a_crapybara Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	My exgf ruined my life I still lover her (oneitis) Read the book, "The Rational Male." I was like you, but reading it clicked immediately and probably changed my life more than I realize	/r/askTRP	02/10/18 03:00 PM
1	LTR got a massage then a few days later tried to initiate a masseur role play during sex lol. As they should be, because massages are awesome. Sounds like you have a good thing going, so don't sweat it.	/r/askTRP	27/09/18 03:22 PM
10	Can guys have female orbiters the same way women have beta orbiters? Absolutely. I'm only average SMV, and even I have had them.	/r/askTRP	27/09/18 02:14 PM
1	Girl after sex is sending weird signals Shit tests no man should deal with.	/r/askTRP	27/09/18 02:13 PM
1	Serious question to guys on here who don't want to get married and have kids or even get an LTR, what are you going to do with your lives? Here you go, OP	/r/askTRP	27/09/18 02:07 PM
2	LTR got a massage then a few days later tried to initiate a masseur role play during sex lol. You're being insecure, I think. I probably wouldn't be too keen on servile roleplays in the longterm, though	/r/askTRP	27/09/18 02:06 PM
2	She's just your Girlfriend, she's not your Siamese twin. She's not your partner on a mission to Mars. She doesn't control your oxygen supply. (How to do a LTR.) It's very sly and covert behavior. Feminine, really-- I agree.	/r/TheRedPill	27/09/18 01:39 PM
1	She's just your Girlfriend, she's not your Siamese twin. She's not your partner on a mission to Mars. She doesn't control your oxygen supply. (How to do a LTR.) This is so incredibly convoluted and unrealistic that it makes me wonder if you've ever been in a real LTR. There's good advice here, but the overall post is one giant compromise between some RP fundamentals and feel-good dating advice.	/r/TheRedPill	27/09/18 01:33 PM
14	Plate sent a snapchat of her and another guy in bed together That's basically what we call a "nuclear" shit test. that kind of behavior is a red flag that symbolizes danger, in my opinion. I'm a fan of using silence to let someone drown in their own mistakes or actions. It's fairly effective with women, too, since they thrive on attention. I'd never interact with her again.	/r/askTRP	23/09/18 02:24 PM
1	Why do TRP guys only go for stereotypically hot girls? Yeah, this is a very core concept.	/r/askTRP	23/09/18 02:19 PM
5	Needy Behaviour in Moderate Amounts Acts as a Cockblocker Actually, I guess this is a good opportunity to challenge the "texting only for logistics" concept. I think that rule is more of a standard than a strict rule, personally.	/r/TheRedPill	23/09/18 01:46 PM
2	What to expect from women out of my league? This is what I was going to say, too. The concept of "leagues" are a path to failure.	/r/askTRP	21/09/18 12:37 PM
1	How to act when a friend don't stop "helping" you It's a shit-test, yeah. I think the over responses are pretty great, so there you go!	/r/askTRP	21/09/18 12:31 PM
2	Do you text/call/snapchat with your favourite plate / LTR? Women are incapable of loving a man the way he expects to be loved. Judge women by their actions, not their words. As you can see, her behavior doesn't match what she says, and that has you feeling nervous and insecure. it's good that you haven't broken frame. I can't imagine she likes you very much. Do you guys even see each other? Is she crazy busy?	/r/askTRP	21/09/18 12:27 PM
2	Girls have it so easy to hook up, what’s the catch? Quite right. The women do want LTRs will have to deal with a lot of men who lie about wanting the same. It also makes hitting the wall that much more painful.	/r/askTRP	21/09/18 12:22 PM
3	Ltr of 4 months has shirtless pics of an ex An LTR at 17, huh? You're already off to a dismal start, but you can still "downgrade" your relationship to a plate. Is there a chance she had forgotten about the folder, or is it pretty obvious? Also, don't go through her phone-- you're being insecure.	/r/askTRP	21/09/18 12:17 PM
1	Majority of women wanting LTR Yep. Y'all are fucking up on the basic fundamentals!	/r/askTRP	21/09/18 12:13 PM
1	This is the most real stuff ever I guess it's good that you learned this lesson at such a young age. Hypergamy, war brides, the disconnect between words and actions, the list goes on with women. This is why we spin plates.	/r/TheRedPill	20/09/18 01:42 PM
1	The Welfare State the root enabler of the rampant sexual degeneracy of western society. You're basically just talking about the feminine imperative with a weird emphasis on taxes.	/r/TheRedPill	20/09/18 01:40 PM
1	Getting annoyed /w plates Kind, sweet, and pleasant doesn't necessarily mean interesting. Some great women are simply too passive, in my experience, but don't worry. They've said the same thing about "nice guys," too.	/r/askTRP	20/09/18 01:36 PM
