| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 181 | My sexuality isn't yours to play with - rant about objectification of gay men. | sexuality | aarkhaelias | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/07/21 10:14 AM |
| 141 | This article actually states "Pay gap is bad, except when women earn more." | Discrimination | aarkhaelias | /r/MensRights | 28/12/21 09:21 PM |
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| 2 | Toxic Masculinity is a work of complete fiction. Men are men and boys will be boys.So is hating/mocking/shaming/insulting Boomers or Stuff associated to Boomers. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/23 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Toxic Masculinity is a work of complete fiction. Men are men and boys will be boys.What relevence is a word's year coinage? "Feminism" was coined before 1990, did you know that? So, what are you on about? | /r/MensRights | 01/09/23 11:32 PM |
| 53 | If men really are the priviledged sex, please give me some examples..There are gender equality indexes that aren't feminist? Which ones? | /r/MensRights | 01/09/23 11:07 PM |
| 3 | This feminist came to my school to teach us a little bit about feminism for the woman's day but she only said bullshitWhich country? | /r/MensRights | 11/03/23 10:31 PM |
| 1 | As a gay guy, whenever a MRA says we're disgusting/repulsive, it puts me off and makes me want to leave the general men's rights movement.Why? What reasoning do you have for this specific dynamic? Do you think two people who love each other is bad for child-rearing, just because of gender? What about the overflow of kids in the foster system, all the kids waiting to be adopted, that aren't because most heterosexuals would rather have a biological child than an adopted one? Whereas same-sex couples just want a child to love, so it doesn't matter whether the kid is biological or not. You'd rather have kids be unloved and homeless th… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/22 10:45 PM |
| 8 | As a gay guy, whenever a MRA says we're disgusting/repulsive, it puts me off and makes me want to leave the general men's rights movement.And what is your opinion on single parents? | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 05:34 AM |
| 4 | Norway's new mens issue panel is not composed by 100% men, and faces criticism in a article.No prostate, no opinion. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/22 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Why can't you report Onlyfans bait as sexual harassment?This is something that I've never revealed before to anyone, I've had a women to try to get me to watch her "stream" before on PlayStation Network, yes you heard it right, PlayStation Network, at first i thought it was an opportunity to gain a gaming friend, but no, it wasn't. It was also while i was underage (i think 16 or 17), it may not be onlyfans, but it was still something sexual. I've always wondered after awhile if it counted as sexual harassment, and if it didn't, why doesn't it? I actu… | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | We are a 30 year old couple with a 2 year old boy who moved to the west from a 3rd world country. Need advice on how to raise him to be comfortable with his masculinity.The Gambia? Sierra Leone? Guinea? Ivory Coast/Côte d'Ivoire? Togo? | /r/MensRights | 17/07/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Double standardsYou act like sexuality isn’t a spectrum, and that nominally straight men don’t exist. You can be “straight” and “married with a wife/multiple children with women” and still be a bisexual man. I think your opinion on being 100% straight as many straight men will claim to be is actually incorrect. When did I say sexuality wasn't a spectrum? When did I say anything in regards to sexuality and percentages? A Sexuality Spectrum also doesn't discount the existence of being 100% straight/gay/bi. So why… | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Double standardsNo said anything about women. You're replying to someone who simply said "And?" in response to a comment that said "Must be partly bisexual then. Congrats!". How does saying "And?" give you the idea that he hates women? Or that he secretly loves cock and hasn't come to terms with it, even though you have no idea what his sexuality is (when you made said comment)? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Double standardsActually it doesn't still stand. Like I said in a different comment, aestheic attraction doesn't require sexual attraction. You can look at dicks but still be straight, you can even be man and have sex with other men without being gay or bi. Also, even it wasn't directed at me specifically, it's a false statement that may very well perpetuate homophobia/biphobia. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 09:16 PM |
