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Wait, did you say worrying about STDs is immature and hollow?
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 05:26 AM
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At 22 and a 15 count the odds of herpes, HPV, HIV too high to gamble. Yeah its just gross.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 10:28 PM
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Date older. Problem solved. To me its an obvious fix.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 07:32 PM
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Idk. When me and my s.o. used condoms sometimes kegals can take them off. Lol. They break. Certain viruses can actually get through. Fluids get all around regardless. I'm not a slut shamer, but 15 partners at 22 is a high number. 15 at 30 I wouldn't think to much about. At 22 that's a small amount of time to have so many different proteins deposited in to you. IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 07:16 PM
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The crazy is off the charts with that one. "Ugh my bf totally wants me to like help him out, gawd what a scumbag. I'm a Princess. Yes I say I want equality but really I want superiority. "
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 02:53 PM
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You've been pretty for 2 yrs and haven't found a quality bf? Do you live under a rock? Something else is wrong. 15 partners at 22? Maybe its the company you keep. Personally I would think twice about perusing a man who surrounded himself with ppl like that. Nobody is scared of STDs? Lol
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 02:45 PM
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I'm so stealing this "bragplaining"
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 02:39 PM
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When my feelings get hurt I say " I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings earlier I didn't mean to , but you are really hurting my feelings right now" he doesn't get shitty unless I've done something.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 01:09 AM
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Ugh personally I would leave. There's no way I would accept being his main plate.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 11:52 PM
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I'm not religious but I could compare it to how most treat religion. Religious ppl believe in the bible. The believe in being a good Christian, but do they all really really live by all the rules in it? I do believe a lot of the gender descriptions, at least they are fitting in my relationship. Some of the stuff is hard to read and not p.c. but in my limited experience tend to have been true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 02:23 AM
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Talent! Oh my. Jealousy doesn't come to mind Envious is the word I would use. That cake doh! Sounds delightful! Kudos
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 10:49 PM
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Find something to do or you are going to drive yourself crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 08:22 PM
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She's full of #$%& . she's wearing the ring because she's into jewelry.... No she's wearing it because secretly she's proud to eventually be his wife.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 08:14 PM
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Haha!
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 08:00 PM
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There's a fine line. Its what differentiates us from children. If you need to vent go to a counselor. You can bitch and moan and complain all you want getting your side out. Ask them to be devils advocate. Take responsibility for your actions in the issue. Its way to easy to just blame the other person and ignore your own fault. This was my awakening point. I had a victim mentality. Deep down I felt like "poor me" then I found red pill women. It was so empowering. It freed me. Get a diary. Perso…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 05:40 PM
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I hate to be judgmental but personally I think she's a rotten %$#&. Her man works his butt off and is building a amazing future for them that she would never have had alone. How does she thank him....calling him a panzy. Where's the loyalty? Appreciation? Honor? Those ppl don't have that. Its 1 thing if your husbands beating you. You should tell someone. But to make him look bad for sake of conversation its low. Teams don't progress to the next tournament if 1 mate is betting against it
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 05:26 PM
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Ooh I forgot about that Tiger mom book and her way of life. I should use another description. Im not a tyrant. Lol I just meant I'm super motivated to help my children stay on the right path and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/14 05:09 PM
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That is the nastiest most could hearted thing I've ever heard of. That women ruined a wedding. For what? Huge life lesson learned. Edit: my step daughters mother badmouths her husband to us. Just last week " the only tool he has is probably a nail file" I almost threw up. You have 1 damn teammate. 1. If you want to be a gossip that's the 1 person you don't talk bad about. My lord.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 05:05 AM
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Bah we do all of these. I was hopping for something new.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 05:01 AM
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Thank you! I feel special!
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 04:50 AM
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True.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 04:48 AM
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My Captain pointed out that these surgeons dating pool is probably very small. When would the have time? Between school and hellish hours what woman would be able to accept that life full of neglect? Surely not a high maintenance wife.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 04:47 AM
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8) lol
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 04:44 AM
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I wouldn't see it as gold digging. Gold digging is a selfish greed. I would see it as a good stable provider for the family.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 04:43 AM
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I think people tend to think the dating red pill rolls over to long term wifey material. At first look I was in shock but the more I researched and found RPW I realized I had been living this way for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/14 04:09 AM
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Followed a link that lead me here. Hadnt a clue there was so much animosity towards RPW. Seems to be more reasonable ppl in this sub than bluepill. Pretty much in shock still from both sub's.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/14 12:46 AM
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I have 3 daughters. Its their choice. I hope they get some kind of useful degree but if they marry and stay home I would be proud too. I've seen the questions posted and most answers were reasonable. Our children will see our relationships and naturally pick and choose what works IMO. I'm a firm believer in teaching work ethic, dropping false entitlement, and basic living skills. ( if I had boys I'd teach exact same things)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/14 11:38 PM
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Recently departed?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/14 11:22 PM
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I agree there is a difference. In my case I wasn't forced. I naturally took to this and wanted to be the best i can be for someone who works so hard for our family. He doesn't even know what "red pill" is. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/14 10:18 PM
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That's awesome
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 10:11 PM
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?
