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women? we were talking about cars bro...vet your cars
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 09:04 PM
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Well, the toyota is a car with a good up bringing. And with a solid maintanace of some values, it runs smoothly a life time
/r/TheRedPill24/08/21 07:11 PM
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Trying to hide it lmao...play it like your are super relaxed about the whole sleeping around stuff and ask a few questions, they proudly tell you more than you want to know on date 2. Add like 50%-70% because they play it down. Voila vetting done
/r/TheRedPill24/08/21 07:09 PM
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This post is not for fat guys who are getting laid by women they're attracted to. Tell me how that is done and Im getting fat
/r/TheRedPill24/08/21 07:02 PM
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they still went into the gym and when they felt like it switched it up. he doesnt mean "by feel" in the sense of, "im not in the mood the lift heavy today". Also notive how every bodybuilder has their owb specific training program and favorite excercises. its fun and games when you do the "best" lift for the muscular group but when you dont feel it, do something else. I do superlight T-Bar rows with extremly good form and gained more than with all the bs advice before....so once again feelz > ev…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/21 05:33 PM
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the dude is full of shit. "common tips"...just lift, go to the limit and next workout lift more. jesus...
/r/TheRedPill15/04/21 05:27 PM
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16kg biceps and talks about programs lmao. I do fuck around with minimal effort at home and my average training fuck around weight for biceps is more than 16kg. Poeple just learn the theory and be creative with your training and nutrition. The most important thing is that you do it as long as you can e.g. forever.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/21 05:23 PM
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update: it was a well performed act and she is a major hoe. taking anti depressants now to get over hard nexting her. lessons learned. FUCK
/r/askTRP05/03/21 03:33 PM
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what bullshit is this? thats basic shit like let her qualify to you. also you shouldve soft nexted after second excuse.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/21 01:04 PM
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thats the big one lmao
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:04 PM
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Indeed very good story. I liked the consoltation part too. The chick Im seeing now, I know exactly where it ends and I just see it as having a break from the hustle. As consoltation. We are fucked man, listen to The Unforgiven I, II and III. Its exactly how its described there-
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 03:06 PM
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bro thats just beautiful...it is indeed hell and TRP is the way to make you king....the king that grabs at what he can, blood everywhere. Tracks to listen to: Dead to me - Splendid Isolation Deaty by Stereo - Death Conspiracy Metallica - Unfogiven I, II, III All this is running on a loop these days and black metal of course. I met a girls I have the same feelings for as for my first love and of course she is the avergae tinder hoe. Very anal. Im careful tho and spin plates of course. Fuck... And…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 03:03 PM
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so what you are saying is you are a deeply closteted gay?
/r/askTRP10/11/20 11:14 PM
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well you agree and see it, so you are not...look more in depth, they are all the same, fuck em
/r/askTRP10/11/20 11:11 PM
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I just started to grasp the whole be the prize thing, its pure gold
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:42 PM
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fuck her, be the prize and be an asshole...ok well, depends on how you acted after the sound...but dont simp
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:39 PM
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Because in most cases she graves men's attention and approval more than you want it to be. My main plate I have borderline oneitis for is this way too, I had some interesting convos with her and its...man its just sad actually...the more I get to know people with their small minds shaped by all the superficial bullshit the more my DGAF attitude grows. It is a huge red flag, be careful!
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:08 PM
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haha you got a flair
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:04 PM
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understand that in the west we live in a matrix of moral decay...we are fucked...why would you want or expect anything from a world like this? fuck em, women, men, fuck em... accept that the world is fucked and you will gain DGAF towards everyone and understand that the very most women and men are indeed just dump NPCs shaped by school, the whole social bullshit, tv and soical media, fuck em...play the field and fuck em DEATH FOR LIFE! (listen to Death Conspiracy be Death by Stereo)
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:03 PM
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hawt edit: seriously tho the post kinda sounds like that lol
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:18 PM
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give an example please for acting like being the prize in yoga class...Im serious. No idea at all how I would got about that
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:06 PM
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if shes gonna cheat, she'll cheat
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:05 PM
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Ok seriously....dont overgame or word will get around about this too. Be easy to be with/relaxed...own the fact that you are new since youll probably make mistakes... Im at a new place of work, its full of women...like 80%. My game plan is the following...just be the normal, relaxed coworker but here and there be a just a little flirty, cocky, funny...its all you have to do at first. They perceive you as the average, fairly attractive joe and with the mentioned small moments you push the image a…
/r/askTRP23/10/20 06:47 PM
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Dont get hard in class. Proceed from there.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 06:35 PM
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“Isn’t that cute, you’re trying to impress your coworkers.” too much pitty bur nice pressure flip
/r/askTRP23/10/20 06:31 PM
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You just pull back? Really? I actually dont know what you do when you have broken frame...I usually just make a desperate post here and try again next date with lot of pep talk in front of the mirror.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 06:24 PM
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No, dont get used to it, learn it until it becomes second nature and you can play around with it. Also be realistic that some you chicks you can't pull/entertain...
/r/askTRP23/10/20 06:20 PM
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lmao I have a plan b...its not america tho...rather a land where people are not head fucked by consumerism. Imagine...
/r/askTRP23/10/20 06:01 PM
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yeah man, redpill is a ridicilously well made place man...just thought about that the other day...I cant wait to proceed further...
/r/askTRP23/10/20 02:05 PM
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yeah beacuse at the end of the day, this is the right advice...game chicks, stay fit, stay in frame, etc etc...and even then she still might cheat, because light switch effect and her crazy hamster in general edit: or of course, chad just made the right moves
/r/askTRP23/10/20 02:03 PM
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the red pill community that you disagree with - and why? well bro...a part of females nature is also to be submissive and shit test are actually an easy way towards sex and her just being a good girl...so what are crying about? learn to hold frame and pass shit tests and you'll be happy she has her "female nature". but I get your criyng. I only got the handle on things recently. keep pushing bro!!
/r/askTRP23/10/20 02:01 PM
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Nice bro lmao Im in west europe tho. Here we have thick arab/turkish chicks, but I dont really click with them
/r/askTRP22/10/20 06:56 PM
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On it...I decided to no risk it...no vetting, no nothing...nah man
/r/askTRP22/10/20 06:55 PM
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I was close to panic attacks again and shit...she tickles something in me my first LTR did too...I dont know if I should continue...but you're right, I would wonder and who knows, perhaps she is not hot hot naked (bc BBW) and this brings her back inot normal shperes for me. oh please lord
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:37 PM
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Bro...I just started Sex God Method, must read for sure
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:37 PM
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Just to add here, been a few days now. Since I only said I can't text -all the time-, she is attempting to text constantly. Putting her in her place constantly is really working wonders LMAO. She seems to love it. Important lesson for me here. She seems more eager and enthusiastic on days where I really just shoot her down. She sounds different then on voice messages. WTF is wrong with women? (Ok I get it, she likes it that I protect my boundaries, but still...) Also because its just an "I cant"…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:42 PM
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Just tell bim from the get go that you dont trust him and that you are going to secure everything in written form / contract form. Then do that and be extremely careful
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:06 PM
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Then what do people do who are not cool?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:08 PM
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I get what you are saying and appreciate the very valubale input. However...how do I learn about frame without thinking about my own behavior? Sure you can get it on a "deeper" level and just be that guy then, but Im afraid I have to go the route "fake it till you make it"
/r/askTRP17/10/20 03:00 PM
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I dont know if it can't or not, thats why Im asking. I mean...sure bro...but a good protion of TRP is understanding how a womens mind works and my question is just about that. What you all judge and interpret about is irrelevant actually.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 01:51 PM
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Im 50/50 if it was okay or not I actually just want to know if the female mind in general is even capable of changing the image of you towards the positive or if slip ups leave a permanent dent. And if it is capable, is it a constant function (one can work with) or does it happen more at random?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 12:38 PM
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Former glory was meant more in a general sense. I just want to know if the female mind in general is even capable of changing the image of you towards the positive or if slip ups leave a permanent dent. And if it is capable, is it a constant function (one can work with) or does it happen more at random? I agree that Im too invested. Thing is that Im still at the beginning and still engineer a lot. But it got much better. One day you won't see me making posts here after shacky dates anymore.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 10:36 AM
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Good point that you are never responsible for the image in anyones mind. And you shouldn't even care, Ill put that in the IDGAF corner. I actually just want to know if the female mind in general is even capable of changing the image of you towards the positive or if slip ups leave a permanent dent. And if it is capable, is it a constant function (one can work with) or does it happen more at random?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 10:34 AM
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Yeah the tasks bother me too. I think I can ramp it up here (and have to)...maybe it was still alright since it was the first time seeing her
/r/askTRP17/10/20 10:23 AM
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If the answer is "yes" Im starting to assemble an exit bag
/r/askTRP17/10/20 02:05 AM
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Well why not, then we get real life examples and insights
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:16 PM
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Is that necessary? Surely caused me a lot of frustration. On the other hand I think it isn't even possible to do a word-for-word guide. May state somewhere that it's about understanding the different mentalities (focus on mission, abundance, im the prize, etc) and figuring out a way for yourself to get to them and that one needs to understand the core concepts...and then go out and learn to use all of it to your advantage. Took me some time to figure that out.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:15 PM
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Yes they do... My mid-twenties, attractive sister told me flat out stories about how she adjust her behavior to get things - conscious manipulation. She knows exactly how to play. I was once again disgusted by women and cant even look at the women in family without disgust. But in case any newbie reads this...once you learn to see it, you can laugh about it and often times they have good intentions in mind (in general, may not apply to relationships). Youll see that they have no other means of g…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 01:42 PM
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My mid twenties sister told me flat out that she adjust her behavior to get things - conscious manipulation. She knows exactly how to play. (I had a written down a theory why they know what they are doing that the whole "steered by emotions/lizard brain" is not fully true, but then I remebered what my sister told me lol)
/r/askTRP15/10/20 01:27 PM
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underrated comment lmao
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:51 AM
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pre selection
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:49 AM
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They are natural masters at manipulation, you'll see. Once something gets "strange" and a little off, you'll know that her lizard brain has taken over. Hold frame, stay true to your mission and keep abundance mentality, don't take her seriously and laugh her bullshit off whenever you feel like (pass shit tests).
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:45 AM
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yeah but still...there should be the general vibe that one should "lurk more". It should be common sense actually. I see plenty newbs writting away. Im actually new myself but they are just brand new and spitt away like they know it all...wtf.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:39 AM
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Actually I get what you mean now. Ill let her down easy however or it comes across as autistic. Made some mistakes here in the past with sudden behavior changes
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:36 PM
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I already told her and so she is ok with me just giving her like two texts a day. She texts me everyday tho and already made certain comments regarding texting and frequency of future dates...she just wants to go the full nine yards. So my question is how do I get out of texting completely without being autistic. I dont want to "propose" not texting and discuss it and find a compromise and gay shit. I also dont want to just demand it at least not without a reason. I mean, what possible reason co…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 05:15 PM
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why is this downvoted? I helped the guy and what else is there to say when someone asks what the difference is...the time duh
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:37 AM
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first one ofc...jesus christ...date on friday at hers, I can almost guarantee to get my dick wet
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:36 AM
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we are at very beginning, just talked to her, twice on phone...I read here mixed messages...go full alpha like you proposed or build comfort first. furthermore I dont think its constant anoyance if I can sort this out. just dont know how...ignore the texts is not an option...I cant just switch behavior...
/r/askTRP12/10/20 10:51 PM
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I didnt...I said "I cant interrupt my work all the time". So she texts just a little bit, but thats already annyoing. So in general Im asking, how do I sell not texting at all?
/r/askTRP12/10/20 10:31 PM
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Come on dude I need a little help here and not give help...Anyway, roosh v wrote books on both, just skip through them, you get an idea. Somehwere in my history I also discussed with a dude. He used nightgame tactics in daygame and was wondering why it didnt work. But the books are enough. Just skip through.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 09:58 PM
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I do daygame, so comfort building is kind of a bigger thing than with nightgame
/r/askTRP12/10/20 07:45 PM
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you need staging....stage 1, just smile while walking past...stage 2 say hello walking by....stage 3 ask for the time, walk away....stage 4 ask the time, then something else, walk away, answer optional...keep climbing until you have your soft harem stage 0...ask the cashier one additinal question like "how long do you stay open?"
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:36 PM
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when you dont cosnider him a thread, fuck it and play it cool...but it sounds like you do. Core idea is that she needs to see that her actions have consequences, so I like one of the answers that implies that you could do it too or that the two of you are approaching towards an more open relationship
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:56 AM
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Raise your galsses for the soldier. Im mid 30 and still have no ground covered in like anything. Im working on it, especially the mission but Ive come a long way. Had to kick bad habits, addiction, get mental health in order, recover from bad up bringing. It takes time....but if I learned one thing, as a dude you can start over any time no problem. Sure you wont have endless queues of college girls lining up like you are in college abd oyu wont have the weightlessness that comes with youth but y…
/r/askTRP01/10/20 07:37 PM
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lol you knon what bro, still better than pseudo informed answers some idiots spread here with such confidence
/r/askTRP01/10/20 07:47 AM
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Thats a good example for strong frame and therefore a proper answer. And yes, Im judging...I do however care if Im an asshole to people and try not to. Im proud of it and communicate it accodingly. Also good frame.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 10:05 PM
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Or they are just fed up with questions with obvious answers. The three you listed are powerful core concepts of the redpill idea and are indeed the answers to a lot of problems. Spinning plates is not core red pill tho.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 10:01 PM
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Man Im still a newbie here but since some time, every asshole thinks he has to reply his bullshit. I remember a time when 8 out of 10 ansers were pure gold. Anyway, my guess would be that you over interpreted being "red". You still give some validation and do beta shit. Just to another extend. Somewhere is the 80/20 rule. Applies especially in most cases when you want to keep a plate for longer. Also there are comfort tests which you wont pass being Chad. I struggle with that too and for example…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 09:58 PM
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Im in monk mode since two month. Before that I started redpill for real and plated/gamed a little bit. I was fairly successful but it was also a mess and stressful for me. But I learned a lot. Especially about my self and my not so consistent mood and mental state. Its some work to manage that. Anyway what you proposed is the next thing Im gonna try. I can make conversation/comfort but the closing is weak and going from comfort to kino still appears retarted to me. But to just switch the energy.…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 09:45 PM
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no, thats a bad answer. the sidebar on the red pill sub has a good article about frame. frame is the way how persons interact and its a bit to it more than using "no"
/r/askTRP30/09/20 09:25 PM
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I choose this answer. I wanna try the smooth sexual thing next (after comfort is there). Shit that must be powerful. After being the laid back guy, having her feel some emotions through convo already and then hitting her with the pure desire you feel for her...sheeeet
/r/askTRP30/09/20 09:19 PM
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summarize what you've learned young one
/r/askTRP30/09/20 09:14 PM
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bro.....it could be literally any other reason...
/r/askTRP27/09/20 04:24 PM
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Is it the shallowness that they only see attractivness? You expect way too much bro. I mean you (men) too only lust after the hot ones. But I get it. Im still mad too essentially. Beginning of my 20s I was fairly fit and had an established social status, and it was almost too easy. I hate the fact what they do to you when you are not fit and are not socially established. When fit, the whole testing your frame shit is out of the window all of the sudden, its just tingles and jumping dick. Try to …
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:33 AM
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well...why not be straight with her and plain out tell her that you pay this and that for this and that fucking. I know thats beta but its the situation anyway just without having talked about it. I personally would feel better about it, then its more a hooker situation and less a situation where she is trying to exploit you.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:18 AM
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For me just one thing brings me somewhat to acceptance: They grew up never hearing no, never any self doubt. It was all you are the greatest, multiplied by 100 from orbiters. I know people how grew up like this and let me tell you, they suffer man. Its like being on the maine high all the time. Nothing can stastisfy you, always struggeling for more and shit. Basically its a mentall illness. Threat it as such. You wouldnt blame a mentially ill person for doing something stupid. However I myself h…
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:10 AM
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In general it does. However when you are totally cool with it and very confdent in the future you are building, it doesnt lower it too much. (On the other hand just imagine the energy you would radiate when finished, no comparsion!). The fact that you posted here and thus may have doubts is a sign that you have some doubts over it. Im in the same place at the moment. Id say dont expect too much and just look forward to the future.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:01 AM
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wow wild assumption...could be any other reason however
/r/askTRP27/09/20 08:53 AM
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now is eastern europe just better because they hide their behaviour and give you an illusion so to say or in what aspects is it better?
/r/askTRP25/09/20 10:58 AM
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god no
/r/askTRP23/09/20 01:04 PM
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people here saying yur problems remain....I dont think so. the corporate world is fucked, Im a changed being since I left this bs. Another way is however that you make that your mission and try to retire early. Then youd go to work and know for ehat you are doing it. I thought about it recently and I may should have done that.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:38 PM
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Sure man I see all that and its the reason that Im interested in asians. And Im almost willing to pull the trigger because of the pros. Then on the other hand, I see some black chicks with their unnaturally large asses....you know that size where its not even funny anymore.......
/r/askTRP19/09/20 09:18 PM
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bro I dont want to lower the value of the assholes you sucked, Im just saying. maybe in the walking streets you see more of what they consider attractive bc they put these chicks in fromt of the bars and tourist get together with these chicks more. could that be it? man oh man Id love a thick humble asian
/r/askTRP18/09/20 06:25 PM
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Hm I tend to disagree, I wstched a lor of youtube street walking videos and rarely saw any asses tbh
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:23 PM
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Thats kind of a broad but actually solid idea. You hear about the ripping off a lot. My only problem with asian woen is that you rarely find some nice ass that will also last. Look at mature latina/african women, these asses last for ages. Any tips where to find rather thick chicks in asia?
/r/askTRP16/09/20 10:41 AM
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and coming from such a family.......what about you son? :D
/r/askTRP16/09/20 09:31 AM
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I knew a few guys back in the highschool days and slightly after that and Im sure you all do too. They did sports, had their finances together, nice car, pursued some sort of career, were fairly popular. But most importantly their whole energy was just different. I know they still struggled at times but I guess they just maintained and let no hole swallow them/break them.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 09:30 AM
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same here bro. any concrete plans yet on how to vet a foreign girl? I mean they have different traits which can fuck oyu over some we in the west are perhaps not aware of. I watch a philipines expat Tim K and he is turning into the money mule for the family after marrying and impregnating one daughter. nothing wrong with that per se but the whole vibe let you really think that they like sat together one day and discussed who of the daughters has to marry a westerner to help the family...a bit st…
/r/askTRP16/09/20 09:10 AM
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its the popular because it tickels a core aspect of women nature the social acception. if you are not on instagram and have the nice profile then what might the people think? then you only the very positive sides of other women amplified by factor x. this can only lead to some crazy behavior. the women I like usually are a bit edgy and on the outskirts of society and even there its very present.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 09:07 AM
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do they exist tho? I fish in waters away from the mainstream ponds and and man let me you...on the edges of society you find a lot of real metal illness and/or drug abuse. and as it was stated here before...even the church girls whore around.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 09:02 AM
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watch south park season 15 episodes 7 and 8. because it sounds like growing up to me and this will give you some perspective
/r/askTRP14/09/20 07:23 PM
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those wholl make it will make it...youre right. theyll push hard enough
/r/askTRP28/08/20 05:51 PM
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honestly man, I used to come here from time to time a few years ago and I have the feeling that the advice got really shitty recently and everyone is saying the same and most obvious thing over and over. maybe TRP has tipped? you know to the point where its getting too mainstream since the dump masses ruin everything
/r/askTRP28/08/20 11:02 AM
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"/thread" jesus christ.....this guy needs to be comfortable in his own skin first before "getting creative"
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:02 PM
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I would, but for some reason password reset is only possible with the username which is 90s bullshit
/r/askTRP22/08/20 07:25 PM
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While everyone is screaming essentially be egoistic, you might consider giving something back. You could give money to organizations who support some sort of moral education so we can better the world piece by piece. Also read up on the effect global capitalism has on poorer countires, endless things to do there in term of making the world better. for example check https://slaveryfootprint.org/
/r/askTRP21/08/20 11:10 AM
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I mean that others develop and grow while you do not. So women meet many people, people meet each other in general and a common behavior establishes between them. You go out of isolation and you don't know what the common behavior is, because you weren't there....get it? :D Loss of general social skills in general...avoid this, keep some level of social things...maintain some level of everything thats important for your future bur as I said you can do it kind of chill and kind of go back and for…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 03:21 PM
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you know the things is we grew up a bit to pampered. So its nice in the comfort zone. struggle? why? I never had to. I never saw it either. Chances are that you too will start out a little too late and that you be like "mediocracy is fine" all the time. Its a dangerous game...and when you are honest, its a shitty way to live actually...also you never make the experiences others make, you never get the insight what actually is going on, when you dont keep at it you drift further and further from …
/r/askTRP20/08/20 12:05 PM
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well then add some career moves and some social things and you are good for now...and maintain everything on a certain level
/r/askTRP20/08/20 11:52 AM
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for example I learned a lot about nurtition (actual information, not the magazine bullshit and modern dite bs) then I was able to adjust exactly to my needs and carefully calibrate the struggle Im willing to take. Did the same with working out. Results are nothing special but its okay...Also try to find out what you want from life. It doesnt have to be career or something, can be something underlying. For me its the desire to be free, so I do business moves to achive that. But maybe you just hav…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 02:27 PM
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Do non zero days, essentially progress slowly and easy. You know, live a life between being at home gaming and doing things. I anjoy doing nothing too but at the same time, you have to realise that to some degree there has to be some work and some struggle and if you do it right, the struggle and work part can be pretty small
/r/askTRP19/08/20 02:18 PM
2

