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2

That's a wildly complicated question, but I recommend reading "Models," by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction23/11/24 05:23 AM
7

Move on. She lost interest. The harder you work for it, the needier you'll look, and the less interested she'll be.
/r/seduction23/11/24 03:54 AM
-3

That is wildly oversimplified and makes you sound like a school boy who bullies your crush because you're scared to talk to her
/r/seduction22/11/24 05:51 PM
13

Flirting is what happens when an attractive person is being friendly. It's not much more complicated than that. Talk to a girl. Have a regular conversation with her. If she finds you attractive, it's flirting. Escalating takes a bit more finesse, but flirting isn't that deep.
/r/seduction22/11/24 07:45 AM
2

Whatever that top picks is. I hit the x button on pretty much every girl on there every single day.
/r/seduction22/11/24 05:46 AM
2

Delete your account and wait 90 days before remaking it. The algorithm has banished you to the tinder slums
/r/seduction21/11/24 10:03 PM
1

Go for a walk somewhere and offer your arm to escort her. Easiest physical escalation ever.
/r/seduction21/11/24 07:11 PM
5

I've had some limited success with them. 1st. I straight up purge my rose list every day. I've heard this boosts you in the algorithm but idfk. 2nd. When I do send a rose, it's usually to a girl I'm very attracted to, but isn't necessarily a conventional ten. She's my type. I do this because the blonde haired blue eyes tight bodied girl who looks like a news anchor is getting twenty roses a day. Whereas the tatted up alt baddie is more of an acquired taste. This probably improves my odds. 3rd. y…
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:37 PM
13

TLDR aspiring professional PUA wants you to think he's cool and go to his socials.
/r/seduction20/11/24 04:28 PM
2

"Kimberly! How are you?"
/r/seduction17/11/24 02:42 PM
3

No. 15 minutes or so. Gotta strike while the iron is hot. She's interested in you now. She might not be in a couple hours.
/r/seduction14/11/24 07:09 AM
3

Because he's emotionally invested in cold approach and feels personally threatened by the idea that other people are succeeding without it.
/r/seduction14/11/24 06:07 AM
1

I don't. I really only needed the help once. I would lean into tik Tok. It's the right platform for people to market themselves in that industry, and you might learn enough for free to not need the paid service. Keep in mind, there is no certifying body for this. No Union or guild or government administration or higher education. You've got to be real selective, because anyone can claim to be a pro and take your money
/r/seduction14/11/24 01:56 AM
1

A few years back I did a consultation with a woman I saw on tik Tok. Can't find her anymore, and I paid too much, but she knew her shit. I'd probably go that route honestly. That way you can judge their advice based on their tik toks
/r/seduction14/11/24 01:35 AM
3

"just move bro," 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction14/11/24 12:37 AM
2

Ahh yes. I lack self awareness. You of course know me better. Which is why I, a person who doesn't drink, doesn't dance, and likes to go to bed early, should instead go spend hours a week wandering around bars talking to strangers. Cold approach advocates are always so weirdly zealous. Great man. Glad you enjoy doing that. I don't, and I'm perfectly successful without it. I'm sorry that doesn't harmonize with your fanatical devotion to one tactic.
/r/seduction13/11/24 11:17 PM
6

Can't find it. Certainly unhealthily high. Go ahead and sit down man. You're a "professional," dating coach, and you're mad that I'm giving away advice that nobody has to pay for 😂😂😂.
/r/seduction13/11/24 11:11 PM
0

Yes, and my point is that using a dating app doesn't take any free time.
/r/seduction13/11/24 11:09 PM
0

"my precious free time," you mean using the bathroom? Waiting for the microwave to ding? Waiting for the shower to get hot? How much time do you think running through a couple free likes takes? Your profile shows you spend your "precious free time," doom scrolling and playing video games, so maybe get off your high horse. Nobody frequenting this sub has a healthy amount of screen time.
/r/seduction13/11/24 10:52 PM
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I would consider seeking a professional to do the dating profile optimization thing. One thing that I think helps me is all the traveling I do. I'm often popping into random airports where I get seen by women I'll never meet. It probably boosts me some in the algo. All things about maximizing your desireability still apply. Go to the gym. Improve your fashion. Invest in yourself yada yada yada. Don't get oneitis. Text multiple women at a time until you decide to settle down with one.
/r/seduction13/11/24 10:41 PM
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I work in a remote area out of state. When I'm home, I'm running errands and spending time doing things I enjoy with people I care about. There's nothing "superior," about spending my precious free time wandering around a mall or club harassing random women to get laid.
/r/seduction13/11/24 10:36 PM
1

This isn't the same thing you're dealing with, but it's the closest thing I have to relate. I used to be a bouncer at a bar. I often had to confront people, and these interactions always had the potential to go sideways and turn violent. In these standoffs, one of my best deterrents was my stoicism and confidence. The problem was that when the adrenaline hit, I would start to shake. My voice and hands would start to tremble. What was adrenaline and anxiety looked like nervousness and fear, and b…
/r/seduction13/11/24 09:20 PM
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These are all valid criticisms, although your criticisms of the women themselves are pretty sweeping generalizations. That could be a geographical difference though. I would counter with these two points: 1. There is almost no dating sphere where women don't have the edge. 2. The opportunity cost of dating apps is very near zero, especially compared to other means of courtship.
/r/seduction13/11/24 08:31 PM
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I'm about 200lbs. Deadlift is 425. Squat is 315. Bench is 265. OHP (strict) 175 (leg drive) 185
/r/seduction13/11/24 07:49 PM
9

"work." The terribly labor intensive "swiping." Hey just curious what's your daily screen time?
/r/seduction13/11/24 07:41 PM
2

Fitness is a permanent lifestyle investment. After your first year of taking it seriously, you'll have surpassed 99% of men. Seriously. Outside of the gym, look around at the men in any environment. How many of them look like they work out? Maybe 1%
/r/seduction13/11/24 07:17 PM
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5'8. Bald. I am of very athletic build at the age of 31, but was bordering on obese in my mid 20's and made a lifestyle change.
/r/seduction13/11/24 06:06 PM
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I'm doing fine on tinder whether it's for casual encounters or something more serious. Dating profile optimization.
/r/seduction13/11/24 04:26 PM
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I spend my free time playing video games, dungeons and dragons, and baking cookies. Girls love it. Stop molding yourself to what you think women want. It's needy. Be yourself. Some women will be uninterested, some will be very interested.
/r/seduction13/11/24 03:30 PM
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Literally just jump threads randomly. You don't need to transition. "I like your hat." Talk about hats for the next two minutes. "You don't seem like a local. Where did you grow up?" Talk about where she grew up for five minutes. Groan "I'm sore from the gym yesterday." Talk about workout routines.
/r/seduction13/11/24 05:16 AM
1