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 09:41 PM
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Stop looking for "the one" and become "the one" Also stop trying to have the last word. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/14 07:06 PM
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This is crazy. Lol Archie explained great scenarios and ppl refused to give direct answers. Why are women so ashamed to admit their man is a leader???? Its crazy denying what's natural! Ugh
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 04:15 PM
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Lol your comment made me smile. Does it mean you got teary? That's a really cute way to describe it if so.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 04:01 PM
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This reminds me. My capt is due for a wet willy.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 04:58 AM
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I have a bunch of recipes I learned from my mom. I like adding trying new recipes. On lazy days I marinade chicken and steam veggies. He works the BBQ.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 11:23 PM
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Love this story.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 11:19 PM
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Well technically you aren't screwed. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 05:00 PM
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Envy
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 02:37 AM
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Lmao
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 11:41 PM
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That is the worst case of sequins on eyebrows I have ever seen. Lmao
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 05:53 AM
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I'm still in training. I'm commenting because I would love a flair linking me to RP women because I wish to get the word out. I think marriage is failing and this is our only hope. The more women and quality men that research and swallow the pill the better. That being said I don't feel I am carrying my weight in my relationship. I have a truly amazing man that is my everything and I'm not doing well under stress. feel I'm failing at my role. Also I'm not fully in agreement with shaming promiscu…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 04:20 AM
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Honestly recently I did something dumb. I threw a bitch fit over him not taking care of my car issue. I had to go to a little shop where guys were making me uncomfortable so I took it out on him. Oh I made an ass outta myself. We fought via text off an on. When he got home I immediately apologized. He smiled and listened to me and nodding. Its been a long while but I can't admit I went nuts.if its gonna happen it happens 2 weeks before my period every time. Thank God he loves me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 07:12 AM
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This is a lot like my relationship. Even during fights we typically stay in the same room.sometimes he starts projects in the garage and I angry clean.lol
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 07:03 AM
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I live by this rule.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 05:59 AM
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I cook most nights. weekends we eat out a lot. Some easy ideas 1. Spaghetti. 2. Pulled pork in crock pot 3. Tacos 4. Steak 5 pot roast in crock. If I make big meals we eat left overs the next night. I try a new recipe every other week. We eat a lot of chicken so I buy a bunch of breasts put 5 in a zip lock with different marinades. Freeze some. Occasionally he makes breakfast. He does all the BBQ cooking. So chicken night I do all the sides ie.steam veggies and mixed fruit salads.I always have s…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 05:46 AM
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I close my eyes and eat. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 10:45 PM
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Are they Asian? I only ask because it sounds like the women in my s.o family. Different culture. Things smell disgusting and I've seen gnats or w/e in authentic Asian food and everybody eats it. Nobody gets sick. Its just different.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 10:41 PM
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TMZ has a photo album of him. For further research of course.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 01:59 AM
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Lol I love how they dressed him up.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 10:50 PM
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My s.o. doesn't smile in pictures drives me crazy. Lol. I have to be quick after a laugh to get a smiling picture. I never realized this had anything to do with dominant/submission frames etc. TIL.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 10:47 PM
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I'm so turned off that its a mug shot I don't think he's attractive. His eyes though..
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 10:43 PM
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Let go of the fear. He's marrying you. Even if you have been burned before take a chance and trust him. You know he loves you. You know he's want you forever. Let him have his weekend. You get him after that.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 10:29 PM
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I've had posts deleted too. This is a great place for advice. I absolutely love Phantoms (think that's her name) way of thinking. Disappointing when you truly want help and they delete it because of internet assholes.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 10:09 PM
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Yeah its frustrating.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 08:51 PM
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Same here! My jaw dropped. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 05:09 AM
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Ahh throw in a couple more plates for others might take the heat off of me.lol smooth move.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 02:49 AM
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I'm gonna get down voted but I'm not sure I would show him this specific post. I'm kinda scared for you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 02:43 AM
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My s.o has anger issues. Once I stopped having to have the last word his anger receded. When he complains I listen fully and say OK. If you try to control yourself and better yourself as a women and he's still a dick I would consider exiting. Take responsibility for your actions, craziness, shit tests. Again if he's always gone and flies off the handle after barely being home you might want to get your kids out of that environment.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 02:41 AM
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She is gonna wear her self out trying to protect her husband and his eyes. I mean o.m.g. what in the world would happen if he saw a nip slip? This is insane! And all the ppl agreeing....mind is blown.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 02:17 AM
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Never even heard of them.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 05:52 AM
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Lol family parties I still make his plates. Everybody notices. I don't care. He's more important to me than others opinions.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 05:46 AM
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When I was younger I remember reading we carry their proteins. I remember thinking about the biggest slut in my school (6 known abortions before there was any pills)and the huge number of different guys proteins she must have in her. I'll read article later but I wonder what affect this may have on immune systems.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 05:15 AM
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Remember how you felt when your first husband only allowed you to have sex after several weeks? Remember that pain of not being wanted. desired. Needed. It probably was a huge blow to your self esteem. He's probably feeling a little like that. I'm not gonna hammer on you about your objections to the captain and 1st mate system but I'd like to give you my example. I found a good man. A leader. This guy is a go getter. He's extremely smart. Responsible. Capable. He goes to work everyday. I am at h…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 01:05 AM
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Good heels won't hurt your feet. I just realized I spend more on my shoes than outfits. Don't buy cheap 30$ shoes. Practice. Practice. Practice. I just bought Anne Klein heels. Think they were 70$. They aren't as high as my others but they are super comfortable and easy to walk in. Last week I went to a private college and dressed normally and the women kept telling me how nice I looked. They asked if I just got off of work. I said no I was a house wife. All the attention made me really uncomfor…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 12:07 AM
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Oh you are good. 8)
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/14 03:47 AM
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My father is a great man. He's still married to my mom (56yrs) hardest working man I know. He's the man of the house but my mom is his soft spot. They kinda share responsibilities. He sometimes cooks and occasionally cleans. He does all the yard work, repairs etc. She did the child raising while he worked. When I was born she did go back to being an RN. I had a good upbringing by 2 ppl who are committed and still love each other. My mom was the discipliner but I do remember 2 times she said " I'…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/14 06:34 AM
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I agree. She usually too left for me but I think she's absolutely correct with this. Eye for an eye kind of thinking.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 02:37 AM
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ROFL! Repeat do not!
