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| 1 | Women, can you date someone who has absolutely zero dating / sex / relationship experience? And is over the age of 30? With next to no libido?I have a social media addiction. I don't honestly believe I will ever have a girlfriend in my lifetime. I missed the boat on social human interaction. These conversations are the only thing I get as far as talking with other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Women, can you date someone who has absolutely zero dating / sex / relationship experience? And is over the age of 30? With next to no libido?I live in a hoarding home. They don't plan, they just go through the motions. To them, I'm still 10 years old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Women, can you date someone who has absolutely zero dating / sex / relationship experience? And is over the age of 30? With next to no libido?I didn't believe a single girl was attracted to me, so I basically gave up. I honestly hated the feeling of someone liking me. I wanted to disappear and didn't want anyone to know me. I didn't just give up on dating at 16. I gave up on trying to find a career, making friends, and having hobbies. I just go day-to-day in a zombie like motion. I don't really care what my parents think. They don't have the balls or the spine to kick me out. So I get to stay here. Forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Women, can you date someone who has absolutely zero dating / sex / relationship experience? And is over the age of 30? With next to no libido?I haven't planned that far out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 08:13 AM |
| 1 | You can't complain about older men dating younger women if you're a young woman who only dates men who make $80,000 or more.Are you secretly a lesbian? I mean, it doesn't seem like you want a relationship for the companionship in life. Life gets lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Women, can you date someone who has absolutely zero dating / sex / relationship experience? And is over the age of 30? With next to no libido?I don't plan on becoming attractive or healthy. I want a short life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Women, can you date someone who has absolutely zero dating / sex / relationship experience? And is over the age of 30? With next to no libido?We agree to disagree. I understand your reasoning but I have concluded that I have made the first move to avoid women. They have not avoided me. Because they don't even know me. In this game of wits, I have won. Check and no mating as I'm a virgin. Does that make more sense or do I need to elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Women, can you date someone who has absolutely zero dating / sex / relationship experience? And is over the age of 30? With next to no libido?No my injury took up all my saved money and some parent help and didn't get treated. I was 23 so I was on my parents' insurance and it still cost over $20,000 in testing and dicking around with various doctors. I don't have medical insurance anymore. Too poor to afford it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Women, can you date someone who has absolutely zero dating / sex / relationship experience? And is over the age of 30? With next to no libido?Why exactly would a woman want to know me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Women, can you date someone who has absolutely zero dating / sex / relationship experience? And is over the age of 30? With next to no libido?I'm not healthy, I don't exercise, I either sleep way too much or way too little, I binge eat and then fast, I don't know my vitamin level haven't been to the doctors in over 10 years (basically when I got my head injury at 23 and they said it was anxiety). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 06:14 AM |
| 1 | You can't complain about older men dating younger women if you're a young woman who only dates men who make $80,000 or more.Why would a guy bust his ass off making over $80k a year to date someone older? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | You can't complain about older men dating younger women if you're a young woman who only dates men who make $80,000 or more.$0 to $ten billion, give or take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 05:27 AM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on men who are older than 30 dating women who are 18 to 25 in age?Well as long as people can sign up for a war and get killed / kill others at 18, I don't really think the rest matters too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 04:37 AM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on men who are older than 30 dating women who are 18 to 25 in age?What if you don't drink? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 04:21 AM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on men who are older than 30 dating women who are 18 to 25 in age?Well if you aren't a total creep, you usually have some level of invested attachment. The more the attachment, the bigger the pain of rejection. Highschool is a good example when a guy finds year 1 girl attractive but waits until year 4. The more you do it, the better you get at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 09:01 AM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on men who are older than 30 dating women who are 18 to 25 in age?Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 06:25 AM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?Or like how when you cut cut snip snip to boys it is "circumcision" but if you do the same to girls it is "barbaric mutilation." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?What's your thoughts on Novavax? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?Cutting out sugar was probably more effective long-term for health than getting a vaccine. Where is my anti-sugar pandemic? "Lol fat people" apparently but nothing will be done because "sugar is so tasty." And also highly addictive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?Historically there are medications that do what they are supposed to and those that don't. Mental health has a huge issue with corporations having a more effective marketing campaign than the drugs they sell. One example of a vaccine going wrong was the "1976 Swine Flu Vaccine." It was stopped after 56 deaths by the CDC. I don't trust anything blindly. That's the biggest issue with a lot of positioning. It is almost an identity. You either believe in ALL the vaccines or are an anti-vaxxer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?Historically, has there ever been a time that the vaccine did more harm than good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 11:13 PM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?What if they waited and got a better vaccine, like Novavax? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?And where do you live? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 10:23 PM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?You ever use online dating? The 666 is a basic requirement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?Source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 01:51 AM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?Date-able in this context means "attracting hot women." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 01:10 AM |
