What boundaries do you have?

le_wolfe · 2020-05-03T17:50:53+00:00

No negativity. I cut off my middle school buddy for doing this couple years ago.

DaftOdyssey · 2020-05-03T16:41:37+00:00

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z2a1-9 · 2020-05-03T18:43:33+00:00

Try to get to a point where you don't have pre-thought boundaries as much as you just make a habit of giving her shit / withdrawing attention when she does or wants to do things you don't approve. An example might look like...

My LTR: So it's Katie's birthday, we were going to go out to the bar to celebrate.

Me: Oh cool. (check phone)

My LTR (backtracking): Oh well actually they were going to go. I told them I wanted to but I can't.

*LTR then texts girls to say she won't be coming*

*Note: your mileage may vary. A girl who doesn't respect you won't act like that at the sign of your disapproval. If anything she may take it as a chance to do what she wants without you trying to stop her.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-05-03T17:46:42+00:00

Any sign of disrespect is called out and addressed on the spot.

They either apologize and don't do it again.. or I yeet them out of my life..and TO brag, my life is pretty damn cool.

Ducky19941994 · 2020-05-03T16:40:20+00:00

In regards to what? Dating, work, friends, family etc..?

when_its_too_late · 2020-05-03T21:06:16+00:00

Blatant and deliberate disrespect to people in general, not just me
Saying I don't understand what "they've been through". Because honest why do those kind of people expect?

DeepNutted · 2020-05-04T10:51:13+00:00

Anybody who has disrespected me in the past is not welcome in my present or future.

RepresentativeMood2 · 2020-05-05T04:07:01+00:00

No drama. I had an ex who constantly started fights and said things to provoke an argument, Id rather die alone than to put up with that again.

Title	What boundaries do you have?
Author	rad_dynamic
Upvotes	14
Comments	35
Date	May 3, 2020 3:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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