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| 1 | The Fuck Rate is about to Implode - Civilization Requires Compromise | TheRedPillA few will, but most have been well trained to be docile and distracted with video games, drugs and porn. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/24 12:54 AM |
| 45 | The Fuck Rate is about to Implode - Civilization Requires Compromise | TheRedPillNothing really new here - but he states it well and succinctly. It’s been well documented how women, once in power, bring down civilizations - and it’s exactly because they stop submitting to male will - and are able to pursue only the highest value males, or nothing. Once that happens men abandon the society (he uses the term Incel but I actually think NEET is more accurate, because incel means “involuntary” and implies men still “trying”). Once men abandon society it falls, because women refus… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/24 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Women and the trap of "oPeN cOmMuNiCaTiOn"Never, ever be open with your emotions with a woman. As soon as you reveal your fears and anxieties she will freak out and start crying and/or lose respect. She needs you to be her rock. Play the part. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/23 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Stoicism is the Copium of the ManosphereYour worst post to date GLO. You dont understand the stoic mindset at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/22 02:26 AM |
| 0 | how woman behave after only dating chadsAre you seriously posting this crap on TheRedPill? This is a forum for sexual strategy. Your connection bs belongs on some dating forum. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | how woman behave after only dating chadsVideo chat? You gave a woman attention in a situation where you cant escalate and fuck her? Youre giving her everything she wants and getting nothing in return. Are you insane? Your time is valuable son. Text briefly to get the meetup. Then meetup and escalate. Never video chat. If no dice move on to the next. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/22 09:50 PM |
| 55 | Alpha Widow - Woman Divorces Tall, Handsome, Loyal, Successful Man for AlphaSo true. However, Johnny is not your typical dude. Multi millionaire actor who’s a little off himself. I imagine he finds non-crazy chicks boring | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/22 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Incels, MGOTW, and the Epic of GilgameshExcellent synopsis and right on the money | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/22 12:26 AM |
| 23 | Hollywood entertainment is for girls; they actively hate you; unplugDefinitely untrue. Yes they want to make money, but there are big money backers pushing very specific agendas. This isn’t even secret or controversial. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/21 08:46 PM |
| 7 | So... here's an LTR fuck up of epic proportions.Finally a story that rings true... I've been there brother. I dated a BPD girl for 15 years before I found TRP and got the fuck out. BPD chicks are a blast to throw around in bed but otherwise a total shitshow. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | The wall DOES NOT EXIST for the promiscuous womanIt was the "due to testosterone" part I was referring to. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/21 01:43 PM |
| 11 | The wall DOES NOT EXIST for the promiscuous womanUntrue. Test (and sperm) levels have never been lower. This has more to do with low self esteem amongst men and their attempts to alleviate insecurities/fear/lonliness/betaness by banging whoever is willing. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/21 01:18 PM |
| -1 | Male equivalent of alpha fucks and beta bucks.You haven't digested the material at all. DO a lot more reading before posting here. No More Mr Nice Guy is a good place to start. You're seeing similar individual behaviors but the DRIVERS behind those behaviors are entirely different. Understand the evolutionary driver behind these drives, both male and female, is key to "getting" TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/21 07:57 PM |
| 10 | Threesomes are mostly silly and definitely overratedYou can't bring an LTR into this situation and expect everything to go smoothly. She's emotionally connected to you and wont want to see you bang another chick. Threesomes are a BLAST when it's two girls you're seeing casually that already know each other and are into both each other and you. I've had two and they were both great. I tried the same with an LTR and it was a disaster. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | My OWN Sister did this.Grow up. If you're here you shouldn't be surprised by this. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/21 01:04 AM |
| 9 | How to deal with Sexual Apathy (aka “Banging New Girls Just isn’t Fulfilling Anymore”)This has a lot to do with age as well. I enjoyed spinning plates in my 20s and 30s but in my 40s it became tedious, even as my success rates went up. Finding one girl you enjoy spending time with and treats you well is better. Cliche as it is, ultimately we really do just want to be loved and cared for, and have a stable family. There’s nothing wrong with pursing that goal AFTER you’ve had fun banging lots of girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/21 10:00 PM |
| 17 | Men have completely ruined women. We need to fix the problem at it's root.Lol you made a huge leap here. He didn’t say anything about the ruling class being jews | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/20 10:37 PM |
| 6 | Older women are still women. Her age won't make her more "mature".Older single women are utterly ruined. Years of riding the cock carousel turns them into bitter shrews with terrible attitudes and belief systems. They view men as tools to be used - they are utterly incapable of showing any respect and should be avoided at all costs. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/20 10:31 PM |
| 55 | Outside their prime age, the situation does not look good for women ...Once women have their kids and hit menopause they have little need for a man. So many women kick them to the curb, only to realize later they can't find another and are lonely. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/20 02:09 PM |
| 1 | To the women who wonder “where have all the good men gone?”What? What sub has men saying they want literally anyone? Or are you referring to the whole incel thing? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 10:38 PM |
| 6 | Lifetime payout divorce settlements to end in UK?Correct his math is wrong. This article explains it well and also has an example. http://www.canadiandivorcelaws.com/spousal-support/ TLDR; The guy with two kids who makes 100K a year, and she gets custody of the kids, pays about half his monthly salary to her. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 03:23 PM |
| 2 | On the Myth of a Western Rape Culture.Yep exactly. I’m pretty conservative, but there are lots of reasonable liberal people out there. Not all of them are far left nutcases. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 09:00 PM |
| 4 | On the Myth of a Western Rape Culture.Rather than say "The Left", perhaps consider saying "The Establishment" or "The Cathedral". All of these policies support the upper echelon / rich tier of society. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 06:22 PM |
| 17 | Still Wanna Get Married?His only real choice. Leaving behind friends and family is a serious kick in the teeth, but it’s his only real option other than death. I always tell seriously suicidal people to pick a small bag and leave it all behind, preferably to somewhere warm. Wherever you end up will feel like you died and were reborn. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy – The MisconceptionsGreat post! Perhaps a little advanced for the majority on the sub, explaining the lack of comments and votes. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/18 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Wishing You a Red Pill 2018Excellent piece. Simple, clear and to the point. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 12:51 AM |
| 36 | Want to ruin a girl? Be a mix of Alpha and Beta.This is nonsense. There's no such thing as a "pure alpha". We're human, we're not black and white. Alpha and Beta are concepts, not people. Even your analogy is false. You can't believe in Christ without believing in Satan, the two come from the same religious dogma. And yes, you can utterly destroy a girl by fucking her well and also being a decent human being, then dumping her when she messes up. It's the concept of an alpha widow. I'm surprised to see this from one of our most senior members … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 07:49 PM |