| -1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?Do you need to be a good drive to be safe on the road? Or should we just all speed at 100 miles? Why even bring up something that will end up crashing and failing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 01:09 AM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?They aren't really the ideal situation though. Broke, overweight, time poor, pay check to pay check, complain about politics, and spend their weekends watching football. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 12:59 AM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?100k is the starting amount for success and status. You ain't anyone until you hit that amount. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?A billionaire with a private jet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 12:46 AM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?True. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 12:42 AM |
| 0 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?Poverty is people making less than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?Poverty is different in different areas. A poor European woman generally has more luxuries than a poor American woman. Like time off, benefits, travel experiences, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 11:09 PM |
| 1 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?I'm pretty sure it is quite important. Women won't directly say it, but a man needs to make more money for her to even consider him for a relationship unless it becomes a FWB situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?Since when are serial-killers virgins? Most are highly promiscuous. If you said school-shooter, that's more believable. I am a 30 year old virgin myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?My plan is to get really fat and ugly and then I'll never have any hope at attracting anyone. I don't see myself ever getting into a relationship. It just isn't possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 11:04 PM |
| – | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?I'm a 30 year old virgin, who exactly am I trying to attract? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 10:53 PM |
| – | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?And what about at age 30? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 10:52 PM |
| – | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?Who really cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 10:44 PM |
| – | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?What are you supposed to do on a date? What advice did you tell him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?The conventions and events tend to bring out friendly people though. I go for the social interactions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?I am glad you understand. There is no point at this age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 12:46 AM |
| – | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?And what happens when men turn 30 and are still virgins? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?It isn't the kiss itself, it is the hesitation which shows lack of experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?Why is that gross? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?I went to college myself but I didn't meet anyone. I'll probably die a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?What if you have never had any long-term relationships or friendships by 30? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?Therapy doesn't work for guys. Therapists have told me to give up on dating. Once you get past 25, the numbers show that the guys are pretty much stuck as being virgins for life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?Yes I have. "Given up" as in, I will remain a virgin forever. No one is attracted to a 30-year old virgin. I will work myself into an early grave at this point because I have nothing in life to look forward to. I will never get a relationship. That ship has sailed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Why Won’t You Pay For Sex?It is like being colorblind and finding intimacy and seeing color for the first time. A need? If you want to feel something, it is an important step to feeling like a complete human. Especially given how important skin-to-skin touch is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Why Won’t You Pay For Sex?A sexual relationship. Filled with sex. And uals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?I don't work out. I'm 6'1" and people say I look like a mix between Henry Cavill, Robert Pattinson, and Penn Badgley. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Why Won’t You Pay For Sex?Why won't you just pay for the microtransactions in a video game? If you are a gamer that has given up on trying to beat a boss, why don't you just pay for it to be solved instantly? Just get out your wallet, and stop the frustration of grinding, and just pay for that instant gratification? In fact, we will continue to put out updates that make it almost impossible to beat the levels without dedicating your entire soul. Or you know, you can just pay to win. And once you pay, why not do it for al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?Well the su*cide attempt at 23 destroyed my libido for a few years. I am just somewhat drifting at this point. I am a failure if I am being honest. I always would use the potential of dating as a carrot and the fear of failure as a stick. "Get all A's in class and then you can date!" I mean, it somewhat worked out but then I felt my social anxiety kick in and didn't even pursue it afterwards. Now I am left behind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 04:23 PM |
| 3 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?I am not really happy being single, I have just accept it as more of a permanent state of existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?Sure but the problem is setting expectations and safety as well. Towels, condoms, STD talk, testing, evaluation, safety words, after care, other interests / desires. And I can't say that I kissed a lot of girls because then I should know how to kiss. I have never kissed a girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?And what about over age 30? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?I'm still pretty clueless. My social interaction with women is very limited. Well my social interaction in general to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?How is past 20 already weird? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?Being a virgin past a certain age is of course unattractive as it ostensibly implies you’re someone no-one else wanted. That’s the cold hard truth. Not necessarily as a guy. For a guy, it simply means he did zero approaching or initiating. Or doesn't really have a social life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThanks I'll give it a try. I just get this crushing feeling that I'll die alone as a virgin and it weighs heavily on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 06:20 AM |
