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Sometimes you just need to focus on the basics. Your own body and mind first, everything else second. Maximize your health, empty your mind of everything bad and negative. Let rigid discipline guide you with a clear goal in mind; you. Be a monk for a while. Keep it simple and focused. Remove distractions.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 01:03 PM
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It starts very early... When around 7 years old there was this girl. Younger than me. I think 6. She was one of those "pink girlie girls". Pink clothes, pink stuff, pink everything. She wrote little letters to all the boys. Using pink paper and cute pink hearts on them. She even added perfume to the letters. She used red lipstick to kiss the pink envelopes used. She got lots of attention. No boy could resist. I still remember 25 years later. When I was around 11 I was an orbiter. The girl was sw…
/r/askTRP14/07/17 12:42 PM
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"It helps me focus", "It helps me approach", "It helps me get an erection" "I can stop whenever I want", "Just not today" That's the problem with addiction. It's not just only some chemical in your brain. It is the feeling of depending on it. The delusion it is helping you, in whatever way. It can be a sigaret after a meal, a beer at the bar or checking out facebook on your phone. Alcohol seems innocent because everyone is doing it, however it is still poison for your body and for mind. I strugg…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 05:26 PM
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"It helps me to socialize", "It helps me to be more myself", "It helps me to cope with life", "It helps me to relax" "I can stop whenever I want", "Just not today" Poison.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 01:04 PM
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Alcohol is poison. It has no positive qualities. No reason to master, moderate or discipline any poison intake. Don't do poison. Master candy intake instead.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 09:22 AM
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Supplements and vitamins are magic pills. Magic pills do not exist. Eat healthy. Eat your vegetables.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 09:19 AM
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I am doubling down on sport. Already lifting. Also cardio. Some of these gym groups look like fun. I also like swimming and am good at it. Once my condition improves I might be able to do some more running. Might at least be the athletic guy. No argument can be made against good health and discipline. The whole "social thing" is where my weak point is. It's what needs much more work than my body.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:36 AM
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Thanks. It's what I need to hear. Getting dumped would be a great accomplishment. No girl has ever dumped me. Never even got that far. I currently am going to the gym almost daily. Also taking nutrition seriously. It doesn't take much to be at least the fittest man in the room.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:25 AM
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What have you done for 32 years? The first 18 years where screwed up beyond believe. Since then I basically locked myself up inside home, fearful and depressed. Every year got worse and worse. Now I am trying to crawl out of this hole. The only real motivation are girls. Or just buy an escort if you want it so badly. I'm that one guy who has actually paid hookers for a hug. I am that joke, living and breathing.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:16 AM
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Sounds easier than it is...some questions... Is a fake smile good enough? It is not that I can make myself have a real happy smile. I am just not a happy smiley person like the rest of these people. It takes me conscious effort to move those muscles in my face. Where do I say "hi"? In the supermarket? Nobody does that. It is weird. Same for the book store or a coffee shop. I never see anyone say anything actually, unless they know someone. I'd still have to walk upto someone and say "hi". Then a…
/r/seduction09/07/17 12:01 PM
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How many times are you going to have to practice? First I have to get rid of social anxiety far enough to be able to handle approach anxiety. I'd have to work my way up from old ladies all the way to good looking girls. Somehow I have to get one of these girls to sleep with me, eventually. Very likely this takes me a few thousand times at least. Step by step figuring out what to say and do. It will require massive amounts of failure. ...fantasizing too much about what is going to happen. I canno…
/r/seduction09/07/17 10:53 AM
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Online dating is useless. For every girl there are at least a 100 desperate guys trying to get her attention. Just make a fake profile and pretend to be a girl. Then you see how hopeless it really is. And all this attention makes 'em feel like amazingly populair princesses. They won't care about little plebs like us. They want and think they desevere to date a movie star or a prince or something. I still believe that it is possible with massive muscle and a six pack. It is why I am going to the …
/r/seduction09/07/17 10:32 AM
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Yes, I am ranting. Sorry. I am getting conflicting information from everything I read everywhere. One side is like: Get a passion, hobbies, social circle and god only knows what else to be this fully realized man with some amazing life. The other side is like: Go gym, approach girls, get laid. Both sides seem to be able to get girls. Both sides seem to get laid. I want to get laid. As soon as possible. The lift weight, approach and get sex method seems to be the most pro-active, quickest, and le…
/r/seduction08/07/17 05:13 PM
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I'm not meeting women "just to socialize" that's dishonest. I feel the same.
/r/seduction08/07/17 06:49 AM
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Great. And whats the solution?
/r/seduction08/07/17 06:47 AM
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After I go to the gym I still have a whole day of about 10 hours left. What do I do with the rest of time? Sit on a chair and wait till next day?
/r/seduction08/07/17 06:46 AM
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Sounds like a facebook quote. When I get laid I will love myself for it. It would be a great accomplishment.
/r/seduction08/07/17 06:43 AM
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Precisely!