| 16 | Want to ruin a girl? Be a mix of Alpha and Beta.Well yes of course, but he's still light years ahead of most because he recognizes the position he's putting himself in. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 07:46 PM |
| 2 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"The downvoting here is unbelievable. Your analysis is spot on and these conclusions are well documented. Being red pill isnt only about not getting married and banging multiple plates. There is a much deeper message. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 07:37 PM |
| 7 | Instead of deliberately trying to make yourself seem busy and unavailable to women, how about you actually do stuff with your time and let that behavior come naturally?There is far too little written on this forum about this. It takes bravery and heart to jump into a big mission where you could potentially fail - and men today are generally cowards - so they try to take shortcuts. Women can smell this a mile away. They chase truly impressive men. So the Red Pill isn't specifically about being an alpha male, or game, or confidence, or anything else - it's about diving into a mission, making it your life, and becoming the very best version of yourself you can be… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/17 05:28 PM |
| 43 | Instead of deliberately trying to make yourself seem busy and unavailable to women, how about you actually do stuff with your time and let that behavior come naturally?The lack of a mission is why men pursue women desperately. Men are BORED. Women are a means to fill that boredom. If you have a regular job and regular life you have a ton of free time. It may not feel like it, but you do. If you have the time to watch TV, play video games, or chase women, you are BORED. The solution to pedestalizing women and oneitis is to be busy with better shit...make women a small background thought as you pursue your dreams. Red Pill becomes EASY once you embrace this. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/17 02:32 PM |
| 2 | 50 Shades of Red (Part 4)Excellent! You continue to be my favorite contributor here. I'm always pleased when I see you post! Keep it coming. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/17 01:44 AM |
| 4 | Jake and the Woman Who Broke HimMUCH harder. The state of male friendship is in sorry shape. The guys I see around tend to get jealous quickly, be emotionally immature, and quick to blame. Even a conversation with a girl one of these guys likes tend to get their backs up. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/17 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Got a single mother twice my age pregnantOp, you're doing it wrong. You're supposed to be banging chicks half your age...which means hotty 18 year olds only for around the next 13 years. And as others have stated, the likelyhood this kid is yours is slim. She for sure banged other dudes when you first broke up. I wouldn't even be taking this seriously if I were you. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Got a single mother twice my age pregnantI was surprised to find out my Forties have been the best years of my life! | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Got a single mother twice my age pregnantI would bet on it. She certainly went out on a banging binge when Op originally dumped her. I doubt its his. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Don't use your children like that. It's shameful!Ya it was a cool show. Super short lived. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/01/17 08:26 PM |
| 19 | Girl tries to scam guy for free mealMeh, then we need more dicks in this world. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/01/17 07:55 PM |
| 3 | PUSSYPASS UPDATE: Drunk woman intentionally hits ex at 40mph, he's left brain damaged. No jail. Turns Troll.And he have to hear about how "Sexual Harassment" destroys the women's life. How does getting come onto destroy anyone's life? Gimme a break. (note: not talking about sexual assault, that's obviously a destructive thing...assuming it was really an assault and not some drunk chick who was egging it on earlier) | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/17 07:52 PM |
| 2 | PUSSYPASS UPDATE: Drunk woman intentionally hits ex at 40mph, he's left brain damaged. No jail. Turns Troll.I agree with you, but do you really think this child is going to grow up into a decent human being living with this sort of person? He/she would be better off adopted into a decent family. Especially a baby, they get adopted easily. Stop letting women go free because they spawned!! | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/17 07:50 PM |
| 7 | PUSSYPASS UPDATE: Drunk woman intentionally hits ex at 40mph, he's left brain damaged. No jail. Turns Troll.It's both. But this example is perfect. Male judge is giving her a suspended sentence as long as she pays the money back...no punitive penalty at all, because "he hates sending women to prison" http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4105326/Office-manager-went-38-000-designer-shopping-spree-company-card-spared-jail-judge-says-hates-sending-women-prison.html My sister is a (female) defense attorney and has a ton of stories about women getting substantially lighter penalties than men for the same… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/17 07:46 PM |
| 39 | Girl tries to scam guy for free mealGirl shows up in sweatpants and barely engages? She lost her rights to not get scammed. This guy simply reversed the scenario. Don't defend scammers regardless of sex. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/01/17 07:34 PM |
| 9 | Why a murderer who injected her own boyfriend with a lethal dose of heroin got merely a 10 year sentence and served only 4.In addition to the other comments ...and she gets a movie made about her now? Think of all the attention that will bring her way. And the movie shifts blame from the woman, to "why didn't anyone stop her? she had a mental break, it's not her fault!" Sounds like off'ing this guy was the best thing she ever did for herself. Gross. | /r/PussyPass | 28/12/16 04:07 PM |
| 4 | Men need to learn to stop putting up with this bullshit.Even then it's mostly the women protesting. Black guys tend to be pretty chill about it | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/11/16 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Sunk cost, denial, sour grapes, post-choice rationalization, and cognitive dissonanceI'll give you an upvote, because I agree with what you've said, but I've also had similar experiences to you. i.e. I'm uncut, unmarried, have multiple plates, am in decent shape so I have options. I also had a similar revelation after a few escort experiences. Stopped doing that quickly, but I'm glad I have the experience. A heavier guy, married, and cut is gonna downvote the shit out of your post. Everybody needs to figure out their own path. Our path isn't the only one. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/16 04:23 AM |
| 12 | You didn't win, Trump didNo victim mentality here. It was a tongue in cheek reference to the crap we see from the likes of Lena Dunham, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/16 10:10 PM |
| 4 | You didn't win, Trump didThe main thing I hope for is a serious overhaul of divorce law, spousal support, as well as the removal of "common law relationships " in law. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/16 07:14 PM |
| -48 | You didn't win, Trump didSeconded. It's nice to see a white man win once in a while these days. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/16 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Is Anyone Else Enjoying The Complete Meltdowns Appearing All Over FacebookYou're being downvoted because people think you're slamming OP...but I think you meant the facebook meltdowns are annoying and people there should keep their opinions to themselves, correct? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/16 06:49 PM |
| 8 | The social media mess from tonight's electionsLots of beta males virtual signaling as well, hoping for some vag | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/16 03:39 PM |