| 2 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?For this scenario I'm describing both people are actively trying to lose their virginity What does that involve for a guy exactly? Is he going to bars, clubs, using online dating, reading seduction books, increasing his income / physical fitness, joining clubs, cold approaching women, talking with everyone he meets, etc? I got to the point where I am at because I didn't really engage socially. I don't think I have ever asked a woman out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 06:19 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?Just curious, did he say he was a virgin or word it more gently like "it has been a while / I'm inexperienced." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?That's not really what I am seeing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:59 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?For me personally, I grew up in a hoarding home. My social skills died on impact. I was like an outsider watching people do stuff and I would freeze up. I didn't even own a microwave until I was in middleschool. We shared a "family" computer until I was in high school. I didn't get a cell phone until I was 25. I never learned how to drive. Somewhat just avoided life. I don't honestly believe women are attracted to me but I have been asked out when I was in my teens / early 20s. Maybe around 5 ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow do you get over the lonely depression? It started for me in 2020 and just keeps digging inside my mental headspace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:49 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?To be honest, I didn't even want to go to college. I was depressed in high school and I feared failing my classes. It was A or F. They probably had something like that at my college but I did not get a full ride. I grew up in a hoarding home lol it destroyed my ability to socialize. Still living in a hoarding home now and just avoidant of the world in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:42 AM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.What are your standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:24 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?Probably my school then. Mainly for engineering. Commuter school. I never went to a party, never had any friends, just showed up for the classes and then isolated myself in the library. I didn't even own a cell phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:22 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?I don't want my virginity to be the reason on missing out with someone I find a connection with. I don't want to have sex just for the sake of having sex though. I would get too paranoid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?29 almost 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?No, I am generally avoidant of women and physical touch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?Late teens early 20s or any BDSM event if they are attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?What about the non-religious ones who don't want to remain virgins? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?We were supposed to have sex during college? I spent too much time studying :\ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?What is your opinion on a 30 year old virgin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?I'm an atheist. I would say the vast majority of my time is spent working or on the computer. I live with my parents. Even in school, I never talked to girls. I have never asked a girl out on a date, I was too shy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?Yeah I failed out of the eugenics program. Dating was never meant to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?I have just never had a girl find me attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 12:03 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?What about when you hit age 30? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?This isn't about me. I'm saving a lot of money living with my parents. I have given up on dating. I gave up when I was 19 years old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?I am a 30 year old virgin as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 11:56 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I have missed the boat when it comes to dating. And once that ship has sailed, it is never coming back. What advice do you have?Can you expand on this concept? | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.No, it was mainly to avoid getting sun burnt. I just don't like people knowing my face because then they will know my age. I like acting younger than I am. Like say between 21-23. I'm usually with my dad. And people are nicer. When I show my face, my age so to speak, people are meaner. "Why is he helping you, you should know this by now." I have also missed the dating game as well. My lack of experience is troublesome. I also have the following issues: Low libido Circumcised and lacking sensatio… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/09/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.I'm 30 years old and a virgin. There isn't any hope for me to be honest. I have given up ever attempting to have a sex life or a relationship. It is what it is. I wear a mask that covers my entire face when I am out in public. It is terrifying. Like scarecrow's mask from the batman series. It allows me to avoid public conversations and never show my face. I have worn it for over 5 years now. I rarely show my face in public these days, especially with covid. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/09/22 09:49 PM |