/r/seduction08/07/17 06:41 AM
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With location I mean: bar, park, street. What the easiest way to start when scared? All appear to be very scary. I dont see myself walk upto a girl in either these locations. How to make it easier. Im told small steps....what the smallest step possible?
/r/seduction08/07/17 06:38 AM
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I hate that idea as well. It would mean I have to become a slave to the corporate system. But the corporate system aint getting me laid. They just put me to work doing something I hate. Draining all my energy and willpower in the process. Then taxes and whatnot steal away all the little money made. I think it's a scam to put man like us into slavery. There must be a solution. It must be possible to break this stuff down in its base components. Even the universe itself can be broken down into bas…
/r/seduction08/07/17 06:36 AM
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Amsterdam, The Netherlands
/r/seduction08/07/17 06:02 AM
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Precisely. I have seen guys who are jobless, homeless, addicted to drugs, smell like piss and beer, not showering, not having any decent clothes, stealing, lying, etc. getting girls I can only dream about. Im sure being some "fully actualized super godly awesome cool uber super man" is not a requirement. What are the minimum sytem requirements to get laid?
/r/seduction08/07/17 06:00 AM
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I know about CBT. Too expensive. Would take years to pay for it.
/r/seduction08/07/17 05:46 AM
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the fact is you are in your thirties and have missed all the milestones and growth of an average man of your age. I know. How is some weird sex therapist going to help with that. You just need to recognize your lack 9f experience and take positive steps toward fixing them I quit smoking, going to the gym and on a diet. Exposing myself to different envoirements as exposure. Went to a meetup from meetup.com. I am taking steps. How's some super expensive therapists going to help? I'm poor as fuck. …
/r/seduction08/07/17 05:45 AM
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I know. But its all that I know. And when I go outside I am like: What now? What do non-loner people do? Activities! But thats not specific enough. What activities should i do? Where to find those? How to sign up? How to figure all this out and not be an moron.
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:59 PM
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I have spend years of my life inside doing Internet, Youtube, binge watching tv-series, reading random wikipedia pages. Trying to avoid going outside and making the day go by as fast as possible. Because everytime I go outside there are girls and I get to see what I do not have and feel like I cannot have. Now when I try very hard to go outside I have no idea what to do. What other people do. Or what I should do. And everything scares the shit out of me. Making me want to run inside again and wa…
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:55 PM
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Not really. And not familiar with those. I just got a good idea for a game. And it involves a economy involving supply/demand/locations
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:22 PM
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Have you considered getting involved in activities? If you were to start meeting women, do you have a lifestyle that women would find appealing? What do they find appealing? Im already sporting. Most guys are not. Isn't that appealing? What activities should I do? If you found a girlfriend and she started cheating on you and treating you like shit, would you dump her or beg her to stay due to not wanting to be alone again? I dump her. I learned the hard way to not attach myself to a single perso…
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:19 PM
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Ha. Linux (or any unix for that matter) is my system. Python is my favorite language. Currently Im making the back-end for an economic simulation game.
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:04 PM
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What are your hobbies/interests? Running, working out, salsa dancing, brunch? I don't really have hobbies. I don't really know what a hobby is. How to define it. Or how to find one. I have many things i find interesting. But I like to be alone and solitary.
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:00 PM
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I'm a programmer and system administrator. Self employed, working from home.
/r/seduction07/07/17 05:50 PM
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Therapy. Tried that. Twice. Lost lots of money. How does one find a good therapist besides trying them out and going into massive debt?
/r/seduction07/07/17 05:45 PM
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Thanks for your answer. I appreciate it. I know that Im fucked up in the head. Which begs a question: by choice, or did you somehow felt forced into this situation? I grew up in institutions (behind a fence). Once 18 they told me to go work. That's it. Integrating into the world is hard. I feel like an alien coming from Pluto. Emotional intelligence, aka being able to read people's emotions and efficiently reacting to them, is PARAMOUNT. This will be one of your best tools, and this has a lot to…
/r/seduction07/07/17 05:39 PM
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I'm already on a diet, already lifting weights, already doing cardio. Having that under control now. It's easy. Within few months I will look much better. Talking to people is difficult. They are aliens to me. I don't know what to say to anyone for that matter. Talking to men or woman, old or young is almost equally difficult for me. The question about what to say and what to do is equally difficult. I just don't know how to start this all off.
/r/seduction07/07/17 04:27 PM
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Thanks for advice. I already tried therapy. Twice. It ended up in disaster. Lost a lot of money as well. I grew up in institutions. Got whole teams of therapists to fuck up my brain. I Failed at integrating into this world. Most of those so called therapists are idiots with a degree. Cognitive Behavior Therapy helps against anxiety. I'm trying to apply it on myself as much as I can. Finding a good therapist costs way too much money. And thats just finding one. Not even talking about the therapy …
/r/seduction07/07/17 04:25 PM
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I figured that out as well. Only the "just talk to girls/people/men/old ladies" part is where my mind goes blank. I can't even decide on the location. They seem to be all equally scary. And that's before I can figure out the words to speak.
/r/seduction07/07/17 04:21 PM
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