| 2 | What Women (really) Want: "Ray Donovan" and the Red PillI enjoy RD as well, he's alpha as fuck and I always want to see how he's going to deal with whatever the fucked up situation of the day is. To your point, i think the only reason that show is allowed on the air in our feminized culture is because it's written by a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/16 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Observations after 3 years of TRPWe'll agree to disagree. I suspect you've never tried to dock a big boat in the wind. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/16 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Observations after 3 years of TRPI'm a boater, so anything boat related..the beach, marinas, water clubs (like a bar on the beach) are great. In the winter I'd say the gym (especially if you play a sport like squash) and then bars/clubs. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/16 01:39 PM |
| 11 | Observations after 3 years of TRPDisagree. Being a captain of a large boat is a skill. Driving, docking, ensuring passenger safety, knowing the rules of the water, etc. It's a significant skill that is constantly being challenged by weather conditions or by taking longer voyages. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/16 01:30 PM |
| 2 | The Sex in Paris Fantasy.That's a good question...you can just kind of tell. The 1000 cock stare is a real thing. They often talk about men like they're objects (I know one girl who gives a nickname to every guy she's 'dating', like Mr Big, or Capt america). And once you're in bed with them, there's little intimacy.they just want the fuck, no cuddling/touching/caressing. Just a couple of observations that I've noticed. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/16 10:49 PM |
| 1 | The Sex in Paris Fantasy.20 isn't that high...if they admit to 20 its more like 80. I know a lot of the girls I meet are 50+ easy. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/16 11:35 PM |
| 3 | [FR] My wife doesn't track my whereabouts - or so I thoughtHow are you on TRP and still have a wife with no libido? Dread the FUCK out of her or move on man | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/16 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Girl still fucks her ex after breakup, even though he has a new one.Lol don't care, as long at they keep coming back who gives a shit. I'm not marrying them. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 06:54 PM |
| 5 | Girl still fucks her ex after breakup, even though he has a new one.Well of course, it's hyperbole. But it's been my experience so far. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 02:33 PM |
| -10 | Girl still fucks her ex after breakup, even though he has a new one.You missed the most important thing: Female orgasms. A lot of girls never come during sex with most guys...if you make a girl come consistently, especially multiple times per session, and she will NEVER dump you. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 02:10 PM |
| 110 | The real gender gap: the tax gapHoly shit. I mean I knew this from being a TRP reader but this is the first time I've seen it described and proven so well. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/16 02:50 PM |
| 3 | A lesson from the Irish: suffer in silence.No, because people (men) have sympathy for a women's plight and will work to protect/help them. No one has natural sympathy for a weak man. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/16 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Even unbang-able 2's and 3's are getting multiple cocks.I know a guy who fucks everything. He's reasonable looking and has literally no boundaries. Landwhales, physically disabled, whatever. Last I checked he was north of 600 notches, but I wouldn't touch 90% of those with a 10 foot pole. ALL women can get laid. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/16 03:05 PM |
| 10 | Losing My ReligionThe exception that proves the point | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/16 02:11 PM |
| 6 | [X-post] Wife doesnt even feel the need to hide the AF/BB relationship to her husbandYep, he lives his life pretty alpha most of the time but then goes and does a bonehead move like that. WTF. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/16 06:19 PM |
| 2 | [X-post] Wife doesnt even feel the need to hide the AF/BB relationship to her husbandIt would be ingrained in men too if it wasn't drummed out of us by Disney fantasies that we're fed from a very young age, by our families and the media. Especially for us that grew up without fathers. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/16 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Narcissism and self-esteem cannot co-existBingo. Well said. This post (and OPs) strike a chord. Narcissism is basing your feelings on how you THINK others view you. Confidence is basing your feelings on how you feel about yourself. These two are very similar except that the first one is prone to breakdown if something happens to shake your beliefs about how others view you. The second can never be shaken because you're basing it on yourself. In short, remember that you're awesome regardless of how many friends you have, girls you've ban… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/16 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Ohlala: The "Not an Escort App" Where Every Woman Literally Sets Her PriceBuy a decent boat. I did and the panties fly off. The boat is expensive but it's mine and I enjoy the lifestyle, so it's not directly paying for any pussy. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/16 03:14 PM |
| 8 | Pussy Pass on Full DisplayExactly. PPD is nonsense that was created by women to remove responsibility when they realize they hate their life and take action to get out. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Amy Schumer blasts Glamour magazine for including her in plus-size edition (I'm not FAT!!!)Good post. I like the Red Pill becauase it speaks truth about male/female dynamics and explains female behaviour which, before I discovered TRP, was completely baffling. If we could have more posts like yours, and less that slam and/or shame the female gender, this place would be perfect. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/16 03:14 PM |
| 20 | Ghomeshi's defence lawyer gets grilled by CBC for "Betraying Sisterhood"No kidding. The female reaction has been to defend the lying plaintiffs and call for legal change. They won't be happy until they can legally withdraw consent, at any time after an encounter, and put a guy in jail because they "feel" like it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/16 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Girls who were "slutty"/voracious with last couple exes. Still worth LTR?Agree with /u/BudapestPUA. Seriously up your testosterone levels through lifting and diet and up your sexual game, otherwise she'll be gone before you know it. The absolute most important thing to keeping a girl around is keeping her wet and sexually satisfied, and make sure she doesn't think she can do better elsewhere. Remember hypergamy. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 02:46 PM |
| 1 | I have no desire to spend time forming relationships...I was like this for most of my life, and still am to a lesser degree. When I was a kid I lost a friend which impacted me badly, so I didn't trust in having friends...the trauma of potentially losing them could be too much. Therapy helped me work through that fear once I recognized it. Look deep within yourself to see if a childhood trauma impacted your ability or desire to form relationships. There's no quick fix, but it's worth doing the work to improve. Life completely isolated is pretty empty… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 05:07 PM |
| 1 | 32, divorced, wife, family, friends turned against meAgreed - I did close to 50 in my first year after divorce | /r/askTRP | 23/02/16 08:49 PM |
| 15 | You are leading every woman, whether you like it or not. So take up the reins; she both wants it and needs it.Seriously? You don't know what leading is? What the hell are they teaching in schools these days? Leadership is making calls that benefit all parties involved. It's establishing the moral compass of the relationship and driving it forward. Think of the great leaders and speakers of your time...how they set the tone, and through that direct the behaviour of themselves and those around them. My gf hates making any calls. She always wants me to make the decisions, and she doesn't even REALIZE she's… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/16 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Just because you could Fu*k them, should you?Ya I did that for a while, back in my needy beta days...then I had a few instances of not being able to get it up for a few girls. I thought there was something wrong with me, but as I swallowed the redpill I began to realize I didn't actually LIKE those girls...their behaviour was terrible and I was with them for validation only. As soon as I stopped trying to bang every girl I was slightly attracted to and was more picky, I was fine. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/16 06:57 PM |
