_lordmicrowave Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1197	Putting your future first is one of the most powerful and important things you can do for yourself.	REMINDER 👑	_lordmicrowave	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 01:45 PM
37	And this, my good people, is why you should never lend a boyfriend money	LVM LOGIC	_lordmicrowave	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/20 05:20 PM
23	It is not a compliment to compare me to someone else	LVM LOGIC	_lordmicrowave	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 07:36 PM
22	Suggestion: New and/or assigned flair for collages	DISCUSSION	_lordmicrowave	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/20 08:38 AM
1	The "can i cum over" text	STRATEGY	_lordmicrowave	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 06:27 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
70	This is how a narc ex will email you after you block them, and try to pull you back in. Obviously I’m not going to reply. In the past I would have. Thanks to fds it’s getting deleted and I’ll finish nuking this email. Notice the “poor me, woe is me” 🤮 26 I's ladies. 26.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/20 06:44 PM
23	Stop calling Jason Momoa a HVM. He's lowest of the LVMS. Something similar happened to me. My ex and I are the same age though and we knew each other since preschool. I guess I was still naive and didnt know how to handle such a situation as well as being a pick me but he orchestrated and planned meticulously to get me. He would pop in and out of my life throughout high school. He would send our mutual girl friends with messages from him and always ask for my number but never messaged me. I paid no mind because I saw it was going nowhere. He eventuall…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/20 04:13 PM
3	I got the most lukewarm apology via email from my sad excuse of an ex after he blocked me 6 months ago 🥴 They probably think it's just the right amount of time for you to have forgotten all the BS but not long enough that you would habe completely moved on and forgotten about them lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/20 01:33 PM
6	I got the most lukewarm apology via email from my sad excuse of an ex after he blocked me 6 months ago 🥴 I had an ex message me EXACTLY every two months. Not a day early. Not a day late. Same type of "apology". Same taking "accountability". Unfortunately I fell for the bait when he sent a long-ass message about how he's "grown emotionally" and realizes how much he had hurt me. But then I stopped and thought wait wth am I doing and why does it all feel so off? Then I blocked him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/20 10:12 AM
3	Putting your future first is one of the most powerful and important things you can do for yourself. Yes queen! This is the type of life I aspire to have. Such an inspiration🥺	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/20 08:48 PM
3	“Male PPD” is the new “Communicate” 🤦‍♀️ The tomfoolery that is this article: https://www.psycom.net/postpartum-depression-in-men Of course "why testosterone dips isn’t yet understood" is because it's all bullshit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/20 03:18 PM
20	Putting your future first is one of the most powerful and important things you can do for yourself. I was lucky enough to go to a high school that prioritzed being an independent and proactive individual. However, I cannot guarantee that everyone heeded and/or followed those teachings but it definitely stuck with me	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 08:05 PM
72	This is my pickmeisha story. I was the worst case of pick me I've ever seen and I thought that sharing my story would help me (and maybe some of you as well). So. Many. Red. Flags. But at the same time I get it. In my pickme days, I would have gone through the same thing. Good on you for dumping his ass. Here's to levelling up!🥂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 03:56 PM
10	Avoiding types that are dead-ends: can artsy men ever be HVM? You're absolutely right. My narcissist ex (we were in the same degree) used me as his muse to help fulfill his image of grandeur. He produced some of his best work which was based on me and after he broke up with me, well, things pretty much went downhill after that. Really downhill lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/20 09:06 PM
30	We should pray for her... CoMmuNIcAtiOn iS iMpOrTaNt fOlkS	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/20 08:41 PM
35	Men look at women. Women watch themselves being looked at. This determines not only most relationships between men and women but also the relationship of women to themselves.The surveyor of women in herself is male: the surveyed female. Thus she turns herself into an object - an object of sight. So how do we break out of this and live to see ourselves through ourselves? Is it possible?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/20 04:38 AM
8	I don't even know what to say at this point Say it with me everyone: M Y. H A N D. I S. M Y. L O V E R ! ! !	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/11/20 02:55 PM
23	More reason to clean out your social media! And that's why I blocked and deleted all my exes and past situationships off ALL my social media. They don't deserve to see me level up and flourish. Also been stress-free. My skin has never been so clear and my sleep so peaceful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/20 11:27 PM