found it, sorry people https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZEm6MPyoGZY
/r/askTRP13/08/20 08:39 PM
1

its not about control...he doesnt meet girls, cause its disrespectful. so why should she?
/r/askTRP08/08/20 10:40 AM
1

just checked it, yes. the scene is at 6:07
/r/askTRP04/08/20 07:57 PM
5

I saw a documentary about this once and the police chief had an dessert eagle for a gun and pulled it on his students during training lmao
/r/askTRP03/08/20 08:07 PM
0

Why is that even upvoted? Oh no, they encourage woman to persue tech and science fields...ooooh noo what have they done to us men? Why god whyyyy???
/r/askTRP03/08/20 08:04 PM
1

Well, between us, lurking here is enough reading actually. You get the ideas this way too. And be open to some articles like on the rational male site. I was sceptic in the begining too but Rollo really has this shit figured out. I work in IT but web dev is completely what I leanred on my own. Few years back I started to get serious with it because I saw it as a way out. Depending on what you want to do in the frontend, I would not leran any high level frameworks. I use plain JS with some librar…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:36 PM
2

Thats excatly my problem too. Its not like my main goal in life is to have a family, its rather like I feel deeply that its the natural thing to do but I dont see it happen either. At least not in a fashion that would make all involved parties happy (meaning women, me, kids). It's their total lack of accountability and total lack of consideration for others that makes me nervous. Yeah man...its exactly that...I made the same observation...the lack of consideration. I call it lack of compassion. …
/r/askTRP02/08/20 02:06 PM
6

Italian women don't count. Ive been there with my parents from 12 to 14 and still have flashbacks sometimes over two women I saw there. Im 34 now. Just unbelievable...
/r/askTRP01/08/20 07:26 PM
1

to have a social structure that makes it more difficult for them to act on their feelings Exaclty man. At least have a social structure where she is inclined to think before she acts. The framework what we have created today is poison for them and for us men. The female brains running wild without boundaries is a nightmare. ​ and on and on etc etc, nonsense into oblivion.. Her hypergamy told her one thing in one situation, and something else in another.. that's it.. Our lives as Men were never s…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 07:21 PM
2

I doubt it too, their values were VERY strong in this time period lel
/r/askTRP01/08/20 07:07 PM
4

yeah the entaglement...its just nature...what can you do when you need healing...
/r/askTRP01/08/20 07:05 PM
1

did you fuck them and they didnt look for commitment? if you fuck them regulary and had the feeling they werent looking for commitment, maybe they werent. but underlying is always the idea of commtment for a woman...it hard to explain and you seem new. maybe read the sidebar and lurk a bit? youll get the grasp soon enough
/r/askTRP31/07/20 08:58 PM
1

Another option, you could have kissed her right on start of date 3. For future reference. I mean you got the signs. I have the same task ahead of me next week and I hate it...she is extremly passive and incredibly nervous in making "moves" (voice was shaking when she asked me the one and only question about myself lol). Anyway, she dropped a ton of IOIs and hints already, but I didnt do it because she flaked on my twice, so I did not give her too much on the second date. I still got the feeling …
/r/askTRP31/07/20 08:16 PM
0

You can. there is money, social status and looks. Stauts is always perceived ans thus can be faked (frame control, body language, voice, I dont know). You need to be better in status and looks then. But its also not a fixed rule. When you can get her to perceive you as higher status than she is and dont look much less attractive then her, you win. Dont worry. Well, worry about the question "how do I get people/girls to receive me as high status".
/r/askTRP31/07/20 08:10 PM
8

Because a womens goal is always commitment and she has the mentioned anti slut defense. they all do, slut or not...
/r/askTRP31/07/20 08:05 PM
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its giving them validation for nothing. you want them to qualify to you. Im sure tho that playing the lover boy can get you a few lays too. question is how much is she giving you then and can you keep them around for longer
/r/askTRP31/07/20 07:59 PM
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THAT was enough comfort? lol...I come from a place of very much comfort. nicknames, invensting with banter and teases and shit, thinking about her wellbeing, what she would like rhis or that or not...Im just realizing that I dont even know how to handle them any other way or lets say another way to bring them to sex and shit...sure hikd frame and stuff but the way to intimacy is always the flirty considerate way....
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:30 PM
2

why didnt anyone mention high n-count?
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:19 PM
1

never seen a guide here actually...I to text more sinve a few weeks but you dont even want to know how long a message bakes in my mind lol
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:03 PM
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haha oh thats the problem. watch the mentioned AMS video. well my problem is in the other direction. as you have a lot of recovering betas here, you may already be in the right place. compliment her looks is a beta move you can through out there here and there. other than that...you know the romantic shit, eye contact after sex...walk with her arm in arm...eye contact...dunno man..Ill read here too and see what the ithers say
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:02 PM
2

you have to realize thst the women's mind in todays society essentially gets on a level of a mentally ill person. imagine no one ever said no to you or critized you so that you didnt have to think twice ever about your behavior or let alone change your behavior. upbringing encourages it. they encourage each other. open hypergamy encourages it. they are like children who never heard no. I know one guy who grew up this way - mentally ill, Im telling you. so its basically not their fault. tgey were…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:57 PM
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as AMS said "feed em scraps". video has the same title. also there is the idea of being 80% oht the time alpha and 20% beta lover. not the needy autistic beta tho, the lover kind.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:49 PM
2

true. but here is a reason that texting only for logistic is so famous here...
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:45 PM
1

nohing in this is red pill or any kind of advice
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:41 PM
2

no cut it short. do ot. when she play games, you can do. imagine you give her the spike of awesomeness with venue change, carefree energy, outcome independent of course. rhen you leave after the spike. her hamster will spin and on the other hand when she is already staring with cant do this and that and then you give her the date of her life...just no! give her awesomeness but dont give her all. she doesnt deserve it
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:34 PM
1

cold reply or rather tease her without saying yes or no? I commented here onve that you need to check hiw she perceives you. when you are not chad, you cant text like chad. its autistic
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:29 PM
1

yeah but sometimes its right. there are bitches who want to dominate at all cost and this is their very first attempt to do so. but in general you are right, its overkill to do the her frame thing to 120 percent.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:25 PM
2

be careful with the texting...if you are not good at it, dont do it. its easy to overshoot thr banter. its easy to undershoot. you cant read tgeir mood they are in....careful
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:23 PM
1

nice that we we admit that we are autists now. feels good. TRP says 80/20 alpha to beta lover ratio. that leaves room for appologies...so when he is admitting hes is wrong and the situation was indeed bsd...why nottttt
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:47 PM
2

nice bro!
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:30 AM
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no man that drives me nuts and it brings me nothing. yeah makes sense I think that it takes a while for some. actually nice to hear some perspective and timelines. my first generation of plates broke now. i reviewed this phase and well, it got better but its still a path to go. so you are saying as long as one keeps at itit becomes second nature and the "click" comes? can you maybe outline or give a few bulletpoints what the click actually is? is it more that you get a routine that you do or mor…
/r/askTRP28/07/20 10:34 PM
3

Until recently I believed that everyone but very few live by a few solid standards like honesty. Today Im really not so sure anymore...especially about women. Interesting point that social game isnt trivial to them.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:06 PM
2

Men can also get damaged by this untaught bullshit so much that there is not much to recover for potential
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:03 PM
1

Because it's so hidden I try to get there and its going fairly well, but I feel all the time like there is something out there other guys are doing or that the other guys "get" as in understand, that Im not getting or doing. That there is something missing I just dont get or see. Its crazy...and Im 34...I often think about where I went wrong.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:00 PM
2

Just realized I misread your orginal post
/r/askTRP27/07/20 10:01 PM
1

ok bro listen. maybe you misunderstood the leading part. its more like captain on a boat, so you make decisions, but others weigh in and shit. Its not leading like a slave owner or the crazy boss. you know, imagine a leader in a company, he doesn't yell like military drill sargeant because there is business language and business culture. same with women.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 09:07 PM
3

just guessing thta you said like "we go in this direction!!!" possibly a little too loud and with a with a furious look
/r/askTRP27/07/20 07:44 PM
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oh boy that sounds like you commanded the direction like an autist...is that what happened by any chance?
/r/askTRP27/07/20 07:30 PM
1