| 13 | News article shows more single women then men... and points out RP truths... SMHI feel the same way. Women and SJW/Beta men are like children living in a fantasy-land created by the education system and the media. TRP is the antidote, thank god I found it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/16 06:46 PM |
| 7 | Fucking multiple platesDo you mean immediately after sex? If yes, this is biological and happens to every guy. Immediately after sex, there is a natural desire to "get away" from the girl. Nobody knows why and there isn't much research into it yet, but from what I've read people speculate it's an evolutionary thing to ensure the male doesn't immediately try to re-penetrate the female and 'suck out' all the semen that was previously deposited. Also, they speculate that since men need time to 'reset', the repulsion is a… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Don't be stupid - wear a condomThat's correct. There are even people out there who say there has never been a case of vaginal to penis transmission. Doubt that's true, but the odds are low enough that someone believes it. Bottom line is STDs aren't as scary as they're made to sound. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 01:05 PM |
| 2 | A Pet peeve of mine regarding online dating and low SMV chicks, curious to your thoughtsMorons. But they're not all like that...I had a landwhale message me once with: 'I know I'm not in shape enough to be with you but I wanted to say I think you're hot' | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 07:17 PM |
| 10 | Women on the OKCupid sub share stories about sleeping with "douchebag/asshole" Alphas - and in the same thread, beg men to please not become douchebags.Yep, well said. The women I've been with cum easiest and hardest the more I let go and throw them around. Without exception. I tend to be reserved in person and when I go let go in the sack they go crazy. Like you said, they're taking credit for getting me to let loose. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 11:57 PM |
| 8 | Women on the OKCupid sub share stories about sleeping with "douchebag/asshole" Alphas - and in the same thread, beg men to please not become douchebags.She's not lying. A women will fuck a hot guy that she really doesn't like(I.e. he won't provide for her) then move on. happens a lot. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 11:54 PM |
| 8 | What will happen if I start telling a girl about me fucking other women, and stories about it? will it friend zone her? make her upset? make her want me more?This. Girls suspecting makes them wet...but directly telling them turns them off and they start to think of you as scum; a player. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/15 02:39 PM |
| 5 | Unfulfilled by Sleeping Around?Well said. I went through this phase as well...once you bang 50+ women you don't give a shit about it starts to feel meaningless. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/15 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Is this just part of the TRP journey?Same thing happened to me. I used to get jazzed from making out with a 6, but now I don't even approach girls unless they're 8+. The 6's just don't interest me enough even if it's an easy lay, I don't bother. For me, understanding SMV means I don't need validation from girls. I know that if my SMV is higher than the girls, I'm likely to succeed. If it's lower, I won't. I've proven this enough times in the field that it doesn't matter anymore. I'm no different from anyone else. My thrill now come… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/15 03:27 PM |
| 0 | Transcending Hatred Towards WomenNo idea why this doesn't have more upvotes. One of the best posts on TRP for a while! People always need to take accountability for their actions and feelings. If you're angry, that's on you, not on anyone else. Figure out why. Stop expecting people (women) to behave as you want them to behave; accept them for who they are. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/15 02:09 PM |
| 1 | The rage at TRP on the rest of redditYa I don't like the tone of a lot of it, but this stuff is pretty well researched. The generalizations come from countless examples of similar behaviour, which is then backed up by science and psychology. The sidebar materials are good for explaining it without the anger. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Withholding sex test- Failed?Ya I would have gone with something like Lol, we both know you can't last without some of this. Cue raised eyebrows and laughter, tense situation over. Also, did you actually fuck up? Nothing wrong with apologizing if you said/did something stupid. If you're arguing with a woman you've already lost. Always amused mastery in that situation. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/15 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Lack of ClosenessI get how awesome it is to be in a relationship. It's incredibly validating when a woman wants to be with you all the time and wants you inside her over and over. What it took me years to realize is that feeling is a DRUG. Your body is producing drugs as a response to the interaction (Oxytocin). I've actually had a therapist tell me that being in love is basically a mental illness. It's an unnatural state, one created to ensure the continuation of the species and promote the nurturing of childre… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/15 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Lack of ClosenessYou're being needy as you recognize, and she may not believe your 'slight dread' as a result. You're deep into beta territory here. Dude, youre 21. Thats no age to be in something serious. Tell her you need to explore a bit, and hook up with other girls for fun. If shes really into you she'll stick around as a plate, if not it wasnt meant to be. Also work on your neediness - don't try to get validation from girls, get it from being awesome: lifting, working hard at school or work. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/15 04:18 PM |
| -1 | Red Pill perspectives on suicide?Paralysis, yes. extreme debt or disability, no. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill perspectives on suicide?Seriously? Dying is better than leaving and starting a new adventure? Man, if you feel that way get some therapy stat. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill perspectives on suicide?I'm going to guess you're pretty young - 20s? Have you travelled much? Everything you talk about is first world problem bullshit, meaningless stuff that shouldn't even be worried about. Anybody who gets worked up to the point of suicide about that stuff has serious emotional problems already. for example: If your life here gets fucked up because of bad decision making, walk away, move to Venezuala, and start over. Thats the joy of being a man in this time - you're completely free. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 01:58 PM |
| 1 | FR: Make yourself scarce, you are the priz eTotally. I had a date last week and the chick didn't look anything like her pics and literally shook from nerves. Talked a mile a minute and it was all weird crazy shit. One quick drink and I was outta there | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 10:03 PM |
| 2 | FR: Make yourself scarce, you are the priz eFor sure. And if I had worked her harder I probably could have gotten upstairs and closed the deal, but I had work in the morning and was tired, so next time will be fine | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 08:56 PM |
| 2 | FR: Make yourself scarce, you are the priz eTotally agree with this...invite after a meetup, I always do. But I have never invited a girl over BEFORE meeting her. Apparently guys do this. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 06:04 PM |
| 2 | FR: Make yourself scarce, you are the priz eWhat if the pictures were faked? I like having an easy out | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 05:57 PM |
| 0 | FR: Make yourself scarce, you are the priz eThat's true, I could go into detail about our date, but didn't think it that relevant. These were the major take always. In short, the date went well, didn't bang her but drove her home and lots of making out and mutual fondling in the car. And yes,AWALT, im sure she would go over to a guys place if he was a pro athlete or something, but you can tell this one is careful with all the male attention she gets. good self esteem, not a slutty type at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 05:34 PM |
