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I believe this is how a baby could get cerebral palsy
/r/PussyPassDenied14/09/17 10:13 PM
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This really hit home with me. I used to always be that guy who wouldn't say no to anything, I was a doormat and was taken advantage of on many occasions. This is the difference between a "nice" guy and a good guy.
/r/seduction23/11/13 07:16 PM
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i've had some bad experiences. i just don't like dominant women. Can't really argue with myself.
/r/seduction11/04/13 03:00 AM
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I agree. Dominant and aggressive girls turn me off. It's a personal goal of mine to be more outgoing, assertive, and dominant, so if this girl did this to me, I'd be a little insulted.
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:39 PM
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Someone needs a quintervention
/r/seduction14/03/13 02:49 AM
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Your elbro
/r/seduction13/02/13 03:33 PM
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The best thing about Sherlock is his ability to cold read. Unfortunately, he's so good at it, it comes off as offensive.
/r/seduction02/02/13 01:55 AM
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I've only read Models by Mark Manson and I won't read anything else.
/r/seduction22/01/13 05:21 AM
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The guy did not once use "you're" correctly, it drove me nuts!!!
/r/seduction15/01/13 05:23 AM
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Wrong cylon for sure.
/r/seduction08/01/13 03:10 AM
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i think dads don't really teach you about seduction, but rather you learn how to flirt and treat women by observing his relationship with your mom. This is one of the reasons i have failed so bad with women because my parents got divorced when i was 14 and didn't spend much time with him. I'm sure this is the case for a lot of people here.
/r/seduction04/01/13 04:15 AM
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i believe in you imMatt19! just wear protection, get some good foreplay in, and just get it in there!
/r/seduction03/01/13 03:19 AM
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don't forget that the opposite is true and you might not get hard the first time. Your body can betray you. I didn't have any oral beforehand and wasn't naked in front of someone before. So when i turned off the lights, got under the covers, and had the girl ride me, it got me really hard. I think at first it has a lot to do with how you masturbate, because that is what your dick is used to. ninja edit: i lasted a good while, but i didn't want to go on forever. Finishing is what makes you not a …
/r/seduction03/01/13 03:10 AM
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it didn't happen at midnight, but a few hours afterwards, me and my buddy took three chicks back to his friend's house and we put on some dance music and i danced and made out with one of the chicks. My friend was so jealous. but that night i learned 2 guys-3 girls is a bad idea because one of them will get annoyed and make the whole group leave, which is what happened. Also we were all pretty drunk.
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:25 AM
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Have you been in speech therapy? My great grandpa was renown speech therapist and focused a lot on stuttering. He helped my stutter when I was 4. Check out the work by Charles Van Riper.
/r/seduction01/01/13 06:27 PM
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First step is to stop using the word "friendzone". It's a dirty word. Confident guys don't get into these things because they make their intentions apparent. You should ask yourself of every friendship you have with a girl, "is she as equal as a friend as my guy friends?" If not, cut off contact, you shouldn't be friends with someone you're pining over.
/r/seduction30/12/12 06:57 PM
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Lying about rape would be perjury in a courtroom right? And a rape kit can prove it, correct?
/r/MensRights30/12/12 04:50 PM
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Ann Arbor is better!! But GR is cool too. At least it's not flint.
/r/seduction30/12/12 05:08 AM
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I actually got a number from a Facebook message from a new acquaintance. I also like to post weird stuff I find on the Internet on their walls, depending on their sense of humor. But 90% it doesn't work and the girls you add on Facebook will just forget about you or delete you eventually.
/r/seduction30/12/12 05:04 AM
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I live next to an arcade bar that I go to from time to time. It has a good amount of ladies and a lot of them play the arcades too. I think playing two player games can be a lot of fun and a good way to get close. Board and card games are good fun as well.
/r/seduction28/12/12 06:23 AM
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Ugh. Gross. Not sure if trolling or a seriously naive nice guy. Edit: all those things would make a girl "uncomfertable" sic.
/r/seduction28/12/12 06:12 AM
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I've felt the same way most of my life. Did you grow up religious? I did and that "save yourself for marriage" spiel really affected my views towards sex. I was afraid to hear a girl's "number" and I was afraid of getting having too many sex partners. You just got to stop slut shaming girls and yourself. Sex is fun, don't put it on a pedestal.
/r/seduction24/12/12 05:03 PM
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Hey girl, wanna party in my fallout shelter?