1	Imagine not replying for two hours because you’re studying and you come back to this... It just... Kept... Going...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/20 01:59 PM
8	Types of NV/LVM you meet while dating and red flags to watch out for. Can we turn this into a megathread? These are so good to read. I see a lot of my exes in these ugh	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/20 12:11 PM
3	“I want you,” does not mean “I want you.” Thank you! And same to you <3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/20 07:08 AM
27	“I want you,” does not mean “I want you.” This really triggered me but it also shows how far I (and all of us here at FDS) have come. It really is an eye opener and I'm glad that I now know how to protect the most vulnerable parts of myself and reserve them for someone who had truly proven themselves worthy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/20 06:43 PM
2	Sounds like this guy found a woman who was willing to be a bangmaid, pay all of his bills and plan his life like a toddler 🤡 I wish I could give you an award for this comment because this is gold. Here's my upvote instead	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/20 05:54 PM
84	Reminder to hold onto your power with no sex until commitment because they will pull this Every Time no matter how ‘great’ they seem This is so true! Every. Single. Time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/20 04:55 PM
14	But if I say "respect me and don't watch porn" my standards are too high 🙄🙄 I just noticed there's no #8 lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 08:01 PM
8	Ever taken a really good, leveled-up look at your labias and vagina? I absolutely love my labia and vagina! I feel that's where all my magic and essence of femininity reside. I've always been very conscious of my genital health and regularly look down to make sure everything is okay. I always thought it was beautiful and complex and even smells great with its natural smell! (Never understood douching and fragranced products). I remember the first time I got ejaculated in (pick me days) and it gave me my first yeast infection. I hated it and felt like my femininit…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/20 10:09 AM
11	There's this new Tiktok trend of singing this song to your girlfriend 'Why Beer is better than Women' and watching her reaction, and it's not just the kids doing it. Disgusting, once you hear the lyrics.. Go have sex with a beer then. No one's stopping you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/20 09:57 AM
11	Sounds like someone I used to love 🤔 He was (still is) completely obsessed with Iron Man and thought he had superpowers ("visions" he called it) even though all he did was stay in bed for up to three days at a time drinking wine and jerking off. I guess that was his actual "superpower".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/10/20 07:58 PM
1	It is not a compliment to compare me to someone else Interesting🤔 think I'll start doing that now as well. Not worth me racking my brain over	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 03:24 AM
4	Saw this on my fb feed this morning. Had a good laugh and thought I’d share. Unlike those women who sleep around, I can keep a man. #bossgirl ✌🏾😗 lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/20 06:14 PM
2	Suggestion: New and/or assigned flair for collages I absolutely get where you're coming from. That's where my suggestion for the flair comes from. If it's not something you want to see then you can filter it out. However, I do see what you mean by giving too much time and energy into making them. It would be triggering for me to think back and make an LVM-collage myself but i think for others, it's therepeutic and another means of letting go and moving on. I feel what works for others may not work for some so having a dedicated space for those w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/20 10:04 PM
5	Suggestion: New and/or assigned flair for collages Agreed	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/20 12:47 PM
13	Get yourself a man that cooks for you > a man that buys you fast food Woah careful there lol. If you do that you won't even notice the three-course meals being exchanged for three-courses of disrespect	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/20 08:16 PM
3	If a guy vehemently hates cats, run. r/ntbdbiwdfta <3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/20 09:56 PM
1	Let it go More like a trauma bond. 3 years of dealing with the most self-centred being I've ever come across. Glad I opened my eyes and dropped that fool. Everytime I feel like reminiscing I can feel the memories slowly fade. It is truly freeing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/20 04:06 PM
88	Imagine being this insecure that you feel the need to go around and humble those GORGEOUS, confident black woman...pathetic I cannot stop laughing at this. "Like fr fr" have you looked at yourself in the mirror? The absolute audacity	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/20 08:56 AM
2	Meredith Grey, the OG PickMe 😂 This was. So bad.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/20 04:23 AM