| 3 | LTR GF possible pregnant. No option for abortion.Well said. Sexual strategy is amoral. This guy needs to do whatever this guy needs to do, we're not here to preach. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/15 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Nigel Short: 'shrill' feminists have turned me into the pantomine villain of chessI assumed it was jerk. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/15 02:22 PM |
| 2 | FR: Don't be a beta chump at a clubThat was my first TRP reading and it changed my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 08:13 PM |
| 1 | FR: Don't be a beta chump at a clubYep that's pretty much it. Look around at everyone. Glances for a few seconds max. When you catch her looking at you, lock eyes and smile coyly. Make her break the gaze. Then continue looking around, talk with others, or walk away. I didn't stay near her group the whole night,that looks desperate. I just passed by, looked around at the people, locked eyes with her,and moved on. By the third time of that routine she approached me. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 05:02 PM |
| 2 | FR: Don't be a beta chump at a clubNot following...why would showing interest in a girl make others bitter? If youre cool and casual about it,no one should care. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 04:36 PM |
| 2 | FR: Don't be a beta chump at a clubInteresting, but I still disagree. Even the hottest guys still need this info and need game. I know an extremely handsome guy, looks like David Tennant, who is beta as hell. Picks up and bangs women quite easily, but then falls for them and they get bored and bail. TRP is for everyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 04:33 PM |
| 1 | "Man dates"No one can live a decent life without hope. What you describe is depression. Always fighting, always miserable, never hopeful. I agree with the part about fantasizing and escapism being unhelpful, but a life without hope is pointless. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 02:21 PM |
| 2 | FR: Don't be a beta chump at a clubHmm I'm not sure I agree with this. Unless you're top dog...9 or 10...I think game matters more than looks. 7s and 8s have to work for it. There were lots of dudes there as good looking as me (I think) | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 02:09 PM |
| 1 | FR: Don't be a beta chump at a clubGo and have fun and pretend like her being there is a nice surprise but no big deal. If you go there regularly it should be easy to mingle with other people. Chat with her occasionally but do not hang off her all night. If she's only in it for public validation, put very little effort in. Find other girls to game. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 01:56 PM |
| 2 | FR: Don't be a beta chump at a clubYou're being downvoted,but I actually agree with you. I genuinely enjoy being in the company of other people,so being in a busy bar, with lots of good happy energy around me, makes me feel great. Its part of why I can do the confident lone wolf thing...I actually LIKE being there and taking it all in. No interest in being a spectacle or aggressively bothering women,but if the right girl comes along I'll try out my game on her for fun. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 04:29 PM |
| 2 | FR: Don't be a beta chump at a clubWell said. It takes practice but it works. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 04:24 PM |
| 5 | FR: Don't be a beta chump at a clubThanks! But its not exactly true that I did nothing. I still had to use game once I was talking to her. If I had been shy or lacking confidence I would have lost her. Instead I had fun with her (honestly, I originally assumed I had no chance, so just had fun and went with a cocky demeanour) | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 04:15 PM |
| 2 | FR: Don't be a beta chump at a clubNo exaggeration at all. Check my other comment on this...I never stared at her. There's a real difference between enjoying a lone wolf night out and not giving a shit versus being a creepy loser at the bar. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 04:12 PM |
| 2 | FR: Don't be a beta chump at a clubI would participate in conversation around me, and I NEVER stared at her. I do the lone wolf thing alot, and it takes practice to be confident at a bar alone and not look creepy. The trick is to stand still, not fidget, and relax. Look around at people and drink your beer. SMILE, but don't show too much teeth, just look happy. Head back, shoulders back and relaxed. Strong posture. Enjoy the people watching and genuinely not care about what others are thinking. Within a few minutes someone will t… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 04:11 PM |
| 6 | FR: Don't be a beta chump at a clubBeing aggressive has never worked for me. I think that's really beta behaviour. Playing it cool, strong eye contact, and touching always work for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 09:08 PM |
| 26 | FR: Don't be a beta chump at a clubThanks. There really is too much anger in this place sometimes. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 09:06 PM |
| 3 | FR: Don't be a beta chump at a clubKiss close,number close. Texting today. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 09:04 PM |
| 58 | FR: Don't be a beta chump at a clubKiss close, number close. We've been texting today, and it goes well. F close shouldn't be too difficult from here....if I bother. Like I said, Im guessing she's going to be a lot of work to plate...shit tests, dudes everywhere, and I've already got 3 good looking plates who are no effort to manage at all. Not really the point of the FR though...the point was the ridiculous behaviour of the men around her. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 09:04 PM |
| 0 | Beta in some ways, alpha in others. Tell me what to do to become better.I'm sorry but these whiny, introspective "am I alpha"? asktrp posts drive me nuts. If you're alpha, you don't need advice from anyone, especially online. Do what you want to do and everyone else can fuck themselves. Including women. The fact you are spending time wondering about this is beta as hell. In short, Grow up. You certainly have not swallowed any pill. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/15 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Scary FR: First time holding frame... but it looks like attempted rape and makes me question TRPI think you did most things right, except when you pounced on her when she first came in. To me, attacking a girl like that is needy and beta. Next time, invite her in, give her a drink and sit her on the couch. Chat for 10 mins until she's more comfortable and acclimatized to the surrounding, then go in for the kiss. TRP does not mean aggressive. Most guys here do the 'I dont give a shit' vibe and let her come to them. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/15 10:58 PM |
| 0 | Toxic Shame and Blue Pill behavioursThank you. Anyone that thinks a child can choose how he reacts to things is clueless, so I'm ignoring the negativity. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Toxic Shame and Blue Pill behavioursWhatever. Of course what I've stated isnt universal, nothing is. Your AMOG is lame. You've added nothing to this conversation that isn't obvious. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Toxic Shame and Blue Pill behavioursThanks for this comment. Personally, I feel much more comfortable in my own skin since I've started taking control of my life and stopped seeking validation everywhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Toxic Shame and Blue Pill behavioursI agree with this guy, but his point is pedantic and unecessary. Of course people will react differently to stimuli and have unique experiences, even children. What I'm saying is that feelings of inadequacy can lead to beta behaviours as on tries to cover those feelings with external validation i.e. sex and love. Where the inadequacy came from is secondary. Mine happened to come from a shitty, cold upbringing. Read the toxic shame book mentioned above in another comment for more on this. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Toxic Shame and Blue Pill behavioursOf course everyone's experience is unique. Based on other comments, I don't believe I'm alone. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 08:12 PM |
