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I've only heard "the bar is in hell" with reference to basic stuff. Like helping with chores or consent. Generally things that would be bare minimum for many but some are really happy about. Or putting up with bad behaviour. . Examples (most of these are shorts): https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=KUlsJ19JJb0&pp=ygUYTWFuaWZlc3RlbGxlIGJhciBpbiBoZWxs0gcJCdgAo7VqN5tD https://m.youtube.com/shorts/W41cQXUPVX4 https://m.youtube.com/shorts/nESD4zjAptw https://m.youtube.com/shorts/00vXnF96lpU https://m.youtu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 10:32 PM
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I'm youth. And I do get crap for not responding fast enough. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:10 PM
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🫂🍪🍰 People get upset with me for not texting back too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:41 PM
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I don't get what's wrong with it. The point of using text messages was that people can get back to you when they're free ass opposed to both people needing to free up time for a call.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:47 PM
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I've been in situations where I bought food stuff in bulk and had to either finish it myself or try to pawn it off to others. It's an ordeal. Imagine throwing it out and it comes back. At this point it's (the carrot juice) like a haunted object.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:07 PM
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Usually, there's a niche for good, healthy brands, even if they're expensive. The thing is, those brands wouldn't shit on you for having tried the cheap stuff in the past. They're just happy to have you and your money. It's usually really shitty brands that try to neg you into buying their stuff, because it's neither healthy, nor cheap. And even the taste of usually awful. And that's why it's not popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:05 PM
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I thought it was like those random comments that men make about chest or butt and that we achieved equalitities for bitties, so I'm a bit disappointed (but mostly relieved).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:47 AM
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Is it owed? No. Am I choosing to give her some appreciation and sympathy? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 04:40 PM
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What's white pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:21 AM
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Hello Bhai.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:15 AM
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Because I am a mod and I regularly remove unhinged content, so I am not even assuming at this point I'm so sorry. 🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:14 AM
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That was a joke. I fit into a few of those categories. Usually, "I feel attacked/called out" online is just when people describe some of your habits. I'm fully aware that I'm boring, though. I like the parks and libraries, but I can find books online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:54 PM
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If I was a dude, I would cry at this. It almost feels like a personal attack. 😶‍🌫️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:57 AM
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I mean, duh. They're good with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:54 AM
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Not part of this conversation but I'd suggest you browse the finding subs for perspective. r/niceguys r/nicegirls . I think normal people get dates just fine but the moment you start blaming the other people (like an entire gender or just an ex) for your issues, you have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:52 AM
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The impression I got was that they needed to watch some pps and didn't want to acknowledge their obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:42 PM
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results in bad sex, a lack of satisfaction, and resentment from waiting only to be disappointed resentment from waiting I would assume they don't realise were have expectations. A virgin would some that's just how partner sex is. I'm thinking it's insecurity. Plus, resentments could be geared towards themselves if they don't have good references for sexual partners. A guy who's goes exclusively for virgins probably doesn't wanna deal with being compared. All I can think when I think Virgin-only …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:28 PM
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we're terrified of getting c*cked for obvious reasons Did you know that some men have a kink for getting cucked? Just found out from another sub that some even try to force it onto their partners...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:16 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:19 PM
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are you implying women are too stupid to make decisions for themselves and can easily be coerced into doing something as stupid as selling their bodies for money without physical force? Most women? No. He targeted “traditional” women who believed in things like no sex before marriage, convinced then they were in love and had sex with them, and then convinced them to do camgirl stuff. He had a woman helping him (what's called a bottom b*tch, afaik). He was going after naive sheltered women. His a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:02 PM
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Andrew Tate is a human trafficker. Do you think he became one cz he was bribe? No. He was a pos who actively went after traditional women who didn't even want to have sex before marriage, took their virginity and coerced them into becoming camgirls. There's no before or after situation here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:12 AM
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He's learning that there's no happy ever after and that marriage is constant work. I think physical and emotional needs are linked. She wants love to be expressed a certain way. In that regard, it would be understandable if he wanted it to be expressed a certain way and got upset when it wasn't. The thing is, she mentioned her needs. He should too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:42 PM
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Or open relationship. Which is likely to lead there anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:35 PM
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This is the part where you try to go meet other humans. Not just women. You clearly have hobbies, so go out and meet people and socialize. Learn to talk to people again and please for god's sake, don't listen to red pill podcasts. Dr. K has sooner his stuff for initial social interaction without being weird, but don't buy the course instantly, okay? Learn socialization online. Check r/casualconversation and r/socialskills. YouTube channels like Dr. K or Charisma on Command. The same skills that …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:59 PM
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r/usernamechecksout Virtual hugs? C'mere. 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:37 AM
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I'm still working on the Acquaintance bit. I call people friends to easily. Thanks for the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:33 AM
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I just walk away faster than most because if what I show up with isn’t enough then I don’t need to keep proving myself. Did you always have that approach? Was it the same when it comes to friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:14 AM
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They were raised to be permanent girlfriends or situations. Can you explain this part?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:54 AM
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Good. As you should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:36 PM
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It's 50/50 for everyone else. You either are a violent criminal or not. Other men aren't raised to fear people of their own gender. Women are told that if anything happens to them, it's because they weren't careful enough. It's so common that it's internalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:01 AM
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average man is less value as a asset. I was gonna say this. If a well-known is drugged up, you can still sell her. But there's also a clear difference in strength. It's much less likely that a lone woman can kill a man with her bare hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:54 AM
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Ooof. Yeah that's likely not gonna be an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:30 PM
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Not op but: The way people in their 20s ask about “numbers” vs the way people in 30s seen to not care as much sense to play into that. Yeah sure no one expects you to remember college flings but how many serious relationships did you have any how did they end? How do you talk about previous partners? I'm sure it happens, but I've never seen women talking about men in terms of “oh I've been with a bunch of gold digging b*tches” outside of comedy. And maybe it's personal experience, or okay becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:27 PM
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In theory, yes. But “i know how you feel” is inaccurate because we don't. It's when we force ourselves to relate that we wonder if trans people are being dramatic because, “I think society is r/pointlesslygendered. That's not something you fix by getting surgery. Are you sure the doctor isn't scamming you?” Fact is, I don't get it. I think of medical transition the way I would pregnancy. You can contemplate it on any age, but ideally, don't make such a permanent decision before 25 and your brain…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:17 AM
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I think there is gonna be a huge amount of virgins in gen z tbh because people are a lot less social these days. Gen Z here. Please define “Virgin” so I can confirm or deny. (I think I'll qualify, but it's better to check.) We do tend to place lower priority on sex them many older people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:41 AM
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Well, yeah. How are we supposed to understand issues that we can't relate to on account of not having the capacity to experience life as the other person does? The best we can do is acknowledge that we don't get it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:41 AM
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You: Appeal to authority! Logical fallacy! What happened to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:17 AM
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This. Tell me the specifics of the issue and it's impact and I'll do the same. I'm sure some issues will be about comfort and if I find a person who can acknowledge that their stance is 1% informed by the fact that things will be inconvenient for them, personally or in general, I would want them for company. Anyone would. It's really rare to see self aware people. I know some people look good partners who are yes men/women and that some (many) of us will chuck some morals out the window of the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:08 AM
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No. I'm saying that if we're too work within the forced binary of needing your partner, there's a breadwinner and a good-gene/emotional support provider. Both men and women gotta fit into one of those categories. I'm saying that due to the historical tendency of men to discard wives over time, women are wary. (Ever heard of Henry VIII's wives?) It's better to not tie themselves to men at all. . But assuming that what women wear has zero impact on chances of rape is just not true. There is a midd…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:18 PM
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men just use beards to hide weak chins and jaws Ohhh... That doesn't help. Idk why I find beards in general ugly. With practically no exceptions. Maybe there few exceptions are men with really good chins/jaws? Or maybe it would. They should just grow out their hair like women do. 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:59 PM
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Op you mentioned women have deeper relationships with their friends and this is probably true, men need to start getting that too, men need to be able to share with each other. Yes! I think they have to improve their relationships with THEMSELVES! At the end of the day, YOU have to like yourself cz everyone else is either gonna move away or die! . I think more men will be having more sex, be it through monogamy or casual Or be less ashamed of buying and using sex toys. . Sex is a biological urge…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:42 PM
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r/ladyboners? Is that the sub? Edit: What's up with those beards? Ew. I don't get the obsession with that look, NGL. I bet must of the women who like K-pop just like men who look clean shaved, but aren't allowed to judge based on grooming preferences. Why do women have to shave when men don't? 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:29 PM
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Finally, there is the idea that males, or at least far too many males, are by their nature inherently dangerous and predatory to women. Negating this idea would be the first step. Men are taught note to take responsibility BY SOCIETY. That includes both other men AND women. Men are dangerous, so cover up. There are various “What were you wearing” connection at different countries that show that women were in everyday clothing when they got sexually assaulted. Everything thing from sweatshirt+tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:26 PM
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Neither can many women. And men don't just ignore their pregnant wives. Most men make efforts to help their wives during this time. Many couples voluntarily adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:34 PM
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Would you like to join a cult that appreciates male tiddies? You can't have to much sex anyways. r/otomeisekai is always recruiting. We need more people to spread the gospel of Truck-sama. (Sorry if this is unwelcome. I saw the comment and thought you could use a break from dating with something fun that doesn't require much work.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:54 AM
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Indian. I never really saw any double standards growing up, but I haven't dated. What I saw from irl couples is limited to parents and movies. And friends. Mostly movies and friends. Virginity (from fiction): I didn't even know it was an issue, and I know it was no issue for my own parents (they saw relatively similar incomes and got hitched), but apprently some men expect their wives to be virgins, even if they're not. Income: Yes. Most men do think it's a problem is their wives make more or do…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:22 AM
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Yes many men aren’t men. I 100% agree Ohhhh. I see this is an ego thing for you. Men like that are known to prevent their their wives from getting jobs or earning more than themselves in many countries. Even if it requires dv. Many men are stupid and needlessly egotistical, I get it. It does seem to be more common than not. Idk how you define leaders. Most people who aren't struggling to meet their bills already have things figured out. Being a financial contributor in the family doesn't require…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:34 AM
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As do many men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:53 PM
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Let’s keep it 100% women want a man that can provide and show leadership. Depending on what the options are, many women would prefer to take the leadership role. Predominantly speaking a woman spends money mostly on herself and the kids, the man however spends money on everyone in the household. If the woman has enough money to take care of herself, kids AND the man, what need is there for the men to spend money at all? He can just save it all up. I'm literally watching people restrict their dau…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:07 PM
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I'm telling you I wouldn't disagree if you didn't use absolute terms. In countries and families that understand the 2 working people is to have double income, it's expected that financial burden is shared equally. In traditional (sexist?) Societies, men were providers and women were fully responsible for the functioning of the household. And the ones who weren't usually worked. Financial burden depends on your income. And the way though work things out. I've heard that since couples get joint ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:37 AM
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Depends on your definition of provider. Financially? Absolutely. Other stuff? Idk. What other stuff? The way I've seen it, civil servant spouses usually have the financial freedom to open their own businesses and make more money than said civil servant. But they don't have to. Because single income can support the family. Gender has nothing to do with it. Same job, same pay. Also, of you're a public servant and die during service, your family gets your (would-be) income for the remaining service…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:47 PM
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I'm glad you liked it :) I think he asked them more questions, but I attributed that to curiosity about whether they're able to enforce their ideals. The second last one with the couple: “You've got your mind made up about how you'll organize it?” I think it would be more invasive for the men of the question was about something women should do, like working. Idk what Australian culture was like back then so IDK how close is inappropriate. People entering into relationshit need to have those talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:36 PM
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Oh duck that. Traditional men DID child rear. Even the ones who were the sole providers for the family. Spending time with your own kids isn't a chore. At least, it wasn't, historically. Not even counting single fathers, there were plenty of men in the past few generations (even traditional men) who saw raising and caring for the kids and the household as a shared chore. https://youtu.be/ZhfnLoEOTyk That’s fine but there needs to be communication before scrambling DNA with someone. List out and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:56 PM
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Depends on the family. I know a dude who made more than his wife but was willing to quit his job to accommodate said wife and take care of the kids cz his wife was a police officer. A step above the patrolling ones. In our country, that's a priority. A public servant's spouse is highly likely to be accommodating even if they make more, irrespective of gender. If they're both public servants, they would likely do long distance and leave kids with one set of grandparents. Depending on where you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:36 PM
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At what age did you figure that out? I'm only partially judging cz it's because of people like you that is younger people try to avoid similar mistakes. Thank you for doing what you did so we could watch, laugh and learn. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:38 AM
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You mean you couldn't sustain spicy sex with marital responsibilities? Adds up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:00 AM
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Good. Now throw Disney's love out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:42 AM
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Shh... That says something about their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:31 AM
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Certain differences may add excitement and "spice" during the dating phase Speaking from personal experience? 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:26 AM
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My parents fight a lot. Divorced isn't a popular thing in our culture. When I was a kid, mom would take it out on me sometimes. Watching her being when dealing with her in-laws had an impact on me. The day I asked her what divorce was and she explained it to me, I asked her why she didn't divorce dad. “At least he's not violent.” Apprently, grandma had tried to instigate fun to violence and he refused because “I'm not an animal”. That was my standard. I'm not married, but I think unless there's …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:23 AM
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Being a virgin doesn't automatically mean you don't know what an orgasm feels like. The kind of people actively practicing complete abstinence would never dare to complain about their spouse, even to their friends. Or themselves. Edit: Utah? The Mormon belt? You should look up “Is Mormonism a Cult?” on YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:50 AM
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Do more prudish societies have more satisfying (and healthier) sex lives and lower divorce/breakup rates? I That's a false equivalence. I'm from India. Gets prudish depending on the communities. India and Nepal are technically Hindu (majority) and pretty prudish. The idea behind marriage isn't a union of 2 people but families. If you pick your own suppose, it's your responsibility to make sure your spouse, your family and their family get along along. Family is usually mainly the parents of both…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:13 PM