Alright man. Did you come here for answers, or confirmation bias?
/r/seduction12/11/24 10:35 PM
1

Because the algorithm is self reinforcing and shuffles you to the top of her deck, even if she's just clicking through.
/r/seduction12/11/24 10:06 PM
16

Setting the "days since someone in this sub over thought something," counter back to zero
/r/seduction12/11/24 12:21 AM
1

If you're scared to be who you want to be, you're already shrinking your total dating options.
/r/seduction10/11/24 01:23 PM
4

Don't try too hard to classify me btw because I'm too complex for that, and don't make assumptions. I'm dressed sharp right now, as I am moreso. It's an easy ensemble, just a black sportscoat and a white shirt and black jeans, my new usual. It suits and does feel good. I don't need to read further, I found the problem. Your head is supposed to go on top of your shoulders, not up your own ass.
/r/seduction10/11/24 05:03 AM
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"hey, what's your schedule like this week. I'd like to take you on a date."
/r/seduction07/11/24 07:12 PM
9

Then masturbate and get a gym membership.
/r/seduction07/11/24 05:22 AM
1

I'm not laughing at him I'm laughing at you.
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:49 PM
18

You paid $1500 for a social media influencer to tell you how to be a "sigma."
/r/seduction05/11/24 06:51 PM
1

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/seduction05/11/24 06:37 PM
0

I'm sorry, the other comment is deleted, what costs $1500?
/r/seduction05/11/24 06:32 PM
2

It's situation advice that he's assuming is universal. I have extremely little free time, and I'm going to spend it doing things I want to do with people I like, not chasing women. I can run through my free swipes on tinder while using a bathroom, and I'm securing as many dates as I care too.
/r/seduction05/11/24 02:38 AM
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Sliding is a long shot. It's online cold approach, but the worst of both worlds. If you're making good use of dating profile optimization and getting matches, you can be more successful there. Occasionally say subtly suggestive things. Don't keep the conversation there, just visit occasionally. If she's interested, she'll reciprocate.
/r/seduction04/11/24 11:54 PM
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Because he's a terrible person who only values people if he can use them.
/r/seduction04/11/24 09:52 PM
1

What kind of sociopath writes this shit.
/r/seduction04/11/24 09:52 PM
1

Communication is more than verbal, her signals are consistent and reliable. Your ability to interpret that communication is the iffy part. If you don't understand signals, proceed cautiously.
/r/seduction04/11/24 07:47 PM
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Easy answer, I fucking dont. This sub misconstrues the hell out of cold approach. Two things are true about courtship: 1. You need to be able to approach when the opportunity presents itself. 2. The law of averages applies to approaches. Armed with these two fundamental laws, dudes go to the mall and harass a hundred women a day. They get laid occasionally, so they declare themselves PUA's and become weird zealots for cold approach. If it's not working, stop doing it. You're not just going to su…
/r/seduction03/11/24 06:34 AM
3

The first time I tried messaging a girl's insta, she was an absolute smoke show. She responded. We chatted for a bit. Set up a date. I asked for a rain check because I was fresh out of a relationship and didn't want to blow it. Hit her up years later when I was back in town. Took her to a drive in movie. Had a good time. She wasn't interested in something long distance. Anyways, that is the only time a girl actually responded 😂
/r/seduction30/10/24 12:49 AM
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I did try teaching my high school students my "rizz" as they call it, but I got fired for doing it. This one sentence said more about the self proclaimed "PUAs" in this sub than the rest of the paragraph did.
/r/seduction26/10/24 03:10 PM
1

Is that who is in this sub peddling coaching programs? Charging to be professional wingmen? Happily married men?
/r/seduction26/10/24 02:42 PM
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Too busy getting laid for reading comprehension, apparently.
/r/seduction26/10/24 05:34 AM
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Those who can, do. Those who can't, teach.
/r/seduction26/10/24 05:33 AM
1

I learned dating profile optimization. And just let those fishing lines sit in the water
/r/seduction23/10/24 09:11 PM
7

Gotta decide if you want the girl more than the job, because you probably can't hang on to both
/r/seduction22/10/24 10:30 PM
3

"It could be an invite. Although if you wear that sundress I might get a little handsy." The important thing here isn't specifically having the right line. It's subtle, preferably classy escalations. I didn't say "I want to fuck you." Or "I'm going to grab your ass."
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:50 AM
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Trying to take a woman home in her home town in her home bar where her reputation is at stake is nearly impossible. I've only done it with tourists who didn't have any witnesses that would tell their friends and family.
/r/seduction22/10/24 12:37 AM
3

You don't have to be a sociopath liar to have sex. Women want sex too.
/r/seduction21/10/24 09:50 PM
4

Say something subtly suggestive. If she's looking for something casual (which is more women than you think) she'll bite the hook and either meet you half way, or escalate. For example, I matched with my current FWB on tinder. We made small talk, she mentioned she'd just moved to my state. I said "welcome. Just in time for the cuddle weather😏." And she responded with "is that an invite? 😏" It wasn't aggressive, just subtly flirty. She matched the energy, and now we bump no no squares whenever we …
/r/seduction21/10/24 09:50 PM
3

For the most part. If it's there, you can squander it. If it's not there, you can't really kindle it from nothing.
/r/seduction20/10/24 05:45 PM
21

"how to friendzone yourself in one easy step!"
/r/seduction17/10/24 06:53 PM
1

You are literally up and down this thread spouting your whiny incel bullshit. You are spouting your nonsense like it's fact, when in reality it's just you coping with the fact that no one wants to fuck you. Show you where you claimed to be an authority? Sure. "You are interpreting the hypothetical 'single long term relationship' wrongly. Your premise is that one LTR is an alleviating circumstance. I would argue it's about as aggravating as 5+ relationships in college. Yes, she may have had fewer…
/r/seduction17/10/24 05:01 PM
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Neither of you have pictures of yourselves posted, so I don't know what you're basing that on. Your entire profile is incel rhetoric crying about how you're still a virgin. Since you obviously have no idea how to succeed with women, why are you here pretending to be some sort of authority on how they think or what they want?
/r/seduction17/10/24 07:41 AM
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I asserted that your post is a reflection of yourself. Your profile provides evidence that is consistent with my assertion.
/r/seduction17/10/24 07:00 AM
7

Literally four days ago you were talking about how women find excuses to stop talking to you twenty seconds after you approach. Three months ago, you were complaining about consistently being friend zoned. Shit isn't complicated. Women aren't attracted to you. And here you are externalizing and blaming it on all the good women being taken.
/r/seduction17/10/24 06:21 AM
4