1	Hooked up with a girl who had a boyfriend and what she said was contradictory to the principles of TRP here is your answer, OP	/r/askTRP	20/09/18 01:35 PM
1	Self-esteem and perfectionism Well, here's the good news: though it doesn't feel like it, 18 is very young! You have a lot of time to change, and you will grow one way or the other. You sound similar to me in a lot of ways, so maybe your perfectionism stems from low self-esteem. If so, I think you should begin to consistently challenge your fears and practice goal completions with realistic standard. Be more pragmatic, yeah? The phrase, "good enough," should now be a staple in your lexicon when you complete a task. Keep this…	/r/askTRP	20/09/18 01:34 PM
2	How to help these girls without looking like a whiteknight You only feel like a POS because they're women. If they were men you probably wouldn't give af. You ARE their whiteknight bitch, which is why you're here. You can't negotiate attraction-- either fuck without mentioning the project or forget it.	/r/askTRP	20/09/18 01:10 AM
1	I give off a too feminine vibe what does that mean, though? it is the way you talk? Dress? mannerisms?	/r/askTRP	19/09/18 01:42 PM
1	Why am I made to feel as though her orgasm is my responsibilty? Feminine imperative. Don't concern yourself with pillow princesses. Women who are good in bed don't have these problems or say such things. It's also why I've stopped eating pussy for the sake of getting women off; only generous women get the extra effort.	/r/askTRP	19/09/18 01:37 PM
1	From what you’ve seen, which of these scenarios makes a girl more likely to leave a man she’s in an LTR with? "FrankenChad" lmao. It's funny, but it's also true. When I was massively blue-pilled, I enabled a lot of horrible behaviors with an ex, even after we broke up and were "friends." One day I had had enough and finally snapped, shutting that shit down. Judging by her reaction, I think I was the first one to ever tell her to fuck-off, which makes me wonder if these cunts are simply enabled by a funeral procession of betas.	/r/askTRP	19/09/18 01:33 PM
1	I give off a too feminine vibe Why do you think you're gay? I mean, feminine in what way?	/r/askTRP	19/09/18 01:27 PM
2	Male responsibility for female behavior Betas are kind of like a safety net and a long-term strategy for women if all else fails. We're getting into a nature-vs-nuture situation here without any clear answers, but for the sake of conversation I'd say betas are a huge influence on female behavior. That's what the feminine imperative is, isn't it? A steady stream of beta men who exist to serve women.	/r/askTRP	19/09/18 01:26 PM
17	I need your insight bros, just been dumped, how do you explain this behaviour from my now ex? There's nothing to know. Women don't operate on deductive logic like men do. Just drop her and let her face the wall of silence-- women absolutely hate it and it makes them feel like they may have made a mistake. Do not give her another moment of attention. I wish I had acted like you when my ex did the same thing. You will not regret it.	/r/askTRP	17/09/18 01:33 PM
1	Is it even possible to tame crazy? "Crazy" has been dangerously memed as if it were a phase or something ultimately benign, but the reality is that it can't be further from the truth. Crazy is often abusive and a detriment to your body and mind. There's no rules of standards with crazy. It's a total wildcard that does not give a fuck about anything.	/r/askTRP	17/09/18 02:01 AM
16	Discovered RP and now I dislike women. Will this pass? TRP is what made me stop disliking women. It's like when those exotic pet owners are bitten by their own pets. You don't blame the pet, right? You blame the owner for being stupid enough to think that the animal would behave against millions of years of evolution. Anyway, to answer your question, yes, it's normal. There are stages of "grief" that come along with this stuff, and you're right in the middle of it.	/r/askTRP	15/09/18 07:17 PM
1	I read the rational male and now there’s no going back Thanks for the book suggestion. I'll check it out.	/r/askTRP	15/09/18 07:02 PM
1	I read the rational male and now there’s no going back Can you read epub or mobi files?	/r/askTRP	15/09/18 07:00 PM
6	Why Using Low N-Count To Vet Women Is Useless What is this adding to the conversation?	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/18 06:52 PM
1	What should i do? No problem. Sorry you had to deal with this.	/r/askTRP	15/09/18 03:39 PM