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The worst part? All points except the last one seem pretty valid. XD The last one is problematic because she's not a child that you're luring out with candy. Or a dog that you're taming with treats. Meeting all people is risky, including friends. Also note: You said women, not some women. Thus hashtag NotAllMen in unnecessary too. Men are rapists and murderers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:35 PM
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blue states are countering by pushing “legal till day of birth” laws. I don't see “legally till the day of birth”. Are you counting miscarriages and stillbirth? even most conservative states aren’t all that different than what’s allowed in much of Europe Define much of Europe. In the first article you linked, there are no exception for rape or incest. In much of Europe, it's allowed if the mother's health is at risk. Health, not life. Abortion in the Netherlands was fully legalized on November 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:11 AM
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You'll never know, cz it's always presented as, “She wouldn't go for you if she was sober, bro.” it's 50/50. My besties aren't leaving with anyone if they're under the influence. I mean, give your info if you want. She'll get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 02:32 AM
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contraception Rape Male contraception exists. It has the exact same side effects. You can't have it can you don't need to give birth. therapy services Cramps. And women, due to hormonal differences, don’t have nearly the sex drive as men, and thus don’t use prostitution services nearly as much Sex drives comparisons have conflicting results Do you have any conclusive information on why it's DUE TO hormonal differences? Also, how do you know it's because they aren't horny at all? It's been a whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:26 AM
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Reusable sex toys for men. They reviewed a bunch of those on trash taste once.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:04 PM
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So... Make friends and buy a sex toy for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:02 PM
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I believe that story was fake. He didn't break his arms. He just couldn't use them for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:59 PM
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You're still eating money. Idk what hookers cost you financially. Maybe they're cheap, maybe not. If you can afford it, get sex toys for men. You never have to worry about the legality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:57 PM
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we’d be seeing taxpayer guaranteed access to monthly sex for all men It doesn't exist for women now. No reason it needs to exist for men. Buy sex toys like a normal horny woman would. They exist for men, FYI. Also, bold of you to arrive men can't want our do sex work. It's more profitable than most jobs. Attractive sex workers of both genders tend to have OnlyFans. If said people chose to date, they'd have no trouble finding someone. . a guy who uses a prostitute is at risk of jail time, fines, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:46 PM
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You should consider sex toys for your next single stint.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:32 PM
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If your flair is true, congratulations. If not, I will directly watch with snacks in hand as u/mrs_drgree kills you, if she so decides. I'm bored these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:28 PM
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To add: I'm not from the Western world that OP is complaining about. But in almost every part of the world, women are most frequently assaulted by men they know. And when they complain, it's always: “What were you wearing?” and “She must've led him on.” There are freaking galleries to show what women were wearing when they got assaulted. There was a young woman who was wearing a revealing sundress. Said “young woman” was 5 (maybe 7? Under 10 for sure). And if you do choose to trust a man and som…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:53 PM
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I think he's just horny. Just bonk him? Congratulations on your healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:33 AM
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I don't think it's very obvious from the get go.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:24 AM
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I want someone who can reach the high shelves without climbing on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:06 PM
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That's fine but it also applies to men. Neither party should be withholding how much, if any, casual sex they've had and in what context. No bs about how it's allowed for men. 😑 I don't care if historically, polygyny was common. We don't live there. There's someone out there for every person, in store. This one isn't for me. The crappy double standard of X expectations from one party but not the other, especially with regards to information sharing, is quite bothersome. People need to talk about…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:49 PM
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I haven't seen it. Sauce? Is she sad or angry? It sounds from your comment and the ones before to be one of those performative things people do. Like you know how some people are actually sexist but they gotta please their girlfriends and so they overdo things? I saw that happen with a pro-trans person becoming pro-MAP in the span of 3 comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:15 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:29 AM
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Women are at that stage, socially and financially, where they don't need men. Many of them free up in societies where women's were expected to take care of all the housework for everyone. So, a lot of women go through the phase of “Well I don't need a husband so I'm not gonna get one!” But that's not too day they don't want a partner. It's just that now men have to be amazing. A self-provisioned psychology once told me “My natural state is one of solitude. If someone comes asking and improves up…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:26 AM
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Most guys are out, about, and striking the fuck out. Forgive me for my little alliterative rhyme there. It's not all alliterative. It funny though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:13 AM
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I don't think it matters. I wouldn't sleep around because I had other hobbies and didn't have time or patience to deal with a guy. Or a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:57 AM
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Nope. Made a mistake. Sorry. I wanted to say that the person sending unsolicited dp send like a duck and this even a pretty duck (if they exist) will seen ugly cz of the behaviour of the person it's attached to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:46 AM
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They think you're an ugly duck when you send unsolicited pictures?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:32 AM
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Well done. Now, please join our cult at r/otomeisekai. We have pretty male tiddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:15 PM
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Okay. You wanna see something awesome? r/pocketpussy This is nsfw: r/yaoinsfw. Pretty pps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:05 PM
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You said this to a sex worker who doesn't want to work for free: Why do only fans chicks and chicks in general always bash men about their dicks and performance in bed ? Cuz I'll be quite honest, I've only had maybe 3 out 30 women be able to blow my mind in bed , where they're doing the work. Most girls can't ride dick or suck a dick to save their life . But we don't go around constantly talking shit on women's sub par performance as often as y'all do. Most of the time WE'RE getting ourselves of…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:03 PM
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I'm not entirely kidding. 😅 If you think you can profit, go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:25 PM
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You're missing out. Especially with the first one. I promise you'll like it. And I know you're curious. XD You WILL like those pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:40 PM
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Most of the time WE'RE getting ourselves off inside you , which has nothing to do wirh your skill. So why not get a fleshlight? There's nothing stopping you from getting on top and doing the work that we always have to do. I think there's research suggesting that men and women are into different kinds of motion for orgasm purposes. Also, if the work is getting yourself off, they can just buy a vibrator and avoid the risk of HPV.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:22 AM
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Just tell them the going rate for compliments. “I rate pps on the highest tier of my OnlyFans.” (Sorry idk exactly how OF works.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:14 AM
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r/yaoinsfw . r/otomeisekai Look at those pictures. You wanna read some?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:12 AM
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r/pocketpussy But also, r/yaoinsfw
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:10 AM
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Aww, honey. It's not duck pics in general they're upset with. It's unexpected and unsolicited dck pics that are the problem. There are literally subs called “massive cock” or “hyperspermia” which probably do have female users. At least, if the comments are anything to go by. As a woman, I'll admit to liking content in r/yaoinsfw. You know what great about fictional ducks? Or porn? To begin with there isn't a person on the other end expecting a response. But most importantly, I looked for it! I f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:06 AM
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There's gossip and there's stuff that stays between certain mini groups or isn't verbalised at all. If things would get awkward and they just wanna be in your life, you'll never hear it. Which doesn't mean you should ask, just that you should keep your attachment in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:13 AM
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They also discourage others from just talking to his friends about stuff or joke around. For safety reasons, I guess. Which, I mean, I get, but now I have no guy friend. While I don't care either way, the fact that I need to worry about all interactions with men means that I avoid most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:40 AM
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That's what I thought to, until a guy friend admitted to me that her noticed friends A's boobs and would want to date friends B. If you ask, you'll find out. It requires probing from friends who want details.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:35 AM
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You can ask to leave the room go to the receptionist and quietly explain the situation and they’ll find you someone else I couldn't go to the toilet without fainting. I was in the CCU. I didn't have options. I complained to the only doctor on rotation, who then straight up called people from anesthesia department the next time i needed it. Delegation/mismatched work levels. A partner not pulling their weight with household maintenance and one partner taking on all the burden. Actually, all I sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:10 AM
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Sounds like most people still like the idea of traditional gender roles. A nice person isn't necessarily agreeable and vice versa. According to traditional gender roles, women are supposed to feminine (agreeable, submissive, focused on cooperation) and men are supposed to be masculine (aggressive, dominant, focused on leadership). Realistically, people are a balance of both. You need a combination of those things in a couple. Or a well rounded person. If you look at these traits, it could very w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:39 AM
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Separate bills. Exception: taking someone to an expensive place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:36 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:02 AM
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Why didn’t you ask for a new nurse? We don't have that option, AFAIK. The problem was that she needed someone to hold the skin tight. It was saggy due to weight loss. And then she tried to finish the objection before sticking it. They got better people soon after. Said better person (doctor/nurse, idk) asked for assistance cz it was simpler with one person helping. And that's how people should be in most areas of life. Needing a list to be delegated to you, walk through on how to do things, a ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:20 AM
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I think it should be a voice. Both are fine. As a woman, I started make-up in college and would sweat it off. It was very uncomfy. I do see how little things could do wonders on camera though. Many men do use makeup. And as you know, they look pretty good. You just need to find a way to look good and not want to wash your face. If you do use makeup, remember to remove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:51 PM
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Yet you still learn on your own instead of slowly morphing the dynamic of your relationship into a parent child one vs a partnership. There are different kinds of people. Some people insist on doing it themselves, like you. And there are people who are willing to ask for help. Personally, I don't care for, “I can do it!” type of people cz I've had that type of nurse poke me multiple times before finding a vein. And they had exactly that attitude too. So your brother is transgender? Seems you’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:22 PM
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People aren’t going to do something they don’t want to do whether you ask them or not. If you keep asking repeatedly they’ll complain that you’re nagging them. People are going to do things when they need to be done OR when they feel like it. If there's a bill that needs to be paid today, it will be paid today. If the baby wants a bottle now, it will happen now. Your brother is a man. By your standards, he's the woman because he's more obsessed with this being done now (and “correctly”) and will…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:07 AM
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No. Asking him to do it should. I'm a woman. I don't think it has to do with gender at all. My brother is the one with the problem and he asks me to do things he needs done immediately. The things without a deadline aren't getting done even now. They'll get done when I feel like it. it’ll be a game of chicken to see how long the mess can go on before the women breaks and just does it. My brother's the woman, confirmed. His wife and kid appreciate that. Side note though, as an adult you shouldn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:43 PM
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Ikr? Actually I live at home and mom has some standards (hygiene related) when it comes to things she's gonna deal with and so do I. We communicated and we're fine. My brother is still learning the communication part. And I think he's more bothered by the baby crying, even for attention. I’ve been on the receiving end of this by a perfectionist guy and noped out. Wanna talk about it? I get being anxious but somethings you’ve got to let go of. Depends. I hope your ex finds someone event more anxi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:27 PM
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I guess you didn't see them link. It's fair. I can't find all of them, but I found one for you. (19:40. There's a clear communication about expectations, time wise.) There's a bit where the mother is containing about his motivation, but things get done. That's a conversation that the couple needs to have. In telling you that in my experience, my brother is the mother/manager cz he's more concerned about things getting done. His wife's perfectly cool with leaving some things for later if they can…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:54 AM
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Men, you are also someone who deserves to fully live in this world. To get your sexual wants and needs met. Do not allow any woman to shame you or put you down for going after it. I think you're old. We don't shame for that anymore. And it's not gender specific anymore. Being horny is expected. To the point that aroace people are often uncomfy with the status quo. That being said, most people wouldn't want their partners or loved ones morning them for long. It's just a natural reaction to shut d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:12 AM
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My brother just asked her to split the cost and she limited the spending to only her own income. She pays for groceries. He covers the housing and utilities. She's living with her dad these days and there's a budget on the credit card. She's a generally nice and caring person and she CAN budget, it's just that she thinks expensive stuff is better. She's learning otherwise. It's more comfy for her to live with her side of the family, so that's where she is. 🤷 I think mom is a bit toxic in that re…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:59 AM
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Depends. I think I'm currently watching my brother be the mother with regards to most things. Like I said, the partner who cares more ends up being the one who nags. It's just that usually, it's the woman. If you don't split the chores, that's a you problem. If you don't specify/discuss when chores need to be done, that's also a you problem. I have a link for you about an actual mother. Add in the fact that it's not always going to be them doing it straight away
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:26 AM
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Depends on the man. And woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:09 AM
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My brother has the opposite problem. He's doing the financial management and she likes to spend way above their financial means. She cooked, cleaned, gave baths, changed diapers, grocery runs, laundry and played with them a little before they both went to bed. Most of these are split, AFAIK. There is no homework yet. Some of it is delegated to a maid. I think cooking is split between her and the maid but he helps with the prepping. He takes initiative in laundry and cleaning. Now she's on matern…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:08 AM
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The question is: would you date her? Long term? I'm sure ugly men also get dates. It's challenging to try and make people commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:52 AM
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World's ugliest woman. . Ugliest man alive . Google ugly woman pictures and see which ones you'd like to date or set up with a friend. “Anyone at all” includes them. Men do have standards. They just tend to be lower. Both men and women are sad about not getting attention from people that are out of their league due to reasons out of their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:39 AM
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This is actually the most annoying pull to swallow. Petite who just wanna child with a partner constantly being reminded that their partner could eventually pull this on them. No one likes the idea of being replaced with a Younger “newer” model.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:06 AM
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Hello. I'd like to say that your flair always gets me. I'll go learn Dual Mating Strategy now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:35 PM
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Not really. If we were to objectify all human beings, I would be an onerous gift. I have some issues. And don't really have anything going for me ATM. One day, is like be a package with Priya too go with the cons, but that's a long way off. I think it's a mentality. Work very hard and attention from X person is to be your prize. (This, they are your prize.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:41 PM
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I'm a woman. I think RP makes sense of you replace "man" and "woman" with "main breadwinner" and "support" respectively. If I get the job I want, I can afford a house husband. :) Don't care about n count, but I wouldn't want a potential partner's face and pp being online (forever). Mainly the face one identifiable features.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:43 PM
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Yes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:38 PM
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Dam. Your generation had some liberal views.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:38 PM
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Did it occur to you that for some people, watching porn in moderation is a form of entertainement? NoFap is unnecessary. I have empathy for other men who struggle and want to see them succeed. If they wanna jump off a cliff, let them. When you try so hard to push the idea that one path is the ONLY correct path (even if you believe it), you push people away. If you really want men (or women) to try that, you shouldn't put this expectation on them. Knowing you're not supposed to do something frequ…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:36 PM