More like you dropped off after 25 and now the women that once entertained you are out of your league. However, you aren't self aware enough to admit that you aren't the catch you used to be, so you blame it on women being "picked up from the field." That, or the girls your age don't look like the girls in the barely legal jail bait porn you jerk off too, and you think grown women are unattractive.
/r/seduction17/10/24 06:14 AM
1

The "girls don't like nice guys," bull shit is a trope pedaled by douchebags who lack self awareness. They blame the fact that women don't want them on the fact that they perceive themselves as nice, when in reality, they are probably shitty people. Mark Manson does a much better job of explaining what it is that women are attracted to/unattracted too, and that would be what he calls "non-neediness." Neediness is unattractive. Be assured in yourself and live your life. When women see that you do…
/r/seduction10/10/24 09:07 PM
1

Look man, The "pros," are all self declared. There is no certifying body. Ask yourself this: who is going onto a seduction subreddit, declaring themselves a professional pickup artist, and writing little blog posts about it? The answer is creepy mother fuckers who want people to think they are cool. Stop taking advice from them.
/r/seduction09/10/24 06:00 PM
1

Stop being a pussy and go talk to her. You're literally just thinking of reasons not to approach
/r/seduction01/10/24 03:37 AM
2

Appeal to authority fallacy. Women don't want you, so they assume they want none. You are obese, so you assume everyone is obese. You are miserable, so you assume everyone is miserable. Go to therapy dude.
/r/seduction29/09/24 04:23 PM
1

Still projecting my guy. Some of us exercise.
/r/seduction29/09/24 04:19 PM
3

7 reddit karma. You made a burner account to spout incel ideology. The lack of self awareness is extraordinary.
/r/seduction29/09/24 04:17 PM
5

You're projecting, because you happen to be subhuman in everyone's eyes.
/r/seduction29/09/24 04:13 PM
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I was accidentally headbutted by a Belgian girl in Tokyo. Accidentally tourniquetted myself with an extra small condom (didn't know that was a thing). After we were done we found out I'd accidentally locked us in the room (also didn't know that was a thing). Had to call the desk and piece together enough Japanese between the two of us to explain the situation.
/r/seduction25/09/24 02:48 PM
2

Presently, door guy at a strip club. In the past I've worked as a bouncer at a regular nightclub and that was a lot better for picking up women.
/r/seduction23/09/24 12:48 AM
20

I'm introverted and dont drink, so the club scene sucks for me too. All my friends are either just like me, or married, so I'm not doing great on the social side. Where I've had success, is picking up some bull shit part time job one night a week, and using the job to network and date. You don't have to worry about shitting where you eat, because you don't need the job. Fuck your coworkers. Fuck your customers. Fuck everybody.
/r/seduction22/09/24 10:27 PM
2

You would likely have more success with her, by going back and picking up other women in that bar. She's either not that interested in you, or only flirted back to get tips. Let her see you succeeding with other women and not giving a fuck about her.
/r/seduction21/09/24 04:55 PM
2

Self improvement is a never ending journey. That said, why would you keep approaching the way you're currently doing it? It's not working. Try this: once a day, strike up a conversation with a male stranger. About whatever. Maybe they are wearing a sports team logo. Maybe they've got a we'll groomed beard. Cool car. Cool watch. Who gives a fuck. Practice approaching and talking to men. As you get better at approaching, use it to practice your conversation and communication skills. Why men? Well,…
/r/seduction20/09/24 07:42 PM
1

Stop doing it. People in this sub do mass approaches, get laid a couple times, and then declare themselves a "PUA," like that was ever the goal. It's fucking unhinged. Step back. Work on yourself. Try other shit.
/r/seduction20/09/24 07:17 PM
5

Setting the "days since someone in r/seduction over thought something," counter back to zero
/r/seduction20/09/24 06:11 PM
12

Oh look, another aspiring PUA coach posting their blog articles no one asked for across four different subs
/r/seduction19/09/24 05:34 PM
14

I have no idea what you look like, but I can absolutely promise the problem is your personality.
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:17 AM
54

Someone uglier than you is having more success than you. Stop being a whiny bitch about it.
/r/seduction17/09/24 03:24 AM
4

Here's a question, what are your prospective dating coach's credentials? All the women they claim they've fucked? Some weird YouTube videos that may or may not be staged. You're running the risk of paying some asshole a lot of money to scam you. Just buy a book.
/r/seduction13/09/24 11:50 AM
187

I'm not letting someone else's behavior dictate mine. I'm a grown man and I'm going to be my polarizing self, not this weird mimicry nonsense.
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:27 PM
68

You don't mind sleeping with them after 30 minutes.
/r/seduction10/09/24 09:31 AM
8

We might have successfully driven off the worst of the incels... Or I'm just blocked and can't see their posts. I relentlessly cyber bully them.
/r/seduction09/09/24 06:13 AM
87

This sub is at its best het dominant and at its worst misogynistic and an incel haven. I doubt you'll get much positive feedback. But brave of you to inquire.
/r/seduction09/09/24 04:28 AM
2

Joined the Marines
/r/seduction07/09/24 11:35 PM
4

Yup. And there's nothing you can do to plan for all of their various icks. But you know what most women would find to be a huge turn off? A guy who chooses his drink based on what he thinks girls will think of it.
/r/seduction03/09/24 12:49 PM
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This sub has an uncanny ability to overthink every possible aspect of courtship.
/r/seduction03/09/24 10:50 AM
3

While that's legal in most states, it's pretty unethical to be recording and posting people without their consent.
/r/seduction03/09/24 10:30 AM
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Yeah man. You're making all this shit up and none of it is based on any science. Anyways. Masturbating less would probably help.
/r/seduction02/09/24 03:48 PM
0

"indirect game," is just fucking existing in proximity to women. Over time the attraction builds. It only works if they find you attractive to begin with, and there is some obstacle to approaching directly (such as them being a coworker)
/r/seduction31/08/24 08:42 AM
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Because women are interested in them for the quality of their character.
/r/seduction31/08/24 07:41 AM
11

Just go through with the approach. How many times have you approached and it not ultimately result in a hookup or relationship? And you're worried you're just going to succeed in spite of yourself this time? At any point in the interaction you can just excuse yourself and not come back. Or get her contact info and not contact her.
/r/seduction31/08/24 02:31 AM
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1st. This is the shit I wish this sub had more of. 2nd. I had a Sergeant Major in the US Marines who told all of us to write all of our goals, and look at them every day. He's a professional motivational speaker living with his beautiful family in Australia now.
/r/seduction30/08/24 02:20 PM
0

