So very frustrated

supahotfiiire · 2019-10-10T20:39:37+00:00

Real life is a numbers game for sure and the more you practice, the more your close ratio improves.

Why? Because the more you face certain repeated answers, you will naturally develop a system over time. A system that only you are genetically engineered to be able to deliver time and time again with your own unique flair.

At first you might:

Get rejected by all 15 of those 15
Get rejected by 14/15
Learn to handle rude girls behaviors
Learn where NOT to approach
Learn where there's an abundance of them, where theres the least etc

You gotta put yourself through trial and error. You can't be afraid of error or else you'll never taste success.

justahappyidiot · 2019-10-10T20:42:44+00:00

Your success rate is going to depend on how good your game* is, how much you're reading women before you approach (did she make eye contact and smile vs. just going up totally cold) and to some extent how attractive you are. The last one is debatable, but a 10 in the looks department will, on average, have a higher success rate than a 6.

In this instance "game" includes everything like your confidence, body language, eye contact, posture as well as what most people would think of as "game".

There's plenty of resources out there. If you're willing to invest the time and effort, you can make a ton of progress in 6 months.

Don't just focus on the stuff I listed above. Also work on yourself as a person. Everyone has insecurities and bullshit beliefs that get in the way of you being the best version of yourself. Personally, I think 12 Rules for Life is a great book when it comes to this.

Other books I have found hugely helpful: Models How to be a 3% Man How to win friends and influence people Open her

Todd V's stuff on YouTube is awesome.

Also, invest time into learning to become good in bed. Not only will it make you more confident (when you can look her in the eyes and know you'll totally rock her world) but obviously women will be more likely to stick around.

KindnessWins · 2019-10-11T05:15:05+00:00

"Really cool weather we're having. By the way I like your shoes."

Lean in.. "alpha female?" Her: hm? "Are you an alpha female?" Her: I don't know what that is.. Mention a number of Barnum statements https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=PnvJH5T8DdQ

Followed by "you're drawn to direct straightforward confident guys who tell you how they feel and know what they want."

Wait for her to talk.

Give her your phone and say
"type in your number."

End with hug and kiss on cheek.

yrogerg123 · 2019-10-10T21:53:04+00:00

Lol cold approach noobie thinks the worst is "uh no thanks" 😂😂😂

Title	So very frustrated
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Date	October 10, 2019 7:31 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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