| 17 | Double standardsIf you were to say "all fat people are ugly" that would not be body shaming, to you? Since it is not targeted? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Double standardsI am very well aware I'm a gay man. When did I ever say I was straight? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 08:54 PM |
| 24 | Double standardsHow do you define body shaming then? What, to you, counts as body shaming? And seriously, saying I'm arguing in bad faith doesn't make it so. Give me a reason that I, who just entered this discussion, am arguing in bad faith | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Double standardsYou seem to think that aestheic attraction and sexual attraction must always be one in the same, which is untrue. Aestheic attraction can and does exist without sexual attraction. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 08:50 PM |
| 54 | Double standardsWhere is the body shaming you ask? You mean calling all dicks unattractive and gross, that's body shaming. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Girl called me “misogynist” and “homophobic” for defending men.It's ironic that she called you homophobic after you mentioned Alexander the Great, who was bisexual. Feminism also a history of homophobia, like calling gay men "inherently misogynistic" or criticizing Drag Queens. It also seems like she's implying that being gay is feminine by calling you homophobic after posting about women setting masculinity standards and redefining it as a 'new feminine'. "Weak", "effeminate", "sissy", "unmanly/unmasculine", and even "wannabe/pseudo woman" are all ways tha… | /r/MensRights | 11/05/22 08:58 PM |
| 3 | it's interesting that women get to be traumatized by not by able to do a hypothetical abortion but men are ridiculed for disliking being circumcisedI think most people would agree that a woman should be able to get an abortion if there is a medical need Yes, and this logic should be applied to circucision, but it's not, and the majority of men who are circumcised didn't have a Choice, even though it wasn't medically necessary. It's a bodily autonomy issue, which abortion is also about. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/05/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | it's interesting that women get to be traumatized by not by able to do a hypothetical abortion but men are ridiculed for disliking being circumcisedHonestly that's like western feminists who act like things that women go through in other countries that DO actually treat women badly, affect them (western feminists) directly. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/05/22 08:31 PM |
| 3 | What’s the difference between a feminist and Mens Rights activist? What do you personally think about feminism?Feminism is women advocating for womens rights and wanting to be treated fairly and equally to men. A square is a form of a rectangle, yet not all rectangles are squares. Women have always been belittled. This is a generalization, as it depends on the culture, and even the individual woman, not to mention class, race, sexuality, age, and religion. Unfortunately some assholes have weaponized the term to spread hate and now men think it’s a hate movement. Could you elaborate on which "assholes" yo… | /r/MensRights | 22/04/22 07:09 PM |
| 5 | What gender are you?When you say that "isn't the first time people in this subreddit show discontent towards trans people" right after you say "doesn't make mra's look good when they shit on NB people" it sounds like you believe NB and trans people are the same. Did you intend that? cause if you did, I don't think you have the right to speak about how bad mra's are when it comes to Trans or NB people, when you think transsexual or transgender, and non-binary identities are the same. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/21 09:36 PM |
| 9 | This article actually states "Pay gap is bad, except when women earn more."Up until the end, this was a nice article, showcasing that there is a pay gap in porn that women benefit from, but then there's this: it's sad that there are only 10 identified jobs where women earn more than men, because most often working women earn 79% of what men earn. And this: On the plus side though, it is nice to know that women in porn get paid competitively in comparison to men | /r/MensRights | 28/12/21 09:23 PM |
| 8 | Why Doesn’t Obama Condemn Boy Rapist Harvey Milk?This article gives one 'source' for Harvey Milk being a rapist, an article the same site this article was written on by a writer whose not only written other homophobic and transphobic things, but one who doesn't even cite his sources. Even calls Harvey Milk's death a suicide, even though he was murdered. This sub has opposed "Believe all Women" several times before, so what is this post supposed to be? "Believe all homophobes and transphobes"? Gay MEN are MEN, so if we require evidence (that is… | /r/MensRights | 11/11/21 10:08 PM |