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 04:02 AM
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Tell your friend /hugs. Not everybody has experienced this and knows the horrible pain this causes. The only way to cure a /r/deadbedroom is to leave. Post over in /r/deadbedrooms where there are hundreds of ppl in her situation.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 03:47 AM
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I really hope he's a troll. He took something beautiful and ruined it. He wants a slave.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 02:29 PM
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Uncletom is kinda out there. I've had a brief run in with him. He doesn't believe women should enjoy sex and basically the are 1 small step above dogs.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 02:20 PM
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We rarely do things with out each other. Sometimes he does things with his brother but normally after work or weekends we do family things. I love it. He enjoys my company. Heck even if he's working in the garage he likes me out there with him. I think his love language is quality time. He even waits for me to run to the store. Honestly, If he wanted to go out without me I'm sure my feelings would be hurt because I'm so use to him taking me a long all the time. I wouldn't say anything. He's free…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 05:08 AM
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I almost feel like this is a joke.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 04:35 AM
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I just don't get the darn point with this. I can see fighting for equality in so many areas but nakedness? Come on. This has to be so far out in extremeville.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 02:18 AM
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Oh honey. /internet hugs.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 05:43 AM
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No. I only allow myself to fall for strong dominant family oriented men. Anything else was "next". Don't waste your precious time unless they are worth it
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/14 04:22 AM
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I'm devoted. No other man means anything to me. I think when you find the right women it will work. Gotta get them hooked though
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/14 04:19 AM
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I beg my s.o to go hiking. Still won't go with me. I would love it if he worked out that would mean we could do it together.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/14 04:17 AM
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I couldn't think of this word for the life off me I keep trying to add lazy to activism
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/14 03:04 AM
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My heart goes out to you. I'm so sorry. My life also is completely centered around my s.o. and we are not yet married. I'd be forced to start all over. I'm terrified. I'm a housewife. I don't have an education. I do have 2 children. This is the only draw back I think about when choosing this life style. I hope and pray you gain the strength to get through this. I hope you have family and friends that can help push you to keep going. Don't give up.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/14 03:00 AM
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Cheating is a symptom of a bigger issue. I would be crushed if my s.o. didnt feel he could come to me. We are supposed to be best friends. Emotional affair would break my heart because I feel its far worse. Physical i would see as a warm random hole. I'd leave if this betrayal happened. I'd see it as a weakness. I'm not here for a weak man. Letting his dick make decisions isn't a strong man its cowardly.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 11:10 PM
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Your name is so relevant. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 10:31 PM
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I suffer from this sometimes. I get emotional and feel "victimized" 1 of the most helpful parts of RPW is taking responsibility for your part in the issue. You cannot control others you can only control yourself. I think our biggest problem as women is emotional intelligence. I have "thought attacks" or "what if" snowballs ...oh its crippling at times. Another thing I learned from here is to remove yourself and bite your tongue before you say something inflammatory. Once I stopped having to have…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 08:35 PM
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I love this. I'm so happy for you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 08:17 PM
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Not trying to be snotty, but its not a perfect alpha world. Especially at her age. Men do get jealous and possessive. Some naturally want to protect and provide. Some don't give a shit. I've only spent my time with quality men though maybe the lessor males don't care. (lessor meaning less interested less invested). I wouldn't suggest a full on dreadgame but for example: my s.o and I stopped by a huge casino yard sale thing a few weeks ago. I was in a booth ahead of him and a gentleman saw me and…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 06:15 PM
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Some men naturally are possessive. They are protectors. They can't help it. If you have bonded with this guy and are best friends in a sense dating someone else might trigger feelings he didn't have. I personally wouldn't waste my time with this guy. You guys are young. He rejected you in the past. Try to move on.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 05:42 PM
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He's comfortable with you, enjoys your company or is using you. Maybe a little dreadgame will spark something. Find another man to date. This will either make him jealous or help you distract yourself to get over him.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 02:26 PM
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If she has the hormonal IUD that could effect her libido. 6m is still honeymoon phase where NRE is high so its likely she has a low libido. Her telling you about exciting past was either pre birth control, a lie, or with a more alpha male. Some partners settle to their normal libido level once they get comfortable. 1st I would talk to her about it. If things don't change permanently I would try dreadgame. If that doesn't work I would get out. This has flags of ending in a dead bedroom.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/14 12:27 AM
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Wheres the link?
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/14 11:42 PM
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Thank you kindly.8)
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/14 03:20 AM
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I have been. I went 2 weeks ago where they decided to redo my crown. He shaved it down because it looked like it shifted or something. I scheduled for next Thursday to get it redone. still on motrin and hydocodone.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/14 02:41 AM
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Lmao
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/14 04:26 AM
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Its probably because shes not giving it up to her "overly sex crazed husband" and any mention of sex is bad. Just a guess. Im familiar with the type. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/14 04:20 AM
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Its supposed to be the most beautiful day with the man you love. The ultimate act of devotion. I would never argue in public with my man let alone on my wedding day. What a wretched. ....
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 06:23 PM
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I know what you are saying. There was a huge study floating around recently that men are risk takers compared to women. Men tend to apply for jobs they are only partially qualified for whereas women tend to apply for jobs they are 100% qualified for.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 05:34 PM
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I tend to over think things. When I start obessing over things hes the one who brings me back to Earth. Im gonna beef up my girl game and sit on this for awhile before I bring it up again.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 04:56 AM
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Good points. We are getting ready to move to a more expensive area. Maybe its the pressure. Thank you for your input. Much appreciated.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 04:25 AM
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I asked him what he meant and he looked surprised. Almost like he was surprised I was thinking about it. He blew it off so I pressed a little bit explaining I have drive but its making sure our family is taken care of. Hes extremely driven. Go getter. Make things happen type of guy. Its part of my attraction towards him. Im gonna step up my girl game a bit.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 03:31 AM
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This is why im so confused. He wanted me to be a house wife pushed me 100% I dropped out of school and have made leaps and bounds dedicating myself. Im no where near being ms cleaver but I do my best.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 03:08 AM
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No I haven't gained weight. You have got my wheels turning though. Ive had a horrible tooth ache for 3 weeks and have been waking up at 630 instead of 6am with him. If I dont take a pain pill im up all night if I take a pill I can hardly wake up.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 03:05 AM
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Im worried I got caught up in routine. We will be moving to the city very soon and I will have many more opportunities to do outside things.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 01:58 AM
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I dont think it was meant as an insult. I think maybe hes trying to light a fire underneath me. We are planning on moving to an area with better schools so the kids can start school and I can finish college. Im going to ask him tonight what he meant.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 12:38 AM
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Lol my man has a beautiful thick long beard I LOVE it. Its what 1st got my attention. This cracked me up. A beard either brings out the already manliness in a man or points out the lack there of. Bring out the strength genes!