| 6 | Toxic Shame and Blue Pill behavioursYou missed the point entirely. It's not that any of the specific items said were wrong in and of themselves. It's that growing up in a household without any emotional connection makes kids feel worthless, and this can lead to beta traits in adulthood as they try to fill that void. Those were just (real) examples. Perhaps if it had been a loving environment, those comments would have made me tougher. They didn't, Instead. they re-inforced that feeling of worthlessness and shame. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 07:10 PM |
| 1 | The Guide to Accepting Yourself (even when women don't)Beautiful. I will try to tell myself this every morning from now on. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Finding Ms. RightLol! This was a pretty big "deprogramming" for me and I wanted to share, and perhaps generate some good discussion. It might help someone else who's struggling with the same challenge, at least to understand there are others in the same boat. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/15 03:55 PM |
| 7 | Are you kidding me? "If Our Sons Were Treated Like Our Daughters"Agreed. Sounds like my childhood. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/15 10:48 PM |
| 9 | What if women don't have higher rates of mental illness at all? (a tough pill to swallow for feminists)You're an idiot. You've clearly never been depressed if you think you can just 'decide' to get out and do things. Real depression is debilitating. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 09:23 PM |
| 6 | Uninterested in women.This is going to sound a little bizarre, but I was in the same situation as you - similar physical shape, plates spinning, but a feeling of emptyness and pointlessness, particularly around women. Like a depression but not quite. Then I did some reading and tried something. I massively increased my vitamin D intake...to 4000 IU a day. Way above the recommended amount. I also increased B12 but not to the same scale. Almost overnight, that empty, useless, pointless feeling disappeared. I highly rec… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Women are not the enemyI think the solution to the exhaustion issue has been stated in other comments on this thread: Remember that all relationships end at some point. Love freely and openly, but dont become too dependent on, or embedded in, someone else's life, because if you do, you are likely to be hurt when it inevitably ends. There have been some really good, thought provoking comments in this thread...even the negative ones. I'm glad I posted it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Women are not the enemyI agree completely Also, your comment made me do some research on the philisophy of misanthropy, something I was not familiar with. Thanks for that. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 02:33 AM |
| 6 | Women are not the enemyAbsolutely. I remember reading about a homeless guy who would sleep around for food and shelter, and he said that how long they let him stay depended on "how well he laid the pipe" If that doesn't prove redpill I don't know what does. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 11:45 PM |
| 3 | eHarmonyI don't know where the commenters above find the time to meet women without going online. I get that it's better to do things in person, but I don't have the time to troll bars hitting on girls. I have a fulltime job, a house and a full life. E-harmony is a good site, but I like Match better, because E-harmony controls the experience too hard. You only get a few matches a day on e-harmony, whereas Match you can search and go crazy. Both have the benefit of having serious girls (you get a lot les… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/15 03:55 PM |
| 5 | Carousel rider lies to her husband about her history, gets busted after marriageCorrect. I work with a lot of Indians and the difference in the culture between the small more conservative places and the big cities is staggering. Girls from the cities there are no different than girls from New York or LA. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Women are not judge and jury. Do not give them that power.Lol what country is that? I'm moving :) | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/14 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Women are not judge and jury. Do not give them that power.The trick is to not connect your sexual prowess with your self-worth as a human. Just consider it on its own merit. There's sexual conquests and then there's life conquests. Amazingly summarized. I'm going to repeat this in my head for the rest of the day. Thanks! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 06:54 PM |
| 1 | game changes as you age39 here - TRP changed my dating life. Increasing SMV and improving your game are relevant at this age. They helped me. And I do agree that women are generally more attracted to older men naturally. It's certainly easier to get laid now than it was in my 20s. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Dating female lawyers5 or 6 over the years, enough to notice a trend | /r/askTRP | 20/11/14 08:56 PM |
| 1 | The ultimate takerDoes that include their reaction to me? Is it their experience or my actions causing their reaction? I don't think I have my head around this. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 12:03 AM |
| 4 | FR: A repeating problem I've been encountering lately. Issues with getting hard.This is patently false. Do some research online. I've used it several times; it does not cause instant boners. It does not create fake arousal. What it will do it make it easier to get a boner once arousal occurs. It increases blood pressure throughout your system - you'll even feel it in your lips and cheeks - which makes it easier to increase the pressure in an aroused penis. A quick google search of "Viagara arousal" will back me up. For example: http://www.bpas.org/bpasman/viagra | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 03:20 PM |
| 2 | FR: A repeating problem I've been encountering lately. Issues with getting hard.Correct. It does not create desire. It will do nothing for Op. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Facing potentially massive shit test from one of my plates. Need to know how to properly deal with it.I'm going to go against the grain here and say it's not a big deal. If you genuinely don't care about they other guy, and won't get upset, anxious or jealous, then go and have a good time. You keeping your cool around her other fucktoy may win alpha points anyway. I had a similar situation but fucked it up by getting upset and jealous. I hid it, but I ended up staying quiet and rigid through the night. She blew me off the next day. So if you can hold your cool and frame, go and have fun (assumin… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/14 08:42 PM |
| 1 | WOMAN PLANS HER BOYFRIEND A SURPRISE MARRIAGE…UH WHAT!?You just reminded me of the movie Gone Girl. shudder | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/14 03:44 PM |
| 1 | FR: "I'm not fucking you tonight"I've never had a problem with it either. Earned my wings many many times. Cleanup is a little nasty but so what. Also, relevant username? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 08:56 PM |
| 8 | FR: "I'm not fucking you tonight"Just food for thought. I have gone bareback myself too one too many times (hey... we're animals), but there is no good excuse for doing it. Yep, totally agree. When I'm that far into the moment, little head is mostly in control. That doesn't make it a brilliant move. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 06:32 PM |
| 3 | FR: "I'm not fucking you tonight"Ha! I didn't realize I was writing porn :) | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 06:29 PM |
| 1 | FR: "I'm not fucking you tonight"Not meaning to brag, but I've been with several of these... I'm of the opinion that most girls can squirt when stimulated in a particular way. One of the girls would gush so much I felt like I was floating in a lake during cowgirl. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 06:24 PM |