2	What should i do? I don't think you should have expected her to be this much of a cunt, but women communicate and behave in a far more covertly fashion than men. They also have the responsibility of a toddler. In fact, she almost seems like she's getting off on the power she has over you. Remember, a man and a woman can't be friends., and there's an abundance of women out there, so I'd hard next this bitch and never look back. It's a good lesson.	/r/askTRP	15/09/18 03:33 PM
1	What should i do? Aside from being a cunt, do you have any guesses?	/r/askTRP	15/09/18 03:23 PM
21	I read the rational male and now there’s no going back The same as you, honestly. It does mellow out, though. The biggest take away for me what that there is no rest. Frame is something you'll have to manage, often actively, for the remainder of your life. Such is the nature of humanity, I guess.	/r/askTRP	15/09/18 03:16 PM
1	What should i do? What exactly is the confusion here?	/r/askTRP	15/09/18 03:13 PM
2	Why Using Low N-Count To Vet Women Is Useless TRP isn't against marriage and LTR, and most of these guys will be in an LTR eventually. The recommended advice is to wait until you're older (30's), and as others have said, it's a calculated risk. TRP isn't even all that concerned with women, tbh. It's mostly about bettering yourself and living your own life how you see fit. Women are just an addition to that, whether it's a plate or an LTR, always maintain frame.	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/18 12:40 PM
6	Instead of hopelessly trying to figure out a girl's n-count, look out for the negative symptoms instead! The general rule of thumb is ignoring her n-count because you will never know what the real number is, anyway. You should also never mention your own n-count, too.	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/18 12:35 PM
4	Instead of hopelessly trying to figure out a girl's n-count, look out for the negative symptoms instead! Threatened You're in the wrong place, my dude.	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/18 12:31 PM
1	Instead of hopelessly trying to figure out a girl's n-count, look out for the negative symptoms instead! You make generalizations everyday about far more important matters. Outliers are the results of filtering with TRP	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/18 12:28 PM
2	Women and Sex: Its Not Intimacy, its Power I'm not implying anything. I'm telling you that you have not read the sidebar or you need to re-read the sidebar because you've forgotten the fundamentals.	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/18 04:08 PM
-1	Women and Sex: Its Not Intimacy, its Power ?? I'm not sure what you're talking about. I don't think you're a troll.	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/18 04:03 PM
2	Women and Sex: Its Not Intimacy, its Power It's never too late to read the sidebar.	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/18 03:56 PM
2	Overthinking, abstract thinking and how it affects you Nicely done. It's very relevant to me because I struggle with analysis paralysis. Keep up the good work!	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/18 01:34 PM
1	Girl says i got “lucky” that we banged "Getting lucky" is a scarcity myth, which is definitely shitty. She's also likely suffering from competition anxiety and underestimated your SMV/ prize status. Remember, women want a man who can cheat on them, but wouldn't. I'm guessing her ego is bruised because she's getting a taste of her own medicine, really. This is why we spin plates, so ignore her and let he decide what she wants to do, if anything.	/r/askTRP	14/09/18 01:24 PM
2	Waiting for sex but not handjob/blowjob That just... sounds like a mess. I could not imagine hanging out with a girl who thinks a handjob is a good idea.	/r/askTRP	14/09/18 01:15 PM
0	Will gender equality pose a threat to the TRP Community? No and for a number of reasons, one of the main ones being fertility. Women lose fertility as early as their late 20's, and this comes with a lot of instinctual evolution to prefer women that signal fertility. Such a problem isn't as prevalent as with men, regardless of the economy.	/r/askTRP	14/09/18 01:11 PM
1	Women and Sex: Its Not Intimacy, its Power I think a lot of the answers to the confusion you have are in the sidebar. OP's post assumes you are familiar with some of the concepts already, which is what I think is causing the problem for some readers.	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/18 12:51 PM
4	Women and Sex: Its Not Intimacy, its Power u/Looking_4_Stacys_mom u/FryingdutchpaN u/riot2100 u/Deomon u/FaboulusGrape u/NexVenator u/GreetMufasa u/imtheoneimmortal u/GodOfDinosaurs I see that some of you are brand new to TRP. Please read the sidebar to better understand some of the core concepts. Maybe a refresher would help.	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/18 12:39 PM