| 0 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.You are failing to understand the point I was making. Or making it for me, I don't know. Effectively you are telling a starving man not to eat meat, pick vegan, while his only choices are meat. Additionally, you are spreading big veggie propaganda. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/09/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.There is only one person I need to meet and I see that face every time I look in a mirror. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/09/22 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.Beggars can't be choosers. I'd date a homeless woman with HIV and a drug addiction but I bet she would not date me. I date anyone at this point. I am living in a hell of madness. Do you know how many attempts at suicide I have done because of my isolation? Not even the worms want my body. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/09/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.Yes, yes I would. The fact no one will pick me is why I would pick anyone. I turn off everyone. Yes, I'm that ugly. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/09/22 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.Lol you failed to read the comment. You would be preaching to someone starving that instead of eating the sinful meat they should go vegan. But forgetting that this person has not had food in however long. And no, a carnivore diet is quite healthy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/09/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.Carnivore diet is a thing. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/09/22 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.I get so many remarks that because I make a lower income than her, she is dating down, and now I am no longer a candidate. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.Now that I am 30 years old, it feels like this is the only type that is still single. :\ | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.I don't even get scammers or bots messaging me on Okcupid. I would honestly take anything at this point. My inbox is so empty. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.Social proofing is a thing. When people become "successful" you get a lot of free perks that don't make sense. Only because you are successful. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.Beggars can't be choosers. And I'm on my hands and knees. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.I did no such thing. Here you are talking about investing this and that and I have had nothing. Not even the smallest of hand holds. Mate, I'm the 30 year old virgin in this situation. What a weird change of tone. You are telling a starving man not to eat meat, eat vegan instead. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 01:20 PM |
| 10 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.Okay, go on, give me a cure for my autism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.Are you a 30 year old virgin? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.Dating over 30, the career and financial goals are like 99% of the reason people date these days. That's fine to care about someone's character when you are in your early 20s, but now it is about who has done what. How many likes and followers. Their status. Their net-worth. Savings for retirement. Home ownership. I still live with my parents. I'm failing badly. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.I would take any woman at this point. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.My penis is defective from an infant circumcision. So I just want to feel loved really and cuddle and watch fireworks. I don't even have functional equipment. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 09:14 AM |
| 5 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.I don't understand this notion that because I'm a virgin I'm willing to pay for a sex worker. First, that's just going to revisit the worst thing about myself. My defective circumcised penis. No thanks. And second, it is a hallow experience. I want to feel loved and cared for. Like there is someone out there for me that I can build a future with. This is the miserable aspect of it. Both in terms of physical trauma and mental loneliness. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.I rather not be me. I'm autistic. I'm a virgin. I'm extremely lonely. I rather burn that and run, far far away. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.That's hard to believe. I'm pretty unhappy as a 30 year old virgin. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.I have never been on a date. I will take whatever I can get. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?That makes zero sense. | /r/seduction | 11/04/21 05:46 AM |
| – | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?I am attracted to energetic and emotionally intelligent women. Women that bring a level of creative energy with them. My main issue is that I have had a huge barrier. At one point, I rejected everyone due to my social nerves. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 09:38 PM |
| – | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?How old are you? I am nearly 30 so it is pretty creepy in my opinion. Too old for most locations. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 08:01 PM |
| – | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?Yes, physically and mentally attractive are the lowest criteria. That's as vague as you can get. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 07:49 PM |
| – | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?Where are you approaching them? | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 07:46 PM |
| – | Depressed virgin. I have been self-quarantining for years before it was popular (isolated, living with parents). I do not conceptually believe that I will ever have sex in my life time. What advice do you have?I am almost 30 years old, anything I do now just makes me look gross, creepy, and desperate. I am too old to be hitting on girls I find attractive. | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 12:59 PM |
| – | Depressed virgin. I have been self-quarantining for years before it was popular (isolated, living with parents). I do not conceptually believe that I will ever have sex in my life time. What advice do you have?It is like you missed the point entirely. I only allow people to touch me (non-sexually) when I feel a huge emotional connection and feel comfortable sharing my vulnerability. I rarely show people my vulnerability. So paying for a hooker would be just paying for a conversation. There is no way I could connect to someone in that way physically. It is way too hedonist as well and meaningless on an emotional level. | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Almost 30 years old. I have very little experience and I don't want to die a virgin. What advice do you have for me?During college I tried to kill myself. I dropped out and worked a low paying online job. I have no skills, no degree, and do not make enough to afford an apartment. I avoid social interaction and spend the majority of my time inside this hoarding home. I think about killing mysel all the time but sex is the only thing that is one my bucket list. Except I fear physical intimacy because I was bullied in middle school. And so I just waste time... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/19 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Almost 30 years old. I have very little experience and I don't want to die a virgin. What advice do you have for me?I live with my parents in a hoarding home. I am an absolute failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/19 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Almost 30 years old. I have very little experience and I don't want to die a virgin. What advice do you have for me?Yes multiple times when I was losing my weight. I was extremely socially anxious. I could not even look them in the eyes. And that was direct asking me out. Sometimes they had their guy friends say " so and so finds you really cute bro." I would always freeze up and just change the subject. I still live with my parents which has always been an issue towards dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/19 03:10 AM |