| 14 | FR: "I'm not fucking you tonight"I see quite a few comments about the lack of a condom, some pro, some con. My perspective on this is: Yes, I took a risk here. She said she was clean and recently tested, which could be bullshit. However, I felt pretty comfortable, because of her job (which is in the medical community and requires quite a bit of responsibility), and because she looked and tasted clean and fresh, with no smell, when I went down. It's part of why I always do with a new girl - to get a good look (regardless of inte… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Saw this ad, thought it belonged hereReally? At 53 you pull 30 year old girls? I'm 40 and wonder how long I will still be able to do that. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Man creates a video with him walking through the streets of NYC as a reply to the earlier version of the lady walking through NYC. Results are unbelievable!I enjoyed this very much. I'm not clear on why people are picking it apart...the guy is buff, but he's not Brad Pitt good looking...so the relative attractiveness between the two videos is comparable. The point was to show that this sort of verbal harassment (if you can even call it that) happens to all people with good SMV. Hell, even I get the occassional comment if I wear a tight shirt, and I'm not as buff as that guy. Feminism tries to paint women as victims..this video proves they are just … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Endless shit tests and emotional beatingsOh god no. I'm definitely not interested in the ex or pretending to be. I'm also not obligating anything. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/14 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Man walks through NYC for 10 hours with GoPro, shows that patriarchy privilege is still aliveAgreed. I was originally on his side, but the recent statements make it sound like he was starting the BDSM without talking to them first. That is absolutely asinine, and if true he deserves what he gets. You can't beat girls up during sex and expect them to like it when they weren't expecting it. I wonder why none of them went to the cops though...that's quite suspicious. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Endless shit tests and emotional beatingsOh ya, I'm fully aware. As soon as it came out I was thinking 'oh shit' | /r/askTRP | 30/10/14 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Endless shit tests and emotional beatingsYa thats my thinking. It's not the ex thats the problem, it's the current girl - she's freaking out. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/14 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Endless shit tests and emotional beatingsOk, fair enough, here's the history Long term relationship with ex, ended two years ago. Very intense, very sexual relationship. I ended it due to her frequent emotional outbursts, and she took it badly. She now won't speak to me and cannot look me in the eye if we're in the same room. Most of our common friends hang out with her on a regular basis, and I get invited out with that group occasionally. They have complained of the awkwardness when the two of us are at the same event. (which is why … | /r/askTRP | 30/10/14 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Standing on the brink of divorceI hope you get some good comments on this. If what you describe is accurate, she's acting like a huge brat and should be handled as such. Remember that women are not logical and are more emotional, so don't try to reason with her, and focus more on the emotion instead of the issue at hand. i.e. tell her she's being bratty when she is, or say sorry and give her a hug if you've genuinely made a mistake, or tell her that what's she's asking isn't fair to you when it isn't. IMO women respond better … | /r/askTRP | 24/10/14 06:38 PM |
| 1 | FR: Failed badly on second dateAfter all, there are billions of women out there. They make new ones every few seconds. There's only one of me. I like this. Very insightful! Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 05:46 PM |
| 2 | FR: Failed badly on second dateThanks for the encouragement. No, they had never met before...it was just obvious immediate mutual attraction. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 02:44 PM |
| 2 | FR: Failed badly on second dateI'm glad my experience here is helping others - it makes the rough experience feel worthwhile. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 02:37 PM |
| 2 | FR: Failed badly on second dateI am pissed at my friend for not backing off. I now know I have to watch out around him in the future. He's bags a lot of girls cause of his looks, and charm, but he is not alpha at all, and doesn't know game. He was just taken with the hot babe and couldn't control himself. If I had gone alpha and hit on another girl or something I would have been in a better place- instead I freaked out and went introspective and beta. My text log is short. She said she enjoyed the night but wasn't feeling it … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 05:51 PM |
| 3 | FR: Failed badly on second dateYou've really nailed it here.. I can pull off that quiet, deep voice seduction thing when alone in a lower energy, relaxed setting... like pulled up to the bar at a pub... it's in my comfort zone. But I am pretty much useless in that high energy party mode! I'm more likely to stay quiet and watch everyone else talk at a mile a minute. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 05:41 PM |
| 17 | FR: Failed badly on second dateGreat reply. Much appreciated. I will continue to work on these. All the advice so far has been stellar - thanks everyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 03:49 PM |
| 1 | FR: Failed badly on second dateThanks man. I only ever feel like this at work. I need to figure out how to feel like this all the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 03:28 PM |
| 12 | FR: Failed badly on second dateEasier said than done. I'm a 7 or 8 out of 10 on the SMV scale - good job, in good shape, reasonably good looking, try to dress well. But I'm not a 9 like my friend is, and I have trouble pulling 8-10 girls. I notice a distinct correlation between when I don't care and am in frame, to how successful I am with girls. The problem is, when I feel outclassed, it completely throws me. I already lift regularly, which is the main suggestion on this forum for improving SMV and self esteem. What else can… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 02:53 PM |
| 2 | I'm in love with a girl that doesn't exist anymore..Wow, our stories are so similar. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/14 01:07 PM |
| 7 | I'm in love with a girl that doesn't exist anymore..I don't have advice for you...but I'm there too. My ex of 14 years is long gone, by my choice even, and I've been with plenty of girls since, hotter girls too, but none seem to compare. It's almost like once a guy falls in love, there's no coming back from that. Ive even thought maybe I'm the type that mates for life? It's fucked up and makes no sense, this ex oneitis. I have no trouble having abundance mentality with other girls..,they just don't seem to cut it. Sorry, all I can do is comiserat… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/14 07:10 AM |
| 33 | Finally took a chance, and I'm high off of the results.Good show man, I still can't do this. Well done. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/14 09:08 PM |
| 16 | Why The Gentleman Will Always Finish First ( how to be a beta)The scariest thing about this article is that it was written by a DUDE. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 06:17 PM |
| 5 | FR: "Why haven't you liked the other guys you've dated lately?"How do I get karma from this exactly? self posts don't contribute to karma. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 06:09 PM |
| 1 | FR: "Why haven't you liked the other guys you've dated lately?"Thank you. Yes, I was referring to her (very obvious) tingles. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 06:08 PM |
| 4 | FR: "Why haven't you liked the other guys you've dated lately?"If you knew me 6 months ago, before I knew anything about any of this, I was the biggest blue pill pussy on the planet. The change in how I deal with women now is...(to use understatement...) large. Yes, I'm still learning, and, yes, it's still a shock to the system when these principles work (especially on a really hot girl), but that will fade with time as these things become more ingrained. I'm a quick study. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 06:07 PM |
| 4 | FR: "Why haven't you liked the other guys you've dated lately?"Kino is short for Kinesthetics. It's basically touching a girl in subtle ways to generate interest, and is considered key for pickup. One thing I've learned is to NEVER do a first date across the table. Always be at the bar with her next to you, so you can lean into her on a laugh, touch her shoulder and arm when making an important point, etc. It generates intimacy. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 06:03 PM |
| 1 | FR: "Why haven't you liked the other guys you've dated lately?"Lol, ya I thought of that, but I thought I'd post her thoughts anyway as I thought they proved a couple RP points. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 06:00 PM |