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/14 08:08 PM
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Haha ive done this. Was fun! Wish I would have bought 1 at dollar store thats a great idea!
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/14 06:17 PM
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Im learning how to crochet. Sometimes I pull a chair up and crohet while hes working on something. I think just being there even sometimes in silence is comforting to them.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/14 05:07 AM
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Typically you get what you pay for. Designer purses are 1000x better than cheap purses. The quality of the materials used makes well worth it and a good investment. Keep in mind it something we use everyday all the time. Same goes for heels. Men like women in heels. Cheap heels hurt after a while or fall apart. Quality heels you can run in. They balance our weight better, look nicer and we will wear them longer. I think thats awesome a 20 dollar back pack has lasted so long and fills your needs.…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 03:32 AM
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I almost spit my drink out reading this. Me and captain laughed hard. Same situation here. Little story about last night. He bought about 30 water containers to sell. I can move them but its awkward and not very efficient. Last night my job was to remove the stickers. So I scrapped 30 water containers stickers off. I did nothing compared to his work and it felt a little like "bitch work". Im not even sure if it HAD to be done or if it was to keep me outside with him. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/14 12:32 AM
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Just curious why would they troll this post?
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/14 05:34 PM
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I dont mean hes touching me. I mean hes emotional. I wasnt saying he was a pedo but it all made me uncomfortable. I agree.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/14 04:00 PM
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Misery loves company.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/14 05:17 AM
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I didnt even know what that was until clicking the link. 8 ( I would never consider having a roommate let alone that crap. I had an ugly nasty female live in maid in a past relationship and learned the hard way she was sleeping with my man. 3 ppl dont work out. Heck 3 teenage firls can barely hang out before 1 is pushed out. This is just sick.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/14 04:22 AM
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Lol reading this made me cringe.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/14 02:25 AM
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Just to be fair a purse is a tool. Would you go to the range with a Tsa Ar-15 or would you rather use a POF ar? My designer purse will outlast the cheap shit walmart purses by years. Owning a designer purse just proves you get what you pay for.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 04:32 AM
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I have a high sex drive so im not sure if this will help. Try 101 nights of great sex. Its a book on amzon. Maybe it can help you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/14 06:43 PM
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Lmao
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/14 06:40 PM
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I wear dresses and skirts. I wear "house sandals" during the day and heels/wedges other times. I do my hair and make up. If im feeling crummy I wear long maxy skirts or yoga pants. I dress conservative during the day but try to add some sex appeal. I.e.lacy under shirt. Sexy bras. I give little flashes to him of these things.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/14 05:43 PM
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Seriously can someone decode this for me. Straining my eyes trying to read this is giving me a headache.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 05:34 AM
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Dead bedroom could mean somebody's needs arent getting met and hes laughing at her. Our most precious intimate part of us. Our vulnerability. Hes laughing at her.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 02:32 AM
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Not from these kinds of men.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 02:29 AM
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Dont let it bug you. I believe in mystery. My man doesnt need to know every detail about my past sexual experiences. I dont need to know his. What matters is now. If I had a 3some in the past my current would not expect or even want it. He doesnt wwant to share me with anyone. Man or woman.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 12:12 AM
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Get out now! In 10 years you will want it more. Trust me. I know what it feels like to be rejected. Its devastating. We are taught men are always wanting sex and when you come across a man that doesnt it causes your head to spin. Go to /r/deadbedrooms and post your situation. If you want to talk about it you can pm me.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 12:03 AM
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If a man lived that wild of a life before should the wife expect to be able to do the same with him? If a man had a 3some mmf does the wife have the right to request the same? Just curious on how to counter the reverse.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/14 07:04 AM
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I would be devastated. It would crush me. I would feel betrayed. Im willing to do almost anything for my s.o. and to find out after all my effort and work to be the best I can be for him it wasnt enough would break me. I feel that the affair would be a symptom of a real problem. Giving up on our relationship or taking the weak route would be a deal breaker for me. I would find another man to devote myself to.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/14 07:00 AM
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I just received my new apron from amazon this last Tuesday. Hyzrz Hot Black Cute Girls Bowknot Lady's Kitchen Restaurant Flirty Women's Cake Apron with Pocket by Hyzrz. it was 13 bucks so cute.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/14 06:46 AM
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Maybe it because im in a small town. We went and checked out st marys and xavier in the city and i was horrified when I compared it to my daughters current school. My daughters chem teacher had a picture of a communist socialist on his wall. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Che_Guevara so we started searching for a new school because he refused to keep it off his wall. The students were so respectful, the stats were amazing for kids thst went on to finish 4 yr degrees. The culture just seemed so m…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/14 04:54 AM
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If you can afford it Catholic private schools> all else
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 09:02 PM
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I kept thinking house of tarth girl!
