM
9

Women don't get status out of marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 06:54 AM
17

Right? This is such an aspie mentality. "Explain to me in numbers why you want a partner".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 06:25 AM
6

Men want to have women clean up after them. Not need.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 06:24 AM
1

Lol foreveralone dudes are sane? Pull the other one. Atlas might be racist but she's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 06:08 AM
6

What if your child didn't want to get vaccinated? Or go to school?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 05:44 AM
17

What great value do men find in relationships that women don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 05:41 AM
4

Do they get a choice if it's pre puberty? 10 year olds don't understand the intricacies of sex and pregnancy and abortions and bad decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 05:39 AM
9

If it was just a shot, sure. That's just like being on the pill but without a failure rate. Why would it be better for the child to come and ask for birth control? I didn't tell my parents I was sexually active, my mum came to me when I got my first bf and asked if I wanted the pill. I didn't know of a single teen pregnancy at my expensive, Catholic high school in the 6 years I attended. The girls were definitely fucking, so whether that was because rich, religious girls are more careful or beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 05:31 AM
1

Sane, non defective
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 04:12 AM
1

That's a pretty dickish way of going about it in my opinion. If you're going to tell your partner something like that, you should at least have some feedback on what they can do to improve. You should ask him what you can improve on to be more sexually attractive to him. If he doesn't have an answer to that I'd reconsider the relationship. Sex and attraction are very important in a relationship and you shouldn't be struggling with these issues at 22.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 03:06 AM
13

Why would they talk about n count at all if that's the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 12:31 AM
1

I had that conversation with bfs when I was like 17. Since then it just hasn't been a consideration at all on either end. We assume the other has a history, we don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:59 PM
1

You're talking as if sex is a straight up skill. How good sex is with any given partner changes over time. I find it tends to get better as you get to know each other for longer. I was super promiscuous when I was younger and I don't spare a thought to those other guys because my husband and I have grown sexually together and it just gets better and better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:56 PM
2

I love being in my 30s. I'm much happier and more peaceful now than I was in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:51 PM
2

I love being in my 30s. I'm much happier and more peaceful now than I was in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:51 PM
25

I think it's guys trying to logic their way out of just saying "eww sluts". That same study they always refer to also says that young women make terrible wives/LTRs, but they stay oddly quiet on that point. Edit: wives/LTRs. I thought that much was obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:46 PM
10

Normal male sexuality is predatory edit: your stealth edits have completely changed what you were saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 06:31 PM
3

I loved Enid Blyton's books. The magic faraway tree, secret seven, etc. I think being written by a woman makes a big difference in having complex and positive female characters.
/r/RedPillWives12/09/18 11:28 AM
4

I adored narnia growing up. I must have read them all a million times!
/r/RedPillWives12/09/18 11:27 AM
2

I'm not saying she's great or that what she did was right, it's just that this kind of thing happens alllll the time in tennis. I've been watching every major tournament for over 20 years now. It's been blown way out of proportion because people are thrown off by seeing seriously angry, masculine women on TV. She pulled the woman card because she could. I think that any worked up man with the opportunity to do that would have done the same. Edit: you should totally make a post on this if you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:13 AM
2

I feel like Serena's rabid defence is a product of the disproportionate shit she got for blowing up. This is one rare occasion where I do find myself siding with the feminists. I don't think Serena's tantrum was all that bad compared to the ones you see male players throwing. I think that female athletes are expected to behave more demurely than their male counterparts, and when they show similar arrogance or aggression everyone loses their minds. Just YouTube "tennis tantrums". It isn't only Mc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 10:46 AM
1

Yeah, I think you're taking it all a bit too seriously tbh. She lost her shit and threw the woman thing out. Youtube a couple of John McEnroe's tantrums and see how much responsibility he takes for his outbursts lol. If he had a woman/race/whatever card to pull I guarantee you he would. Same deal, he'll blame everything but himself. It's sport, that's how they are. I really don't think it's that big a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 08:45 AM
1