How are we going to know why she did something based on information you provided, when you don't know why she did something?
/r/seduction30/08/24 12:51 PM
1

Sure. But you aren't there for any of those reasons. You've gone out of your way to come to a college campus to pick up women. It's a little weird. Those same girls are frequenting the local bar scene where they are mingling with non college students on the regular. Why not go there?
/r/seduction29/08/24 09:04 PM
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I mean, it's not illegal, but it is weird. It also depends on how out of the way this campus is. If it's in the middle of a city and gets a ton of unrelated pedestrian traffic, that's one thing. If it's self contained and everyone there is a student, you're weird.
/r/seduction29/08/24 08:23 PM
7

Asking the hard questions
/r/seduction29/08/24 07:16 PM
8

Mods if you take this down I understand
/r/seduction29/08/24 06:15 PM
85

Go, and don't be overly invested. Hang out and have fun with the friend too.
/r/seduction28/08/24 03:12 AM
1

Gotta chat her up at work and establish the rapport my guy.
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:16 PM
30

First practical and helpful "blog post," I've seen in this sub, and with no "pay for my Bootcamp," tag line attached to it. Thanks OP.
/r/seduction26/08/24 04:04 PM
12

I gotta tell you man this was not useful testimony.
/r/seduction24/08/24 01:31 AM
19

I just don't get out. Work. Gym. Grocery store. Work is work. Gym is my happy place and I'm not there for women. Haven't seen anyone I want to approach at the grocery store.
/r/seduction22/08/24 03:31 PM
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Reported for violating sub rules
/r/seduction21/08/24 11:16 PM
4

Either your profile is satire, or your whole fucking life is. Hire me! Your new professional wingman! Poster of thought provoking content including "why do women add me on Instagram and then unfollow me same day?" And "ladies, what do your vaginas smell like?
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:20 AM
0

I like anonymity personally. Take a trip to a city that's far enough that you won't run into people you know, or anyone who knows people you know. Depending on where you live, this is probably a couple hours drive at least. Taking a weekend flight would be perfect if it's in your budget. Get a motel that is cheap but doesn't feel like a ratty drug den, just in case you manage to pull in spite of yourself. Go out to the night clubs. Approach without fear of social consequences.
/r/seduction19/08/24 04:44 AM
1

You could read some philosophy. The happy medium from neediness and narcissism in models is being secure in yourself enough to respect her and be happy without her. That security is exactly what she's attracted too. However, you have to find it for yourself, because if you're looking for it to get laid, then you aren't looking for the right reasons, and won't find it. That's an internal journey you have to take for yourself.
/r/seduction19/08/24 01:18 AM
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Stop giving a fuck if she sleeps with you. If I'm bullshitting with a girl I'm not interested in, I'll have her giggling like crazy. It's when I'm around a girl I'm interested in that I'm suddenly tongue tied.
/r/seduction18/08/24 03:18 AM
2

You shouldn't. Being able to cold approach in public under any circumstances is a skill. Practicing that skill can make you better at it. People get caught up in this and declare themselves pick up artists because they spend hours approaching dozens of girls a day, which occasionally gets them laid. That's not the goal. The goal is to be able to do that when you see a woman you want to approach. No more missed opportunities. Not to be a weirdo that goes soliciting women by the dozens on the dail…
/r/seduction18/08/24 12:50 AM
1

Nah, you're paraphrasing for effect. There isn't anything weird and creepy about a man approaching a woman. There is something insanely weird and creepy about a man approaching "50+ women a day," and y'all acting like that isn't unhinged are the ones coping.
/r/seduction16/08/24 01:54 PM
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I joined the Marines 😂
/r/seduction16/08/24 03:21 AM
1

It works because you're blindly harassing dozens of people. It's the law of averages. No matter how shitty your tactics are, they'll eventually succeed if you run it enough times. Shitty marketing firms use the same tactics to sell vacuum cleaners nobody wants. You are the daytime equivalent of the guy in a night club who goes up to every single girl and says "wanna fuck?" Yeah. Sooner or later one will say yes. That doesn't make the guy any less weird or creepy.
/r/seduction15/08/24 09:34 PM
2

Wow, $2k a month? Models is on audible right now for $17.99, and doesn't come with roommates. Day game advocates are fucking insane. Talking about moving to a new city and living in an overcrowded apartment with roommates so you can go bother dozens of strangers a day like that's not weird as fuck.
/r/seduction15/08/24 02:01 PM
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"in order to improve your skill at this, you should uproot your entire life and relocate to a city with the 3rd highest cost of living in the world." Sure man. Are you going to front me the $7k for a security deposit and first month's rent?
/r/seduction15/08/24 01:26 AM
16

I don't think this is the most useless advice anyone has ever given in this sub, but it's a contender.
/r/seduction14/08/24 10:24 PM
1

If y'all are working this hard to get after one girl, you need to rethink your entire life. Improve yourself and stop begging women for attention who aren't interested in you.
/r/seduction14/08/24 01:01 AM
3

You're not waiting for shit. Move on with your life. In two months, when you're bored and lonely, go "huh, I should text that one girl."
/r/seduction13/08/24 10:34 PM
18

Not really. I would let the conversation fizzle and maybe text her again in a couple months.
/r/seduction13/08/24 09:45 PM
2

You're not bad looking but a couple things Stop taking selfies, especially stoic ones. Smiling photos, preferably taken by a tripod or another human. If you can't grow a good beard, don't grow one at all. Especially when you have a perfectly good head of hair.
/r/seduction12/08/24 12:35 AM
0

Apparently no woman wants you, they just want your fabricated persona.
/r/seduction11/08/24 06:17 PM
1

It does work, it just doesn't work on every single girl, because some women don't want that. Rather than find a woman mutually interested in something casual, you decided to be a slimy little manipulative eel and manipulate your way into this girl's pants. Now you're trying to be a slimy little manipulative eel and manipulate your way out of the situation. Honestly, the more you try to defend yourself, the more repulsive you show yourself to be. I understand why this was the only way you could g…
/r/seduction11/08/24 04:11 PM
2

Softening the blow would be "it's not you, it's me." He's trying to hand the axe off to her.
/r/seduction11/08/24 05:45 AM
1

He's not being tactful, he's being cowardly and Machiavellian. He's literally just kicking the dilemma over to her. Let's apply the categorical imperative to it. What if she also doesn't have the stomach to dump him, and she comes up with the same stupid ass idea he did? Now we have two people trying to manipulate each other into breaking it off, making each other miserable and wasting each other's time. All the while the whole mess could be avoided by one grown up initiating one grown up conver…
/r/seduction11/08/24 05:33 AM
3