They want someone who feels like he is the shit already and they wanna get in on that energy. good one man! going the wall!
/r/askTRP27/07/20 07:19 PM
3

Hell On Wheels, the main character is a prime example of holding frame. TV show tho
/r/askTRP27/07/20 07:13 PM
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Go out with TRP teachings in mind and see how they are. You'll get careful automatically lol
/r/askTRP27/07/20 03:28 PM
2

Just read up on vetting and unicorns.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 03:27 PM
2

I always keep in mind that I’m operating with an obsolete caveman bodylol lol Just wondering if there are ways to get non-needy without having side chicks. I dont have the energy, ok actually I just dont want to go it. I planned on doing 1 or 2 in parallel max. I see however very clearly that neediness comes in many facets and they smell it out even when you good at hiding it. I started with reminding myself that every women lost is actually a blessing. That being with a women is brain-chemicall…
/r/askTRP27/07/20 02:00 PM
2

I see it very simliar. Money I dont care about, meningless sex also not very much. See it this way - the more you learn how to handle women and the situations with women, the closer you get to getting an LTR. Its a path you need to walk. As everything today isn't straight forward anymore, relationships aren't either. So you need to learn and walk the path. Thats what keeps me motivated. Since I also just started out, Im not drowining in pussy, get flaked on and have bad days. Also hard to do cer…
/r/askTRP27/07/20 01:47 PM
1

And that is? The post you mentioned is stupid. TRP is a toolbox and learning about game, women nature, society and how to handle it all...how is that not an awakening?
/r/askTRP27/07/20 01:37 PM
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AWALT for me is that they all have the capacity to do the worst. to vaying degrees. Look at you mom, isnt she manipulative sometimes or gives you dad shit sometimes? Or ever seen her acting flirty/wierd with some man? There you have it...the capacity is there. It depends on various factors if it turns to the worst or not. Like how she grew up, personality, situaltional circumstances, etc. The problem today is that we dont critize women, its taboo. We even encourage her in her ways. They encourag…
/r/askTRP27/07/20 01:11 PM
1

sure
/r/askTRP25/07/20 06:34 PM
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Same here, to a certain degree.... Dont know how you got to this point, for me it was a lot thinking about my sitatuon in the past. I came to the conclusion that life is essentially meaningless and our society is fucked on an interpersonal level. I dont enjoy materialistic things or people who enjoy them and broke with all past friends. Girls fall in this category as well. They want status, they care about money and security. Sure in varying degrees but it's always there. So for along time I was…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:51 PM
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This...the rug tells you how their relationship is. Except the guy is major beta, then just play it unphazed...in fact be unphazed if the dude is really no competition. But doesn't sound like it unfortuneately. In that case...the rug tells you that they are flirty and shit...its a ticking timebomb, disrespectful and she appears to be a flirty hoe in general.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:21 PM
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yeah yeah I get the point and its a valid point to make. still.....
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 09:47 PM
2

Bro it encourages......there are differenrt school of thoughts and one is basically that you cant even be friends with other-believers. You should treat them failry and help them but thats it. Seems good enough but think about what that really means....Its a stange shitshow that cant be ciriticed or changed and is stuck in the middle ages somewhere. It annoys the fuck out of me that everyone is trying to strive, but the muslims are stuck in the middle ages, grapping on to this fucking book. And …
/r/askTRP23/07/20 08:58 PM
0

Meh, weak post. I do nothing at all all the time and Im a lazy piece of shit and I can still be funny af sometimes. Also what about "fake till you make it"? Is that not valid anymore? Its just the other way around...behave like a great guy, get the attributes and mindset of a great guy. Also for me personally, I dont want to change man, I like who I am, I just want a few bitches to fuck actually and a low SMV chick down the line for LTR. Confidence doesn't come from learning a skill. I was a bor…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 07:38 PM
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could be it actually, depends on what OP has done before
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:44 PM
2

well, he can say that but should have framed it differently. for example like like he is unphazed by her statement.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 02:10 PM
1

Even a burner vm could be shit...on the other hand...combined with a VPN you should be good. But one shoud be careful during setup. Best to leave the VM offline during setup... Wait, do you mean VPN client on PC and VM or just on the PC?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 11:26 AM
2

In the beginning you cant just text for logistics, especially not when you got her number within a few minutes on a busy street. There is no comfort there yet. A little bit banter is necessary. But man I dont have it down yet either. Its annoying...One recent success was one 15 years younger. Met once. Setup new date, she flakes twice. Im dreading her now of course. I assume its some kind of shit test, because I slipped when she drunk texted me. I'll see by the end of the week...and then its bac…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:10 PM
2

I would like to be good in day game too, when oyu could get numbers while walking home or so, that would be the dream. New chicks without effort. But I think its not that easy. For some time I used to go out 15 min early when getting food and just walk a litte bit through the city and try here and there. Success rate was low and I stopped but as I said, good thing is when you get a number this way she usually doesn't flake. Guess a good idea is to become a regular in a venue, have some lines rea…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:04 PM
1

In my last city yes actually...it was exhausting, so I didnt too much but it worked okay. In my current city its fucking weak ngl. I giess the reason is that in my former city no one did appraoch on the street, at least I couldn't imagine anyone there doing that so they were like happy and shit. In this city, I guess its more of a thing and they are on "no" by default...But perhaps its me, I dont know
/r/askTRP21/07/20 10:59 PM
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well WHEN you get the number it CAN happen in 3 lines. I did it during my daily routine too and it usually worked when I was totally genuine. You know, realyl thought she was something. Playing pretend is not my strong suite anyway and women are extra good in picking that up...so...
/r/askTRP21/07/20 10:57 PM
3

I have the exact same problem, I look like an ass in pictures and dont go out much for other reasons. So I do daygame... What I find easy is when you meet a chick alone. I usually say any light stuff. Its just about she sees you, sees that you are not a serial killer and if she likes it she'll give you her number. To get that is easy enough, just walk in the streets and ask them dumb questions. Harder with spectators honestly. I was using public transportation for a long time and you see all the…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 08:43 PM
1

so smug
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:44 PM
1

bro...broo....putting the shit tests in connection with her emotions and in situational context is fucking genius. thanks for this. its going on the wall! one question tho...do I fill her glass in one of these scenarios? Im guessing no, 90% sure...
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:52 PM
1

oh ok, it'll be like this huh? alright...then Im asking...how do I master said skill? gotcha bro
/r/askTRP21/07/20 02:16 PM
3

how? and dont say expierence
/r/askTRP21/07/20 12:01 AM
1

yeah man, its a shitty situation for both parties. finally someone says it.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 09:34 PM
6

At its core females have common traits. As have men. The female traits may not be as seen as "noble" as the men traits but they are there.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 09:31 PM
1

needle sharing is my passion yes
/r/askTRP19/07/20 07:09 PM
5

when he doesnt go into details he might be a sociopath and/or have dark triade traits
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:37 AM
3

It not as bad for me as you describe it. I still get where you are coming from. I had these days too. One time I was hungover and must have radiated a strong IDGAF attitude and a chick approached me (rarely happens) the other time I was overly tired in the morning and just chatted up a woman in the train. Both times without getting anxious or into my head at all. Thats the crucial point. Both days had in common that I was to exhausted to do my usual mind spastics. I was not thinking, not just in…
/r/askTRP19/07/20 10:21 AM
2

yeah in a way she was lmao...on the other habd it was not okay to not give the drug to someone who told the story I did
/r/askTRP19/07/20 12:23 AM
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Man he didnt know any better and so did a lot of poeple here. Its kind of the whole thing why we are here?!
/r/askTRP18/07/20 10:15 PM
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Hate to be that guy, but while expercise can help you need to target it from other angles too. Read my comment. And possibly go see a male therpaist. I always found it funny that here people often say see a male therpaist. All my therapistst were female and I never had a problem with it...until I went to the doctor for PrEP. Its medication for not getting HIV. I told my made up story, that I fuck amatuer hookers a lot and that there anything goes. She looked at me disgusted and wouldn't give me …
/r/askTRP18/07/20 09:59 PM
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They are truly masters at that, it occupies my mind since a few weeks, but it got better reading here a lot. Glad you found happines. Still ridicilous to me that no one ever tells you about that stuff... Any ideas on how to cut her out once and for all?
/r/askTRP18/07/20 09:51 PM
3

Interesting question I gotta say... My mother is a special kind of breed and she played a very special kind of game at home with my dad (and us). It damaged me for life. My first LTR too was very, very special...ruined my 20s, turned me to drugs, lost my capacity to work and myself. Also better now but took real effort. I started full fletched red pill because of the girl I met beginning of the year. Again she is very special. Her games are on another level. To see her do her thing is amazing. S…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 09:45 PM
2

Either realize that nobody gives enough of a shit to be judging you or everyone is because you're goddamn awesome nice broski! also that you draw the link to amused mastery from there!
/r/askTRP18/07/20 02:25 PM
1

I dont know...someone with more experience need to answer that
/r/askTRP18/07/20 02:10 PM
3

sure my bad, the handshake ofc and I guess leading her around at her hand too
/r/askTRP18/07/20 01:44 PM
5

There is a ladder so you wont come across autisitic: hands/arms > legs, body > neck, face. But now that I write it, I wouldnt agree with hands so early on the ladder
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:51 AM
2

Still a very get idea to get more "touchy". Im not a touchy guy at all and hate it when someone touches me while talking, so might be a good idea for me too... How do you escalate and did oyu have troubles in the ginneing?
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:48 AM
2

Doing dance classes to get to girls sounds like the worst beta shit ever lmao It could be however good to get familiar with becoming more "touchy"
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:36 AM
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Im having issues there too... One thing that helps is the thing with "emphasize points". You know people who do that, who touch your arm or even leg to give what they are saying an emphasis...leading her on her back...all things that can be done IMO. Find things you are comfortable in that area and do it... For watching a movie...you can just say "lets cuddle" and watch her reaction. Dont wait for the explicit response however and put her on the spot since you are supposed to lead. You basically…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:35 AM
1

ok so one needs to up the leading and the bossing around and learn the language. what I saw from slavic immigrants in my country was that the girls tend to look for building a family early and where not ehoring around too much. what do you mean by "getting fleeced"?
/r/askTRP17/07/20 04:32 PM
1

what different set of problems? Im a strong believer in the slavic herds of perfect unicorns.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 04:03 PM
2

what do mean by "I get the low investment I want"?
/r/askTRP17/07/20 04:00 PM
14

people just believe him alread lmao. Im from europe and one common joke in my country is the questions why the british are so ugly and have bad teeth. And Im seriously interested in solving this. EDIT: on the other hand I hear that the women have big tits and are fairly easy. Not the worst deal overall I guess
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:58 PM
1

bro just belive him alread lmao. Im from europe and one common joke in my country is questions why the british are so ugly and have bad teeth. And Im seriously interested in solving this already lol
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:56 PM
2

Yeah man, Im currently gathering information about Africa, its the same there. Actually it makes sense to leave not just for PUA/hedonism but to just live in peace without seeing and actually living this self-destructive dumbness anymore - I realize more and more how big of a problem it is to let hypergamy run wild and disrupt the gender roles to that extent. Thats no life for any of the parties - men or women
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 01:43 PM
1

My advice: KEEP fucking up. Keep testing RP knowledge. Do the wrong thing. Overtext. Pursue. And let all the information you learn be continually validated until it's fact in your mind. noice! how can you plate constantly when your approaching is bad? I mean Im in the same boat, but constantly plating is still an issue
/r/askTRP16/07/20 11:12 AM
1

Im 35 and its too true. Im working on becoming said haggard sexpat in the Far East or South America. Its a little sad, but what can you do...sure play the game, get a mission, but its not enough, I grew to hate this society and I want out. When you really look at it what they took from you in terms of things you can't buy...some days I just can't believe that this was my life and what is my life today. What happened to you as a child and teen from an average family boils down to performance pres…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 10:56 AM
1

cant find it...
/r/askTRP15/07/20 11:07 AM
2

IMO you shouldve not escalated again. I had a complicated chick. She was here on her period and we said no fucking because period. Ok. And you know when the moment was she grapped my dick and ass/mouth fucking commenced? When I said "Its actually going great, I thought I be here with a permanent boner" Next time push, but push her away. Fuck her with her fucking games her lizard brain spits out all the time. The solution to LMR is withdrawl. Another plate I saw for the first time at her place. S…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 09:44 PM
2

Try it out and let me know. I will from now on try to be a little more like they assumably perceive me and see how this works out. But keep in mind, its only a mitigation strategy because we are not alpha Chads yet (and between us, I dont even know if I want to go full Chad tbh) EDIT: just thought about full on Chad is worse it. Only then you get the full submission and the slut sex. But its a bit of a journey I guess.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 09:30 PM
1

You have a plan so you do "text game". Interesting theory in why she looses interest. Ive also gone too cold and too distant too. Im sure of it now. I mean one called me shizophrenic beacuse of the difference between me in person and me texting. Still niot sure if you can plate them then. But I guess you just pull the standard method from there...not seeing too often, leaving a gap, never talk about exclusive, not be available all the time. God I hope the texting shit works out now, this has bee…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 09:28 PM
2

Just so I understand it right, you werent able to get her on when you started texting more? Guess that makes sense huh? And then you had the string of girls you lost because you went to distant to fast. Makes sense too I guess. My texting game is total garbage. But I heard here once that if she is attracted enough you can text her whatever you want. I get that, but it won't work for me. Yesterday I realized that you can't text like aloof Chad when she perceives you as potential boy friend. My SM…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:39 PM
1

bro...the 3 times, how?
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:22 PM
1

After some struggle I realized that I need real freedom, no corporate slaving or anything. And since then Im obsessed with this idea and working towards it. Started out slow with plans to climb the ladder down and basically live like a hobo, but I realized that tis is a shit idea. Then I pursued climbing the ladder up...first idea was shit...second idea was shit...third idea Im pursuing now is promising and in a few month time I might be done. The only time I feel real excitment is when I think …
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:10 PM
2

How are the chicks perceiving you? More Chad or more on the softer side of things?
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:59 PM
4

Man I hate the "do whatever you want comments". If we can do whatever we want, then what are talking about here half the time? EDIT: also what happend to "fake it till you make it", is that not valid anymore? Here comes some (hopefully) actually help: Think about how she perceived you. If you came across very Chad, play it a little colder. If not, you are better off playing the comfort card, at least in the beginning. Also adhere to the 2/3 rule. This only came to me recently, because chicks don…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:58 PM
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Bro chill. Sometimes pregnant women get a little too horny. OP might to bite the bullet here and have to be cuckold for af few month lmao Jokes aside, all the best OP!
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:51 PM
1

Sheesh nothing anymore you helped to a realization
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:46 PM
1

and calling it out I guess
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:02 PM
1

dread, demote in level
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:58 PM
1