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 05:04 AM
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I live in an open carry state so CC isnt a big deal. I live in a house with more guns than i can count (they are ours not only his)I own a bow.(pink) Im hunting this nov for elk. I go to gun shows, sportsman shows, fish, soon we will be back to camping every other weekend. I have so many masculine hobbies. I share them with him. We are the perfect pair. Truth be told all my "tools" are usually pink and I do wear make up while doing all these things but sharing it with my man makes it better. I l…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 05:02 AM
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Lol im not sure. I just popped in 1 day and asked why did they cheat and not just leave. Majority like 20/25 said their husbands and wives stopped giving it up or starfished.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 08:23 PM
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Go over to /r/adultry and ask why they all cheat. Dead bedrooms. Most of the cheaters said if their s.o. would start up their sex lives again they would stop cheating. They want to feel wanted. The worst part was reading a detailed story from a well organized cheater who talked about his wife who had no clue and would say things like "bob would never stray." Little did she know that a person cant live with no sex for 10yrs and stay faithful. We are all human. Everybody wants to be desired.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 08:13 PM
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Hard truths
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 08:07 PM
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Im glad you said "most men" I grew up thinking ALL men which isnt true.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 07:57 PM
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A women shouldnt kiss and tell. Mystery needs to be kept when it comes to this subject. Op's post obviously is extreme and I dont believe to be typical. Atleast I hope not. Nothing good can come out of sharing past loves. My capt doesnt want to hear about me being with any other men and I dont want to hear about his wild spring break week in Mexico. Its the past and useless info.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 06:58 PM
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I have a feeling that this is something you are hugely obsessing over something your future husband wont care about. I got burned when I was 2. I opened the oven and put my hands on the rack. 1 of my fingers is very scarred and my elbow has a scare. I spent my entire childhood hiding this. It was my little dark secret. I literally avoided raising my arm and hid my finger obsessively because I wasnt perfect. You know what I learned......nobody gave a crap. I was so darn worried and miserable beca…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 04:50 PM
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Poorly worded. Sorry. I was just saying RPW have been harder on some of the recent females who have posted.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 02:48 PM
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She came here for help. Give her a break shes trying. 8 (
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 07:09 AM
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Personally I like my man to be taller than me. I enjoy high heels and I like that I can do that and it wont make him feel emasculated. For me attraction would be in your manliness. Frame. Leadership. Job. Intelligence. Hunter/fisher. Armed. Etc travis haley and chris costa I dont think are tall men but to me they are extremely attractive. I like to feel protected/safe in my mans decisions as well as arms. I kinda feel rpw is being a lot nicer to you than ive seen with recent posts. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 07:01 AM
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Dont bother. Embrace them!
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 06:41 AM
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I always imagined flawless woman with all fake huge boobs. Their faces were all beautiful but all kinds of different bodys and breasts.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 06:37 AM
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Ewww. Dont discuss your past with someone who is husband material. This post makes me cringe for women in these situations.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 06:35 AM
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Stick to my darn diet and stop cheating it. 2 do a full workout. Quit putting it off. Do a better job balancing spending time with the kids and chores. Been slipping with the cleaning.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/14 12:06 AM
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http://www.irregularchoice.com/shop/xhr-list/product/6026/eternal-friend.html Unicorns oh my!
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 10:25 PM
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I wonder if women with small nipples are in more pain when they nurse or do they all get bigger. Does the baby take in skin? Seems painful
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 10:23 PM
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I get what you are saying. You dont want a 18 yr old pulling a Heidi. Typically women just get 1 or 2 things done. Shes not a joan rivers. She is probably just overly obsessing on something she feels insecure about but others may not notice as much.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 08:16 PM
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We arent alone. Plus we are better at nursing babies!
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 08:05 PM
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Lol yep mine went to DD too. I was so self conscious but you know what my s.o. didnt flinch like i expected when I first let the girls out. A lot of guys love big nipples I was told. Its womenly. Guys just love breasts and dont really care if nipples are big or small or w/e. They just care if the bounce.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 08:04 PM
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Ooo link a pair
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 03:06 PM
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Practice. Practice. Practice. 8)
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 05:02 AM
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Oh thank you. During the time they lived there it was actually named something else. It was built for military familys and although they weren't military I guess his work was some how related. Edit : decided to look it up. High pop of Italian. Grandpa was sicilian. Which my mother looks like she just got off the boat. Grandma was German and aunt favored her.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 04:55 AM
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Just saying you are 18. I didnt grow into my own until 22. Do you have any features that you feel are good? Promote those. If I were you I would take this time to get everything else in order that you can control. I know this isnt red pill but im gonna say it anyway and might be tmi. So I got pregnant young. My breasts got huge and I was extremely embarrassed about my breasts. Specifically my nipple size. 1 of my old classmates became a stripper. We went to pick her up from work and I went insid…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 04:44 AM
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Its only a problem if you think its a problem. My mom had a monster of a father. raging alcoholic. They lived in caprini greens (Chicago projects) grandmother worked 3 jobs and paid all the bills. He was a high paid engineer who drank his money away. he beat my grandmother and aunt horribly but not my mother while she was young because she looked like him. 20 yrs they went through it. Divorce was shammed back then. It took him beating my mom because she bought my grandmother a new bedroom set. E…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 02:16 AM
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I have pair of black wedges similar to these I wear when I have a lot of walking to do. I walk well on any terrain in them. Funny story me and s.o were in a store and he was going to head to the auto part and I was going to fabrics. Some jerk spilled skittles and as soon as I let go of s.o hand I stepped on one and fell on my butt. I was so embarrassed. He came running to me and helped me up. Nobody was around to see but my skirt went up and whenever I go in that store I relive the embarrassment…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/14 04:07 AM
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http://www.stevemadden.com/product/DEJAVU/163271.uts I love how these look in blk
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/14 04:02 AM
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I love MK. My s.o just bought me a beautiful purse. I own a few other designer purses (coach) but I have to say this is the best one yet. I cant wait to find a pair I cant live w/o
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/14 03:42 AM
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This. Im at home with kids all day and when I come across an adult im dying for conversation. I feel like my brain is shrinking.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/14 03:39 AM
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Ill write a more detailed comment when I get a chance. My first thought was to buy her something for herself that has nothing to do with her baby. At my baby shower my daughters grandma bought me a beautiful silky plum purple pajame set. For some reason it really warmed my heart. I was young but getting something for myself was uplifting considering everything was about the baby and I felt a little bit like a vessel.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/14 03:13 AM
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Lol I read "reaction" as "erection" ill see my way out ....