| 35 | Catholic teaching on the ancillary role of women.Pre-RP,I would have found this view antiquated,sexist and morally reprehensible. This sub, plus all the sexual dynamics research I've read recently,makes me think there is truth to this old school way of thinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Caught HSV-2 from slut ex. What now?Herpes isn't a big deal, a huge percentage of the population have 1 or 2 or both and most don't even know. I have 1 (a cold sore once in a blue moon) but not 2, but even if i picked up 2 it wouldnt majorly affect my life. Relax and wear condoms. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/14 07:15 PM |
| 2 | What should I do? Does she like me?Your post is a little odd to me. Have you swallowed the pill yet and read the sidebar? If not, then I understand where you're coming from. Go and read the sidebar and accept the truths there. The RP answer to your question is: WHY DO YOU CARE? Fuck the shit out of her, and ignore her the rest of the time. You sound like you're getting emotionally invested. Fuck that noise. If she's not all over you and completely into you, have fun with her pussy from time to time and at the same time look aroun… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/14 02:55 PM |
| 1 | What should I do? Does she like me?Did you actually read the post? He's already banging her. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/14 02:50 PM |
| 0 | ask waitress out?!Don't embarrass her in front of customers and colleagues, that's low class. Get her somewhat alone for a minute. The easiest way is to invite her for a smoke if she smokes. If not, is there a coffee bar you can sit at one end of and when she's nearby and alone tell her to come over then ask quietly? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/14 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Abundance mentality when you haven't had many GF's/hookups?Own it. Your height really isn't an issue...think of all the short male actors that bag hot chicks all the time like Tom Cruise. Whatever you are, OWN IT and be the best version of that you can be. You can't really change it so why worry about it? All you need is confidence and a little swagger. One of the sidebar books talks about a good walk where you stand straight and sway your shoulders a bit... If you appear confident, people will respond. And regardless of a girls height, remind yourself … | /r/askTRP | 10/10/14 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Abundance mentality when you haven't had many GF's/hookups?Yes they will...but the will likely be lower quality. HB8+ girls don't approach much, they have hundreds of men orbiting them constantly. So your job is to be that 10% and then approach. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/14 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Abundance mentality when you haven't had many GF's/hookups?The top 10% of guys in looks, charm, build,etc will get laid a lot. So you're goal should be getting as close to that as you can. Even the act of improving yourself will impress some girls. Let go of all your insecurities and relax...enjoy college life regardless of the girls. There are many great memories to me made with your friends and classmates...screwing chicks is fun but won't be what you look back on. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/14 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Abundance mentality when you haven't had many GF's/hookups?Stop listening to the drivel from women about what they supposedly want. What they say is not what they really want. Read the sidebar, its all true. Women want an older alpha who can dominate them and take care of everything. That's what gives them tingles. You're not that at 21, especially if you're timid and shy and beta. So let it go for now. Work on yourself exclusively. Become a man who does his own thing and doesn't give a shit and THEN start pursuing woman. Seriously, read the recommended… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/14 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Abundance mentality when you haven't had many GF's/hookups?I had trouble getting laid in my 20s as well. Trust me - the male SMV charts are accurate. When you hit 35, if you're in good shape and have some money (and show it with nice, well fitted clothes and a few expensive accessories), you WILL get laid. For now, continue to work on yourself. Lift, build muscle, get abs, and build an empire. Girls will come here and there and over time, the options will become more plentiful. Trust the process. THAT's how you get an abundance mentality. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/14 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Short term thinkingI was a lot like you - blue bill raised by women, always a bit heavy, emotional / boredom eater. I started working out and lost some weight, but would fall back on bordom eating because of the brain racing you described. What finally put it in check was getting some spirituality. Not religion, but self-focused spirituality. I highly recommend the following readings; they changed my life, and are often recommended by Redpillers. Dan Millman - The Way of the Peaceful Warrior and Dan Millman - The … | /r/askTRP | 09/10/14 09:31 PM |
| 6 | The number of partners before she's no longer considered LTR material.Thanks for this well-thought-out reply. Much appreciated. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 06:41 PM |
| 13 | LTR is starting a new job that encourages her to hit on men at happy hours to increase sales. How does TRP react?I would say the correct RP answer is to completely not give a shit. Keep your SMV high by continually working on yourself and ignore her day to day worklife. If she decides to move on with a client at work, then she wasn't the right girl for you, and you can move on with your head held high. Demanding she not take the job just shows your insecurity. Not red pill at all. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/14 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Help finding RP wingmenFair point. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 17/09/14 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Help finding RP wingmenHmm ya that makes sense, but I do feel a little weird going to a bar alone. Should I just say fuck it and go anyway? | /r/askTRP | 17/09/14 11:12 PM |
| 3 | FR: "Why did you dump me?" "Because you wouldn't fuck"This is where my head is. I need more practice with TRP strategies. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/14 06:55 PM |
| 11 | FR: "Why did you dump me?" "Because you wouldn't fuck"No it wasn't that long...we went out like 3 nights a week...so about 3 weeks. I don't think she was banging anybody else at the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/14 03:48 PM |
| 18 | FR: "Why did you dump me?" "Because you wouldn't fuck"You're right. I only read the red pill books a few weeks ago, right around the same time I met this girl. I made mistakes and waited too long as I swallowed the pill. I won't make that mistake again. Honestly if I hadn't read this stuff I may have kept waiting... Sigh | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/14 03:29 PM |
| 36 | FR: "Why did you dump me?" "Because you wouldn't fuck"Exactly. I was thinking along the same lines. I'm not the type to fall desperately in love with girls though so I'm not too concerned with the games she will try to play. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/14 02:45 PM |
| 5 | Shit tests cause me to lose interest in women.I upvoted this comment. I've recently swallowed the red pill and read the recommended readings. The anger I see in some of the comments is missing the point entirely... Women aren't doing these things to be assholes, they do it because they are biologically programmed to seek out the best, strongest mate. And shit tests are a part of that. It sucks, and is kind of sad, but we shouldn't be angry about reality. I had a lot of trouble accepting the red pill too... I walked around in a daze as my br… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/14 03:49 PM |
| 16 | On the way home I asked a female pedestrian if I could buy a cigarette and she responded with, "I could call 911!"Excellent post. There is no question that women face violence (sexual or otherwise) on a daily basis in this world, and that should be vigorously fought against and stopped. Women are often afraid, some live in fear all the time, and that sucks. On the other hand, there are also examples of women fabricating stories or abusing their power to hurt men, and this is also wrong. Women have a great deal of power over men - emotionally, legally, etc. Some recognize it and are careful with it, others d… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/13 02:08 PM |
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