/r/seduction20/12/12 08:58 PM
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honestly, this is my favorite seddit. I actually feel like i'm learning something, instead of wasting time looking at cat pictures. I've suffered from extreme anxiety and depression since i was 14 (i'm 24 now). I was hopped up on anti-depressants during my pubescent years, causing me to lack any sort of sex drive or motivation to meet girls. I couldn't approach anyone, speak my opinion, and i let people walk all over me. Now, i'm doing much better. I have so much more confidence and actually put…
/r/seduction18/12/12 04:33 AM
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Hit the nail on the head there. Puas treat women more like equals than most men IMO. Every one else on reddit is just a slimy virginal neckbeard who calls themselves "nice guys".
/r/seduction17/12/12 05:31 PM
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Unless she's not an adult. And you shouldn't be here.
/r/seduction14/12/12 05:43 PM
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90+?!? You, sir, have slain many women with your meat sword.
/r/seduction14/12/12 04:32 AM
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Women aren't attracted to guys that make comment threads longer than they need to be.
/r/seduction14/12/12 04:20 AM
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Start making friends in the same situation as you. This is my problem too, as I graduated college and work long hours on weekends. I don't go to clubs or bars very often, but I love going to parties. I am much more comfortable there and it's much more likely that the girls I'm interested in have some mutual friends.
/r/seduction10/12/12 03:47 AM
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Can I please join the x-men?
/r/seduction09/12/12 05:04 AM
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Relevant http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3FgMLROTqJ0
/r/seduction04/12/12 06:17 AM
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Wow that's great! I should make that my TL;DR. It makes a lot of sense about how being a nice guy is like wearing a mask. Honestly, the last girl I dated told me I was too nice of a guy for her, but she was just didn't see me as the good guy that I am. I think it's hard for girls to tell the diff between a good guy and a nice guy.
/r/seduction04/12/12 05:03 AM
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Unfortunately for me, I have to change myself to get anywhere in life. I cannot read facial expressions, maintain good eye contact, emphasize, read emotions, or maintain good posture without a lot of help and research. I think a lot of Guys on here are like me in that seduction, social skills, and intimacy don't come naturally. I wouldn't be able to do what I've done without logically thinking through every step. I don't really see it as changing myself, I see it as presenting myself differently…
/r/seduction04/12/12 04:38 AM
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Thanks for all the help and upvotes. I wasn't expecting this to get so popular, so I guess I'll add some additional info. My entire adolescent and adult life has been rife with severe depression, anxiety, and lack of friendship. My parents divorced when I was 13-14, leading me into a deep depression when I needed to socialize, have fun, and talk to girls. I have been on anti-depressants and anti-anxiety meds on and off for over 10 years. It greatly affected my sex drive and only slightly helped …
/r/seduction04/12/12 04:24 AM
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Ok I'll allow it just this once!
/r/seduction04/12/12 04:01 AM
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Eh, I think you would have to find a woman who actually likes being dominant and in control. I've fallen for alpha females because they made all the moves. Turned out badly, they wanted to be more submissive and less in control.
/r/seduction04/12/12 03:37 AM
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Cary grant was gay but I see your point. Bogarts the man!
/r/seduction04/12/12 03:29 AM
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I'll be first to admit I've learned 150% more from this reddit than anything my dad has taught me. My parents divorced when I was 14, a good time to learn about seduction and relationships lost forever. Can't really talk to my dad the same way.
/r/seduction04/12/12 01:58 AM
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Yes! This always reminds me of coming of age tv shows like freaks and geeks, where the typical nerdy kid complains about not getting any girls because he just fawns over them the whole time.
/r/seduction04/12/12 01:56 AM
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I do consider myself a decent person, I can be incredibly selfless at times and genuinely caring. The problem is using this selflessness for attracting women and building relationships. My niceness was taken advantage of on numerous occasions and has made me rethink my approach. I am a good decent guy and I know I'll make a good husband and father one day, but to play up the husband/caregiver persona doesn't work well when attracting ladies because they aren't looking for that yet.
/r/seduction04/12/12 01:53 AM
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Greek alphabet: alpha, beta
/r/seduction03/12/12 05:20 PM
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for a second, i thought you meant Taco from the League. I need to get out more.
/r/seduction29/11/12 04:20 AM
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I took her zombie hunting (a haunted house type deal where you shoot zombies with paintball guns).
/r/seduction24/11/12 06:02 AM
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Thanks, I'm on alien blue 90% of the time so I don't see it.