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So... A cam girl who streams with her face and genitalia in the frame is fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:34 AM
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Hi, fellow introvert.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:32 AM
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To begin with, this applies irrespective of gender. Everyone is between of not watching porn. But then who will give sex ed? You? The fact that is so normal for men to spend hours and hours every day watching all sorts of porn just makes me uneasy, The fact that you care how others like makes me uneasy. . You're a man who's sitting their jerking off to the girl you want to fuck getting railed by another guy, how sad is that??? How do you know that? Maybe they're just a man watching eye socket du…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:31 AM
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The problem with n counts: does sexting count? If they were on omegle, would every chat count as a person? What if they were on OnlyFans? What if they were doing X rated cams? In Gen Y and Z, n counts are harder to keep track of. So we don't. It's more, “What kind of stuff?” than “how many people”? . My wife isn't the type to do that though. I trust her fully. Though aren't committing to the hypothetical. Lying means there's no trust left. . But yeah, what if there was stuff that's not technical…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:02 AM
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So what would happen if they had a higher n count than you were expecting? Hypothetical: what if your wife tells you her n count was higher than she told you initially?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:40 AM
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never Sus. Actually, maybe IDK. You've never met any woman who cares about n count. Or they just heard about it and didn't make contact. Did you publicise it while dating? Would someone have known easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:09 AM
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This but both ways. Sexual history is indicative of a lot of things. Diseases. Irresponsible behaviour. Inability to commit. Both men and women have the right to ask before computing and ditch based on whatever they want. And both are known to lie. The excuse heard from both genders these days is, “It doesn't matter.” The one from men in three past was, “I'm a man, so it doesn't matter.” It MATTERS. Ew. The other person deserves to know where you've been (and how frequently) before committing. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:50 AM
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women will look past minor flags (high n count) in men because high-value men are rare. Nope. Unless they're looking to be dependent, if they see n count as a priority, they will NOT overlook that. And high value men being rare depends on the definition of high value. I remeber not to long so, there's was a post about hv men not really being very rare, but average women's expectations being high. Of course the opposite also happens sometimes, but woman having Yveria's expectations arms to be a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:39 PM
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If you give up on that, you can find sex robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:31 AM
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Also at play is the masculinization of woman. As woman have become more masculine, finding a man who is masculine relative to them is more difficult. Relationships are more stable when the man is superior to woman in mists regards. I think this is stupid. This bit specifically. Irrespective of time period, women who could afford to be housewives were usually given charge of the household and finances. Men were able to handle letting go of that control because at the end of the day, it was their …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:41 AM
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No. After they are an adult, yes. Not a young man. An adult man. And setting the bar at 25 or older is reasonable. That's the legal drinking age limit in my country. You can have it after your brain finished developing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:05 PM
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Older Gen z here. I'd say we have looked at you guys and decided not to trust anyone. Ever. Half of us subscribe to r/antinatalism to the point of don't that even if a child is seeking and feels pain, abortion would be less painful than a bad life. We're also more open about wanting money. Yes, we're materialistic and want LTRs. We see your generation beating around the bush and want none of it. We wanna grab the bush and beat you (and anyone who does the coy bs) with it cz why?! If you can't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:56 PM
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Shinzou wo sasageyo 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:32 PM
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It's a cute affectionate scene with one person acting like a pretty and the other acting like an indulgent owner. Basically, r/petthedamncat but with a human. Think this post but the cat becomes human.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:28 PM
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I generally agree with the sentiment. I think this extends to sexual assault. Men are even generalized to be the more disciplined of the sexes, for reasons I don’t know but that’s what people say. That depends on where you live. Most places significant Abrahamic influence (so, must of the world) seem to place the blame for s*dual assault on female victim's clothing. Also, such societies adopt the idea that women are somehow simultaneously too stupid to survive on their own or understand formal e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:45 PM
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Are you more likely to be the girl or the boy in this picture? https://www.reddit.com/r/gentlefemdom/comments/su7eri/it_looks_comfy/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:20 PM
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Buy sex twice a day? That would destroy the family economically! I don't get this. Please explain It is significantly cheaper to buy a slave and chain her in the basement. /J Yep. What do you think marriage is about? /J
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:21 AM
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They can both buy sex toys and just cuddle. /J
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:28 AM
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What kind? NTR? Eye socket? Tentacle?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:25 AM
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I don't blame you. r/otomeisekai > sex. ALWAYS. We're reading Miss Not-So-Sidekick. Feel free to join us later. We'll probably be enacting it or something. The MC has supportive parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:22 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:55 PM
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Ty
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:54 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:53 PM
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It's weird how people wanted girl/female and not women. Yes, we grow up. All humans act like X after Y experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:53 PM
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Wtf is awalt?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:42 PM
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No. It does his when I had just hit my 20s. No one can take money from you. Fact is, if they're your partner for a long time, you can still sue for a lot if you live together like a married couple. So at that point, not getting married is just one partners way of saving their assets that may not even work. In contrast, even in countries where prenups are unenforceable in court, having an agreement for what you want in the event of separation helps in meditation. So, why do people avoid it? Usual…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:29 AM
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You know? The bad stuff. You know their negative points, so would you want to date your friends? Long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:17 PM
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Exactly. All the people in trp crying about hvms are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:16 PM
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If he's hot and you want kids, you get kids. That's it. Get ready to find a job and move out. Editing to add: If being RP mam means he doesn't “allow” you to work, you probably also get alimony and child support. Note that your own job prospects won't be good if you stay with him too long for that and cold support of meant for the actual child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:10 PM
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I've noticed that the people who scream about being high value tend not to be high value at all. They're just high volume. I some people who are actually doing well aren't clinging to RP to give them validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:08 PM
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Lol. Good luck man. Dr. K. seems too do a lot of self improvement streams on YT. I'm not telling you to buy the coaching though. Just use da hand. Also, would you actually want you date friends? You KNOW about about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:04 PM
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Assuming they won't get raped. Maybe they sense the horny and are repulsed by it, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:51 PM
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Cz she doesn't want to. This isn't “communism of property and wives”. Considering the fact that most women get raped by men they know, I repeat: you're not scared enough. It's done of the sparkly harmless ones who end up raping them. For a woman, it's 50/50. He's either going to rape/murder her, or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:45 AM
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That's because you're not scared enough. Consider this: you put put your pp into a woman and she's wearing RapeAxe. Still horny? It's you're thinking about hentai, stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:46 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:46 PM
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Now. You're right. There's no proof. Conflicting info but more sources seem to suggest that men are more horny, at first glance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:43 PM
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women, on average, are simply not as horny as men are. Actually no. I'm pretty sure there are studies pricing that women are actually more horny than men. We just control ourselves cz we get the worse consequences. some women with libidos comparable to men Some>50 only attracted to super hot men. You know, there's a while porn category dedicated to sex with ugly bastards. That's why there are a lot more men than women on dating sites like Tinder and OkCupid. Or: It's proportional to population: …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:11 AM
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Yep. Same for many other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:48 PM
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Maybe you're paranoid? Only a third. Below the 50/50 probability. I think it's because their partners let them. Cz at least said partner isn't alone. At least, that's the theory for Anna Duggar (she said it). A lot of people are just fine with being cheated on. As long as they come home to them, supposedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:05 AM
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Meh. But remember, this is 1/3 of men who have a reason to take a paternity test - not 1/3 of all men. That is a huge difference! This is relevant. They really need better data to compare the number of men seeking dna testing to the general population. Or the actual numbers. Sounds like men are pretty good at sussing out cheating partners or kids that aren't theirs. Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:26 PM
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I need source. You seem confused. I want to read the exact wording used. Is this about just husbands or also wives? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:24 PM
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32% of dna tests come back negative. I need more info for this. I don't think it should be automatic. It should happen once the child is safely home and for both parents. I'm thinking newborns being switched due to negligence. And women getting IVF without telling their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:59 AM
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Men are stupid. They trust everyone. They die from all sorts of people. Women are stupid but paranoid. They trust very few people, like intimate partners. They die from the people they trust. What's the overall number like? Number of participants?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:57 PM
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Periods. Hormones. I know it's different for everyone, but I end up cleaning out my ducts once a month. Is life going alright? Nope. I'm in the job hunting phase of life. It's gonna get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:14 PM
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Fuzzy blankets help. Women do this thing where once a month, they allow themselves to curl up under a blanket and cry. At least I do. Cuddling with anything helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:50 PM
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IDK about inventing, but Japan has a service to hire a fake mommy, sister/brother, gf/bf, etc. Completely non sexual. Host and hostess clubs and brothels are separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:20 PM
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So... Instead of selling their bodies to make people happy online, you want them to sell their bodies to make people happy offline? It's still physical labour. Except in one case, it doesn't require travel costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:18 PM
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TL;dr at bottom. Live and let live. If I don't like a specific person who does that, it's not strictly because of that. Go. Do you. I'll do me. As long as neither of us is a prick about it: YAY! The thing is, there are boxes that women at young ages try to fit into (cz I blame media representation). I liked the way it was handled in Jennifer Estep's Mythos Academy. A bit exaggerated, but fine. At least mc goes from calling the “slut” just a slut, to saying she things she isn't one. That's the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:28 AM
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At least they're not being hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:52 PM
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It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:38 AM
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Heard of condoms breaking? It's not impossible. And that mentality is exactly why men end up with cold support payments instead of custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:38 PM
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Unless she gets pregnant. Then it's his problem for ass long as 18 years. Maybe longer if the kid ends up disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:35 PM
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Exactly. Sex toys don't ask for commitment. Once you have sex, beta are off. Even condoms fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:21 PM
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Depends on the country. I'm not American, so yes. And they're ditching based on bad parenting too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:20 PM
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Once women earn better wages, however, they no longer gain much from tying themselves to men, at least not in the same way. They no longer GAIN FINANCIALLY. So now men have to bring to the table a willingness to be good partners beyond just money. A lot of men even contend themselves with being the primary caregiver. I think the American problem is divorce. In most Asian countries, you grow up believing that marriage is for life and are much more discerning while picking a partner. And therefore…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:48 PM
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And do those women come from another century? They'd also be disingenuous. The best option for men (and women) is sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:01 PM
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They actually won't. Cat ladies (in this stereotype) are cat ladies cz they don't expect men at all. And if you do that, you better hope the mail order bride doesn't just divorce you after getting citizenship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:13 AM
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What's this? Equality? Must be fake. Seriously though, there's a market for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:39 AM
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So... We're all Amazon's simps? Look at that. Bezos building his pan harem. . Tbh I don't order from Amazon, usually. I can't go to the retailers and but shit myself. At cheaper prices. Amazon can never match retailer prices in my country, especially for groceries. . On topic: why do you need to date a woman who would rather go for simps than a human? There was that one Twitch streamer who admitted that her bf and her were dating the whole time and exploited (essentially) the viewers for money. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:20 AM
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Thank you for coming to my TED talk
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:07 PM
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I hate to ruin the joke, but they're not so unemployed. Just making less money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:54 AM
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I assume housewives and househusbands cheat for the same reason: they're comfy, don't need to worry about money and most importantly bored. I read that women who outearn partners are more likely to suffer from DV. That's a masculine trait. Violence. By comparison, cheating is a mercy. IDK if cheating is associated with only finances. Do they also study the age differences? Household dynamics? Type of professions/education? Or is there other reasons, like that men who don’t work have more free ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:19 AM
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Wait till you hear about prosthetics ;) (Jk I heard about the leg lengthening procedure though. Not worth it)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:29 PM
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Right?! There are movies about full body surgery. Lookup 200 pounds of beauty of you want. You'll get the point with just trailers. That's why I said money can fix everything. But you might need continuous surgery if you get weight loss surgery without making lifestyle changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:15 PM
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I'm looking, but the only make transformation I found was this. I think they changed his facial structure. There's a show called let me in. I'm looking for more dudes, and the woman look completely different. This one suggests that things can be adjusted in the stomach and thighs as well. You can compare the before and after pictures too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:21 AM
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You need to lookup some Korean dramas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:02 PM
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If she's able to do nothing but stay in and be pretty, she definitely look better fort longer. My mom told me that staying in during covid is probably what caused her caused heels to get better. Awesome. She's over 60. Money is “ability to provide”. The best looking women still go for the richest men. Based on the old theory. When she'll loose her looks, when she'll become old the man will become old too. Why would she loose him? That's just a cope ugly people indulge in This bit didn't make sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 04:35 PM
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Plastic surgery can fix your face. Again money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 04:24 PM
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I mean, unless she recognised the wealth signifies your using, good looks is the way to attract attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:06 AM
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Is that the logic behind buying women drinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:17 PM
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Money helps though. It could even help you look better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:16 PM
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Be hot. Be really, really hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 09:22 PM
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I don't think the feminists around you are the problem. It's the rich. The exact group that you need to break into in order to survive as a housewife. Think about what you bring to such a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:52 PM
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Hey. No. Don't make this gendered. SHE is a hypocrite. Not all women. Or men. The only way she'll be able you sustain that is if she's a catch somehow. A better catch than hundreds of other women of her exact socio-economic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:50 PM
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I believe it's called neolibralism, but I'm not 100% sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:41 PM