OP never said anything about her being emotionally unstable. You're moving the goal post to rationalize him not having the stomach for an uncomfortable grown-up conversation.
/r/seduction11/08/24 04:44 AM
8

This is kind of pathetic dude. Just fucking dump her.
/r/seduction11/08/24 04:00 AM
20

"Oh yeah we went on a date next week."
/r/seduction10/08/24 10:25 PM
3

My bad mods submitted the wrong report the first time
/r/seduction10/08/24 02:36 PM
1

Learn to take care of it better. Grow it for two weeks then shave, it will grow in softer and less itchy. Use Cremo beard and scruff cream at night, and a little bit of beard oil during the day.
/r/seduction09/08/24 07:04 AM
2

You make this same post at least bi-weekly and you get the same answers.
/r/seduction09/08/24 06:16 AM
1

If you live in a major city, I recommend going to a night club and approaching there. Is it an ideal place to pick up women? Not really. However, approach there is normalized, and so is rejection. You'll make your first approaches, experience your first rejections, and none of it will be a big deal. Nobody will pay attention to you. Then you can take your new found courage and try again somewhere that you might actually succeed
/r/seduction09/08/24 03:20 AM
13

I promise you, no one has gathered up a bunch of self identifying incels and done a randomized controlled trial to figure out why they can't get laid. Here's the correlation. Someone uglier, shorter, and more impoverished than whatever incel is succeeding. They are succeeding because they aren't a whiny little rationalizing bitch, and they have taken control of their lives. But don't worry about it OP. You didn't come for answers. You came for validation. You came here to convince yourself it's …
/r/seduction09/08/24 01:43 AM
8

Well, If said incel (we'll abbreviate to SI) doing all of that and he's still an incel, it's probably because he's still black pulling himself on reddit and being a whiny little repulsive shit. In which case, SI is probably insufferable to everyone, not just women. However, SI isn't aware of the effect he has on other human beings, because he's too busy externalizing and blaming women for his problems.
/r/seduction09/08/24 01:34 AM
1

How is it possible that you read that entire long ass comment I posted, and still thought the point was "don't worry about your physique?" You are fucking creepy.
/r/seduction08/08/24 02:09 PM
3

If you have two days that you can make it to the gym, Ive been doing the Juggernaut Training Method for a little over a year now, and it is super flexible. It is designed to be done twice a week as full body, or as a 4 day upper lower upper lower split.
/r/seduction07/08/24 01:46 PM
2

Yes. You missed the point. I'm not saying don't work out. I'm saying OP's one size fits all 5 day split is one of 1000x different ways to improve your physique. I have a power lifting total of 1,055 lbs at 190 lbs body weight with abs. I regularly get compliments on my physique, from men and women. I'm in the gym four days out of eight. Not five out of seven. I have the time, I could go 5 days a week. I don't, because my professionally developed program calls for four days out of eight.
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:26 AM
7

Boy did you miss the point
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:12 AM
37

All of this, except OP isn't a bodybuilding coach, and there are 1000x ways to skin that cat, you don't have to work out 5x a week. EDIT: Either I didn't word this clearly or y'all's reading comprehension fucking sucks. Ratio of likes to comments leads me to believe I'm not the problem, but I'll be more detailed anyway. OP is not a body building coach. OP saying "workout 5x a week is cookie cutter advice. There are countless workout splits that one can do. Some are five days out of seven. Some a…
/r/seduction07/08/24 03:24 AM
9

Reported for violating sub rules. And aside from that, I'm not going to validate you after hearing only your side of a story.
/r/seduction06/08/24 04:27 AM
1

He's still around. I saw a bunch of comments yesterday by [deleted] calling women femoids again.
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:33 AM
2

I'm pretty sure like 40% of it is the same guy who refers to women as "femoids," but he's also banned me on like five of his various profiles, so I don't see his posts anymore. I relentlessly cyber bully him.
/r/seduction06/08/24 02:30 AM
1

Uhh fuck, forgot about this. Try Arizona Pete's I guess. I always did well there. Friday nights are best. Thursdays if you like black girls.
/r/seduction05/08/24 07:05 PM
-1

If you could, it would be a waste of time. It won't work for cold approach. Either she's interested or she's not, and you won't change that. For long game with a girl you know, it's just going to end up with you getting your little feelings hurt once another guy comes along who actually sparks something in her.
/r/seduction05/08/24 02:31 PM
-3

Don't start that whiny incel bullshit. Nobody is going to jump out and beat you with sticks or throw you in jail because a woman called you a creep.
/r/seduction05/08/24 06:45 AM
2

Ignore him. He's an angry little man spreading his misery to the masses. He actually has me blocked, the whole thread just shows deleted 😔
/r/seduction05/08/24 05:23 AM
2

I haven't been single in the triad since like, 2017, but I had plenty of success back then. Invasive question, what's your race? And what's your type? If I'm going to help you in that area, it matters.
/r/seduction05/08/24 05:21 AM
22

I'd like to add to this that you need to know that you are not a creep. Like working in customer service. You can say "have a good day!" To 100 people. One of them is going to respond with "Excuse me? What do you mean by THAT?" You didn't say anything wrong, they just took it a weird way. Same goes for approach. Don't be a creep. If most girls politely reject you, and one blows up on you, it's her, not you. If they ALL treat you like a creep, well...
/r/seduction05/08/24 05:18 AM
18

I don't have any real insight into European women, but I do have an anecdote. Take from it what you will. I was in Tokyo at a night club. It was a very busy dance floor. I turned around and accidentally got headbutted by a cute Belgian girl. I asked her to dance. We danced for a few minutes and I said "want to get out of here?" "Hmmm..... Okay!" And away we went. The night was cluster fuck after cluster fuck. 1st. It was 4am. We drove around to three or four different hook up motels (those are a…
/r/seduction05/08/24 04:43 AM
0

I uncomfortably return the compliment
/r/seduction03/08/24 04:24 PM
3

I believe this is a reference to the tendency of Nordic mercenaries to flock to the Congo during the 20th century.
/r/seduction02/08/24 10:07 PM
6

You're not really in competition. She might enjoy the game a bit, but she's already made her mind up about which of you she likes. Don't play the game, you'll come across as needy and drive her away. If she wants you, she'll gravitate.
/r/seduction02/08/24 09:59 PM
0

I am in excellent shape, with good hygiene, grooming, and style. I'm there to work. I don't flirt with my coworkers. Friendly, cordial, nothing more.
/r/seduction01/08/24 04:07 AM
10