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 05:09 PM
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You control the environment. Try sharpening your alpha traits and that will draw them in. Imo
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 05:06 PM
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Nobody said Michael kors which surprises me. I dont own any but every pair ive tried on has been like angels kissing my feet. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 05:02 PM
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Zoe from hart of dixie always wears cute ones.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 05:01 PM
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When are their sales?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 05:00 PM
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Sure. Lets hear it. Unless its like 20+ lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 05:00 PM
1

Haha. I ate pizza today which is forbidden on my diet at this point. I keep telling myself "it was thin crust kitty. Thin crust isnt too bad"
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 11:36 PM
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Lol if only I could follow that myself
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 06:16 PM
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Eat to live not live to eat. 8)
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 04:04 PM
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Did you try a bunch of flavors? Any types you like? Bakery, fruity? I probably own 30+ flavors. My favorites are: Orange Julius (brand Supernatural flavor OG Slice) Suicide bunnys- mothers milk Five pawns- grandmaster Space jam-andromeda Pink lemonade Menthol tobacco
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 04:03 PM
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Whoa. Rpw dont go door to door begging for you to join. Your emotional outburst is uncalled for. Keep moving.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 01:02 AM
2

Ugh getting in my car was so hard to resist a regular smoke. For some reason driving with the windows down makes me crave.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/14 05:33 PM
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For me ecig worked. I started with tobacco flavor menthol. Weened myself of reg smokes. Now when I smell a smoker it grosses me out. Also I have way more stamina. I smoked for 15 years. Only quit when pregnant/nursing. I think, this may sound weird, I have an oral fixation. So I replaced reg smokes with electronic. Right now im using tobacco flavored menthol and I switch to creamy orange. Like a orange Julius. Yummy.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/14 05:31 PM
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Ive been rejected before trying to give a bj. Its thrown my confidence way off and then I realized im taking it personal when I shouldnt. Test the waters. Put your head in his lap and pretend to watch tv. Rub it around and give him the look. Or ask him if its ok to give random bjs.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/14 04:00 AM
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The fact that my s.o has a high N doesnt bother me. Both my exs had super high counts as well. Id rather be with someone experienced than train them. They all saw the value in me and entered ltr with me. So outta all the women they passed through I was more important. On the other side reading the male red pill makes me feel bad for the women who are being used and the way they are viewed. I have 3 daughters and I hope they dont fall for that crap. 1 really upset me in particular. A guy was dati…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/14 03:51 AM
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Can I ask why you have 2 female roomates? You both seem to be working enough to afford your own place.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 04:59 PM
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I got into the habit of wearing perfume only on date nights. I recently I began wearing it everyday. Nothing extremely strong but I make sure to put it on everyday now. I even add a small amout to the back of my neck because he likes to hug me from behind and smell my hair. He loves that I always smell so good. He works all day with stinky guys im sure its such a nice change to come home to a sweet smell. Tl:dr boys smell stinky. Girls should smell like sugar and spice. Everything nice.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 04:53 PM
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Omg that sounds so good im going to make this!
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 04:46 PM
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Lol ty. So sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 04:44 PM
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Bad bad bad
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 04:43 PM
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Embrace it! Once you stop getting carded you will be coming back asking "how do I look younger" lol. Its life. It may suck now but thats probably alot of his appeal to you. (Not because you look 14 but because you look youthful)
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 04:41 PM
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Im working on how I carry myself. Somehow over the years I have lost my way. When something upsets me im going to take the time to reflect instead of immediately getting my feelings hurt and reacting. Im also lowering my expectations for family members of his. I'm accepting that not everyone was raised the same way I was and I cannot keep up with always making things fair. Me and my s.o agree on how to treat the children and being fair. thats all that matters. This sounds sad but it actually wil…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 04:38 PM
1

Want to share your recipe?
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 03:57 PM
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I avoid asking for help for the house. Didnt work out so well in the past. Lol anything I can do i just do it. jars or fix something I think timing is the key. Jars arent a big deal but like the vacuum was clogged. Yes I can do it but its not my job to fix things. So I tell him it wont work and leave it for him to fix at his own time. Heres a big one that I might have royally screwed myself with. The yard. The yard is his duty. We live in an hoa and can get ticketed. Ive mentioned it twice since…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/14 01:33 AM
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I understand what you are saying. I dont take offense. I hope you find this sub as helpful and supportive as I have. Life isnt fair like you were probably raised to believe. I feel all the crap I was told to believe or bias articles I read werent honest descriptions of reality. Your choices of words and your vision of what this group is about stems from the bs you were most likely raised with. I hope this sub helps you gain emotional intelligence and helps you become a stronger woman.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 11:52 PM
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Start getting that baby into its own room. You are gonna be s.o.l when new baby comes. 8)
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 07:05 PM
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How I would want to handle it: be extremely aroused by how hot he is and give him loads of attention and flattery. (Dont know if this is the correct rp way of handling it. How my brain would take it : oh shit have I not been giving him enough attention. I must be confident and not let this drive me crazy with insecurity. His ego needs stroking. I need to be the one to fill this. Honestly I would be pissed but I would try like hell to let it go and get over it. Compartmentalize. Like I said im ne…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 06:10 PM
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Gross. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 02:01 PM
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I wish I could remember what post I saw it in. Its funny how a few words can mean something so big. Id say its the best advice ive heard also.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 11:57 PM
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Get a higher level nicotine juice. Smoking ecig is better than a reg cig. I personally use a menthol tobacco flavor but there are so many you wouldnt think you would like but they are good. What we did is added ecigs for about 2 weeks. Then only allowed like 4 cigarettes a day and only ecig after that. I puffed on that all day long. Lol quit smoking. I tried smoking a cig socially a couple times but the taste was nasty. I started at 18mg nicotine now im at 6mg. Started in Nov. Im not winded afte…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 11:36 PM
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Staying on schedule. Finish sewing the burp clothes I have. Cook something new to wow him. Detail clean the bedroom/br/shwr/tub
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 10:17 PM
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My mom is pretty good (or bad?) On being honest which I appreciate from her. "Kitty you need to lose 10lbs" or "dont wear that you have fat showing" this sounds harsh but I actually rather hear this than be lied to. My s.o points stuff out too. None of it is mean. Its reality. Its really hard to tell friends these things. Id rather say we both need to work out and do it together. I really love what I heard here the other day and ive made it my motto. "Stop looking for the "one" and start being t…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 10:13 PM
0

Have you tried e-cigarettes?