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I want to be a housewife/ stay at home mom but people( mainly women) look down on this and act as if you can’t be content being a SAHM. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. It's shitty of them to force their choices upon you. You can be content as a SAHM, but it won't be financially secure. Espcially not as secure as having your own income. To me that is the ideal lifestyle. I want a return to 1950s without the racism. That's your ideal. If you force that on other women, you'd be just as shitty…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:38 PM
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You're biased. You just wrote a whole comment about TRP men wanting to help women who have stayed from the correct path. Which means you literally belive in a single correct path and it's yours. FDS is about not settling, in your opinion. It's about changing men to suit their needs and wants. TRP is about changing the women instead of men to suit the men's needs and wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:55 PM
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RELIGION X is much bigger than RELIGION Y. It's also the only non-academic game in town dedicated to filtering out the PC crap about gender and trying bring the real truths to the people, so to speak. Because of that, its gravitational orbit has reeled in a lot of hate, rage and bullshit. But at it's core, I believe RELIGION X is tragic. Even when it's wrong, the mission of true RELIGION X is to reunite the genders on what it believes are balanced and complementary terms. The tragic aspect is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:46 PM
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I haven't been on it much, tbh. I didn't see what was toxic in either movement. It's only when it gets extreme that it becomes culty and toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:30 PM
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Replace woman/man with human. Now try again. Real (wo)men don't need to get violent BECAUSE they have brains that they can use. They can defend themselves against violence though, and should. I've yet to ask my male friends for rides. Mostly because I don't have many. Or any. Maybe one. I did notice my friends doing that in college. I felt very uncomfy when around women who would demand that their (Fe)male friends for things for them. Some of my friends were VERY comfortable making demands of ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:41 PM
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Good luck then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:39 AM
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I think it's a little more predictable than humans. Not a lot, but a little. And that can make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:38 AM
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You didn't want data. You wanted to know who initiated. That piece from the Oncology Times is the only link I've seen where it's mentioned that the healthy spouses left the sick ones. About sick women being at high risk of divorce: “The majority were the result of the husband leaving the marriage,” said Michael J. Glantz, MD, a neuro-oncologist at UMass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:34 PM
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I can't wait for that moment. Cheap gold? I'll take all of it!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:29 PM
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Shush. He could be a sex worker. #BelieveHim
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:24 PM
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Free male sex toys?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:16 PM
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Be rich. For you. Money is much more predictable than human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:09 PM
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How about on reddit where you say you don't want a boyfriend and they tell you about how tall and buff they are from 2 years of gym (from who knows when, cz gyms have been closed door a few years) and how most women from the country have such attitude even though they're not much to look at?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:07 PM
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Our penis? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:02 PM
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Yes! No longer cares how you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:01 PM
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The average woman living her life doesn't have 100s of men in her dms begging for her attention Ah, yes. But we still get random people DMing us, from time to time. If any of those profiles included my pics, I could totally get a big head and think I'm hot shit. XD Plus have you heard of the “Leftover women” of China? If standards aren't met, people won't marry/date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:59 PM
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Stop being motivated by pussy, bro. There's more to life than that. Focus on other things that make you happy and don't be ashamed of what you like! If you're REALLY horny, there are toys. Japan is doing amazing things in that regard. Get a body pillow and a toy and you're good. I'm not saying don't date or have sex, just that you should find other priorities. Don't ask out 500 women. It's not good for you. Mentally. If men just delete tinder, quit cold approaching, liking instagram pics/followi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:40 AM
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Next time, remeber that in the US, as of 2001, even MS patient's getting divorced were mostly women and it was because of men leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:48 AM
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The title includes the word “Debunking”. It doesn't matter if the explanation seems logical to people,it is just still just speculation, because it has not been proven. Except in certain cases where they DO mention who left. Unfortunately, I only have that info for tumor patients and MS patients from 2001. (US) If the 2001 study is still valid, then it would seem that in the US, even MS patient's getting divorced are mostly women. Perhaps those stats have changed recently, idk. (https://journals…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:46 AM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:25 AM
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No,it's not on point.I already explain why it isn't in my post. No you don't. Also, the studies from outside the US don't cover anything specific either, but you inserted them, didn't you? Why? I'm not spreading false propaganda because it's not wrong to say that their claim is misleading. So is yours. You didn't take the route of “we don't know”. You used misdirection by adding in studies from other countries to act as evidence to the contrary. Their information is more correct. To actually pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:54 AM
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You've switched to non-cancers, so do list out all injuries and permanent issues. Also, [US](data) still supports that. And you have issues with Oprah and CNN, who are both right about cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:31 PM
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As stated before in a reply, this is wrong because. It may be an exaggeration by the outlets, but still true. 1% more women getting divorced is still more women getting divorced. Most people would assume that the healthy partner left the cancer patient. Not only is there no data to refute that claim, there's also no data to prove otherwise. Data from other diseases (brain injury study by Massachusetts institute) would suggest that sick patients are divorced by their healthy spouses. Considering …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:21 PM
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It's exaggeration. 1% more women getting divorced is still more women getting divorced. Most people would assume that the healthy partner left the cancer patient. Not only is there no data to refute that claim, there's also no data to prove otherwise. Data from other diseases would suggest that sick patients are divorced by their healthy spouses. Considering the linked post talks about Oprah, and the studies from the US do conclude that more divorces happen when only the wife has cancer vs when …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:05 PM
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Various kinds of cancers. In a Venn diagram, it would be a smaller circle inside the bigger circle of permanent medical issues. Other permanent medical issues like MS would be other circles INSIDE the same big circle of permanent medical issues. I personally think they should've gone into depth and tried to find other indicators as to what kind of cancer leads to divorce most often and its effects. It's interesting people don't ditch dementia patients often, but then most such patients aren't vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:28 PM
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My point was that once you leave the cancer zone to other permanent conditions, there are to many illnesses to account for all of them. There is no definitive proof that men or women leave their spouses more because of illness. Sounds like one of those things where there will never be enough definitive proof (without violating patients rights).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:34 AM
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You're taking it from Korea, so why not? OP hasn't listed all the countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:40 PM
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Multiple studies with different results. And OP inserted MS, a situation where women ditch more, but not ones where men ditch more, like brain tumours. Which is exhausting, because of were leave the cancer zone, there are thousands of issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:33 PM
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Oprah needs a clickbait title, so the 1% difference counts. OP needed a clickbait title, so it's all propaganda. The linked post is also... Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:21 PM
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The 2009 study which was NOT retracted, leaves us with the following results: The claim is mainly based of two studies.This 2009 study, and this 2015 study that was originally retracted because of a coding error.The corrected version of the 2015 study found a 1% higher probability of divorce when the wife was sick compared to 6% in the original version.I also found this study with the same results.So far it seems like the narrative that men leave their sick spouses more is true, but I'm gonna ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:18 PM
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For example: The depressive has a day or two every few months where he doesn't want to do anything except lie in bed. The anxiety sufferer always has to have everything planned out with an itinerary or he can't go. The OCD sufferer spends half an hour checking the doors and windows before bed each night. People get diagnosed for those things? This makes me feel like I have all 3. Welp. Guess I'm unstable. Women do 1 and 3 just because. I have cramps today, please duck off. I do 2 as well. I assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:35 AM
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Okay I don't personally think any of this has much of an effect, not so long as men are free to choose to whom they give their attention and commitment. Men perceive the female mate value hierarchy and act upon it regardless of what women and the mainstream narratives that coddle and pander to them say. And vice versa. You don't have to marry, tbh. The idea is men have no right to be judgeing women, this is some kind of dreadful affront or overstep by men to be daring to do this. Okay that's fai…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:56 PM
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Practice girls are tired. They get almost nothing out of those situations. They can just adopt a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:11 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:05 PM
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You can't date. You have to work unpaid overtime at our black company. It's a business model imported from Japan. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:33 PM
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What you said makes me think this: They don't need to worry about sending a large chunk of their population to war, so no reason to worry about having more kids. The reason human instinct is to procreate is BECAUSE most kids would die early. Once you're stable, you know your 1-2 kids will have a long and prosperous life, 2 are more than enough. You've done this job of passing on genes. Now raise these little demons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:32 PM
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Add in another exception: people who only have options for high risk pregnancies and will (most likely) pass down their defects. That's why adoption is a thing. And so is surrogacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:22 PM
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Hi. I'm lazy so I wanna know what cmv stands for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:19 PM
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I wouldn't recommend it. The question is why they believe certain things. Are there values or personal benefits? Centre. Will lean wherever it makes sense. Currently right leaning. (Like, don't kill LGBT people or send them to electrocution therapy, but you're not a bigot if you don't identify.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:43 PM
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You KNOW men have onlyfans, right? I think the dude who posted of r/tifu about sucking his own pp has an account on plenty of big pp subreddits. u/fvcknoir, I think. There are make pornatars. Male ethots. Male escorts. Don't be sexist. Men can do anything they put their mind to. Like be ethots. . Edit: Downvote me harder, daddy XD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:47 PM
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I think the main posts don't show up so here's a link. https://www.reddit.com/r/legalcatadvice/comments/q16nq2/can_i_get_in_trouble_for_getting_rid_of_this_tiny/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share . r/legalcatadvice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:39 PM
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Isn't that the point? XD purple pill debate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:25 PM
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I would say 10% is still a lot. 10% of the population of a City like Tokyo-Yokohama, the most populated city in the world, (37,843,000*10/100) is 3,784,300. So... Millions, probably. According to your 10% estimate. A lot of people are open to non-biological children. If you're female and don't want to give birth (but don't mind parenting), it makes sense to date a dude who already has a kid so you don't have to give birth. I say that because women have to carry it around for about 9 months, blee…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:39 PM
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But that means it won't last. It will come out and it's stupid af that people wouldn't ENSURE the other person knows they have kids. children are a negative on dating. Depends. A lot of people can't reproduce biologically and the other person anyway having one could very well be like, “Less work for me!” More so if the child is already potty trained.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:37 PM
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I would say face takes second highest priority after money cz that's the only thing we can be moderately sure about. A bad face can easily be made up with lip fillers and makeup Money can fix anything Having money is the best, to quote my favorites otome isekais.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:14 PM
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If he's rich, maybe? Or if he has something that the other party wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 12:56 AM
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Well, women don't get power before conception. I've heard horror stories of young girls in US being denied medical procedures that might reduce the chance of conception in the future because their future. . Terminating the pregnancy is solely at the woman's discretion and hence she alone should bear the responsibility. Using protection is at the man's discretion so he alone should bear responsibilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:22 AM
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I sent to an all girls schools. Makeup wasn't allowed. I lost a lip balm in an inspection. :( It was more of a hobby thing, afaik. They told me of an alternative “pretty” (popular) way to do my hair and I wasn't into it. Part of it was definitely about getting done from from highly restrictive households. They did little, unnoticeable makeup (eyeliner) cz it made them happy, not to impress non-existent male teachers or something. In my own case, I stopped bothering with makeup cz of some offhand…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 03:32 PM
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That's polyandry
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 03:27 PM
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I'm Indian. We got the right to inherit ancestral property in 2002. Now, we have the right to refuse to partake in that dumpster fire that most relationships become (even if our parents don't have money to give us). Yay? The problem with people today is the lack of communication. How much do the people in question make. How will chores be divided? Who's taking care of the kid? Who's paying for what? Are you aborting the kid if its female? (Yes that's a thing. An illegal thing that - usually - me…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:06 PM
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I also more often than not disagree with radical feminists and what I call self hating feminists. imo those women don't like that they're women, so they disapprove and shame everything that is "feminine". those are the women who are viscerally hateful of all things pink, pretty, or cute, and claim its "immature" even if it's not that deep in the first place. So... Bullies who use feminism as an excuse to be bullies while attending to take away choice from others by claiming to represent them all…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:33 PM
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I had the money cz I needed medical procedures done and I lent it to her and she thought it was spending money and almost didn't give it back. Point was, most people like you more if they think they can manipulate you into being generous, ie, financially. Especially if they're living outside their means. Why would they spend time with you when they can suck up to X who's “generous”? . If you take money out of the equation then you know that your relationships are genuine. Oh they're still very t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 08:28 PM
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r/aspiememes That's not an autistic trait, actually. That just sounds like a math person. That's an FYI, not a getting offended thing. TV representation sucks. Savant syndrome (the thing where they have isolated talents) is pretty rare. Putting that out there. That's a problem with socialization. Autistic verbal people who have been socialized don't usually have that problem. Also, artists aren't all socially retarded. I know what you're trying to say, but I'm just telling you, for future refere…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:49 AM
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That was an anecdote. I was the lender. I don't think the beneficiary knew... He probably would've refused to take a gift at all if he did, but I don't know him. Being wealthy in no way makes up for being a d*ck. For a lot of people, it does. It's depressing, but true. Fortunately, most of my friends are like you. They wouldn't deal with a crappy person for money. Idk. Generous is very often about actual money. You could argue it's about time spent together, but that's usual about being consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:33 AM
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Hey! What did autistic people ever do to you? I'm pretty sure they pay more attention to details like that. The word you're looking for is “stupid”, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 05:13 PM
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emotional intelligence and how kind a man is Translation: generous Usually with money. . I think if you have enough money to be generous, people like you more. And that's not limited to dating partners. People who know that you can (and, more importantly, will) spot them enough money to buy their friends an expensive gift (and maybe even forget about it) would always want to be your friend. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 05:09 PM
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It's easy to fall into that if you don't have positive experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:46 AM
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women in her twenties making the trend of pointing to the bed while saying "When he treats me like shit" and implicating that she's attracted to toxic behaviour and even rewards it Some people age slower. This is the kind of person who ends up in abusive relationships and then suffers. There's a trope in erotica: treating women like crap during sex. Because some people are into 50 shades. I'm gonna put down a theory: if the same dude was ugly af, she wouldn't be into him. It's good if he meets h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:17 PM
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They can be house husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:30 AM
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YES! Usually, when people talk about it, they focus on one gender. Thank you for realising that it's human tendency, not a male/female thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:27 AM