| 5 | Depressed virgin. I am typing this right now inside my parents' house. I am socially isolated and having moderate amount of FOMO. It is another Saturday night and I have no plans or anything. What would you suggest?I read models about two months ago. | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Depressed virgin. I am typing this right now inside my parents' house. I am socially isolated and having moderate amount of FOMO. It is another Saturday night and I have no plans or anything. What would you suggest?White. Why? | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 01:29 AM |
| 1 | I don't want to die a virgin. What advice do you have for me?I am expecting the first time to go not that well. My main point is learning the process from getting A to B. Paying for the goal would not help. It is like someone who cheats on an exam. They got the grade but did not learn the material. | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 04:07 PM |
| – | I don't want to die a virgin. What advice do you have for me?That defeats the entire point. I use the potential of sex as a carrot on the stick for self improvement. I want to learn more on the process of attraction than the end result. Paying for it would be extremely depressing and risky. | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 02:42 PM |
| – | How do I gain experience while working on my issues? How can I get over negative self-talk?I have applied at fast food places and was rejected... | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 04:30 PM |
| – | How do I gain experience while working on my issues? How can I get over negative self-talk?The main issue is that I have never had a job before and no one wants to hire someone like me. I even get rejected to fast food places. | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 04:12 PM |
| – | How do I gain experience while working on my issues? How can I get over negative self-talk?Right, just like dating I have been trying to get a job but I always get rejected. | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Male 26. No job, no car, no degree, still living with my parents. My entire life I have never had a date, hoping to get a job would change it. I feel unemployable and undateable.What were you studying? A subject I hated due to reasons that felt out of my control. I picked a business major because my parents are hoarders and it was the only thing that numbed my awareness due to the easy yet busy work. I hated it. What triggered the breakdown? My parents lied to me and I was completely destroyed mentally and physically. I wanted out of my major and I wanted the house cleaned. I then started to get suicidal What exactly went down when the breakdown occurred? I tried to kik… | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 02:39 PM |
| 1 | At what age does remaining a virgin start to get weird? Am I a lost cause?To waste time and age myself so that I am a virgin at 50 years. | /r/seduction | 28/12/18 01:04 AM |
| – | At what age does remaining a virgin start to get weird? Am I a lost cause?Well duh. Like they say, there is almost always something wrong with an older virgin. I am mentally crazy. | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 09:19 AM |
| – | At what age does remaining a virgin start to get weird? Am I a lost cause?I just thought that if I waited long enough, the desire to have a relationship/sex would disappear. I was wrong. It appears to have intensified but I also have accepted my fate working minimum wage and never dating. | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 07:31 AM |
| – | At what age does remaining a virgin start to get weird? Am I a lost cause?"Manchild incel virgin fuckboy suicide watch loser." :( | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 07:26 AM |
| – | At what age does remaining a virgin start to get weird? Am I a lost cause?The "manchild virgin boy" is how I describe myself. | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 12:56 AM |
| 6 | At what age does remaining a virgin start to get weird? Am I a lost cause?It does feel like a hopeless situation that society keeps reminding me of. I get called an incel all the time too. To some people, older virgins = automatic incel status... | /r/seduction | 26/12/18 11:44 PM |
| – | At what age does remaining a virgin start to get weird? Am I a lost cause?How did you manage to lose it? | /r/seduction | 26/12/18 11:43 PM |
| 2 | I plan to give up on dating completely. I have always wanted a romantic relationship but I feel I am unworthy. Should I toss in the towel? And at what age does remaining a virgin start to get weird?I wish I was asexual but no, I am somehow attracted to women. I try everything to control or ignore my urges but they are always there mocking me. In highschool and college I basically avoided women hoping it would disappear. It has not except when I got a concussion. I am like bipolar when it is a topic on dating. I want to date! No, wait, I want to bve asexual! No more women for me! Stuff like that. I am broken. | /r/seduction | 26/12/18 07:52 AM |
| 1 | My main enemy when it comes to dating is myself. I am a 25 year old virgin who has actively destroyed my sexual desires due to asking why too much and questioning my own reality. What to do?Yes. For jobs I have to work for myself. i cannot do the whole random schedule + work weekends. I also wish I did not have to eat or sleep. | /r/seduction | 24/12/18 11:56 PM |
| – | My main enemy when it comes to dating is myself. I am a 25 year old virgin who has actively destroyed my sexual desires due to asking why too much and questioning my own reality. What to do?Yes and it makes me feel hopeless and self-destructive if I get hit on. The steps towards gaining a romantic relationship feel like the most difficult/impossible things to me. | /r/seduction | 24/12/18 10:42 PM |
| – | My main enemy when it comes to dating is myself. I am a 25 year old virgin who has actively destroyed my sexual desires due to asking why too much and questioning my own reality. What to do?The biggest reason I am a virgin is myself and I am not sure how to improve to get a romantic relationship. | /r/seduction | 24/12/18 10:35 PM |
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