You're assuming women's attractiveness is an off/on switch based off physical attraction the way a man's is. I used to be a door man at a strip club. I worked with a guy who I think was more conventionally attractive than I am. I'm, 5'8 bald, muscular build. He was taller, bigger, and had a full head of hair. Most of the girls found him repulsive, whereas several would seek me out and flirt with me on the slower nights or when I walked them to their car. So why was the less attractive guy gettin…
/r/seduction28/07/24 11:48 PM
4

Oh look, another 3 day old profile posting about how shitty Seattle is for day game. Hi again BBear. Just like the last five times you posted this. The problem is the city or the girls, it's your shitty personality.
/r/seduction28/07/24 11:19 PM
16

Y'all are over complicating this shit. You get rejected and start looking for short cuts instead of making yourself more desirable. What's the alternative to being yourself exactly? Putting on a facade? Manipulating her by pretending to be someone you're not? Here's an alternative: almost everything women give a fuck about is controllable, and the stuff that isn't, can't be changed by being a manipulative scheming little weirdo. Make yourself better, and stop blaming women for the fact that you'…
/r/seduction28/07/24 06:57 AM
14

You just do sooner or later. I usually have to reach the point where I want to move on, then some other girl snags me and gets me the rest of the way over.
/r/seduction22/07/24 09:19 PM
1

I've done it one of two ways. Find a hobby that gets you out of the house, and hang out with the people you meet there. Work a part time job that isn't so important to your bills that you can't co-mingle your social life. Hang out with co-workers. EDIT: OP you're young so I realize you might not know this, but fraternizing with your coworkers outside of work is a terrible idea. Which is why this job should not be important to you.
/r/seduction22/07/24 09:07 PM
-1

You want to be a red pilled tool, go be a red pilled tool. Why do you think they act like that? Because they make millions off losers who eat up the persona they're selling.
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:39 AM
11

Or, you get the fuck over all the whiny bullshit, and take control of your life. And then he gets complacent and peaks in high school.
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:34 AM
2

Yeah, and cold approach is my own weakness, because I have approach anxiety and not a lot of time to go practice overcoming it. I just want these young, struggling kids to realize there are alternatives.
/r/seduction21/07/24 07:16 PM
1

Title was "if you're trying to approach women honestly, stop it because that's not what women want." Followed by a couple paragraphs about why women are manipulative and only respect manipulative men. He signed off with "-Victor the Seductor," Seductor being a made up word that I guess rhymes with Victor when he says it in his head. He's an aspiring PUA trying to launch his little academy by writing shitty blog articles on here.
/r/seduction21/07/24 07:14 PM
7

Just because women find your authentic self distasteful, doesn't mean the rest of us need to manipulate people. You're projecting. Nice pen name, weirdo.
/r/seduction21/07/24 12:35 PM
4

Because there's the situation. Then there's your perception of the situation, which won't be entirely accurate. Then there's your description of the situation, which will be even less accurate. Then there's how everyone in this sub will interpret your description of the situation, which will be even less accurate. Then there's the myriad of suggestions you'll get by a bunch of self proclaimed masters of a subject that has no credentialing authority Then there's how you'll interpret that advice, …
/r/seduction20/07/24 08:49 PM
63

I know the PUA community is going to insist on cold approaches being the only avenue, but it's really not. Work on yourself, and join social circles that have you interacting with the same women.
/r/seduction20/07/24 03:27 AM
3

There's not one answer to this. Different women are attracted to different things. Be you. And if you suck, be better. Workout, follow some mens fashion social media accounts. Learn to talk to people.
/r/seduction15/07/24 11:52 PM
1

What narrative are you talking about?
/r/seduction15/07/24 06:33 PM
2

This might be a stupid idea, but try getting a part time job in sales. If you want to learn to overcome approach anxiety, having people tell you to fuck off over and over for a living will do it.
/r/seduction15/07/24 04:55 AM
33

Looks matter. Everything you said is critically important. What doesn't matter nearly as much as the incels in this community want to pretend, is having a conventionally attractive, perfectly symmetrical face. Some girls like their man a little ugly. But everyone wants to cry woe is me, because the alternative is hard fucking work. I'm 5'8. Balding, and have crooked teeth. By all rights I should be cooked. But I am in great shape, have great style, I keep my head razored and my beard nearly groo…
/r/seduction15/07/24 02:09 AM
8

Whether it is or isn't, take it as one. What you're lacking isn't attractiveness, it's confidence. EDIT: I mean yes OP it means you're not as unattractive as you think
/r/seduction15/07/24 12:24 AM
1

Are you under the impression that Marcus Aurelius and George Washington aren't real people?
/r/seduction14/07/24 07:33 PM
1

I showed examples of successful men who didn't act like toddlers, what are you raving about
/r/seduction14/07/24 11:07 AM
2

Because you made your profile an hour ago and all you've done is spout whiny incel bullshit
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:18 AM
5

I've had success attracting the quality women I want to be with, by striving to be the man I want to be. Hence, referencing a Stoic philosopher. I have no idea what Marcus Aurelius's seduction method was. OP's post is worth ridiculing. Nonsense like that shouldn't go unchallenged in a sub where the impressionable come for answers.
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:13 AM
2

I can't tell if that's satire.
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:10 AM
1

Let's complete that thought to make sure I understand it. Women have rights now, so I should be a man baby when one upsets me.
/r/seduction14/07/24 05:55 AM
2

Is him being cheated on a reason to not emulate him? You think none of OP's sigma heroes have ever been cheated on?
/r/seduction14/07/24 05:51 AM
3

You got any examples of Marcus Aurelius or George Washington throwing your little temper tantrums, or just someone I don't look up too?
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:21 AM
8

OP thinks he's the Shakespeare or Sigma.
/r/seduction14/07/24 12:24 AM
32

At least once a week this sub makes me think to myself "this is the most incel shit I've ever read."
/r/seduction13/07/24 11:22 PM
7

It does. Social circles in your current environment are isolated and fucking weird. If you can't tell us why girls are suddenly avoiding you, how are we supposed to diagnose it? Whose to say it's anything even in your control? Safe to say most of these people you go to school with have been in proximity to you for months or years right? Safe to say that most of them have already formed first impressions or preconceived notions of you right? Yeah. Good luck dude. You're a fish in a dentist's wait…
/r/seduction13/07/24 10:03 PM
2

Are you still in high school?
/r/seduction13/07/24 09:56 PM
8

Text her. As long as you're just interested in something casual. She's not capable of something committed.
/r/seduction13/07/24 08:08 PM
1

