aboldficus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	Failing forwards		aboldficus	/r/seduction	19/10/19 04:45 PM

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1	First date ever at 28 and got rejected next day You having 400 more girls on your IG and getting compliments is feeding your ego. It might help your game and communication but there's more to dating than those two things. You don't build confidence through social media it's superficial. Confidence comes from competence not likes and attention.	/r/seduction	14/07/20 10:43 PM
1	First date ever at 28 and got rejected next day I’m confused, are you trying to date or gain followers to stroke your ego?	/r/seduction	14/07/20 07:42 PM
2	First date ever at 28 and got rejected next day Rejection is key to success. Love yourself and never feel the need to lie about anything no matter how shameful it might be. If you’re not honest with someone else, you’re not honest with yourself. AUTHENTICITY IS KEY. If people don’t like it, they can fuck off. Don’t get hung up on this loss too long. You tried something new and pushed yourself. Pat on the back bro, onto the next. Get comfortable with rejection, it makes the wins that much better. Tip: don’t follow people on social media until …	/r/seduction	14/07/20 11:16 AM
2	I will go out today and approach at least one woman today, for the first time. Just putting this here to make myself accountable and therefore motivated. Will report back later today. Rejection is an illusion. Society has convinced people that rejection is worse than death. It's really not. You actually feel good after you've failed. No matter how hard you practice and study methods you'll still fail. But the point is to take failure as an opportunity to improve. Learn from what didn't work and try something new. Women will think of many different reasons why you're asking for directions but none of those reasons are conclusive to your goal. You have to step out of your comfo…	/r/seduction	30/10/19 09:57 PM
1	I will go out today and approach at least one woman today, for the first time. Just putting this here to make myself accountable and therefore motivated. Will report back later today. What are you worried about? Rejection?	/r/seduction	30/10/19 08:11 PM
1	Failing forwards We have had basic conversations like, “how was your weekend, how are you, any plans,” etc.. In all honesty, if a girl gives me non verbal cues (consistently) and signals me that she’s interested like smiling while holding eye contact, yes I will ask for her number or to grab a drink.	/r/seduction	19/10/19 06:29 PM
2	Why girls act close and distant suddenly? What was the reason you broke up? You said what happened but not the reason behind the spontaneity. Have you legit said to her face, “hey I want to know everything you’re thinking about us. What could I improve on, (give her some things she should work on too). “ Try not to paint it like she’s the rotten apple though. Both of you have things to work on. A relationship is always 50/50. How long is this LTR?	/r/seduction	18/10/19 02:49 PM
2	Why girls act close and distant suddenly? Why did you break up 5 months ago and why did you get back with her?	/r/seduction	18/10/19 02:32 PM
1	Im a retard Every experience is a lesson. Shitting on yourself for making a mistake doesn’t help. Pick yourself up. You have to fuck up to be great, we’ve all been there. Learn from what didn’t work vs what did, go with that. Don’t look back. Onto the next.	/r/seduction	16/10/19 02:11 AM
1	Girl Advise NEEDED - WHY she is stalking at me if she is not interested? Wait whose the stalker, someone who just stares at you or someone who you had a face to face conversation with and whose name you don’t even know?	/r/seduction	15/10/19 04:01 AM
2	Dating advice for begginers(men only) This dude comments on other posts in seduction claiming to be a professional mentor/coach for slaying. Lies.	/r/seduction	14/10/19 02:55 PM
2	Girl filmed me dancing in the bar and then just walked away wtf People do silly shit at bars, let it go.	/r/seduction	14/10/19 03:09 AM
1	Fwb No matter what your game is now, practice will only make it better. Go for it. Even if you nut quickly, just fuck and don’t overthink it.	/r/seduction	14/10/19 02:56 AM
1	Challenge accepted Word, thanks for the good advice.	/r/seduction	13/10/19 05:32 PM
1	Challenge accepted No I’m a patient and I have a different therapist.	/r/seduction	13/10/19 02:54 PM
1	Text Game Transcrip and Breakdown Nobody needs to do your homework but you. You got this.	/r/seduction	13/10/19 05:23 AM
3	How do you not focus on one girl? Stop thinking “what if” You’re creating more anxiety by coming up with hypotheticals of uncommon outcomes.	/r/seduction	13/10/19 12:13 AM
1	Girl acts interested and wants to go out but then disappears completely or flakes day of plans What’s the point in friendzoning her if you’re never gonna speak to her again?	/r/seduction	13/10/19 12:06 AM
1	Girl acts interested and wants to go out but then disappears completely or flakes day of plans It has potential to make her want you more or never talk to you again. But let’s be honest only pussies don’t take risks.	/r/seduction	13/10/19 12:03 AM
1	Girl acts interested and wants to go out but then disappears completely or flakes day of plans Nah you have to turn the tables and flake on her.	/r/seduction	13/10/19 12:02 AM
1	I want her, she’s taken, we flirt, she’s into me. Tips? She’s a mirage in the distance. The best tease would be to ignore her and move on.	/r/seduction	12/10/19 03:39 AM