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 04:45 PM
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This is why I like this sub. Helps me see his way of thinking. Im naturally submissive so I dont intentionally compete with dominance but I know im not perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 04:17 PM
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Its not that I kept them more like I never clean out my emails. He had to go pretty far back to come across them. (Like years)
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 02:19 PM
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No. Hes a "trust but verify" person.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 05:40 AM
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I havent checked in awhile if there's something on my phone. Its possible theres nothing. I caught it about 1 year ago.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 05:38 AM
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1 thing I do is keep left over card board boxes . I get fabric that matches the decor in the house and dress up the box. (Our main room is decorated with rustic American flag-ish and bill of rights stuff) kids small toys go into these or diaper stuff etc. I love how it all fits together. 8) slide it on a book shelf. Congrats on new house!
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 05:09 AM
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Edit Need to clarify ex sent emails prior to me even dating my so but I didnt delete the emails.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 04:55 AM
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Its been awhile so im having a hard time remembering. It was nothing like I was cheating or guys or anything like that. He has controlling issues. He wanted full access early on. I agreed because I wanted to show he could trust me. He wanted to go through my phone. I told him he could but I felt it was a bad idea. Thats how the transparency started. My ex would send me emails occasionally that I wouldnt reply to begging to marry me etc. He was really well off, really great career, trying to buy …
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 04:52 AM
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Early on we shared each others passwords. We had gps trackers.i think it cause more issues than gave comfort. I closed old email accounts and we got new phone numbers. I really wish we hadn't but I agreed because of "transparency" I really felt completely controlled. Just being honest. He got upset with me over something unrelated I dont remember and changed all his passwords and so did I. I did find out by chance that he put seek droid on my phone and can read everything. I have nothing to hide…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 03:33 AM
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The man with the highest iq currently works in a burger king. That being said ppl with a higher emotional intelligence and average iq out preform those with much higher iqs and low emotional intelligence. Just thought id share. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 12:30 AM
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Amazing! Purchase 1. Its electric and vacuums even. The kids can easily use it! Ty. Ty. Ty
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/14 10:42 PM
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I think that goes both ways though. For me I dont want to have to hear how smart a man is. Cramming that down my throat would annoy me. My man happens to be extremely smart but has never had to tell me. Granted his father tells me hes a genius every time I talk to him but Capt doesnt. He doesnt have to. I see it all the time naturally.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/14 10:11 PM
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So out of all the girls this dude has met only 1 is smarter than him? This is 1 study I will trust. That is good advice he gave about not bragging about smarts. That is truly annoying. I always feel if someone has to tell me how smart they are they probably arent. Like sometimes when I read blogs or articles where somebody is talking about how smart they are and dumb everyone else is I roll my eyes. 1 thing I truly believe (no sarcasm) is that women and men have different areas of intelligence. …
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/14 09:38 PM
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Oh I took it very very personal at first. Made me go nuts. I was extremely sensitive because I never came across this before. Im attractive. Im talented. Im not shy. Im fun. I thought it was me. We recently found out he has diabetes.440bg . So apparently he really did feel like crap. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/14 07:10 PM
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Period trackers have options
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/14 04:31 AM
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Lmfao!
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/14 04:31 AM
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I would be happy to do it everyday! Unfortunately that would mean I would not be getting sex I have found. I dont give random bjs as much as id want. I notice if there are several bjs before im getting my needs fulfilled. I do start with it and end with it during sex though. As for initiating its hard to break through past our minds. Sometimes when I think about it my brain says "oh no nows not a good time" I reject it even before I try...ugh. I dont mean to get too detailed but you could start …
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/14 04:25 AM
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Whoa. Whoa. Whoa. He floated the idea of moving in with each other! If he saw you as a plate then those ideas would never have left his lips. Good luck Miss Valley I wish you the best.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/14 03:54 AM
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My worry is the business. What happens if things sour? What financial issues will that cause? I think its human nature to be drawn to someone you are working closely with when your single. We are loving nurturing creatures. We look for the good. Sadly sometimes ignore the flags. I kinda feel like you are vulnerable right now being fresh out of a traumatic event. That being said before things go further I think you should discuss the relationship. Not in a "desperately need to care for you way" y…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/14 06:08 PM
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I have same issue. Lol. Or she will sit in the open door. When I turn the water on to prewash dishes she immediately scoots a little chair over to help which means grabs forks and knives....