Well the "accidental" lie...the pushing buttons, even knoing wat buttons to push so precisely...maybe the sort of behavior Im thinking of is more in the waters of disrespect
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:37 PM
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thats sounds like BPD
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:33 PM
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Yeah I ignore it. But I feel borderline insulted. I mean she always pulls the same shit after I haven't seen her for some time. She tells me that she saw this and that dude but it was so annyoing and yadayada or has any explanation that she wouldn't appear slutty. On the other hand she already told me from the CC when I baited her into it. You know what...next time I just tell her that she don't need to explain herself, that I already know how she is and that it is fine...On the other hand then …
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:32 PM
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I choose this as the solution. Still...they were is school, and lets assume they were brought up in a decent way...they must have a picture of what a decent human being does and doesn't do. Now they see themselves and the mean conniving shit they do...how do they handle that? How do they sleep at night?
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:26 PM
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Listen bud, if oyu like stick around. Its not about sex, its just appears that way because the other aspects like lifting, mission, finance is easy to manage. So the only thing we talk about is getting pussy. Other thing is, you actually dont "apply" you take what you can use to better your game. There is no other way (only realized that shortly). Other than that man...if your happy, leave and never look back. Just dont forget all TRP teachings. Be carful and vet thouroughly. Tbh I learned about…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:23 PM
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Actually how do you handle that when you think to yourself "she is a slut and I cant belive she thinks that the shit she is telling me is getting her anywhere [in matter of commtiment]". Im inclined to just ask her if she thinks Im stupid and that I believe that she is the a whore. But it wouldnt get you anywhere.......
/r/askTRP14/07/20 05:04 PM
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I guess its important to differentiate that abstraction and categorizations are done to make concepts understandable. Its gets lost in translation when multiple people repeat the same things. I too made a post like OP a few weeks ago and still struggle not to see black and white. I agree that there is value here but I too started to not take everything literally and apply blindly. But with the manipulation thing im still struggeling...because when I think back, for every women I knew manipulatio…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:58 PM
1

why false? do you mean in a sense that there are exceptions?
/r/askTRP14/07/20 02:45 PM
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No Im not. You said he misunderstood part of it. I think he got it exactly right. And it is scary once you realize it.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:03 PM
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well bro he is not wrong. manipulation is second nature to women, look at the women in your family, you'll see it.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:21 PM
1

interesting approach. Ill follow through in the future too. Ive had it. but hey, at least the chicks are rational and you can just they that it was a misunderstanding and their cool with it. ha....ha....ha....
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:07 AM
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bro please wear your maskand get some prep
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:04 AM
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jesus man, STDs are very real....at least get some other protection like PrEP.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:52 PM
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Bro...when you made this comment I interacted with a girl who said texting is annoying and is totally statified with minimum texting. I was happy. Today she flaked. I re-read the texts and I guess it was a stupid misunderstanding regarding leaving her dog at home for the next date. Her emotions shifted I guess. Anyway I had to remember your words and you are absolutely right. It is neurotic nightmare juice. From this point on, Ill do the follwing: Text minimum, average texts until first date, th…
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:51 PM
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could we go over escalating again? I know the escalation ladder. There is also stated to do touching it to emphasize points. How, what points? Also verbal escalation...this is more in range for my personally, but still...I usually got the route of multiple dates, you know the-lets-potentially-be-a couple-route. Actually what happens if you come on too strong? Lets say basic attraction or just curiosity on her part exists. To be safe, Id try to escalate on second date. Is there a way to ruin it i…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 01:23 PM
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Well, women still needed logical thinking so Im queite sure they developed one too, on their own. Surely certain parts of the brain developed differently because both male and female had unique challenges to overcome. I think its a important thing to remeber that they had different lifes and thus developed differently. No trying to hate, I just try to come to peace with the fact that the manipulation powers are so strong in them.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 11:35 AM
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The only reason women have a cerebral cortex is because they mate with men and got it that way. what? like they squirted their brain power into them?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 11:00 AM
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Wow hamster in action. Not saying that to hate, but it feels like an insult to someone who has openend up in the past only to wittness the going cold first hand. But Im sure she was just confused and overwhelmed with the situation and eventually couldn't handle it anymore and had to break up. She had to. Then of course she was full remorse with her friends and cried at least once...until one month later when she was dicked down by Chad and "finally over it". Seen it, far too often. The story unf…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 10:36 AM
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and women ultimately must fold to what is just. No they don't I came to the same conclusion. Manipulatiion is so second nature to them its almost scary. If anyone here thinks the world consists of well organized communication and exchange of facts. Think again, there is a whole underlying parallel world with different rules out there. And women are like Neo, manipulating it at their will. Not saying this to spread hate, but to warn you to be cautious and observe closer.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 10:28 AM
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Blue Pill reality is always more attractive than Red Pill. Like in the fucking original movie, the Matrix. screencapped for own motivational reasons
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 10:09 AM
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Didn't help me tbh. Still hate the fact that it's a game...it feels very much like a game too. Nothing appears genuine about it
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 10:08 AM
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Was it the way he expressed it or the thing itself? I still won't believe that you have to put together an act all the time, but more so be careful how you express yourself and of course, keep some unnessecary things to yourself. I can't imagine that sharing trauma for example is impossible. I told almost every chick that I have an anxiety disorder and the culprits of it, but they see how well I handle it and how fine I am with it and its okay I guess...
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 10:06 AM
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for some I am, for some Im not. applies to everyone I think lol
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:47 PM
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its the process of people interacting with each other. dgaf is a very good base
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:46 PM
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dont know how deep you are in js, understand promises and such? all the advanced topics? try to read code on girhub from other people. when good there, relax...or learn linux. youll find combining anything with linuy gives it the power of i dont know. or even better learn a cloud platform. then the possibilities are endless
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:45 PM
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no Im not even good, I can just realize things cross technologies. just do what you think is right. eventually you will come to the point where you really want to doi domethinf or have an idea that ll potentially make you money. then you are borderline too old to start something, then you are behind schedule and then you have to gear up...
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:42 PM
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being 34 and having the last shot on a slice of freedom
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:35 PM
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jesus...I wanted to give the funny new guy some help and Im already over my bed time (Im in his frame, just to give him something more) other than that I put effort in the content, found it really good tbh
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:34 PM
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like cold appraoching me with my girl? Id go hostile right of the bat. just a "fuck off man" Ive found and read it here rhat a little display of agression can work wonders
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:30 PM
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I guess it deoends on the situation. when she is confident already no need. when she seems a bit insecure you do it...I guess
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:20 PM
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yo its me from the other thread. I like the asking the same question back part hahaha. youre funny dude. check the site bar again. frame is the process of how two people interact. rhats peinted bold in the frame article (trp subreddit tho). also read rhe powertalk article. it gives you an idea that there are several layers of communcation. as man your frame in general is to lead. often compared to a captain. you let her make decisions but you keep the order. women hate to decide you know. you le…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:18 PM
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hahaha thats....hahaha nice man
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:04 PM
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I think to open the conversation its ok to state something positive about her
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:03 PM
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aah okay. I like your approach with playing with the other dude. so you go over and introduce yourself like its a nornal conversation and deop rhe bomb with the give me your best line...what if she doesnt want to be disturbed and signals that subtile? falls in the category of disrespect huh?
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:02 PM
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isnt mate guarding the whole thing with asking how her evening with her friends was and try ro fish for infos if she was unfaithful? and stalking her out of jealousy, checkibg her ohone and shit?
/r/askTRP10/07/20 10:29 PM
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Just checked your history. Im kind of a loner too but may be for different reasons. Dont let that pull you down. Embrace it when you are with a women. Find positive things about it and put those in the foreground. I for examole say that people just annoy me after a short time and that I broke with everyone cause of high moral standards. You know thats the side of it that sounds good. Truths is that Im a perfectionist and ruined so much things in my life because of this, its ridiciolous. Also Im …
/r/askTRP10/07/20 10:26 PM
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december? come on dont talk about burnout. Im coding since ten years and do 10-12 h almost everyday since 2. valid point tho. I had a burnout and was unemolyed for several years but it was more due to the exhausting coporate land when you work there as a normal thinking human
/r/askTRP10/07/20 10:15 PM
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I think its important that you acknoledge the dna thing and thus that there are limits. Seen a guy here who was not able ro see that, rhats no way to live man....Anyway I have an anxiety disorder and I know that very well. Its harder then, but its doable. Dont know how you approach challenging things but just treat it as one of those. Do, reflect, do better...one little thing at a time. I treated it like my training. Research how to do things, do, check my form and technique, do again...took me …
/r/askTRP10/07/20 10:12 PM
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ooooh the dude with the bullshit story replied. jk bro...thanks for clarifing. with that crucial pice of information the story is interesting. gives me personally the first idea what idgaf can do for you in term of bitches. I may even read it again
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:53 PM
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yeah I misread
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:50 PM
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Just came to me: Giving compliments about her looks. Its validating her for just "being". On certain occasions its probably ok. I also do it when I see her naked the first time, so she wont be insecure...not sure just now if its right tho
/r/askTRP10/07/20 08:48 PM
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Oh ok. All I know is that you have to build comfort at the beginning and then do push / pull. Perhaps look at the compliments more as positive statements about her, preferably not her looks, thats beta, giving her valdation for just "being". To get the convo going one could however state something noticable or so. Bro Im new here, just spitt balling.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 08:40 PM
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Me too, but ever since Im able to get the chicks I want its better. Dont know how old you are, Im mid 30s. Do yourself a favor and get that out of your system. Its not going to happen and even if, the odds are not in favor ans its foolish to count on it. Wasted years with this and other bullcrap.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 08:37 PM
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When you've gone that route why would you get the idea of truning it around with compliments? made my laugh bro. just saying maybe this is not the right apporach. Nothing more to offer tho
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:54 PM
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Have you made some first steps with this? I usually go for a walk with the girls. Forget touching them at the first date. I feel like they know exactly what Im trying to pull...And yes I do it subtle, like guiding them on their back around elder people and other obstacles. They dont like it...Also yes there was attraction. One I fucked on third date, with the other one I have the second date on sunday.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:51 PM
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You obviously havent given it your all in coding. You can waste litterally years just doing that once you have mastered the first steps and have a project you are interested in. Motivation plus if it potentially will make you money.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:47 PM
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The sidebar is a little thin on that and its one topic Id like to go a little deeper. All I have in the back of my mind is "dont do it".
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:37 PM
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I think this can be communicated in more subtle ways than by not picking up the bill. I dont know, for example hinting on what you make...sure shows status, but I under cetain circumstances it can be provider behavior. Actually now that I think about it, the blue pill bullshit actually isn't that subtle at all. And once you begin to grasp it as a whole you get a picture on where you have to go and what to do...or more precisely what not to be
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:36 PM
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bro just stfu with your half baked cosplay bullshit and let people learn and grow
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:28 PM
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ok you mentioned "fun times" and "cool insights" as well
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:57 PM
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Being needy can come in many facets and so does provider behavior
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:27 PM
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you said absolutely nothing despite the idgaf thing
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:20 PM
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So when everything is random, nothing we do here matters? Ok I get what you are saying actually. It could of course be that in OPs microverse the guy had that halo effect and story unfolded excatly like he told it. Anyway I dont want to be the guy trying to rely on exceptions or even worse hope for exceptions. Done that long enough
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:17 PM
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I call bullshit. Girls in highschool are obssesed with the cool guys and cool in highschool does not mean not being a stoic nerd. Its the guys who dress according to trend and shit. Its way more superficial than adult life.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:56 PM
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Treat her better? General speaking NO. It depends where you stand. To keep a plate longer you have to comfort her to some degree and not play the alpha chad all the time. If you are doing that already, change nothing. If you are not doing that, change a little. But be careful, when she sees that her telling you about about other men had an effect on you, you compromised your frame and it tells her a lot of weaknesses about you. Someone please confirm this tho, Im new here. Anyway I feel ya. My f…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:39 AM
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hahahah get outta here
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:04 PM
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what do you mean by successful and why would it make sense that she would act aggressive then?
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:02 PM
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I fully agree, I need to be able to sleep at night so I try to do the right things. And btw TRP encourages honesty and straight forward communication. I'll tag you in my next thread and you can contribute if you want. Im also open for to talk on hangouts if you are interested in a chat where you gain......probably nothing. Jokes aside, could be interesting since I fully got your prespectives in the replies I guess we think alike
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:49 AM
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thanks man! wouldnt dare to ask another questions after reveicing two quality replies!
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:14 AM
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Elaborate on I have tried please. Im working on an online business and my goal is essentially to live in sin when it takes off.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:13 AM
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Use the 150k to build something long term so you never have to go back to 9 to 5 again!
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:11 AM
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Bro thats golden, very concrete examples. Thanks man, saved it! Since your explanations are very clear, let me ask you this: I need a reliable, low effort way to get to know new women. For some time I just droped some standard line on women on the street when she was alone. That worked fairly well in my old city, not so well however in my current city. Also not super low effort and its suspect to chance bc she needs to be alone (I know, I shouldnt care). I havent tried tinder yet however. But th…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 07:22 PM
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outline the process of brining out the inner slut please
/r/askTRP08/07/20 05:41 PM
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Managing your bitches its "how to manage your bitches"
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:26 AM
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Hard to find man. I think one problem is that people tend jump to hobbies or to "helping others" pretty fast because thats all we ever heard in this context basically. Another thing is that when we hear "find what you heart truly desires" people think it must this magical, out of this world thing. It also a process of getting to know yourself and being honest with youfself. Think what you liked in your life so far and what you didnt. What you could bear and what you couldn't bear. Sometimes what…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:12 AM
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You can turn this around bro, its not like you overdosed on H and sit in a wheelchair. You realized the fuck ups fairly early actually. Its all good man. A wise man once told me "rather make a step to the side than a step back" and Im living by his words ever since, walking forwards sideways ;)
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:45 PM
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yeah man sometimes they are not into it themselves - than you are golden. But I find it very difficult to get out of texting and make it look "naturally", especially when you texted relaxed and successful for some time. You know, suddendly saying "actually I dont text" is dumb...saying "I dont have the time anymore and its distracting" is also dumb...reducing gradually apears like a big rapport break...I had no good idea. I told her its distracting, answered less, half assed it, teased her about…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:12 PM
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Hahaha that is a bit strange now that you mention it. Reminds of how fucking careful Ive become with texting. One message usually bakes for a day in my mind and I text it to myself multiple times and make changes. Sound dumb but I had so much misunderstanding and shit via text I dont take any chances anymore.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:47 AM
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Honestly these answers are bullshit. Dont overthink it. From that persprective the whole TRP thing is overthinking. Big part of TRP is about thinking about how to handle a women...
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:43 AM
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sounds very interesting. one should be able to navigate this I guess. hope you are doing good over there!
/r/askTRP07/07/20 09:02 AM
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bro why are you arguing with him? by being butthurt by this hes borderline trolling you lmao
/r/askTRP06/07/20 07:31 PM
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How much fucking is possible when you have status in terms of money, looks average, game average to weak? Asking for a friend obviously. When you say simp culture, does that mean you have an bigger advantage being red pilled? I always thought south american men have very strong game.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 07:28 PM
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ok sure, lets not call it mistake...but if anthing would have disrupted the dates and caused them to flake it would have been that.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 06:21 PM
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oh jesus christ man, and for that I came back here like 10 times to get something only to see you made an obvious mistake....goddamnit
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:49 PM
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hahaha the autistic stoic...the stubborn autistic kid with messed up hair standing its ground in a cringy way
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:48 PM
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You sound a little bit like you have a fixed procedure with these girls. That can be off putting. I do this too. Conversation follows the same framework every time, sex too to some degree. I am a robot so not much change to be expected here. A bit emotionally distant too. To do it like that is exactly what works a few time and then doesnt anymore. She sees the robotic autist in you and looses interest. I started working on this myself and the solution is apperantly to really let loose, be yourse…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 11:40 AM
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Nah man, the chance of 10 girls ghosting him because of avergae dick size...never....there has to be something else. Is it the texting game maybe? OP sounds a little bit robotic tho. I am like that myself but it can be off putting when its the same every time. That is exaclty what works a few times but she will see very fast what you are doing. I struggle with this myself at the moment.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 11:32 AM
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Oh damn bro I fell into the same pit of the whole she is rejecting sex and not iniating. This whole thing can become truly ridicilous...like mind bending ridicilous. Just saying bro you are not alone. She seems to test you however. If you can fix it, go to the Married Red Pill and check out how to keep the sex life alive. Hint: Trying and getting rejected multiple times it not it....
/r/askTRP05/07/20 09:31 PM
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while shes was riding you? how? also share links bruv
/r/askTRP02/07/20 02:34 PM
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seems like a lot of extra steps
/r/askTRP02/07/20 01:59 PM
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how many sidebars do we have by now? jesus......
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:18 PM
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Honestly tho haha. I came here to get some insight as a mid 30yo who has a date with a 20yo on sunday. Its the first time so wouldve been nice, but then I saw the "age gap" lol
/r/askTRP30/06/20 07:23 PM
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Ok but how does one accept that behavior like that exists and is actually accepted in general? Its ridiculously to me...How can they sleep at night? Is the hamster so strong?
/r/askTRP29/06/20 09:04 PM
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I was not asking out of "there is nothing good anyway". I genuinely wanted to know. But let me ask you, how do you deal with it, that they have the manipulation and game playing down like a professional conartist? Doesn't that disgust you? Is it just "okay"? Are oyu totally unphazed by this? As I wrote it actually disturbs me... Now the only path forward I see for myself is to actually view them as objects and game them with shallow intentions. And I actually cant believe that this is "it". But …
/r/askTRP29/06/20 09:00 PM
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Sick bro Im scared of letting loose and just "be". I still engineer everything. I mean it works but just being me, trying to have fun and chicks garvitate sound awesome. But maybe its the age, I don't know. Or the base-depression I established. You said trying to get the energy back. If it doesn't work, it doesn't. Just realize that things move forward and perhaps you need to reinvent yourself/be open for new things. Im saying this because mid-20s crisis hit and threw me out of the loop for a fe…
/r/askTRP29/06/20 01:12 PM
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Honestly its not just! Look at all the poor broken guys on here. I myself was ready to go via exit bag and one big reason was the constant failing with women. Banning this sub is like saying "fuck those loosers, let them go". Sure some things said on here can be seen as "wrong" but in general its a good place that provides real value.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 09:06 AM
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Bang ALL THE NURSES
/r/askTRP28/06/20 06:59 PM
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I do it too when she not a heavy bleeder
/r/askTRP28/06/20 12:58 PM
1