I don't do any of those things. I've dated women that do. My answer to a girl I'm involved with when she's going out with friends is "have fun, be safe, call me if you need me."
/r/seduction12/07/24 09:39 PM
5

Japanese girls don't want to be approached. Go to Rapongi and fuck the other tourists.
/r/seduction12/07/24 03:54 AM
4

Nobody cares dude.
/r/seduction11/07/24 06:57 AM
2

I said women haters and incels. Naturally, you only got defensive about incel.
/r/seduction11/07/24 06:19 AM
19

Was this sub always a haven for women haters and incels, or is it a recent migration
/r/seduction10/07/24 08:26 PM
1

Here's a question for you. Someone is behind me in a dense crowd. They want to get past me. They've said "excuse me," three times now, louder each time. We're in a loud environment, such as a concert or night club. I can't hear them. Do they: A: touch my arm to get my attention, thus initiating physical contact without first receiving verbal consent Or B: stay stuck behind me until the event ends, or I happen to turn around and make eye contact
/r/seduction10/07/24 08:14 PM
4

Approach anxiety is something you just have to throw yourself out there for. As for being awkward in a conversation. Women are people. Talk to them like people.
/r/seduction10/07/24 06:30 PM
0

NUANCE nu·ance ˈnü-ˌän(t)s ˈnyü-, -ˌäⁿs; nü-ˈän(t)s, nyü-, -ˈäⁿs Synonyms of nuance 1 : a subtle distinction or variation Nuances of flavor and fragrance cannot be described accurately … —Scott Seegers … these terms have certain nuances of meaning … —Ben F. Nelms 2 : a subtle quality : NICETY … the nuances of an individual's voice … —Michael Swaine 3 : sensibility to, awareness of, or ability to express delicate shadings (as of meaning, feeling, or value) … a performance of remarkable pliability…
/r/seduction10/07/24 05:32 PM
1

Move on dude. She ain't coming back.
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:24 PM
1

Thank you for being a success story in this incel cesspool
/r/seduction09/07/24 05:20 PM
0

"Excuse me ma'am. We've been talking for a few minutes and I see a twinkle in your eyes. Do I have your permission to non sensually place my hand on your lower back? I want to lead you to a quieter part of the room, then I'm going to ask your permission to put my arm around your shoulder." Shut the fuck up dude.
/r/seduction09/07/24 12:57 AM
7

Move the conversation. If she seems into you, say "let's go over here where it's quieter," and place your hand gently on the small of her back to guide her through the crowd. Now you've initiated physical touch. If she doesn't move your hand away, you can go sit on a couch somewhere and put your arm around her. The entire conversation just got a lot more intimate.
/r/seduction08/07/24 05:21 PM
6

Good job. That's a hell of a hurdle you've managed to cross. Don't spend months chatting with her at the gym. Make some kind of move. Either start actually flirting with her, or say fuck it and ask her out. If she is cold to either, back off.
/r/seduction08/07/24 05:03 PM
7

Sure bud.
/r/seduction08/07/24 03:29 AM
10

Hi BBear. 1st. It's super weird that you made a whole separate profile just to come here and keep crying about the same shit. 2nd. Daygame is a choice you're making for yourself. You insist it's your preference, but you repeatedly post about how you're failing at it here. Change your strategies. 3rd. I promise, the girls here aren't weird. The problem is your personality.
/r/seduction08/07/24 03:04 AM
25

It's worth casting those lines out and waiting to see if something nibbles. Don't spend money.
/r/seduction06/07/24 06:51 PM
6

Cool. And suddenly, 20 minutes ago, you decided to make a new Reddit account, in which you only interact with one sub, and all you do is cry about how evil women are for not sleeping with you.
/r/seduction06/07/24 01:26 AM
10

Yes. You benevolently made a profile today to spout incel bullshit. You're a troll.
/r/seduction06/07/24 01:21 AM
14

And again, nobody with any sense should be taking advice from a profile called "KillAllWomen68." I'm going to say since your profile was made today, you're just here to troll.
/r/seduction06/07/24 01:16 AM
11

Thank you "KillAllWomen68," I'm sure you have lots of insightful advice on how to interact with the opposite sex.
/r/seduction06/07/24 01:15 AM
10

At your age, find a club that lets 18 and up people in. Approach strangers. Fall on your face.
/r/seduction06/07/24 12:47 AM
91

Talk to women like you talk to men. Fumble a few and figure it out. Gotta get your feet wet man.
/r/seduction06/07/24 12:38 AM
2

What everyone else does is fumble around in the dark, have their self esteem ride highs and lows, have a phase where they manipulate women to get into their pants, and then maybe somewhere along realize women are human beings. If you'd like to skip all that nonsense, here are some books I recommend: "Models," by Mark Manson. Recommended to me by a friend who also went through all the dumb phases and read all the shitty pick up books. It's a really mature approach to interacting with women and at…
/r/seduction06/07/24 12:04 AM
4

That's a cope if I've ever heard one. Never once heard a woman say they care about how many vacations a guy posted on Instagram.
/r/seduction05/07/24 11:40 PM
8

He's saying you've got a charming personality, but your life has no substance. They're attracted to your charm, see that there is nothing going on, and move on with their lives. Be more interesting. Or get a job and get out of your mom's house, whichever is applicable.
/r/seduction05/07/24 05:13 PM
2

I'm 5'8 and bald
/r/seduction05/07/24 04:51 PM
16

I don't live by the rules you impose on yourself. We have clarified the conditions that allow me to succeed. If you'd rather day game and lie to get women to sleep with you, c'est la vie I guess.
/r/seduction05/07/24 04:05 AM
6

If you say so. I test between partners and I've never had one.
/r/seduction05/07/24 03:50 AM
7

I pretty much don't go anywhere but work and the gym. I've had some coworkers that wanted to hook up with me, but I haven't gone through with it. I don't know what to tell you as far as what type of girl, but a nose ring is usually a good sign.
/r/seduction05/07/24 03:35 AM
12

Yeah, but I don't understand why, well enough to tell everyone else what they're doing wrong. I've succeeded that way with women I've met at clubs, and online.
/r/seduction05/07/24 01:50 AM
43

Everyone complaining that they have to lie is crazy to me. Maybe I just give off fuck boy vibes but I'm usually met with relief and enthusiasm when I say I'm just looking for something casual.
/r/seduction05/07/24 01:37 AM
1

Don't press the tempo too aggressively. If you don't have anything to say, let the conversation fall off for a couple days.
/r/seduction04/07/24 06:18 PM
3

Sure. For any number of reasons. Most likely, punching out of your weight class. If you find this happening, you can... A: put some work in, (workout, change fashion and grooming, financials, work on your confidence, all ways to become more attractive) Or B: lower your standards.
/r/seduction04/07/24 07:57 AM
8