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/14 05:57 AM
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Thank you for taking your time to answer. Next time Im going to state my feelings are hurt and remove myself so I dont say something crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/14 01:54 AM
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Congrats! I recently posted about trying to keep the house clean with kids. 8) my plan this week is to make a visible schedule. My advice is to set a schedule for you and your daughter. I know you said she refuses to nap. I have a rule that even if the kids dont nap its quiet time. Quiet time is quietly playing on the bed with a toy or books etc. Maybe start with playing a movie on a tablet for her in her bed. Lay down with her if thats what she needs. You will benefit from this also. You get a …
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/14 01:50 AM
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Just our s.o
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 11:37 PM
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If it was me I would work on losing weight for myself not this particular guy. Everyone has room for self improvement. I cant really picture what your body looks like but it doesnt sound gross. Anyways simply cutting out carbs might be what you need.(adkins diet for me) I would focus on being the best you can be for yourself. Healthy, properly grooming, dressing respectfully, work on skills. Get yourself at the top of your game. I feel this is too early of a relationship to tell if he is a worth…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 06:31 PM
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Will do. Ty
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 05:06 AM
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My niece was under 2 and was able to pick up toys and throwaway her trash. Have to watch her though because she will throw away spoons and plates haha. She actually gets excited doing those things. Kids need and want to help. I wish I did it with my oldest it was a nightmare retraining her to be productive and helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 01:28 AM
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The little ones are good at cleaning the playroom up which is good but other things not so much. Sweeping starts out good but quickly becomes a hockey game with any food on the ground. I do give them chores and jobs but cleaning chores i have to do over. The 15yr old gets home around 5 and does help me completely with cooking dinner. She also sweeps and spot mops, empties and fills dw depending on where its at after 2 of the kids leave. After dinner she has about 2 hours before she goes to bed. …
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 12:33 AM
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Sex isnt everything I agree but if its bad it will sour a relationship. For me sex is much more than climaxing. Its connecting. If sex wasnt so important why are we not allowed to have it with anyone else but our spouses? Head over to /r/deadbedrooms. For some ppl sex is a love language. For some acts of service is their love language. To each their own, but I refuse to believe that sex isnt important. Its 1 of the pillars for foundation.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 11:49 PM
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You know I didnt think of having a schedule involving the kids. I do breakfast before 830, lunch at 11, nap at 12 every weekday. I need to get more specific like you suggested as well. That will keep me on track. Im going to try this. I have a large white board in the play room I can use. Thank you taking the time to answer.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 11:42 PM
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I could but I cant. Tbh. I feel like if I ask for him to make me a schedule that will say I cant handle this task. Awhile ago I told him I was behind on laundry he said he would do it. That resulted in the little kids and his laundry getting done , mine would be left in the wash getting sour until I find it a day or 2 later. I complained when it kept happening so now he only does his laundry if he does laundry. Id rather solve this with my own sources and avoid having to bug him.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 11:30 PM
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I feel like im losing precious time with the kids, but Capt likes to come home to a clean house. I do hear what you are saying.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 09:53 PM
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Dont listen to them. They are projecting their issues, losses, expectations onto you. They could be genuine but its not their marriage. The only things I suggest is traveling first. Becoming a mother is the most beautiful thing in the world and will change you for the better. Its natural. Its hard dont get me wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 08:53 PM
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I was just thinking how I never see curly haired ppl contradict "never brush wet hair" ive brushed my curly hair while wet for 25yrs I cant do it dry.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 04:28 AM
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8) I wear skirts or dresses pretty much everyday. I love it! Im a at home wife but I still get up every day and get ready as if I was going somewhere. 20 mins before he gets home I put on sexy heels and put my "house shoes" out of sight though. Lol its amazing what a nice pair of tall heels can do for your legs. I cant stand when I see women who wear shorts and they ride up in between their legs. It happens to me so I avoid shorts.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 04:25 AM
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Why?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 03:38 AM
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Lol this reminds me of a time I was in the car with my hubby. I had recently found out that my childs aide at school was being mean to her so I started crying talking about it (shes special needs and non verbal so she couldnt tell me when it was happening) he put his hand on my thigh and told me "it we be ok babe.....you know what we gotta do..........go to home depo and build a cage for the rabbits" he wasnt blowing me off he was completely sincere. It was his way of being comforting. He thinks…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 01:49 AM
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My goodness that was so well put. Bravo. 8)
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 12:26 AM
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Have you had your hormone levels tested?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 12:22 AM
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So you design plans for liver transplants.....and somehow you feel qualified to give advice or input on depression and its treatment. Ive read lots of Biology and Anatomy books so let me just tell you gall bladder surgery is a drs cash cow. Nobody ever has real issues with it. Every single case is bullshit. Made up issue. Easy surgery. Easy money. Come on. Be a little responsible. Im all for "suck it up and move on" but you are pretending to be very well versed in something through education whe…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 12:16 AM
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Thank you for stating this. Studies can also have variables that effect the outcome which are ignored or not taken into consideration. his/her statements make me want to poke my fingers into my eyes
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 12:08 AM
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You never stated your job in the medical field which gives you such insight to depression. A tech is in the medical field. A phlebotomist is in the medical field. Someone so close minded saying you can speak for everyone who has ever been depressed in the world is faking it seems very ignorant.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 12:02 AM
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I agree completely with you. Thank you for saying something.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 11:56 PM
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Questions: is it possible since the pool of ppl that typically need antidepressants are fragile that those statistics are foggy? Those that are already having suicidal thoughts are just crazier than they thought maybe? or the antidepressant works enough to get them out of bed able to fulfill their already in place suicidal thought. I only question medical stats because of all the crap behind them that ppl dont take into account . http://m.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2010/11/lies-damned-lies…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 11:52 PM
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I love this post although im a little embarrassed about how boring my short term goals will be. Regular hosehold daily chores finished everyday(no skipping chores). Keep laundry moving. Do 2 extra detail cleanings each day. Exercise. more affectionate to hubby. Time dinner perfectly for his arrival. Be positive more often. Put on heels before he comes home. Most importantly absolutely no zero days. Small daily longterm : research to find ways to improve my self and skills. Be a better wifey.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 10:11 PM
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