1	I want her, she’s taken, we flirt, she’s into me. Tips? Nah she sounds like a tease. She wants to have her cake (boyfriend) and eat it too (flirt with other dudes).	/r/seduction	12/10/19 03:02 AM
2	I want her, she’s taken, we flirt, she’s into me. Tips? Flirt with other women too. Don’t put all your sperm in one basket.	/r/seduction	12/10/19 01:54 AM
1	Girl refused to kiss me, now...? She could be a Virgin. No joke, I went on 4 dates with a girl who wouldn’t let me kiss her. Even though on text she hinted that I should be bold and make a move on her...I leaned in to kiss her when we were talking on a bench by the river one night and she leaned away. Then at the end of our date she had the audacity to ask me for a fucking kiss. Fuck. outta. here.	/r/seduction	12/10/19 12:58 AM
2	Have you got absolutely no chance if she uses words like "bro" or "dude"? You should go after her bro. I’ve yet to meet a woman who would get that close and not have some interest in me. Drunk texts translate to: I wish you were here drunk with me so we could laugh and fuck. Lol most of this is speculation but you should make a move.	/r/seduction	11/10/19 02:06 PM
2	So very frustrated Yeah don’t try picking up women at a funeral. 100% dead zone.	/r/seduction	11/10/19 03:54 AM
3	I want to love and feel loved Only after you love yo self can you expect to love anybody else.	/r/seduction	11/10/19 03:50 AM
1	Have you got absolutely no chance if she uses words like "bro" or "dude"? Idk how does she engage with you? Is it friendly or a little more? Usually you can tell based off of social cues and body language if she is interested.	/r/seduction	11/10/19 03:49 AM
1	Have you got absolutely no chance if she uses words like "bro" or "dude"? Can you reiterate a sentence or how she used it?	/r/seduction	11/10/19 02:42 AM
-3	I just matched with this smokeshow on FB dating(which is shaping up to be good mine so far) I know I should game her like any other girl. Just curious how some of y'all would approach this. Like to give myself a bit of an edge with departing too much from who I am. And you wonder why you’re single lol.	/r/seduction	11/10/19 02:13 AM
2	[Male 26] I have never had a sexual relationship (virgin). I do not smoke, drink, eat out, or attend places with loud music. Where can I meet women? So you’re confirming that you’re like most people who aren’t satisfied with their current job? What sorts of things are you interested in besides selling items on Amazon? Do you have dreams or higher aspirations towards doing something different? Do you want to go to school and get a degree? (School is not for everyone, I just don’t have enough info on your current life).	/r/seduction	10/10/19 03:46 PM
1	Potential girl has much hotter ex boyfriend - should I bother? Why are you comparing yourself to her ex?	/r/seduction	10/10/19 02:27 PM
1	girls tell me I'm nice and awkward If those two traits are naturally who you are, don’t try to change them for validation from girls. Always accept and appreciate yourself for your quirks and flaws.	/r/seduction	10/10/19 02:22 PM
1	[Male 26] I have never had a sexual relationship (virgin). I do not smoke, drink, eat out, or attend places with loud music. Where can I meet women? What do you mean by a romantic view of careers? Are you satisfied with selling things on Amazon for the rest of your life?	/r/seduction	10/10/19 02:12 PM
6	[Male 26] I have never had a sexual relationship (virgin). I do not smoke, drink, eat out, or attend places with loud music. Where can I meet women? A career is different from a job. A career is something you love doing daily. A job is what you do to make ends meet. Is this a job or a career for you?	/r/seduction	10/10/19 02:00 PM
1	[Male 26] I have never had a sexual relationship (virgin). I do not smoke, drink, eat out, or attend places with loud music. Where can I meet women? What is your career?	/r/seduction	10/10/19 01:48 PM
1	Have you got absolutely no chance if she uses words like "bro" or "dude"? Bro is the biggest turn off and makes me feel like a pornstar who bangs his “sister” Dude is a different story. Depending on the context it could be naturally sexy or it could also signify being friend-zoned. “Damn dude you have a huge dick.” Or “Hey dude, how was your weekend hiking Mount Arab?” How often does she use bro/dude with you?	/r/seduction	10/10/19 01:29 PM
2	What are your go-to compliments? You seem like the kind of girl who has two boyfriends. proceeds to introduce himself	/r/seduction	10/10/19 01:15 PM
4	A girl fell in love with me but has a boyfriend what do i do? Fuck it, yolo. If you want someone go after them. Just tread lightly and be cautious that if she acts like this with her current boyfriend she might do it to you at some point with another guy.	/r/seduction	10/10/19 12:19 PM
3	How do I get close to this girl without coming off as a creep. Email her and ask if she wants to pair up with you for this project. If she says no, move on. Don’t take this dude as your mentor.	/r/seduction	10/10/19 12:14 PM
2	i always find it difficult to approach girls when they’re in a crowd or with their friends... any tips that can make me be able to make an approach ? You just have to do it again and again and again. It’s a trial and error process. Sometimes you’ll get rejected and sometimes you won’t. But you can’t let fear stop you. Step out of your comfort zone and always be yourself. Here’s an example of a situation: Sarah is sitting with Tiffany, Greta, Gina, Holly and Lexi in the cafeteria. You think Sarah is pretty. You get your lunch and walk towards their lunch table. Even if you’re shaking in your boots because you’re shy and or nervous, you still a…	/r/seduction	10/10/19 11:31 AM