what do you personally find wonderful about them? despite the obvious
/r/askTRP26/06/20 04:32 PM
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Cant remeber trying to get in the pants of my sister or mother tbh :D I get the evolution part. But I think about it like this: They had school and where raised for many, many years. At some point they must have had a picture in their minds what a decent human being actually is...now they compare themselves to what they've learned...what happens now? :D sleepless nights? obv not...is the hamster so strong? Scary man...
/r/askTRP26/06/20 12:24 PM
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Thing is, beginning of my 20s I had a better time with women, then I got into a few problems and "lost myself" to restart now. Im just trying say that Ive seen a fair share, also non romantically and to some degree every women has the capacity for what I described...I cant think of one exception, except perhaps post-wall women or low-value...and actually not even them. I also don't want to acknowledge the thinking of "they are not all like this". Bc from what Ive seen, the degree surely varies b…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 12:18 PM
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Learn to love them? You sure? Im actually dealing with this right now. I just started out, spun two plates, gamed a few more women. Im just loosing interest/motivation seeing them doing their bullshit. And sure enough plate 1 is now semi broken, plate 2 broke, rejection from many of the other girls. The thing is I care very little, Im just glad I dont have to deal with their BS anymore. I feel that way towards many women now. Seeing how manipulation is second nature to my sister, mother, grandmo…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 11:35 AM
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I think another key could be to be able to pull new girls contantly. Thats my goal anyway. A few years back it was rare for me to have a girl and the feeling when she was gone or broke was very present. Now I have girls more often and when she is not here or breaks the feeling is considerably less strong.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:35 AM
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There is a blog post from mark manson called fuck yes or no...I think it was about relationships but also hinted to other parts in life. Anyway when you google that phrase you find a few good things. But it would be great to go deeper as the dude above put it, pry open. For the most part I think we are conditioned to think we want most things and by really looking inward we could discover whats really right for us. Also great hint from the dude above towards friends and family maybe there lies m…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:33 AM
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since you got the pullup bar go watch the athleanx video more pullups in 22 days. ...and let me know how it went please :D
/r/askTRP23/06/20 08:03 PM
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Well I wouldnt say the natural way to act. You have different options to act, you can also act blue pill to or not at all. RP just gives the suggestion to act this way based on observations/facts. You accepted this world view and who is any stoic to tell you your view on the world is wrong? (hint: they wouldnt) Since you stated the justice part. RP says clearly that you should be open about your intentions, so when you are in a non-exclusive arrangement there is nothing unmoral or unjust. You co…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 11:38 AM
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IMO its virturous. RP clearly states why to act this way for a man makes sense, you accepted this truth, so you act according to it. RP also states not to lie and pull some bs. Stoic approved IMO. EDIT: Ask the other side, the stoic subreddit, no one will disagree I think.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 11:17 AM
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sure, sure I meant the slightly sexual positive thing in the context of escalation and/or to let her know that the journey is not going into the friendzone. but it makes sense for me to know is in the realm of possible or in-bounds absolutely. I will read a summary online, best I can do bro...fuck man thing is with the books, you rad it and have no fucking glue where to put it in your "toolbox". I swear man today....anyway thanks, Ill read the summary
/r/askTRP22/06/20 08:19 PM
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well ok, dont compliment her, how do I get on a sexual level then? I mean my game is weak, to say something slighlty sexual and positive about her is a move I do confidently....dont take that away from me :D
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:52 PM
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what do you mean by dont validate?
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:55 PM
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share the convos
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:00 AM
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oh ok you get approached. ok not in my universe
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:24 PM
1

care to outline a bit or share your thoughts or some stories?
/r/askTRP21/06/20 05:31 PM
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haha yeah get a side addiction you can control, than you dont have to obsses over girls
/r/askTRP18/06/20 08:40 PM
1

Shiet I needed to hear this. The thing is after I fucked her Im under the impression I need to invest. Bc before that I play it cold and shit. And I have in the back of my head the thing with treat her well if she behaves well. But things get awkward then bc Im behaving differently, then I pull back and got called "schizoid" once...I dont know man. But maybe I need to dial the investment back after fucking just a little bit...
/r/askTRP18/06/20 08:39 PM
1

sure you can....inner dialog...convice yourself that its not worth it...or just go out and see that TRP is true, puke and cry a little and you won't give a fuck afterwards
/r/askTRP18/06/20 08:30 PM
1

honestly man with the small to mid sized companies there is no competition. Once I was at a carpenter and he told me every company in their trade has a website from the same company just because they show news specific to the trade on the website...300 bucks per month...I mean what?? no competition there and there is plenty more stuff...make something with ERP/CRM for small businesses and you cash in too...there are few per se standards and they are getting ripped off to this day. To do somethin…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 07:52 PM
1

thats true...with your background a valid path a guess
/r/askTRP18/06/20 07:43 PM
4

careful there, big tech is also just corporate land with fancier colors. watch silicon valley. Its all the (awful) same. Ex semi-big tech here btw
/r/askTRP18/06/20 07:15 PM
6

I realized that mid twenties but was too late, slaving away had already taken its toll, I needed time to recover and to kick bad habits. Then I deepened my knowledge in coding and started my first idea which failed, second failed too now Im on my third and can almost see the light. When you hate the corporate world and actually see how everything is, goind back is hard and its hard to keep sane. Its possible but its takes hard work. So if you can, stay away from it, working towards that is maybe…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 07:11 PM
1

TRP just states how women work and how men/women relationships work in todays society. Based on that "ideas" are given how to handle the situation > keep your SMV high, have game, etc. TRP also states that every women has the _capactity_ to run off with the bigger fish but not all of them are like that. Personally I think a lot stuff here is stuff you need to hear to avoid getting caught in the various traps. Hard tho to keep sane I admit. It was hard for me too. When you get to know a few women…
/r/askTRP17/06/20 01:11 PM
1

To quote Eric Cartman "Conniving snakes in the grass. All of them."
/r/askTRP15/06/20 07:43 PM
25

this...unfortunately
/r/askTRP13/06/20 09:22 PM
0

ach sooooooo
/r/askTRP10/06/20 10:51 PM
-1

ok are you trolling me? I dont get at all what you people mean
/r/askTRP10/06/20 10:16 PM
0

what? so I text "we can make pancakes together the might wrap around my dick by accident" or is the second part a joke telling me to escalate?
/r/askTRP10/06/20 08:30 PM
10

offering plausible deniability what would that be? can you give an example please?
/r/askTRP10/06/20 12:39 PM
1

bro its called comfort zone for a reason
/r/seduction08/06/20 08:55 PM
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you felt good? I feel like shit after this seeing how much effort it is to get girls...its ridicoulus
/r/seduction04/06/20 09:44 PM
1

I AM mad at a dog for barking. now what?
/r/askTRP03/06/20 11:24 AM
1

Elaborate on dating 20yo in your 30s please. One of my plates is 24 but it was an exception I guess as she said she is into older guys and she is mature. More often than not I don't know how to handle them or they overwhelm me by wanting to do young-people stuff like wtf Im old, get outta here...
/r/askTRP01/06/20 10:07 PM
1

just saw that you explicitly asked about the mindset...I have that problem too, its annoying as fuck... from therapy: you mind is used to/trained to think that way, you can change that by answering negative thouhgts with positve ones...for example you get up in the morning and the bullshit starts flying in "everything is fucked, I fucked up, I regret everything, nothing will ever change" (oh god I might by seriously depressed). your job then is it to remind you of the progress for example, that …
/r/askTRP01/06/20 10:03 PM
2

bro, do it...Im 35. I discovered TRP when I was 29 or 30. I t was too hard for me to swallow, I always had it on the back of my mind and I did a few thing like getting a mission and lifting but I never got the women part down and its still hard tbh... What I want to say, instead of trying my hardest I just stayed miserable (at fucking 30!!!) I only recently started to try harded and guess what, youll see the light faster than you think, women respond immediately when you learn about shit tests a…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 09:12 PM
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I think or I hope the OP also meant successful in more personal terms. I have long forgotten the idea of chasing money. A friend of mine, makeing around 10k per month once looked at me completely serious and said dude nothing changed, car is faster, house is bigger but nothing changed. I felt that. Ok since a few years I am chasing money again but with the fixed purpose to "buy" my freedom from western society bullcrap that makes want to kill myself daily.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:14 PM
3

do you feel a sense of enlightenment? bro it can go either way...I was on a good path at 24 too, but it can change quick, you values can shift and what you want from life...there is even a chance that you regret that you spent your time investing in the future and not living in the present for example. but in general, good idea what your doing I guess.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:10 PM
1

Thats not what I meant. I meant that one self has limits...thats the destiny, the cards you get at the beginning of the game in your childhood...you have to play them as good as you can and be smart about it. That means accepting your shortcomings and to be gentle with yourself and understanding, and work with your shortcomings them like a understanding teacher or parent would. One can learn a whole lot in therapy. Its the science on how to handle a human mind after all...
/r/askTRP01/06/20 09:37 AM
2

Im (centeral) european too and also wondered if the situation is perhaps much more worse in the us.....bc here you have quite a few "normal" girls actually and society is not that feminist as you get the impression how it would be in the us when reading here.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:51 PM
2

THIS right here honestly...I started out recently and have plates now. Everything clicked...price mentatlity, abundance mentatlity etc. But Im starting to wonder why the are with me, with both of them I beta-ed out hard at some point and Im not always on top of my game. Im wondering if things were different if I were more alpha, if I would get better sex etc...its a fucked up game tbh
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:49 PM
1

whats that supposed to mean? that TRP is shit?
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:44 PM
8

YOU TAKE THAT BACK! Im here, slowly developing a standard method for me and you cant come in here and tell me to be flexible!
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:43 PM
11

*slow clap* thats explains nothing
/r/askTRP31/05/20 12:25 PM
4

Bro you cant listen to what she is explaining to you when it comes to relationship stuff, her brain is just hamstering bullshit together most of the times or making up shit test. You also cant have a rational argument with her, try it...in these situations and the time after you see clear as day what is going on in her mind.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 11:12 AM
2

I feel you man. In the past I felt like that often, now its not so bad anymore. See what was already written. Women will eventually hit The Wall and its sooner than you think, for most of them mid 30s. Im that age and its not that old espacially nowadays where school/university sometimes takes this long. Its also ot that old in terms of how I feel and look. And its sometimes completely ridicilous to me how old women look that age.......They are then pityful creatures especially when single and m…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 10:57 AM
1

I hear ya. I came to the conclusion that the interpersonal connections are more healthy in poorer countries. Im working on leaving here, cant take the bs anymore
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:29 PM
1

what do you mean by plates? use a plate to get other plates? If so Im listening.... social circle is not an option, Im a wierd loner
/r/askTRP27/05/20 02:53 PM
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welcome to the hell of western society, Im 35 and didnt shake that shit completely yet. Be carfeful with your brother though, everyone has his own path to walk
/r/askTRP27/05/20 12:30 PM
2

Yeah I want to start with tinder and read about it game wise. I hoped itll be a consitent pussy source but I think its just a way for the 100% of women getting to the top 10% of men faster for a fling. I too will probably having a hard time showing some status online. I guess you have to have some hunting grounds in day and night game and just do it "on the side" while being there. Annoying..... Lets meet here again when we have nailed it down.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:12 AM
3