8	Women and Sex: Its Not Intimacy, its Power Did you reply to the wrong person or something?	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/18 12:23 PM
2	Important reminder for men in the game Just FYI, women are not the goal or the focus of the redpill.	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/18 12:20 PM
1	Important reminder for men in the game What a timely post, I was just thinking about this and how I want to have less fear guiding my decisions. Thank you.	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/18 12:19 PM
1	Overthinking, abstract thinking and how it affects you I think there's a lot of good in this post. That said, it helps to break-up paragraphs into different sizes, even if they logically shouldn't. Large blocks of paragraphs make the reader feel fatigued.	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/18 12:11 PM
1	I fucked up and my girlfriend reprimanded me like a child. How to proceed? yeah, that will solve everything. You're right.	/r/askTRP	14/09/18 12:09 AM
2	Can you tell me what the truth is You have a lot of good advice here. I hope you take it into serious consideration.	/r/askTRP	13/09/18 01:13 PM
1	Does the "divide by 2 and add 7" rule still apply in today's dating climate? Nah, that's just feminine imperative shit that tries to restrain male SMV to older women. Disregard entirely.	/r/askTRP	13/09/18 01:06 PM
1	Depression recovery: RP advice? This is really all that's helped me. Internet browsing and mindless consumption is bad.	/r/askTRP	13/09/18 01:01 PM
0	I fucked up and my girlfriend reprimanded me like a child. How to proceed? Adds nothing to the conversation	/r/askTRP	13/09/18 12:43 PM
14	Rejoice guys, we're losing the war ! or : How I stopped worrying and learned to love the banhammer That's a very important aspect of TRP, I think. It should never be promoted because those who want to seek it or suspect that there is another way will search it out and find it. It's absolutely fine.	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/18 12:37 PM
3	The best defense against oneitis is to learn how to love women. Appropriately. This is a good post that reiterates the core points of TRP, and it does overcome ONEitis, for sure. However, I'd like to re-emphasize that if you're feeling and emptiness, you need to find a way to lead a fulfilling life without depending on a woman to give you meaning. Of course we are social animals and we need meaningful company, absolutely, but you need have a goal or a purpose in which you can invest yourself and grow as a person. An LTR is never a goal, it should always be second at best.	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/18 12:36 PM
1	Why you're told to stop focusing on women(Disney Method to solving problems) Of those guys who "get a grip on their urges and instincts" do so because of the feminine imperative, though? I know I used to.	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/18 12:28 PM
1	Redpill and distrust What kind of high value man has to state rules?	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/18 12:12 PM
1	just self-frienzoned? ==> red pill latecomer asks for help That's everything that I was going to say. I don't know how much value there is in conversation with her at this point, but it's up to OP.	/r/askTRP	12/09/18 11:08 PM
2	Anyone experienced with older women? I don't think her age is as important as the other details, mainly being muslim and conservative. In general, women over 25 begin to start thinking about the future and looking for men who can offer a little more security than looks for the purpose of marriage, family, etc. (clearly not the case here?) Pretty interesting.	/r/askTRP	12/09/18 11:04 PM
5	what are your hard lines for breaking up with a girl Short and succinct. We all slip-up and have bad days, but anything that is intentionally disrespectful or disrespectful and not followed-up by a sincere apology is game over. I actually had to do this recently which is what lead me to TRP	/r/askTRP	12/09/18 07:47 PM
1	Who here wants children? I used to want children very much. These days I realize that I've missed-out on so much that by the time I'm done having fun, I don't know if I will be able to have and raise kids with someone. I think the majority of my apprehension comes from knowing that most women would be terrible mothers, let alone wives.	/r/askTRP	12/09/18 07:40 PM
0	How do you still enjoy your relationships with woman? Would you say that TRP knowledge killed your desire for women? If so, how?	/r/askTRP	12/09/18 07:38 PM
4	Efforts to ban TRP have surfaced once again It also saved my life, too. It made me respect myself and while erasing my bitter feelings towards women and relationships. I just feel like I "get" it now, and I have a lot more hope about life and my future after seeing the results.	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/18 07:13 PM