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you don't have these archetypes that defy the typical societal Norm. But we do! You just like to gender them. Also, I'd like to see porn where women don't have strong jaws, since you mentioned that. These type of porn are not female centric. They are made for males who think that even if they're ugly they can still get the girl or for guys who like revenge type stuff. Vibrators were meant to be body massagers. But here we are. (Point is: it's out there, so you can't police who uses it and how. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:44 AM
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Yes but that applies for men as well. But there will always be deviations. If your talk about categories like milf and Amazonian, they're usually between looking than ugly bastards of hentai. Don't believe me? Find out yourself. I'm just saying, people who don't fear ostracization for their taste in p*rnography are more likely to admit to having unconventional tastes. For example, the beautiful blonde woman taking about liking ugly bastards on YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 02:57 AM
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Have you seen that face? Of course she has millions of followers. Thanks for the link. Maybe I'll learn to build some muscle now. . Also, I do see a full head of hair and a nice face with no defects. Strong chin. What else was the make beauty standard? V taper? Not fat? And women's beauty standards: boobs! And and nice butt. Makeup and fashion sense.. she's pretty!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:41 AM
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Definitely a rich country thing. Even they have options though. They're stuck in this limbo where they shame women for deviating too much, or they'd find ugly husbands who do housework for them and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:33 AM
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OMG, yes. OP needs to watch/read more smut. Like, ACTUAL smut, not 50 shades.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:30 AM
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Even when women deviate from the beauty standard norm, there are still have many opportunities for them to get men who think they are attractive. This can be demonstrated by looking at the different types of porn men consume(i.e. BBW, petite, and Amazonian). As opposed to women who have a more stricter view of what they find attractive. You know, porn is largely for a male audience and it could be male beauty standards. We can see this in the types of erotica women consume like a " Paradise in H…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:22 AM
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Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:29 PM
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I do get what you mean. Which is why I said women should at least know if they want kids by 25 our so and plan accordingly. You can start saving for your kids early if you have done idea of what you'll need. 40s is pretty late to have bio kids, NGL, but a good time to adopt a teenager. (Especially in my country, where you need to be at least 21 years older than the kid.) Far too many realizes it too late that they fucked up their chances and fall into panic mode, making bad decisions.. That suck…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:56 AM
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Risk increases, true, but it's expected. And they might have money saved up for that. And they've probably had more time to have the safest possible pregnancy. Which, if it isn't in their own body, can be done through surrogacy. They should definitely DECIDE whether or not they want children, whether they value biological connection, whether they need to be the one giving birth, etc., but rushing in won't help. However, there can be complications at any age. The risk of death still exists in a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:47 PM
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If they're healthy, yes. If they aren't, they can afford IVF or sorrogacy later cz they have money. Or adoption. Cz, you know, parenthood isn't about breeding. (I'm not implying you said that, I'm just being over the top for the sake of it). Dads love their children without giving birth to them, so can moms. By comparison, you'd feel very awful if your life's goal was a kid and you found out your can't have one naturally and you're also broke and can't afford other means. Money doesn't solve all…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:17 AM
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I think there's also a logic that you're at the peak of health in your 20s and that's probably why you look great. Spending this time prioritizing relationships sounds like crap. Let's assume they're right. You're gonna have limited options on your 30s. But one of those options will be: don't get married cz you don't need it. The whole traditional family system is based on the idea that men be the providers. Red pill men would never date someone with more money than them, I bet. The whole femini…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:57 PM
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I'm not sure. I was never a tik tok person. There are lots of short video apps creeping up. Josh. TakaTak. Maybe a dozen others. Josh is just grabbing advertised these days. The problem when a service becomes unusable is finding decent alternatives and not everyone migrates to the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 10:30 AM
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Oh sorry. No. That's cz I'm Indian and there's more fear of China cz they're right next door and the government doesn't want them to profit off Indian people's tiktoks. We do have an alternative app called Josh now. And I edited that whole comment. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:22 PM
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It's not that. It's the part where you said “All the time” If you mean that literally, as woman, I'm exhausted just thinking about it. Not necessarily about the bit where you dress up for fun or in aesthetics cz I'm sure you look and feel great. The part where I thought it was supposed to happen 24x7 😐🔫 You said “all the time”! That's scary, okay? I don't know how you do it but I'm freaking terrified. Edit: Okay. So you didn't say all the time. I read “constantly” as “all the time”. Which is not…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:13 PM
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Tiktok is banned here. I'm constantly dressing up for Fun? What? That sounds exhausting. But good for you. I'm glad you're enjoying life. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:05 PM
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Clothes make a person hot? Hides bara bl manga Okay. ... I want to look up bad boy aesthetics but I'll go down the Pinterest rabbit hole and I won't get it unless you spell it out for me anyways so what are bad boy aesthetics. I wonder: WHY???? Because you're LARPing. You're into that look. They're into people who are into that look and they wanna LARP as people who are that character. I mean, come on. No one has the time to dress in aesthetics for fun. People have lives! (Okay demeaning joke eq…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:52 PM
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r/TIFO
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:03 PM
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I think the same could be said for women having kids. Like, that painful little vagina-turd came out your body while typing you open and your brain is drugging you into liking it. And dad probably had to spend time with you. So... Your parents don't love you without their social conditioning. 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:01 PM
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Oooh. Noice. I haven't seen that one yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 11:36 PM
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Oh. Cool. I didn't even look at the flairs so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:58 PM
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What does your flair mean? That it's sexist? Or that it's pro feminism? Not judging. Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:38 PM
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Just you. 😋 Edit: note that a lot of people (irrespective of gender) don't ask for permission or consent and think that one positive interaction means whatever they do is fine. Subwoofer, even without a positive interaction, people shine that you're fine unless you tell them that you're not in a way that they can't laugh off as a joke. But then you're also a part pooper for not consenting to having your boundaries coated for the group's entertainment. Example Possible reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:28 PM
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Yes. The correct version is: if you initiate contact and it's not for work/other non romantic reason, it's perceived as romance. What's worse is that other women contribute to our as well: I was exchanging anime memes with a person and one of the girls who were Possibly present asked me how to infect with guys. When I mentioned that we were just talking about a control interest, they were like, “So that's your trick!” No. I just like anime. Not every male is into anime. I'm definitely not huntin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:00 AM
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You actually didn't. I'm willing to accept the “probably”, if that's was a mistake. My point was that you may underestimate the number of women who voluntarily pick masturbation over sex if it's about lack of orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:27 PM
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So, the actually category was “not a complete stranger” or “probably not a serial killer”?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:17 PM
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I asked you first so the burden of proof is on you. You asserted something about numbers, so it's your job to prove it. As far as I know, there's no data on how many women there are who fall into certain groups. Case in point. K
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:46 PM
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Did you just ask me for data to counter so you don't have to provide data? You mean you're asking me that because you don't have data? I never said they were having ALL the sex. The people who are having the most sex are in relationships. Reread it carefully. I'll go check. Fine. Most of the sex outside of relationships (though I do quotation your assumption about people in relationships having the most sex.) The issue is single men cant get ssex or relationships. Please make the distinction bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:28 AM
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When I was in the hospital with another bf and my dad there, they designated the same post release routine to... Me. Omg same! My (female) cousin helped me make a routine. Dad did try to help, but him helping was giving me the pile of medications to choose from. Tbh, after heart surgery, not having to get up was really helpful. (Does this count as flexing? :P) I mean, that's a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:19 AM
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How can you fucking help her having her C-section wound checked :'''D You can help her sleep by holding your child for a while. And I also happen to know many mothers can't let their kids cry 5 minutes without taking them in their arm, sometimes they need a good whole 30 minutes before they fall asleep So... The mother is supposed to sleep through a crying child, but the father can't sleep if the light turns on? There's this theory about waking up because of changes in light and sound. Take it u…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:02 AM
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I think women prioritise local providers in many most countries, even if it's not a Porsche. A car is a car. At least, they want husbands who look enough like their local people to pass for a citizen. as things are evolving at the moment Why? I don't know what, specifically, you're taking about but I'd like to. Please elaborate. That will put their women begging in the streets for a provider that they won't find. Let's assume there is a collapse. There are plenty of men in the world who wouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:43 PM
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If you had a child with someone and can't be bothered to help at all, you're the cunt. I bet this man had to deal with everything else afterwards and had to go back to work just few days after. deal with everything else Like what? The c section stitches? Not holding his baby more?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:35 PM
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These women are not the majority if so where's the data? How do you know that? Where's your data? They go hand in hand Actually, no. You said that high value men are having all the sex and many women have sex with them while the men at the top just pump and dump. That's casual sex, not relationships. By that theory, attractive men can stay single and still have a lot of sex. People just don't seem to get into relationships once they realise that there's only loss there. Unless they're broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:31 PM
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There is just too much money floating around in Singapore and Brunei. In those circumstances, women simply do not need men. But they do marry, right? They just don't need to marry non-citizens to enjoy life. Sounds like most women outside of South East Asia. Avoid countries where the manna keeps falling easily out the sky. The easy money has a very corrupting influence on the women. That situation can obviously not last, as it is still mostly the men that keep the place economically afloat; and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:21 AM
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As for contribution of porn: women would prefer to watch porn and use a sex toy rather than have sex with a man who can't make them orgasm. So yes, porn is a factor. Were talking about men here not women. Are men supposed to be having sex with robots? If the sexual partners aren't interested in sex, how will that work? Unless of course all the men in question are homosexual, which they don't seem to be. It's not just about sex it's about dating relationships altogether. You said sexlessness, not…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:06 AM
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I meant to ask the country. In this case, the countries where this actually works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:44 AM
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Interesting. Congratulations. Where is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:41 AM
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Most women find it funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:18 PM
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didn't wanna sleep in the bassinet. The mother holds him all night while the father sleeps. All night. Doctor comes to check on the incision in the morning. Lights are dim and she tells him to turn them on. And the doctor says, “Let's let him sleep.” This is exactly what she said. I checked to make sure I want imagining things cz you were seemingly so sure if yourself. . dude who invented a story to explain his projection Dude who ignored everything she said and started judging her cz he was pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:00 PM
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Sorry I was just thinking about it and I figured I'd ask to see if you knew. Thanks for trying though. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:55 PM
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I mean they did get success, so clearly she woke up. It maybe he did. Idk. If someone has a baby via surrogate and wants to breastfeed, does the surrogate in question breastfeed? Provide milk? And for how long? It's that usually written into the surrogacy contract?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:00 PM
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IDK what you mean by all this. Doctor comes to check the mother's belly during the night while everyone sleeps, he needs her consent, he doesn't need her to get up or to get fully awake, nor to wake the husband and baby, he checks, he leaves, she tries to get back to sleep... ACTUALLY, the baby is fuzzy and didn't wanna sleep in the bassinet. The mother holds him all night while the father sleeps. All night. Doctor comes to check on the incision in the morning. Lights are dim and she tells him t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:56 PM
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K. I think I get where she's coming from. You're holding a newborn while this person who created it with you sleeps soundly and doesn't help. And they get consideration. Btw: while we're on topic, how does breastfeeding work with surrogacy? Any ideas? Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:45 PM
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There were 2 people in this thread. Now there are 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:37 PM
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My main question was: are normal lights completely redundant? Always? And can/do father's of first newborns hold them sometimes? It's there evidence to support that only mother's should hold the newborn babies? She's a patient. How many c sections has she had ? How many wounds has she taken care of? We don't know, do we? Could be zero. Could be a few. Maybe she's overreacting cz her ex for to sleep and she didn't. Maybe she's had a c section before and the lights were on during examination, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:30 PM
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Hard agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:23 PM
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How would the girls know you are good at sex Feedback! (Idk, tbh. Trial and error? Willing to try things for her enjoyment?) Just beacsue 1 guy got a second date simply by not being rude doesnt mean its the same for every other average guy. Fair. But if you are rude, that's gonna become public knowledge soon and hamper your chances of getting a first date. these guys in real life and old dont get chances How often do people just ask women they think aren't ugly for dates? I think the term is col…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:16 PM
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Apologies. But most other women wouldn't find that creepy. I didn't know you were a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:10 PM
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I don't think that $40k/year is modest in Guatemala. It certainly isn't in SE Asia, where I live. True. That's solid middle class (am Asian). Any luck finding women? And can you continue getting the same amount of money while living there? She will quickly adjust and figure out that she can divorce-rape you. Depends on their English, I guess. Women are only as honest as their options. Are you planning to never marry at all? Get hitched and stay in their country? Or just play the field? What's th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:08 PM
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no when people come in to check things she doesn'"t need to get up, doesn't need to get fully awake So... Why was she there to begin with? The man in question was just sleeping. Whole she started awake. The entire night. Do tell me if you know of any laws or medical advice about the father not holding a fussy baby. At all. I think you should just stop talking and let the people who have had actual experience. Actual experience in what? Being a doctor? Checking c-section scars? the nurses can per…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:55 PM
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Actually, not anymore. Women who would seek modest reliable providers may look within their own countries first. Cz foreigners aren't always welcome. In poorer countries that kind of women would be prostituting themselves and be selling short times. Which countries are you thinking? I personally don't think there's anything wrong with mail order brides and what you're looking for. Unless your printing your own business. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:23 PM
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You're defending keeping the lights off in order not to disturb a sleeping person who may or may not react to light changes while the doctor checks out the patient with a flashlight only. I'm defending common courtesy It's there a rule that only the mother can hold a fussy newborn? Because the father in question did not. Does common courtesy require that only one parent care for the child while the other snores nearby? It's a cursory look at a wound, not brain surgery. So why do doctors bother w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:18 PM
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To not stub her toe? Or bump into things? This are done for the comfort and health of patients at the cost of their attendants. What do you think this sub is about? And why is explaining one concept so hard for you if you know about it? Also, FYI, what does “document yourself” mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:11 PM
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It's a dae post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:08 PM
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Wrong gender, but I appreciate the sentiment. I thought you were a woman too so I wanted to double down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:06 PM
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Huh. Interesting. Does that mean normal lights are completely useless? I don't think you would have sufficient details to comment even if it did apply. Pretty sure my dad didn't feel it at all. Mom did. Your wife would've felt it. More so in comparison to a male family member. That would depend on whether you're a doctor who does it regularly. She wouldn't comment unless it was out of the ordinary. How often are c-section incisions meant to be checked on? Is it common practice to do that in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:59 PM