Go find a line dancing bar. When those women reject you the same as the girls you're hitting on now, do some self reflection.
/r/seduction02/07/24 08:10 PM
8

Did you come here for help, or validation? If you're ugly, get less ugly.
/r/seduction02/07/24 08:07 PM
10

I understand you don't like hearing this, but every answer you make in this thread makes it sound more and more like the problem is you, not them. You're making it sound like you're going around trying to infiltrate social circles with the express intent of sleeping with said girls. It has "wolf in sheep's clothing," vibes. Meanwhile, these same girls are likely fawning over a guy with the same sense of humor as you, but he doesn't give off the same needy energy or predatory ulterior motives. On…
/r/seduction02/07/24 08:03 PM
1

I don't know man. The other day I made a rape joke in a room full of girls, and the hottest one giggle until she snorted. I don't think it's their politics, I think it's your social ineptitude.
/r/seduction02/07/24 07:45 PM
0

Determining that half the human race has no value outside of satisfying your base needs makes you a piece of shit. "When a person can't find a deep sense of meaning, they distract themselves with pleasure."
/r/seduction30/06/24 12:58 AM
0

"Seattle White Knight." No, I'm a fucking decent human being you clown. Here's a book about not being a piece of shit. It's by an author who got famous 2000 years ago for not being a piece of shit. Give it a read. https://www.amazon.com/Letters-Penguin-Classics-Lucius-Annaeus/dp/0140442103/ref=asc_df_0140442103/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=692875362841&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=14480307835626555741&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9033489&hvtargid=pla-2281435177178&…
/r/seduction30/06/24 12:48 AM
-1

I'm not listening to somebody who thinks interacting with another human being only has value if I get to put my dick in them. Just to be clear, Do you limit interactions with men to only the ones who are directly and immediately benefitting you? Or is it only women you see as less than human and of no inherent value.
/r/seduction30/06/24 12:26 AM
1

If you see getting to know people as a waste of time because you don't get to fuck them, you aren't going to succeed with what I'm talking about either.
/r/seduction29/06/24 11:57 PM
1

It's a phenomenon known as "The Seattle Freeze." You're in an introverted place. People keep to themselves. Anytime a stranger tried to interact with me in public, they were trying to beg, scam me, or do something illegal (I'm not exaggerating, at all). Women here are going to be especially guarded and standoffish. Every attractive woman I know has been the victim of a random violent crime while walking alone. The only success I've had here has been at work (ironic, because I don't date coworker…
/r/seduction29/06/24 11:40 PM
5

Take thou some new infection to thy eye, and the rank poison of the old shall die. -Benvolio, Romeo and Juliet.
/r/seduction26/06/24 03:50 PM
2

You know when your buddy says something and you make an innuendo out of it? Do that with women. Hope in your car and drive to the next city over, like an hour plus out. Go to a club and try your luck there. Abandon your dignity and flirt like you'll never be there again. No one will remember you. I've always been more successful on vacation.
/r/seduction19/06/24 05:32 PM
1

Speaking completely candidly, this was a black gay night. It was a whole different beast. I got my ass beat all night long and left with claw marks all over my face and neck.
/r/seduction19/06/24 04:49 PM
1

What was I going to do? We didn't have a rule against two people in a stall, and it's not like we were enforcing bathroom genders that might
/r/seduction19/06/24 01:53 PM
6

There's a saying amongst special operations hopefuls: don't self select. It means don't quit, fail.
/r/seduction19/06/24 03:38 AM
8

I went about 6 years without picking up a woman because of a LTR. Prior to that, I worked in a bar right next to a liberal arts college where there were 3 women to 1 man. I thought was hot shit, when in fact I just had numbers on my side. So now, I'm in my early 30's living in a place where odds aren't so favorable, and trying to figure out what the fuck I'm doing. I've learned that investing in myself: my fitness, hygiene, style, career, and hobbies, pays dividends, no matter how many people on…
/r/seduction18/06/24 05:33 PM
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Sure. But I got to live out a lot of that before meeting her, so when I felt that way, I'd reflect back on how unfulfilling it was.
/r/seduction07/06/24 12:11 AM
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Any resources for helping with this?
/r/seduction05/06/24 10:22 PM
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Carry the confidence of a taller man. Height isn't real.
/r/seduction23/05/24 06:53 PM
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I once did security for a gay night at a club and watched five people come out of one bathroom stall like it was a fucking clown car. So yeah, but like, those bathrooms are disgusting.
/r/seduction11/05/24 12:02 PM
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The best looking guys still get shot down probably 66% or the time or more. That should be an encouraging statistic. Sometimes, for whatever reason, she'll find your ugly ass endearing and decide to give you her number.
/r/seduction09/05/24 10:04 PM
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If we have discussed expectations and both test negative, sure. Barring some cases where I have to worry about small town drama circling back or some shit. I live on the opposite side of the country from where I grew up and I'm introverted. Her past life isn't coming knocking unless she brings it home.
/r/seduction07/05/24 06:36 PM
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You are absolutely not obligated to FUCK someone. I have walked out on a cat fish. OP here obviously didn't find her that unattractive.
/r/seduction24/03/24 08:16 PM
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Nah boss. If I run a restaurant and the food doesn't look like the ad, but you still eat it, you still owe me the check. Leave a bad yelp review and don't come back.
/r/seduction24/03/24 07:31 PM
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Why does it matter? You gonna trade up?
/r/seduction20/03/24 01:02 PM
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I once had my profile read to me during a job interview 😬🙃 Still got the job
/r/seduction10/03/24 10:08 PM
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I take my job seriously. I work hard, know my shit, am a good team mate, and absolutely don't date coworkers. Something about being a mature, competent, goal oriented individual who was out of reach just drove the younger women at my last job insane.
/r/seduction09/03/24 02:10 AM
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Thanks!!
/r/seduction05/03/24 12:59 AM
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Yes, in a heart beat. The toxic ones are the most fun. However, I'm completely sober and always use protection, so I'm extremely low risk for walking away from a fling with any long term consequences.
/r/seduction18/02/24 01:16 PM
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I've had my best luck attracting interest with co-workers, whether I reciprocated thr interest or not, so let me tell you how it usually goes. I am a manager, I am friendly and cordial with everyone I work with. I probably unconsciously engage more with my pretty co-workers, but I still maintain strict professionalism, as I absolutely do not date people I work with. So I never lead on or initiate anything. I am the successful, confident, corporate salaried guy who is always friendly and charisma…
/r/seduction30/09/22 05:56 AM
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