Hey bro its me. You need to take baby steps and be damn proud of every step you've taken. Also realize that the goal is a big and beautful goal...and with all things it takes smart work, consitency and most of all time to get there, so cut yourself a bit slack. Go out and ask chicks for the time as a first step. Your lifting is going great, be happy that you do it reguarly. Doing lifting on a regular basis when you haven't done it before is a big think to be proud of. Reflect on what you do now,…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 10:54 AM
1

what is a reliable source of pussy then?
/r/askTRP27/05/20 09:30 AM
0

go out there with redpill teachings in mind and see for your self how women are. I swallowed that shit faster than gatorade bro
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:45 PM
1

whats the golden rule?
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:49 AM
1

I know the tunnel vision thing. I started to call it that recently, where you get in that strange state and see no options in behavior/thinking but the usual shit you do. I dont know man. Care to elaborate a bit?
/r/askTRP13/05/20 10:33 AM
1

Yeah yeah, this bullshit all the time. YOU STILL NEED GAME.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 08:48 PM
3

exactly this...maybe this is a problem?
/r/askTRP10/05/20 02:13 PM
1

doesnt sound like a C guy to me tbh
/r/askTRP10/05/20 06:46 AM
8

here you go, its even the 2nd edition http://redpillhandbook.com/The%20Red%20Pill%20Handbook%202nd%20Ed.pdf
/r/askTRP08/05/20 08:40 PM
1

now that is the best question I ve seen all week. you go brother!
/r/askTRP08/05/20 08:37 PM
1

one question remains: how to break the blue spiral when you just started? I have to pull myself together very hard wehn meeting women, but sometimes I slip.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 10:20 AM
2

good stuff man
/r/askTRP08/05/20 10:14 AM
1

But the more focus you put into not fucking up, the more you’re gonna fuck up Im trying to develop some outline of behavior. Id like to have these behaviors done so that they are second nature. And yes I focus on it and think about it until I know what to do in any given situation. I mean how else do you learn things? Ive said it in another thread, for me I see no other option. Reading the sidebar and coming out a changed man the other side is not working for me, guess Im not build that way. I s…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:42 PM
1

thats a very compelling argument...on the other hand, when I ghost her now for 2 weeks It'll look butt hurt. not sure about the attraction part so much anymore. guess I'll see.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:43 PM
1

understood bro thanks
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:42 PM
1

I actually saw your workout videos. When you do the powerlifting moves you set free incredible growth stimulus, pair that with more push/pull excerises (more rowing variantion, more benchpress variantions) and you will look like the hulk in a few months. Also, its unlikely that you have zero matches, I have friend who looks like a skinny goof but is funny and still fucks all the time. Maybe you have the wrong kind of pictures? Im planning on getting into tinder now, cant wait for the disappoitme…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 07:43 PM
1

interesting...my intention with telling her to hit me up was also to not appear desperate. what effect has the 2 weeks excatly? will she eventually think "well he doesnt want me apperantly" and is hotter for me then or whats the effect we are going for here?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 06:17 PM
1

If anyone here is willing to give me their opinion on the going further here: I want to text her that she should hit me up next week to try again. It would show that Im not desperate like with the double texts...or maybe it will come across like a hurt little faggot but I think its context depending if she thinks that or not and Im guessing no here. I think about even saying that I found her interesting as a person and dont seek anything romantically. That would...yeah what would that do exactly…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:34 PM
1

yeah man, this is a very good perspective to have for many things!
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:30 PM
1

thx bro
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:30 PM
1

no its not getting me banned, this is what this subreddit is for, ask the mods. thanks for the tip with the sidebar, Ive actualloy rad it but maybe I internalized too little
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:29 PM
2

It will fix itself once I see I can get girls regulary, until Ill be here making noob threads and being insecure. good point about the different mental state the next day
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:47 PM
2

I feel ya bro. not gay tho but I get the point of frickle and that it is all a game basically. its what todays society made it to. we fucked ourselves over. for cars and luxury we are sacrificing everything even our own planet. "to see is to suffer there is no relieve your heaven on earth is hell to me". make of that what you want. my advice would be to roll with it. Im also on the brink of accepting that a normal relationships is not going to happen for me. what can you do really? make the best…
/r/altTRP06/05/20 11:26 AM
1

Well it would show that Im not desperate like with the double texts...or maybe it will come across like a hurt little faggot but I think its context depending if she thinks that or not and Im guessing no here. I think about even saying that I found her interesting as a person and dont seek anything romantically. That would...yeah what would that do exactly? That would emphasize the non-needy part again mostly, maybe get the hamster spin a little...or get her bored, but since shes on the brink of…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:57 AM
1

Thought about the become more attractive thing. Based on some encounters Id say looks are ok. I dress a little simple, but everythings fits very well. Body is not ripped, more like bear-mode look if thats still an expression but not over the top. For me personally looks are fine. What I want to ask is, how do I get more attractive beside the looks? What would be some next steps to take?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:04 AM
1

I dont know if I make it ever make it to chad level, currently Im just trying my best and hope things will turn eventually.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 07:41 AM
1

Im so hung up on her because getting plates is not that easy by cold approach as anyone here is saying. plate one broke recently, with plate two Im on thin ice. why the long two weeks?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 07:39 AM
1

how about texting her she should hit me up next week?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 12:28 AM
0

ok lets assume the situation isnt that bad and there is at least some attraction (its a mystery to me how you could assume that there would be more after only getting the number, dont know how you people do it). anyway I plan on replying something like this. guess im getting in that age were technology is confusing. long reply times are totally fine. (because I actually think so, I dont want to text with girls). then should I write we can try again next week and then hit her up again (oh god...)…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 12:02 AM
1

yeah I wish Id found it ealier too. the anger will pass my friend at the latest when you get to know women now and see that the redpill stuff is true and when you have your softharem. society is fucked, just think about all the other lies youve been fed. school is one big bootcamp system to make corporate working drones. it was never about the individual and his happiness. we can consider ourselves lucky for every piece of truth we find. no help to beat yourself up about it now, look ahead and t…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 11:23 PM
1

Bro I just started out, Im still amazed how she behaved when getting her number, cut me a little slack. Also and more importantly, how do you gauge how much or little attraction I created from this information alone? Was her reply too weak? Just trying to learn...
/r/askTRP05/05/20 11:03 PM
1

yes, me. and trust me Im far away of being a pro. I actually just came here to make a desperate thread to get help with a 26yo I just got to know. you sound so frustrated. man I know about TRP since about 4 years now. I didnt actively work on the stuff here constantly but it still took a long time to understand all of it and find ways to apply it. Im actually just starting full fletched with cold approaching and spinning plates. Because IMO there is no other way, society fucked us in this area t…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:19 PM
1

not bad bro thanks! any good reads on the vetting process?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:25 PM
1

primary motivators for what excatly, beind in a relationship or in general? can you give some examples?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 09:02 AM
1

no man, you can get women in their 20s its not that hard
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:35 AM
5

bro I just read the headline. Im 34. I look back and it makes me almost nuts. I have an anxiety disorder and it basically ruined my life constantly until I really understood what was going on and started to work with it / accept it. I spent lot of my 20s depressed basically because of missed opportunities. I only went to real therapie when I was 29 and started working on busiess, lifting, social skills etc. I want to say, nothing will change until you pick yourself up and make it so BUT you have…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 06:58 PM
2

And work on understanding how to turn female friends (with tension) into plates (yes, it can be done). I believe it can, can you outline the process a bit? Im guessing you meet with her and escalate on a light level to let her know where you are moving now or be suggestive? And in genreal move it a little bit slower than with a girl you just picked up?
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:03 PM
1

please name some consequences good sir. Im having touble not coming across as butthurt.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 07:56 PM
3

yeah I actually only work out at home always. you really can get creative, get some equipment, build a cable machine with dirt cheap pullies. everything is possible. t-bar rows in the corner of the room, my new favorite lol.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 01:25 PM
2

damn I never saw this before. that seems better than the sidebar tbh. EDIT: big thanks my man
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:52 PM
2

what handbook??
/r/askTRP03/05/20 11:50 AM
2

I was stuck after initial reading phase and didnt knew where to proceed. What I did and still do is just come here a few times a day and read a bit. Eventually you will understand what you need to do.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 11:50 AM
42

bro just get a pullup bar, put weights in a backpack and do pushups and pullups all day
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 08:41 PM
1

I dont get it
/r/askTRP02/05/20 08:26 PM
3

why 2?
/r/askTRP02/05/20 07:59 PM
1

oh god this killed me lol
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:08 PM
3

try to find where they emerge from in your mind...for me its like a black sea and they pop up from somewhere...once you have that youll find that you can shut them off. this should be taught in school actually
/r/askTRP01/05/20 02:39 PM
1

I dont get it...
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:07 AM
1

very good explanation. thank. I wint risk anything with her lol. I kniw girls whi have one or two fuckbuddies when not in a LTRand the ocxasinal ONS, fine with me. but that? nah man
/r/askTRP30/04/20 05:17 PM
2

thats genius man, the expression beta bait just opened my eyes...thats exactly it, fuck...
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:46 PM
3

Very interesting theories and very solid advice how to tackle it. I actually do it right now the "baptism of fire" as another user put it, bc I see no other options. What you said gave me another perspective. That my dopamine system changes...thats a good goal actually. How exaclty emotional nature? are you spinning plates? Then you can put the emotions aside pretty much. And still as you probably know with the methods of cognitive beahvior therapy, emotions can be changed. Or rather it can be t…
/r/askTRP29/04/20 09:48 PM
1

I sent her the beta text wall anyway This was with a different plate, I dont adore her. Shes skinny and I actually just try bring myself to adore her more bc sex is...lets say uninspired. The fact that I sent it was just tunnel vision crazynes...But I guess I know the reason, I couldnt forgive myself another failure and go into panic mode
/r/askTRP29/04/20 09:16 PM
1

Im doing all of that since years. And I currently go the baptism of fire route, because I see no other options. I read the sidebar, some things just wont turn I guess. Or maybe I havent internalised some of it. Any good reads on what you mentioned? EDIT: Also the fake it till you make it route
/r/askTRP29/04/20 09:11 PM
1

I read it bro, I read it...just some things wont turn you know?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 09:08 PM
1

not bad anymore? I thought the idea was if we talk LTR, to find one who isnt as bad as a whore from the beginning. I believed her to want get better and that she doenst want to "fuck around" anymore but Im not the guy for her risking it
/r/askTRP29/04/20 03:53 PM
1

what do you do now? I try cold apporach during daygame...for some strange reason that went way better when I half-assed it. Now I go out speciafically to talk to women and the results are not so great. I mean I dont come off too strong or needy Im sure, I dont know...maybe to unrealxed, that might be it
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:38 PM
1

Your fallacy here is thinking that you can have a rational conversation with a woman and talk your way around the problems I really cant, can I? My other plate was here for the third date, I misinterpreted things and didnt escalate and I alreedy had sex with her, so not much to do actually. After that, the genius that I am, besides having it very clearly in my notes to not try to fix things, I tried to talk with her about it. It spiraled out of control, she not "getting" what I was saying and no…
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:13 PM
1

Given I dont fuck myself up with my thoughts, but I think I can handle that...thanks broski
/r/askTRP29/04/20 12:59 PM
1

I have one other plate, just started out...
/r/askTRP29/04/20 12:56 PM
1

yeah I recently started with RP and initally didnt want to spin plates. She was the first I dated and was in to her and admittedly still am to some degree. She turned out a whore and then I decided to spin plates. Hence the late talk regarding non-exclusive and my light oneitis. Maybe better when she doesnt reply now when I ignore her, the whole sitation its exhausting actually
/r/askTRP29/04/20 12:54 PM
2

thats actually a very solid attitude towards what shes doing at the moment, Ill do that
/r/askTRP29/04/20 12:51 PM
1

but are you sure? I mean I was the one disrupting the comfort by wanting non-exclusive? I feel like I have to get back to comfort?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 12:47 PM
1

interesting option...dread to the fullest huh?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 12:44 PM
3

"Shun substance for distraction. You can't squeeze love from hateful actions"
/r/askTRP28/04/20 08:55 PM
6

funny thing is that doesnt work, well finding out whats wrong works, but treating yourself doesnt
/r/askTRP27/04/20 08:54 PM
2

so I just watch with a stoic expression.......wait, Im being mocked here right? If so, not bad lol
/r/askTRP25/04/20 09:56 PM
4

For every 1 negative thought fill your mind with 10 positives. bro this shit is so incredibley powerful. do have experience with that?
/r/askTRP25/04/20 09:12 PM
3

Bro... I myself also thought I have nothing to offer. My therapist said to me I have clarity to offer. You know being the guy who sees things through. There is more than being the classic attractive, handsome guy to offer a woman. You'll find yours. But be aware that this will only appeal to a certain percentage of women. I guess this is what we have to live with. As for your body. I feel the same, I transformed a bit and Im in a OK state now and women react differently to me know, but my brain …
/r/askTRP25/04/20 09:01 PM
2

yeah because shes hamstering her bs away. not in OPs mind tho
/r/askTRP25/04/20 08:46 PM
3

I like c, is there a way to make being a cuck alpha?
/r/askTRP25/04/20 08:39 PM
5

bro why do suck his cock so hard? I think your comment was completely valid IMO
/r/askTRP25/04/20 08:28 PM
1

I can't hold the abundance mentality without staying in the game. I tend to get oneitis. At the moment I feel Im at risk to get onetitis for both of them. (I swear Im this close to using the exit bag jk). What do you mean by the second sentence? If she wants to get back together after a breakup or if she wants to see you again after a date? Also let me ask you, do you feel weak for being low energy sometimes and not being able to communicate well? I have to say I see that as my biggest weakness …
/r/askTRP25/04/20 08:01 PM
1

how do you cope with hypergamy then for example? when its over its over or what?
/r/askTRP25/04/20 07:15 PM
1

yeah bro lucky for you when you know whats normal, consider yourself blessed
/r/askTRP25/04/20 07:14 PM
1

your right actually, the passive is when I fall into even more disinterest. so what you say is better to lead, but to lead somewhere what its chill and suites my mood better? whats are machiavellic skills?
/r/askTRP25/04/20 04:56 PM
1

yeah man I do the same, I have to be careful when to meet and how often per week. I usually prepare too. Suprised me yesterday because I actually was prepared and the low energy befordhand just felt like I was chill, but as soon as she was here I realized that it was the "disinterest thing" again and man I almost blew it, if I havent...so you spin plates? I imagine this takes you some effort? I recently started and I have to say 2, max 3 is more then enough
/r/askTRP25/04/20 04:53 PM
1

no its just like that sometime, just dont want to do anything you know?
/r/askTRP25/04/20 10:54 AM
1