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Oddly we still react to sudden changes lights, sounds etc. Huh? I didn't know. Maybe I sleep too soundly. I don't wake up when lights are turned on at all. 🤷‍♀️ . Did I say they're unnecessary? Using an enhancement doesn't demean something else. You're defending keeping the lights off in order not to disturb a sleeping person who may or may not react to light changes while the doctor checks out the patient with a flashlight only. If they're not completely unnecessary, the regular lights should b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:44 PM
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Lol. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:37 PM
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It can actually be better. How? Doesn't it shine on various parts, this making them look gooey? Doesn't it cause confusion regarding the texture at all? Also, how regularly do you do that? Does it not have any impact on the viewing whatsoever after a certain point? I've also been the patient with my wife asleep in the room and the doctor was very quiet to not disturb her. Here, it's expected for the attendant/guardian to be awake. More shit is given to women and more is expected of women. A woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:36 PM
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I've never heard of the blackpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:17 PM
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Did you wife turn the lights on for her own comfort in your room? (I meant to ask how much of a difference would it make on an average person who isn't highly sensitive to sleep with lights on?) Document yourself before partaking on this sub. That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:14 PM
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We get power cuts. The phone flashlight isn't a substitute for the room's light. Unless they exclusively use their phone flashlight to check incisions and are therefore experts at working without normal lights (no mention of whether that happened regularly, but I'm assuming not because this one incident was worth noting to the woman), they compromised their duty for the comfort of the patient's attendant. Idk if it's normal for the attendant to just sleep in the patients room in the US, though. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:07 PM
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So are they supposed to be celibate during their travels or seek out wives from other countries who'd value them for the simple fact that they're American? (Not shitting on that. Just asking.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:00 PM
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You'd have to be really ugly to never have a chance. If you cross paths with someone everyday, you'll have the chance to step over the bar. And there will be some okay looking people in your proximity. The bar low for attractive men, sure, but it's also low for rich men or those who are good at sex (are Chad's the ones with the bedroom skills it the looks?). Wasn't there the one dude who got a second date simply by not being rude and demeaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:55 PM
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IMO, I think she means that the doctor prioritised her husband's comfort over his own job. We used to have power cuts and I've done things under cell phone light. It's just not the same as turning the light on. Unless the doctor is in the habit of doing things under cell phone light, it could mean that he was neglecting his patient in favour of her husband. Also, I've stayed in a hospital and I don't think people turning the light on and off should be a big disturbance, unless you're highly sens…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:34 PM
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What if he's faking Sorry that's just mean. But yeah. Take care. Congratulations. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:29 PM
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I was in a similar situation, with my wife sleeping in the same room. Gues what? It's common courtesy not disturb sleeping people and she's being a bitch for calling the doctor and her husband out. Yeah but why is turning in the light such an offense? It's everyone here from r/hsp or something? Why is it so hard to sleep with the light on, especially if you're tired? Guess why doctors still use torches, even when the overhead lighting is on? Go on. Enlighten me. And do tell me why they use regul…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:27 PM
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I've been a dad twice, you get woken up every 3 hours, and since you're the dad you're expected to do everything, you need some sleep nonetheless and you don'tn eed to be woken up. How much of an impact does turning on the light in the room have on you? I do see your point, but I've fallen asleep while sitting in class when I was sleep deprived, so I really don't get why the doctor can't turn the light on. wtf are you on this sub and not knowing that? So... Do you have an exact answer? Sounds li…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:22 PM
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nor hitting her when drunk, nor barging into her flat at night to shout at her ... she knew how to pick them before. Those exist?! I'm gonna rain on your parade. Now I have one who's showering me with attention, compliments, affirmation and I am quite overwhelmed because it's just not really expected. Feels good though. What if he's love bombing you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:40 AM
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One of them had a medical procedure done. Guess who that was. Not the one sleeping. In the same room. The other one was getting examined without proper lighting. Yay. And what does beta mean, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:37 AM
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It's up now. So, basically mgtow but for black men? Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:29 AM
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IRL, bar is low for men (A normal face with no deformities), along with people's experiences realising how low the bar can be. But I wanna know if it's similar for women. I wanna know dating standards irl. And irl, bare minimum is seen as a great accomplishment (for many average people). Bo talks about the upper limit. We want a lot. But IRL, most people settle for significantly less. . The male standards seemed a lot easier to meet, even if they were not exactly ideal standards to have. “only e…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:21 AM
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I'm Asian. Like ACTUALLY Asian. Trust me, I know. Boundaries are a joke. Took me over 2 decades and I STILL can't fully form them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:01 AM
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You want me to get you something to drink to help you cool down? We can cuddle and watch a movie of your choice. 😉 Or you can cuddle with this really comfy pillow I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:57 AM
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Because it was on Omegle and standards are low? Like really low. For me, taking about something as abstract as that is the very opposite of romance, attraction and the natural ebb and flow of sexual engagement. For most women, that's “oh he cares about me and he's asking me if I'm comfortable! How sweet 🥰” Why? Because we've been taught early on not to complain. That's one of the reasons women don't say no verbally while getting sexually assaulted. It's either “don't give them the satisfaction o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:53 AM
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Can't access that from my location. What is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:48 AM
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According to your theory though, it sounds like men are aiming for the same thing women are: the top. Why would anyone entertain the person “below” them when they can simp for the one they consider “above”? Be it looks, finances or just casual sex, everyone's to busy aiming high to care about the fact that the people at the top don't want them. Sources? proof, please? Well duh. Why should casual sex be a bad thing for women? Apart from STDs. And kids. Women are the main ones complaining about it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:47 AM
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Idk about ideal, but in the real world, people in developed countries import supposed from less developed countries and said spouses are supportive AF cz they want citizenship. Mail order grooms are need of the hour (I say this because mail order brides already exist.) The mail order spouse is likely to do their best to help the main characters (people from developed countries). Realistically, mail order grooms are less likely cz women are more likely to find men simply die too the sex ratio. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:30 PM
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Because they are having sex with a small number of men who are basically just the top guys in their proximity, and the top women are basically sharing them while the average women get pumped and dumped when these top guys dumpster dive for easier sex. ACTUALLY, there are theories suggesting that really hot people settle down with people who are less hot. Eg 8s will go for 6s cz they're less afraid of being cheated on. At least, really hot women for for average dudes to settle down. According to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:10 PM
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Does South Asian mean exclusively Indian? I'm genuinely confused here. It's really vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:41 PM
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What does South Asian mean, exactly? India? Pakistan? Bangladesh? Afghanistan? Sri Lanka? That is so vague. It's like you're asking them to try and figure out where you're from.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:39 PM
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If you don't wear makeup, you look “tired”. Not wearing that to job interviews, etc. is just limiting yourself unnecessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:38 PM
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All relationships are transactional. The shitty part is pretending to love that person now and the dishonesty imo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:29 AM
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The poems Too Disney. Are you real? What are people's goals for relationships even? Get together to have sex and share bills? And procreate. That's why people look for hot people to date. To give their kids pretty privilege. . I don't want to believe that "All people are like that," That's the intended goal. You do the Disney stuff with your side piece. I'm so sorry. do I want to know where all the romance went, or was it always just a ploy for sex? I mean... You're not alone. Legal marriages we…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:16 AM
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Actually that fair. But you get to switch from one job to another. Given the opportunity, you can pivot. Sex workers who have been trafficked usually don't get that choice. Otherwise, meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:38 PM
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Social media is way more dominant than in other countries. When I met people they asked for my social media, which I have never been asked before in 25 years of living in Germany. I'm Indian and Instagram or discord are the bridge between giving out your personal number that's hard to change and well, personal. We need GDPR. :/ . I'm sorry that the Western representative is doing you guys dirty in some ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:49 PM
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The people who say that looks take priority over brains don't understand how money works. If you marry someone pretty with expensive tastes, they could break your finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:04 PM
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Ummm... You know sex robots are coming out now, right? There was a comedian named Whitney Cummings who was talking about how men wanted them to look real, so they bought makeup for them and they were complaining about how expensive everything was. So... If sexlessness among men is the primary issue, that could be solved easily enough. Would we see more relationships? We don't know. But you're asking the wrong question. More relationships could just as well mean more people breaking up. Would wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:53 AM
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May I? They'll kill you. Look up Cowspiracy on Netflix. They clearly state around the hallway point to the end that people trying to change things or even release documentaries have been killed before. The business is different, but connections are similar
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:18 AM
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You can be cautious without with people without hating them and treating them as guilty criminals for existing. We do. And it's draining. Which is why it's easier to just avoid them. The same way some men don't become friends with women they don't wanna date. That is one thing you miss, it is actually pretty easy to tell who is a risk and who isn’t in most cases. I don't know how that works. Please explain. men do not get any excuses at all if they are assaulted. Neither do women. Men know more …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:55 PM
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in western countries. I'm Asian. There was a news article recent about a Japanese elected representative (i forgot the exact title) being pressured to resign from her position cz she reported sexual assault and “brought shame to the community”. The ideas that you shouldn't bother with the justice system is actually pretty common here. . Which makes sense as less then 10% of men are actually perpetrators same as kkk assuming all blacks are gangsters or all Muslims are ISIS terrorists, just absurd…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:22 PM
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Most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:02 PM
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and you're a free man. A single free man. XD (I'm pulling your leg but I'm also aware of the fact that you will get dumped and shamed for saying that.)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:36 AM
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I believe majority of women get raped by men they know. Forgot the exact statistics. It's better to be bigoted than be assumed and not need cz “She knew the person! She went to the woods with that person willingly! There's implied consent!” That's the judicial system right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:33 AM
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finding someone who looks good and has a great personality It's usually looks first. People who don't look conventionally attractive probably have great personalities ass well. It's just that no one cares enough to look. At least you about you value looks. Most people don't do that. Depends on what you need, I guess. If you don't need to worry about finances at all, you could just go for someone who looks good and has a decent personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:00 AM
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The reference is from a lesbian couple. The person making the lower income wanted to quit her job and posted AITA. She was already paying 40% of the bills and copies were spilt equally. She decided that since her partner liked her job but she didn't, she would work and take up hobbies that the partner would probably bankroll. After being told that she was TA she started taking about the capitalist society or some other moral stuff. Subsequently, I'm even more sus of people making emotional appea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:21 PM
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Disillusionment is just realisation that something is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:01 PM
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I'm not Western. In Asian countries, it's perfectly acceptable to leave the kids with relatives if both parents work. Where are you from, btw? . I’d never have kids with a woman that wouldn’t quit whatever she’s doing for her kids.. If you're being upfront about it before you start dating, I don't see the problem. No one wants to have kids and then find out that they're expected to work their job. Does this apply to the Father as well though? I've had some people tell my dad to retire cz I had h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:59 PM
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Homely definition: (of a person) unattractive in appearance (of a place or surroundings) simple but cosy and comfortable, as in one's own home. Look it up Therefore There are pretty, homely women who So the women in question are pretty ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:51 PM
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How slim are the pickings in your own income group? Couldn't you both just hire people to for house chores/child rearing and go do your jobs? What kind of lifestyle difference show up in your percentile vs one invoice level below or up?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:32 PM
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Remember bills are divided equitably, chores are divided equally. XD (Do you get the AITA reference? It's pretty old)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:28 PM
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What does homely mean, btw? I was under the impression that it's and insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:19 PM
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WTF is your idea of love? Idk what this thread was about, btw. Love seems to be a misleading Disney concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:11 PM
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Raising kids should be done by either there person with the lower income or the babysitter of you can afford one. Everything a woman with a well paying career to give it up in favour of child rearing in a situation when you can hire someone to do it is economically irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:09 PM
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That's your idea of morality. As long as you don't impose that on others, idc. Body count is about the number of people. Hiring prostitutes is about spending habits first and secondly about the body count. Being one is about willingness to do things that are considered inappropriate for personal gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:37 PM
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but if they're weighing in on some kind of "objective MoRaLiTy" That's not objective. Body count should be compared to body count. (As in the man's body count) Seeing prostitutes should be compared to seeing prostitutes. (Women can also see prostitutes, fyi) Being prostitutes should be compared to being prostitutes. (If you're seeing a prostitute, dating one shouldn't be an issue, right?) Objectively, it whether or not one of the above statements matter should be the same for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:57 AM
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Maybe. But depending on the changes in laws, the payout might not turn out as well as you hope. For example, if previously non taxable income is now taxable, you may be ducked. But there's nothing as good as another human being who's invested in your well being. If things truth out well, a well earning human could be better than assets. If they don't, IDK. Outside of the US, raising kids can be pretty affordable. Retirement? Ehhh... You want a young person to make sure you get all the resources.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:16 PM
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Exactly why Gen Z aren't having any.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:12 PM
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For the most part: yep. Except this isn't gendered at all. . No one wants a disabled partner. Some people settle for them because they bring other stuff to the table. Particularly for a relationship other women (her friends) need to approve of her boyfriend otherwise she can't date him. What the Frick are you reading? Is this from a book about the female hive mind? 😂😂😂 That makes attractiveness objective but it just ain't one thing. Nope. It's sounds like the American archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:48 PM
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If sexlessness alone is the problem, they can buy equipment. There are sex robots on sale now, FYI. Aas for dating and starting a family, don't apps don't help with that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:12 AM
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It'll reboot again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:23 PM
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Baby's stuck with you. Emotional support. And financial support for old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:08 AM
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Aww someone who's going to be 24 soon, I just always assumed I'd adopt if I got a job. I hate the idea of breeding for the sake of breeding. The only reason I want to try having bio kids is because I have medical issues that make it hard for me to give birth myself and my parents are willing to pay for a surrogate if I get the chance. You should now that a lot of people change their minds in their minds 20s or 30s, which is why doctors force women to wait till 35. (Usually, no such rule for men …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:05 AM
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Home cooked meals are nice but he was fine eating frozen food, If the meal is healthy, then fine. “Turning a house into a home” is just code for spending his money on things that serve no purpose that he couldn’t care less about, then humble bragging about it at every chance. Yes. . There was an episode on wife swap about the husbands actually just going with what their wives wanted. Both the old and the new. And both the husband were actually cool with the new rules. Here and here. My mom didn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:10 PM
1