/r/seduction24/11/12 05:20 AM
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I'm the same as you except two years older. I'm been dating a girl for a month now and it is the best relationship I've ever been in, despite being only number 4. And here's why: I exude confidence even when I don't feel it. I don't let my insecurities and fear paralyze me. I act like myself every time I'm with her, I don't let her see me as anything else. We laugh alot and just stay in the moment. If you can keep a smile on a woman's face every time you see her, you're doing great! I understand…
/r/seduction24/11/12 05:18 AM
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Can someone explain all of the acronyms and initialisms used on this subreddit? I'm having a hard time
/r/seduction24/11/12 05:03 AM
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Stop waiting for the perfect broment, find a broment and make that shit perfectbro!
/r/seduction06/11/12 03:26 PM
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Thanks! I don't think the opinion was Sandra's though, it was a guest on her podcast. I believe the episode was called "dating...and chivalry?" Edit: that was a great article! Now I'm thinking of a million ways to initiate a kiss! Got anymore?
/r/seduction30/10/12 05:30 AM
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I'm new here, can you explain what kino is?
/r/seduction29/10/12 05:25 PM
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Thanks, I am definitely not a pick up artist, I'm dating someone right now in the very beginning stages. I'm just trying to get more physical now for our third date. I seriously hate how "rape" is thrown around nowadays, if you read my other post i did you can see why.
/r/seduction29/10/12 05:22 PM
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Thanks! There's something I learned in therapy called the unhealthy relationship triangle, I think. It basically argues that in unhealthy relationships two people take on three separate roles: the rescuer, the victim, and the persecutor. Throughout the relationship, the roles will change, but will eventually settle in one position. I was indeed a rescuer at first but I also victimized myself. Near the end, we both became persecutors (I know from this post I seem to be there right now). I'm outsi…
/r/MensRights29/10/12 06:46 AM
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I'm still a little unsure I chose the right sub reddit. But yeah, it was a bad situation for sure. I went through different phases of wanting to be with her and not. It was confusing because every time I wanted to go out and date people, she would argue me out of it, saying I'm not ready for a relationship. She would say things like if you want to date me you need to work on your insecurities and become more self confident. She gave me the impression that after she got a car and back on her feet…
/r/MensRights26/10/12 06:55 PM
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Interesting. I've only really encountered non medicated bipolar people before, two I have just suspected to have it. My dad was diagnosed years ago, never took any medicine and denied the diagnosis. He seems better now. What is your experience with bipolar disorder?
/r/MensRights26/10/12 03:49 PM
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After. She distorted everything in our past time together to make her seem like the ultimate victim. Most of our time together was me driving her to school or somewhere. It was grueling and I hated it, but she convinced me that she'd be homeless without my help.
/r/MensRights26/10/12 03:32 PM
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This is true. I take responsibility as well. Though I see my self as a very logical person, being in love was really new to me. I let it control me and was used for it. I'm in therapy now and it's really helped me understand unhealthy relationships. I really wasn't that interested in sleeping with her, except for maybe one time when I was feeling particularly unloved.
/r/MensRights26/10/12 03:28 PM
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No she was diagnosed and very proud to say how she is dealing with her illness without medicine. I have no respect for bipolar individuals who do not take their medicine. I have a bipolar father, had a bipolar roommate, and a bipolar ex from this story. I probably didn't emphasize it that much, but her bipolar disorder would manifest itself in almost every situation. I would be driving her around and some little thing I'd do (like changing lanes too fast) would send her over the edge. The worst …
/r/MensRights26/10/12 03:20 PM
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I think being bipolar, a woman, and a feminist go together nicely. I have another friend who dated one as well.
/r/MensRights26/10/12 03:13 PM
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Thanks, I'm dating other people now and I'm doing my best to get over it. It bothers me though that some of my friends want us to be friends again, but don't know that that will never happen.
/r/MensRights26/10/12 03:11 PM
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I guess I didn't emphasize the feminist aspect that much, but it was an integral part of it. The number one reason she wouldn't consider being with me was be because she thought all my "helpfulness" was some sort of misogynistic oppression. She felt she couldn't be with someone when she couldn't give back.
/r/MensRights26/10/12 03:06 PM
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I honestly think feminism is not even needed anymore. We live in a pretty equal society (the western world that is). Boys grow up with working moms, aunts, grandparents even. Their sisters go to school with them, are expected to go to college and get a high paying job too. Girls aren't expected to find a husband in college, like in the 50s. Girls don't have to learn how to cook, change diapers, or raise children (do we even have home ec anymore?). In my opinion, women are equal and have every ri…
/r/MensRights26/10/12 05:40 AM
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