1	Date places for a 19 year old? Yeah, I was always a fan of the coffee shop date, personally.	/r/askTRP	12/09/18 01:17 PM
1	Came across some old photos of my ex and me.. I was about as blue-pilled as a guy could be, and I've never once regretted throwing-out sentimental shit from an ex. They simply don't matter once the relationship is over.	/r/askTRP	12/09/18 01:13 PM
2	How to respond to "do you like me too or are you just using me for sex?" based	/r/askTRP	12/09/18 01:10 PM
1	Meditation Basics If you look at r/bhuddism and r/zen you'll notice a world of difference between the two places, and they're only two of many starting points. One looks favorably upon meditation, and the other is mostly indifferent to the practice, sometimes even hostile, just to give you an idea. The stuff that helps me the most is very esoteric. I'll suggest a nice beginner's book, instead: "Zen Mind Beginner's Mind" by Shunryu Suzuki You can also start with "An Introduction to Zen Buddhism" by D. T. Suzuki in…	/r/askTRP	12/09/18 01:08 PM
1	RP summarized in 3 bullets In that case it's solid RP knowledge, I agree! I think all these posts about women or plates being the end game are getting to me.	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/18 12:56 PM
1	RP summarized in 3 bullets A woman is never the goal no matter what. Whether she's a plate or a LTR, she isn't the goal. How are you upvoted so much while lacking in the basics? The fuck is happening to this sub?	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/18 12:40 PM
2	Redpill and distrust lmao went right to the shaming tactics. Interesting.	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/18 12:25 PM
2	Redpill and distrust I can't believe that you think setting rules, especially rules like that, are a good idea. I also can't believe that you think any woman will abide by them. This is the gender that lacks any sense of accountability, not because they're inherently evil, but because of the feminine imperative. It's just the way things are, no use in crying about it, but absolutely none of this is a good idea and reeks of insecurity. AWALT, hypergamy, etc. Do not trust a woman! They're not evil, and you're not stup…	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/18 12:18 PM
94	Efforts to ban TRP have surfaced once again Imagine taking yourself so seriously that you went out of your way to find and ban these subs: Million Dollar Extreme Billion Shekel Dream Million Dollar Extreme 2 Trillion Ruble Regime Gazillion Yuan Dream	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/18 12:08 PM
1	Anyone get a little disgusted by your girl's social media history? This is what happens when you treat a whore like a princess lol	/r/askTRP	11/09/18 07:02 PM
1	Never fall in love? pretty much. Many people have said (and meant) that they loved me, but almost all of them have done some awful things, too. After a while, at least in the US, that most abstract definitions of love don't hold up under scrutiny.	/r/askTRP	11/09/18 06:54 PM
0	Why women always dishonest/secretive/deceiving When there's something worth my time, I will	/r/askTRP	11/09/18 06:40 PM
6	Teacher Tales: Play Misty for me I read all of it. Not sure what the point was, but I do know that you both seem insufferable.	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/18 12:37 AM
1	Why women always dishonest/secretive/deceiving What the fuck are you rambling about?	/r/askTRP	10/09/18 05:24 PM
7	Why women always dishonest/secretive/deceiving Because they don't have balls :^)	/r/askTRP	10/09/18 12:42 PM
1	Why do some guys say stuff like “I love my wife/gf. They’ve been with me through the toughest of times and been a constant support” when it’s a bad idea to open up about emotional/mental issues (or problems of any kind)? Are these guys lying? You can't know, really. I mean, they're women; not even they know. What is your goal in life?	/r/askTRP	10/09/18 12:37 PM
2	Girl flaked, what would you do. Remember that it's what a girl DOES, not what she SAYS. This is why I can't stand texting and cheap talk. If she really wants to see you, she will make it happen. With these points in consideration, I'd definitely put her on a back burner and go for someone else, if possible.	/r/askTRP	10/09/18 01:43 AM
2	LTR never initiates sex It's a good plan. Having to ask to get blown is just... pathetic.	/r/askTRP	10/09/18 01:40 AM
3	How to react to girlfriend cheating during soft-next? Agreed. This is how I've responded in the past and it worked wonders for me. Women also hate silence and a lack of attention, so it often makes them suspect that they'e done something wrong.	/r/askTRP	10/09/18 01:36 AM