IT, I make a webapplication and when that doesnt works out I go into indentity & access management. I hope this is relatively stress free
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:42 PM
1

bro I think your confusing me, I never mentioned something about 10 years?! but thanks for the stoic get on your knees idea
/r/askTRP23/04/20 09:44 PM
2

I dont know if you intended to reply to me and I dont get the contect at all but what I take from this reply is the thing of telling her to get on her knees. Ive experimented with being more dominant in the sack to the point of being an asshole but I dont fit me too well bc I do a lot of humory stuff and changing face like this is strange. on the other hand now that I just write it, it could be a cool effect perhaps to be someone else in the bedroom
/r/askTRP23/04/20 09:12 PM
2

How do you plan to keep that mindset? I too have phrases and notes regarding that but keeping at it takes reminding me and meditating over it very often and even then it sometimes doesn't hold
/r/askTRP23/04/20 09:11 PM
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how is learning to code going? what do you learn? let me tell you, best way to get coding experience is learining the bascis, then start building stuff yourself...think of something you like to do...google, build, google build, google, build. you'll love stackoverflow. try to read code from others to see how thinks are supposed to be done. stackoverflow is a great source for snippets and github to see programm structure, dont be intimidatet tho, its normal to start slow and what you find on gith…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 09:08 PM
1

yeah ok but isnt it more about being more alpha in that case? cause she sees me now probably more in the light of a provider and less Chad™
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:48 PM
1

are you trolling me?
/r/askTRP23/04/20 10:27 AM
1

In that case, that she gets an attratctive guy, orgasms and lets assume the guy hold his frame...is it too bad if she knows how much you make? I slipped and told her. She was like how much is possible to make in your filed, me, an idiot, just through a number out and she got VERY excited. Now Im kinda worried that Im not her Chad anymore, if I ever was...
/r/askTRP23/04/20 09:36 AM
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Ah yes, I read one of those once about a guy picking up a chick in the gym and fucking her afterwards. I was done with TRP after that for while bc I was like "Ill never reach this level". Today with a little more RP knowledge Im quite sure it was bs
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:07 PM
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or never really talk about it, get her attracted, then you drop the the bomb or stay vague...and stay vague especially in your actions!
/r/askTRP22/04/20 08:30 PM
4

FR whats FR?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 08:28 PM
1

till she calls you begging to suck your dick thats figurtivaley right? meaning until she show some real invemstment?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 06:43 PM
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yeah man if thats a 6 im dating 4 stfu
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:37 AM
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I didnt see anthing on mirroring or the container thing in the sidebar. Little hint perhaps?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:03 PM
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yeah man, thats the rich piana way
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:59 PM
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what green card, im from europe, they can come here anyway and work, but I get your point
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:53 PM
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just a little update here, she told me the other day she slept with 4 guys in parallel when she was abroad and lied to all of them about it. maybe I should even drop her as a plate, its kinda disappointing...yeah yeah oneitis, i know
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:28 PM
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I think you still got way more chicks who are more into the traditional family values and roles than we have here. Problem might be, that there will be almost everytime when you date abroad this "I provide for her thing" which is inherently beta but I still believe its more doable for an LTR/family than with any chicks from here
/r/askTRP21/04/20 03:21 PM
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you sure about the part woman half your age? I find younger women stressful...unless shes fully committed to hava a family perhaps...
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:41 PM
2

fullfilment? if you ask me the old you get the more its a mindset. I may be litteraly crazy but my brain is trying to drag my down constantly. external things really dont do it for me anymore.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:34 PM
2