If a woman loses a lot of weight, men may think she's hot, but other women will definitely ask her for advice. If a man gets ripped, women may think he's hot, but men will definitely ask for advice. Of course, people have different ideas of what's attractive in the opposite gender (and their own, but the ideas of what's considered attractive to your own gender is much more homogenous). You know what's considered attractive in your own gender and you can usually complement people of the same gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:19 AM
1

Can you send me a specific thread? I went there and feel down the rabbit hole of communalised porn printing r*pe based on religion. 🤮 Suffer with me. I came here (reddit) to post a freaking meme 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:45 PM
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That's what i was gonna say. But more nicely. We care about physical issues more can they're usually indisputable. But actually, someone being “kinda rude” or “lazy” could be neurodivergence. People with ADHD talk about how much meds help them function. I just found out I'm legally a cripple and I've just gotten a bit relaxed (and lazy) cz I have permanent health insurance now. 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:42 PM
5

Well, there's a post on AITA asking whether the bf was an AH . GF advised him of not doing the dishes enough so he went through the cctv footage and calculated and it was equal. His GF felt stalked and the verdict was NOT NTA, I think (90% sure he was deemed TA). It's okay if you're upset on the moment as long as you can about your mistake and talk things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:34 PM
3

That's fair. In support of that, note that many people prefer to outsource certain responsibilities. If you can do that, then that becomes a financial responsibility that both parties should contribute equally to. The thing is: relationships aren't fair. It's common for the party that contributes less financially to ask for equal domestic responsibility but expect to be exempted from financial responsibility in account of “affection”. To achieve that goal, it becomes necessary for people to date…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:30 PM
1