Agreed. Maybe it's cause I'm past 30 but everyone on this Instagram athletic train looks like a man to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 08:37 AM
2

Reading the articles about it I expected a waaaay bigger blowup than what happened. Like yeah she shouldn't have said that and was out of line, but I see bigger tantrums in tennis all the time. I actually thought she was pretty well composed throughout the whole thing, and I love a bit of tennis drama. These are sports stars, as long as they're not hurting each other let them go a bit wild I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 06:46 AM
1

What were these subs about? I never heard of them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 06:44 AM
2

I think the whole point of Mr Peanutbutter's character is to be punchable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 06:44 AM
7

Depends a lot on what flavour of freak flag you're flying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 03:08 AM
4

The way you answer these questions makes it so blindingly obvious that you are on the spectrum. Acknowledge this and deal with it THIS is why you're struggling with women. Not the "traditionalist-feminist paradigm".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 12:37 AM
3

I'm sorry I know you really don't want it to be, but this is all peak NiceGuy here. You've come up with a personal opinion on what kind of man is good for "society" and beating your head against a wall because women don't want to fuck this man. Women's sexual attraction doesn't care about society. Is he strong? Is he capable? Does he have social capital? Are his genes going to make strong kids? Is he aggressive enough to keep me and our kids safe? No amount of stemmy IQ points are going to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 12:32 AM
1

Check out explosions in the sky. They sound a bit like that one sigur ros song
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 11:09 PM
4

What "attractiveness" are you talking about. You keep using that word but not explaining what you mean by it. What "attractive traits" do good men have?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 07:56 PM
1

The reason the jock is getting laid and the nerd isn't has nothing to do so with their gap in intelligence, and everything to do with their gap in social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 07:50 PM
2

We live in Australia but my husband and dad both come from stuffy old english stock so it's still a thing for them. It would have been really weird not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 09:17 AM
3

What other attractive qualities are you taking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 07:15 AM
2

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 07:13 AM
11

If he has "genuinely attractive qualities" and no huge red flags, then he is getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 05:41 AM
6

Smart autistic guys tend to overthink things and can actually have a harder time getting laid than dumber people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 05:38 AM
11

Where are all the good women! If you have to ask, you're looking outside of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 05:27 AM
7

Lol I can't see why they'd ban you over that!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 07:08 AM
1

Yeah she definitely likes the social side of it. It's similar in that it's all in teams, high energy, high fives all over the place. Not my thing but I'm really impressed with her results.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 02:23 AM
1

Do you get f45 over there? Is it any better? A friend of mine started with it a couple of months ago and she's looking incredible. Apparently it's kinda similar and I hope it doesn't mess her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 02:10 AM
2

You can tell a bit about certain parts of a person by their count - sex drive, openness, social skills (in men at least), etc. I don't think it's a good indicator of how well they'll behave in a monogamous relationship though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 02:08 AM
1

I grew up with parents who loved each other and got along really well. I think it left me with a secure, calm attachment style, but also means I can be a bit naive and tend to assume that things will just work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 02:05 AM
3

lol that's kinda cute
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 01:43 AM
7

That's all very nice, but RPW was for women to discuss their own sexual strategy. It was never about making sure every man got the best woman possible. It is self serving, and I don't think anyone is pretending otherwise. Women want a harmonious relationship with a quality man. Treating him well is the best way to get that. Win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 01:26 AM
2

Nowadays, yeah. It's not at all consistent with the whole captain/first mate thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 01:20 AM
5

Hence why the old RPW was about female strategy, not throwing your hands up and saying "well I'm not a natural, better leave those hot guys to the submissive church girls!" If the guys want to find a "natural" then great, that's on them. What a ridiculous mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 01:16 AM
9

But I guess since RPWs subscribe to Captain / First Mate, it’s consistent for them to allow men speaking authoritatively on RPW It's really not. RPW was never about submitting to any swinging dick you see. That's a new thing. It was about reigning yourself in to be a good partner to your man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 01:11 AM
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