1	Why do some guys say stuff like “I love my wife/gf. They’ve been with me through the toughest of times and been a constant support” when it’s a bad idea to open up about emotional/mental issues (or problems of any kind)? Are these guys lying? I don't think they're lying. There's exceptions to everything. It's frankly that simple, but it's not something I'd do for a long time, if ever.	/r/askTRP	10/09/18 01:33 AM
0	How much should i blame my parents ? One last thing I will add is that his generation is very different than this current one. Older guys knew they had to be breadwinners and work hard while mom did all the emotional stuff. There have always been great, well-rounded dads, but a lot of them simply didn't know any better or were to stupid to know. It doesn't excuse him, but I think it's better to fix things and let the past go. Ymmv	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 08:26 PM
0	How much should i blame my parents ? Don't. My parents should have never had kids because neither one of them had any of the intelligence or responsibility to raise a us to meet today's challenges. I was mad, I was bitter, and at times I still feel resentment, but here's the only truth you will ever need to know: life isn't fair. Life being unfair doesn't mean that you have a right to cry and mope about. Instead, you can meet life's challenges pragmatically and succeed without the hindrance of abstract conditions like should, could…	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 08:12 PM
2	My gf is studying abroad and I am getting frustraded. If you must do an LTR, this is the reason why we spin plates. If you had, you would've filtered-out the woman you've decided to have a relationship with. If I were in your shoes, I'd respectfully and amicably end it, keep it "just friends" if you want, and find something else. In the very least, keep your eyes open and be prepared to move on, because the desire on her end has clearly waned (if not gone), and you can't/shouldn't try to earn her desire back.	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 07:52 PM
7	Invited plate over, we always fuck, this time she turns up claiming her period started on the way over (stopped birth control) I over heard her talking to her mom and daughter on the phone. This is getting more fucked-up with every new detail	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 02:28 PM
1	LTR colored her hair blue Oneitis is going to wreck you	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 02:22 PM
5	Girl losing/ lost interest. This is why the abundance mentality is so important. If your self-esteem is too low, rejections will wear on you and fill you with anxiety. You have to let her go with a next and keep at it. It get easier with time and practice, really. Don't let a bitch give you an existential crisis.	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 02:09 PM
1	Oneitis for my best friend. Okay, now I'm starting to see why asktrp comments are hostile. You really need to read the sidebar.	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 02:02 PM
5	Introduction to Emotions Pretty much what I was going to say. The power of observation is key because it's better to observe the storm from a distance than within it.	/r/TheRedPill	08/09/18 07:04 PM
1	It's starts with a man's father Well, that was a weird post. Not sure what the point of that was lol reads more like a cautionary tale about marriage. Thanks!	/r/TheRedPill	08/09/18 02:05 AM
1	Have any of you who can tried/started speaking deeper? What happaned? Dunno, I've never really tried it or thought about it. Can you really maintain a change like that?	/r/askTRP	07/09/18 02:04 PM
3	My LTR for over the year keeps saying she dreams about cheating on me This has to be satire. You're fucking with us, right?	/r/askTRP	07/09/18 01:59 PM
1	I messed up REALLY bad, yet she still contacts me? You gotta go over the sidebar material again. It's not a bad thing-- we all need a refresher now-and-again	/r/askTRP	07/09/18 01:56 PM
1	It's starts with a man's father It's always an interesting time when OP's post is removed and I have to piece together the mystery by reading the comments.	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/18 01:03 PM
10	Some Men Just Aren’t Ready. Yeah, I was very consciously Daryl. I even thought to myself, "I'll be a 'good man' one last time. I'll do everything that is expected of me, no matter how degrading, and we'll see how it goes, just so that I can know for sure." What followed was the most dismal year in my entire life. Daryl may possibly have the same wake-up call the next time around.	/r/TheRedPill	06/09/18 02:46 PM