where you at?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:32 PM
3

hahaha seriously do that
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:32 PM
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Ideas how to get there? I spin plates now, but I basically do it bc I _need_ females in my live in any form or shape. I steill feel the little disney songs deep down you know
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:54 PM
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"I was a beta male and a pussy. I was living in a dorm and spent most of my time playing video games, while other guys were building social connections. I feel depressed and suicidal because of that." Bro Im 34 and wasted over 10 years bc of fuck ups I basically created myself. My twenties - gone! I only recently got to the brink of being on a good path again. Good news is, even with 34 you can get the girls you want, at almost any age!!!! I often feel sucicidal myself, but you cant give up and …
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:51 PM
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deepest red right here
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:32 PM
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we had many russian/eastern european immigrantes where I used to chill when I was younger and it was a definite trend that these women had more traditional values and goals. but sure there are expections or my observation is an isolated one
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:17 PM
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bro when I saw girls with russian/eastern europe roots in my country, almost all of them were looking for a guy to settle with and did not whore around too much. so my plan b was to get a nice girl from eastern europe later on. dont tell me my plan b is bullshit.......
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:29 AM
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take PReP (under doctors supervision, is can fuck up your kidney), get vacinated against hepatitis, get tested regulary for the remining shit, fuck away...thats my plan however. dont think there is a downside unless you catch super aids
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:18 PM
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Im also new. I had the same concern and still have it, that its all a game and that just strategize against your partner. It is yes, but once you do it, you will see the rewards you get and you see that this is just the dynamic of things. It becomes something different, but its still "right". You become more vigilant and need to pace oyurself once in a while, but rhtas just what a realitionships is: its a little work. But as I saif, you get the rewards and it will feel right. Also dont disregard…
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:12 PM
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Thanks, VERY consistent answers. Shouldve maybe phrased it differently. I guess my question was partly concerning behavior modification. If anyone reads this, whats a good place to start reading about that?
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:59 PM
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thanks man lol
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:58 PM
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Im much older than you but also kinda new to escalation, read guides on kino/escalation. when this is too next level, do what I did last time: just suggest to cuddle. if oyu are nervous, find a way to calm your voice. then be cool about it, then after some time a kiss can follow and anything else. its the lamest move ever I guess, but its my go to move from now on lol
/r/askTRP19/04/20 06:52 PM
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The E Myth any source for a pdf?
/r/askTRP19/04/20 06:44 PM
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ok I get that
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:26 PM
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wow nice tail from the circle jerk. wanna know how stay grounded and focused? calm and meditation.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:14 PM
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Im new here and also dont know the answer
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:11 PM
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athlean x on youtube, they are both hardgainers and in many videos they give advice tailored to this. they even have a hardgainers series I guess
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:24 PM
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bro, plate accuired. red pill is the shit! thanks guys! also ridicilous that women are relly fine withbeing "shared"
/r/askTRP15/04/20 09:40 PM
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I think your missing the practice step. Try to figure out what the things you read for examlpe holding frame are and what they are to YOU. Search in the red pill subreddits to get some other perspectives and more insights, eventually it will click and you'll know what to do. EDIT: Also you need to get out of there or really make an effort to change things ala red pill. Trust me, it cant stay this way. This one girl I had threw me off for years bro: addiction, burnout, anxiety, panic attacks. Too…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 01:21 PM
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Ok, thanks, both of you. I'll see where it takes me. Those who respond well? Which woman wouldn't?
/r/askTRP15/04/20 12:15 AM
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I dont get it
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:31 PM
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Working on the other plates. Tomorrow Ill see another one, I think Im gonna close tomorrow. Still, what to do at that stage, when the plate is onboarded and you want a solid interpersonal relationship too. Its kind of the same thing with the girls Im seeing tomorrow anyway.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:26 PM
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Did you approach them? For my progress I would need to do cold approaching during daygame now but Im hesitant tbh.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:49 PM
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whats OI?
/r/askTRP14/04/20 11:06 AM
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all oyu need is push day and pull day for starters. that can be done effectivaly at home very easy. look it up and get creative.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 09:02 PM
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Another thing, never mateguard, let her mateguard herself, you'll instantly get the answer. Can you elaborate on that? What do you mean by let her mateguard herself? How to get there? My main girl currently explains to me every situation where I could get jealous or get any thoughts of her doing something fishy. I stay unfazed and never ask or anything. Is that it? Please explain.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 08:35 PM
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this is actually all you need (less than 2 min): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nOJTbWC-ULc learn to master breathing and do it for a longer time, then you will enter different stages: http://www.buddhaproject.de/Downloads/Jhanas-Vortrag.pdf also try to observe where your thoughts come from, like a hole were they emerge or something. then you'll find its easy to just not have thoughts, then breath further along and get deeper in the stages. you'll find inner peace and recognize when its disturb…
/r/askTRP12/04/20 02:11 PM
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What we also do is projecting much more in to the lives of these people than there actually is. Try to get to know some of them, if they're not playing it cool and lie about what they do and what they up to you'll see that they struggle too. Different struggle but its all leveled out basically. Not too much to feel inferior about.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:27 PM
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on second thought, forget the phone call, you may have already played to much into the "ok I enterain" you thingy. tell her youre busy, dont text her, tell her to hit you up whn shes back
/r/askTRP08/04/20 02:48 PM
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Tell her you have shit to do and propose a phone call. Not to near future. When she is 4 weeks away, make it in 1,5 to 2 weeks. when you talk to her be aloof, try to not see her as a LRT. dont show your interest. Women's base for love is respect, when you say shit like "cant wait for you come back, we can meet". Dont man. Have a few notes for conversation topic ready if it eases your mind. Talk to her once over the phone, just to spike her interest. Then get busy and tell her that and dont text.…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 01:31 PM
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Eat 8/10 meals clean, track oyu macros and calories. Cardio a bit. Here is what I do: I eat the same shit 4/5 meals everyday. Usually I blend them, gulp them donw, dont care. One meal I eat semi-what I want. For cardio I do as less as I want. Im not in perfect shape, but its alright and easy to keep at it this way. Also learn as much as you can about nutrition and excercise on a scientific, fact based level from people who know what they are talking about. Dont read the fucking magazine ariticle…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 08:35 AM
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so what would have been the right thing to do here?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 07:54 PM
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why are you people interesetd in this lol. one was she was picked up in a bar, her wording there was so disgusting in german. another was soemthing with fucking on balcony, fucking with this and that guy, hairy, huge, small, skinny, young..."you have to try everthing". but I dont care really or lets say care much much less than I used to. I began to spin plates recently. dont know how many times I wrote that today.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 03:37 PM
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The smirk and ginving you the you are a looser look IS her bullshit...also nowhere its stated its his LTR. In that case, yes deal with the dude I guess
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:36 PM
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or watch the south park episode "tsst"
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:24 PM
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bro I read it all already, some things multiple times. I cant reacall anything about info for the anger phase. Its alright, dont bother looking for it if you havent it at hand.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:08 PM
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Originally I texted her "come over to my place on the weekend sugar/homey (was a german word actually). we can talk, go out and make love. same time, dont care which day" (I will now get shit for this). Then she told me that she is not here over the weekend and would like to do it the weekend after, I just texted "ok just hit me up". Then she sent the pic with the caption. Then my "nice". I excpect her to hit me up mid this week. I get the feeling this is on the hurt little bitch side of things.…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 01:56 PM
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TRP has a lot of info on the anger phase give some examples please
/r/askTRP06/04/20 01:49 PM
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I didnt ask the exact number, I act unfazed and uninterested in this topic. Its also not relevant actually, its the fact that I was expecting something completely different when getting to know her at first. I know women who have a sexual partners to statisfy her needs when not in a realitionship or have to ocassional one night stand, not a problem for me. But the stories she told and how she told them were text book cock carousel as you would imagine it. And when you see her, you wouldnt excpec…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 01:44 PM
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I was thinking about that recently. What gives if you confront her? She will lie probably, so......In my new found opinion spinning plates is the only way and not care for one of them.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:55 PM
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isn't the universal answer always to be unimpressed by her bs?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:43 PM
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I usually write slighty flirty/borderline beta with her. Now she was away over the weekend without telling me again. We never agreed that she had to tell me, bc I play maximum desinterested with what she does, but it pissed me off anyway bc its fresh and I expected her to invest in time for fucking. So I moved from the usually texting to long answer time and only very short texts. She sent me nudes with caption so you wont forget me until nex weekend. I just answered "nice" a day later. Now is t…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:38 PM
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see them for what they are and what the situation is, society is fucked, we allowed that "they" fucked everyones mind. spin plates, so you dont have to take anyone of them seriously or care at all. I made ths decision very recently after a gilr I got involved with turned out to be a hoe like every other chick. She was from a strong church background and very kind. I told her I have no problem with casual sex and that Im very cool about it, told her about some of my ex'es. An then she told me sto…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:32 PM
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You sure that is the only way? Cant you do something towards the women side of the conflict like A&E "so you like ass smacking? Ill invite him to a threesome." while acting unimpressed. Also how would you confront him? "thats my girl you smacked there" what if its the first date and you have no real claim?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:24 PM
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- set goals to get out of this situation, you will feel better when you persue them - be kind and understanding with yourself. we all have an inner monolog, and when it goes negative, from whatever corner of your personality, be the the reasonable one and counter with realistic and positive arguments. - realize that the situation was out of your control its not your fault so there is no reason to beat yourself up about it. - people always say confidence comes from within you. healthy people have…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:18 PM
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not a chance for any physical escalation. she was almost avoiding it on purpose, like putting her bag on the side where I would sit down and walking with distance between us. what then? other than that it was alright, she said she wants me to come over to her place next time. she did come to my place for pizza after walking but left right after eating. dont know what I should make of that. maybe she wants to take it slow on purpose? anyway since I decided to spin plates recently, I have no reaso…
/r/askTRP05/04/20 08:05 PM
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Im still working in IT but part time and quite easy job. Im also working an a webapplication in my spare time. When this works out, the plan is to go somewhere where consumerism and perfoming in general is not the most important thing. Its poison on so many levels. Ive always hated it here. As I kid I didnt know why, today I know, very clearly.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 05:02 PM
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Thanks bro, been reading now for a few hours now to get in the mood again and I think I got this. I made a few notes about what could work for me in terms of physical escalation and realized how powerful that stuff actually is, I mean getting to the point where she touches you can be done incredibly fast I imagine. When done only by talking, sheesh I wonder how I got any woman ever...also ridicilous that it never occured to me to try it with more contact, Im mid 30 lol.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 11:02 PM
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33 strategies of war by Robert Greene that sounds very intersting, I just recently thought about that everything is a fight actually, bc human nature is selfish and cruel and that reflects to everything.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 10:40 PM
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point taken about the highschool. yeah the social thing was horrible for me and the clients, but the results were decent.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 09:08 PM
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I also just spend an hour extending my conversation list and learning it by heart. Im a robot and need to engineer things. Engineering worked for that last chick (the first plate) and the other two I have queued up for onboarding so please, just.....all I seek is advice on escalation by touching and the one shit test she always does
/r/askTRP03/04/20 09:00 PM
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No in school I was cool actually, after that I went beta very quickly. Recently I gave her the impression that I changed, so it might be true what you are saying. Does that change anything on the usual stuff like holding frame and escalate?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 08:56 PM
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bc Im overthinking? bro Im robot I need to engineer EVERYTHING. Or because she surpasses me in the three categories? If you think that, we can make a bet how it will go, I tell you here on monday how it went.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 08:52 PM
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Alright boys, you can chill, she texted saying she wants to see me early. I remember making a simliar post a few years ago with another girl, saying I would now follow the redpill principals. Of course I only barely half assed it. I will now make this pledge again. If any bluepill in the transition phase reads this: I think we really have to do it, including spinning plates and not rushing into realtionships. I thought about it today and its the only way that would give me peace of mind. If you …
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:15 PM
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this actually made me laugh. I know its horrible man. I just can't find the right "entry point" to the redpill to change myself. I mean I make progress but its very, very slow...
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:11 PM
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keep it moving?
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:42 AM
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but there is making up for "weak" sexual perfomance on the line. read further the story gets more interesting and beta.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 12:18 AM
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Was thinking about sending this message or not message at all. But Ill give it this last shot. Why do women take ages with some guys or in these situations but fuck a guy on the spot on weekends?
/r/askTRP24/02/20 02:45 AM
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I read a lot here and I still dont know what the work actually is tbh. I mean I try with chicks and lift and try to be confident, but I get nowhere actually. what is the path?
/r/askTRP24/02/20 01:07 AM
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As Beyblade_Clips suggested, I tried "Dont I know you from somewhere?" in the crowded train. And it worked well, comforting, relaxed, no problem. The key is to say it like you mean it. You can also emphasize that you mean it. It did not develop an conversations out of it, that is something I will work on next. I will now drop this on every chick I see without having to think twice. I know you shouldnt think anyway when cold approaching, but baby staps people
/r/askTRP18/08/18 09:12 AM
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So basically ignore her beauty and invest in your game. I think this is something one can focus on. Also don't care about the outcome, on a cognitive level I do this the instant I meet her, it's crazy.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 09:19 AM
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of course, you can see it that way. its a matter of perspective. one mens whatever is another mans whatever. you know this saying. but let me just add im happy for you that the bait tastes good to you.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:24 PM
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Nihilism is a burden of today. the industrial world makes us robots, capitalism addicts for pleasure. "normal" people resign. Just find your way here, be it to make a change, getting pussy, money, whatever... What helped my was just to educate myself in what seemed interesting to me, philosphy, history, technology, politics, etc. just by reading wikipedia and watching documentaries lol. learn about the world, a broader horizon makes it easier to find your purpose or lets say to get an idea what …
/r/askTRP14/08/18 01:03 PM
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Bullshit...giving back is not necessary the prupose, I personally reject the wetsern world for the most part. Do oyu think I find my talent and try to use it to give back to society? Hell no. All I got out was desk job bootcamp aka school, overworked parents and brain fucked peers chaising the newest trends like addicts
/r/askTRP14/08/18 12:50 PM
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Im 32 too. Im on facebook and in certain local groups like "new in [enter city]". when discuss in a thread something, you can private message the chicks there to follow up on the discussion. its maybe a good way for you to get in the women game again. other than that, forget it...do cold approach, tinder game, whatever. you can be the straight no social media bullshit guy without facebook and stuff EDIT: what I just recalled: when you get in touch with a girl and the vibe is not the best, maybe …
/r/askTRP14/08/18 10:24 AM
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Yes and besides, he states in the very beginning what the substance is, that certainty stands behind it all. I can work with certainty mush better than with the plain "just be confident".
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 10:04 AM
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Just roll with it, I do the same, you may have an anxiety disorder or some crooked self image, I suffer the same...keep going, try further, it will get better I guess. Its fucked man...
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 09:04 AM
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OP, can you give an example of finding flaws? I find that idea very interesting, it takes the edge off a little when she is very hot. What do you mean go for the gold? escalate further? kiss? pull her in the bathroom stall? Point 3 is kind of just BS isn't it? The "technique" is very vague. Can you expand on that?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 09:01 AM
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I see, I see...I didnt had the guts yet to pull off a "have I seen you before", it actually seems cheesy to me. I guess the the key is to act like Im actually wondering if I had seen her before. But I see the advatage, when you get a flat out no, you turn around and didnt put yourself out there / wasted energy, when she says anything different, Im in, the conversation bubble builds up and all is well, thats actually pretty good and could work for me....thanks man, I will try it out
/r/askTRP13/08/18 08:46 PM
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no man, unfortunately not. I have to roam frankfurt, germany to pick up chicks...lots of arrogance here, because of big finance, but you find a few gems here too
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 08:37 PM
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The guy somewhere above me pointed out the flaw, I just expanded on that with a more concrete example to help you, because I want you to succeed. Btw I talked to a chick today in the train and its funny, you have your usual flow and its kinda hard to change it, spoiler altert, I didnt because I usually do not make her qualify to me either, but I will in the future! anyway gl bud
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 03:10 PM
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why downvote? this is basically a proven method from cognitive behavior therapy
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 01:16 PM
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I know and approach anxiety is OK for me. Just some situations are shitty like the train platform or as wrote above, when I talked to a girl much younger than me and the old lady came over to stood by us as if they wanted to protect her. Also situations where Im not willing to think and just need a standard sentence to drop, for there situations Im looking for innocent, neutral conversation starters, like "you look familiar".
/r/askTRP13/08/18 01:14 PM
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Thats not what he meant. I think of it that way: when a woman stays with in an abusive relationship , something is wrong with her and you can expect trouble for yourself
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 10:56 AM
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The inner monologue. Your monkey mind's learned reaction to rejection is to beat you up about it constantly, you need to be the grown up and need to give the fitting answer, e.g. that rejection is a part of the shotgun mentality. But most important, you dont know WHY she rejected you, of course the obvious thing to think is that its because you are not attracted enough and this is true in some cases. But certainly not in all cases, it could be the situation itself, her mood, perhaps she doesnt g…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 10:18 AM
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As I understood it the key here lies in the "tryouts". Beside the basic banter / break rapport stuff you also need to throw a few questions in like she had to qualify to you. As if she was on a interview to get you, the prize. "Do you like this and that?" and depending on the question you react positive or negative "Ok thats cool" or a slightly annoyed "Oh really". You get the idea.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 10:10 AM
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Yeah thats all I could think of too. Any further ideas? I like you look familiar, its better than a question.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 09:08 AM
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no. I just want to say: I have approached girls in this situation a few times and the whole situation was uncomfortable FOR HER AS WELL AND THUS SHIT OVERALL. Maybe there are extroverted chicks that like that but my experience is they dont. Besides, the train platform is just an example, Im still looking for universal, bystander-proof conversation staters.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 10:11 PM
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dude I dont know. I did it a few time when she was hot enough, but the situation wasnt right, Imagin it, its a crowded platform, people are standing and wating...
/r/askTRP12/08/18 10:00 PM
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the situation is shit...train station, people, no one expects to get talked to in a slightly sexual way...its just a shitty situation and needs an inoccent, neutral approaches. Bonus points for universal usable.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 09:53 PM
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yeah in fornt of her, but the bystanders dont need to know lol the situation is uncomfortable for her as well and dont tell me this is a good thing while you are approaching
/r/askTRP12/08/18 09:48 PM
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Well when you just say Hi in front of bystanders, its still obvious what Im doing and the situation could get uncomfortable. But I thought about too, it could be working when you act like you actually know her and say it like you know her...then you could just jump right in like you just met her again before work
/r/askTRP12/08/18 09:45 PM
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Thats exactly what Im asking myself and wrote in my post that this seems mentally ill to me. On the other hand, I wasted years on a slut because it was hot and I suffered, she dated an badass because it was hot and suffered. * Okay she did it again but can you expect from people to learn immediatly? It took me years of thinking in monk mode. (*) Or is there a difference between dating a badass/slut and being in a abusive relationship? Cuck antoher mans child...I dont know, sometimes I think it w…
/r/askTRP18/03/18 09:44 PM
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I was in rehab and that one girl with borderline was also not able to get any healthy partners. When you talked about it with her, she was distant and got very strange. The single mom from yesterday was the same way when we talked about her past relationships. Interesting...
/r/askTRP18/03/18 09:15 PM
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Im in my 30s and I like to get women below my SMV because they are easy to handle. With her kid she seems to me like she would go to great lengths to have a decent man, which is also an comfortable situation for me. Hm, I dont know, probably not the best basis for LTR or even any relationship.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 09:11 PM
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Alright, I fixed it... I have to say, I have a very good basis with her, cause she wanted me badly when we were younger but I had no interest. I recognized that I was loosing interest and when this happens, I can not perform any longer (no bantering, mind keeps blank). So bascially it seemed that it all was lost anway and I gave her an ultimatum. I stated at the beginning with her, that I won't play any games (yeah I learned that from here). So I confronted her, that she is playing games and tol…
/r/askTRP30/12/17 01:08 PM
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Thanks guys, I will try my best
/r/askTRP30/12/17 08:02 AM
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I have social anxiety and thus a harder time than the average guy here to get new women. So until my SA is not in line I need to invest a little more than the average guy here. EDIT: of course it does, Im new here and in the last 10 years were very low for me in general. But I get what youre saying. Thanks
/r/askTRP29/12/17 10:38 PM
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I guess this is the exercise part. after I was in rehab I knew everthing I needed to know, but the "new life" established itself over the following months. I came into situations and they were familiar, but my perspective changed and could act differently most of the time. Or I recognized familiar patterns in emotions and thinking and knew what to do differently, but didnt. that it became second nature, was only through facing situations/life.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 04:31 PM
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As you guys persuade me so greatly yesterday, I re-read some material and started to act more alpha and if I am the price towards her...shorter texts also and its already working so fucking good. Im excited like I wasnt for a very long time. And the funny thing is that it feels so right to be that way to her...what else would she want? I annoy myself by being bp beta. At the end I texted her that I like her with more ass and that she should do squats in gym and that I will chill now (like ending…
/r/askTRP18/12/17 04:11 PM
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don't get your feathers ruffled over anything always ready to leave this is interesting...also interesting to see the different approaches thanks!
/r/askTRP18/12/17 10:36 AM
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with a few hobbies and alcohol, maybe it'll be alright
/r/askTRP17/12/17 08:28 PM
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its evening here and the comments get rude, its almost like some of my fellow grumpy germans are off work. the information I got here already helped me in the past, what I can get from here helps in understanding the mechanics, even though it annoys me, thus this post. honstly dude, whats your fucking problem "you cant aks here". I did asked here, had a few discussions and it was very helpful so far and I guess is also for future readers. thanks sherlock for sharing your insights on this topic, …
/r/askTRP17/12/17 08:27 PM
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fu :D
/r/askTRP17/12/17 08:07 PM
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needing mental strength doesnt sound relaxed
/r/askTRP17/12/17 07:51 PM
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Thanks guys! That really lifted my spirits after another disapointment and got me on the right track again. I will from now on read everyday, even if it's just my own notes to remind myself what Im doing here and not loose track again.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 06:11 PM
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thanks bud!!!!
/r/askTRP17/12/17 06:09 PM
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does it? I lift for years and still have issues motivationg me, dont underestimate my stubbornness lol On the other hand, when I started with the very first steps, approaching women on the street and shit, it really became easy and even without practicing frequently I can still do it. You mean the sidebar at TheRedPill I guess?
/r/askTRP17/12/17 05:56 PM
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thats a good way to look at it
/r/askTRP17/12/17 05:53 PM
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I checked what BT means in my language and I had one of this therapy but we only tackled SA at the end and thats were we left off. I could understand her approach but she really could have pushed a little more in this direction. Well doesnt matter now, it is what it is. Im pumped again to pursue this issue further, I have to. How is the women selection in your opinion and where do you live (bigger city)? I live in a city with 300k inhabitants and from what I see it is to small for having a selec…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 05:06 PM
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what do you mean by easier not to be fat than being the clown?
/r/askTRP17/12/17 04:57 PM
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thats gold. thanks bud!
/r/askTRP17/12/17 03:58 PM
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Im 31. How long do you think will it take? (I had therapy for adicction and stuff and I guess I'll need 2 years). What do you think I can still do when Im in my mid 30s?
/r/askTRP17/12/17 03:55 PM
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I stated somewhere that I dont play the games of our society, I reject almost everything of it, pay the price and Im fine with it. But not for relationships. That is (starting ot get "was") the last thing I belive in and thus, yes its important to me. I tend to say, what else in live to we have beside our relationships, but I start to see that its all game like everything else is too. Its also kind of freeing...
/r/askTRP17/12/17 03:40 PM
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yeah, IMHO its disgusting when you have a civilized person in front of you, you cant expect basic respect and decency from and that seems to be true for women in realtionships, or any sexual situations. But its alright, when this is the ugly truth, I will work with that. I mean it helps with not rely on something like that with your happiness. Good point for the hypergamous thing, but I think its a bit exaggerated.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 03:33 PM
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uuuh strong stuff :D its really desireable to be at the point where you are turned on by shit tests I guess. Damn this is good, it makes so much fucking sense... Just listen to this, please: Yesterday I was with said girl and before the date she was implying that I could stay the night. Due to a possible shit test that I possibly failed I said that we should just take it slow and that won't stay the night. Yesterday when we had sex the second time, we took it to the bedroom. I actually didn't en…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 03:21 PM
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Im german, so I actually could just do (almost) nothing and get paid for a flat and get a couple of bucks for food n stuff. But I get your point and its a good one. For the money game I adjusted my efforts, thought about my needs and came to compromisses Im really fine with. I need to do the same here. Its just way harder for the love game...but I have a few ideas already.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 03:02 PM
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I lift. Its great that he made this article, I could imaginge, that many feel this anger at the beginning, but I learned, that it is always better to see things for what they are and not to go eith the lie...so I get used to the fact that women are disgusting , cant help it and I have to be the rational. yeah it really angers me. when I think of my mother, all she fucking did until she was beyong 50 yo, was just doing the fuck she wanted adn allwoed herself to be dumb and not think twice and in …
/r/askTRP17/12/17 02:57 PM
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Im currently in this shitty situation again and I figured the only way to keep my cool is by just being at the point to have options. As long as I dont, of course I will freak out when the smallest fucking thing goes wrong. With that Im at the point again where I have to face my SA. Ive put this off long enough and its time I need to get rid of this shit once and for all. Long time I just told myself that Im in the normal spectrum, even so there were clear evidence for the disorder. About a year…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 02:38 PM
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The book sounds really interesting, I will check it out. You say you dont strategize to get the seed to grow, but you actually need to know what you are doing. You know, the whole interpersonal thing is kind of the last thing I believe in and its hard to see it die to yet another thing I have to engineer to make it work. To see women for what they are...I read the article in the post below and as I said, I guess its a good idea to let go of the apperantly unrealistic hope to find a women and sim…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 02:30 PM
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"For Men, there is no true rest from performance. To believe so is to believe in women’s mythical capacity for a higher form of empathy which would perdispose them to overriding their innate hypergamous filtering based on performance." well, fuck. women actually are disgusting creatures. But this insight helps with just handling it with more distance and let go of the apperantly unrealistic hope to find a women and simply be with her. Also the rest of the section "It Doesn’t Get Easier, You Get …
/r/askTRP17/12/17 02:22 PM
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