I think I found a good one. Or two. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:55 AM
2

That candid, carefree shot at the park or the beach you’re jerking off to as a man beach you’re jerking off to as a man NGL, I read it, assumed you were female and expected long rants about generalisation and "do you think men are animals?!"and “Stereotyping is wrong” Until I read that you were male.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:09 PM
4

From one woman to another: what's wrong with bar soap? I mean, doesn't it work?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:06 PM
2

I'm not. Surprise! I'm just not broke. :) BTW, bold of you to assume that single mothers would ever consider broke men for husband no. 2. Even the fat ones. They have a child to provide for, and a man who's drowning in debt is a crappy choice. If you wanna pay for sex, go see a sex worker. Cheaper than a partner who's bad at financial management.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:15 PM
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Most people on the world aren't Americans. you women are living in fantasy land. No. We're just living outside “The Land of the Free!” . Stop watching so many movies. Stop being broke. XD Or maybe start watching documentaries about other countries and financial systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:34 PM
2

They are always trying to level up and will leave you behind once they do. I'm very attracted to driven and intelligent women but I'd hate to feel like I'm in a competition to hold her interest. I don't understand why just getting by and enjoying each others company isn't enough. Actually, your future wife or gf is very likely to ditch you given the opportunity. It could be because she's got better options, which Sunny be hard when you consider this bit: Wasn't really expected of men when we wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:28 PM
2

The only thing I can see as being problematic would be the emotional part. I remeber watching a video where the man cried and leaned in his SO (F) for emotional support and she got upset and found him less manly. Which isn't unheard of. And that's okay. But everything else makes sense. The thing is, financially stable men frequently look for partners who would play the supporting role. It's almost impossible for both partners to do their own thing without little disagreements about course and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:11 PM
1

Define “decent behaviour”. And how that statement applies here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:35 AM
1

I think you're right except the bit about philanthropy. Modern philanthropy is about getting benefits like tax exemptions while cultivating a positive image. So... The B type would actually still be awful, but good at disgusting how bad they are cz they have a seemingly nice personality. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:32 AM
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Men being labelled studs for sleeping around while women are seen as sluts = too bad, dating's not fair. That's a dating thing? I thought that was a society thing. No one wants to date a person who would degrade them. Turning away and rejecting them is fine but you're not dating that person. And it's not the way the Isidore sex views it, but also the same sex. That's not exclusively a dating thing. Older women being rejected in favour of younger women = too bad, dating's not fair. Men avoiding e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 08:36 AM
2

Okay. Probably not ace. That's a test they use.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 09:37 PM
0

I got upset at the sexual coercion. I apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 09:35 PM
1

Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:32 AM
1

Having dated someone borderline asexual who showered me with attention and everything else except actual sex (except maybe a few times a month), that can be soul crushing and confusing too. That sounds soul crushing, NGL. I think that's a conversation that not many people have. I didn't know about ED and porn. I actually dislike the traditional gender stereotype. Especially dead flowers. 😋 Plant a freaking tree, y'know! And take care of it!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:26 AM
2

Sex or cake?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:22 AM
1

Fair. I was stereotyping. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:16 AM
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The controversial bit is having sex even if you aren't up for it. The frequency of acts of service for women (flowers, dinner quality time) and acts of service for men (cooking, cleaning, sex) isn't mentioned. What is mentioned is having sex when you aren't in the mood, but OP admits that if their partner was into pegging them, they wouldn't do it as an act of service to make their partner feel loved. Sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:25 AM
1

Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:56 AM
1

Sex. Please think about the sex. Every day. Even when you have cramps and the other person doesn't make you orgasm so the sex doesn't alleviate the cramps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:54 AM
1

why not pay someone for the service, they’ll probably want it more than your partner then. Shortage of funds?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:53 AM
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If your SO can only be made happy with diamond jewelry, or specific sex acts as you described, and the man (or woman) is not able to provide those things, then I don't think the relationship should. Exactly this but with sex. According to the theory you give where you describe sex acts as an act of service that one partner has to put up with, if the make is asking for her to have sex with him even when she's not in the mood, the specific Hypothetical male should be willing to perform for her eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:50 AM
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So if you're SO can only be made happy with diamond jewellery everyday, it's your fault for not being able to provide that, right? It's your job to make it happen, even if it's our of budget? Let's go for something you can definitely provide. If her love language is pegging you, everyday (or getting more people in the bedroom to peg you), or scat, you'll suffer through it cz it's an act of service, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:27 AM
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But she's also a live in prostitute, which is an expensive service, I presume. And here's supposed to take her out to restaurants everyday anyway, do coming already goes down to practically nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:20 AM
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This bit. There’s a fine line between doing things that the other person appreciates and feeling like it’s a chore to be expected, and that goes both ways regardless of gender. Take my poor woman's gold. 🏅🏅🏅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:15 AM
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I wanted to come home to a nice-looking nice-smelling wife and not an unkempt drudge, so we had the cleaners in a few times every week. Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:12 AM
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What makes you think men and women still define love like that? Sometimes, women just want someone to cook and clean and take care of the kids while they work. People are absolutely allowed to define things that way. It just won't be accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:09 AM
1

I'm an arranged marriage, you can just change the parents for failure. The keeping up appearances would make more sense in a live marriage scenario where the family will nag you more as upward to an arranged marriage scenario where they'll try to have a positive influence of it's their failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:48 PM
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I'm Indian. how does it work? Do you get a say in who you marry? In rural areas, your parents tell you type getting married, you don't really get to talk to the person, but you know everything about them materially. I'm from a city, you can get the other person's number and talk to them, and you know everything about their finances, which is usually the primary reason for marriage. My brother and SIL meet at a mall with family members. They were encouraged to talk by taking a round around the fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:30 PM
1

We're just like other MGTOW's, except we one of our hobbies is fucking. Why not just buy equipment for that? You know there ARE toys for men, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:12 PM
1

So... Monkhood, right? Good for them. We're overpopulated anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:15 AM
1

Wtf is mgtow?!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 11:10 PM
1

Women are like, “I got all the money I need. Time for kids.” Men's are like, “I got money now. If we break up, she gets maintenance. Living together counts as relationship.” Women are at the stage where menu were at a few decades ago when they made the money and their wives didn't. I assume that as more women end up paying alimony to their exes, they'll also move away from the desire to get married. This is based on the assumption that, in any relationship, the person making less (or doing less)…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 02:23 PM
1

It might be more positive, but in some communities, both sex and premarital reproduction are stigmatized. It would definitely be better for men in that they'd feel less worried about unwanted kids and they're feel like they're helping their partners. Someone at a child free sub mentioned that vasectomy isn't 100% either and is reversible. And men face less roadblocks in getting one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 11:15 AM
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1) Marriage rate: Will it increase or decrease (as maybe the value of casual sex increases as there is less chance of unwanted preganancies and by extension the value of marriage decreases) or stay the same and why? No comment. But consider the fact that “shared assets” are already causing decreased marriage rates. If you have some money (and expect to make more) you don't wanna get hitched unless you're partner has earning potential as well. Marriage because of unwanted pregnancies could be avo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 11:01 AM
1

I went out with a guy friend. He had an unkempt moustache. Not ugly, but definitely eye-catching in a bad way. XD Seriously though, it doesn't happen. But I usually go out for walks and don't focus too much on looks. I don't consider people ugly unless they have a visible defect. As in, a face/body you wouldn't wanna look at cz it's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 10:08 AM
1

What they need is meds. And/or lube.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 09:59 AM
2

South Korea would like to know your location.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/20 06:24 AM
1

Plastic surgery. Once she's in, she's in.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 04:52 PM
1

No. They're splitting assets. He just happened to make them all. The spouse with less money profits. Always marry richer.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 04:24 PM
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We have equality now. It's just hard for men to marry rich women. Adele's husband should start a Master Class.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 04:20 PM
1

She already does. Elder parents expect you to care for them.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 07:49 AM
1

Your mother only loves you cz her body drugged her with oxytocin. Also, she expects you to return the favor she did by raising you and take care of her in her old age.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 03:33 AM
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