1	Girl I'm interested in is a divorce lawyer. Red flag? That's a good point, but there's no guarantees of anything when it comes to marriage. You are always rolling the dice. Maybe you can find some official data on careers and divorce rates, but anything beyond that is pointless.	/r/askTRP	06/09/18 02:18 PM
1	What do you do when a girl you’re having sex with starts telling you about her sexual past She sounds like a very boring person. Was this pillow talk? If so, I'd just sleep. If not, I'd just change the subject or do something more interesting than talk to a vagina muppet.	/r/askTRP	06/09/18 02:13 PM
1	« There’s no such thing as friendship between a boy and a girl » It's possible, but to be honest, there's often a lot of sexual tension to various degrees. Also, a lot of women simply aren't interesting and/or too self-absorbed to the detriment of genuine friendship.	/r/askTRP	06/09/18 02:01 PM
1	Tell-tale signs of a BPD girl? This was my experience. Truly bpd women have found ways to adapt to it and maintain a somewhat functional lifestyle. You likely won't see the crazy until the metaphorical dam breaks. Personally, I'd never mess with a BPD girl ever again. I forgot to mention that she endangered my life, so yeah.	/r/askTRP	06/09/18 01:53 PM
2	Should i bang this married chick? Agreed. Fucking isn't worth all of the risks and drama that may arise from it. Let some other guy deal with it.	/r/askTRP	06/09/18 01:43 PM
2	LTR has super low self-esteem. What's TRP perspective on the matter and does/should it affect me? Honestly it sounds like you have a good handle on the situation. If you're going to do a serious LTR, you're gonna have to lift their spirits once-in-a-while, but so long as it doesn't become a routine or a habit, you should be okay. Any idea why all of this is coming to light now?	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 11:39 AM
1	Convinced LTR to open relationship, she shows up to random nerds house and fucks him within 20 minutes of meeting him AWALT. That she was willing to go through with it should tell you that she's not who you thought she was. What will you do now?	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 11:30 AM
8	LTR has super low self-esteem. What's TRP perspective on the matter and does/should it affect me? I had an ex like this. She was a black hole that consumed resources and effort, living half in her own world and half in the real one. Someone who's broken like that needs help on a fundamental level. If you apply TRP strategies to someone like her, it will likely cause her harm. What do you do when she has her crying spells/melt downs?	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 11:19 AM
1	Convinced LTR to open relationship, she shows up to random nerds house and fucks him within 20 minutes of meeting him I can understand that. is there any specific reaosn why you felt she'd have sex more sparingly? I see in your other comments that you've been plating other women, yeah?	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 02:20 AM
7	Broke down in front of LTR lmao damn	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 02:16 AM
2	Broke down in front of LTR This is actually very sweet and empathetic. Don't worry about a thing, my dude, and I'm sorry for your loss.	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 02:15 AM
1	Convinced LTR to open relationship, she shows up to random nerds house and fucks him within 20 minutes of meeting him May I ask you something? What did you envision would happen? I mean, how did you think this was going to go, in your mind? I want to understand this mentality, or at least try to.	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 02:08 AM
2	A plate I have not spoken to in a week calls and tells me how she tried to give head to some guy? Yeah, that is a pretty disrespectful. Seems like you have a solid understanding of the situation.	/r/askTRP	05/09/18 02:06 AM
1	How to deal with feminist mother and sister? If your dad is hopeless, do what the other comments say. Otherwise I'd try and bond with your dad, talk about what you observe over some beers and see if you can get him out of there now-and-again.	/r/askTRP	04/09/18 01:02 PM
2	Guy befriends guy his gf is talking to/possibly flirting with her during class post on subreddit? I've been on both sides of this situation before. The girl has always been a supreme piece of shit. His first mistake was thinking that she was out of his league. YOU'RE the prize, so keep your eyes on the horizon and don't get too comfortable in an LTR.	/r/askTRP	03/09/18 01:18 PM
1	Girl adamant on keeping date very short (1 hour and a half) This is some beta bitch behavior. If you want to demonstrate value, go work in a soup kitchen and stay off hook-up apps.	/r/askTRP	03/09/18 01:15 PM
1	Soft next or give it one more chance? I second that.	/r/askTRP	03/09/18 01:07 PM