| 2 | My sexuality isn't yours to play with - rant about objectification of gay men.Of course they don't feel bad about making people laugh, It's a job. Comedians can change said job. For a comedian, getting laughs is something they chose to do. Laughing is intentional. But all that doesn't apply to me, sexuality isn't something you do, it's something you ARE. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/07/21 01:16 PM |
| 2 | My sexuality isn't yours to play with - rant about objectification of gay men.Stand-up comedians don’t typically complain that people who pay just to come to watch them on stage and laugh at their jokes, and don’t see them as anything but a comedian in that context, but somehow we have allowed that attitude to infect sex, and make the whole thing a lot more sensitive and repressive for people. Comedians can get money out of it, it's a job, If I got paid by every women who objectifies my sexuality, then I wouldn't criticize them, as that would mean we both get something ou… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/07/21 07:43 AM |
| 2 | My sexuality isn't yours to play with - rant about objectification of gay men.I think the reason behind WHY is because lesbian porn doesn't have any guys in it so that way the guys who like lesbian porn don't have to look at another guys penis or ass. I think I actually remember reading some comment on YouTube or maybe Twitter where a guy said he doesn't wanna watch any porn with men in it because he doesn't want anyone to think he's gay, cause apparently watching porn with men is gay, even if it's straight porn. So maybe that's a factor? Ended up being that they both wer… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/07/21 07:33 AM |
| 3 | My sexuality isn't yours to play with - rant about objectification of gay men.Why not? Nothing preventing straight men from creating a word like that, except maybe for sexism. Or because it's unnecessary, I don't really have a problem with coining words that don't really need to exist, language is redundant after all. It's how the word is used that matters, and fujoshi is a word constantly used by women who end up dehumanizing real life gays. As well as perpetuate harmful stereotypes, romantisize rape and turn homophobia into a plot point that ends up somehow always stren… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/07/21 07:09 AM |
| 15 | Can r/MensRights start muting people that are obviously trolling? I’m not saying ban, just give a temporary mute.You posted about r/mensrights on r/againsthatesubreddits a sub where people have taken the things the we say out of context, and use them to claim we're sexist, misogynistic, racist, homophobic, and transphobic. Which is ironic considering I, a gay, have not experienced the rampant homophobia that some people claim exists within this sub. There are also transmen on this sub because when they start passing, they start noticing how unfair society can be to men. The racist claim is interesting beca… | /r/MensRights | 09/07/21 12:46 AM |
| 7 | Can r/MensRights start muting people that are obviously trolling? I’m not saying ban, just give a temporary mute.Yet you participate in pro-censorship subreddits, you seem to only care about censoring if it directly affects you, as you're silent when it comes to fighting censorship on said pro-censorship subreddits. You have yet to actually contribute to discussions without resorting to whataboutism, you have posted complaints about our sub that have perpetuated and enabled misconceptions, as there are already people who think we hate women, your posts about us on subs that already have zero understanding … | /r/MensRights | 09/07/21 12:32 AM |
| 48 | A female dating strategy post got on popular today saying how men without women are useless and can't accomplish anything even basic such as cooking and cleaning.As a gay guy, I just, I can't even imagine what gave anyone the idea that a man is useless without a women, I do not, nor will I never NEED a woman, If I'm friends with a woman, it's not because she's a woman, it's because she's someone who I can connect with, it's her personality that matters, not her gender… It's based on want, not need. What I need is men. As both male bonding and romances can help a males mental health and science can prove this, for me (a gay guy), that means women are like… | /r/MensRights | 12/05/21 03:47 AM |
| 7 | So I downloaded TikTok for an hour....The only reason I downloaded tiktok was because the gay side of tiktok exists, which I found out exists from a YouTuber. I never was exposed to any of the misandry on tiktok when I got it because I went straight to gay (pun unintentional) tiktok. P.S. You probably figured it out already, I'm a gay. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/21 03:18 AM |
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