1	Being called 'buddy' by AMOGs: Condescending, or reading too much into it? Example included. No problem. If things don't get any better, give us an update.	/r/askTRP	03/09/18 12:00 AM
6	Terrible father or not, he’s still your father. My situation is no where near as difficult or as tragic as yours, but my father was also a fairly selfish one and a terrible role model. Now that he's getting older, he's wondering why his children never visit him. This type of impulsive, short-term thinking hopefully ends with them. I wish you well.	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/18 11:43 PM
1	Is the entertainment industry becoming too bluepilled? How can you enjoy the shows after taking the trp? Pretty much nailed it.	/r/askTRP	02/09/18 11:41 PM
2	Breakdown: A Married Man breakdown of a breakdown of being a married man Man, thank you. I thought I was taking crazy pills when I read the comments on that post.	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/18 11:39 PM
1	Is the entertainment industry becoming too bluepilled? How can you enjoy the shows after taking the trp? I've basically given-up on pop-culture as a whole. Being a consumer is for bugmen.	/r/askTRP	02/09/18 12:48 PM
1	I keep getting disappointed and it’s depressing That's very understandable, and I'm the same way. Are you prepared to go through life never finding a woman that you can trust and count on?	/r/askTRP	01/09/18 02:18 PM
2	Being called 'buddy' by AMOGs: Condescending, or reading too much into it? Example included. I think you're a lot like me, or at least how I used to be. Don't think too much and just roll with it. Worst-case scenario is that they're being condescending, and if so, so what? You can handle yourself, you can handle shit tests, etc. so this is just water off a duck's back. Don't sweat it.	/r/askTRP	01/09/18 02:01 PM
1	I keep getting disappointed and it’s depressing Well, let me ask you-- why are you interested in a LTR?	/r/askTRP	01/09/18 01:41 PM
2	I keep getting disappointed and it’s depressing Some lessons are easier to learn than others. It took me getting emotionally and financially curb-stomped by an ex to finally "get it," which is probably the case for a lot of people here. In my opinion, switching form being primarily emotional to logical is only made possible through consistent discipline. Talk with a friend or post here if you need to re-asses yourself.	/r/askTRP	01/09/18 01:31 PM
1	Did I do the right thing ? In this current political climate, i think it would be insane to fuck a coworker. I think you did the right thing-- abundance mentality.	/r/askTRP	31/08/18 02:51 PM
2	The anger phase - how do you not get pissed off at obviously hypocritical ASD? Yeah, that's like a perfect summation	/r/askTRP	31/08/18 02:40 PM
1	Anti-shitting where you eat? To each his own.	/r/askTRP	31/08/18 01:35 AM
3	Anti-shitting where you eat? Don't know why you were down-voted. Playing around at work is likely a bad idea, but at uni? Lmao	/r/askTRP	31/08/18 01:27 AM
1	Girl is attracted, then ignores me, finally disrespects I know that it's super annoying/frustrating, but I think I'd use this as a golden opportunity to practice your shit-testing skills. This is some good experience to work with.	/r/askTRP	31/08/18 01:26 AM
30	Found gf of colleague on tinder, do I tell him? I think the reasons you've listed for being cautious are valid. I think you can go either way with this without losing any sleep, so I'd go with your gut on this one. When I was younger I'd probably let it slide. These days I'd probably tell him. G'luck and let us know what you decide.	/r/askTRP	31/08/18 01:21 AM
1	It's easier than you think. ALWAYS be prepared (financially, emotionally, physically) to leave her. Especially if/when you're married! This is an extremely important consideration to make. Co-habitation fucks with your mind because you have to be extra vigilant about maintaining frame which is not as easy as we'd like to think. Shitty relationships don't happen overnight- it's a slippery slope of shit tests and small behaviors that one day become a standard if you're too tired or busy to manage them. Higher responsibilitie…	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/18 01:13 PM
5	It's easier than you think. Where does this desire to be a "good man" come from, anyway? Many people have referred to me as such, and I wore it as a badge of honor-- it made all the struggling and hardship worth it, or so I thought. When I look back on a decade of "doing the right thing," I realize that I have nothing to show for it. Then I read comments like yours and wonder, "Why did I ever buy-in to that unhealthy standard, anyway?"	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/18 12:54 PM